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June 25, 2015

Local nonprofits work to turn veteran houses into homes

They say it’s what’s inside that counts. Heidi Bendetson knows this better than most.

As founder of the nonprofit interior design company Designed From the Heart, the Marina Del Rey native recently led a project to furnish 73 subsidized homes in San Pedro for homeless female veterans with children. 

The housing complex, known as Blue Butterfly Village and developed by Volunteers of America (VOA), attracted a group of political heavyweights May 5 to commemorate its opening. Los Angeles Mayor Eric Garcetti was joined by City Councilmember Joe Buscaino, Reps. Ted Lieu and Janice Hahn, U.S. Secretary of Veterans Affairs Robert McDonald — and Bendetson, of course.

“Heidi took it to another level,” said Nicole Pratt, director of VOA Los Angeles. “She really made these homes rich and beautiful and special.”

Bendetson and her nonprofit took $4,200 in funding per home from VOA — enough to provide only the bare necessities — and found a way to equip each home with kitchenware, small appliances and functional home décor, in addition to furnishings.

“We had a very small budget, nothing extravagant whatsoever,” Bendetson said. “We had specifics that we needed, and then we went above and beyond because we really related to this community.”

Bendetson said each home has at least $10,000 worth of furnishings and accessories. 

“They came in with this base budget, they were able to get donations from friends and family and corporations, and they built on that tremendously,” Pratt said. “It became a beautiful community of individualized homes instead of just transition housing.”

Pratt said she reached out to Bendetson two years ago after hearing about her 2011 redesign of Culver City’s Beit T’Shuvah addiction treatment facility. Beit T’Shuvah did not give Bendetson any money, but she still raised over $500,000 and oversaw the redesign of 43 rooms. 

Pratt said she hoped Bendetson would be ready to expand the scope of her philanthropy.

“I had been working on this project for a while,” Pratt said. “When I met with her, she had never done anything of this scale, so it was very pioneering for the two of us. It was the perfect fit.”

One of the first things Bendetson said she did when she signed on to the project was call around to get people to donate their time and design a home. She ended up getting more than 125 volunteer decorators. 

“Most of them are not professional designers,” she said. “They are people like myself who aren’t designers by accreditation. I knew that most of these people have very good taste and have made homes for their families, and I knew they would be up to the task.”

Annette Shapiro is one of the volunteers who worked with Bendetson. She said she cherished the opportunity to provide a home for someone who served in the military. She added that while everyone worked hard on their assigned home, Bendetson is the one responsible for the whole project coming together. 

“If it wasn’t for her, these houses would never have been decorated the way they were,” Shapiro said. “It’s unbelievable. It is really unbelievable. She worked very, very hard.”

Bendetson admitted she and many of the volunteers didn’t know a population of homeless veteran mothers existed until they started this project. But she credited the people who helped her design homes with creating a positive energy around the project.

“They heard there was a call, they found the situation absolutely appalling, and the community of volunteers snowballed because everyone wanted to be a part of this,” she said. 

Blue Butterfly Village was completed in February, but so far the only families who have moved in are the four families who moved in on May 5, according to Pratt and Bendetson. Pratt said multiple government agencies are making it complicated to move families into the homes, but she expects to have the majority of the homes occupied by the end of July. 

Bendetson said she is frustrated by the red tape and wants her homes to be filled as soon as possible.

“These people are in dire straits,” she said. “A lot of these people feel very forgotten by our population, and we made them not invisible. We tried to make them realize that people care.” 

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It’s Time to Confront Campus Anti-Semitism—Not to Hide Behind Excuses for Not Defining It

The Students for Justice in Palestine (SJP) was founded at UC Berkeley and is perversely active at UCLA where it has spearheaded an attempt to purge, Joe McCarthy fashion, Jews with whom it disagrees about Israel from campus political life. SJP has been investigated and sanctioned across the country for cursing Jewish students who dare to wear a yarmulke, targeting Jewish dorm residents with “eviction notices,” and setting up campus “check points” to hassle Jews who walk to and from class.

This sordid and troubling reality is of only passing interest to Kenneth S. Stern. Instead, Mr. Stern in the pages of the Los Angeles Jewish Journal prefers to ask: “Should a Major University System Have a Particular Definition of Anti-Semitism?” Mr. Stern’s answer is that universities like the UC System, whose Board of Regents is considering adopting the State Department’s definition of anti-Semitism, should not only reject a particular definition: they should adopt no definition at all. Apparently, the manifestations of campus anti-Semitism frighten Mr. Stern less than the prospect of adopting a definition of anti-Semitism on campus, much less doing something significant about it.

What is Mr. Stern’s perfect model of a university regent or administrator? Certainly not a profile in courage. More like Major Major in Joseph Heller’s Catch 22 who, promoted to his rank by an IBM computer glitch, jumps out his rear window whenever anyone comes into his office urging that he take action on a real problem.

Mr. Stern, who claims partial pride of authorship for the European Monitoring Centre’s “working definition” that the U.S. State Department followed, apparently believes that denouncing anti-Semitism abroad is fine, but that silence and inaction about its everyday manifestations on today’s campuses are the better part of valor. To be charitable, let’s say that Mr. Stern is profoundly out of touch with the actual experience of anxiety and humiliation that half of Jewish college students feel for no other reason that they proudly affirm being Jewish, according to a recent poll.

Again to be charitable, Mr. Stern is like a Rip Van Winkle who fell asleep under a German campus oak in 1922, and then woke in 1932—but failed to understand that the situation was fundamentally changing for Jews for whom pleas for “empathy,” “nuance,” and more colloquia on anti-Semitism were no longer effective. We need to act before a similar situation eventuates in the U.S. Of course, we are not there yet, but the ominous signs are there to be seen by anyone who does not share Mr. Stern’s comforting illusions that American campuses are the same hospitable place for self-respecting Jewish students that they once were.

Of course, Mr. Stern wants more academic discussion of anti-Semitism—or perceived anti-Semitism—on campus. He just doesn’t want to define it as an existential threat to a whole generation of Jews: much less join those on the front line combatting it. U.S. Supreme Court Justice Potter Stewart famously remarked that he could not define pornography, but that he knew it when he saw it. I am not so sure the same can be said about Mr. Stern and comprehending campus anti-Semitism. Make no mistake about it, those of us who support the Regents’ adoption of the State Department’s definition recognizing anti-Zionist advocacy of Israel’s extinction as the twenty-first century cutting edge of anti-Semitism do not seek to ban free speech on campus or infringe on “academic freedom.” But we believe that speech itself is itself an act, as is silence, and that those who fail to take an unambiguous stand against campus anti-Semitism in its most toxic current manifestations will be judged harshly by history as wafflers and temporizers with evil, not as the free speech paragons they imagine themselves.

