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March 7, 2025

The More It Changes, The More It’s the Same Thing

As the historian Gil Troy has put it, everyone has their own personal “Herzl moment,” the incident, episode or insight during which they suddenly perceive how serious antisemitism is even in their immediate vicinity. My own came in 2015 when a Facebook post I’d written about Hamas during the earlier 2014 Hamas-Israel war—defending the Israeli blockade on Hamas by an analogy between the internationally proscribed Islamist terrorist group and a rabid dog whose unrelenting violence requires it to be caged for the self-defense of those who would be its victims—led to an international, death-threat-generating cancellation campaign against me defaming me as racist against Muslims, Arabs and Palestinians, and a generally all around bad guy. That was the moment I understood that, in a phrase, antizionism just is antisemitism: My defense of the rights of Jews to defend themselves from genocidal slaughter was violently condemned as “racist.” Antizionism was therefore the position that Jews defending themselves from slaughter is immoral—and you can hardly get more antisemitic than that.

And once you see it you cannot unsee it.

I nearly fell apart from the onslaught, but thanks to remarkable support from my family, my lawyers, and the inspiringly resilient global Jewish community—that same community being sorely tested today—I managed to pull myself together with a new sense of mission. From that moment forward I started writing seriously. I found myself compelled to defend the Jewish people from the hateful slanders coming from every direction, in particular in their collective manifestation in the Jewish state. I began retooling my teaching as well, introducing courses on Jewish thought and Zionism and the relevant political philosophy, to introduce at least those students brave enough to take a course with a pariah—any Zionist on too many campuses is ipso facto a pariah—to the idea that the mass murder of Jewish civilians is not the moral high ground.

Fast forward to Oct. 7, 2023. For a brief, naïve moment as that horrible day unfolded I thought that perhaps many of those who had campaigned against me eight years earlier would finally apologize to me: I was clearly right, after all, that Hamas was rather analogous to a rabid dog which, uncaged, goes for every Jewish throat in its vicinity. But that moment was short and the naïvete rapidly extinguished. For not merely after but even during the largest, most barbaric slaughter of Jews since the Holocaust, with their tortures and murders being livestreamed sometimes even on their own social media, campuses across North American and Europe erupted—not in condemnation but in celebration, endorsement, and calls for more of that barbaric violence. By the next day, with Hamas murderers still roaming the southern part of Israel, campuses everywhere were calling to bring the “resistance” (their sanitized way of referring to the murderous violence) to campuses themselves—open calls for violence on campus, against Jews, illustrated with images of homicidal hang gliders in case anything was unclear.

Naïve me, indeed: I had failed to consider how many campus constituents would sympathize not with the victims of the dangerous dog in my analogy but with the dog itself; how many, in fact, despite waving their banners of “human rights” and “social justice,” were actually A-OK with the mass slaughter of innocent people, including children, as long the victims were Jews.

How, oh how, did this come to pass?

Well it didn’t happen overnight. Oct. 7 may have been the “Herzl moment” for many, but the trajectory has been in place for at least two decades and was actually quite clear to those who have been paying attention. Once over the shock of its reality, I realized that the campus response to Oct. 7 was not in the least surprising since it was the clearly predictable next step. My previous writings had documented the years of increasingly virulent antisemitic anti-Israel campus activity. My 2021 novel, “Nevergreen,” a satirical account of campus cancel culture, had suggested that the extreme ideology gripping campuses could produce a “Lord of the Flies” mob scene of ideologues hunting down the targeted offender eager to, yes, actually kill him. That’s how things looked by 2021, which was precisely when the Nazi-era trope of “Jewish supremacy” itself returned and began sprouting everywhere across academia. (For example, thousands of academics signed public statements, during and after the 2021 Hamas-Israel war, condemning Israel, and thus Jews generally, of “Jewish supremacy.”) Well, if the Nazis invoked that antisemitic trope to motivate and justify their eventual mass murder of six million Jews, and now contemporary academics were invoking it themselves—does it not stand to reason that, come Oct. 7, those very same antagonists would come out on the side of the murderers?

Oct. 7 may have been the “Herzl moment” for many, but the trajectory has been in place for at least two decades and was actually quite clear to those who have been paying attention.

Just think about this: On many campuses, including most of the elite campuses, led by many of the professors teaching the next generation of leaders, the dominant ideology is indistinguishable from the ideology that drove the Nazis to extinguish world Jewry. The calendar says it is 2025, but, on too many campuses, it looks an awful lot like 1939 Germany again—with the difference being that, today, lots of families are paying $80-90K a year for the privilege of having their children indoctrinated to endorse the supreme moral value of eliminating the Jews.

It’s been happening before our eyes. Looking back, as my new volumes do, one can discern the specific stages by which it came to pass. The story goes from fringe campus elements presenting “Boycott, Divestment, and Sanctions” (BDS) resolutions to student governments on a few campuses, to episodes on quite a few campuses of harassing and disrupting anyone who represents the Jewish state or simply supports it, to increasingly frequent graffiti and vandalism directed at Jewish institutions such as Hillels and Chabad Houses, to swastikas appearing nearly everywhere, to those Nazi-like allegations of “Jewish supremacy” and campaigns for “Zionists off campus!” popping up on most major campuses, to physical assaults against and open celebration of the mass slaughter of Jews. Jew-hatred moved slowly, then quickly, then explosively, from the campus fringe into the mainstream, and then into outright dominance, to the point where Jewish students have had to barricade themselves inside libraries or dorms or Hillel Houses to protect themselves from the mobs outside baying for Jewish blood—mobs consisting of their fellow students and often their professors, whose salaries those obscenely bloated tuition fees pay.

