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March 10, 2021

Dual Loyalty: A Tale As Old As Esther

The holiday of Purim, which we recently celebrated, tells the classic tale of a Jewish queen, who, with the help of her relative, stops a genocide against her people. We often look at this story through the same lens we did as children, likely encouraged by the parties and costumes and cookies.

But when you really think about it, the Book of Esther has many elements that just don’t make sense. For example, Mordecai tells Esther that a decree has been issued to destroy the Jewish people and that now is the time to reveal her identity as a Jew and champion her nation. Esther responds that going to the king unbidden risks the death penalty unless the king holds out his gold scepter.

Esther hadn’t been called to her husband in the past thirty days, and she asks Mordecai to wait until he calls her next, but Mordecai tells her there’s no time to waste. Esther declares a three-day fast and tells her cousin, “If I perish, I perish” (Esther 4:16). We barely have time to fear for our heroine’s life before we are told that she has found favor in Achashverosh’s eyes, and he asks her, “What is your request? Ask even for half of my kingdom and I will give it to you,” (Esther 5:3).

Of course, we know the end of the story, so we don’t question Esther’s actions, but that line seems like the perfect opening to ask the king to spare the Jews’ lives and put Haman to death. Achashverosh just offered Esther half of the known world. Why does Esther delay her request until a dinner party?

In order to understand Esther’s decision, we must learn more about the king. Achashverosh was born to a poor family but worked his way up through the army until he was offered Vashti — the Babylonian king’s daughter — as a bride. That marriage, however, was famously dysfunctional. Vashti loved to remind Achashverosh that he was only king because of his marriage. Achashverosh became obsessed with solidifying his power over Persia and decided the best way to do this would be to get rid of his wife. But he couldn’t just kill the queen.

Persia had a law that a formal decree from the king cannot be reneged and that anyone who openly disobeyed the king should be put to death. On the final night of a one-hundred-and-eighty-day party, Achashverosh decreed “to bring Queen Vashti before the king wearing a royal crown and display her beauty” (Esther 1:11) to everyone present. This demand seems like the result of drunkenness and misogyny, but when you think about how Achashverosh came to power, his request makes a lot of sense. Either Vashti agrees, publicly submitting to his power, or she doesn’t, thereby securing death. Vashti, of course, refused and was killed, giving Achashverosh all the power.

In addition to his obsession with power, Achashverosh had an obsession with the Jewish people. The Me’am Lo’ez explains that while Achashverosh was still married to Vashti, an astrologer told him that a Jew would succeed him. He thought this meant that the Jews would rebel against him and usurp the throne, rather than the fact that his future son (with Esther) would become king. As a result of Achashverosh’s obsession, Esther conceals her identity to suggest that she has no allegiances to anyone but the king himself.

Esther faces the same dilemma that Diaspora Jews have faced throughout exile. How can she prove herself to be a good and loyal Persian while protecting her own people? That dilemma is why, instead of asking upfront for the king to spare her people, Esther feigns shyness and submission. She sets up a plot to make Haman’s death decree seem like an affront to the throne rather than to the Jewish people, arguing that Haman was trying to take away the king’s beloved wife as well as Mordecai, the man who saved Achashverosh from an assassination plot.

Haman’s accusation against the Jews also plays a role in Esther’s decision. When Haman asks Achashverosh for permission to destroy the Jews, instead of mentioning them by name, he says, “There is a certain nation, scattered and dispersed among the other nations in all the provinces of your kingdom, whose laws are different from any other nation and who do not obey the king’s laws and it is not in Your Majesty’s interest to tolerate them” (Esther 3:8). Haman’s covert accusation was that Jews’ loyalties lay with their own people, rather than with the government.

Haman’s plot comes directly after Mordecai refused to prostrate himself before Haman, in violation of Persian law. This rivalry actually predated the bowing incident; when Haman and Mordecai were both generals in the king’s army, Haman sold himself as a slave to Mordecai after he foolishly wasted all of his soldiers’ supplies. Simply put, Haman’s accusation of dual loyalty was a cover for his own insecurities.

Dual loyalty, unfortunately, is an anti-Semitic conspiracy that still persists to this day. The Anti-Defamation League found that 44% of Americans agree with the statement that Jews stick together more than other Americans, 24% agreed that they are more likely to be loyal to Israel than to America and 12% agreed that Jews do not care what happens to anyone but their own kind. Worldwide surveys produced an even more frightening response, with an estimated 41% of respondents believing that Jews hold more loyalty to Israel than to their own respective countries.

Dual loyalty, unfortunately, is an anti-Semitic conspiracy that still persists to this day.