The Boycott, Divestment, and Sanctions (BDS) Movement uses anti-Israel invective, not only to make a point, but to instill fear in order to silence Jewish students who disagree. In fact, anti-Israel activists repeatedly harass and single out Jewish students regardless of their positions or involvement with Israel-related issues. At UC Santo Cruz last semester, anti-Israel activists protested a Hillel event hosted for the LGBT community. This is anti-Semitism. To say that we shouldn’t stand in solidarity Jewish students by correctly identifying anti-Semitism as it manifests on campuses today is flat out wrong. Our sons and daughters shouldn’t be forced to defend themselves, their identities and/or their religion under the guise of “political protest.” They should be able to go to college and get an education, unhampered by this type of targeted harassment and intimidation. There will be no escaping the consequences of inaction. Are our young people on campus mature enough on campus to contend with political protests about Israel like any other country in the world? Absolutely. But their identity and rights need to be protected against attempts to use anti-Israel advocacy as a thin disguise to harass, intimidate, and silence Jewish students in ways that would not be tolerate against LGBT or African American students, for example. At the very least, campus anti-Semites should be called out for what they say and do. Jewish students should not face being attacked, targeted, demonized and harassed during campus political brawls without any administrative condemnation of anti-Semitism when it occurs.

We do not pre-judge where criticism of Israel crosses the line into anti-Semitic invective against Jews and the Jewish state, a UN member state. We merely insist that there is such a line that needs to be drawn, and that Mr. Stern is wrong to try to finesse it out of existence. And here we offer some common sense rules.

If there is a LGBT rally on campus, and a protest against legalizing LGBT marriage includes signs saying, “From Sea to Shining Sea, No Gays in America Will I See”—that crosses a line. If there is an anti-Israel rally with signs saying, “From the River to the Sea, Palestine Will be Free Of Jews”—that crosses a line. To ignore when clear lines are crossed in any society is not only foolish, it is the most dangerous course to take. Our society and especially our schools have an obligation to call out bigotry, hatred, and any form of racism as it occurs. Condemnation is our weapon against bigotry. It does not mean the student with the bigoted sign gets punished for carrying the sign. Free speech is essential to this society and we are very strong free speech advocates. What condemnation means is that the racist student gets called out on his/her bigotry by those in a position to do so. It means administrators no longer stay silent when Jewish students are openly and unabashedly targeted for discrimination. It means our sons and daughters can walk away with a well-rounded educational experience and not an endorsed anti-Semitic experience when they look back on their college years.

Nor do we advocate that college students be cocooned in “hurt free” zones. Yet if Mr. Stern wants no- holds-barred campus politics without any rules recognizing common decency and human rights, he ought to come out and endorse the untrammeled right of campus speakers to defame and stigmatize students on the basis on race or gender or sexual orientation. Why is it that the only students who seem to have no right to be protected on campus against defamation and hate speech are Jews? Why is it only hate speech against Jews and Israel gets a free pass on free speech grounds without university authorities hardly taking notice? Free speech rights should not be violated, but this is no excuse for failing to characterize anti-Semitic hate speech for what it is.

Will the BDS Movement be labeled anti-Semitic under the State Department definition? Not unless the BDS Movement urges that the Jewish people, alone among all the world’s peoples, be denied their right to self-determination and survival. Comparing Jews to Nazis—or worse than Nazis—vilifying Jewish students wearing Magen Davids as “Zio-Nazis,” telling Jewish faculty and students to “go back to the ovens,” and desecrating in dorms the Mezuzah or flags of Israel. All these should be investigated and condemned if proven to have happened. Our common goal should be to discourage, not encourage, discrimination in our colleges and universities.

For the UC Regents to adopt the State Department’s definition of anti-Semitism will be an important step in the right direction.

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Entering the Promised Land: The Blessing and Curse of Memory.

You arrive at my office with your fiancé.  You have never traveled together.  You sit on a sofa and I turn off the lights.  The projector shows the two of you dining in Paris, climbing Everest, crossing the Nile, zip-lining in Africa, paragliding in Australia.  As you walk out, these become permanent shared memories.

This scenario, which sounds like science fiction, may become possible one day.  Meanwhile, we do this type of programming to our children when we speak of departed relatives.  We construct and reconstruct memories for those around us through tales, and for ourselves through the application of selective memory to a complicated past.

“Your uncle was a great man.  Once, he saved a woman who was about to jump to her death from a skyscraper by talking to her. He was generous and donated to Leukemia and Lymphoma Society regularly.”

Our lives are messy, our memories muddy.  Memory can be changed and updated like a page of Wikipedia- by us and by others.

“Your father was a lousy drunk.  He never cared for you and left us in poverty.”  A few words, at the right time, can define an entire life and influence how we treat others.

In the Torah, Numbers 20:14-16, Moses appeals to Edom's compassion based on family ties, so that the Hebrews can enter The Promised Land.  But the wrong memories are elicited, causing anger over kindness. 

On a macro level, there are those who wish to rewrite history.  Pulitzer Prize winner and historian James McPherson describes the importance of historical revisionism:  “…revision is the lifeblood of historical scholarship. History is a continuing dialogue between the present and the past. Interpretations of the past are subject to change in response to new evidence, new questions asked of the evidence, new perspectives gained by the passage of time. There is no single, eternal, and immutable “truth” about past events and their meaning.”

Deborah Lipstadt, Emory professor of Jewish and Holocaust studies, makes the distinction between revisionism and denial. She argues that Holocaust deniers such as Harry Elmer Barnes hide under pretence of revisionism to obscure their denialism. Legitimate revisionism, Lipstadt notes, requires the refinement of existing knowledge about a historical event, not the denial of the event itself.  When we declare “Never forget,” there is a presumption that we can.  When the last survivor dies, it will be up to us to tell their stories and allow them to live on.

In Alzheimer’s disease, the loss of memory first appears as a jokingly dismissive behavior and grows to mistrust as the patient loses the mind’s compass.  He becomes like a ship in a stormy night, without a lighthouse.  Panic sets in.  On the opposite spectrum, individuals with hyperthymesia can recall almost every day of their lives in near perfect detail, reliving memories through vivid depiction of the date in their head, without hesitation or conscious effort. 

Biologically, memory serves to avoid touching a hot stove twice, avoiding a burn.  Taken to an extreme, such memory causes paralysis.  Taking risks is essential to growth.  Our lives are full of mistakes.  Perhaps it is easier to forgive than to forget.  Yet forgetting is such a blessing.  It is what allows the mother to proceed with the next pregnancy, despite the pain.  Forgetting also frees the slave from an anchor, allowing him to fly again. 

Repeatedly, God reminds us that He brought us out of Egypt and slavery- effectively saying “remember I took you out of slavery so that you can walk to true freedom, not return to that comfortable, familiar place.”  Rabbi Shai Held writes “When you are settled in your land, people who are hungry and exhausted may come looking for help.  Treat them not as you yourselves were treated, but as you would have wanted to be treated.  It would be all too easy for the past to teach you brutality; let it teach you kindness instead.”

“Collect memories, not things” we say.  But memories can both warm us on a lonely night and tear us to pieces when misused.  We don’t remember the past as it was; we remember it as we are.  Even in memory, we have a choice to use the filter of optimism over harsh judgment, the filter of love over fear, the filter of kindness over cruelty.   How we decide to remember our past, our parents, our friends, our country of birth, our history, can be a blessing or a curse both to ourselves and to our children. 

