In the early 1970s, the pale blue aerogrammes would arrive every month. The thin, almost translucent paper was folded origami style, into an envelope, with the front addressed to my mother in English. But after my mother would carefully open the aerogramme, the contents revealed a missive written in a tight Hebrew script.
I remember my mother’s happiness, reading these letters from Israel, a world away from our home in Kirrawee, a remote town in the southern suburbs of Sydney.
My mother was corresponding with my aunt Shoshana, who was married to my father’s brother Shlomo.
When my parents married, my mother and Shoshana became best friends. Their lives in Israel seemed parallel. My father and Shlomo had built a duplex villa in Ramat Gan, each family living side by side. Their son Rafi was eleven months older than my brother Rafi. They were both named in memory of my paternal grandfather, who passed away too young. Their daughter Ronit was five months older than me.
My mother loved to tell me about the time that she and Shoshana were pushing Ronit and me in our strollers in Beer Sheva. An American couple came up to my mother and asked if they could buy me. Thankfully, my mother declined the transaction. Shoshana playfully offered my cousin Ronit. No, they wanted the other baby.
When my maternal grandparents left Israel with all seven of my mother’s siblings, my parents followed, and their paths diverged.
When we returned to Israel in September 1973, we stayed with Shlomo and Shoshana, who now had another son, three-year-old Ayal. Every morning, Shoshana would have four tall glasses of hot chocolate and cheese toast waiting on the kitchen counter for us older children.
On the second Friday of our visit, I had a tantrum. I was very upset that we weren’t celebrating Friday night. “How can it be that we have Shabbat in Australia and not in Israel?” I asked. My mother and Shoshana laughed. Shoshana responded “Ah’t tzo’deket! — You are right!” From then on, every Friday night, my uncle Shlomo made Kiddush and we enjoyed dinner together.
When the Yom Kippur war broke out, it was Shoshana who reassured me that Israel would win. She stocked the mik’lat (underground bomb shelter) with Marie biscuits, Bissli and other snacks.
Four years later, we went back to Israel for my brother Rafi’s bar mitzvah. Shoshana framed our visit by referencing Anwar Sadat’s historic visit to Israel. “Last time you were here for the war. This time you are here for Shalom, peace!”
In 1980, my brother Rafi and I travelled to Israel for our summer holiday. Of course, in the Northern Hemisphere, it was winter, and my cousins were in school. I ended up spending a lot of time with Shoshana. She was probably one of the loveliest, kindest people you could meet. She was tall and slender, with long straight black hair, large almond eyes, a small, upturned nose and a dark skin tone. Her voice was gravelly from years of smoking. To me, it seemed that she had a perennial smile.
When i asked her why she had a torn earlobe, she told that as a young girl, she and her mother were walking in Baghdad. An Arab ran up to her and violently snatched the gold earring from her ear, leaving her bleeding on the street.
Some days, I would visit Shoshana at her work at the Shekem on Bialik Street, the main artery of Ramat Gan. The Shekem is a company that supplies goods for IDF soldiers in the canteens on military bases. But in those days, the Shekem company also ran family stores, where you could find reasonably priced clothing, shoes and everything else. Every city in Israel had a Shekem.
Wedding day of Sharons parents; left to right, Shlomo, Shoshana, Sue and David.
My grandmother Savta Rosa, who was widowed a decade after making Aliyah to Israel, worked hard to make sure that all her nine children married Iraqi Jews (my youngest uncle Aryeh married a Syrian girl). My mother and Shoshana laughed about the fact that she had set up both their marriages. But the matchmaking seemed successful. Both my father and my uncle Shlomo were completely besotted with their wives.
Both my father and my uncle Shlomo were completely besotted with their wives.
I spent a lot of time in the kitchen with Shoshana. Often, we would fry schnitzel and potatoes, or bake chicken, boil rice and chop Israeli salad. But one memory stands out — when she made a special meat and eggplant casserole. This is Shlomo’s favorite dish, she told me, as she went about salting and roasting the eggplant, mixing the spices with the ground beef and preparing the tomato sauce. As a young girl, I was so impressed by this loving gesture.
Some years later, Shoshana and Shlomo and their two younger children Ayal and Ifat, joined us for a three-month visit in Los Angeles, the only time she ever left Israel.
Years went by, all her children married, and she became a grandmother. But then in 2003, she was diagnosed with Stage IV lung cancer. My parents traveled to Israel to say their goodbyes.
Just before our first daughter was born, Shoshana passed away at the age of 62. We named our daughter Gabriella Rose, in honor of Alan‘s grandmother and my grandmother Rosa. But a little part of my heart felt that it was also in honor of Shoshana, which means rose in Hebrew.
—Sharon
Ingriye–Roasted Eggplant & Ground Beef Casserole
TOMATO SAUCE:
4 Tbsp extra virgin olive oil
2 onions, thinly sliced
2 garlic cloves, grated or finely chopped
1 14-oz can of chopped tomatoes
1 tsp salt
1/2 tsp pepper
1/2 cup water
Juice of large lemon
Warm olive oil in a skillet over medium heat. Add the onion and sauté until tender.
Add the garlic, chopped tomatoes, salt and pepper.
Lower heat and allow to simmer for 10 minutes.
Add the water and lemon juice and stir well. Simmer for 2 more minutes. Set aside.
EGGPLANT AND BEEF:
3 medium eggplants, sliced into 1/4 inch rounds
3 tsp kosher salt, for sprinkling over eggplant
1/2 cup extra virgin olive oil, divided
1 onion, finely diced
1 pound ground beef
1 tsp sweet paprika
1 tsp turmeric
1 tsp kosher salt
1/2 tsp ground black pepper
4 Tbsp potato starch
1/4 cup chopped Italian parsley, plus more for garnish
1 Tbsp extra virgin olive oil
4 Roma or Campari tomatoes, quartered
1/2 cup pitted prunes
Preheat oven to 450°F.
Place eggplant in a colander and sprinkle slices evenly with salt. Allow to drain for 30 minutes. Pat dry with a paper towel.
Brush both sides of the eggplant with olive oil.
Line a baking sheet with parchment paper, then arrange eggplant on the tray. Place in oven and roast until golden brown on both sides. Then set aside.
In a medium skillet, warm remaining olive oil over medium heat, then add onion.
Sauté until soft and translucent. Set aside to cool.
Place ground beef in a medium bowl, then add the onions.
Add the paprika, turmeric, salt, pepper, potato starch, parsley and oil and mix well to combine.
Arrange one layer of eggplant on the bottom of a large sauté dish. Form the ground beef mixture into flat balls to fit over the eggplant. Cover each meatball with another eggplant slice. Arrange tomato pieces in between the eggplant “sandwiches,” then add the prunes.
Pour the sauce over the eggplant and beef. Cover with foil and bake for 45 minutes, then uncover and bake for an additional 15 minutes.
Sharon Gomperts and Rachel Emquies Sheff have been friends since high school. The Sephardic Spice Girls project has grown from their collaboration on events for the Sephardic Educational Center in Jerusalem. Follow them on Instagram @sephardicspicegirls and on Facebook at Sephardic Spice SEC Food. Website sephardicspicegirls.com/full-recipes.
July is National Ice Cream Month, so what better time to celebrate with some cool treats.
Faith Kramer, author of “52 Shabbats: Friday Night Dinners Inspired by a Global Jewish Kitchen” created “egg cream” ice cream pops, inspired by her childhood visits to her grandparents’ home in Brooklyn.
