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January 2, 2014

Matisyahu says new album in the works

Good news Matisyahu fans. The hip-hop/reggae/beat-boxing artist released the following message today: 

Happy Solar New Year to my friends and fans across the world.

I am writing this from my phone in my hotel room in Miami before a performance. Looking at the white curtains blowing against white walls, I'm brought back to my room in Tel Aviv several months ago across the ocean and I'm thinking about how much time I've spent in hotel rooms over the year; all the airplanes and time spent on my tour bus. All the soundchecks and times I sang “One Day”. All the breakthrough moments on stage and off. I feel our relationship has grown. I've come to meet, sing, and pray with so many people I've met at shows this past year. Getting to know my fans has been a major focus for me over the year. Reporters sometimes ask, “who are your fans?” I tell them they are not this or that…just as I am not any one thing. I am so excited to be growing and expanding as a human and a musician. I'm truly grateful to be given the chance to grow and create and have you all with me. My new record AKEDA will be released god willing this spring. It goes inward, which is my wish for the new year to you all. Continue to grow and change and live this insanity we have been given called life. Ill see you down the road with new music and fresh energy for the new year.

Akeda (“Binding of Isaac”) refers to a story in Genesis, in which Abraham is instructed by God to sacrifice his son, Isaac. 

I am sure we will find out soon enough why Matis has chosen such an uplifting reference as the name of his new record.

 

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Of Fish Tacos and Otherness –By Rabbi Hyim Shafner

I grew up in the 1970’s in one of the only Orthodox Jewish families in a small Connecticut town.  I did not know then that kosher keeping Jews could eat in a restaurant.  I never had eaten in one and the thought of doing so did not even cross my mind.   Once a year we would make the three hour drive to Manhattan where there were, I think three or four kosher restaurants.

I was recently in Los Angeles walking along Pico Boulevard near Robertson where almost every restaurant, perhaps 20 or so, is kosher.  Sitting in one of the LA kosher Chinese restaurants as my company critically evaluated the food, I remembered myself as a child eating my once-a-year lunch at Moshe Peking, eating such “exotic” food, and thinking, this must be the best food in the entire world, how lucky am I, how lucky are the Jewish people to have such a gift, a fancy restaurant to eat at in New York City. 

Fast forward to last week, eating fish tacos on Malibu Beach where the only restaurant, and indeed prominently located across from the Malibu Peer, is kosher.  One would not have known if they did not look for the hashgacho, the kosher supervision symbol, that it was kosher, and no doubt the many non-Jewish Asian tourists eating there did not. 

It seems in 40 years the relationship of Jews to restaurants has revolved 180 degrees.   To sit in one of the few kosher restaurants in the 1970’s was to feel that one had been given a perhaps all too indulgent gift, taken a bit of the non-Jew’s ambrosia.  Now the restaurant itself is Jewish and it is the non-Jew who must enter our domain if they wish to have the most trendy food on the trendiest beach. 

Perhaps there is a danger in this, the Jew riding at the crest of the popular wave, the Jew becoming the measure of society instead of the outcast who is allowed periodically to feel a bit like everyman when eating out.  Perhaps suddenly, the other has become everyman, the outsider can now feel not only like the insider but like the measure of all things.  I wonder how this might take its toll on what it means to be a Jew in exile, on what it means to be a Jew at all. 

Perhaps the greatest irony is in that our rabbis created certain food laws to keep the Jew separate from the non-Jew, for instance not eating their cooking or their bread and so making it more difficult to socialize with them, in their world.  Never did they imagine that those boundaries would erode due to the non-Jew eating the cooking of the Jew, that the Jew would become the measure of society at large, or at least of the trendy fish taco joint in the most prime location on Malibu beach. 

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The Mensch List 2013

Last month, for our eighth-annual mensch list, we again invited all of you to submit your nominations of extraordinary volunteers, and again the outpouring of suggestions of amazing people was overwhelming. We faced this enormous response only to wonder, once again, how to choose from, among others, a Holocaust survivor who makes an annual trek with teens to the Birkenau concentration camp to ensure they know the story; an Iranian-born woman who created an emergency fund for those in need in her community; an Israeli who matches up his fellow countrymen to business contacts and a high schooler who resells designer bags to help African refugees. (And those are just three who made the cut.)

This list could have been much longer — what we offer here is just a sampling of the extraordinary people who give so much to make the world a better place. If your nominees were not included this time, please remember, we’d love to see those names, and more, again next year. We are inspired by all of these stories and highlight this list of mensches each year to motivate us all to live up to their example.

The Mensch List

Eldad Hagar, Dogged devotion

Sidonia Lax, A survivor marches with the living

Jaleh Naim, A passion for helping struggling Iranian-Americans

Jacob Segal, The matchmaker

Stephen M. Levine, A magical ability to conjure up fun

Maya Steinberg, She has tzedakah in the bag

Leslye Adelman, Feeding body and soul

Armin Szatmary, Person of the Book

Leon Shkrab, Bearing witness to Russians’ Holocaust stories

Wendy Colman Levin, The way home

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The Mensch List: Hope for Paws founder’s dogged devotion

When Eldad Hagar, co-founder of the dog rescue Hope for Paws, arrived at the trash heap in Wilmington last November, a defeated-looking white husky huddled miserably amid the garbage, her red and raw body racked with mange, bacterial infections and parasites. The dog was too listless to run away or even to move as Hagar approached. But Hagar patiently sat with and fed the dog he would name Miley, until he was able to coax her into his Honda SUV more than an hour later. His heartrending YouTube video depicts the rescue, as well as Miley’s remarkable recovery and her friendship with another stray, Frankie, a black Chihuahua that Hagar saved by crawling deep inside a tunnel running under the I-5 freeway in Sylmar.