For most of life, what matters is not what happens but how we remember it.

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Moving and shaking: ‘Mad Men’ Day, Jewish World Watch and more

The City of Los Angeles declared June 17 “ ‘Mad Men’ Day” and honored the popular television show’s creator, Matt Weiner, during a ceremony at City Hall.

City Councilmember Paul Krekorian, whose office led the proceedings, welcomed Weiner and more than 20 members of the show’s cast and crew, including “Mad Men” producer Erin Levy, and presented Weiner, who was dressed in a sharp, gray suit, with an award on behalf of the city.

Much of the AMC show, set among the Madison Avenue ad firms of the 1960s, was filmed in Los Angeles and created jobs in the city, which has seen other producers take their projects elsewhere as a way to keep down production costs. Weiner, holding back tears, said the architecture of historic Los Angeles buildings inspires him. He called the city his muse and said he was thankful to the city officials for “not throwing the entire past away to [land] developers.”

Members of Weiner’s family, including his son, Marten, who starred on the show, were also in attendance. The final episode of “Mad Men” aired this past May after seven seasons.

Several L.A. City Councilmembers addressed Weiner and his fellow honorees, including Mike BoninPaul KoretzHerb Wesson and Tom LaBonge. A brief montage of footage of the show screened before the award ceremony, which began around 10 a.m. and lasted approximately 20 minutes.


Bill Bernstein assumed the position of executive director at Jewish World Watch (JWW) on June 15, succeeding interim executive director Patti Koltnow, who had held the job since Michael Jeser, the organization’s previous full-time executive director, departed in January.

Bill Bernstein is the new executive director of Jewish World Watch. Photo courtesy of Jewish World Watch

In a statement, Janice Kamenir-Reznik, co-founder and president of JWW, welcomed the new hire to an organization that is committed to fighting mass atrocities worldwide. He joins a staff of six people who work out of the organization’s offices in Encino and brings experience that includes time working as chief development officer at the social justice-minded Liberty Hill Foundation.

“As we continue to grow, Bill Bernstein’s leadership and experience will be a tremendous asset for Jewish World Watch,” Kamenir-Reznik said in a statement.

It was the late Valley Beth Shalom Rabbi Harold Schulweis, co-founder of JWW with Kamenir-Reznik in 2004, who said that the Jewish post-Holocaust commitment to “never again” obligates the community to fight against genocide in countries such as Sudan and the Democratic Republic of Congo. The organization’s programs include the Solar Cooker Project, which offers women in Africa, who can be susceptible to violence while collecting firewood, an alternative means of cooking.


The Orthodox Union (OU) West Coast region honored Ralphs Grocery Co. during its annual awards banquet on June 16 at Sephardic Temple Tifereth Israel in Westwood.

The supermarket chain received the OU Kashrut National Leadership Award in recognition of the three Kosher Experience sections that have opened in Ralphs stores in the Los Angeles area as well as the longstanding partnership between Ralphs products and the OU, which describes itself as “the world’s largest kosher certification program.”

 

From left: Orthodox Union (OU) Rabbi Reuven Nathanson, Ralphs President Donna Giordano, Ralphs deli/bakery merchandiser Liz Wilson and Rabbi Alan Kalinsky, director of the OU West Coast region. Photo courtesy of Orthodox Union

Kendra Doyel, vice president of public relations and government affairs for Ralphs, and Rabbi Alan Kalinsky, director of the OU West Coast region, were among those who offered praised for the relationship between the two entities.

“The icing on the cake for us is the OU supervision, which is the best in the industry, for our counters,” Doyel said in a statement. 

“We are very proud of the relationship we have with Ralphs, as its corporate values mesh very closely with the values that guide the OU as well,” Kalinsky said.


Temple Adat Elohim of Thousand Oaks has hired Rabbi Andrew Straus as its new spiritual leader after a “lengthy international search,” according to a press release.

“I am honored to join Temple Adat Elohim as the 48-year-old congregation’s newest rabbi,” Straus, an ordinee of Hebrew Union College-Jewish Institute of Religion, said in a statement. “I am dedicated to continuing its vibrant tradition of lifelong learning, social justice and profound desire to make Reform Judaism accessible for all who seek its embrace.”

Rabbi Andrew Straus is the new spiritual leader of Temple Adat Elohim. Photo courtesy of Temple Adat Elohim

Straus, who begins in the position July 1, previously served as interim rabbi at Central Synagogue in New York City; as senior rabbi at Temple Sinai in Oakland, Calif.; and as the spiritual leader of Temple Emanuel of Tempe, Ariz.

Interim Senior Rabbi Barry Diamond will be leaving and joining Agudas Achim Congregation in Coralville, Iowa. Meanwhile, Adat Elohim Rabbi Rebecca L. Dubowe, who is the rabbinate’s first female deaf rabbi and has served at Adat Elohim for the past 18 years, “will be moving to the next stage of her rabbinate,” the release said.

“The temple has decided to change from two rabbis to one rabbi,” Adat Elohim President-elect Peggy Frank said in an email. 

Moving and Shaking highlights events, honors and simchas. Got a tip? Email ryant@jewishjournal.com

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How a bunch of Hollywood Jews saved youth baseball in South Los Angeles

“Oh! Oh! That’s my baby! Right there! He’s catching it!” Bridgette Harper called out as her son, Dillen, 11, stood at shortstop, glove in the air, his eyes on the baseball plummeting toward him. Notwithstanding his mom’s confidence, it was evident Dillen had misjudged the pop fly as he stumbled backward, trying to adjust at the last second. The ball missed his glove, fell behind him and rolled into shallow center field.

But suddenly, in a typical — and typically entertaining — youth baseball misjudgment, the runner didn’t stop at first base. He tried to extend his fortune, heading to second. Dillen quickly recovered from the misplay, scooped up the ball and threw it to the second baseman, who caught the toss, turned, and applied the tag just in time. Out!

“He got him!” Harper yelled. “All right, Dillen!”

Dillen and his team, the Mariners, were playing on a beautiful, sunny, 75-degree afternoon in mid-June on the immaculately groomed fields at Jesse Owens Park. It was a perfect day for youth baseball in South Los Angeles. 

Four teams in the Hollywood Indies Little League (HILL), which comprises kids ranging in age from 5 to 16, were playing on two of the park’s fields in games slated for a 5 p.m. first pitch. Four more teams were slated to play in the early evening, and HILL would return to Jesse Owens Park on Saturday, as they do every week from March through July.

In some ways, the baseball environment HILL has created at Jesse Owens Park can be found at thousands of American parks, and at baseball fields throughout Los Angeles.

