Increasing the Light of Allyship This Hanukkah

Hanukkah reminds us that our work is not complete until everyone can safely express their identities.
December 15, 2020
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In a time of national identity searching, introspection and anticipation, Hanukkah can be an inviting space to reflect and refract the light before us. From the Hanukkah that was to the Hanukkah we arrive at, the world has shifted and we are not the same. This holiday of chocolate, oil and games of dreidel beckons us into a moment of contemplation.

Hanukkah expresses a language of novelty, innovation and a miraculous expansion from what we thought was possible. The ease and accessibility, the simplicity of candles, the sense that Hannukah is predictable and performative belies the very creative, radical nature of the Festival of Lights.

The annual Hanukkah experience, at its core, is an opportunity to receive new insight, empowerment and opportunity to overcome the forces that oppress, debase and deny our most essential identities. Had the few Maccabees not searched to provide that light for the many, none of us would have a miracle to celebrate today. Even though we are privileged to be able to publicly observe our traditions, Hanukkah reminds us that our work is not complete until everyone can safely and freely express their identities.

Visibility and Proximity

One of the unique aspects of Hanukkah is that it is the only festival that occurs in two different months. It is literally positioned between Kislev and Tevet to help us be aware and adapt to changing times. In the light of the candles, it is possible to see our roles anew, clarifying our commitment to ensuring that the privilege and expression of being is available to everyone.

When the Talmud explores modalities of the mitzvah of lighting the hanukkiah, it says that each and every person should have a candle. It continues to explain that an even greater beautification of the mitzvah is when everyone is able to increase the light with each additional day. When everyone has their own hanukkiah, when everyone is able to light all the candles on each night, then everyone is bringing the fullest light possible. This is the hope: with so much light, the world is relieved of darkness.

Our Rabbis teach that this attribute of adding is connected to Joseph, whose story we read on Shabbat Hanukkah. Joseph’s name means to increase, and his story reveals the relationship between proximity and visibility. The Talmud, Shabbat 22a, juxtaposes the narrative of Joseph being thrown into a pit with the laws detailing the proper placement of the menorah and the limits on how far off the ground it can be:

In Genesis 37:18, Joseph’s brothers “saw [Joseph] from afar… and they conspired against him.” They throw him into a pit, which Genesis 37:24 says “was empty and didn’t have water.” But the Rabbis disagree, arguing that while “empty” implies that the pit didn’t have water in it, it was not without venomous pit-dwellers. There were snakes and scorpions that the brothers didn’t know about, because they were not close enough to the pit to see.

Moreover, the distance at which the brothers first saw Joseph approaching made it easy for them to plot against him. In not one, but two cases, the brothers’ lack of proximity lead to actions that degrade and humiliate. If only they waited to see their little brother up close before acting, they might have changed their plan. If only they approached the pit to look inside, they might have seen the snakes and scorpions. The Torah is clear: Proximity and visibility lead to responsibility.

It is for that reason the Talmud instructs us that we cannot place a menorah too far off of the ground — we must be close enough to see and be affected by the Hanukkah candles. If the menorah can’t be seen, we miss the message of the miracle, and the opportunity to take responsibility is lost.

The Hasmoneans were descendants of Aaron, who the Mishna tells us was a lover of peace, pursuer of peace and lover of peoples. Judaism is a religion of action, and we must be practitioners of our tradition’s wisdom by taking responsibility.

Today, even with technologies that keep us connected across oceans and continents, we understand the challenge and, more so, the threat of being too distant. Jews have a response to prevent the dehumanization that often comes when we are distanced from the lived experience of others: Draw in close.

A Great Miracle Happens With Allyship

The Hebrew words behind the story of Hanukkah and Joseph also reaffirm the holiday’s charge to increase visibility, to be an ally. The rabbis saw our world as created through speech and language, and thus, all Hebrew letters represent hidden truths. Just like the story of Joseph in the pit, the closer you look, the more that is revealed.

The mystics teach that the Hebrew letters for Greece, יון, are three lines that descend as the word progresses. The great and mighty culture that claimed elite thought and refinement was in fact a culture that debased and denigrated. Greek leadership prioritized the body over the spirit. What was seen on the outside was of greater value than that which was withing. Thus, it could be said that Greece, by elevating the external, actually debases it, a message hidden within the descending letters: יון.

The Hebrew word for Joseph, יוסף, begins with the same first two letters. But the third letter, though, is where the comparison is stark. Instead of a “nun” (ן ) which is a straight line going down, we have a round “samoch” (ס ), a symbol for equality. Unlike the hierarchy of the “nun,” the circle of the “samoch” allows every point on its circumference to be equidistant to the center. Joseph chooses to chaver up and stops the descent by treating others as equals.

The “nun” and “samoch” form the word “miracle,” נס. The first letter, “nun,” is the only letter in Hebrew that doesn’t appear in the alphabetical acrostic of Ashrei. Our rabbis explain that this letter stands for “nefela,” falling, and therefore is omitted. The next letter in the alphabet is the “samech” and starts the Ashrei verse, “somech l’chol hanoflim,” “supporting all those who have fallen.” Jews in those days, as in ours, had a choice between the “nun” and the “samoch” —to align with the oppressors and feel secure or to ally with those who needed support. In choosing the latter, a great miracle (נס) happened there.

Jews have a choice between the “nun” and the “samoch” —to align with the oppressors and feel secure or to ally with those who needed support.

Kindling the Light of Hanukkah

As the story and words of Hanukkah convey, the Jewish response to oppression is not just to be free but to dismantle the system of oppression and provide equality for others. Today, we place a menorah in the window in order to publicize our engagement in the ancient and ongoing story of this struggle. We stand up in broken places of despair and hopelessness to rededicate ourselves and our institutions to this cause. Now, when we see an injustice, when we are proximate to the dehumanization of a child of G-d, we not only see the unholy act itself but also we recognize the imperative to respond.

This Hanukkah, kindle the light of liberation, not just for you and your loved ones, but for all people whose freedom of expression is threatened. Kindle a light to banish the darkness of hatred, racism, transphobia and misogyny. Kindle a light that signals to outsiders that you are a home (or an organization) committed to rededication and the recreation of holy space, particularly in the most broken of places.

Hanukkah was not immediately established as a holiday. The Talmud teaches that the Rabbis waited until the following year to institute a permanent commemoration. When they realized that the miracle could be replicated — that in every generation, Jews could learn to take the little they had and turn into something miraculous — they created the holiday. That is the holy ask of Hanukkah: to be the light that can extend and expand, to be the miracle that someone else needs.

Michael Walzer writes that “wherever we go, it is eternally Egypt,” but that there is a Promised Land.  and the only way to make it across the wilderness is by “joining hands, marching together.” The story of oppression and liberation is also a story of allyship. We will not survive without hands to support and guide us, to hold and elevate us. This year, on Hanukkah, be the light and bring the light out of the closet and into the world.

Rabbi Mike Moskowitz is Scholar-in-Residence of Trans and Queer Jewish Studies at Congregation Beit Simchat Torah in New York.
Rabbi Dara Frimmer is Senior Rabbi at Temple Isaiah in Los Angeles.

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