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April 22, 2015

NFL schedule: Jews won’t be happy about football’s Rosh Hashanah start date

On Rosh Hashanah, according to the liturgy, our fate is written in the Book of Life.

But Jewish football fans may be spending the holiday thinking about something else: the NFL opening games they are missing.

The 2015 NFL schedule was released on Tuesday, and the season kickoff is on Sept. 13, which is the first night of Rosh Hashanah.

The first game of the season, as it has been in recent years, is on a Thursday (Sept. 10). But the following Sunday (Erev Rosh Hashanah, Sept. 13) kicks off the season for most of the league’s teams — all but six to be exact. New York area fans will be most disappointed as they prepare to go to synagogue — the Giants play on Sunday night at 8:30.

There are also two Monday night games that coincide with the first full day of Rosh Hashanah. The Philadelphia Eagles, Atlanta Falcons, Minnesota Vikings and San Francisco 49ers all play on Monday.

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Staging tips to sell your home

Have you ever gone to an open house where the smell of freshly baked cookies hits you as soon as you walked in? That’s home staging in action.

When you’re selling a house, first impressions are everything. Buyers make up their minds pretty much as soon as they walk in the door, and the tour of a house usually just confirms their initial reaction. That’s why staging to put your home in the best light is so important.

According to Kathy Nixon of Staged by Kathy, a professional home-staging firm that has prepped more than 80 Westside for-sale properties in just the last year, most buyers do not have much imagination. “Buyers can’t see past any clutter, dirt or ugly furniture to imagine how beautiful a home truly can be.” Nixon says. “They overwhelmingly prefer homes where they can just move in and start enjoying life.”

Nixon has provided the following helpful tips, which may help you sell your home more quickly and at a better price.

Clear the clutter

Keep furniture to a minimum. If you have extra chairs, tables or lamps, hide them in the garage. Stash toys, clothes and personal tchotchkes in closets and drawers. Also, figurines, plates, dolls and crocheted items may give your home a dated feel, so put them in storage.

Accessorize …

A trip to Ross or HomeGoods should yield you some stylish but inexpensive finds. Find some new decorative pillows for your sofa. Put pictures on the walls so the rooms look lived-in. Display all the decorative and nice-smelling candles and soaps you’ve received as gifts.

… But be generic

Buyers also need to imagine themselves living in the home. In their heads, it needs to be able to feel like their home now, not yours. Therefore, Nixon recommends putting away family photos. Sorry, those wedding photos also need to go. Also, remove any religious or political items. Pay attention to what kinds of books you have on your bookshelf. Self-help books are a big no-no. You don’t want buyers to notice you’ve been reading “How to Take Your Ex-Husband to the Cleaners.”

Use neutral colors

Shades of white are preferable, Nixon says, because colors can be polarizing. If a room is painted blue for example, potential buyers don’t think, “I can repaint the room.” They think, “We can’t buy this house because the living room is blue.” Again, buyers have no imagination. Furniture and bedding should be neutral as well.

Spruce up the bathroom

The bathroom is the one room that buyers look at to see how well-kept your house really is. So be sure your bathrooms are spotless. Lower the toilet lid. Hide the toiletries and shampoo. Clean the tub, get the soap scum off the shower door, or buy a new shower curtain. Stock up on new, white fluffy towels and roll them up like they do in spas, but don’t use them — they’re only for the open house. Wrap plain soap bars in decorative paper and display them. And place some greenery on the counter, like an orchid or succulent plant. Nixon recalls, “Once I was looking at photos of a home online, and I kid you not, the toilet seat was up and the cat was walking out of the litter box. Another time a man with an undershirt and a tattoo on his arm was walking in front of the camera carrying a laundry basket!” Yeah, don’t do that.

Brighten the space

Even if your home does not have a lot of natural light, there are steps you can take to brighten your space. Check all the bulbs in your light fixtures to make sure they use the maximum wattage. Then leave on all of the lights during the open house. This is not the time to conserve energy. You can also use candles for soft, ambient light. (However, if candles will be unattended, use battery-operated, LED candles instead.) Replace curtains in darker rooms with sheer curtain panels, which will let in light while still screening out the view of that ugly building next door.