“One constant in my grandparents’ refrigerator was the hefty bottle of seltzer with its distinctive metal siphon on top,” Kramer told The Journal. “Grandma and Poppa got regular deliveries of what Poppa called ‘Jewish champagne’ and always had plenty of chocolate syrup on hand to make egg creams, with their creamy white milk foam atop of fizzy chocolate milk.”
Since egg creams bought at the local candy store or soda fountain sometimes came with a pretzel rod on the side, Kramer’s chocolate egg creams use pretzel rods as sticks.
”Egg Cream” Ice Pops
Yields 4 pops
2 Tbsp sweetened condensed milk 2 Tbsp plus 1/2 cup whole milk
1/4 tsp vanilla extract
3 Tbsp simple syrup (see note)
3 Tbsp chocolate syrup for milk
4 pretzel rods
Stir the condensed and 2 tablespoons of whole milk until well combined. Stir in vanilla. Dividing evenly, pour or spoon into 4 ice pop molds. Place molds level and upright in the freezer.
Mix simple syrup into chocolate syrup. Stir in ½ cup milk. Refrigerate.
Cut each of the pretzel rods into a 5-inch “stick” for the ice pops. (Snack on the leftover pretzel pieces.)
After freezing the molds for 90 minutes, push the cut side of a pretzel rod “stick” about halfway into the frozen milk. If the stick is stable and not wobbly or leaning to the side, insert the remaining sticks into the other molds. (If it’s not ready, return them to the freezer and try again in a half hour.) Freeze another 30 to 60 minutes until the rods are frozen in place.
Thoroughly stir the chilled chocolate milk. Dividing evenly, pour into frozen molds, leaving 1/4-inch headspace. Freeze overnight. Chill a metal tray or baking sheet. Remove pops from molds and place flat on the tray. Return to the freezer for 1 hour. Let sit at room temperature for 1 minute. Serve or wrap pops individually in plastic wrap and freeze for up to 5 days.
Note: Simple syrup is available near the liquor aisle, but to make it, bring ½ cup sugar and ½ cup water to a boil. Reduce heat to simmer uncovered until sugar has dissolved, stirring occasionally. Let cool and store airtight in the refrigerator for a month. Use it to sweeten cold drinks or cocktails. You can store leftover condensed milk in the refrigerator for up to 3 months.
Boozy Bourbon Ice Cream Photo by Pam Stein
Whether you’re sitting on the patio with friends on a hot summer night orrelaxing by a cozy fire during winter, Pam Stein’s bourbon corn flakes chip ice cream is the ideal all-season dessert.
“A hint of bourbon makes it luxurious; corn flakes and chocolate chips make it playful; combine them, and you will fall in love with this decadent adults-only boozy ice cream,” Stein, founder of In Pam’s Kitchen, told the Journal. “Deliciously creamy with a slight crunch, this is the ice cream flavor that you didn’t know you needed.”
“Deliciously creamy with a slight crunch, this is the ice cream flavor that you didn’t know you needed.”– Pam Stein
As a bonus, you don’t have to be a bourbon lover to enjoy it!
Bourbon Corn Flakes Chip Ice Cream
Yields seven 3/4-cup servings
2 1/2 cups heavy whipping cream
1 1/2 cups whole milk
3/4 cup sugar
1/4 tsp kosher salt
3 Tbsp bourbon
1/2 cup corn flakes cereal, divided
4 Tbsp mini chocolate chips, divided
In a medium bowl add the whipping cream, milk, sugar, salt and bourbon. Whisk to combine until the sugar is dissolved. Cover and refrigerate for 3 to 4 hours.
Whisk again and pour into an ice cream maker.
Turn on the ice cream maker and mix according to the manufacturer’s directions until thickened, approximately 40-45 minutes.
Fiveminutes before mixing is finished, add 1/3 cup corn flakes and 2 tablespoons of mini chocolate chips to the work bowl.
Remove the work bowl and transfer ice cream to an airtight container or metal loaf pan. Sprinkle the remaining corn flakes and chips over the ice cream.
For a soft creamy texture, enjoy immediately. For a firmer texture, cover and freeze for 2-3 hours.
Store in the freezer for up to one week.
Note: This ice cream should not be consumed by anyone under the age of 21. Always consume alcoholic beverages responsibly.
Pizzelles Judy Elbaum
Judy Elbaum’s quick and easy ice cream sandwiches combine pizzelle (traditional Italian waffle cookies) and dairy or non-dairy (coconut or almond milk) ice cream with a variety of toppings. The pizzelle even comes in different flavors, such as vanilla, chocolate, anise and caramel.Mix and match your favorites to create endless variations.
“In addition to sprinkles, consider rolling the sandwiches in chocolate chips, toasted coconut or chopped nuts,” Elbaum, founder of the “Leave it to Bubbe” blog, told The Journal.“Any way you fill and roll ‘em, these pizzelle ice cream sandwiches will be a tasty, cool and refreshing treat to celebrate National Ice Cream Month.”
Pizzelle Ice Cream Sandwiches
1 package Pizzelle (I use Reko)
1 – 2 pints of your favorite ice cream, softened at room temperature for about 15 minutes
A variety of sprinkles and other toppings
Place a scoop of softened ice cream on one pizzelle. Top with a second pizzelle. Lightly press the pizzelle so that the ice cream spreads to the edge of the pizzelle.
Roll the edge of the pizzelle ice cream sandwich into the sprinkles.Repeat with remaining pizzelle and ice cream. Place in the freezer until it’s ready to serve.
One verse, five voices. Edited by Nina Litvak and Salvador Litvak, the Accidental Talmudist
The entire congregation of the children of Israel arrived at the desert of Zin in the first month, and the people settled in Kadesh. Miriam died there and was buried there.
– Num. 20:1
Liane Pritikin Writer, Torah Teacher
Pro-Palestinian protesters have really good chants. They’re short, they’re catchy, they rhyme. “Am Yisroel Chai” is great when sung at a concert or Succot event. But not a great chant for a protest. It doesn’t rhyme. There’s no call to action. And it’s in another language. How can we get others on board with our cause — basically for people to stop kidnapping and killing us — when we’re singing in our own unique language? Our parsha says the children of Israel, the people, settled in Kadesh. The root letters of Kadesh — K, D, Sh — play a major role in our practice of Judaism. Kiddush — when we sanctify wine to inaugurate Shabbat and holidays. Kedusha —the part of our daily Shemonei Esrei prayer when we’re standing like angels sanctifying G-d. Kiddushin —the first part of a marriage that unites a man and woman solely to each other. Kadosh — the word for holy. Beis HaMikdash — the holy Temple in Jerusalem. The common denominator of all of these words is holiness through separateness. Great for the unity of the Jewish people. Not great as a marketing strategy at a protest. But those are rules of the physical world, not the spiritual one. Spiritually the children of Israel — the entire congregation — showed up together. And separate from everyone else. Since Oct. 7 this has been the rallying cry of rabbis around the world: be united. And be Jewish. It’s our unity as Bnei Yisrael that makes us holy. And makes us a nation that truly lives.
Rabbi Chaim Tureff Rav Beit Sefer at Pressman Academy and author of “Recovery in the Torah”
The end of this verse regarding Miriam’s death comes at the end of an important period in Jewish history, our long journey in the desert. Interestingly enough, the commentators note that it’s sandwiched between two verses that are directly impacted by Miriam’s death. One about the well in the desert not having water after her death, and the other about the red heifer in the preceding verse. As Rashi notes, the connection between her death and the verse of the red heifer are that they both impact atonement.