But in South L.A., the summer baseball scene at Jesse Owens Park is an exception — a strong athletic and community institution set in a low-income, often gang-infested neighborhood. It’s a part of Los Angeles that was once a breeding ground for baseball stardom, but because of a confluence of economic and cultural factors in the 1980s and early ’90s, South L.A. lost its baseball culture. Then, 21 years ago, thanks to a group of Hollywood benefactors, as well as a group of committed coaches and community leaders in South L.A., organized baseball has made a comeback for this neighborhood's kids. And along with it, they're learning far more than just the game.

South Central — home to MLB greats

For a baseball fan, a drive through South Los Angeles can take you through a chapter in baseball history. In the 1960s and ’70s, parks in the section of Los Angeles south of the I-10, formerly known as South Central, were filled with the cracks and thuds of baseballs making contact with bats and leather mitts on fields where future greats such as Eddie Murray, Ozzie Smith, Darryl Strawberry and Eric Davis got their start. 

In South Central, as in other low- and middle-class, predominantly Black neighborhoods throughout the United States, baseball was once a staple, a go-to team activity for kids and teens.

But that was decades ago.

Murray, Smith, Strawberry and Davis, whose Major League Baseball (MLB) careers spanned from 1977 to 2001, all grew up in L.A. at a time when baseball was as much a part of inner-city youth life as it still is today in middle- and upper-class neighborhoods in places like Santa Monica, Brentwood and Bel Air. Those players were all in the majors in 1986, when African-Americans accounted for 19 percent of all MLB players.

Today, though, only 7.8 percent of MLB players are African-American, a consequence of many factors nationwide — including an increased emphasis on college scholarships for football and basketball, local governments cutting budgets for public parks and sports programs, the rising cost of equipment and league registration fees, and an unemployment rate for African-Americans above 10 percent nationally. The 7.8 percent figure doesn't include, for example, players from the Dominican Republic.

In the early 1990s, Los Angeles County’s Department of Parks and Recreation was forced to make cuts after the Board of Supervisors approved an $8.2 million budget for the agency — $2.7 million less than what it had requested. The shortfall didn’t close parks in South L.A., but Parks and Rec cut staffing and began charging families more to sign up their kids for county-run sports leagues, which in turn made it more difficult, if not financially impossible, for kids in low-income families to join a baseball team. Organized youth baseball in South L.A., for all intents and purposes, disappeared.


“The main thing is to keep my kids, keep anybody, just in the rank with everything — keep them off the streets.” — Eric Garmendez, a father of four

In 1993, when Stan Brooks, a successful independent filmmaker, read a Los Angeles Times article that described how impending cuts would affect the county’s South L.A. baseball programs, particularly at Helen Keller Park, but not at parks in L.A.’s wealthier neighborhoods, he was beside himself.

An L.A. native and die-hard Los Angeles Dodgers fan, Brooks phoned Parks and Rec, looking for an explanation. 

As he recalled during a recent interview in his small office in Santa Monica, the official on the other end of the line told him the staffing cuts and hike in user fees were simply a result of funding shortfalls. “That’s insane,” Brooks remembers telling the official. “What would it take to bring it back?” 

The answer was “money” — from someplace other than the government.

“So you’re only cutting it in South Central, where you have kids who are at risk, and this is the sport that plays during the summer when the kids don’t have a place to go,” Brooks said, asking rhetorically whether baseball was also disappearing in West L.A. (It wasn’t.) 

“How does somebody not fight this?” Brooks said. “Well, the [South Central] parents don’t have the clout and they don’t have the money.”

Brooks, who at the time was often absent from L.A. because many of his productions were filmed in Canada, felt the least he could do to reinvest in the community was to put some Hollywood money into Hollywood’s backyard. So he wrote letters to a handful of other producers and managers — people he’d pitched to or whom he had worked with on projects over the years. He asked each one to chip in a few hundred dollars to support an inner-city youth baseball league that would be free for all participants, with the hope that some children who may otherwise spend their summers on the streets could instead learn how to pitch and catch.

Brooks received eight checks back in the mail totaling nearly $6,400. With that seed money, he created the Hollywood Indies Little League in 1995. Now in its 21st season, HILL has raised and paid out nearly $500,000, funding nearly 5,000 young players, most of whom would likely have never played organized baseball if not for HILL’s free-for-the-user policy. 

Bats, balls, uniforms and other expenses are paid for by HILL’s sponsors and, more recently, by the Los Angeles Dodgers, which recently became a partner and donated hundreds of thousands of dollars to renovate the baseball fields at Jesse Owens Park. Donors have the opportunity to sponsor an entire team for $975, and Brooks himself, aside from creating and organizing the league, has put thousands of dollars of his own money into HILL (including extending loans when there’s a budget deficit), and has given thousands of hours of his own time. 

More important than baseball, though, HILL offers respite in a neighborhood where youths with too much free time can be easy targets for gang recruitment. The fields at Jesse Owens Park, on the corner of Western Avenue and Century Boulevard, a few miles east of Los Angeles International Airport, are filled throughout the spring and summer with HILL’s young boys and girls, who are kept busy by the league’s two game days and two practice days every week, and who are given the opportunity to be part of something bigger — to be part of a team.

And although it’s certainly a secondary, or tertiary goal of HILL, maybe one day the league will even produce another Ozzie Smith.

Baseball vs. the streets of South L.A.

On a recent Wednesday afternoon at Jesse Owens Park, Brooks stood next to a chain-link fence adjacent to a dugout as he watched a game between 8-, 9- and 10-year-old boys and girls on the Rockies and Orioles teams. 

Despite his busy work schedule, every month or two, whenever he’s in town, Brooks makes it down to a HILL game.

This particular game was vintage youth baseball — some kids would stop on first base when they should have either made a turn toward second or overrun the base. Some would huff and puff after a strikeout or an errant throw; routine grounders would turn from outs into singles into doubles after successive bad throws; fielders would forget to tag the runner on a steal and instead just stand on the base, not yet understanding the difference between a force-out and a tag-out; and, of course, accurate pitches would be few and far between. It’s all par for the course for baseball novices, and also a heartwarming source of entertainment for parents in the bleachers.

“All we could do is put the pieces together and hope that baseball could be played here,” Brooks said, looking on as the Rockies led, 2-1, in the bottom of the second inning. “Everything after that was the community, and they really embraced it.”

As Brooks and league commissioner Michael Flowers — a volunteer who runs HILL’s day-to-day operations — discussed potential new sponsors, players in the dugout ribbed the pitcher (“Rally, rally, the pitcher’s name is Sally!”), and the coaches on the field (all of them volunteers) made sure their players stayed in line. 

“It’s only a game, OK? None of that,” one coach called out after one of his players had an angry outburst after a base-running mistake.

Standing next to the bleachers, Eric Garmendez, a father of four, watched as his 8-year-old daughter, Amanda, stepped into the batter’s box. 

“The main thing is to keep my kids, keep anybody, just in the rank with everything — keep them off the streets,” Garmendez said.

Garmendez is in his first year as an assistant coach on his twin boys’ HILL coach-pitch team, and is a construction worker in South L.A., where he was born and raised. Notwithstanding the brand-new Oakland Athletics tattoo he was sporting on his muscular neck, he pointed to the Dodgers tattoo on his arm when asked who he roots for.

