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July 16, 2025

The Betrayal (Entering the Mindset of Gazan Workers in the Weeks Before Oct. 7)

I want to share something that haunts me. Not because I agree with it — and certainly not because I find it morally acceptable. I want to explore it because it happened, because it is real. And because it has, in a very literal sense, changed the way I see the world.

This may be old news to many, but like anything of vital importance, it must be reflected upon again and again.

On Oct. 7, 2023, when Hamas terrorists stormed across the Gaza border and slaughtered men, women and children in their homes, many of the victims lived in Israeli towns and kibbutzim near the Gaza Strip. These were places populated by people who, for the most part, made up the vanguard of Israel’s far left.

(Left and right in Israel differ from American definitions. The divide there is not about taxes or abortion — but primarily about whether or not to give up land for peace, and the efficacy of allowing for a Palestinian state in the West Bank and Gaza.)

Up until the pogrom of Oct. 7, these communities — places like Kfar Aza, Be’eri and Nir Oz — were, at one point, and for some, models of hope. They were not anonymous cities. They were small, close-knit towns near the border where relationships had been built over time.

And that’s the part that disturbs me most — because in many of these cases, the Hamas terrorists, and Gazan “civilians” who joined in the atrocities, had been aided by other Gazans who had worked for, eaten with and been embraced by the very people they helped target.

These weren’t spies in disguise. They were dreamers of a lurid dream — gardeners, handymen, day laborers who had shared morning coffee and pastry with Israeli families. There are accounts of them being invited into homes, exchanging stories and photos of their children, even receiving help with medical care. These weren’t strangers — they were neighbors of a kind.

I also believe — and this is the complicated part—that there was a degree of real affection. When Hannah Arendt spoke of the banality of evil, this may have been part of what she was alluding to. Either way, human beings are complex. We all are. We are multilayered. However, those of us whose minds have not been corrupted by an evil, radical ideology will not easily succumb to what happened on Oct. 7.

The betrayal.

These same workers, according to testimony from survivors and investigators, had provided detailed intelligence to Hamas. Who lived in which house. Who had weapons. Whether there were dogs. Who might resist. Who was vulnerable. One family’s dog — warned about in advance — was shot on entry. It was not random. It was precise. That’s what keeps me up at night.

How could someone sit across from you at a kitchen table, drink your coffee and then mark you and your children for slaughter?

I don’t have answers. But I’ve tried to look into the dark and awful chasm of it.

And what I see — what I imagine, however murkily —is this: for some Gazans, there had been a great dissonance, one too painful to bear, one that pushed against their sense of themselves, made them feel deeply ashamed. On one side of a fence, they saw beauty: green fields, ordered lives, security, hope. On their side: overcrowding, scarcity, repression, the choking grip of Hamas and the false promise of destroying not just what the Jews had built, but the Jews themselves.

Envy — if not the root of all evil — is surely a major contributor.

Gazans, it is impossible to know in exactly what numbers, saw the Oct. 7 attack as the long-awaited breach. The opening of the gates. The final chapter in a story they had been told since childhood — that the land had been “stolen” from them, that the Jews were interlopers thriving on Islamic soil and that one day they would destroy the illusory state the Jewish devils had built for themselves and return to reclaim what was theirs.

This wasn’t just about land. It was, and remains for many, a religious duty. A mythic dream. A fantasy of reversal.

If they could break through the fence — so the fantasy went — others would join. Missiles would come from Iran, from Syria, from Hezbollah in the north. The Jews would be crushed and burned. And the shame of a century or more of powerlessness would finally be avenged.

But fantasies fed on rage don’t lead to liberation. They lead to destruction. And that’s what happened — not just for the 1,500 Israelis murdered on that horrible day, and the 251 souls kidnapped by Hamas, but for Gaza itself.

What unfolded was not a revolution. It was not a war for justice. It was the bestial rape and murder of civilians, the burning of babies, the parading of mutilated women through the streets. And all of it was rationalized, praised, even celebrated, by American professors, journalists, writers and self-described progressives — most of them living, of course, on land that had actually been stolen.

They called it “resistance.”

Some even called it “joyous.”

Osman Umarji, a lecturer at UC Irvine, said in a public lecture just weeks after the massacre: “The Zionists have been exposed for the criminals and blood-thirsty animals that they are. This is a gift from Allah to the world.” He added that events like Oct. 7, 9/11, and the Second Intifada were divine “reminders … waking the Muslims’ spirit.”

Bikrum Gill, a political science professor at Virginia Tech, went further, praising Hezbollah terrorism as “anti-imperialism” and a necessary “weapons production capacity that can challenge at an international scale.” He concluded: “We must refuse those who demand that we condemn Palestinian violence.”

This is what passed for moral clarity in certain corners of academia. It still does.

It was not joyous. Not for Israel, clearly. And as it turned out, not for Palestinians.

It was evil.

And still — I need to understand it, if only because the darkness of that day remains a constant shadow. I need to process it. But to understand is not to agree. It is to resist the temptation to flatten human beings into caricatures. It is to ask: How could this happen? What story had to be told — again and again — for someone to believe that betraying a friend, pointing out a child’s bedroom, or shooting a family dog could mark the beginning of freedom?

One possibility is this: like gullible children, they were lied to. Their false hopes, carefully fed. Not only by Hamas, but by an entire ethos of negation — one that seeks not to build, but only to destroy. One that elevates victimhood into virtue and turns murder into sacrament.

That story must be rejected — morally, strategically and spiritually.

The Palestinians will never be free by killing Jews.

They will only be free when they free themselves from their eliminationist mindset. When they fully and finally reject militant, radical Islam. When they are able to choose life over death.

And when the world — especially those who claim the mantle of justice — stops applauding massacres as if they were moral victories.

Understanding motivation does not mean abandoning moral judgment.

It means sharpening it.

It means defending oneself by knowing the motivations of one’s enemies.

It means being able to hold in one’s mind a vision for true peace — not just a cessation of war.


Peter Himmelman is a Grammy and Emmy nominated performer, songwriter, film composer, visual artist and award-winning author. 

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What Is Education?