Set the table

Break out the good china and Bubbe’s silverware, and set the table to look like you’re getting ready for a special occasion. It makes the buyer dream of future parties or family dinners. You can even place a nice bottle of wine on the table. (A good bottle, not the cheap stuff.) Candles and a beautiful centerpiece also add to the setting.

Flowers everywhere

Don’t stop with a centerpiece for the dining table. Display flowers or plants on countertops, fireplace mantels, coffee tables and end tables. They can be very simple. Even a vase of leaves or a single branch can make a big impact.


Jonathan Fong is the author of “Walls That Wow,” “Flowers That Wow” and “Parties That Wow,” and host of “Style With a Smile” on YouTube. You can see more of his do-it-yourself projects at Staging tips to sell your home Read More »

Why did we invite Cornel West?

The UCLA Alan D. Leve Center for Jewish Studies, together with Hillel at UCLA, the Ralph J. Bunche Center for African American Studies at UCLA, the UCLA Center for the Study of Religion, and the UCLA departments of History and English, invited Dr. Cornel West (Professor of Philosophy and Christian Practice, Union Theological Seminary and Professor Emeritus, Princeton University) to give a keynote address at our upcoming conference honoring the life, thought, and legacies of Abraham Joshua Heschel. Based on twenty-five years of scholarly engagement with Heschel, we asked West to speak about the impact of Heschel’s ideas and activism, especially in the Civil Rights Movement. We did not invite him to speak about the Boycott, Divestment, and Sanction movement (BDS) or to espouse a boycott of Israel or divestment. The conference organizers decided to put his keynote address in conversation with Reverend James M. Lawson, Jr., one of the leaders of nonviolent protest during the Student Movement and Freedom Rides who was deeply influenced by Heschel, and Heschel’s daughter, Susannah, the Eli Black Professor of Jewish Studies at Dartmouth. You can find the whole conference program, with all 24 speakers, here. The UCLA Alan D. Leve Center for Jewish Studies does not support the cultural or academic boycott of Israel (nor do I personally), as it undermines the fundamental principles of academic freedom and unilaterally imposes a punishment on an entire country, thereby stigmatizing and demonizing it. At the same time, the Center does not apply a political litmus test to potential speakers, faculty, students, or members of the general public.  At a university committed to academic freedom, we do not insist that our speaker’s views be aligned with our own.  We don’t censor or suppress speech, nor do we irresponsibly trumpet one side. Debate, dialogue, difference, and dissent are as central to Jewish values as they are to a thriving democracy. They are the core values that the Center upholds.

Permit me to take a longer look at some of West’s speech. As one of America’s most public intellectuals and outspoken civil rights activists, West has been engaging seriously with Heschel for more than two decades. In 1992, twenty years after the death of Heschel, West commemorated Heschel’s prophetic voice in a profound and moving conversation with Ismar Schorsch, then the Chancellor of the Jewish Theological Seminary. West notes how hard it is to hear Heschel’s prophetic voice because of his bold call for “empathy and sympathy” with the humanity of other people, with the suffering and grief of others.  In 2004, West spoke of Heschel as “the towering prophetic figure of the 20th century” and described the willingness of the prophet to listen to the cry of all of God’s people. He pointed out the internationalism of Heschel’s critiques of injustice, including his indictment of America in the Vietnam War. As recently as 2014, West has argued that the Black prophetic tradition – from Frederick Douglass and W.E.B. Du Bois to Martin Luther King, Jr, Ella Baker, and Ida B. Wells – is infused with the fire of the Hebrew prophets. The Black prophetic tradition is “a message for the country and the world,” one which “has tried to redeem the soul of our fragile democratic experiment” through its commitment to the poor, to working class people, to the weak, and to “the plight of the wretched of the earth” (West, Black Prophetic Fire, 2014). For many Jews and non-Jews, Heschel remains an abiding inspiration.