The Talmud notes that the well disappearing after her death demonstrates the well’s presence only due to Miriam. Miriam being a righteous person impacts not only herself but everyone. This demonstrates the imprint that someone can have. The famous Talmudic passages equating the death and saving of a life to saving or ending an entire world demonstrates the real impact each person can have. How are we influenced by those around us? Do we take the actions of those righteous individuals and imbue those principles into our lives or move on once they’re not present? As “Star Wars” demonstrated, we know that one who is dead can have a greater impact as their teachings live on through their students. Are we willing to take the lessons of Miriam; kindness, a ride-or-die attitude for her people, and a mindset of complete selflessness? Or are we part of the endless cycle of people that don’t learn and grow from our great ancestors?
Rabbi Shmuel Reichman International Speaker, Bestselling Author, Business Coach
There is an inspiring reason why the Torah describes the Jewish People coming together in unity right after we are introduced to the concept of chukim. The purpose of intellect is an oft misunderstood concept in the Western world, making chukim even more important to understand: A chok refers to a Torah law that seemingly defies human logic and rational explanation, such as parah adumah, kashrus (Jewish dietary laws), and shaatnez (the prohibition against mixing wool and linen). If there is no logical explanation for these mitzvot, what is their purpose?
It is possible that while chukim do not appear to have any rational explanation, this is true only from the viewpoint of human logic. Logic may lead us toward the truth, but ultimately, truth resides in a realm beyond reason.
A person can talk about Torah, spirituality, and mitzvot all they want — but until Torah life becomes an experiential reality, one that is more than intellectual truth, it will remain incomplete. We cannot understand the depths of spiritual truth without experiencing it. The journey of a Jew is the journey of emunah (faithfulness), of seeking out higher and more genuine expressions of truth – and this is both an individual and collective journey. This is why Jewish unity is so powerfully connected to the concept of chukim. May we be inspired to enjoy every step of this process, to embark on a genuine journey toward truth, and to endlessly expand our experiential and existential understanding of the ultimate truth.
Rabbi Chaim Miller Author, “Practical Tanya,” “Gutnick Chumash”
After Miriam’s death, the Torah becomes a tragedy. The very next verse relates, “The community was without water” (Numbers 20:2), because “the well was in the merit of Miriam … When Miriam died the well disappeared” (Babylonian Talmud, Ta’anis 9a). Shortly afterward, Moses hits the rock and loses the opportunity to enter the promised land. He dies on a mountain in an unknown location, leaving his lifelong project unfulfilled. Why was Miriam’s presence among the Israelites so vital and her absence so catastrophic?
Miriam’s two most enduring achievements, her song at the sea and her well, share a connection. As the Midrash teaches, “The well was due to the merit of Miriam, who recited song at the sea … and regarding the water of the well, ‘Then Israel sang this song’” (Numbers 21:17; Numbers Rabbah 1:2).
What’s the connection between the well and song?
Unlike Moses, who said, “’I will sing to G-d” (Exodus 15:1), in the future tense, Miriam’s call was an urgent, “Sing to G-d!” (ibid. 21). As a woman, Miriam’s experience of spirituality was embodied. When the sea split, she did not retreat into her head or dream of a future time. She felt the revelation in her body and burst into song, encouraging the other women to join her. Her connection was somatic, engaging her feminine gifts of intuition, receptivity, and nurturing. Having a leader with these gifts was life-sustaining for the Jewish people. It was only when she was gone that they understood why.
Kira Sirote Author of “Haftorah Unrolled,” Ra’anana, Israel
Forty years pass, the Jewish People begin to move closer to the Promised Land, and then Miriam dies. She dies there, in Kadesh, and she’s buried there, in Kadesh. Not in Beit Lechem on the way to Efrat, not in Chevron or Shechem or Tzefat or Teverya. There’s no Kever Miriam for us to pray at.
But there’s this one verse — and the story that comes after it, of the lack of water, the protests against Moshe and Aaron, and their ultimate failure to handle yet another protest without breaking down.
If Miriam had still been alive, would she have calmed the people? Would she have advised Moshe and Aaron how to listen with more empathy, how to speak to this new generation?
What did Miriam do all those years, about which the Torah is silent? Did she help raise the first generation of children to keep the Torah? Did she tell them about the Splitting of the Sea, and teach them her song? Did she teach them about Lashon Hara and Moshe’s prayer for her health? Did she tell them about the dark days of slavery and show them the jewelry she took from the Egyptians? Did they know that the water they always found when they traveled was hers?
As a moment in time, the Oct. 7 massacre was, paradoxically, an event both anomalous and familiar, at once exceptional and routine. It was horrifying and shocking to the extreme, yet, given the historical memories that we, as Jews, carry with us, it was typical — even expected, almost preordained. Strictly speaking, the calamity we suffered on Simchat Torah 5784 was a very Jewish calamity.
Strictly speaking, the calamity we suffered on Simchat Torah 5784 was a very Jewish calamity.
The murder, burnings, rape and torture — as well as the fact that there was no help, that hours passed before the army finally showed up — shaped the terrible disaster that we suffered into an event that differed from anything we had experienced, making the unfamiliar, and that which we had assumed would never become familiar, a part of our lives. We experienced things we had only heard about and learned about, a reality we had faced momentarily during memorial days. The massacre brought Jewish history back into our lives, while also making us a part of Jewish history. It infused the hardships of the Jewish people into us, welding us with hellfire in the historical continuum of Jewish suffering.
The massacre brought Jewish history back into our lives, while also making us a part of Jewish history. It infused the hardships of the Jewish people into us, welding us with hellfire in the historical continuum of Jewish suffering.
The massacre brought us back to Jewish history.
Two thousand years of suffering
Returning to history was Zionism’s ancient desire, but for the Zionist movement, this meant returning to the history of mankind while departing from the history of the Jews. This aspiration stemmed from a negative perception of the Diaspora, which included a rejection of the passive stance and victimhood that traditional Judaism had taken upon itself, contented with eternal wanderings. The Zionists wished to put an end to these wanderings, and thus also to the victimhood. Agency would replace passivity, sovereignty would replace being subject to the will of others, and self-determination and control of our own fate would replace helplessness. The Jew would once again take part in the history of mankind.
A return to Jewish history moves in the opposite direction.Oct. 7 — during the interminable hours of Saturday and Sunday we listened to the voices of our brothers and sisters pleading for the help that didn’t come, we slowly realized, and were astounded, and astounded again, and again, by the unbelievable scope of the disaster — threw us back into passivity, into victimization, into the miserable existence of the pre-1948 Jew.
We had known about pogroms, some of us being third-generation, or even second-generation relatives of Holocaust survivors. We are all familiar with Jewish history. But that is exactly the point: We had assumed it was history. We thought we were past it, disconnected from it, that we now live in different times, in a new era. We thought we had become part of modern world history, a part of universal, normal, banal reality. That we live in a time when Jews are completely accepted and receive equal rights in the Diaspora, and alternatively enjoy solid protection in their own sovereign state. That what had been will no longer be. We thought, Never Again.
We had known about pogroms, some of us being third-generation, or even second-generation, relatives of Holocaust survivors. We are all familiar with Jewish history. But that is exactly the point: We had assumed it was history.