Education is what’s left after you have forgotten the details. You may not remember the years of Napoleon’s reign, but did you learn to love the study of history? Exactly how Mark Twain’s “Tom Sawyer” ends may be a distant memory, but did you learn to love reading? Did you go on to read his equally great “Huckleberry Finn” and explore other authors? If you are a doctor, lawyer or other professional, you do need to remember facts and details, but was that the limit of your schooling or the beginning? Were you educated, or merely trained?

Education should shape the whole person and develop character. It is a thirst for knowledge, a mind open to exploration and wonder, a desire to understand.

Isidor Rabi was a boy with immigrant parents who went on the win the Nobel Prize in physics in 1944. When he was asked how he managed to accomplish that most impressive feat, he gave credit to his mother. When his friends came home from school, he said, the mothers all asked their children what they learned. When he came home from school, his mother asked: Izzy, did you ask a good question? Education is the art of asking good questions—intellectual curiosity, the pursuit of knowledge in any area. It never stops, has no time limit or boundaries. It is a lifelong quest. Talk to any person in extreme old age who is thriving, and you find someone who is endlessly curious.

The purpose of formal education is to inspire and to begin a process and a way of thinking that we develop on our own over time. It goes beyond the bounds of any one discipline and invites the study of new and unexplored areas. There are people who never studied music and can’t read a note but who love music nonetheless, read biographies of composers and attend concerts simply because it gives them great pleasure and moves them. Professional musicians may technically know more, but they don’t feel the experience any more than others who have engaged in their own musical education do.

Education has no intellectual borders: It is a professor of biology who enjoys the theatre, an optometrist who reads history, an engineer who loves art. At the Massachusetts Institute of Technology (MIT), the most renowned school of engineering in the world, courses in the humanities are required.

There are two pillars of education. One is that education is a lifelong pursuit and the other is that it is comprehensive, not narrowly focused.

Education does not have a pension plan. It never retires. It lasts as long as people want to understand themselves and their world, as long as they take pleasure in the pursuit of knowledge. Degrees and diplomas are presented at a ceremony called “commencement.” Commencement means beginning. It does not mean the end of anything but rather the beginning of the voyage, the unquenchable thirst.

Education’s other pillar is comprehensiveness. Kenneth Clark’s magnum opus, “Civilisation,” originally a BBC television series and later a book, conveys an important message. It demonstrates that civilization does not exist in silos but is comprehensive. It grows organically. History, art, music, literature, architecture and even current events are the product of a culture. And culture contributes to our understanding of our society and ourselves. That study is open to all, young and old, people in every work and profession. Clark’s book  demonstrates that an understanding of history and our times makes knowledgeable citizens. It also made him optimistic: He concludes with the observation that “Western civilisation has been a series of rebirths” that should give us confidence in ourselves. He asserts that it is a lack of confidence that kills a civilization: “We can destroy ourselves by cynicism and disillusion just as effectively as by bombs.”

“We can destroy ourselves by cynicism and disillusion just as effectively as by bombs.”

Jews have been pioneers in the field of education. Rabbi Jonathan Sacks called attention to the fact that “Jews set about creating the first system of publicly funded, universal education in history. By the end of the 1st century, it was complete. Jews became the people who predicated their survival on the house of study … From that day to this, they made education their highest communal priority. It allowed them to do what no other nation has done—preserve their identity intact across almost twenty centuries of exile, dispersion and powerlessness.” Jews have won and lost many battles over the millennia but survived amid loss because they understood one fundamental life lesson. In the words of Rabbi Sacks: “To defend a country, you need an army. But to defend a civilisation, you need schools.”

It must be pointed out that part of Jewish education is that it continues throughout adulthood in study partners (chavrusa), synagogue courses, institutional study with organizations such as Tikvah and Torah in Motion, along with many other means of continuing one’s knowledge. There is a great flourishing of Jewish study during and after formal studies have been completed.

The two pillars of education—lifelong learning and inclusivity, covering a wide range of topics—are essential for an informed and engaged citizenry. Francis Bacon (1561-1626) expressed the ideal in his noble ambition: “I have taken all knowledge to be my province.”


Dr. Paul Socken is Distinguished Professor Emeritus and founder of the Jewish Studies program at the University of Waterloo.

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It’s Time to Talk About Tucker Carlson

I used to appear on Tucker Carlson’s show. We debated, argued, and, at times, agreed. While I never found him particularly subtle, he once struck me as intellectually curious and engaged. That person is gone. The Carlson I see now is unrecognizable—a man who cloaks ignorance in faux patriotism and traffics in rhetoric that is unmistakably antisemitic.

His latest outrage? Declaring that American citizens who serve in the Israel Defense Forces—like my own children—should be stripped of their U.S. citizenship. Carlson has apparently convinced himself that American Jews who feel a sense of duty to Israel are traitors, or at least less American than their neighbors. The ugliness of this accusation is matched only by its historical illiteracy.

Does Carlson understand, for example, that some of America’s most revered World War II heroes voluntarily joined foreign militaries—well before the United States entered the war? That far from being condemned, they were celebrated?

Let’s start with the Eagle Squadrons—units of volunteer American pilots who joined Britain’s Royal Air Force to fight Nazi Germany in 1940 and 1941, while America remained officially neutral. These brave men, often in their twenties, believed the threat of fascism was too dire to wait for official policy to catch up with moral clarity. They put their lives on the line, not for personal gain, but to defend democracy and decency abroad.

Carlson may also want to familiarize himself with Joseph P. Kennedy Jr., older brother of President John F. Kennedy. Kennedy trained as a naval aviator and volunteered for a high-risk mission in 1944, during which he was tragically killed. He was part of a generation that understood moral duty does not end at a nation’s border.

Were these Americans traitors, Tucker? Should they have been stripped of their citizenship?

Of course not. And the notion that they should have been was never even entertained. Because Americans—at our best—understand that fighting tyranny and standing for one’s values transcends passports.

So why does Carlson reserve this particular fury for Jews who serve in the IDF?

Because this isn’t really about foreign military service. It’s about delegitimizing Jews as full participants in American life. Carlson didn’t launch into a broadside against Americans who join the French Foreign Legion. He’s not railing against those who volunteer with Kurdish fighters, or Americans currently embedded in the Ukrainian military effort against Russia.

No. He singled out Israel. He singled out Jews. And that’s not just a double standard—it’s antisemitism.