Recalling Heschel and the history of civil rights activism, I am reminded of the famous photograph taken on March 21, 1965, at the start of the Selma-Montgomery Civil Rights March. In it, Martin Luther King, Jr. is linked hand-in-hand with Ralph Abernathy, Ralph Bunche, the Reverend Fred Shuttlesworth, and Rabbi Abraham Joshua Heschel — a testament to the reality of the interfaith, interracial alliances fighting for civil rights in America. For Heschel, the march was not only a pivotal political protest (which led to the passage of the Voting Rights Act); he considered the very act of marching in solidarity to be imbued with religious prophecy from the activist Judaic tradition.  As always, Heschel’s guidance came from the prophets in the Hebrew Bible who fought for justice and sought out righteousness and kindness through a burning compassion for the oppressed. When King wrote about the Hebrew prophets the following year, he said that they “were needed today because we need their flaming courage. We need them because the thunder of their fearless voices is the only sound stronger than the blasts of bombs and the clamor of war hysteria” (King, “My Jewish Brother!”). Heschel knew that King’s dream was about decency and dignity for all people, a dream of fighting against the persistence of “racism, poverty, militarism, and materialism” (King, “A Testament of Hope”). In fact, as West reminds us many times over, Heschel thought that “the whole future of America will depend upon the impact and influence of Dr. King.” 

In a recent anthology edited and introduced by West on some of King’s writings, West writes that “the radical King looked at Jews through the lens of precious peoples terrorized, traumatized, and stigmatized for more than two thousand years. … There is no doubt that King supported Zionism—the Jewish quest for self-determination—yet he did not live long enough to witness a vicious Israeli occupation that terrorizes, traumatizes, and stigmatizes precious Palestinians. King’s commitment to the security of Israel was absolute—and rightly so. If he had lived, his commitment to the dignity of and justice for the Palestinians would be absolute—and rightly so. He would condemn Israeli state terrorism and Palestinian terrorism, and reject both anti-Arab racism and anti-Jewish racism” (West, The Radical King, 2015). How are we to hear this message and voice?  It is West, reflecting on King, reflecting on Heschel, reflecting on the Hebrew prophets today. For many, it is a profoundly uncomfortable reflection because it imagines a world of justice and peace beyond the absolute dichotomies of friend and foe, self and other, Jew and Palestinian. 

It is also true that West has said much more inflammatory things about the Israeli occupation and the leadership of the United States and of Israel. Some of his harshest language is pointed toward the United States (the prison industrial complex, police violence, racial and class segregation), while also recalling the global dimensions of oppression and anti-colonial movements. Unlike many BDS advocates, West does not have an exclusive focus on Israel and has been critical of the human rights records of other countries, including the occupation of the Tibetan people by China and the occupation of Kashmir by India, as well as the treatment of the poor in Mexico and the United States.  He has also been a vocal critic of speech against the Israeli occupation degenerating into anti-Semitism. 

But some of West’s language is not always precise and, indeed, is downright incendiary.  In an interview with Salon, for example, West said: “Gaza is not just a ‘kind of’ concentration camp, it is the hood on steroids.” As a scholar of the Holocaust and historian of German Jewry, I take grave exception with this facile equation of Gaza with a concentration camp and condemn such a thoughtless remark that would diminish the significance and horror of the Holocaust.

Another example, which has gone viral, is a recent statement attributed to West at Princeton University: the Israelis “are killing hundreds daily – but where are the voices?” If true, West needs to be held accountable for the baselessness of this claim. But to the best of my knowledge, the claim appears to be invented by Kevin Cheng, a reporter who covered West’s participation in the April 8, 2015, event. In a video of the speech he gave, West speaks of his “moral outrage” against what he sees to be “a crime against humanity,” referencing the deaths of 500 children during the fifty-day Israel-Gaza conflict of 2014. Yes, this is highly impassioned language, but the facts are not, according to many credible accounts, inaccurate.  What has happened to our capacity to empathize with suffering and sympathize with all families who have lost children, Palestinian and Jewish?  Heschel provides us with guidance to answer these questions with honesty. 

I don’t know what West is going to say when he comes to UCLA on May 3rd. Perhaps his words will infuse me with inspiration, perhaps they will infuse me with indignation, or perhaps with both. In any case, I am going to listen attentively. I will, then, engage him respectfully and honestly, and I hope that he will do the same with me, with Professor Susannah Heschel and with Reverend James Lawson.