“Growing up in South Central, you hear the hype, and a lot of it is true,” Garmendez said. “It would’ve helped out a little bit more if there was something like this as I was growing up.”

The Mariners sit in the dugout during a June 17 game. Photo by Aaron Pellish

One of HILL’s biggest goals is to get parents involved and keep them involved in the league as much as possible, something Garmendez said he himself was hesitant to do until he was asked to help coach his sons’ team.

“I’m cutting straight out of work just to make it to practice, because once you’re in, it’s a commitment,” he said. “But you know what? It’s a sacrifice — whatever it takes for my kids.”

Two weeks later, at an adjacent field, as Harper, one of several baseball moms in the stands, kept an eye on her youngest child, Brenden, who was throwing a tennis ball against a nearby wall, she explained why it’s so important to make sure her kids are always doing something, whether it’s baseball, swimming, basketball or spending time at the California Science Center.

“If they get bored, they can do mischievous things,” she said. “Just being bored — wrong place at the wrong time. Just being bored, one little bad choice can get them in trouble. My boys don’t have time for that. I keep them busy. By the time they get home, they’re tired, sleepy and hungry.”

Harper said Dillen joined the league in early June, but, unfortunately, too many kids had signed up in the youngest age group, which meant Brenden didn’t get a spot.

“It’s free, and that’s a blessing to me because I’m a single mom,” Harper said. Asked if she’d otherwise be able to afford the $100 or so per player that HILL covers, Harper said she’d find a way. But, of course, it would come at a cost.

“If I gotta collect cans, bottles, whatever I have to do for my babies, I’ll do it,” Harper said. “It would be tough, but I’m very resourceful. I would’ve figured it out.”

She would’ve done so because she knows idle time in South L.A. can be a dangerous thing.

Jesse Owens Park is in the Gramercy Park section of South L.A., which is bordered by the neighborhoods of Westmont, Manchester Square and Vermont Knolls. Those four areas, which make up only about five square miles, have seen in the last six months 706 violent crimes and 1,162 property crimes (including robbery and grand theft auto), according to LAPD crime statistics. Most households earn less than $20,000 per year, and graduating from high school, let alone college, is not a given.

Kenneth Broussard Jr. is 17. His father is a longtime HILL coach who grew up playing ball in the ’70s just three miles away at Helen Keller Park. On a recent game day, Broussard sat in HILL’s huge equipment trailer as he talked about how baseball helped keep him out of “gangbanging and stuff like that” during high school.

“I started seeing the separate ways all my friends was going,” Broussard said. “Some of them was going down the wrong path and stuff.

“Over here, it’s not the best of neighborhoods. Even if you’re not doing anything wrong, you could be standing outside, and somebody can rob you; the police might harass you,” he said. “There are just a lot of things that are naturally avoided when you’re at practice or at the game.”

Broussard wore gray sweatpants and a muscle-tight camo shirt, and he was at the park to help Flowers (Mr. Flowers as the players, parents and coaches call him) with run-of-the-mill administrative and organizational tasks, for which he’s been paid about $50 per week since he was 12.

Broussard is currently studying electrical construction and maintenance at Los Angeles Trade Technical College, but he still helps Flowers with league paperwork, equipment organization, watering the fields and other routine tasks. “When I was young, my dad wanted me to start working,” Broussard said, recalling his father’s words: “If you get that $50 a week, maybe Mom can afford to get you new shoes, or maybe you want to get something for Mom and make Mom feel better.”

A few minutes before Broussard had arrived, Mariners head coach Kenneth McCoy Jr. was sitting in the same trailer, smiling and talking about the young HILL player everyone calls J.J. He’s 12 and one of HILL’s star players. He’s also on the team McCoy’s squad was about to face — one coached by McCoy’s father. 

J.J. plays shortstop and pitcher. He can already throw the ball 65 miles per hour — accurately — a promising sign of what’s to come. “He reminds me a little bit of me,” McCoy said, smiling. “But we’re not gonna get into all that.”

McCoy, 24, is studying kinesiology at Los Angeles Southwest College, which is a mile south of the park. He wants to coach baseball and football as a career.  McCoy played in HILL from the age of 4, when the league was in its second year, until he aged out at 16. Sadly, but not surprisingly, he had a quick answer to why the league is so important for the neighborhood.

“I had a friend who wanted to come out and play [in HILL] but he couldn’t get the chance, because he got killed, because he was out on the streets,” McCoy said. The friend, gunned down at 14, was in a gang, McCoy said, and was mistakenly identified as a target by an armed member of another gang. “[He was] hanging around with the wrong people at the wrong time.”

In his early years at HILL, McCoy said, he was a “hot-head” who would get angry when he lost video games and baseball games.

“Out here, coaches told me, ‘It’s nothing; it’s just a game. You’ve gotta build yourself back up so you can look forward to your next game,’ ” McCoy said. “If you stay angry, then all you’re thinking of is the negative instead of the positive. I instill that upon my kids now.

“The type of coach I am, I will teach you everything there is to know,” he said, proudly. “I will teach you how to win; I will teach you how to lose.”

During the interview, McCoy responded to questions with a level of respect that was the norm in numerous conversations with kids and parents associated with HILL, responding with a “Yes, sir” or “No, sir,” and not acting rushed, even though the interview was clearly taking time away from pre-game preparations.

A little later in the afternoon, while McCoy was on the field coaching, another HILL coach, who identified himself only as Sherman (but said people call him “Lee”), stood next to the bleachers and talked about baseball as a “thinking game,” more so than other sports. 

“What if the ball comes to me? What am I going to do? At any moment, any time, the ball may come to you,” Sherman said. “What are you going to do? What am I going to do when it’s time for me to stand out? You’ve got to have a plan.”

Standing behind Sherman was HILL alumnus Matthew Salazar, 18, who was at the park just hanging out — smiling and listening to his former coaches Sherman and Kenneth Broussard chat about their days playing at Helen Keller Park. Salazar said he wants to coach, too, and said Broussard was “the best coach I ever had.” Broussard, like Sherman, talked about youth baseball as more training for life than training for baseball later in life. 

“I never talk baseball so you can grow up and be a pro. I’m just talking baseball so we can learn to compete, because that’s what life is gonna be,” Broussard said, interrupting himself at one point to whistle at one of his players walking by. 

“Johnny! Tuck your shirt in! Tuck your shirt in! Get your head right! Remember what I told you.”

How Stan Brooks makes a pitch

Stan Brooks used to be clueless about the art of pitching. 

Not the baseball type of pitching — he’s known all about that since he began playing baseball as a child.

The movie and television type. 

Before he launched his first production company, Once Upon a Time Films, in 1989, but after he had broken into the industry thanks to a mailroom job at Filmways Pictures, Brooks was in a meeting in 1980 with the chairman of Orion Pictures, Mike Medavoy, who asked him what he was trying to pitch.