The massacre executed in the kibbutzim and towns surrounding the Gaza Strip, and the cruel sadism and unspeakable barbarity with which it was carried out, connected us instantly and viscerally as yet another link in the long Jewish chain that goes back to the First Temple period — and even beyond. Human history took a sharp turn, flinging us back into Jewish history — from independence to exile, from security to pogroms, from revival back to the Holocaust — while every dream that we had of the end of our suffering, the end of history, of better and different times — dissipated in one cruel awakening.
Desecration of the Sanctuary bauhaus1000/Getty Images
To the crisis caused by the pogroms on the Gaza border we can add the blunt antisemitic sentiments now flooding the global scene, from the United States to China, like ancient demons released from the depths. Who would have believed that in 2023 so many people would be attracted to the hatred of Jews? Only a few months ago, most of us were sure that the Jewish people had finally found its place in the world, both in its independent State and in its complete integration within liberal societies in Europe and the United States. If we thought that we were living in a new era, and that after 2,000 years of exile we had finally escaped the eternal curse of the wandering Jew — that very stable and comforting proverbial rug had been suddenly pulled from under our collective feet. We have returned to Jewish history, or to be more precise, we have discovered that we had never really left it. We have never been disconnected from the same fate, from the same decree, from the same distress, from the same two-thousand-year-old suffering.
In 1934, the Jewish Romanian playwright and author Mihail Sebastian published his novel “For Two Thousand Years.” Sebastian was one of the outstanding names in Romanian culture at the time. He viewed himself nationally as a Romanian, while personally and publicly fighting against the escalating antisemitism that surrounded him.
The hero of his novel, with overt autobiographical characteristics, tries to find his bearing in life. He is attracted to the Zionist movement on the one hand, and to the hope of integrating into Romanian society on the other. He meets an old Jewish merchant, a Mr. Sulitzer, who tries to get him to sober up and abandon both these hopes. He invites him to take pleasure in the “mysticism of the synagogue” and the “folklore of the Jewish neighborhood in the ghetto.” When the hero rejects these as irrelevant anachronisms, the old man angrily replies:
“Have you forgotten that, luckily, there are still antisemites? And, thank God, that there are still pogroms from time to time? However much you’re assimilated in a hundred years, you’ll be set back ten times as much by a single day’s pogrom. And then the poor ghetto will be ready to take you back in.”
1881: Jews indiscriminately persecuted and kept in the arsenal at Kiev during the first pogrom. (Photo by HultonArchive/Illustrated London News/Getty Images)
Indeed, a single day’s pogrom set us back. Back to the ghetto. Returning to Jewish history means that we all — against our will! — are now more connected to our Jewish identity than we were before October 2023. We are now connected not only horizontally to all those surrounding us, in the cruel bonding of the destiny forced upon us, but also vertically, to the Jewish story of the past and of the future.
In practice, we are of course not in the ghetto, or even in the Diaspora. The State of Israel exists, and it is strong. But the singular dimension of victimhood that reappeared in our lives will not disappear over the coming decades. We are different Jews now, we are Jews of old. “Two thousand years through flames, through disasters, through wandering come to us through the history of the ghetto,” Sulitzer concludes in Sebastian’s book. “It’s a history lived under lamplight. ‘We want sunshine,’ [the Zionists] shout. Good luck to them — and let them become footballers. They’ll get plenty of sunshine then. But this lamp by which I’ve read so many hundreds of years, this lamp is Judaism – not their sunlight.
“‘You’re old, Mr. Sulitzer. That’s why you talk like that.’
“‘I’m not old! I’m a Jew – that’s what I am.’”
Our new Jewish identity collapses into the historical, ancient (and perhaps — eternal) Jewish identity. Modern Jewish identity crumbles, and its crumbs are molded by the horrors of Oct. 7, into a pre-modern Jewish identity. We are now more Jewish, in the deep-rooted sense, but also in the victimized sense. Sunlight is now a bit less inviting, a bit less familiar. We once again read by the lamp.
Where will Jewish history take us?
What could this shift in our self-perception lead to? I believe that several trajectories are possible.
Before the war, especially during Netanyahu’s latest government, the fault line between the religious and the secular in Israel had flared up into unending struggles, reaching a climax in the interrupted Yom Kippur prayer services in Tel Aviv. An agenda that is focused on security and national matters, which will certainly take prominence on the political and social stage in Israel, will also relegate the religious issues to the back burner; though the fault lines between the religious and the secular will become dulled in other ways as well.
Israelis feel more Jewish, and this feeling may be translated into an increased tolerance of the Jewish religion in general, and of Orthodoxy in particular, since it is perceived as preserving tradition. The differences of opinion are not forgotten, and the next government, which will decrease the representation of the religious parties (the current government has the highest number of religious Jews ever – more than half), will probably also have to tackle the age-old problem of ultra-Orthodox conscription to the IDF, and will probably cut budgets allocated to them. But a wider change in the so-called religious and national “status quo” will have to wait.
In addition, Israel may well experience a wave of religious revival, where more people will turn to Orthodoxy and become observant. This kind of wave took place in the wake of the Yom Kippur War, and now it will presumably be even greater. Back then, the fracture in the Zionist ethos caused many to search for meaning and identity in other places. Now that same ethos has been broken again, even more sharply, for in contrast to the Yom Kippur war, the victims of Oct. 7 were not soldiers in the outposts, but families in their homes (hence, again the return to Jewish history). This sort of return to religion wave will not be significant as far as demographics go, but it will become a social and cultural phenomenon with far-reaching repercussions, which will push Israeli society even closer to accommodating the interests of the religious and to an ethnocentric Jewish political outlook.
From the social activism point of view, we can expect a myriad of initiatives and enterprises that try to elevate public morals and “build back better” by setting up ambitious ideals and social goals. We can, for example, expect the Ahim Laneshek (Brothers in Arms) organization, which was established as a civil opposition group against Netanyahu’s last government and became an auxiliary support group to the IDF, helping soldiers and civilians evacuated during the war, to initiate new enterprises and also try to breathe new life into Zionism. Alongside these initiatives, we can assume that the religious Zionists will once again take it upon themselves to “lift the nation’s spirit,” probably by increasing its presence in secular cities with its enterprise of small Orthodox communities. We can also expect the construction of new religious settlements around the Gaza Strip (assuming that building them in Gaza would not be possible). We can also expect an increase in activity surrounding the Temple Mount, which has become, over the past 20 years, an alternative Messianic outlet to the settlement enterprise in the West Bank. The current yearning for an immediate magical solution to our woes will push many others toward the Mount.
A ruined synagogue, Poland, circa 1941. (Photo by Three Lions/Hulton Archive/Getty)
Concurrent with these trends, the return to Jewish history creates the opportunity to harness the increased emotional ties to Jewish identity and create a national, republican and liberal Jewish identity, that may serve as an alternative to religious Judaism for secular Jews. There is nothing novel here – this kind of shift formed the foundation of the Zionist movement. A national Jewish identity that emphasizes Jewish continuity explicitly through nationality and Israeli statehood, and not through religious worship or religious law, ceased to be a viable alternative for many secular Israelis since the 1970s (perhaps excluding individuals such as A.B. Yehoshua, whose anomaly in the Israeli landscape testifies to the norm). If organizations such as Ahim Laneshek — the most impressive and effective movement that secular Jewish society has produced in decades — emphasize that their activities stem not only from loyalty to the State but also from their loyalty to their Judaism, this may attain significance beyond developments taking place in the upcoming years, presenting a new-old way to be a Jewish Zionist in Israel.