Heschel gives us the moral direction to think and act beyond war, to engage with Judaism through the urgency of justice for all victims of oppression.  The Hebrew prophets provide the moral compass through the “thunder of their fearless voices.” How do we attune ourselves to their voices by seeking justice and relieving the oppressed (to echo Isaiah)?  It was Heschel who hauntingly said: “Judaism without a soul is as viable as a man without a heart.”  Perhaps it’s time to reckon with this truth again.

 

Todd Samuel Presner is Director of the Alan D. Leve Center for Jewish Studies and Professor of Germanic Languages and Comparative Literature, UCLA
 

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An Urgent Call to Rescind Cornel West’s Invitation to Speak in memory of Rabbi Heschel

The Center for Jewish Studies at UCLA recently announced that Cornel West will be the keynote speaker at a conference honoring the late Rabbi Abraham Joshua Heschel. This appointment is both reprehensible and an affront to the memory of Rabbi Heschel, who was a proud Zionist.

Cornel West is the antithesis of everything Rabbi Heschel represented. He consistently demonizes the state of Israel accusing it of being a militaristic and racist regime that unhesitatingly massacres “hundreds of Palestinian babies”.  Furthermore, he has accused both Prime Minister Netanyahu and President Obama of being war criminals and has designated Israel a terrorist state. As a scholar, West should demonstrate some degree of intellectual honesty and argue based on fact instead of relying on propaganda meant to induce hate against Israel.

More than once, Mr. West has likened the Palestinian conflict to slavery in the United States. The nonsensicality of such an analogy is further evidence that Mr. West does not emphasize truth, but instead depends on lies propagated by the enemies of Israel. Comparing the conflict in Israel to the African American struggle in the United State both undervalues the struggle of African Americans in the U.S., and unfairly characterizes Israeli policy. At the same time this rhetoric diminishes the efforts of social pioneers like Rabbi Heschel who advocate for justice and equality, domestically and abroad.

Rabbi Heschel was a man ahead of his time both when it came to social justice and the State of Israel. He identified and labeled racial inequality before most political leaders recognized and acknowledged responsibility. He looked beyond his own struggles and sympathized with a people with whom he had little in common, and from whom he had little to gain. Rabbi Heschel looked at issues from an objective standpoint and made decisions based solely on his empathy as a human being.

In comparison, Mr. West has consistently proven that he is either unable or unwilling to treat the conflict in Israel with the same sensitivity that Rabbi Heschel approached civil rights in the United States. West, demonizes the State of Israel, endorses the Global March to Palestine, and champions the Boycott Divestment and Sanctions efforts against Israel. Time and time again West has criticized Israel for its military operations in Gaza and the West Bank, without ever acknowledging Israel’s right to defend itself against rocket and terrorist attacks that originate from these locations.

West’s involvement with organizations that deny the Jews’ right to Israel, stands in stark contrast to Rabbi Heschel who once stated, “Israel is [a] continuous, uninterrupted insistence, an intimate ingredient of Jewish consciousness, [and] is, at the core of Jewish history, a vital element of Jewish faith.” Rabbi Heschel believed that Israel belonged to the Jews, and the Jews belonged to Israel.

Rabbi Heschel deplored racism and was an advocate for social justice. He respected all people with dignity, in contradistinction to West, who clearly resents the Jewish state and attacks its political allies, including the United States. West seemingly prefers Jews as an oppressed people without any degree of self-determination—only as a defenseless underdog can he empathize with Israel and the Jewish people.

While as a leader in his community, Rabbi Heschel wished to serve as an example for future generations to fight inequality and promote justice. Mr. West’s activities serve to perpetuate these grievances. Therefore, in the strongest way possible we wish to express our dismay with Mr. West’s appointment as keynote speaker, and strongly suggest this invitation be rescinded.

Let’s honor Rabbi Heschel, not the people who actively seek to destroy everything he stood for.

Akiva Nemensky and Liat Menna are first-year students at UCLA and Founders of Students Supporting Israel at UCLA

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From Memorial Day to Independence Day

In a few hours, Israel’s Memorial Day will end and Israel’s Independence Day will begin.

As they say here, once the clock strikes 8 p.m. we will change from a drop of red blood on green fabric to a drop of blue hope on white fabric. The colors could not be more different, but their message could not be more intertwined. 