Carlson is reviving the toxic accusation of dual loyalty, a charge that has haunted Jews for centuries. From the Dreyfus affair in France to Soviet purges to McCarthy-era smears in the U.S., this idea—that Jews cannot be trusted, that they are somehow foreign, suspect, or beholden to another country—has fueled some of the darkest chapters in modern history. Now, incredibly, Carlson is breathing new life into it.

And the implications are chilling. In a time of rising antisemitism globally, in a moment when Jews are still mourning the October 7th massacre and facing a wave of hostility in its aftermath, to accuse American Jews of divided loyalties isn’t just inflammatory—it’s dangerous.

To be clear, my children who serve in the IDF are American citizens. They are not dual nationals. They are not secret agents of a foreign power. They are idealistic young men and women who have chosen to stand up against terrorism and defend innocent lives in a democratic ally of the United States. Their choice is morally consistent with the best traditions of American heroism.

There is a long legal precedent to back this up. The U.S. State Department has affirmed repeatedly that Americans can serve in foreign militaries without jeopardizing their citizenship—so long as those militaries are not hostile to the United States. Israel is not only a close American ally; it is the single most reliable partner in the Middle East on issues ranging from counterterrorism to technology. American citizens serving in the IDF are not breaking any laws. They are not betraying their country. Carlson knows this—or should.

So why is he doing this? Why this sudden, almost obsessive hostility toward Israel? Why the relentless effort to paint American Jews as foreign interlopers rather than full participants in the American experiment?

The question must be asked: Does Tucker Carlson have financial ties to Qatar? It’s an uncomfortable topic, but Carlson’s views have recently become almost indistinguishable from those promoted by Qatar’s state-funded outlets—outlets that openly defend Hamas and vilify Israel. If he is being compensated, directly or indirectly, to adopt these views, the American public deserves transparency.

More importantly, American Jews deserve safety. We deserve the dignity of knowing that when our children risk their lives fighting Hamas—a genocidal organization whose founding charter calls for the murder of Jews—they won’t be smeared as traitors by influential voices back home.

I have always believed that Carlson was at his best when standing against groupthink and political orthodoxy. But now, ironically, he parrots the same antisemitic tropes long hurled by the far-left: that Jews are too powerful, too foreign, too disloyal. That to support Israel is to betray America. It is a tragic fall from grace, and one that cannot go unchallenged.

To be an American is to believe in freedom, justice, and moral responsibility. Sometimes that means serving at home. Sometimes that means serving abroad. And sometimes it means standing up to powerful voices who forget our history and peddle dangerous lies.

My children who serve in the IDF embody that American spirit. Tucker Carlson no longer does. 


Rabbi Shmuley Boteach is an American author, broadcaster, and public speaker. He is the founder of The World Values Network and the author of over 30 books on ethics, Judaism, and politics, including Kosher Sex and Judaism for Everyone. He has been called “America’s Rabbi” by The Washington Post.

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Is It Time to Write the Obituary for Israel Studies?

I am the author of a new report published by the Jewish People Policy Institute, “Israel Studies at American Universities: Is There a Path Forward?,” a call to action to save the discipline before it’s too late.

I trained as a historian in the field of Israel Studies and have had a bird’s eye view to the trials and tribulations of the field in my career teaching at Brandeis, Oxford, Northwestern and now the University of Haifa over the past 15 years. The report was written out of professional and personal commitment to a field in crisis in the troubled campus space today, especially after Oct. 7. With pro-Palestine encampments proliferating across quadrangles, students unwilling to be socially shunned for taking a class with “Israel” or “Zionism” in the title — if not vulnerable to outright antisemitic attack — faculty subjected to ideological litmus tests, and even protesters storming into Israel Studies classrooms, the situation has become untenable.  

But once upon a time, from the 1980s until the mid-2000s, Israel Studies was a new, promising and thriving academic initiative dedicated to the research, teaching, and study of modern Israel, Zionism, and the Arab-Israeli conflict through an interdisciplinary lens. The core tenets of the field were to embrace the complexity of Israel and emphasize the dual narratives of Israelis and Palestinians as a means of educating toward conflict resolution. That open-tent philosophy led to an identity crisis — today, it doesn’t know what defines it, who belongs within in, how to teach it, what its relationship with other departments and disciplines should be (especially in a hostile campus climate and with a new field of Palestine Studies growing up alongside it) and what its priorities must be for the future. Moreover, an increasingly prominent anti-Zionist wing of the field has come into conflict not only with other scholars, but with donors and communities that has alienated many former champions.

While Israel Studies confronts a kind of schizophrenia from within, it is also beset by broader challenges in university culture. Today, Israel Studies is a canary in the coal mine of academic dysfunction, from ideological capture of much of the humanities and social sciences heavily funded by despots from the Middle East, to campus antisemitism and cancel culture. The widespread embrace of BDS and both the intellectual and bureaucratic institutionalizing of ideas about Israel as a settler-colonialist/apartheid/genocidal regime and Jewish Zionists as “white supremacist oppressors” makes it difficult for any complexity about Israel to be introduced into the curriculum, and perhaps even more importantly — to hire, publish, or promote anyone who deviate from these narratives. Whether Israel Studies can survive in a climate where Israel and Zionism are the third rail of campus politics is a test case for health of institutions of higher education as a whole.

Yet, “what happens on campus doesn’t stay on campus”: Israel Studies demonstrates the dangers of the pipeline from dorm room to boardroom, as an entire generation of students were miseducated (or undereducated or uneducated) about Israel, Zionism and the Arab-Israeli conflict but are now inhabiting institutions of power and knowledge, from the media, to politics, and foreign policy. The dividends of the Israel Studies dilemma may yet be seen down the road.

Can Israel Studies survive given this set of both internal and external circumstances?

My recommendations are for the field to reform itself and be in a stronger position to confront the situation on campus environment beyond it — but without the “buy in” from faculty, university administrators and donors (who don’t necessarily play nicely together), it may spell the disappearance of Israel Studies, at least at the most antagonistic elite universities where it once thrived.

In sum, it may be time to move Israel Studies to a hospitable home off-campus — including thinktanks and Jewish institutions like JPPI — to offer a new generation a rigorous and nuanced curriculum that may be lacking at college today.

Rather than an obituary, I hope it will be a rebirth of the field for the post-Oct. 7 reality. 

