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January 4, 2024

A Fresh Farro Salad

Some people are born with a silver spoon in their mouth. I was definitely born with a piece of marzipan in mine! 

Traditional Moroccan sweets and desserts are delectable and oh so tempting. I start with one. I find it really hard to stop eating sugary desserts when my tastebuds have been awakened. But right away, I feel the effects of too much sugar — the headache, the fatigue and the mood swings.

Like most Americans, I’m watching my weight and trying to exercise on a regular basis. I have cut processed sugar from my diet and I try to be very conscientious about what I am eating.

Luckily, I grew up in a Moroccan home where I was trained to eat healthfully. My mother cooked us a fresh dinner every night. In her kitchen, the only frozen vegetables you would find were peas and artichokes and the only canned vegetables were the tomatoes that she used in her rich stews and Moroccan fish. All the other vegetables were fresh and they were plentiful. She used lots of vegetables in her soups and especially in her salads.

That was my beautiful childhood.

When I married Neil, I met his mentor Dr. Jose Nessim, founder of the Sephardic Educational Center. This very wise man gave me excellent advice: “Make a salad with all the colors of the rainbow in it. If you eat that every day, you will be healthy.”

I followed my mother’s example and cooked dinner every night. And I heeded Dr Nessim’s prescription for good health—I always serve a salad with dinner.

We are all determined to make a fresh start for a healthy new calendar year. So Sharon and I really wanted to share with you an especially bright and delicious salad. A salad so good that it feels more like an indulgence than healthy fare. 

January is the month of making resolutions to improve our lives. We are all determined to make a fresh start for a healthy new calendar year. So Sharon and I really wanted to share with you an especially bright and delicious salad. A salad so good that it feels more like an indulgence than healthy fare. This Fresh Farro Salad is a favorite with my son Sam’s clients and we’re pretty sure you’ll love it too.  

—Rachel

Farro is an ancient wheat grain that has origins in Mesopotamia. A nutritional powerhouse, farro contains protein, minerals, vitamins and antioxidants. A fabulous, low calorie source of fiber, farro helps with heart health, blood sugar management and digestion.

The cooked farro in this salad recipe makes it a complete meal, adding a wholesome, nutty flavor. The chewy pop of the farro is a delicious contrast to the fresh green herbs (dill, basil, mint and Italian parsley) and the crispy crunch of the veggies (radish, cucumber, yellow pepper, celery and green onion). Colorful heirloom cherry tomatoes add juicy flavor. The salad dressing is a light vinaigrette of olive oil and red wine vinegar spiced with sumac.

This recipe calls for roasted pumpkin seeds. But you can use any nut you like — pistachios or cashews, almonds or walnuts. Add persimmon or roasted butternut squash, use any combination of vegetables that you have on hand.

As always, Rachel and I just want to inspire you. Here’s to a year of healthy, delicious eating.  

—Sharon

Fresh Farro Salad

DRESSING:
1/4 cup extra virgin olive oil
1/8 cup red wine vinegar
Juice of one lemon
½ teaspoon Aleppo pepper
1 teaspoon sumac
Salt & pepper
Whisk together all the ingredients.

SALAD:
1 cup farro, cooked according to package directions
2 cups chopped dill, mint, basil and Italian parsley
2 green onions, chopped
1 small celery heart, chopped
1 yellow bell pepper, chopped
10 oz. mini heirloom tomatoes, chopped
2 Persian cucumbers, chopped
6 radish, julienned
10 oz. baby arugula
1 cup roasted pumpkin seeds

Combine the cooled farro with the herbs, onion, celery, pepper, tomato, cucumber and radish.
Add dressing and toss to coat thoroughly.
Place arugula in a shallow bowl, then add the farro salad on top.
Garnish with pumpkin seeds.
Serve immediately.


Rachel Sheff and Sharon Gomperts have been friends since high school. They love cooking and sharing recipes. They have collaborated on Sephardic Educational Center projects and community cooking classes. Follow them on Instagram @sephardicspicegirls and on Facebook at Sephardic Spice SEC Food.

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How the Jews Can Fight (and Even Win) the Global Communication War

Are the post-October 7 communication practices of the Jewish world already beginning to play into the hands of Hamas and their supporters? Our enemies have proven to be masterful winners in this Communication War, and we are again proving to be the losers, employing the same old strategies that led us, over years, into this disastrous position.  

Evidence: The Sunday, Dec. 17, 2023 edition of The New York Times featured an ad placed by one of America’s most prestigious Jewish groups, The Conference of Presidents of Major Jewish Organizations. The title says exactly what it is, the largest collaboration of American Jewish leaders across the spectrum. And their first volley in this communication battle is an expenditure of $250,000 on a print ad and in mobile editions, carrying the headline, “Hatred of Israel is endangering American Jews.”