       Today was my first Yom Hazikaron— Memorial Day– in Israel. Today, Mt. Herzl, the military cemetery  transformed from a cemetery to a mourners home. Each grave was now a person, a person surrounded by loved ones, mothers, sons, daughters, and wives. Israel, the fast-paced, won’t-wait-for-a-second, always busy country, stopped. We stopped talking, we stopped walking, we stopped life, and for a minute, we stood in complete silence. And in that silence, through the streaming tears, and broken hearts, a cry could be heard. A cry of a young boy who never had the chance to marry, a cry of a father who didn't have the chance to kiss his little girl goodbye, and the cry of a mother who never stopped waiting for her son to come home. 

       It is with those wet eyes that we must envision a better future, it is with those trembling hands that we must continue to build our country, and it is through those cracks in our broken hearts, that we must let the light of faith shine through.  It is only after proper recognition and gratitude, that we can celebrate and continue to create what we have. 

         If I may, let me ask you a favor, next time your plane lands on this holy soil: Don’t take it for granted. Even if the plane ride was a bit too uncomfortable, or the food didn't come on time, or you had to wait a little extra for the suitcases, don't lose sight of the big picture. Don't forget the young and the pure-hearted. Don’t forget those who have laid down to rest, so that you can come to a country called home. A country that wears the uniform of God. A country that is waiting for its brothers and sisters to come home, a country where green and white fabric seamlessly blend together and create Israel. 

Sabrina Mahboubi recently immigrated to Israel from Beverly Hills, CA.

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Resolutions Alone Won’t Protect Jewish Students From Campus Anti-Semitism

Breaking news from Palo Alto: Stanford undergraduate Molly Horwitz, a candidate for the Student Senate, was vetted by the Students of Color Coalition about her fitness for office. According to Horowitz, she was asked: “Given your strong Jewish identity, how would you vote on divestment?” Last February, the Stanford student government had approved a resolution for divesting in companies doing business on the West Bank as a way of punishing Israel.

What was Ms. Horwitz’s real sin?  Interviewed by the New York Times, her friend and campaign manager Miriam Pollock said that, earlier this year during the divestment debate, Horwitz wrote several posts on Facebook against it. But then the  two students scrubbed Horwitz’s Facebook page to hide all posts indicating support for Israel, including a photograph of a pair of shoes decorated to look like the Israeli flag.

Why? According to Pollock: “We did it not because she isn’t proud—she is—but the campus climate has been pretty hostile, and it would not be politically expedient to take a public stance,” Ms. Pollock said. “She didn’t want that to be a main facet of her platform.”

The Students of Color Coalition, which denies the charges, barred the Times from covering a “community forum” it held at Stanford’s Black Community Services Center. The Coalition is also being investigated for allegedly asking its endorsed candidates to sign a contract promising not to affiliate with Jewish groups on campus. Several Stanford students interviewed said they saw nothing wrong with this. 

Outrageous? Yes, it is ominously similar to another recent anti-Semitic intimidation at UCLA, where a campaign orchestrated by Students for Justice in Palestine (SJP) to force Jewish students to take an oath—reminiscent of the McCarthy Era—that  they have never made a visit to the Jewish state sponsored by Israel-friendly organization. A Student Senate Council member, soon after passage of another anti-Israel divestment resolution, asked Rachel Beyda, a candidate for a student government judicial position: “Given that you’re a Jewish student and very active in the Jewish community . . . how do you see yourself being able to maintain an unbiased view in your position?” The Student Council initially voted to block Beyda’s appointment, reversing itself only after an administrative watchdog warned council members that blocking Beyda on these grounds would be opening themselves to a Pandora’s Box of charges of conflict of interest.

We at the Simon Wiesenthal Center brought our protests to UC officials at multiple levels. At our meeting with UCLA Chancellor Gene D. Block, he listened to our concerns about anti-Semitism on campus and expressed an interest in visiting the Wiesenthal Center Museum of Tolerance to see our anti-hate programs at work. Now, we await confirmation that he will pay a long overdue exploratory visit.