 


Dr. Sara Yael Hirschhorn is a celebrated scholar, author, educator, media personality and public intellectual who currently serves as Senior Fellow at the Jewish People Policy Institute and a Historian of Diaspora-Israel relations at the University of Haifa.

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Empathicide: The Corruption of Empathy — What the Rise of Antisemitism Reveals About the Collapse of Moral Clarity

As a practicing psychiatrist, I have spent my life appreciating and teaching the value of empathy — one of humanity’s most precious tools for healing, connection, and moral growth. But over the past year-and-a-half, I’ve witnessed something deeply disturbing: empathy itself being used as a weapon instead of a bridge. I call this phenomenon “empathicide.”

What Is Empathicide?

Empathicide is the social and psychological process where the genuine, healing intent behind empathy is distorted into an instrument that excludes, dehumanizes, or silences.

Forms of Empathicide

Most forms of empathicide are unconscious and unintentional and come from a desire to conform or be perceived as compassionate. But two are purposely designed to sway public sentiment: I call them “Strategy-Driven Empathicide” and “Authority-Driven Empathicide.”

“Strategy-Driven Empathicide” involves the intentional exploitation of empathy to silence and demoralize others. This practice is commonly exercised by ideological movements that use emotions to fuel hate. The primary tool of strategy-driven empathicide is disinformation and the manipulation of data to oversimplify and vilify others.

“Authority-Driven Empathicide” happens when those in power — such as university or government leaders — are complicit with agents of strategic empathicide. They do so by appeasing them, even if it means silencing or marginalizing individuals who genuinely need protection.

These forms of empathicide are not abstract theories — they are unfolding before us, particularly in spaces where empathy is claimed as a virtue but wielded as a weapon.

Antisemitism and the Experience of Jews on Campus

Nowhere is empathicide illustrated more clearly than in the growing acceptance of anti-Zionism as a socially sanctioned form of antisemitism.

Antisemitism surged across North American college campuses post-Oct. 7. At UCLA, masked protesters ran around campus with daggers, tearing down hostage posters. Demonstrators shouted slogans promoting violence against Jews. Others beat a piñata of the Israeli prime minister while yelling, “Kill that f—ing Jew.” And Jewish faculty were falsely accused of supporting genocide. The trauma and vulnerability were palpable. The anti-Zionist movement showed itself to be more fixated on threatening Jews on campus than helping Palestinians.

For months, Jewish faculty and staff at UCLA relentlessly documented these and other incidents of antisemitism. We finally met directly with UCLA leadership in early March 2024, but they failed to respond meaningfully, the chancellor at the time stating that they were “hoping the situation would blow over.”

But things did not blow over.

By April, an encampment was established on the UCLA campus that excluded Jewish students and faculty from public spaces and enabled harassment and violence against Jews on campus, under the watchful eyes of campus security.

Three particularly egregious examples of empathicide stand out:

On March 22, 2024, UCLA protesters masked in keffiyehs built a giant mannequin of a pig holding a bag of money with a collection can marked with a Star of David — a grotesque revival of centuries-old antisemitic tropes. This was a deliberate act of dehumanization and another clear example of Strategy-Driven Empathicide.

On March 27, 2024, a mandatory medical school class on the unhoused was taught by a keffiyeh-wrapped lecturer who led UCLA medical students in chants of “Free Palestine” and prayers to “Mother Earth.” This channeling of compassion for the unhoused into unquestioning solidarity against another group is also an example of empathicide.

Most disturbing to me was when antisemitism invaded my own Department of Psychiatry at UCLA in April 2024 with a public lecture titled “Depathologizing Resistance” in collaboration with its DEI, Community and Global Psychiatry and Ethics offices. This psychiatry presentation actually normalized suicide for a cause. It justified the Hamas massacres and abductions on Oct. 7, 2023, and promoted anti-Zionist indoctrination, mischaracterizing Israel as a colonizing, genocidal regime. The lecturers also referred to Israel as “occupied Palestine for 75 years” — normalizing the erasure of the entire Jewish state of Israel, in any form, in any part of the ancestral homeland of the Jewish people.

By framing suicide and antisemitic violence as “resistance,” the lecture didn’t just distort empathy — it gave moral cover to terror. This is how empathicide can elevate ideology over human life — and even undermine the Hippocratic Oath. The lecture reflected many features of Strategy-Driven Empathicide — in ideological talking points, glorifying violence and minimizing Jewish history and trauma — yet it was presented as medical education. Whether the speakers realized it or not, the event aligned with disinformation found in the propaganda campaigns of organizations like Hamas.

When this lecture was exposed, the backlash swept across the psychiatry department — not against the antisemitic indoctrination, but against Jewish faculty who dared to speak up. A petition demanded our removal. The hostility was so profound that some of us were unable to continue in our teaching and clinical roles. Meanwhile, consistent with Authority-Driven Empathicide, UCLA rewarded the presenters and faculty sponsors with praise, promotions and institutional protection. To this day, UCLA’s psychiatry department has never publicly corrected or condemned the lecture’s content, which trafficked in antisemitic propaganda and violated core psychiatric principles.

And so we arrive at one of the most troubling consequences of empathicide: standing against hate is treated as hate, while spreading it is protected and elevated.

Zionism is a Core Part of Jewish identity

Zionism is not a political slogan — it is the Jewish people’s historic movement for self-determination in their homeland of origin, the land of Israel. Despite their expulsion by the Romans, Jews have always maintained a physical presence and spiritual bond to the land. Since then, Jews have endured millennia of persecution in the Diaspora for 2,000 years.

Zionism is a core part of Jewish identity through history, faith, language and a yearning for safety and self-determination. Importantly, Zionism is not about denying anyone else’s place in the land. It’s about guaranteeing that the Jewish people are never again denied theirs and their safety. Zionism is about refusing to be erased while still leaving space for others to belong, too.

What Anti-Zionism Really Is

While Israel, like any democracy, is subject to critique, anti-Zionism often goes far beyond that. It targets Israel’s very existence, denies Jewish history, and questions the very right of Jews to live there.

Anti-Zionism and Empathicide

Slogans like “Zionism is racism” and “Israel commits genocide” may sound like empathy and support for the Palestinian cause — but since they are grounded in disinformation and demonization, they block critical thought and serve as tools of empathicide.