It’s either banal or painfully insightful to remark that the Nazi Holocaust also didn’t happen overnight. In retrospect that trajectory, from 19th-century racial antisemitism through the 1930s to the gas chambers, looks crystal clear, to the point where today’s Jews often look back at the Jews in 1930s Germany and just cannot fathom why they didn’t leave, the writing so clearly on the wall.

One wonders if future historians will see the current trajectory as clearly, and wonder the same thing about us.

This piece is adapted from the “Introduction” to the author’s two-volume work “Israel Breathes, World Condemns,” a collection of his writings over the past decade documenting and analyzing the transformation of academia into an antizionist, antisemitic hatefest. More information about him and his work may be found at www.andrewpessin.com


Andrew Pessin is Professor of Philosophy at Connecticut College and Campus Bureau Editor for the Algemeiner. In a previous incarnation he portrayed “The Genius” on the old David Letterman show.

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Iranian Women’s Fight is Reshaping the World

The Transformation of the Nature of Power

In modern Iranian history—and perhaps even globally—few movements rival the scale and dedication of Iranian women’s struggle for freedom and gender equality. A century ago, women fought for the right to vote; today, they are rising to fundamentally reshape the world.

Gender Equality: A Defining Challenge of Our Time

Although gender equality is formally recognized and embedded in the laws of many countries, it remains one of the most pressing challenges of our era. Despite significant progress, women continue to hold a disproportionately small share of power, even in the world’s most developed nations.

The fight against dictatorship—especially against the deeply misogynistic fundamentalism that rules Iran—is not just a battle for freedom but also for equality. These struggles are inseparable. A progressive movement that seeks to overthrow a religious dictatorship must also confront its reactionary ideology, which is rooted in gender discrimination. Such a movement cannot afford to retain remnants of that ideology within its own beliefs and structures. It must, instead, mobilize individuals with the strength to stand firm against relentless repression.

Why Is the Repression of Women in Iran So Extreme?

During the 2022 uprising, female students were often at the forefront of protests in 204 universities. Among the 1,776 schools whose students joined the movement, 1,186 were girls’ schools.

The Iranian regime knows that in order to suppress society, it must first break the will of women. Iranian women are among the most educated in the region, and since the anti-monarchical revolution, their aspirations and energy have been unleashed. They demand an active role in shaping and leading their society.

In response, the ruling theocracy systematically stripped them of their rights—starting with one of the most fundamental: the freedom to choose their own clothing. It then sought to justify these restrictions by claiming they align with Islamic teachings. Yet the forced imposition of the hijab, the coercion of religious beliefs, and all other forms of ideological oppression contradict the very essence of divine mercy.

Furthermore, the separation of religion and state remains a fundamental principle of the Iranian resistance, backed by more than 4,000 parliamentarians worldwide.

The Foundations of Gender Equality

A system built on gender inequality—one that marginalizes women—inevitably leads to dire consequences: unchecked power struggles, despotism, resource monopolization, authoritarian rule, corruption and repression.

Achieving true equality requires dismantling a culture that commodifies women, reducing both women and men to a state of servitude. Instead, society must embrace a new paradigm—one that fosters unity, dignity, and the full realization of human potential.

A woman must never be relegated to a subordinate position or treated as property in any form. She must be recognized as a free and independent individual, capable of shaping her own destiny and guiding the world toward a more just and equitable future.

Dismantling Patriarchal Ideology

When striving for deep and lasting gender equality, an important question arises: does this transformation mean sidelining men?

The answer is no. Solutions that seek to merely replace men with women do not equate to true female liberation. Our resistance sends a clear message: Advancing equality requires more than redistributing power; it demands dismantling the patriarchal ideology that sustains it.

Women’s Hegemony: A Revolutionary Leap Forward

The answer to this crisis lies in women’s leadership in public affairs. This is not just a necessary transformation—it is an unprecedented shift that will redefine the structures of power. We have reached a decisive stage: the emergence of women’s hegemony.

But is this transformation premature? Should it be postponed for several decades until societies reach a higher level of social progress?

The answer is no. Breaking the millennia-old cycle of inequality is not possible without a radical leap forward. And this leap is precisely the rise of women’s leadership—a necessity that has been deeply felt in the struggles of Iranian women and men against a misogynistic dictatorship.

The active and equal participation of women in political leadership and all spheres of responsibility is not just an aspiration—it is a historical necessity. Furthermore, the Iranian resistance has demonstrated that when men recognize and accept women’s leadership, their relationships shift toward greater solidarity and mutual respect.

Furthermore, the Iranian resistance has demonstrated that when men recognize and accept women’s leadership, their relationships shift toward greater solidarity and mutual respect.

In a world of true freedom and emancipation, the progress of men and women is not in conflict—it is essential and complementary.

Women’s Hegemony: Redefining the Nature of Power

This is a liberating transformation—one that not only empowers women but also frees men from the oppressive need to dominate. Its goal is to redefine power itself, ensuring that it no longer serves as a battleground for destructive competition—a competition that, throughout history, has fueled tyranny, war, and the erosion of human values.

Women’s leadership is not simply about securing managerial positions or claiming a share of existing male-dominated power structures. Rather, it seeks to revolutionize the very concept of power: power that serves humanity, rather than humanity being subjugated by power.


Hamid Enayat is a political scientist, specializing on the topic of Iran, who collaborates with the Iranian democratic opposition.

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Yeah, Yeah

Sidney Morgenbesser was a brilliant philosopher renowned for his sharp sense of humor. Raised on the Lower East Side of Manhattan, his accent and mannerisms made it clear he was a New York Jew.

And Morgenbesser was a proud Jew. David Shatz, in his eulogy, relates that Morgenbesser would chastise Jewish academics who hid their identity; when asked by a colleague: “What do you love?” Morgenbesser responded, “The Jewish people.”

Once he was attending a lecture by a British linguist about double negatives (e.g, “I don’t disagree” effectively means “I agree.”) The lecturer confidently declared that, although in most languages a double negative is a positive, in no language does a double positive become a negative. From the back of the room, Morgenbesser called out: “Yeah, yeah.”