Despite having recently graduated from the American Film Institute, Brooks had never learned the art of pitching and thus could conjure up only an image of pitcher Sandy Koufax when Orion’s chairman put him on the spot.

Pitching is no longer a problem for Brooks. Now the owner of Stan & Deliver Films, Brooks has produced more than 65 movies for film and television over the course of his more than 30 years in Hollywood, winning a Primetime Emmy Award in 2007 for outstanding miniseries for “Broken Trail,” which aired on AMC and collected three more Emmy awards, 12 Emmy nominations, and three Golden Globe nominations.

In 1987 and 1988, as president of the Guber-Peters Television Co., Brooks was the guy on the receiving end of Barry Morrow’s pitch for “Rain Man,” which won Oscars for picture and screenplay in 1988. 

In Brooks’ modest three-room Santa Monica office, a big “Rain Man” movie poster sits behind his desk inscribed by Morrow with the words, “The Man Who Heard It First.”

Producer and director Stan Brooks created Hollywood Indies in 1995 after country budget cuts nearly shuttered youth baseball in South L.A. Photo courtesy of HILL

More recently, Brooks is the executive producer of “Hollywood Scandals,” which is going into its third season on Reelz, and he’s the executive producer for Lifetime’s “The Lizzie Borden Chronicles,” a miniseries with Christina Ricci that follows the title character after she’s acquitted of the 1892 murders of her father and stepmother. It’s a production that has taken Brooks to Canada for weeks at a time.

His office is packed to the brim with Dodgers merchandise and paraphernalia, dummies and bobble heads, as well as movie awards and posters, pictures of his wife, three children, and various entertainment stars with whom Brooks has worked closely. 

In another of his office’s three rooms, just to the right of the entrance, is where Brooks displays Hollywood Indies trophies and photos. His team, the Red Sox, hasn’t won a championship since the late ’90s, and they finished 6-6 last year.  His Red Sox’s championship drought is not quite as bad as the 86-year slog suffered by the MLB team, but Brooks has heard the comparison many times. Like Brooks, many of HILL’s donors support their own individual teams. Fitness guru Jake Steinfeld’s Rockies had a miserable 2014, going 0-12, while producer Howard Braunstein’s Astros went a respectable 6-4.

Brooks is a huge Groucho Marx and W.C. Fields fan, and loves to talk about how those two actors spurred his love for film and TV when, as a young kid, he’d go to matinees at a movie theater — now gone — on the corner of Pico and Fairfax. He described his work as a producer, and his sale of Once Upon a Time Films five years ago to Braunstein, as well as his recent transition to becoming a director with the productions of “Perfect Sisters” and the TV movie “The Grim Sleeper,” which was nominated for a 2015 PRISM Award for its accurate depiction of substance abuse.

When Brooks talked about Marx or the Dodgers or about his favorite baseball film, “Field of Dreams” (which, he said with a smile, made him sob to the point that his wife, Lifetime executive Tanya Lopez, had to hold him), Brooks’ voice sounded like a young kid’s — a little higher-pitched and a little louder than an inside voice.

“What I love about baseball is that it teaches lessons that the other sports don’t teach,” Brooks said. “For one, it asks you to sacrifice. It’s actually a word that’s in the game. You lay down a sacrifice bunt or you hit a sacrifice fly.” 

Brooks said when he calls up his Hollywood buddies and pitches them on supporting HILL, he’s in “full-on producer mode.” Those pitches, Brooks said, go something like this:

“I tell them what it’s like to be down there. I tell them about the mom who came up to me and said, ‘I don’t know where my son would be if it wasn’t for you.’ It’s not just baseball; it’s reviving a community. It’s not just pitching and catching; it’s parents getting to go someplace on Saturday to see their kid; it’s the kid that gets up at 4 a.m. and folds and unfolds his uniform and looks at it on his bed because it’s the first uniform he’s ever put on, and how special that is to him, how important that is to him because he’s part of a team — the first thing he’s ever been a part of in his whole life; the only time he’s been asked to be part of something instead of a gang.”

That pitch, evidently, works wonders. HILL costs about $25,000 a year to run, and its many supporters have included 3 Arts Entertainment’s Michael Rotenberg, who’s the executive producer of HBO’s “Silicon Valley” and FX’s “It’s Always Sunny in Philadelphia”; manager Connie Tavel, whose clients include actors Jon Hamm and Craig T. Nelson; the massive Creative Artists Agency; Braunstein; and actors Hank Azaria and Chris Bauer, who has appeared in “The Wire” and “True Blood.”

Not just a photo op

In 1995, after Brooks had raised his first few thousand dollars for HILL, he met with residents and community organizers in South L.A. to pitch his dream of free baseball. Initially, his idea was met with some skepticism. One woman who helped run Helen Keller Park told Brooks that people in South L.A. were tired of “Hollywood types coming down for the photo-op charity, the kind of charity where you write a check, you come down, have your picture taken with some African-Americans, and then we never see you again.” 

Hill's Mustang division players (ages 8-10) wear their game faces in the dugout during a June 3 game. Photo by Jared Sichel

Brooks said he was told to not expect much love from the neighborhood early on.

“You’ve got to prove to us that this thing’s for real,” Brooks recalls hearing. “Then you’ll see it.”

John Wicker, chief deputy director for L.A. Parks and Rec, was running the department’s operations in South L.A. in 1995 when he first met Brooks, whom he now calls a “hero” for the department.

“He reached out to us and said he really wanted to do something to keep baseball alive in the inner city,” Wicker said. Parks and Rec was charging anywhere from $75 to $145 for its baseball leagues, more than many of the families near Helen Keller Park and Jesse Owens Park could afford. “If it’s a choice between dinner and playing baseball, they’re going to have dinner,” Wicker said. “Stan said, ‘No, I don’t want anybody paying.’ I think it’s the only [league] that I can think of where it’s free.” 

Free participation has helped turn HILL into one of L.A. County’s largest youth baseball leagues, with about 250 kids signed up every season. And one that, as Brooks pointed out, does not limit membership according to geographic boundaries, as many youth baseball leagues do. Kids who live many miles away, but still inside the sprawl of South L.A., can enter HILL’s sign-up lottery, which, because of high demand, cannot give a spot to every kid who wants to play.

In addition to Hollywood, Brooks’ biggest and most recent donor catch has been the Los Angeles Dodgers Foundation, which two years ago, as part of its participation in the MLB’s Reviving Baseball in Inner Cities (RBI) program, partnered with HILL and gave $300,000 toward creating two state-of-the-art “Dodger Dream Fields” at Jesse Owens Park, foundation Executive Director Nichol Whiteman said. The Dodgers’ support of HILL was spurred by Brooks’ relationship to one of the Dodgers’ minority owners and Brooks’ former boss, Peter Guber, who also co-owns the Golden State Warriors and is CEO of Mandalay Entertainment.