Anti-Zionism often portrays the state of Israel as “settler colonialist.” This falsehood denies the very origins of the Jewish people and their rightful return to their ancestral homeland, the only place where they are not considered refugees. In reality, Israel is the most successful example of decolonization.

“Israel is an apartheid state” overlooks the full reality of how Arab Israeli citizens, just like Jewish ones, serve in Israel’s parliament, in its courts as judges and in its hospitals as physicians, pharmacists and nurses.

“Israel is committing genocide” distorts the definition of genocide, which requires the intent to destroy a people. While both Hamas’ charter and the Islamic Republic of Iran have expressed this intent both in words and in action, Israel issues warnings before airstrikes and enables humanitarian aid. The charge that the International Court of Justice (ICJ) has deemed Israel to be genocidal is also fiction. In actuality, the Court determined that, given the war, it is prudent to ensure that genocide is not occurring — a far cry from the libelous claim being circulated.

Misusing the term “genocide” fuels empathicide.

The “Zionism is racism” charge is slander rooted in antisemitic regimes like the USSR. Even the U.N. eventually recognized how harmful and false that claim is when it revoked that accusation in 1991. Zionism is about the survival of a multiracial, multiethnic Jewish people, not the supremacy of any race. It is about Jewish people scattered across the world who have faced centuries of persecution and exile, holding on to a shared dream of safety, dignity, and belonging in their biblical place of origin.

Is anti-Zionism Antisemitic?

In nearly every form we see today, anti-Zionism is antisemitic. Anti-Zionism that singles out Jews, denies their right to self-determination, and treats their existence as a moral offense is a modern expression of antisemitism. There is one rare exception: anti-Zionism rooted in a radical, consistent universalism that rejects all nation-states and religious homelands equally. But this is exceedingly rare. When empathy is selective and not inclusive, it’s exclusion dressed as compassion.

Empathicide goes beyond isolated incidents; it shapes institutional culture. American college campuses have enabled a climate where students feel comfortable weaponizing the term “Zionist” as a slur against Jews to invalidate the core of Jewish identity itself and its connection with the biblical land of Israel. Reducing “Zionist” to a pejorative term used to marginalize Jews is not activism. It is antisemitism.

Like every democracy, Israel has its share of individual leaders who are extreme, even racist — voices that don’t reflect the values or hopes of most Israelis or Jews. The democratic process addresses these extreme voices, albeit imperfectly, in a manner similar to how it functions here in the United States. But here’s the deeper problem: those calling for the end of Israel often take these extreme voices and act as if they speak for all Jews, all Israelis. They ignore the millions who long for dignity, safety, and coexistence. They overlook the deep internal debates, the protests in Israel’s streets, and the constant push within Israeli society to do better.

Likewise, we should not hold all Palestinians responsible for the decisions of their leaders. Many are trapped under leadership that has failed them — rejecting peace, diverting international aid and prioritizing violence over their people’s future. Hamas’ use of its own Palestinian civilians as human shields is an empathocidal strategy meant to confuse the world, to make it harder to see who is protecting life and who is assaulting it.

Overreach in the Name of Fighting Antisemitism

Empathicide is not confined to activist circles or ideological opponents. It also emerges from reactionary overcorrection, even in the name of fighting antisemitism. Empathicide is nonpartisan. It is a ubiquitous human failure — a failure to anchor compassion in truth. It manifests during times of fear, retaliation, or when political movements utilize suffering to advance their agendas.

If the fight against antisemitism becomes an excuse to indiscriminately defund scientific research or blanketly purge international scholars, then empathy has not been restored; it has been corrupted. That, too, is empathicide.

Conclusion: Reclaiming Empathy

As we’ve seen, empathicide is a phenomenon that takes many forms:

• The pressure to conform

• The distortion of truth

• The manipulation of empathy

• The denial of trauma

• The justification of martyrdom

So where do we go from here?

We name and call out empathicide, no matter where it comes from — left, right, or anywhere in between.

We embrace intellectual honesty and viewpoint diversity in education.

We resist the temptation to become what we oppose.

If we don’t recognize empathicide, it will keep distorting how we see each other — and what we call right or wrong.

Real empathy sees humanity truthfully. It feels and cares for all pain, yet itself has no agenda.


Dr. Kira Stein is a psychiatrist and assistant clinical professor at UCLA. She is the founder of the Jewish Faculty Resilience Group (JFrg) at UCLA, and the originator of the term ’empathicide.’

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Leave the Short Pants Alone

A friend of mine, in his 60s, found himself back on the dating scene. He called and asked how to be funny. “Schiffy, I’m not funny. How do you do it? My last date was all crickets.” I laughed and said, “You were just funny. Crickets are funny. Do you know why you were funny? Because you didn’t try to get me to laugh.” 

Trying to be funny is the nail in the coffin. Observing a guillotining is less painful than watching a comic who’s lost the crowd attempting to win them back. 

Two critical ingredients for funny are likability and trust. If you don’t have either, it’s much more complicated. Now, let’s settle the class clown question. No, it is not a prerequisite for you to have been the class clown to be a successful comedian. 

Men will do things for laughs most women would never dream of. For instance, I’ve never seen or heard of women sneaking up behind someone and pulling their pants down. The last time I did it was 35 years ago. Anthony, who’s not my friend anymore, was wearing loose-fitting beltless short pants and talking to a table full of women in a vegan restaurant. His groin area was precisely level with the top of the table. I squatted down behind him and yanked. What I didn’t know was that Anthony didn’t wear underwear. The women at the table gasped.  I tried apologizing, but he never spoke to me again. Most failed jokes I don’t regret; this one I do.

My wife and I are strong community people, so we get invited to many weddings, bar or bat mitzvahs. A big yuck is when I’d fill a shirt sleeve with a dozen or so pieces of silverware and drop them on the floor in front of our hosts like I did at Paul Reiser’s son’s bar mitzvah. 

My favorite is to write a check for a few million dollars and send it back with the invitation. It’s something Jerry Lewis used to do. Since they all know that I am a comedian, it was always taken in the spirit it was intended, except once when, just like the short pants, this also backfired. 

I was performing on cruise ships when I met a newly married young couple. They were a magic act, but they hated the ships and wanted off. They told me their dream was to save enough money to open a small family restaurant in Mississippi. On the last day of the cruise, we exchanged phone numbers and addresses. A few days later, I wrote a two-million-dollar check and sent it to them as a joke. What I didn’t know was they were born-again Christians. His dad was the first on the phone when they called to thank me for sending them the two million.