Meanwhile, student activists have taken a positive initiative. The UCLA student government followed the UC Berkeley Academic Senate by unanimously passing a resolution condemning anti-Semitism and by adopting the U.S. State Department’s definition that includes anti-Zionism. An important step for sure. But a student-passed resolution alone will not protect Jewish students from future anti-Semitic intimidation, bullying or, Heaven forbid, worse.

Changes in training and policy must come from the top; from the adults in the room, who are paid for by California taxpayers and who have the responsibilities and clout to take substantive action. It has been claimed that First Amendment protections rule out punishing groups like SJP that arguably have created a hostile environment by intimidating Jewish students about their backgrounds and beliefs. But in reaction to these blatant moves, what prevents administrators from developing and implementing proactive educational programs aimed at the entire campus community? If such moves are already in the works, the public has a right to know about them now.

If the status quo remains, expect more onslaughts against the freedom of expression and thought against young people who dare express their love and affinity for the democratic Jewish State of Israel. The SJP has already made inroads on more than one campus establishing “loyalty oath” coercion, reminiscent of the McCarthy Era, as a template and strategy for anti-Israel—and anti-Semitic groups—active on campus nationwide.

We are urging that concrete steps be taken to protect Jewish student rights—and identity—on campus. This should include an educational module on the dangers posed on and off campus by “the new anti-Semitism,” to be made part of freshman orientation, paralleling existing educational programs teaching about racism and sexism.

We are ever ready to work with Chancellor Block and university administrators anywhere who have  the will to tackle the problem of campus anti-Semitism head-on. Perhaps there are those who believe the storm has passed and nothing else needs to be done. They are sadly mistaken. The international anti-peace and anti-Israel campaigns continue unabated. They will be target UCLA and many campuses again and again. Game plans need to be outlined to protect the rights and freedoms of our kids.

*Aron Hier is Director of Campus Outreach for the Simon Wiesenthal Center. Historian Harold Brackman is a Center consultant.

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Remembering Life by Jean Berman

I have an affinity for the passage we use from the Shir HaShirim/Song of Songs while washing the body of the meit/deceased:

 

How beautiful you are, my beloved friend:

your eyes are doves from behind your

tresses; your hair as a flock of goats that

trail down from Mount Gil’ad. Your teeth

like a flock of sheep that rise from the

washing-pool, that are all matched with no

break among them. Like a crimson ribbon

your lips, and your speech is pleasant; like a

pomegranate is the curve of your cheek

from behind your tresses. Like a tower of

David your neck, raised in splendor; a

thousand shields hang upon it, shields of

the warriors. Your two breasts as two

fawns, twins of a gazelle, that graze among

the lilies. You are all lovely, my beloved

friend, and there is no flaw in you.

 

During this part of the ritual, I sometimes imagine the wonders that the one before me beheld in her lifetime: snowflakes on her face, the setting sun in her eyes, the smell of fresh lilacs, the touch of a loved one.

When I get a call to participate in taharah (preparation) and Shmirah (guarding the body), I am compelled to answer it above almost anything else. While out of town at a conference, I got such a call and was unable to respond in person. However, I found myself thinking of the decedent all evening, wanting to lend my spiritual support from a distance. Before bed, I found myself imagining experiences in the life she lived, and wrote them down.

Heart beating, eyes blinking, rush of adrenalin, hand stroking skin, goosebumps, muscle spasms, heart’s desire, breathing icy air, a kiss, sweating hot, swimming. Laughing, groaning, weeping, sighing, heartbreak.

Sun bright in the eyes, lifting arms to rain, snowflakes landing on the tongue. Dawn. Sweet, salty, sour, bitter, blowing one’s nose, sneezing, singing, playing music: piano, flute, cello. Moonshadows on snow. Stars through bare winter branches. Feeling peace, love, anger, shared delight.

Climbing into a car, sitting for a long time. Arriving. Joy in the morning, hunger, thirst, eating, chewing, swallowing, hunger satisfied, thirst quenched. Tiredness, exhaustion, anxiety.

Hearing: music, a beloved voice, thunder, an accident, a ringing phone, din of conversation, rain on a metal roof, a rooster crowing, silence, a foreign language, an alarm clock, birdsong.

Touching water, hot, cold, a banana, holding a glass to drink, hand running along smooth silk, bumpy corduroy. Lathering soap on skin, showering, sinking into a warm bath, rubbing with a towel, brushing teeth, brushing hair, dressing, undressing, buttoning, unbuttoning, zipping, unzipping.