We can also hope that these trends will be augmented by additional social enterprises that will present a principled vision of humanistic Judaism and a liberal public space, perhaps as part of constructing a “model society,” an aspiration that was always part of the Zionist movement. A national and republican Israeli outlook can be reinforced by an emphasis on progressive, liberal Judaism that underscores the perception of humanity being created in the image of God, and places, at its core, commandments such as loving the stranger. In these two senses, the renewed emphasis on Jewish identity will not be limited to individuals becoming more religious or ethnocentric. We must act to encourage such directions.
Destroyed houses in Be’eri, Israel. (Photo by Maja Hitij/Getty Images)
Returning the membership card
But the return to Jewish history will also lead to developments in the other direction: Disengagement. The understanding that we are an integral part of the Jewish story will make many wish to leave it permanently. Despair at the price exacted by Jewish identity will make some decide to quit, to return their membership card. This is not a new phenomenon. Many Jews left the Jewish story throughout the generations, usually by converting to Christianity or Islam, and, since the 19th century, by assimilating into Western society. Indeed the Jewish people would have been much more numerous were this not the case.
For Israelis today, this assimilation will entail immigrating to Europe, Australia, Canada, or the United States. This will not be an immigration that leads to assimilation due to lack of willpower or concern. Rather, it will be an immigration for the express purpose – certainly given worldwide antisemitism – that the next generation, or at most the generation after, would no longer suffer from being connected in any way to Judaism. That they will no longer be part of the Jewish story.
Another aspect of that same movement toward detachment, this time while insisting on preserving a Jewish identity, would be to adopt a fierce anti-Zionist stance while abroad, including the complete negation of the State of Israel’s right to exist. Groups of young, politically active Jews would distance themselves, given their views, from the majority of Jews abroad, becoming closer to similar circles of non-Jewish young political activists. Their stances will, in practice, remove them from the story of the Jewish people, or at least from the story that most of it tells. Their Jewish identity will be based upon sanctifying a Diasporic, anti-Zionist Jewish existence, meaning, a perception of living in the Diaspora as an ideal, while adopting radical progressive ideologies. It will be expressed in declarations that they, as Jews, oppose any national perception of Judaism, and the State of Israel in particular. That Zionists and their supporters offend Judaism and distort it, while they are the ones who faithfully and correctly portray Judaism.
The return to Judaism and the Palestinian issue
These developments may well take place before Israel recovers from the war, when hostages are still held, when some of the kibbutzim around Gaza have not yet returned to their status as cherished sanctuaries, when Hezbollah threatens from the north. Beyond that, these developments will occur during the most forceful international demand we have ever known to reach some sort of arrangement with the Palestinians, one with an explicit horizon of ending Israeli occupation. This demand will come because the West understands that “managing the conflict” is no longer a viable option, and that the Palestinian problem threatens to destabilize the entire world. Furthermore, this demand will come because it is emotionally, ethically, and politically challenging for the West to watch Israel wage lethal war against Hamas, with devastating consequences for the Palestinians in Gaza. And this demand will come just when Israeli citizens find themselves at the height of their opposition to it. I will not expand here upon the social and political consequences of bringing the Palestinian issue back into the limelight; I will only speculate as to its implications for our Jewish identity.
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Zionism posited that Judaism’s entrance into world history would generate from its national independence. For this to happen, Jews needed to break away from Jewish history, sometimes explicitly and callously dismissing it, famously negating Diasporic existence by rejecting the traditional Jewish lifestyle, traditions, and faith. It is only this rejection that enabled the early Zionists to forge a new path, one that allowed them to be everything their ancestors could not. The pioneers, Zionist politicos (today we would call them “activists”), members of kibbutzim, combatants in the underground movements and defense forces, leaders of the fledgling Yishuv, and Hebrew diplomats — all proffered a rich ethos that included a new and different Jewish identity, full of self-confidence and faith in the powers of reason, initiative, creativity, and intellect. The State of Israel was established with the explicit rejection of the hope for divine redemption, displaying, from its start, pragmatism, rationality, and a connection to the earth – in more than one sense.
The reality of the past few years, even before the current war, pointed to a slow departure from this ethos. Likud’s populism, alongside the type of fundamental Judaism that characterizes the Religious Zionist and Otzma Yehudit political parties, diverges from the Zionism of previous generations. It is not only alienated from Israeli sovereignty, but also disdains initiative, professionalism, and public service, showing contempt for experts, reason, and pragmatism, replacing these with a shallow and zealous belief system that prefers to rely on Heaven and miracles (as finance minister Smotrich said: “If we implement the Torah, we will merit financial prosperity and great blessing”).
This attitude brought Israel to an immense social crisis, to failing financial and security systems, the disintegration of public services and, finally, to the errors that enabled the Simchat Torah massacre. Returning to the Diaspora mentality led to a pogrom. In the wake of this trauma, we are now in danger of returning to Jewish history while continuing to bolster the trend that started over the past few years, namely, the departure from world history, to the point of erasing the mindset and achievements of the Zionist movement. We are in danger of having a one-day pogrom throw us back into the ghetto not only psychologically, but politically and geo-politically.
We are in danger of having a one-day pogrom throw us back into the ghetto not only psychologically, but politically and geo-politically.
This type of development will prompt an existential position of insecurity, seclusion, suspicion toward the world, ethnocentricity, and the fragile defiant pride of the “a people that dwells alone” sort. It will entail promises of divine intervention and miraculous salvation, justifying strategy based on biblical myths, and the increasing involvement of religious decrees in political considerations. Israel will curl, mentally and politically, into a fetal position, rejecting the sunlight and reverting back to reading by lamplight. In practice, this will be enacted through the rejection of any step toward an agreement with the Palestinians, in stockpiling arms, reducing the liberal space in the State, and creating a rift between Israel and its allies, including the Jews of the Diaspora.
Babylon and Jerusalem or Israel and Judaea
The current sense of brotherhood between Israeli Jews and European and North American Jews stems from our return to Jewish history. The covenant of destiny we share is underscored in terror and blood, out of which solidarity, mutual assistance, and incredible cooperation emerge. Yet, though we returned together to Jewish history, the lesson each side will learn from it will be different – just as it was different a hundred years ago.
The rift between the Zionist movement and Jews in the Diaspora touches upon a deep dispute regarding Jewish identity: Will the Jewish question be answered by integration into the liberal order, or by taking our destiny into our own hands and establishing a national homeland? A homeland in which the Jewish people will not ask for rights but uphold them, will not enjoy the protection of others but will protect themselves – and others such as Arab Israelis.
In other words, while the covenant of fate is stronger than anything we have known over the past few decades, the covenant of destiny is different, leading to a divergent Jewish identity. While Israeli Jews find the essence of their Judaism in nationality – ethnicity, independence, and power – for European and American Jews, the values of liberalism, such as freedom, equality, and human rights, are those that best express their heritage.
From the early days of the Zionist movement until recently, Israeli liberalism emphasized the liberal and democratic dimension; beyond ethnic and historical ties, that is what enabled Israeli Jewry to maintain a deep relationship with Jews in the Diaspora. If, on the way to the ghetto, Israel surrenders the precepts of liberalism, it will also give up ties with the Jews of Europe and North America who view the movement toward a liberal world as the essence of Judaism. Limiting the return to Jewish history to a reinforcement of the Jewish-Israeli fortress, while rejecting the other nations and modern ethics, will lead to a rift between Israeli Jews and those in the Diaspora. Even the Zionists amongst the Diaspora Jews would not accept continued Jewish control over millions of Palestinian subjects with diminished rights. On the contrary, they would view these circumstances as treasonous to Judaism, as an abomination.