His dad said in tears, barely speaking, “Jesus has used you to perform this miracle. God bless you, Mark.” Then he handed the phone to his son.  Again, “God bless you, Mark. We have more good news: Anne is pregnant; we’ve decided to name the baby after you.” With a deep breath and heavy heart, I said, “John, the check is no good. It was a joke. I didn’t know you’d take it seriously.” It got as quiet as if I had just delivered a death sentence. 

“What made you think sending us a phony check would be funny? What’s so funny?” In the background, I heard pregnant Anne, carrying my namesake, softly murmuring, “We’re not opening the restaurant?” They are good people. I hope they forgave me. 

The Jews are a great example of getting laughs through storytelling. But it’s not exclusive to just Jews. The key to telling a funny story and getting laughs is when you tell the story and tell it like you’re trying to talk a cop out of your third speeding ticket in a month. If you enjoy telling the story, tell it with enthusiasm; they will enjoy listening to it, and more than likely, they will laugh. The key is just to be yourself. And trust me, leave the short pants where they are and don’t send bad checks to born-again Christians.


Mark Schiff is a comedian, actor and writer, and hosts, along with Danny Lobell, the “We Think It’s Funny” podcast. His new book is “Why Not? Lessons on Comedy, Courage and Chutzpah.”

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An Education Dilemma

As is their habit, Congress raised almost as many questions as they answered when they passed the nation’s annual budget this month. Buried underneath the headlines about taxes, immigration and Medicaid was a less-noticed provision of the final agreement that could have a profound impact on the future of the Jewish American community.

As part of the budget deal, a congressional majority voted to allow taxpayer dollars to be indirectly used to finance private or religious school tuition for students. While several states have adopted this concept in recent years, this will be the first time that this option will be available throughout the country. 

Historically, most Democrats have fiercely opposed such programs, arguing that they redirect necessary funding from the nation’s public schools. There are pockets of support among traditional left-leaning constituencies, primarily parents from underrepresented communities whose children benefit directly from access to a wider array of educational options. But most advocates of voucher or other school choice proposals tend to be ardent conservatives, often with a strong set of religious beliefs that they believe should be part of their children’s schooling.

Not surprisingly, the preferences of the left-leaning American Jewish community break down along similar lines. The bulk of Orthodox Jews are voucher advocates, while those in the Conservative and Reform movements who comprise the majority of the Jewish population are more wary of the concept. But although most Jews in this country have disagreed with the spread of vouchers in the past, the next decision they will face will be less philosophical and much more tangible. 

Simply put: will those who cannot afford private or parochial school tuition take advantage of the opportunity to provide their own children with a potentially superior education, or instead sacrifice that prospect to make sure that there is additional funding for students whose parents choose to keep them in a public school?

Complicating matters further is the growing belief that a deeper recommitment to Jewish education is one of the most important ways to protect our community in the political and cultural environment that has emerged since the Hamas terrorist attacks of October 2023. Parents who may have once been content to continue their children’s secular learning may now be more tempted to enroll them in a Jewish day school for both educational and cultural reasons – and possibly their emotional and physical safety. 

The budget bill permits each state to decide for itself whether to make the necessary tax break available to their own residents. So it wouldn’t be surprising for New York, California and other deep-blue states with large Jewish populations to choose to opt out. But it’s worth wondering whether Democratic voters with children – Jewish and otherwise – might attempt to pressure their own governors and legislators to participate.

In his book “Why We’re Polarized,” New York Times columnist Ezra Klein argues that voters tend to make policy and political decisions for two distinct reasons. Klein cites research that demonstrates how we make our choices not only based on how a particular policy impacts our lives but also how we want to be perceived by others. Think of this as the distinction between practical decision-making as opposed to expressive decision-making (my terminology, not Klein’s). 

At the core of our Jewish identity is a deep and powerful commitment to education. The common thread that unites us all and defines our history is our justified belief that providing our children with the opportunity to learn is the key to their success and to our survival. 

In 21st-century America, maintaining that conviction has become increasingly complicated. Philosophically, we want every child to have those opportunities. But we also have an understandably overriding interest in ensuring that the schooling of our own daughters and sons is as high-quality as possible. More and more frequently, tensions have emerged between those two laudable goals. Prioritizing which should come first is about to become far more difficult for many of us.

In other words, Jewish parents will soon need to decide whether their ideals come before their own interests – and those of their children.


Dan Schnur is the U.S. Politics Editor for the Jewish Journal. He teaches courses in politics, communications, and leadership at UC Berkeley, USC and Pepperdine. He hosts the monthly webinar “The Dan Schnur Political Report” for the Los Angeles World Affairs Council & Town Hall. Follow Dan’s work at www.danschnurpolitics.com.

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Living Jewish: Asheville’s Mayor Esther Manheimer

When Hurricane Helene struck Asheville, North Carolina, in September 2024, the historic River Arts District was devastated. The French Broad River overflowed, destroying nearly 80% of the studios, galleries and businesses that make Asheville a thriving center for artists. 

More than 300 artists lost their life’s work overnight. Mud and debris covered streets where once vibrant creativity flourished. In the days that followed, with power out, water scarce and national media descending, one calm and steady voice emerged: Mayor Esther Manheimer.

From the outside, it looked like leadership under pressure. For Manheimer, this was simply an extension of the values she has lived her entire life, values deeply rooted in her Jewish upbringing.

Roots of Responsibility

Esther Manheimer’s story begins far from Asheville, shaped by the intertwining threads of two very different family heritages. Her father descended from Detroit’s vibrant Jewish community. Her grandfather was one of eight siblings who built family businesses together while her extended family wove itself into the fabric of Detroit’s Jewish communal life. 

“I grew up immersed in Jewish culture,” Esther reflects, recalling Passover seders, synagogue life and running errands with her aunt to collect trays of gefilte fish stored in car trunks during Michigan winters.

Her mother’s family, by contrast, were early pioneers of the American West, rooted in non-Jewish traditions. Yet it was her mother who ultimately chose to raise Esther and her siblings Jewish, converting later in life and building a home where Shabbat candles were lit, Hebrew school was non-negotiable and summers at Camp Solomon Schechter outside Olympia, Washington, became formative experiences.