Hugging a child, holding an infant, crying in someone’s arms, nodding encouragement. Offering a hand up. Gently, slowly, hungrily touching a mate. Joy in union. Relaxing.

Sewing with needle and thread. Cutting with a scissors. Chopping vegetables. The sizzle of something frying in the pan. Reeling in a fish. Milking a cow, drinking the warm milk. Collecting eggs, gathering maple sap, tending a woolly sheep, growing a garden, fingers in earth.

Being barefoot on smooth soil, soft grass, in a puddle. Praying alone, praying with others, giving thanks.

Reading, itching, scratching, smelling lilacs, a cake in the oven, steaming chicken soup, a wood fire, burning plastic, salt sea air. Thinking, writing, having a headache, walking in the woods, licking an ice cream cone. Telling a story, hearing a story.

Seeing a beautiful flower, a sunset, crashing waves, a coming storm, high mountains, waving grasses, a squirrel, a woodpecker, the face of a loved one after separation.

Running, falling down, getting bruised and scraped. Healing.

Feeling nauseous. Coughing. Having a fever. Taking pills. Lying in bed without energy. Needing the help of others. Talking, screaming, whispering, whimpering. Falling asleep, waking. Falling asleep, waking.

Letting go.

 

Jean Berman speaks and leads workshops on Honor and Comfort: The Jewish Way of Death and Mourning, Care of the Newly Dead – An Inquiry into Intuition and Tradition, and How Death Enhances Life: Heightening our Awareness. She enjoys walks in nature, kayaking and playing ukulele, and lives on Peaks Island, Maine. She is a student of the “>Kavod v’Nichum.

 

 

  

 


 

A TASTE OF GAMLIEL

Free, with a suggested minimum donation of $36 to help defray our costs in providing all five sessions.

The first session (RabbiT’mimah Ickovits) was Sunday February 1st, the second (Dr. Eitan Fishbane) on March 1st, the third (Rabbi Dr. Burton Visotzky) on March 29th

The fourth session (Rabbi Goldie Milgram) will be on WEDNESDAY,  May 20th at 8 pm EST.  All sessions will be recorded and available for (re-)viewing by those who are registered. 

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Chevrah Kadisha and Spiritual Care Conference

 

Planning to be in Israel May 5th 2015?  If so, the American Kavod v'Nichum and its Gamliel Institute cordially invite you to attend a Chevrah Kadisha and Spiritual Care conference focused on traditional Jewish practices at the end of life.

Kavod v’Nichum Israel-American Kenes

Dignity, Simplicity, Comfort and Spirituality At Life’s End

What:  A program of learning and an exchange of information focusing on Chevra Kadisha, Spiritual Care and end of life issues. (Program in English)

Why: To compare and contrast American and Israel end of life practices – funeral and burial planning, tahara, shmira, mourning; to learn from each other, share problems, network, strategize, brainstorm and explore working together.

For Whom: Chevra Kadisha administrators and workers, rabbis and rabbinic students, Israeli spiritual care providers; social workers, medical professionals, Chevra Kadisha students at Ariel University, advocacy groups, members of the national religious community, cemetery managers from kibbutzim, moshavim, civil and state sponsored cemeteries.

Sponsor: The Gamliel Institute of Kavod v’Nichum, an American non-profit organization that provides education and training for Chevra Kadisha groups.

When: Tuesday May 5, 2015

Time: 8:30am-5:00 pm

Where: Jerusalem – Yad Ben Tzvi – Ibn Gabirol Street 14

More Information: Contact Nomi Roth Elbert (nomire@gmail.com ) to be put on our mailing list.

UPCOMING GAMLIEL INSTITUTE COURSES

Starting in May:

Chevrah Kadisha: Educating, Organizing, & Training. Tuesdays. 12 online sessions. (Orientation session on Monday May 25th, classes start the 26th). 8-9:30 pm EDST. Working with and educating the members of the Chevrah Kadisha, your congregation, the community, other organizations, and the public. Includes undertaking a project that will have practical and real world effect, and will also serve as information and a resource for others. Prerequisites: Successful completion of Gamliel Institute Course 1, 2, or 5.