In American politics, we find Haman reaching out of his grave to reaffirm his disgusting theories. In 2019, when senators worked to combat the anti-Semitic Boycott, Divestment and Sanctions (BDS) movement, Congresswoman Rashida Tlaib wrote, “they forgot what country they represent.” When President Joe Biden appointed Anthony Blinken, a Jewish man, as secretary of state, Tlaib rushed to tweet, “So long as he doesn’t suppress my First Amendment right to speak out against Netanyahu’s racist and inhumane policies. The Palestinian people deserve equality and justice.” Apparently she forgot what country she represents, considering she couldn’t stand to see a Jewish man appointed to office without immediately making it about Palestine.

Similarly, in 2019, we saw Congresswoman Ilhan Omar’s famous “It’s all about the Benjamins, baby” tweet, which caused outrage in the Jewish community for its charge of dual loyalty and for reaffirming the trope that all Jews control the world’s finances. One cannot help but be reminded of Haman’s accusation against the Jewish people to Achashverosh.

Before the story in the Megillah, Haman had worked to prevent the rebuilding of the Beit HaMikdash (The Holy Temple) — which would signal the Jews’ ability to return to the Land of Israel — because, he alleged, they would rebel and refuse to pay taxes (Ezra 4:7-16). There is an obvious parallel between the Biblical anti-Semites preventing Jews from returning to their homeland and the ones within our government who aim to do the same.

Haman’s death decree instructed the people of the Persian empire “to destroy, massacre, and exterminate all the Jews… and to plunder their possessions” (Esther 3:13). Rather than the concentration camps of the Holocaust or torture chambers of the Inquisition, Haman knew the best way to get rid of the Jews would be to allow the general population to do it themselves. Jew-haters were given permission to come out of the shadows and act upon their bigotry from the day the decree was issued until the day it went into effect eleven months later. Without access to their homeland and their Temple, Jews were perceived as a weak, easy target. Fortunately, we proved them wrong, but the lesson stands: Anti-Zionism provides a cover and a means for people to express their anti-Semitic views.

Anti-Semitism is a nonsensical monster that is born out of insecurity and baseless hatred. It shapeshifts from generation to generation, but its root never changes. The Megillah allows us to identify this beast and teaches us how to destroy it: through Jewish unity. Haman’s allegation of our being dispersed and scattered was negated as soon as the Jews came together in fast, prayer and self-defense.

We can fight the Hamans of today by coming together in the same way. Remember what Amalek did to you on the way, when you were leaving Egypt. You shall blot out the memory of Amalek from under Heaven. Do not forget.


Hila Oz moved to Israel 7 months ago from Los Angeles after graduating from UCLA, and she’s currently an activist and educator. Follow on her Twitter @toteskosh.

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Why the Question of Whether Jews Are White Is Getting Increasingly Loaded

Are Jews white? This question keeps appearing in different forms within Jewish communities and in broader circles of society. It is often driven by news: from controversy surrounding a recent BBC (non-Jewish) panel debate about whether Jews should be considered an ethnic minority, to uproar about Gal Gadot playing Cleopatra in an upcoming movie, to heavily publicized battles over California’s Ethnic Studies Model Curriculum.

Implications of whether Jews are white and related questions about Jewish societal power and influence bear upon a number of important aspects of Jewish life. Their impact extends to Jewish inclusion in intersectional organizing and to the perceived legitimacy of Jewish claims of vulnerability or discrimination (including regarding the Jewish state). More fundamentally, they can undermine the right of Jews to self-define framing the Jewish experience according to concepts and language that reflect the unique nature of Jewish vulnerability, including that it tracks differently from other dominant experiences of oppression.

Questions of Jewish whiteness and Jewish oppression arise in the context of today’s contemporary progressive discourse, which is centered on skin color- and class-based conceptual categories and oriented to radical change. It has increasingly affected the way Jewish communities and agendas are positioned within progressive circles and on the broader left.

Within contemporary progressive discourse evolves a new strain of an old threat: “erasive anti-Semitism.” Whereas recent anti-Semitism on the left most directly posed a threat to pro-Israel agendas, erasive anti-Semitism also extends to U.S. Jewish communal ones. It threatens not only the Jewish national collective but also the broad Jewish collective. At stake is the very right to define Jewish identity, experience and vulnerability.

Within contemporary progressive discourse evolves a new strain of an old threat: “erasive anti-Semitism.” At stake is the very right to define Jewish identity, experience and vulnerability.

What is erasive anti-Semitism? In a soon-to-be-published Reut report (of which I am lead author), we build upon a concept coined by author Ben Freeman to describe a de-facto undermining of Jewish narrative self-determination. It is a “by-product” of a conceptual mismatch that occurs when contemporary progressive paradigms meet the Jewish experience, evident when Jewish identities and agendas are challenged within, and excluded from, progressive movements and discourse.