“My parents never sat us down to give lectures on values,” Esther says. “They simply lived them.”

Judaism teaches aseh lecha rav, to make for yourself a teacher, and Esther absorbed her first lessons not from rabbis but by observing how her father, a teacher and grant writer, poured himself into projects that uplifted others. 

She recalls how, as a child, her father wrote a grant to help elderly adults record their life stories. “He taught me that meaningful work matters,” she says. “And that stuck.”

The Call to Lead

Manheimer’s journey toward public service began long before she ever imagined herself holding elected office. In college, she led the pro-Israel student organization at the University of Colorado at Boulder, organizing events during the Gulf War and advocating for Israel at a time when few students dared step forward.

“I never thought I was qualified to be an elected official,” she says. “I thought you had to be a genius. But what I learned is that leadership is more about being present, listening and building trust.”

This blend of humility and quiet confidence reflects the teaching from Pirkei Avot, Ethics of the Fathers, which teaches that in a place where there are no leaders, strive to be a leader. Esther did just that, steadily stepping forward, first as an attorney for the North Carolina legislature, then as a city council member and ultimately as Asheville’s mayor.

In many ways, Asheville itself mirrors Esther’s own story. Once a sleepy Southern town, Asheville has blossomed into a thriving haven for artists, musicians and free spirits. On any given weekend, the town square is filled with locals dancing to live music, children running through fountains and artisans selling handmade wares. 

It is one of the few places I have visited where no one is staring at their phone. People are talking, laughing and connecting. This sense of authentic community is precisely what Esther has worked to preserve and protect.

Crisis as Catalyst

Then came Hurricane Helene.

What followed was a masterclass in Jewish leadership, what the Talmud calls hanhagat hamidot, the governance of character.

With power down and communications crippled, Manheimer walked to the local radio station to broadcast updates to residents. From a single government building with working Wi-Fi, she became a national face of the crisis, navigating interviews across media outlets from Fox News to MSNBC.

Each day, she would rise in total darkness, boil small amounts of salvaged water and wash her hair with a bucket before stepping in front of national cameras. “That became my daily ritual before every interview,” she said. “Washing my hair in a bucket with whatever clean water we could find.”

What made this moment even more politically charged was its timing. The flood hit just weeks before the 2024 presidential election. North Carolina was a battleground state. Both parties quickly saw an opportunity to use the disaster as political leverage. “Everyone wanted to help,” Esther recalls, “but they also wanted to claim credit.”

Her diplomatic approach reflects a core Jewish teaching, derech eretz kadma laTorah, decency precedes Torah. The ability to preserve dignity, avoid public embarrassment and maintain relationships even under pressure is one of the highest forms of leadership in Jewish tradition.

Even as the political world swirled around her, with governors, senators and eventually President Biden visiting Asheville, Manheimer stayed focused on the people. Walmart executives called to donate truckloads of supplies. Elon Musk offered to drill emergency wells for local schools. She took every call, said yes to every offer and worked tirelessly to marshal resources.

Her efforts paid off. Asheville secured $225 million in federal Community Development Block Grant Disaster Recovery funds, nearly equivalent to the city’s entire annual budget. An additional $1.4 billion was allocated across the state. FEMA approved extensive rebuilding funds, and under her leadership, nearly all public infrastructure was restored within months.

Tourists are returning and the communities in the damaged areas are enthusiastic to rebuild. 

Leadership Anchored in Values

Throughout our conversation, what strikes me most is Esther’s profound humility. 

“I bristle at the idea that I did anything,” she says, echoing the words of Pirkei Avot that teach it is not your duty to finish the work, but neither are you free to desist from it.

Even in moments of controversy, Manheimer’s Jewish values guided her. When the North Carolina Democratic Party initially declined to recognize the state’s Jewish caucus, she chose not to publicly shame the party but quietly emailed the leadership. 

“There is a Torah teaching that if you embarrass someone publicly, it is as if you have shed their blood,” I told her during our interview. “You lived that value beautifully.”

“I just felt that respectful dialogue would be more effective,” she answered simply.

That respect for others has earned her deep loyalty within Asheville’s Jewish community. “They are my family,” she says. “I know that even when we disagree, they will always support me.”

Building Back Better

As Asheville moves from recovery to renewal, Manheimer’s leadership now extends statewide. Appointed by North Carolina’s newly elected (and first Jewish) Democratic governor, Josh Stein, she co-chairs the bipartisan Western North Carolina Recovery Committee. The scope of her work now stretches far beyond Asheville’s borders, overseeing federal recovery efforts across multiple counties.

The work ahead remains enormous but also unprecedented in its opportunity. 

“We have been given an amount of funding we could never have imagined,” she says. “Now we get to build back better, not just roads and bridges, but affordable housing, parks, businesses and the arts community.”

This is gam zu l’tova in action, the Jewish belief that even from tragedy, good can emerge.

A Mother. A Mayor. A Mensch.

In the middle of our interview, Esther’s phone buzzes. Her husband called to say their teenage son had been in a minor car accident. Calmly, she excuses herself, confirms everyone is safe, and returns without missing a beat.

It is a quiet reminder that even as she carries the weight of public leadership, she remains, first and foremost, a mother, modeling for her sons the very values that have shaped her life.

Jewish leadership, at its core, is not about titles or power. It is about service, humility, responsibility and courage.

Esther’s rabbi, Batsheva Meiri, put it this way: “We love Esther. Like her biblical namesake, she shows up with courage in moments that matter most. Whether leading our city through crisis or standing with her Jewish community, Esther Manheimer brings strength, humility, and heart. She is a blessing to Asheville and to all of us who know her.”

That love is shared across the community. This August, Jewish Family Services of Western North Carolina will honor Mayor Manheimer as the very first recipient of its new Gibbor Community Heroes Award.

“She felt like the perfect person to start with,” said Michael Barnett, executive director of JFS, Western N.C. “Her strength and compassion during Asheville’s hardest moments reminded us what real leadership looks like. In Jewish tradition, we’re taught to honor those who show up in times of crisis, even when it’s hard or unpopular. This award isn’t just about recognition, it’s about inspiring others to lead with courage and remembering to thank the ones who do.”