Morgenbesser’s witty response is deeply Jewish; and the Jewish appreciation for sarcasm and irony begins with the Book of Esther.

Irony is woven into the plot of the Book of Esther. The same ring, scribes, and letters used by Haman are then given to Mordechai; the same rushing courtiers carry letters that say to kill the Jews, and then other letters to kill their enemies. Haman descends from being a powerful minister to whom all must bow, to being a groveling supplicant who throws himself at Esther’s feet. The tree Haman erects to hang Mordechai is used to hang Haman. Mordechai goes from sackcloth to royal garments. There are endless reversals in the book, all leading to the same point: The Jews go from life to death, from extreme vulnerability to safety.

Plot reversals are not merely the literary structure; it is the book’s theme. The Book of Esther states this directly: “On the day that the enemies of the Jews had planned to overpower them, it was reversed, and the Jews themselves overpowered those who hated them.” This reversal becomes emblematic of Purim, which is celebrated during “the month which transformed for them from sorrow to joy and from mourning to a holiday.” The Hebrew word used in both verses, haphach, literally means to flip something over; the Purim story does exactly that. And this theme of ironic reversals is the key to understanding the Book of Esther.

God’s name is not mentioned in the Book of Esther. This is puzzling: Why would a sacred biblical book omit God?

It is here where one must return to the theme of irony. The reversals in the Book of Esther are too many to be a coincidence. God may not be mentioned directly, but He is clearly behind the scenes, ensuring a turnaround that is truly measure for measure. In the Book of Esther, God speaks to us through the divine irony.

The discerning reader can see God’s fingerprints everywhere in this story.

That still begs the question: Why doesn’t God appear directly to Mordechai and Esther, and offer them direction?

Because God is hiding. Beginning with the Talmud, many interpreters have pointed out that the Book of Esther tells us of events that occur during a period of hester panim, when God withdraws from sight. To find God in times like these, one must look for Him in hints and coincidences, like the remarkable reversals of the Book of Esther.

God slowly disappears throughout the Tanakh. At first, He is speaking directly to Moses, face to face. By the time God communicates with the prophets, they see him through a “dull looking glass,” and only can hear a “small, still voice.” Later prophets get divine messages in visual parables, where the message is unclear. Finally, God stands behind the curtain in the Book of Esther. And then the Tanakh ends.

The Book of Esther is God’s final stop in the Tanakh, and is meant as the guidebook for when God disappears from the stage. It teaches us that in times of hester panim we need to hold tight to our faith, as Mordechai and Esther did; we need to search for the God of the gaps, the unique moments when we can hear God’s whisper.

The Book of Esther also teaches a second lesson, one that complements the first: we must always ridicule Haman’s pomposity.

Haman struts about, certain of his power and influence. When the king asks him for advice on how to honor someone, Haman assumes it is for himself, thinking “Who is there that the king would rather honor than me?” It turns out the honor is for his hated rival, Mordechai. When Esther invites Haman to a meal where she will sabotage him, Haman proudly declares to his wife: “Queen Esther invited no one but me to come in with the king to the banquet that she prepared; and tomorrow I am again invited by her, along with the king.” The reader can only chuckle at Haman’s silly pretensions.

The Book of Esther knows that when God hides his face, false idols will claim the stage; Hamans will demand that we kneel and bow low. They will be popular and have many followers; but like Mordechai, we must resist them.

Rabbi Yitzchak Hutner explains that idol worship is built on hype; through peer pressure and falsehood, pagans are induced to accept false idols. That is why the Talmud specifies that one should mock, even in a crude way, idolatry; the very essence of idol worship is hype, which can best be punctured by mockery. And that is the second lesson of the Book of Esther: mock false idols.

The Jewish love for sarcasm begins here, with the Book of Esther. We know there is always a new movement explaining to us why we should acquiesce to our own suicide. There are always indoctrination campaigns proclaiming that the false idols are true Gods. There is always a Haman, demanding to be taken seriously.

Since October 7th, we have seen an unprecedented Hamas-led propaganda campaign against Jews and the Jewish State. The depraved rapes of October 7th were denied by so-called “peace activists.” Women’s groups remained silent. It took the United Nations months to finally say something. Others dismissed the horrors of the day, condoning the evil of Hamas by saying it is “understandable resistance.” The cruel murders of the Bibas family were whitewashed with lies.

Lovers of “peace” have chanted “ceasefire now,” demanding that Israel stop fighting. It makes no difference to them that at any point in the last eighteen months, Hamas could have ended the war at any time by surrendering the hostages and putting down their weapons. The one group that governs Gaza refuses to consider the welfare of its own citizens; on the contrary, Hamas sees the deaths of Palestinians as politically expedient, a way of putting pressure on Israel. But no one chants anti-Hamas slogans on college campuses, demanding Hamas to release the hostages now.

Holocaust inversion has become the norm. Israel was brought to the International Criminal Court on the charge of “genocide,” for the crime of waging a defensive war. (Never mind that the population of Gaza has actually grown, the very opposite of genocide.) These critics ignore that civilian deaths, as painful as they are, are part of war; and Israel’s record in Gaza is better than that of U.S. military actions in Mosul or Afghanistan. Holocaust inversion turns the Jewish State into the new Nazis, and paints the Jewish community as collaborators in genocide.  This stokes intense antisemitism.

Jews are being told that they must criticize Israel, or at least stay silent, or they will be forced out of social groups. They are told by “experts,” all of whom hate Israel, that Zionism has nothing to do with Judaism, as if the Tanakh and Jewish history never happened.

Protesters and propagandists are slandering Jews and the Jewish State. Sadly, this is nothing new. And like our ancestors before us, we need to mock these absurd accusations and say:

“Yeah, yeah.”