The biggest impact of this ad? By its creation and placement, it is signaling to our enemies that we are desperate, flailing around as we wonder how to strategize in this Communication War, and have no idea what to do. 

It has been more than 20 years since I left my successful career in advertising. I had created award-winning campaigns for clients ranging from Apple to Coca Cola. But at a certain point, I decided I wanted to apply these skills to my true passion: Helping the Jewish people. I was quickly hired by many organizations in the U.S., Canada and Israel. I thought that, between my ad career and knowledge of Jewish life, I had all the expertise I needed to have a real impact. 

I was so naïve, so wrong. 

I remember vividly how, early in my transition, I’d sit in meetings with organizational leaders, eating my Federation tuna sandwiches pulled from a plastic Lazy Susan plate. “What,” I would ask them, “is the discipline of marketing Jewish life?” They — professionals, donors, board members — would put down their pickle spears, look back at me, mouths hanging open, shaking their heads. “Just do everything you did for Apple and Coke.” 

I assumed they knew what they were talking about. Because I certainly didn’t at that point. So I slapped the business marketing paradigm they were suggesting onto Jewish life. 

With time, producing branding and ad campaigns that the organizations and their leaders loved, I had to admit to myself that I was failing. I had left advertising and entered into this work because I was committed to using my skills to help advance Jewish causes. Yet, after three years I didn’t see where I was moving the needle. I realized that neither I nor all those Jewish leaders knew how to do this. Shaking the hubris out of my head, I began a complex journey of observation, trial and error, discovering what was the discipline of “Jewish communication,” and what it would take to succeed. 

Selling the Jewish people became a much more complex process than any product or service I ever had to sell during my ad agency days.

My first question was: What does success look like? I identified four bottom lines, measurable achievements where I could contribute to the success of Jewish communication for each organization that hired me, and for the broader Jewish community as a whole: 

1. Advocate for the cause, changing people’s minds.

2. Build volunteers and activists — in some cases, paying consumers. 

3. Create partnerships.

4. Raise money to actually do the work. 

But how would all this happen while also leading to bottom-line results? I asked myself what the nature of this work was, and what methodology was organic to it.

To succeed, I had to stop imposing the advertising wisdom of my training, and instead respect the integrity of the cause’s communal nature.

Its nature, it turned out, was not commercial but communal. To succeed, I had to stop imposing the advertising wisdom of my training, and instead respect the integrity of the cause’s communal nature. That’s when I began learning about community organizing. 

And I understood that all of this Jewish marketing and communication needed to be filtered through a community organizing process. What would it take to bring the community together, organizing it for a communication success, to work in a collaborative process with its people, to accomplish the four bottom lines above. I had to identify those community segments within and outside the Jewish world that we wanted to target. I had to learn about how these segments functioned and identify their influencers. Their influencers were my first target. I had to work with them, engage them with ideas, in order to then infiltrate their networks. It is hard work without easy answers. Few organizations were willing to do it. “Just give us some branding, do some ads,” they kept saying.

Given that our enemies have infused their ideas and concepts into different communities — campus communities, people of color communities, religious communities, academic communities, even young liberal Jewish communities — it is clear that they have become masters of this methodology.

When it comes to this battle for communication, our enemies are so strategic across the board that they have now forced us into two wars being fought simultaneously. The IDF’s war for Israel’s security has ignited the war on worldwide antisemitism. In both wars, communication plays a crucial role — it is the DNA intertwining with both battlefields, having now become a battlefield in its own right. 

Our enemies are committed to winning this communication battle because they know how integral it is to the other two wars being fought. It is obvious by their accomplishments that they have assembled a broad-based communication army. We are dramatically outgunned. Based on the minimal resources, coordination, and sophistication that characterize our effort, it doesn’t even look like we’ve begun to fight.

The Jewish People now need to assemble our own broad-based communication army of our own — one that can outsmart and defeat theirs. We need to seize the battlefield and put our enemies on the defensive, rather than the other way around. 

Our communication army needs many different kinds of units and brigades — social media, campus, legacy media, influencer marketing, event marketing, messaging, policy makers, tech, AI, entertainment professionals, academia, faith-based, education, people of color, and much more. There are many excellent Jewish organizations already doing this work, who have to be consulted with, brought in and relied upon. 

For this to succeed, however, we will need to focus on five key goals.

First: coordination and collaboration. This is not something we Jews do well. As a matter of fact, we are horrible at it because of too much ego between organizations and foundations, too much mistrust, and too many political differences. 

Already, I have witnessed this reality from the scores of organizations and foundations who have reached out to me since Oct.  7. I tell them about the groups who I’ve spoken with and the plans they have sent me—so many plans that I cannot keep track of them—suggesting they collaborate with these groups. “Oh, we can’t work with those people,” they say, without missing a beat. I’ve also spoken with several influential Jewish leaders, tilting back in their chairs, who say, “Stop talking collaboration. It’s never going to happen.”