The Dream Field upgrades, which were unveiled at the start of HILL’s 2014 season, include huge scoreboards, new grass and dirt, and improved irrigation. The Dodgers Foundation also pays for the league’s equipment and its hundreds of uniforms, all of which, somewhat comically, are Dodgers uniforms, which makes every HILL game look like a confusing faceoff between the Dodgers and their bitter crosstown rival, the Dodgers. 

‘We are the village’

As Michael and Rosalyn Flowers sat together in the equipment trailer, which rests just outside one of the Dream Field’s outfield fences, every few minutes a coach or a player would pop in to run a question by the couple, who have run HILL since 1996, its second season.

Michael and Rosalyn, both in their 50s, met in their hometown of Memphis and moved to L.A. in 1981. They raised two kids, Ebony and Marcus — both now adults — in Gardena, a few miles south of Jesse Owens Park. Michael recently retired from Boeing, where he was an engineer. Rosalyn is an analyst for Southern California Edison. She’s quiet and reserved but has a tough-love side. As she firmly said, “When the kids come, they belong to me.” 

The league, Michael said, is there to help parents raise their kids, but the parents have to let go when their kids are on the field.

“We tell the parents, ‘Hey, when your kid is on the field, they belong to us. We will take care of them; we will cherish them; we will love them; we will protect them as if they are our own.’”

Flowers said sometimes when he and Rosalyn are out shopping, they will be approached by former HILL players, now adults, who remember the couple and thank them for their guidance. One man even approached them at a hardware store and credited Michael and Rosalyn for helping him get to a point in life where he has a good job and a wife and kids. Flowers said he and Rosalyn didn’t even recognize the man but were deeply moved.

“We fill in a lot of the gaps they may have at home,” Flowers said, his voice trembling lightly with emotion. “Some of them are single-parent homes, and sometimes they have trouble makings ends meet. A lot of kids come, they may not eat unless we have them eat.” Although HILL doesn’t budget for meals, throughout the season its volunteers look after at-risk children. Flowers and Brooks said coaches and parent volunteers ensure that kids who are hungry will get food. And when one of HILL’s players was tragically killed in the early 2000s, the league’s leadership helped the family cover the boy’s funeral expenses.

Flowers’ eyes filled with tears as he talked about the teenage boys and girls he hires and pays, such as Broussard, to help organize equipment and manage the scoreboard. Training them to become self-reliant, and giving them a few extra bucks, “means a lot to the families,” Flowers said, pausing to gather his composure.

“I’m sorry,” he said, wiping his eyes. “We have coaches that have been here for 19 years! You don’t see that kind of dedication from coaches that are volunteers anywhere else. When their kids stop playing, the coaches disappear. Our coaches stay because they know they are part of something bigger than just baseball. We have coaches that were ex-gang members. They know that if somebody didn’t pull them in … where they would be today. They’re trying to pull these kids to keep them in here so they don’t go through what they had to go through.”

Flowers plans to transition in the next couple of years from commissioner to spectator and fan, and will entrust the leadership of Hollywood Indies to someone else.

“Stan and his friends and associates provide a vehicle, through his fundraising, to allow us to do what we do,” Flowers said. 

“They talk about needing a village to raise a child — we are the village.”

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ACT UP Again: Tzedek Tzedek Tirdof

Last weekend, I attended a 25 year reunion of ACT UP activists, observing the anniversary of ACT UP’s historic actions in and around the 6th Annual International AIDS Conference held in San Francisco in 1990.

Time it was and what a time it was, it was a time of innocence a time of taking the streets and taking names.  Long before I became a rabbi, I was already a social justice activist (SJW? Sure, why not?) and “alternative” journalist helping to enact and document the battle for treatment, research and respect fought by people with AIDS and their friends. Among other things, I was an ACT UP L.A. fellow traveler or, as I explained to my friends, “I’ll write the stories, I’ll get arrested with you, I will face those L.A. County Sheriffs—but I won’t face those 3-hour meetings.

Cute.  Fortunately, my more dedicated friends did have the fortitude and commitment to face and participate in those meetings, the results of which reshaped AIDS care protocols and health policy.  We remain better off for their work.

It’s hard to explain to those who never lived through it what the late 1980s and early 1990s were like for people in communities devastated by AIDS. 25 years ago, AIDS was a disease that pretty much guaranteed an early death.  There were not enough drugs, not enough hospital or hospice beds.  A disease that affected primarily gay men, people of color and IV drug users—in the days of Ronald Reagan and George H.W. Bush—that’s just about the worst possible luck.
AIDS changed everything.  People who wouldn’t look twice at someone whom they deemed to be a bit unattractive learned to bathe bodies riddled with lesions and to work with adult diapers. People with day jobs spent every bit of free time researching or protesting, creating policy because the government and the healthcare profiteers were not bestirring themselves.

For many lesbians like me, AIDS shifted our focus.  My political work at the time had been just about entirely within the female feminist world.  Until AIDS hit. Then I marked the indifference of many straight “sisters,” communicated often enough with a bit of a smirk and a callous reference to “lifestyles.” And my friends were suffering and dying.  It was time to choose up teams.

Hence ACT UP, the AIDS Coalition to Unleash Power.  ACT UP was unruly, floppy in structure—and surprisingly effective.  General meetings attracted as many as a 100 people.  Anyone could bring in an idea for an action.  If the group was interested, those who wanted to do the action formed a committee and did it.  There were protests at insurance company offices, government buildings and in the streets, all in service of the demand for more: more research, more access to services, and more access to policy-making for people harmed by the epidemic.  Famously, ACT UP staged at week-long vigil at County USC hospital.  Prior to the activists’ demands, there had been no dedicated AIDS ward or outpatient clinic.  People took their chemo in the halls, lying on gurneys, vomit bags at the ready. The vigil would help to change that.

ACT UP was loud, immoderate, and contemptuous of convention.  I adored their tactical insouciance, even as their strategic fecklessness sometimes drove me crazy. (At that AIDS vigil, County Supervisor Ed Edelman, at the time an isolated liberal on the Board, showed up to offer support—and was heckled as an opportunist. Didn’t we want to offer politicians a little stroking for supporting us along with huge disincentives to piss us off? Fortunately, Edelman supported our demands anyway, because he was pretty much a mensch.)

ACT UP was also flashy, captivating and sexy as hell, making brilliant use of media to drive the epidemic onto front pages and news broadcasts. Yes, a lot of ACT UP activists were white and had known relative economic privilege. (Although, in L.A. there was visible and effective Latino/a and Asian-American ACT UP leadership, most Black activists chose to work in separate groups.) But they made the most of it—moving from the academy, the shmancy offices and even a few from boardrooms into the streets, armed with Foucauldian theory and marketing know-how. Silence=Death.

And we had to celebrate the sexy if we were going to save lives.  One of the Reagan administration’s worst outrages was the Helms Amendment of 1988 that, “prohibits the Federal Centers for Disease Control from funding AIDS programs that ”promote, encourage or condone homosexual activities.” So no funding for safer sex information that actually taught people how to use a condom or explored the risks associated with particular sex acts (and suggested fun alternatives) or that indicated that gay people might have lives worth living. ACT UP’s poster art reclaimed the body as a site of resistance and joy, reminding us that only people who believe they deserve to live will fight for their lives.