Rabbi Chaim Steinmetz is the Senior Rabbi of Congregation Kehilath Jeshurun in New York.

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Mazal Market Creator Expands Vision with Mental Health Day for Jewish Women

When Shayna Chalom launched Mazal Market in July 2024, she knew there was a need for giving Jewish small businesses a leg up, but she had no idea how big it would get. In the months following the attacks of Oct. 7, 2023, Jewish businesses in Los Angeles (and world-wide) faced vandalism, got abandoned by customers, and struggled to contend with online trolls.

So Chalom, a Toronto-native based in Los Angeles for nearly five years, was inspired by the show “Trigger Warning with Killer Mike,” where the rapper attempted to buy exclusively from Black-owned businesses and struggled to find a fully self-sustaining supply chain. Watching it, she thought, ‘Every struggle he faced in this series, I knew a Jewish person in LA with that business.’ Chalom realized there was no marketplace dedicated to supporting Jewish entrepreneurs in the same way — so she created one.

The summer market in 2024 was a massive success, and so was the Hanukkah Mazal Market in December.

“The whole purpose of it is so much bigger than me, and I know that,” Chalom told The Journal. “It’s not to elevate myself in any way, but to elevate the various Jewish communities and make sure that these people are safe.” For Chalom, Mazal Market is more than a shopping event — it’s an urgent response to the current climate.

And now, Chalom is setting her sights on healing another facet of the Jewish community: mental health.  On Sunday, March 9, Chalom will host Simcha of Serenity, a wellness event in partnership with Shalom SoCal, a local organization focused on Jewish communal engagement. Taking place in Hollywood from 2:00 PM to 6:00 PM, it will offer wellness services, guided movement workshops, and other self-care activities. The event will also feature curated vendors selling wellness products and artisanal goods, along with a welcoming space designed to foster new friendships and community. Tickets are $10 for general admission, with a $36 Mitzvah Maven ticket that includes a $10 donation to American Friends of NATAL, an organization supporting trauma recovery in Israel. All proceeds from ticket sales will fund trauma counseling and mental health services for Israelis affected by war and terror.

“There are so many great businesses that could use a platform, and right now, so many organizations and charities that need a place to share their message in person,” Chalom said.

“There are so many great businesses that could use a platform, and right now, so many organizations and charities that need a place to share their message in person” – Shayna Chalom

For Chalom, expanding into wellness and mental health is a natural extension of what Mazal Market represents.

“I didn’t know where my place was in all of this until I had this idea,” she said. “I didn’t know how to help my people or help Israel or help the community or put myself on the line more — because that’s my place. My place is on the line.”

Mazal Market wasn’t just a pop-up — it was a statement. Vendors saw impressive sales, many with almost entirely new customers. Attendees described it as stepping into a little piece of Israel. Even when other events were happening the same night, people made sure to stop at Mazal Market first.

Los Angeles resident Alex Altberg, who attended the inaugural Mazal Market with his children, described the experience as the next best thing to visiting and shopping in Israel.

“Supporting Jews, Israelis, Israel in that way — it’s the next best thing to getting on a plane and flying 16 hours,” Altberg told The Journal. His kids especially loved browsing for jewelry and trinkets. He was excited to tell friends about Mazal Market and encourage them to attend future events to support Israeli vendors.

Madelyn Fischer left the market with a tote bag that read No Time for Schmucks, handmade by Chalom herself.

“I love seeing my friends promote their businesses,” Fischer told The Journal.

For Rami Kedar, owner of Ella Judaica in Beverly Hills, the event was about more than selling.

“Every way to support Israel is important, in any form or shape,” Kedar told The Journal. “If it’s being a vendor, if it’s spreading your Judaism, if it’s spreading your support for Israel — everything is super important now.”

Kedar’s business has thrived for years with a storefront on Wilshire Boulevard. For him, buying a booth at Mazal Market wasn’t about exposure — it was about standing side by side with other Jewish businesses in town.

Samantha Michelle, a DJ from Toronto who has performed at many fundraisers for victims of Oct. 7, said that showing up at Mazal Market was part of standing firm in her Jewish identity.

“The world is trying to make us feel alone, isolated, and ashamed,” Michelle told The Journal. “We gotta be like, ‘Oh no, I’m going to go and be loud and proud.’”

Chalom’s second Mazal Market in December 2024 was even bigger than the original. The weather was colder, and there was much less sunlight than the first, but the Hanukkah event was packed. Many of the vendors were first-timers, selling everything from Jewish-themed greeting cards to sufganiyot. There was even a Bashert Room — a premium-priced space with complimentary treats and an oneg-style setup designed for mingling.

“I could have never pictured this being where it’s at,” Chalom told The Journal.

As Chalom’s work in the Jewish community deepens, she’s become more vocal about reinforcing Jewish identity — both her own and that of others.

“Pre-Oct. 7, I feel like I almost had this privilege that I didn’t even realize I had — by passing as almost non-Jewish,” she said. “I never tried to pass as non-Jewish, I’m proud as hell of being Jewish, but I feel like so many people don’t associate my look with being Jewish. So post-Oct. 7, all I do is wear symbolism — every shirt, every sweater, I hand-paint leather jackets covered in Jewish symbols.”

That sense of identity is woven into all of her events.

“I feel like for so long, I didn’t really have a place in my community because of how I look and because of my queerness,” she said. “But as I grew up, I realized that’s not true and that Judaism can look a thousand different ways.”

People keep asking Chalom when the next Mazal Market is. But her vision extends beyond Los Angeles.

“That was the original plan. That’s why when I bought the website, I bought ‘Mazal Market’ — nothing to do with LA,” she said. “The only thing that has ‘LA’ in it is the logo. Because my goal is to contact different Jewish communities in different cities and find capable coordinators there to put on the event in their own communities.”

