fbpx

The end of an era

For Craig Taubman, Rabbi David Wolpe and the Friday Night Live Community
[additional-authors]
June 19, 2014

When I first came to Friday Night Live
I didn’t know if I’d ever been in a Jewish room so big.

It was like they took the entire outside, put up walls on the very edges,
added comfortable seating and painted the sky to look like a ceiling.

I remember the sign I saw before I entered.
“No Cell Phones.”

I wasn’t sure if it was a statement against their existence,
as if cell phones somehow represented hatred of Jews,

or if I just wasn’t allowed to bring one into the room.
In either case it was nineteen something or other and back then

I couldn’t afford to make a local toll call let alone own a cell phone.
So I confidently walked into the room knowing it wouldn’t be a problem.

I remember the rabbi. I’d known his wisdom from years before
when he stood in front of a room full of eager undergraduates and

wrote the entire first paragraph of the book “Lolita” on the board from memory
just to make a point about how people remember things.

I’ll be lucky if I remember how to get home tonight … but I remember that.
This was a rabbi I wanted to learn more from.

I remember the singer. A man with such incredible spontaneity
his band told him you never do the same thing once.

A man whose simple melodies you fell in love with the first time you heard them.
A man who, if you happen to be in the room, might, with no forewarning,

pull you up out of the congregation and demand you tell your life story.
Be careful when you walk into this room,

because when you do you become a part of its story.
Your voices, not acceptable when too quiet, become the choir.

We are the holy cabal. And this too must pass.
The baton at least. On to the next.

The old will become new and everything remains holy
if you’re willing to look close enough.

The impact has been made.
What happens in this room has been scientifically duplicated

in rooms of all sizes all over the world.
This has been the litmus test and we have passed.

The rabbi, the singer, will be missed
but their voices and words not forgotten.

And in a hundred thousand years, when the archaeologists of the future
are dusting off the remains of West Los Angeles,

a small crack in the rubble will open up
and a trapped melody will force its way into their ears.

ah na na na na na na …

They’ll smile, and nod to each other because
this has always been one of their favorites.

That is the endurance of this.
We are but borrowing this dust from the earth.

We will inevitably exchange it for our wristband
to the next big after-party in the sky.

(And you don’t even have to be ages 21 to 39 to get in.)
But how we filled this space remains.

The music never silenced.
The wisdom perpetual.

Friday Night Live.
The story goes on.

Los Angeles poet Rick Lupert read this poem on June 13, 2014 at Sinai Temple at the final Friday Night Live service led by Rabbi David Wolpe and Craig Taubman. Lupert's work can be found online at poetrysuperhighway.com/.

Did you enjoy this article?
You'll love our roundtable.

Editor's Picks

Latest Articles

Post-Passover Pasta and Pizza

What carbs do you miss the most during Passover? Do you go for the sweet stuff, like cookies and cakes, or heartier items like breads and pasta?

Freedom, This Year

There is something deeply cyclical about Judaism and our holidays. We return to the same story—the same words, the same questions—but we are not the same people telling it. And that changes everything.

A Diary Amidst Division and the Fight for Freedom

Emma’s diary represents testimony of an America, and an American Jewish community, torn asunder during America’s strenuous effort to manifest its founding ideal of the equality of all people who were created in the image of God.

More than Names

On Yom HaShoah, we speak of six million who were murdered. But I also remember the nine million who lived. Nine million Jews who got up every morning, took their children to school, and strove every day to survive, because they believed in life.

Gratitude

Gratitude is greatly emphasized in much of Jewish observance, from blessings before and after meals, the celebration of holidays such as Passover, a festival that celebrates liberation from slavery, and in the psalms.

Freedom’s Unfinished Journey

The seder table itself is a model of radical welcome: we are told explicitly to invite the stranger, to make room for those who ask questions and for those who do not yet know how to ask.

Thoughts on Security

For students at Jewish schools, armed guards, security gates, and ID checks are now woven into the rhythm of daily life.

Can Playgrounds Defeat Antisemitism?

The playground in Jerusalem didn’t stop antisemitism, and renovating playgrounds in New York City is not likely to stop it there, either — because antisemitism in America today is not rooted in a lack of slides or swings.

More news and opinions than at a Shabbat dinner, right in your inbox.