Importantly, erasive anti-Semitism does not necessarily feed on hatred; rather, it is sustained by an acceptance of prevalent framing on the progressive left. Its main disseminators are not anti-Semites, despite engaging in acts of erasive anti-Semitism. At the same time, there is a marginal fringe that purposefully advances anti-Jewish and anti-Israel agendas utilizing its tenets, and continues to amass influence on the left. They are able to exploit contemporary progressive paradigms to challenge Jewish inclusion and support for Jewish and pro-Israel agendas on the left.

But the potency of erasive anti-Semitism’s threat lies in a tricky loop it sets off: Being designated as a “white oppressor” means you don’t get to define the terms of conversations, the pertinent features defining your identity or the priority level your perceived vulnerability receives. It confers upon its bearer an implicit obligation to renounce the right to contest it.

Progressive circles often identify the Jewish experience as uniformly part of, or disproportionately responsible for, oppressive power structures that the progressive movement is fighting against. As a result, the Jewish right to narrative self-determination — and ability to challenge or contribute to shaping Jewish positioning in progressive paradigms — can effectively be confiscated.

This framework risks neutralizing Jewish voices on Jewish and pro-Israel agendas, challenging the legitimacy of Jewish advocacy for individual or collective Jewish security and against discrimination. Within progressive frameworks, Jewish collectives and individuals can implicitly or explicitly be expected, by acknowledging their privilege and power status, to renounce claims of prejudice, discrimination or insecurity experienced individually or collectively.

The good news is that questions such as “Are Jews white?” do keep coming up and are opening important conversations. This provides us with the chance to assert ownership over Jewish self-definition — which may not always fit neatly in dominant conceptual categories — within progressive discourse.  

The question provides us with the chance to assert ownership over Jewish self-definition.

Currently, these conversations remain at the stage of causing confusion. Dividing Jews on the basis of these conceptual categories generates rancor within Jewish communities, exacerbates tensions around the role of race within Jewish communities and threatens the basis of connection between world Jewry and Israel — the notion of Jewish peoplehood.

Now is the time for a more focused inter- and intra-communal dialogue. We do not have to answer whether Jews are white but seek to understand what this dominant framing means to Jewish identity, empowerment and ability to self-define externally.

From this dialogue, bold, progressive Jewish leadership can guide a process aiming to describe and combat erasive anti-Semitism: applying a broadly shared understanding of what it looks like and ensuring that Jews have the right, like other societal groups, to define their own experience. Doing so offers an opportunity not only to re-assert Jewish voices on the broader left, it can also introduce a more fundamental conversation about Jewish identity and Jewish peoplehood amidst the disruptive period we inhabit.


Daphna Kaufman is an independent consultant in research, communications, and strategy, and is the lead author of Reut’s report on the emerging threat posed by erasive anti-Semitism. The full Reut report characterizing the erasive anti-Semitism threat and offering response guideline was initiated and commissioned by the Julis Foundation for Multi-Disciplinary Thinking and will be published in the coming days and be accessible here.

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Israel and the Diaspora: The Big Bet on Jewish Peoplehood in the Twenty-First Century

There’s an ever-growing understanding within the Jewish world that we are approaching a point of no return in the gap between Israel and Diaspora Jewry. Recently, the fallout in this battle can be seen in American Jews’ erosion of identity and solidarity with Israel and Israeli Jews’ rising nationalism and resistance to pluralism.

No doubt both communities harbor grievances towards the other. To overcome this existential threat to our unity, many individuals have created initiatives to bridge the distrust between American and Israeli Jewry. The Israeli government’s recent initiative — a formal consultation process between Israeli decision-makers and representatives from Jewish communities, organizations and institutions on matters relating to Diaspora Jews — is just the latest example. These efforts are primarily based on the belief that educating the other side of their respective worldviews can break down these barriers and strengthen critical ties.

But all these well-meaning attempts have left us on opposite sides of the canyon. The reality is that we may not be facing an educational challenge; instead, we face an infrastructural challenge. And should we fail to confront this challenge, we could have two vastly different Jewish peoplehood experiences that pay lip service to a shared unity yet remain apart.

Separate Spheres

The destruction of European Jewry and the declaration of Israeli independence defined these two dueling experiences in the 20th century. The Israeli epicenter of Judaism was constructed through a new national political enterprise and a rapidly expanding economy and social sector. The American epicenter’s growth was built primarily within voluntary communal institutions, both locally and nationally.

Inevitably, growing these two epicenters required building intricate institutional networks to communicate between the two: Jewish Federations, the Jewish Agency, Keren Hayesod, the World Jewish Congress, the World Zionist Organization, JNF, and many more. Challenges aside, these two epicenters seemed to function in sync with one another during the second half of the twentieth century.