If we want a win, we must find some way of loose collaboration, coordination and discussion between us that leaves room for all the individual organizational entrepreneurship that we Jews are so good at making happen.

If we want a win, we must find some way of loose collaboration, coordination and discussion between us that leaves room for all the individual organizational entrepreneurship that we Jews are so good at making happen. No Jewish organization wants or will submit to being controlled by another, and few will commit to collaboration. However, without some form of big collaboration, we are not moving forward together on this battlefield. Individual organizations or small groups may have some wins. But the Jewish communication army will not be coordinated for the big overall goal: To take the communication hill of world opinion away from the enemy, who now holds too much of it. 

Second: Focus on creating big ideas of Engagement. All the messaging, branding, ad campaigns, social media campaigns, influencer marketing, legacy media stories and more, are the “of course” actions. Of course, they should be done. But there is an engine that leads them, drives them. Without it, they will not possess ultimate power to reach the big goal together. 

The engine is the creation of big ideas of engagement, an engine the enemy discovered a long time ago. Then all those “of course” actions can follow.

An example of a “big idea of engagement” is the Mavi Marmara incident in 2010, which became known as the Gaza Flotilla Raid. The Mavi Marmara was a Turkish ship, the flagship of a flotilla of vessels, crewed by pro-Palestinian activists, including many Europeans. They had sailed from Turkey, with humanitarian aid and construction materials, intending to break Israel’s blockade of Gaza. There were 500 activists on board. Israel’s Shayetet 13 naval commandos boarded the ships in order to force them into Ashdod for inspection. They met resistance from a hardcore group of activists armed with iron bars and knives. A struggle ensued and Israel began shooting, killing eight Turkish nationals and one Turkish American, and wounding ten others. The entire story, from beginning to end, went wildly viral across the globe, garnering extraordinary sympathy for the Palestinian cause, making the Israelis look like barbarians. 

The planners of the flotilla knew they were creating a big worldwide idea of engagement. It was done for media attention and human sympathy. They knew the Israelis would board and they were ready. And then all the other of course communication tactics emanated from their big idea. It was brilliant in its success. 

The Oct.  7th massacre perpetrated by Hamas is another example of our enemy’s big ideas of engagement. According to Israeli/Canadian writer Matti Friedman in a Dec. 28 article in The Free Press, Hamas knew very well what they would achieve. They knew that after the first few weeks of sympathy for Israel, the Israelis would invade and begin killing thousands of Gazans, and the tide would turn. They knew that the social media, the campuses, the massive demonstrations would kick in, as well as how the international pronouncements of governments everywhere would line up on their side. 

They’re certainly not fighting us with full page ads in The New York Times. 

Therefore, a big idea creation unit should be the most important brigade of this communication army. It will provide the army’s culture — a culture of extreme creativity. Creativity is the essence of powerful communication today. It is no longer just about an information or messaging dump. It has to be about the big idea of engagement in the lead. 

Collaboration may not be our strong suit, but creativity is. The Jewish people are a creative people. Look at some of the most creative ideas for humanity and you will see the authorship of many Jews. Look at the creativity in tech, arts, food, fashion, dance, television, literature and many other outputs coming from Israel, on a world-class level. The often recited communication formulas for social media, branding, and storytelling will not help us defeat this enemy. The unbridled creativity of the Jewish people, applied to this army, will. This is why I have hope we can win and conquer the hill. 

Third: Stop looking at communication as an intellectual process. To be successful, it must be first and foremost an emotional process. When you are communicating about Israel and the Jewish people, you are communicating our soul to the world. You are balancing the tangible aspect of what we are, with the intangible of who we are. You are expressing the legitimacy of our soul. What does Zionism mean to the soul of the Jewish people? What does modern day Israel mean to the soul of the Jewish people? What does Israel and what it stands for mean to the soul of the world? What does the existence of the Jewish people mean to the soul of the world? What does antisemitism do to the soul of the Jewish people? To the soul of America? The world? 

Fourth: We need to talk about the soul of the Jewish people to the Jewish people themselves. Understanding our soul makes us a stronger people, capable of accomplishing more. It ignites us. It brings us higher. It gives us purpose. 

Fifth: This Jewish communication army will have to be committed to and steeped in Jewish identity. To win, it cannot be made up of advertising professionals who have little knowledge about who we are and instead approach this job as they would a job for footwear or energy drinks. Oct.  7th has taught us we need to know more about communication than any group on the planet. This army has to be trained, ongoing. There needs to be a training unit that not only understands the Jewish people, but also all forms and facets of the constantly evolving communication world. And it never ends. It becomes a permanent part of the Jewish people’s existence. 

