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Takeaways: The MANschly approach

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January 4, 2010

I’m trying something new: audio blogs.

Instead of writing, I’ll simply discuss over an audio recording topics that deal with dating and relationships. I’ll make them short and to the point.

This blog discusses the phenomenon pick-up artists call “takeaway”, and it’s when a guy pulls back from giving affection or attention to a girl.

I discuss the MANschly ways to use takeaways, because it can be an effective tool in making sure the woman doesn’t take the guy for granted. But it can also be a hurtful tool, creating in a woman a lot of unnecessary insecurity. In general: always communicate like an adult where you stand in a relationship, rather then chuck out.

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