However, each side had a very different survival mechanism. For Israel, survival in the Middle East required building a strong, independent nation that relied on a powerful defense force, a vibrant economy, and a cohesive social infrastructure. On the other hand, within an American society that demanded assimilation to achieve acceptance, the Jewish community depended on pluralism to find meaning and strength.

For Israel, survival in the Middle East required building a strong, independent nation. On the other hand, within an American society that demanded assimilation to achieve acceptance, the Jewish community depended on pluralism to find meaning and strength.

These survival strategies should have served as means to specific critical goals not ends in themselves. Yet this is precisely how the two sides now relate to each other: the inability of American Jews to fully understand the nationalism within Israeli society and Israelis’ failure to understand contemporary American Jewry’s pluralism.

As the chasm between the two communities widened, Diaspora Jewry’s funding and lobbying have aimed to “show the light” of exceptionalism, universalism, and pluralism to Israel. Many Israeli leaders have shown little reverence for the Diaspora’s involvement in their national affairs — but they rely on those personal relationships to placate any discontent abroad and leverage as much political and financial support as possible.

Adding to this dysfunction is the fact that legacy Jewish organizations still insist that communication between Diaspora Jews and Israelis must pass through them, even though their roles have become increasingly irrelevant. Post-World War II Zionism was about the creation of a state struggling to survive in a post-Holocaust era: raising desperately-needed funds and providing political support for the young Jewish State’s survival.

However, 21st century Zionism needs to be about growing a vibrant Jewish state that competes economically and culturally on an international scale. Federations and traditional Jewish organizations struggle with the grassroots contact now possible in the contemporary world. Rather than accepting greater possibilities for authentic bottom-up, peer-to-peer interaction, these institutions respond with increasingly top-heavy resistance and paternalism as defense mechanisms to protect against their decline. Witness, for instance, how their governing bodies have been painfully slow in opening up to alternative voices and next-generation leadership.

The policymakers and funders who constructed and commanded these two separate epicenters, once so intricately tied together within the twentieth century, now are the very guardians of the twenty-first-century divide.

Bridging the Gap

What can American Jewish funders of Israel do to help overcome this malaise? First, we need organizations that don’t impose their view of the world on the other side. Second, we need them to help build new initiatives, new models of education and new experiences for young people that eliminate the divide, not just cross over it.

Many significant initiatives, such as Birthright, MASA, Onward and others, genuinely engage both communities into a greater acceptance of one another. However, these initiatives will never fully succeed in overcoming the divide unless world Jewry’s institutional infrastructure is rapidly reconstructed for the 21st century.

We need new entities that embrace the diversity of the Jewish life with Israel at its center. Israel must be accepted as the leading community in the Jewish world, the key to our future growth and vibrancy as a people. New organizations need to systemically integrate and bring those epicenters into concert with one another.

We need new entities that embrace the diversity of the Jewish life with Israel at its center.

We should start by redirecting our legacy organizations’ missions towards a unified approach to global Jewish peoplehood. Despite our appreciation for the great cultures of Diaspora Jewry, we must embrace Israel’s growing leadership as the nucleus of world Jewry and adjust our institutions to reflect that leadership. The Jewish Community Center movement, for example, must show far more contemporary Israeli and Hebrew productions and fewer reruns of Fiddler on the Roof on their stages. And Federations must integrate Israeli leadership into their systems, rather than just providing financial and political support.

For its part, the Israeli government’s efforts to engage world Jewry cannot be based on merely going back to the legacy institutions that have not adapted to the times. The Israeli government and Jewish funders abroad must open new doors to those not yet at the table. Participation of Diaspora Jewry through a formal mechanism within Israel’s political structure must occur within a spirit of genuine acceptance and not just lip service for short-term political gain. Currently, Minister of Diaspora Affairs Omer Yankelevich has suggested requiring the Israeli government to consult world Jewish leaders on issues it deems crucial to Diaspora Jews. (It remains to be seen what exactly that process will be and how likely it would be implemented.)

Political advocacy and well-meaning dialogue alone will not satisfy the needs of  the next generation of Jews living outside of Israel. The modern world depends on genuine people-to-people connections, specifically focused on healthy cultural vibrancy. That means promoting Hebrew as the common language of our people, the same way Yiddish sustained the Diaspora in the early part of the twentieth century. That also means supporting community-based networks that promote contemporary Israeli popular culture in music, the arts, literature, fashion, food, wine, and film to revitalize flagging Jewish identity amongst young Jews abroad.

These changes are the keys to our future as one people. This is the “Big Bet” on Jewish Peoplehood, and a new generation of visionaries, leaders, politicians, funders, and institutions will need to rise and meet the challenge.


Ted Sokolsky is the former CEO of UJA Federation of Greater Toronto and consultant to the Jewish Agency for Israel.

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