For her, every project comes down to one thing: making a difference.

“The only thing that matters to me is giving the community a better platform, and if I can make the slightest difference, or if I could help — if I could keep everyone safe and keep everyone protected, that’s all I care about.”

For those who missed Mazal Market, Simcha of Serenity is another opportunity to be part of the energy. And for those who attended, it’s a continuation of something they already know: when Chalom builds something, people show up.

Visit the PoshMark ticket page to purchase tickets to Simcha of Serenity. Follow Mazal Market on Instagram for updates on future events: @MazalMarket.

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Unplugging with Intention on March 7-8: What’s New for 2025’s Global Day of Unplugging

For more than a decade, the Global Day of Unplugging (GDU), held this year on March 7-8, has encouraged people to step away from screens, put down their phones and engage with the world around them. What began as an offshoot of Shabbat traditions has expanded into a movement that spans beyond the Sabbath and onto multiple continents. This year’s campaign is taking a new step: unplugging with purpose.

Kim Cavallo is co-executive director of Unplug Collaborative, and Becky Tahel, head of marketing, told The Journal that this year’s GDU isn’t just about putting devices away — it’s about creating meaningful in-person connections.

“This is all about mental health,” Tahel, also the writer and director of the documentary “American Birthright,” told The Journal. “We’re responding to the U.S. Surgeon General’s call to combat this epidemic of loneliness. Tech promised us we’d be more connected, yet over 60% of young adults report feeling lonely.”

To address that, Unplug Collaborative is launching “Unplug on Purpose,” an initiative that incorporates acts of service into the unplugging experience. The idea is that engaging in real-world action — whether through community volunteering, mutual aid, or simple acts of kindness — naturally pulls people away from their screens and strengthens human connection.

“Last year, the focus was just getting people off their phones and into real-life spaces,” Tahel said. “Now we’re doubling down. We’re adding in a service piece because when you’re in service, forget the phone. You’re going to do charity, you’re going to connect, and that’s where we see the real impact of reducing loneliness.”

Cavallo said that 2025’s GDU is part of an emerging trend in how society is thinking about digital wellness.

“We have always been about no shame, no guilt,” Cavallo said. “It’s not a prescription. We’re not trying to indoctrinate people into anything. It’s just about balance. It’s going to be different for everyone.”

Since 2020, Unplug Collaborative has expanded the campaign’s reach far beyond its Jewish “sundown to sundown” origins. It has gained traction internationally, including a partnership in Nairobi, Kenya, where local organizers are addressing how smartphones have exacerbated issues like economic exploitation and youth vulnerability.

“They have some really intense problems that are being made worse by the introduction of the smartphone,” Cavallo said. “Our partners in Nairobi are using this movement to help people recognize both the benefits and risks of technology. They’re creating spaces where communities can step back and say, ‘Tech is useful, but it’s also shaping our lives in ways that can also hurt. So let’s all pay attention.”

In the U.S., the shift away from smartphones is becoming more visible among younger generations.

“You see kids in high school saying, ‘We’re not going to take it,’ and they’re switching to flip phones,” Cavallo said. “They’re saying, ‘You’ve taken over our high schools, you’ve made it so that none of us are talking to each other, and it stops here.’”

This movement has extended to college campuses, where people like Seán Killingsworth, creator of the Reconnect Movement, have led efforts to normalize digital minimalism and reclaim face-to-face connection. “It all started because he chose to have a flip phone instead of a smartphone,” Cavallo said. “Now he’s got clubs across the country based on that one choice.”

Still, the challenge remains steep. If you’re reading this digitally, how many notifications have popped up since you started? If you’re holding the Jewish Journal print edition, you’re already ahead. The competition for your attention is constant. Social media companies, gaming platforms and app developers design their products to capture attention and keep users engaged. Tahel believes that raising awareness about these tactics could help encourage more mindful unplugging.

“Some people respond to the idea of more human connection, others are motivated when they realize they’re being played,” Tahel said. “Catherine Price, the author of ‘How to Break Up with Your Phone,’ explains this so well in her book. She frames it like a toxic relationship — it’s chilling. And we’re launching a 30-day challenge with her to help people step back and reevaluate.”

Cavallo added that creating digital boundaries is essential to shifting behavior. “People get scared of the word ‘boundary,’ but it’s actually a gift,” she said. “It tells you where my line is so you can approach it.”

For some, setting digital boundaries is as simple as using a food-safe container with a timer to lock their phone away. Others rely on peer pressure — at unplugged dinners, an effective rule is that the first person to check their phone pays for the meal. Tahel and Cavallo have also seen an increase in unplugged activities designed to be immersive, such as water-based sports, hiking, or even joining yo-yo clubs — because, as Tahel put it, “You can’t text and yo-yo.”

Unplug Collaborative encourages people to use the Global Day of Unplugging as a springboard for more intentional digital habits year-round. Through initiatives like Unplugged Villages, Unplug Collab, and workplace consulting, they aim to provide resources for schools, families, and organizations looking to recalibrate their relationship with technology.

“If you even think about your relationship to technology today, you’ve already participated. It’s like Earth Day — you don’t have to give up everything, just take a moment to reflect on how you interact with the world around you.” – Kim Cavallo

“This isn’t about shaming people,” Cavallo said. “If you even think about your relationship to technology today, you’ve already participated. It’s like Earth Day — you don’t have to give up everything, just take a moment to reflect on how you interact with the world around you.”

Five Tips for Making a Meaningful Global Day of Unplugging

1:  Reframe Unplugging as a Step Toward Mental Clarity

Instead of viewing unplugging as a challenge or restriction, see it as a way to clear your mind. Becky Tahel said that distraction itself isn’t always negative — sometimes it helps people reset. “Some people need a little bit of distraction, sometimes I need to scroll a little bit so that I can get my mind off of something.” The key is deciding when and how you engage, rather than letting technology dictate your attention.