If Israel returns to the ghetto, refusing to express its consent to move toward some sort of arrangement with the Palestinian nation, if it desists from even pretending that one day the occupation will end, Jews in the Diaspora will perceive this as a writ of divorce between Israel and the principles of Judaism. In a case such as this, the disconnect between Israeli Jewry and Jews of the Diaspora will become broader, including not only the radical anti-Zionist extreme but also many from the liberal center. This scenario will mark a real split in the Jewish nation: Not a model of Babylon and Jerusalem, in which two communities compete while mutually enriching each other for the purpose of carrying on the Jewish tradition, but a model of Israel and Judaea, meaning, a model in which two kingdoms maintain hostile relations, each eagerly anticipating the demise of the other.
In addition, this path will lead Israeli Jews toward tragedy. They will be propelled forward, with no means of stopping, to an existence in which their sons and daughters are forced to pay with the currency of decent living for the very ability to live. Life in Israel will become increasingly difficult, and the ongoing conflict with the Palestinians and the Iranian proxies surrounding the state will exact a price not only of blood, but of morality. Maintaining an existence in Israel — a necessary and supremely moral goal — will force Israel to repeatedly take part in campaigns that claim many innocent lives. Israel will be forced to keep committing morally compromised deeds in order to keep existing.
Many people worldwide would be happy to see our tradition dragged through the mud. Many will breathe a sigh of relief at the sight of the eternal victims turned villains, bullies responsible for horrors and suffering. The gap between Israelis and their brethren in the Diaspora will turn into hostility, while the latter will do all in their power to distance themselves and their Judaism from being identified with Israel in any way. This tragic scenario ends with the Jewish nation collapsing into an abyss of hatred and evil, the State of Israel becoming deformed and weak, and Judaism being branded a violent and evil religion.
Judaism has survived many disasters. It will not survive this one.
Do not give up on human history
There is another way.
The above scenario describes a shift from victimization to aggression while bypassing the Zionist chapter of Jewish history. Jews find themselves victims of a pogrom but also boasting one of the strongest armies in the world. They direct their rage, humiliation, and vengeance toward their enemies, while renouncing those same elements that had initially led them to their political and military power: The initiative, creativity, morality, responsibility, and pragmatism of the Zionist movement.
In other words, what we see today, what might (God forbid) unfold into the scenario described above, is the practical realization of a shtetl with weapons, a ghetto with an Air Force. The State of Israel feels like a helpless victim of murderous antisemitism and responds accordingly, but the means at its disposal are unprecedented within Jewish history. These means were purchased by Jews who deviated from that history by holding fast to the world and acting within it, succeeding in creating a different Jewish reality. They always understood the need for levelheadedness, pragmatism, and a vision. Israel’s prosperity, and financial and technological superiority, were achieved precisely by its entry into world history.
The State of Israel feels like a helpless victim of murderous antisemitism and responds accordingly, but the means at its disposal are unprecedented within Jewish history.
Theodore Herzl, the father of modern Zionism, leans over the balcony of the Drei Konige Hotel during the first Zionist congress Aug. 29, 1897 in Basel, Switzerland. (Photo by GPO via Getty Images)
The danger of returning to Jewish history is, therefore, the relinquishing of the advantages brought about by our entry into world history, while dismissing the unique qualities we had to acquire in order to do so. The fathers of Zionism – Herzl, Ben-Gurion, Jabotinsky, and their circles – were smart enough to introduce Judaism to the 20th century and the family of nations. They did so by embracing realism, by a pragmatic and informed geopolitical analysis, by joining the liberal forces within the international community, and by creating a positive vision, a vision that looks to the future, a vision that did not include a relapse into a mythical past. They did this while treating the verse “a people that dwells alone” not as a blessing, but as a warning.
The return to Jewish history must not incorporate a renunciation of the Zionist chapter, which tried to include Jews in the history of mankind. It will be a disaster if Israel undergoes a process of shtetlization and becomes a closed community, armed to the teeth and disconnected from reality. This kind of scenario may well lead to its destruction, just as it did in the days of the kingdoms of Israel and Judaea, in the days of the Hasmoneans, in the days of Bar Kokhba and from the Middle Ages onwards. Without Zionism, there will simply be no state. Without the pragmatism and realism of human history, there will also be no Jewish history.
It will be a disaster if Israel undergoes a process of shtetlization and becomes a closed community, armed to the teeth and disconnected from reality.
The first Zionist Congress in Basel (1897) formulated Zionism as follows: “Zionism aims at establishing a national home for the Jewish people in Palestine, according to international law.” The greatness of the fathers of Zionism lay in their understanding that having the Jewish nation enter world history is dependent upon their joining the liberal nations and accepting international law. The Zionist enterprise has no future without an ideological, political, and ethical integration into the family of nations. We returned to Jewish history, but it will be a tragedy if this will lead us to disengage from the history of mankind.
Tomer Persico is a Research Fellow at the Shalom Hartman Institute.
With the buzz over Benjamin Netanyahu’s upcoming address to Congress building and the America-Israel relationship continuing to play an outsized role on the presidential campaign trail, it’s worth revisiting how the Jewish state was reborn thanks in part to the advocacy of an Israeli statesman to an American president.
As Jehuda Reinharz and Motti Golani recount in their magisterial new biography of Chaim Weitzmann, the State Department under president Harry Truman was inclined against supporting the U.N.’s partition plan. The Zionist leadership was hoping to have Weitzmann, the renowned scientist and internationally respected former head of the World Zionist Organization, champion their cause to the president. But Truman refused to meet with him. Desperate, the Jewish leaders turned to Eddie Jacobson, a Jew from Kansas City. Truman and Jacobson had been haberdashery partners decades prior, having co-run an 18-by-48-foot clothing store together in the Glennon Hotel. Though the business failed, Jacobson remained a trusted friend of Truman over the years and had access to Truman in the White House.
As Reinhartz and Golani tell it, Jacobson “showed up and asked Truman to see Weitzmann. When Truman again refused, Jacobson pointed to the bust of one of Truman’s heroes, President Andrew Jackson. He said that he, too, had a hero, a man he himself had never met, just as Truman never met Jackson. In his opinion, Jacobson said, this man was the greatest Jew of his time … ‘My hero,’ Jacobson told the president, ‘is a gentleman and distinguished statesman. I am speaking’ Truman’s former partner said, ‘of Chaim Weitzmann.’”
Truman agreed to a secret meeting on March 18. Weitzmann, battling years-long health ailments and a high fever, “did not plead nor try to get into Truman’s good graces, nor did he issue threats. He knew that [Secretary of State] Marshall and his State Department team had warned the president that the Yishuv’s left-wing advocated a Jewish state aligned with the Soviet bloc. Weitzmann assured the president that these fears were largely groundless and that the best way to ensure that Israel would align with the West would be to embrace it.” He also, Reinharz and Golani wrote, “made a brilliant pitch about how recognition would win Truman the Jewish vote and swing key states in his favor.” Having argued his case, Weitzmann received a warm handshake from Truman. He then was helped up, escorted out a concealed side door and driven off in a car with curtained windows.