In 1990, the 6th International AIDS Conference came to San Francisco, and so did ACT UP. There was a Women’s Demonstration, because, as usual, too much research was leaving the particularities of women’s bodies out of the data. Immigration activists protested because yet another “Helms Amendment” in 1987 had added HIV infection to the list of conditions for which immigrants and visitors to the USA were banned. As Jorge Cortinas reminded us at the reunion’s Living History panel, this amendment also undermined amnesty for undocumented workers, forcing them into either mandatory testing or a life of hiding from the medical providers whose services they needed. As Jorge testified, “the coalition held.” ACT UP did not sell out undocumented people but took up their cause, along with that of prestigious international experts who were excluded from the conference because of the travel ban.

So 25 years later, there we were, remembering our victories and remembering our dead. So very many dead. Chris, Mark, Gunther, Gil, Wayne, Connie…and Bill and Alvaro, and Rockabilly Dave…these memories are wounds that seemed to have healed. Until we touch them.

Why am I telling you this here? What does this have to do with being Jewish, with being a rabbi? Tzedek, tzedek tirdof—justice, justice shall you pursue.

Our prophets, of whom Rabbi Abraham Joshua Heschel Z”L said, “To us injustice is injurious to the welfare of the people; to the prophets it is a deathblow to existence: to us, an episode; to them, a catastrophe, a threat to the world,” were immoderate and loud and very provocative. Yezkiel (Ezekiel) laid on his side for a whole year, cooked his food publically over dung, and burned his hair, because those in power had not, “sustained the weak, healed the sick, or bandaged the injured” (34:4). Hosea’s marriage to Gomer, a sexually active woman, was a Divinely mandated performance of inclusion and radical affection. True, our tradition is still working out issues of sexuality, homo and otherwise. As usual, we’re roiling with generative controversy on the subject. But on the subject of healing, visiting and caring for the sick, there is no disagreement. “Six things benefit us in this world and in the world to come: Hospitality to wayfarers, visiting the sick, meditation in prayer, early attendance at the study house, teaching Torah to one’s children, and giving one’s neighbor the benefit of a doubt.”Talmud Bavli Shabbat 127a. We study a version of this teaching daily in our prayers. It was good to be reminded by ACT UP about the actively prophetic, the Torah of outrage and love.

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Hebrew word of the week: abba, imma

In many languages, the words for father and mother — being the first words a baby utters — are quite similar, and they include the labial consonants b, p, m; or dental d, t, n; as papa, dad, (Czech) tata, mam(m)a, mommy, nanny; similar words are used in Chinese, French, Italian, Persian, Turkish (in which anne means “mother”), Yiddish and more.* 

The Hebrew words abba and imma end with an Aramaic suffix, to indicate a vocative form (used when calling someone, as in English, Mom! Dad!) The Hebrew cognates are av for “father,” and em for “mother.”

*So are the word “baby” and other “baby words”: bubba, puppet, mama (“breast, baby food” in other languages; including  mammal, which is a “breast-feeding animal”).


Yona Sabar is a professor of Hebrew and Aramaic in the department of Near Eastern Languages & Cultures at UCLA.

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“Tidal Shifts” in Attitudes

This week the Gallup organization reported on a “>Seventy eight years ago (1937) Americans were willing to vote for a Catholic (60%), a woman (33%) and a Jew (46%) at enormously lower rates; in fact, the question wasn’t even posed for a possible Black candidate. In 1967 when the questions were asked again the results were better, but not at today’s level Catholic (90%), a woman (57%), a Jew (82%) and a Black (53%). The largest shifts are clearly in the willingness to support a Black (53% to 92%) or a woman candidate (33% to 92%) for president.

There are groups that fare less well—-Evangelicals (73%), Muslims (60%) and atheists (58%) found the least support were one of them to run for president. Gays and lesbians found support at 74%.

The reasons for whom one might support as a candidate are, undoubtedly, complex; some groups seem “safer” than others, stereotypes undoubtedly persist. But the increasing acceptance of diversity in America and the willingness to look beyond labels and pigeonholes is clear, if not universal.

Further, the pollsters’ questions are posed in the abstract (“If your party nominated a generally well-qualified person for president who happened to be ______, would you vote for that person?”) and might elicit a different answer were there a real candidate with qualities and warts; but this is the best instrument we have.

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French National Assembly approves $60 million Holocaust reparations fund

The French National Assembly voted to approve the creation of a $60 million fund to compensate Holocaust victims transported to Nazi camps by the state railroad SNCF.

The fund, to be administered by the United States, would compensate foreign nationals and also protect France against lawsuits filed in the United States.

The lower house of the French Parliament approved the fund on Wednesday. The French conservative opposition abstained from the vote, according to Reuters.

The fund redresses longstanding claims by survivors who were otherwise unable to obtain reparations limited to French nationals through the French pension system.

Compensation will be available to non-French nationals who are citizens of the United States and any other country that does not have a bilateral reparations agreement with France. Belgium, Poland, Britain, the Czech Republic and Slovakia have such agreements.

Surviving spouses and the estates of survivors will also be eligible. The fund could ultimately pay out to several thousand people or estates.

The plan could affect bills under consideration in a number of U.S. state legislatures that would ban any dealings with SNCF, a major exporter of rail cars, until it agreed to address lawsuits.

The French Senate will vote on the bill on July 9.

SNCF trains transported 76,000 Jews and other prisoners from the suburbs of Paris to the German border from 1942 to 1944.

Owned by the French government, SNCF says it has acknowledged the role that its wartime management played in collaborating with the Nazis and given public apologies. It also has supported memorial efforts and research of the Holocaust in France.

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Orthodox lobbyist: After Charleston, black communities need same security funding as Jews

In reporting on federal funding for securing nonprofits, we’ve noted, almost as a matter of boilerplate, that the vast majority of the funding – over 90 percent – goes to Jewish institutions.

There are several reasons for this:

– Jewish groups, including the Jewish Federations of North America, the Orthodox Union and Agudath Israel of America, have led lobbying for the funding, which has ranged from $15 to $25 million a year since the program was launched in 2005. As such, these groups are the most familiar with how to go about applying for the funds.

– Jewish institutions are increasingly vulnerable.

– And finally, from what I’ve heard – virtually no one else asks.

Wednesday, in the Washington Post, and after last week’s mass killing at a black church in Charleston, S.C., the Orthodox Union’s Nathan Diament said that should change. Communities at risk should avail themselves of the program, he said – adding that this will require increased funding,

“In light of last week’s terrible shooting at Emanuel, it seems even more critical for Congress to not only rapidly approve the [U.S. Department of Homeland Security] bill so this aid is available to all at-risk nonprofits, but also increase its funding so that the program can adequately serve all communities in need,” Diament said.

Diament also suggested that other communities adopt the Secure Communities Network that the national Jewish community has developed in recent years, establishing training templates to prevent attacks and to mitigate violence when they occur.

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