fbpx

Day 85 – Why I’m Reading the Whole Talmud… Again

[additional-authors]
November 8, 2012

I have been struggling to write a post since I came down from the Mt. Sinai-like high of the ” target=”_blank”>here for my Jewish Journal cover story about that experience).

I have kept up with the page-a-day schedule of the new ” target=”_blank”>dayenu!

Number two, it is hard to keep this going for anyone, but especially someone who does not attend synagogue every morning, and who is not a full-time Torah scholar. I’m a director, and I’ve just made an independent film in a unique and unprecedented manner (see ” target=”_blank”>Rava knew it. The rationale for choosing the Sabbath light over the Chanukah light ought to arise from the well-established Talmudic principle that frequent ” target=”_blank”>Maariv prayer of Friday night, but clearly the superior way to make Kiddush is with wine. So when the chips are really down, and the impoverished man is most anxious to beseech G-d, it would seem that Kiddush should prevail. Why does Rava tell him to choose the Sabbath light instead? Because peace in the home is paramount.

My teacher Rabbi Blau adds, if for the sake of peace in the home we sacrifice such a beloved mitzvah as kindling the Chanukah light, and what’s more, we sacrifice even the more revered and frequent mitzvah of making Kiddush over wine, then how much more must we sacrifice the ego – an opportunity which arises every day – for the sake of the peace in the house!

That is Talmud in practice. Talmud that brings G-d's love into my home. Talmud that blesses my family. Talmud I need.

And then we prayed “>facebook.com/accidentaltalmudist. More pieces like this at

Did you enjoy this article?
You'll love our roundtable.

Editor's Picks

Latest Articles

A Different Pilgrimage

From Auschwitz to a Rebbe’s yahrzeit. From a child’s hometown to his grandfather’s grave. From mourning to memory to hope. The journey I did not plan turned out to be the one I needed most.

In The Big Inning

Sports bring us together in a remarkable way, while creating lifelong memories.

Alone Again Naturally

To be a stand-up comedian, besides being funny, you must hate spending too much time with people.

Tough Choices for Republicans

The decision for Republicans is between pro-Trump and pre-Trump factions, representing dramatically different constituencies and focused on equally dramatically different policy goals.

The Final Curtain: Confessions of an Old Man

The stories of the Jewish suffering in Arab lands during World War II and beyond needs to be kept alive. If I can change one young person’s mind, I feel I’ll have accomplished my mission.

Why Laughter Gets No Respect

At a time when our world is awash with so much danger and anxiety, is it appropriate to just sit there and laugh your head off?

The Banality of Evil

The question we should be asking right now is not: will this happen again? It absolutely could happen again. But what ideological systems are creating today’s moral contagion?

Party Disinvited

The good news is that the only people paying attention to antisemitism are the antisemites themselves. Most Jews, and most everyone else, haven’t noticed a thing.

More news and opinions than at a Shabbat dinner, right in your inbox.