Though some internal disagreements in the U.S. government remained, Truman recognized Israel minutes after its official founding on May 14, 1948. By May 25, Chaim Weitzmann, now president of the State of Israel and no longer having to hide his presence, returned to the White House. He presented Truman with a gift of a Torah scroll in appreciation of America’s support.
Over 76 years later, America and Israel find themselves at another pivotal moment. Though the players are different, the stage remains similar. Those that would prefer to see a Jewish state not exist exerting pressure both within the United States and on the global stage. A tiny swath of land in the Middle East finds itself impacting presidential politics and press coverage more than the exponentially larger and more populous nations. Yet now, as then, three key themes are clear.
The first is the alignment between Zionism and American values. If decades ago, America viewed Israel as a bulwark against Communism, today Israel stands strong as the Middle East’s only democracy. As thenVice President Mike Pence put it in his 2018 address to the Knesset: “We stand with Israel because your cause is our cause, your values are our values, and your fight is our fight. We stand with Israel because we believe in right over wrong, in good over evil, and in liberty over tyranny. We stand with Israel because that’s what Americans have always done, and so has it been since my country’s earliest days.”
Secondly, the role of the American Jewish community is crucial in bridging divides between Israeli leaders and American politicians. Through the establishing and strengthening of personal relationships, even the strongest of political hesitations might be overcome.
The role of the American Jewish community is crucial in bridging divides between Israeli leaders and American politicians. Through the establishing and strengthening of personal relationships, even the strongest of political hesitations might be overcome.
Lastly, while our leaders, both in America and Israel, have well-documented flaws, comfort can still be found in our faith. As Weitzmann’s gift of a Torah to Truman attests, the Jewish story has always been guided from Above. It might be political figures’ negotiations that make policies manifest, but Israel’s miraculous rebirth and subsequent survival can be attributed, ultimately and always, to the workings of Providence.
Rabbi Dr. Stuart Halpern is Senior Adviser to the Provost of Yeshiva University and Deputy Director of Y.U.’s Straus Center for Torah and Western Thought. His books include “The Promise of Liberty: A Passover Haggada,” which examines the Exodus story’s impact on the United States, “Esther in America,” “Gleanings: Reflections on Ruth” and “Proclaim Liberty Throughout the Land: The Hebrew Bible in the United States.”
Every year, Parsha Korach presents a difficulty for progressive Jews. How is it that Korach is the enemy of this story? Why is he doomed to be swallowed whole by the earth when his theology is so egalitarian, so enlightened, and so inclusive?
“All the congregation are holy, every one of them,” he exclaimed at Moses and Aaron. “And the Lord is among them” (Numbers 16:3).
But the problem was never what Korach said. Of course the people are holy. Of course God is in their midst. If there was no truth in these words, they wouldn’t have been recorded in the Torah for us to study. This is the teaching of the Ishbitzer Rabbi.
We shouldn’t be so easily fooled by slogans and pretty words. To understand, we should look closely at how Moses responds to Korach. “Now that [God] has advanced you and all your fellow Levites with you, do you seek the priesthood too?” (Numbers 16:10)
Rather than engaging with Korach’s point about the holiness of the community, he assumes that what Korach really wants is not to demolish the hierarchy but rather to place himself at its top.
There is good reason for Moses to assume this. After all, his complaint makes no sense. Moses has never denied that the community is holy. Indeed, all he wants from them is to live holy lives with God in their midst. To whatever extent that he can bring them closer to God, he does so, as in Parasha Beha’alotcha, when he exclaimed “Would that all the LORD’s people were prophets, that the LORD put His spirit upon them!” (Numbers 11:29).
So Moses saw through Korach’s pretense, but did Korach himself see through it? It remains unclear if Korach was trying to willfully deceive, or if he had truly managed to convince himself of his own self-righteousness.
There is no shortage of self-righteousness in the world right now, and no shortage of pretty words being deployed to justify it. Under the banner of liberation, equality, and peace, Jews have been harassed on campus, assaulted in Paris, bludgeoned to death with a loudspeaker, barred from entering their synagogues, told to go back to Poland, or labeled “pro-genocide” by a sitting congresswoman.
We can ask the same question that we ask of Korach. Do they know? Do they know that their “righteous anger” conceals an ancient hatred? Or have they fully convinced themselves, as they chant “Long Live Oct. 7” and “Globalize the Intifada,” that they are standing for what is good, noble, and true?
Do they know that their “righteous anger” conceals an ancient hatred? Or have they fully convinced themselves, as they chant “Long Live Oct. 7” and “Globalize the Intifada,” that they are standing for what is good, noble, and true?
One of the most disturbing realizations that I recall from my childhood was the moment when I discovered that evil people were not like the black-clad, mustache-twirling villains from cartoons. In most cases, they were people who thought that what they were doing was good for the world.
This insight seems to crash into a sense of moral relativism and nihilism. If we all think that our cause is just and the cause of our enemies is evil, who is to say what’s right?
The Ishbitzer offers a suggestion: Abandon your anger. Korach’s anger, he teaches, was not righteous anger. It was just the regular kind — hateful, self-motivated, and petty. The difference between the two is stark, but subtle, and it is not something a person can sort out for him or herself. The heat of such intense feeling prevents us from discernment.
If you feel that your rage is righteous, be careful. I say this to all of us, including myself. Don’t give into anger. Don’t think in slogans. Don’t be distracted by pretty words. Let things quiet down within you. Then you will be able to challenge your own assumptions and better discern your true motivations.
Remember, before he was swallowed by the earth, Korach also thought he was on the right side of history.
Matthew Schultz is a Jewish Journal columnist and rabbinical student at Hebrew College. He is the author of the essay collection “What Came Before” (Tupelo, 2020) and lives in Boston and Jerusalem.
Last May, When Steve Leder announced he would be stepping away from his full-time role as Wilshire Boulevard Temple’s (WBT) senior rabbi, he was a nationally recognized religious leader. Knowing when to go is just one reason why.Starting Sept. 1, he will assume a part-time role for the next two years. Then he becomes rabbi emeritus.
“I never will walk out of this place for the last time until I am dead,” Leder said. He walked into the temple 37 years ago, joining WBT’s long-serving tradition of Rabbi Edgar F. Magnin and Rabbi Harvey Fields. He spoke in soft, low tones at the Resnick Family Campus, newest addition to the ever-expanding Wilshire Boulevard Temple community, which dates to the 19th century. But a month after he turned 64, Rabbi Leder explained the reason for his announcement. “I was feeling burnt out. I knew it was time to loosen my grip.”
The rabbi’s latest contract had two one-year options. He chose not to exercise them because “I have been feeling burnt out for a few years.” The signs, he said, were impossible to ignore: “Less patience for process meetings, memos, PR budgeting, Human Resources – less patience for the non-rabbinic responsibilities of a senior rabbi. And the exhaustion of fundraising, which I will continue to do.”
Rabbi Leder’s candor was striking; he had no time for second thoughts or regrets. “One can only carry so many and so much for so long. If I am going to have a second chapter, which I want — I am 64 years old. If I wait much longer, I won’t.” No time for second thoughts or regrets. If he was to stay, full-time, given the workload of the senior rabbi, “I would be doing it, really, for the money,” he said. “This never is a job one should do for the money.”
“One can only carry so many and so much for so long. If I am going to have a second chapter, which I want to have — I am 64 years old. If I wait much longer, I won’t.”