As I left Asheville, I could not help but feel that Mayor Esther Manheimer embodies precisely what it means to live Jewish, leading not by proclamation, but by quiet, unwavering example.


Audrey Jacobs is a Jewish communal leader, strategic advisor, and TEDx curator, and the mother of three grown sons.

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You Don’t Give, You Don’t Win

You don’t have to be a taker to not be a giver. You just need to be very protective of what you own—especially your time.

The people I know who are givers are not overly protective of their time. They will readily give their time away for things that don’t necessarily bring them a “good time.” It could be a dull fundraiser they promised to attend to please a friend; trekking to a family event to make their parents happy; or offering to run errands for a friend or colleague in need.

There are a million ways to give your time away. Parenting is perhaps the ultimate time stealer. Before a kid leaves the house as an adult, a parent will give away thousands of hours to raising that kid, much of it shlepping in traffic. Of course, the parent will always tell you they’re doing it from the heart, as they should.

Separate from the obvious obligation of raising kids, the people I’ve known who are protective of their time are typically normal, decent people. They’re just extra careful before they give their time away. They have one life to live; time is their most precious resource; so why not have your time belong to you?

The people I know who are not overly protective of their time see things slightly differently. They also have one life to live; time is also their most precious resource; but in their case, why not give some of it away to make others happy?

Of course there are people who can fall in either camp at different times, but in general, I’ve noticed that most people have specific tendencies.

I have a cousin in Miami who I love. His daughter was getting married. My schedule was overloaded, and I had zero interest in trekking through airports to attend an event in thick humidity and fly right back. But I decided to go at the last minute because I knew how happy I’d make my cousin.

But here’s the crazy part. I can’t tell you how happy I felt to have made him so happy. 

Out of curiosity, I googled “why giving makes us happy.” Here’s what AI answered:

“Giving makes us happy because it triggers the release of ‘feel-good’ chemicals in the brain, such as dopamine, serotonin, and oxytocin, which are associated with pleasure, reward, and social connection. This activation of the brain’s reward centers and the resulting positive emotions contribute to a sense of well-being and can even improve physical health by lowering stress and blood pressure.”

When I read that, I almost felt guilty that I subconsciously went to the Miami wedding for my own happiness. Who knew that giving could trigger such pleasure? Who knew that selflessness could be such a “selfish” act?

This is the easy mistake many of us make. We assume that we “win” when we hold on tightly to our time and live life on our terms. That makes sense, but only on the surface.

Being human is rarely that simple. We are a messy bundle of emotions and relationships. We live with hidden needs and desires. When we do the obvious and hold on tightly to our time, we tend to neglect those less obvious needs — like, yes, the need to give some of our time away for others.

People who devote their time for a cause, like volunteering at a soup kitchen or at a home for kids with special needs, are clear and visible givers. Soldiers who risk their lives to protect their country embody the ultimate sacrifice of one’s time. These are time giveaways that are naturally infused with meaning.

But in our everyday lives, there are smaller giveaways that are no less meaningful, like a simple call to a grandmother, a shiva visit to bring comfort to a neighbor, a drive in rush hour to see your niece at a dance recital, hosting kids in your home to make them happy or singing Shabbat songs at a senior home. Those everyday giveaways are also infused with meaning. They’re not random giveaways to a potential abuser; rather, they’re thoughtful gifts of time that bring joy to someone who appreciates it.

And as a happy bonus, they may even trigger some of those “feel good” chemicals!

After dark chocolate, red wine and coffee, this might be one of God’s finest gifts: a life where the happier we make others, the happier we are.

Shabbat shalom.

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The Future Is on Israel’s Side, but the Present is Messy

The Gaza War was always destined to be a uniquely complicated and violent mess.

First, Israel had no choice but to respond ferociously after 1400 of its civilians were brutally murdered, raped, beheaded and abducted on Oct. 7, 2023. At that point, holding back on severely punishing Hamas and regaining deterrence was the last thing on any Israeli’s mind.

Second, Prime Minister Netanyahu, who had long billed himself as Mr. Security and was in power during the monumental breakdown of Oct. 7, was forced into maximalist positions like “destroying Hamas” and “total victory,” positions that, while in sync with an enraged population, were anything but clear and unambiguous and set up the “forever war” dilemma.

Third, the presence of 250-plus hostages and a labyrinth of terror tunnels among two million civilians in Gaza made it impossible for Israel to avoid huge civilian casualties AND fight a war of “total victory.”

And finally, Bibi’s far-right coalition partners, who’ve dreamed of resettling Gaza since the evacuation of 2005, became the #1 stumbling block to any ceasefire–hostage deal, given that it has zero interest in ending the war.

In short, Israel met a perfect storm of factors that led to the deaths of an estimated 50,000 Palestinians, accusations of genocide and arguably the worst stretch of bad press in the country’s history. Sure, Hamas started the war and by using its own people as human shields should be held ultimately responsible for the tragic results of the war. But that context means little when the casualty metrics are so brutal against Israel and much of the world already has it in for the Jewish state.

In a sense, Israel was forced into a nasty trap where a justified war inevitably led to Israel looking like a war criminal, notwithstanding the remarkable military accomplishments against Hamas in the toughest possible terrain.

What is perhaps most galling is that in other danger zones like Lebanon, Syria and Iran, Israel had the exact opposite experiences that it had in Gaza– clean, strategic victories with minimal casualties and international support.

And yet, despite this significantly improved security outlook, Gaza will remain an albatross around Israel’s neck, not least because an end game is still far from view with Hamas determined to survive in any form.

Even assuming we can reach that end game, we can only look forward to the world press re-entering Gaza and reporting on the utter devastation, unleashing yet another avalanche of bad press for Israel and all that entails on college campuses and city streets.

While we can certainly envision a more hopeful future with an expanded Abraham Accords and Israel becoming a crucial resource in a more stabilized region, the violent mess in Gaza will remain a dark spot for Israel for the foreseeable future.

Israel must brace itself. The internal divisions around such fundamental issues as the Haredi draft, the hostage crisis, the judicial reforms and the Gaza end game will only make things worse. And the growing accusations of genocide from around the world will keep Israel under diplomatic siege.

The twin consolations for Israel supporters is to hope for new elections and a governing coalition that doesn’t include extremists, and to remember that the future looks a lot more promising than the present.

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