2:  Try Unplugging in a Group Setting

The act of disconnecting is easier when others are doing it too. Cavallo mentioned that some of the most successful Global Day of Unplugging events involve structured group activities like book clubs, music listening sessions, or even cooking together without devices. Shared activities make it easier to break habitual phone-checking. Ever tried unlocking your phone with Hamentaschen dough and apricot on your fingers? Writing down the recipe beforehand makes the whole experience easier — and keeps you more present.

3:  Experiment with Physical Barriers for Your Phone

One effective tactic, as author Neil Strauss once told me, is a food-safe container with a timer. It locks phones — or any other distraction — away for a set period, making it easier to focus. Cavallo noted that even placing your phone in another room can create enough friction to prevent habitual scrolling. Little physical changes can make unplugging feel a bit more natural.

4:  Use the Day to Identify Digital Habits You Want to Change

Global Day of Unplugging can be a starting point to reflect on what habits you want to adjust. Tahel described the gradual process of cutting down on unnecessary tech use. “At first it was like, I’m just not going to work. I was on my phone, I just wasn’t doing work on my phone. Then it was like, okay, I’m just going to not be answering emails at all. Then it was like, I’m not going to be on social media. Then I was like, I’m just not going to be on my phone for one day.”

5:  Recognize That You Are Not Alone in This Effort

Recognizing that others are making similar efforts can make unplugging feel more rewarding. Cavallo said the biggest takeaway from this movement is that unplugging is not just an individual act — it’s part of something larger. “You might have different practices all year round. You may be someone who plugs off, but that doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t do it on Global Day of Unplugging too, because you’re helping to plug into the rest of the world and give that energy that says, ‘we’re not alone.’”

Global Day of Unplugging is set for March 7. For more information on how to participate, visit Global Day of Unplugging’s website.

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The Translucent Woman – Pain, Guilt, Death, Transcendence and Love – Viktor Frankl

The Translucent Woman – Pain, Guilt, Death, Transcendence and Love

in the Thought of Viktor Frankl

            I have several “canonical” stories; events in my life that have formed me as a person, and especially as a rabbi. Sometimes I knew I was in the midst of such a moment, other times only upon reflection. I’d like to tell you one of those stories. I’ve told this story before, the story of the Translucent Woman.

 

A woman sat in wheelchair in the back of the sanctuary at Redeemer Baptist Church (this was about 1995). I could feel her eyes latched on to my words. After the service, her helper wheeled her into a corner of the lunchroom. He came to me and told me she wanted a moment of my time. I sat across from her. She said to me that she had heard of me, and before talking to me, she wanted to listen to me speak. Having listened to me speak, she told me she had selected me to tell me something important.

 

She was dying, withering away. Did not weight more than 90 lbs. I could see her veins on her arms. Even so, she carried a captivating grace about her. Her eyes were a bright, radiant blue.

 

She told me that she had not been good person.  She paused, I think seeing if I were to give some anodyne of absolution. I resisted temptation and stayed silent. She continued – that she had been manipulative, kept accounts, and used her money to control people. Judgmental. Hid behind her manners. She was angry that disease had indignified her, as if she were some kind of common person. She smiled in self-deprecation as she told me her story of illness, decline, unremitting pain and now facing death.

 

She told that about a month before she that she had a moment that amounted to a revelation. “My whole life I didn’t understand. It’s all about love. I didn’t understand.” She had tried to tell her children, but they responded with “Yeah mom, okay, it’s all about love. Take your medication.”

 

She took my hand and said forcefully. “You have to tell me people,” she said urgently. “No one told me. Or I didn’t hear it. Or I couldn’t hear it. It is all about love.”

 

She asked me, “Do you understand?” I told her I understood and attempted to describe what I knew. I knew the words, but I also knew the meaning of the words, even at only 40 years old. Even now, 30 years later, I don’t know if I would have answered differently. Perhaps God gave me words and meanings that I had not yet earned, for her sake.

 

She smiled gratefully, and said again, “You have to tell people.” I promised I would. She came back several times, never with family, only with her helper. I received the call that she had passed. I don’t remember her name, but I can still see her translucent skin, her grateful smile, her radiant eyes, her adjuring me, my promise.

 

It is all about love.

 

When you listen to someone saying something you really don’t like, imagine for a moment they are a child, worthy of their mother’s love, and you channeling that mother’s love. Now go ahead and disagree. Sometimes when I disagree vehemently, I realize I am breaking my promise. Start with love, then disagree. Sometimes I listen to someone and for whatever reason, they turn me off. If I am mindful, I say to myself, “pretend I love what they are saying.”  My understanding changes – what they are saying, why they are saying it, what want to happen once they say it.  Habit draws me back to old consciousness, but at least I had a moment when a sliver of grace became known.

 

Viktor Frankl spoke of the tragic triad, aspects of human experience circumscribed by pain, guilt and death.

 

He teaches, in our search for meaning, in spite of everything, find a way to love.

 

He teaches so much more, but I want to start here.

 

I have been immersed in his thought for a few weeks now, part of country trying to heal from an unbearable pain, finding meaning after experiencing unspeakable cruelty.

 

I am beginning to see his thought, a beautiful translucent geometric design, pulsating with suffering, tragedy, beauty, hurt and healing and at the heart is love, holding love, teaching love.

 

My thoughts are getting organized. I’d to tell you what I see.

 

 

 

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Secrets Bahia Mita: A Blissful Escape in Riviera Nayarit

Nestled between the lush Sierra Madre Mountains and the sparkling Pacific Ocean, Secrets Bahia Mita offers a harmonious blend of relaxation, fun, and connection. A direct flight from Los Angeles to Puerto Vallarta made getting here a breeze, setting the stage for an extraordinary escape into Unlimited Luxury.