Chevrah Kadisha: History, Origins, & Evolution. Tuesdays, 12 online sessions starting in October  (orientation session Monday, classes start the next day, on Tuesday. Check the website for specific dates), 8-9:30 pm EST. An examination of the modern Chevrah Kadisha from 1656 in Prague, through history, as imported to Europe and the world, broughts to the US, and as it has developed and changed over time, bringing us up to the present. 

You can “>jewish-funerals.org/gamreg. Contact us for more information about scholarships or any other questions. info@jewish-funerals.org or call 410-733-3700.  

 


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Martini Judaism Has Moved — Please Follow Us!

I have never been good with goodbyes. And I suppose that this isn't very different. 

For those of you who have been looking for Martini Judaism, there's bad news, and there's good news. The bad news is that the blog has “>Wilbur Award for best religion blog of the year. It is a nice honor, and it has influenced me to broaden my subject matter and my intellectual and spiritual reach. 

I thank the Jewish Journal of Los Angeles for “housing” Martini Judaism in its formative years. It has been a major honor to be part of the discourse of Los Angeles Jewry. 

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Pope Francis to bestow knighthood on New York rabbi

Pope Francis will confer papal knighthood on Rabbi Arthur Schneier of Manhattan’s Park East Synagogue.
Schneier, the founder of the Appeal of Conscience Foundation and a Holocaust survivor, is being honored for his work promoting peace and mutual understanding, according to Vatican officials. Schneier will formally become a knight of Saint Sylvester at a ceremony on April 27 at the official residence of the Vatican’s representative to the United Nations, Archbishop Bernardito Auza. Cardinal Timothy Dolan of New York is slated to be present.
Other members of the Order of Saint Sylvester include the late entertainer Bob Hope and Oskar Schnidler, the German industrialist credited with saving more than 1,000 Jews from the Nazis.
“Pope Francis is bestowing the honor on Rabbi Arthur Schneier, who has worked unceasingly to promote peace and mutual understanding, in the firm conviction that respect for fundamental human rights, including religious freedom, are indispensable values for all peoples of the world to enjoy peace, security and shared prosperity,” Auza said in a statement. “A Holocaust survivor, Rabbi Schneier has always held this conviction in his heart and made it a principle of life.”
When the last pope, Benedict XVI, visited New York in April 2008, he visited Schneier’s synagogue, where the two exchanged gifts. Schneier was given a replica of a medieval Jewish manuscript from the Vatican library, and the pope received a seder plate, a Haggadah and a box of matzah.

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Jewish Agency recognizes terror victims outside of Israel

The Jewish Agency for Israel remembered the victims of anti-Semitic attacks outside of Israel at a ceremony in Jerusalem on Israel’s Memorial Day.

Wednesday’s memorial focused on the victims of the terror attack on the Hyper Cacher kosher supermarket in Paris in which four Jewish men were killed, and an attack on a Copenhagen synagogue that left a volunteer security guard dead.

Family members of the victims of the two attacks attended the ceremony at the Jewish Agency headquarters.

“We have discovered that the battlefield is not on the borders of Israel but in every Israeli city, and we furthermore discovered, once again, that the battlefield is not only on Israeli soil, but in every Jewish school and synagogue, and even in kosher supermarkets around the world,” Jewish Agency Chairman Natan Sharansky said at the ceremony.

“What protects us in Israel is conventional weapons: the power of the Israeli army. In the Diaspora, what protects us is an unconventional weapon: the solidarity of the Jewish people.”

Amedy Coulibaly, an Islamist, killed his Jewish victims at the Hyper Cacher market on the eastern edge of Paris during a daylong siege Jan. 9 and standoff with police. About a month later, the guard Dan Uzan was shot and killed outside the central Copenhagen shul, or Krystalgade Synagogue, by a lone Islamist gunman.

“My husband Phillipe was taken from me and from our children in the terrorist attack at Hyper Cacher in France. He was murdered for one reason: because he is a Jew,” said Valerie Braham, the widow of Philippe Braham. “The great hatred for the Jewish people entered my home and destroyed my family. It also touches every home and family in the Jewish people. Today we all feel the same pain.”

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