Finally, we have to be prepared for how much such an army will cost: Billions of dollars. Communication, which has never been a Jewish priority, must now become one. I cannot tell you how many Jewish organizations would toss me out the door when I explained to them that their $25,000 and $50,000 budgets were not remotely enough to do the real job. They mistakenly thought that they were bringing me in to create branding, which they understood to be a logo, tagline, a narrative and some messaging. They never wanted to hear that communication requires the order of magnitude of resources that the other side was already investing. 

You may be shaking your heads at this amount. But you wouldn’t shake your heads if you were told it was for many capital campaigns or building buildings with donors names on them. For many years, I spent a week each month with the Toronto Jewish community as the communication consultant on a nearly $500 million capital campaign. They raised that kind of money and more in a community of just 200,000 Jews. This proves that across the Jewish world, billions can indeed be raised.

We need to do this because Oct. 7th changed everything. And now everything about the way the Jewish world works must change as well.


Gary Wexler was recently honored by the National Library of Israel with the creation of The Gary Wexler Archive, a 20-year history of Jewish life told through the advertising campaigns he created for Jewish organizations in the US, Canada and Israel. 

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When God Writes the Warning Labels, I’m Listening

For the year 2024, I have a small wish: Not to be insulted so often by warning labels intended for morons. For example, I’ve never been tempted — no matter how hungry — to rip open that tiny, padded square tucked inside the pocket of a new jacket that says “Silica gel. Do not eat,” and pour those beads down the hatch. And have any of you been stunned to learn that you should not fold up the new stroller while your child was still inside it? I bet that even the most die-hard do-it-yourselfers reading the warning on their new rotary tool stating, “This product not intended for use as a dental drill,” never shrugged in response, asking themselves, “What’s the worst that could happen?”  

It’s scary to live in a society with people who require such remedial instructions. I hope they aren’t the same folks answering customer service lines trying to resolve phone and internet billing problems, but based on my experience, I have my doubts. 

I’m not allergic to warnings or rules. As a Jew, I signed up more than 3,300 years ago to be part of this tribe, which has 613 commandments. Of course, I wasn’t there when we received The Law — if I had been, I’d be featured on some sort of infomercial for my remarkable skin — but all Jews were there in one incarnation or other. 

God gave us lots of laws because, let’s face it, we need them. Human beings easily mess things up: we act or speak before we think, and flatter ourselves that we know best when we really don’t. “Truth takes time” said the writer Robert Caro, and it definitely took time for me to realize the truth that if God told me not to do something, or to do something, there was a good reason for it.

Unlike human-made laws and warnings, God’s laws and warnings give me credit for having intelligence greater than that of a head of cauliflower. 

Unlike human-made laws and warnings, God’s laws and warnings give me credit for having intelligence greater than that of a head of cauliflower. God didn’t issue a commandment saying, “Never iron clothes while being worn” or warn me that pepper spray “may irritate eyes.” God’s commandments are not always convenient, but they are good for me. When someone knocks at my door seeking tzedakah, I may not feel like interrupting whatever else I am doing, but in most cases I’m obligated to answer that call, and I become a better person for it. Without Jewish teachings, would this idea have come naturally to me? I doubt it.

One of the most meaningful “warnings” is in the third paragraph of the Shema, cautioning us not to run after the desires of our hearts and our eyes. Even this phrasing contains a lesson. Don’t our eyes see something first before our hearts desire it? That seems true, but the gleam in our eye didn’t start there: that glimmer of desire was already deep in our hearts. This idea alone has given me much to think about, especially regarding my attitude toward materialism.  

When my husband and I were raising our kids, our appreciation for Jewish laws grew exponentially. We could see on a daily basis how teaching them to our children taught essential spiritual and psychological tools such as discipline, self-restraint, compassion and appreciation for the power of words. They learned this from laws of kashruth; practicing the mitzvot of chesed and tzedakah; and learning to choose their words carefully to avoid causing pain through lashon harah. As baalei teshuva, we were honing our own practice in all these areas as well.   

God’s laws and warnings are smart, and He also gets to the point quickly. “Honor your father and your mother.” “Do not steal.” “Love your neighbor as yourself.” (Full disclosure: We can only understand these more deeply by studying the commentaries.) Still, imagine if any of these were written by Congress — the draft form of each one would run to more than 1,000 pages, and that’s before the amendments were strapped on. If you need 1,000 pages to get to the point, I’m not listening. 

God’s advice improves me and enriches my life. When He writes the warnings, I’m reading the labels.


Judy Gruen’s next memoir, “Bylines and Blessings: Overcoming Obstacles, Striving for Excellence, and Redefining Success,” will be published on Feb. 20. She is also a book editor and writing coach.

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