A Grand Arrival and Sky-High Cabanas

From the moment we arrived, the team at Secrets Bahia Mita made us feel welcome. Our Sky Bar cabana days were a highlight, offering plush loungers, soft gray towels, white umbrellas, and thoughtful touches like eucalyptus-infused cold towels and refreshing pineapple skewers. Regina, our concierge, added a surprising touch of care by cleaning our glasses—an unexpected but delightful detail. The service was impeccable, with Angelo, Efrain, Julio, Martinez, Asael, and Regina ensuring that every moment was flawless. Drinks arrived promptly, surprises like Oreo ice cream sandwiches appeared throughout the day, and a birthday cake with singing staff turned Heather’s celebration into a moment to remember. Add the sight of whales breaching and dolphins dancing in the ocean, and the Sky Bar became our personal slice of paradise.

The Giant Suite: A Luxurious Retreat

Our stay in the massive 1,000-square-foot Aspire Suite was an experience in itself. This luxurious space featured a large living room with a cozy L-shaped sofa bed, a dining table, a wine fridge, and two expansive balconies. The plunge pool was perfect for cooling off, while the freestanding tub offered serene moments of relaxation. The king-sized bed, premium amenities, and breathtaking views made it a haven of comfort and style.

Dining Delights

Every meal at Secrets Bahia Mita was a culinary masterpiece. Breakfast at Market Café felt more like a feast than a buffet, with fresh Montreal bagels, savory crepas, custom-made eggs, and chilaquiles stealing the show. The mimosas upon entry and the staff’s attentiveness to allergies elevated the experience even further. Lunches and dinners were equally memorable. At the Sky Bar, we enjoyed a mix of casual bites and gourmet dishes, while the Bluewater Grill served perfect steaks under the stars. Kudos to Martin at Olios and the chefs for their exceptional cuisine and attention to detail.

Hula Hoops, Laughter, and Connection

I brought my hula hoop along, and it became a source of joy and connection. Everyone joined in—Heather, Angelo, Regina, and Efrain showed off their skills as we hooped by the pool, on our balcony, and even at sunset. The hoop brought laughter, smiles, and a reminder to embrace fun and spontaneity.

Thoughtful Touches

Secrets Bahia Mita excelled in anticipating every need. From the luxurious cabanas to the attentive staff, every detail was curated for comfort. We were pampered with ice-cold eucalyptus towels, veggie sticks, and refreshing drinks throughout the day. And nature added its own magic, with stunning views of whales and dolphins set to a backdrop of vibrant skies and great music.

Final Reflections

Secrets Bahia Mita isn’t just a resort; it’s a destination where every moment is tailored to create lasting memories. Whether it’s the attentive service from Angelo, Regina, and the rest of the team, the luxurious Aspire Suite, or the joy of hula hooping at sunset, this resort offers a unique blend of relaxation, celebration, and connection. From the serene mornings to the festive evenings, Secrets Bahia Mita truly lives up to its name as a secret worth sharing in Riviera Nayarit.

Secrets Bahia Mita: Paradise Perfected

Set along the breathtaking Pacific Coast in the heart of Riviera Nayarit, Secrets Bahia Mita by Hyatt takes adults-only, all-inclusive luxury to the next level. From lush tropical landscapes to sweeping ocean views, every moment feels like a dream getaway. We loved dining at Olio, where Mediterranean flavors came alive during an unforgettable lunch. And the options didn’t stop there—this resort boasts so many incredible restaurants that every meal felt like a WOWOWOW moment! Sushi, steak, and everything in between, served with impeccable care. The amenities are just as impressive: countless pools, private cabanas, direct beach access, a world-class spa, and a state-of-the-art fitness center. From revitalizing massages to serene beach strolls, every corner offers an opportunity to relax and recharge. Secrets Bahia Mita isn’t just a resort—it’s a haven of luxury and bliss in the spectacular Riviera Nayarit.

Secrets Bahia Mita: The Ultimate Unlimited Luxury Experience

Step into over 1,000 square feet of pure indulgence in the Aspire Suite at Secrets Bahia Mita Riviera Nayarit, where Unlimited-Luxury® meets breathtaking design. This all-inclusive paradise has it all: a living room with a giant L-shaped couch (doubling as a sofa bed), a dining table, and a wine fridge stocked and ready for you. The king-sized bed promises unmatched comfort, while the free-standing tub is perfect for unwinding in style. With two private balconies, a plunge pool, and mesmerizing views of the Pacific Ocean, every moment here feels like a dream. The suite also includes access to world-class dining and premium drinks, making every meal and toast as luxurious as your surroundings. At Secrets Bahia Mita, every detail is designed for adults-only Unlimited-Luxury®, including impeccable service, gourmet restaurants, stunning pools, a serene spa, and so much more. Whether you’re splashing in the pool, savoring oceanfront views, or indulging in culinary delights, this is the ultimate all-inclusive escape. Ready to wake up here?

Sunset Dreams at Secrets Bahia Mita

Heather’s birthday celebrations continued at the Sky Bar, watching the sun dip below the horizon, the sky turn fiery red, and surfers carve the waves below. With drinks in hand and music filling the air, we toasted to health, happiness, and unforgettable moments. As part of Hyatt’s luxurious adults-only, all-inclusive Secrets Resorts, the experience was nothing short of exceptional. We saw a wedding in full celebration, a party with dancing, and even a private romantic dinner under a tree. We enjoyed an incredible meal at Himitsu, where the attentive staff made sure every detail was perfect, from managing allergies to creating the ultimate dining experience.