He underlined why now is the time: “I want to go out when people wish I wouldn’t rather than when people wish I would.”
Rabbi Leder said his three-months-on, three-months-off schedule for the next two years “will give the congregation a new senior rabbi with the energy that is required.” It also will enable him to assist the new rabbi. “It will allow me to continue to raise money to support the congregation and our mission.” An irresistible bonus in this design “will give me the time I need, and want, to refuel and re-pot myself.”
A smile of contentment lit up Rabbi Leder’s face. “Honestly, I don’t know yet what I am going to be doing after Aug. 31,” he said. This is the first time he can recall not having a clear next step. First, he worried. Then came lightning. “I am experiencing the liberation that comes with what I am going to do,” he said. “I am essentially letting go of one trapeze without the other being in sight. I am able to do that, simply out of faith that somehow I won’t tumble from the sky.
“That is where I am. It is quite liberating and new.”
Candidly, he said, “some fear” lingers. He grew up “with an extraordinary and deeply embedded fear of poverty. That was my childhood. That was my parents’ childhood. A real fear, but one I can — and should — overcome. “Fear of poverty never is a reason to be a leader of the Jewish people,” Rabbi Leder said.“You shouldn’t make the Torah a spade.”
What will he do? For the past year, he has been talking with “really smart people about what might be next. I am platform-agnostic. I don’t care if it’s a book, TV, a podcast or a newspaper or teaching. I just want to move people, help people and further the Jewish people in a way that is more sustainable for me.”
The rabbi doesn’t worry about running out of motivational gas. “If I do, it’s because I am doing something I don’t care enough about,” he said.
Next could be a book or a scripted television series he is helping to develop. If it’s a book, the subject could be the art of letting go. He said too many people are “routinized.” We need to let go and trust, he said. “We need to live,” Rabbi Leder repeated. “It’s hard for many.”
He spoke of standing at the door of the Resnick Family Campus Nursery School. “I watch these little children clinging to their parents’ legs. I see the tears, the runny noses, the red cheeks. And that’s just the parents by the way! Hard to let go.”
The seed for Leder’s letting go was when Leder and his wife invited a single parent over for dinner. “We were talking about the difficulties of being a single parent,” said the rabbi. “Without any self-pity or drama, my wife Betsy matter-of-factly said ‘Well, I was a single parent.’ That cut me very deeply. In many aspects, it was true.”
His daily workload is challenging, especially because of his mindset. “To be the senior rabbi of a 3,000-family congregation with three campuses and camps, with eight schools, with two social services centers and, I don’t know, 10, 12,000 people,” and then he was out of numbers. He knew early on “there are no half measures, I am not a half-measures person. To achieve and perform at that level, something has to give.
“I have worked 48 weekends a year for 37 years. I’m not whining about it. It was my choice. I have felt, and do feel, called. At a certain point, though, enough has to be enough.”
No complaints. Just time for change.
“I feel great,” said Rabbi Leder. “I am liberated. I am free-falling.”
Fast Takes with Rabbi Leder
Jewish Journal: What do you do in your spare time?
Rabbi Leder: I would like to convert 6 million people to Judaism to replace the Jews lost in the Holocaust. America is the only place you could do it. Also, I want to pay Jews to have a third child so we start increasing our birthrate. We need to go from birthright to birth rate. The math is not good for us in America.
JJ: Your favorite spare time activity?
RL: I love to freshwater fish, to flyfish in trout streams. I grew up in Minnesota. I fished with my Dad. I only fish catch-and-release. Second, I love the desert. I love being in the solitude and quiet of the Mojave Desert. I finished two of my books there.
JJ: What has been your proudest moment?
RL: It always has been, and continues to be, watching our two children [son and daughter] laugh and enjoy each other’s company.
Jewish addiction recovery community Beit T’Shuvah has appointed Rabbi Michael Perice as its senior rabbi.
His appointment was announced on June 24.
Perice, according to a statement from the organization, will “lead Beit T’Shuvah’s congregation, which has a unique approach to faith, community and spirituality that offers individuals and families a deeply personal, meaningful healing experience.”
“As a person in long-term recovery, I have been inspired by the mission and lifesaving work of Beit T’Shuvah for many years,” Perice said. “Being its next rabbi is not only an honor, but the culmination of a spiritual, personal and professional journey.”
Perice is nationally known for his advocacy work on addiction and mental health. He currently serves as senior rabbi at Temple Sinai in Cinnaminson, New Jersey and previously served as a hospital chaplain during the COVID-19 pandemic. He’s been public about his journey from struggling with opioid addiction, which prompted him to find his calling as a rabbi. He was ordained in the Reconstructionist movement.
Leadership at Beit T’Shuvah — which is a treatment center, synagogue and educational institute — welcomed Perice to the organization.
“Rabbi Perice’s compelling story of recovery, coupled with his charisma and deep spirituality, will be a key element to help Beit T’Shuvah residents connect with their core beliefs and achieve lasting sobriety,” Beit T’Shuvah Board Chair Keith Elkins said. “Through Rabbi Perice’s leadership, Beit T’Shuvah will inspire a renewed commitment to providing soul-enriching programs and services that nurture the mind, body and spirit.” The organization also recently named Zac Jones as its executive director. Jones previously served as director of clinical services.
Sal Litvak, Mark Feuerstein, Hilary Helstein open the 19th annual Los Angeles Jewish Film Festival with the world premiere of “Guns & Moses,” a film co-written, directed and produced by Litvak, at the Saban Theater on June 19.
The Los Angeles Jewish Film Festival honored several films that screened as part of its program this year.
“Guns & Moses,” a high-octane mystery thriller, was recognized with the “Festival Choice Award;” “Nina is an Athlete,” following an Israeli Paralympics athlete, received the “Audience Award for Best Documentary Film;” and “Unspoken,” about a closeted man living in a religious community,” won “Audience Award for Best Narrative Feature Film.”
The L.A. Jewish Film Festival was held from June 19-24 at locations across the city.
Yasmeen Ohebsion, Eden Hadar, Lauren Zaidel, Zoe Pessin—four Birthright Israel Excel participants from Los Angeles—gathered recently in Tel Aviv. Photo by Or Doga, courtesy of Birthright Israel Excel.
Four Los Angeles participants—Eden Hadar, Lauren Zaidel, Yasmeen Ohebsion and Zoe Pessin—were among the latest cohort of Birthright Israel Excel participants.
Hadar is studying at Stanford University. She is majoring in Symbolic Systems and Designs. She currently has an internship at Voom and is working in software engineering.
Zaidel is studying at Princeton University. She is majoring in Operations Research and Financial Engineering and minoring in Judaic Studies. Currently she is interning at Porsche Digital and is working in Scouting and Venturing.
Ohebsion is studying at Tulane University. She is majoring in Finance, minoring in Marketing and Real Estate, and currently interning at F2 working as a Venture Capital Analyst.
Pessin is studying at Washington University in St. Luis. She is majoring in Global Studies and minoring in Marketing and Business of the Arts. She is interning currently at Deloitte and is working as a Digital Consultant.
Birthright Israel Excel recently welcomed to Israel 64 extraordinary college students from around the world to spend 10 weeks in Israel. Excel fellows have gone on to positions at top-tier companies. More than 1,000 Jewish young adults have participated in the highly selective Excel Fellowship and are now part of the global Birthright Israel Excel Fellows community.