Secrets Bahia Mita: A Breakfast Like No Other

After years on cruise ships and well over a decade as a travel journalist, I’ve seen countless breakfast spreads—but the Market Café at Secrets Bahia Mita Riviera Nayarit takes the crown. This isn’t just breakfast; it’s an epicurean adventure. It all begins with mimosas handed to you as you walk in—a bubbly start to a morning in paradise. From there, the options are endless: made-to-order eggs, savory chilaquiles, sweet and savory crepes, fresh Montreal bagels, and even caviar. The array of cheeses, meats, and tropical fruits is dazzling, complemented by Mexican breakfast favorites and eggs sourced right from the property. The attention to detail is extraordinary. Stations are promptly refilled, and the staff is incredibly attentive—ensuring everyone, including those with dietary restrictions, has a fantastic experience. Breakfast at Secrets Bahia Mita isn’t just a meal; it’s an unforgettable start to the day.

A Day of Bliss at Secrets Bahia Mita

WOW, what a celebration-filled day! Heather and I began with an incredible private cabana experience at the Sky Bar. Our setup was perfect: a relaxation chair, a table with two chairs, and the cabana itself—a sanctuary for enjoying the day. The Sky Bar menu delivered deliciousness, and while we almost returned to Olio (special thanks to Martin and the chef for an unforgettable meal there earlier), we couldn’t resist trying something new. Drinks flowed all day, we saw whales and the surprises kept coming: Oreo ice cream cookie sandwiches, and later, a birthday cake and singing for Heather by the pool. The incredible Sky Bar team—Regina, Julio, Angelo, Martinez, Efrain, and Asael—made us feel like royalty, with thoughtful touches like Regina cleaning our sunglasses. And the evening? Oh, it got even better! We enjoyed dinner at the Bluewater Grill, indulging in perfectly cooked steaks crafted by Chef Gabrielle. Our service team—Francisco, Fran, Alexis, and Manager Joan—made the experience exceptional. As if that wasn’t enough, we were treated to a stunning show of fireworks from a wedding happening on the property, visible right from our table! From poolside relaxation to culinary delights and unexpected celebrations, this day was unforgettable. Secrets Bahia Mita, thank you for delivering Unlimited Luxury at its finest! Special thanks to Cece and Frida for all their help and the property tour and Jose from Beach Club who didn’t give us directions but actually walked us back to the elevator and got us going to the right place.

Hooping, Whales, and Unforgettable Bliss at the Sky Bar

Yes, I brought my hula hoop to the Sky Bar at Secrets Bahia Mita, and it became the centerpiece of pure joy! Everyone joined in—Heather, Angelo, Regina, and Efrain showed off their hooping skills like pros. We hooped all day: in the afternoon sun, by the pool, and as the sunset painted the sky. The laughter and smiles were contagious, a perfect reminder to embrace fun and spread happiness wherever you go. Our second cabana day was just as extraordinary. From reading and relaxing to delicious food and drinks, it was a day filled with laughter, joy, and nature’s wonders—whales breaching in the ocean and even dolphins playing in the waves. The attention to detail was unmatched. The thoughtful team brought us ice-cold eucalyptus towels, pineapple and veggie sticks, and set up soft gray towels under pristine white umbrellas, ensuring we had everything we didn’t even know we needed. As the day turned to evening, we enjoyed dinner at Mezze, dining outdoors under the stars with a front-row seat to another spectacular celebration—a fireworks display from a party on the property. From playful afternoons to elegant evenings, Secrets Bahia Mita delivered unforgettable memories. Whether hula hooping at sunset, savoring every bite of exceptional food, or marveling at the natural beauty of Riviera Nayarit, this was a perfect mix of relaxation, excitement, and unlimited luxury.

Thank You, Secrets Bahia Mita!

We had the BEST time—from breathtaking sunsets to unforgettable moments filled with laughter, relaxation, and joy. Whether it was hula hooping at the Sky Bar, marveling at whales and dolphins, indulging in incredible food and drinks, or dancing the night away, every experience was pure magic. Check out all my videos to relive the fun and see why Secrets Bahia Mita in Riviera Nayarit is a destination like no other!

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Did you know Riviera Nayarit is a sponsor for the Los Angeles Lakers!!!!? I went to a game at Thanksgiving and was so excited to see the area on the big screens…..

Lakers at Crypto for Thanksgiving

During Thanksgiving weekend, I had an unforgettable night with my family cheering for the Lakers at Crypto.com Arena—and witnessing the GOAT LeBron James LIVE. Talk about synchronicity: one of the game’s sponsors was Riviera Nayarit, and that’s exactly where I’m heading next….

On the same property as SECRETS BAHIA MITA is a family friendly resort: DREAMS BAHIA MITA!!

Designed by renowned architect Sordo Madaleno, Dreams® Bahia Mita Surf & Spa Resort is an eco-conscious, all-inclusive property in Banderas Bay, Riviera Nayarit, sharing space with the adults-only Secrets® Bahia Mita Surf & Spa, both part of Hyatt’s Inclusive Collection. The resorts offer 699 suites, including 136 connecting rooms, all with Unlimited-Luxury® inclusions and breathtaking ocean views. With exciting activities like surf lessons for all skill levels, snorkeling adventures, and access to a brand new 18,600 sq. ft. water park, there’s endless fun for the whole family. Guests can choose from a range of room categories, from Junior Suites with Tropical or Ocean views to the elevated Preferred Club Suites, which provide upgraded amenities and exclusive access. Designed with multigeneration travel in mind, the resort features a dedicated adults-only section, complete with infinity pools, sun deck, lounges, restaurants, and bars featuring the only rooftop infinity pools in the area. With eight dining options, seven lively bars and lounges, a kids’ and teens’ club, pickleball, and nightly entertainment, the resort offers endless activities for the whole family to enjoy. Exclusive add-on experiences, such as tequila tastings and private wine-pairing dinners in Portofino’s wine cellar, are available for an additional cost. Dreams® Bahia Mita Surf & Spa Resort promises an unforgettable winter retreat, seamlessly blending adventure and relaxation in the stunning landscape of Riviera Nayarit.

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