Miley and Frankie are just two of thousands of dogs that Hagar, along with his wife, Audrey, have rescued and found homes for since 2001: “I always save the most miserable, saddest, sickest dogs,” said Hagar, who prefers to handle the rescue missions solo. “They’re matted, starving, filthy, shot with BB guns. One pit bull mix had been shot, hit by a car and he was so hungry that he had eaten rocks to fill his stomach.”

Hagar has been rescuing animals since he was 5 in the northern Israeli town of Zichron Ya’akov, where neighbors knew to bring him stay dogs, kittens, birds and even hedgehogs that he would nurse back to health.

After marrying Audrey in 1999, the couple began volunteering with local animal groups and then fostered hundreds of dogs before Hagar began rescuing strays and capturing his missions on videotape for YouTube. The couple founded Hope for Paws in 2008, which survives on funds donated mostly from followers of their two Facebook pages.

One of Hagar’s some 200 YouTube videos shows him tying two ladders together with a leash to save a German shepherd trapped 20 feet below him in the Los Angeles River in Compton; another depicts him saving Frankie from the tunnel where she had almost drowned. But it was the video of Fiona, a terrified, blind poodle mix who underwent surgery to repair one of her eyes, that went viral last year and put Hope for Paws on the global map.

The organization now has 500,000 followers on Facebook, and Hagar has begun a new mission to spay and neuter strays with a mobile unit that treated 1,000 dogs last month. He now works 15 hours a day rescuing up to 20 dogs per week, driving to veterinary appointments and working to find the animals new homes, among other endeavors. “In my car I carry traps, ropes, fencing, flashlights — I’m ready for everything,” he said.

Hagar has rescued other animals as well: Last year, he chanced upon a donkey on the side of the road in the Negev Desert, its front legs tied together with rope that had cut to the bone; he waited for two hours in the searing heat until his friend from Israel’s Pegasus sanctuary arrived to pick up the animal.

“There are 30,000 dogs on the streets of Los Angeles each night,” he said of his work here. “There are so many living in horrible conditions, and they can’t help themselves. Miley, for example, would not have gotten better over time; she would have deteriorated and died a painful, miserable death.”

For information about Hagar’s work, visit hopeforpaws.org.

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The Mensch List: A survivor marches with the living

Sidonia Lax, now 86, survived the Holocaust but won’t let that define her. “I am a thriver,” she said. A stroll through her Sherman Oaks home is proof — her walls overflow with decades of family photos and mementos of her work as a member of the Sherman Oaks Neighborhood Council and other organizations. 

The most striking objects in her family room, however, are a bright red apple and a poster showing her giving a speech. The caption reads, “In 2048, on Israel’s 100th anniversary, Sidonia Lax will be speaking to an entire generation.” When Lax speaks, you cannot doubt it. 

Since 2007, she has literally led the charge of the BJE — Builders of Jewish Education’s March of the Living, which brings high school seniors from all over for a march at the Birkenau concentration camp in Poland and then leads them to Israel for Independence Day. Although the March of the Living has taken place since 1988, Lax put her stamp on it when her grandson (then a senior at Milken Community High School) wrote a letter imploring her to get involved.  

During her first tour, she realized she had the power to make the March even more relatable to the participants. “Until I spoke the sentence, ‘I slept here,’ for the first time, the memory was not real,” Lax recalled recently. “Elie Wiesel said that when you hear a witness, you become a witness. My objective is to be one witness who inspires thousands of other witnesses, who can relay what lessons they learn to others.”

While Lax said she works out every day to be fit enough to make the journey in the spring of each year, she also puts her heart and soul into a scholarship program bearing her name that enables more Jewish teens with limited financial resources to make the life-changing trip. Her ultimate goal with the march participants is to redefine what “Holocaust” means on a collective level.

“I want to shift the paradigm of the word ‘Holocaust’ so it represents life and not death, and how meaningful it can be when you thrive and take charge of it,” Lax continues. “Our visit to Poland is not just intended to show how people died, but how we lived. We had a rich Jewish life and community before the war. I believe you have to touch people before you teach them about something. Therefore, I show them an apple before I tell my story.”

After three months of living in squalor in the Jewish ghetto of Przemysl, then-14-year-old Sidonia’s parents had heard that fresh apples had been smuggled inside. Her father perished as he tried to get his daughter one of those apples. As Lax details this, she points to the apple on her table and then to an artwork that juxtaposes an apple with her concentration camp number and an image of herself at age 14 with her parents.  

Lax said that in sharing her story, she also receives something special back from the kids. “The March has taught me to think like an 18-year-old, because I know what their passions and interests are,” she said. “The experience has rejuvenated me completely, and because of this, I don’t see myself as old. In my opinion, only a fine aged cheese is old. I need to stay well to be there for those kids.”

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The Mensch List: A passion for helping struggling Iranian-Americans

Two years ago Elena J., a middle-aged, impoverished Iranian-Jewish woman in Los Angeles, was stricken with a rare illness that forced surgeons to amputate one of her legs. With no family and no friends locally to help her, Elena faced a grim future, as she did not have enough money to purchase a prosthetic leg or the means to get around town. Through word of mouth, she found Jaleh Naim, a San Fernando Valley-based Iranian-Jewish volunteer, who, in just a week’s time, helped Elena acquire a prosthetic leg with assistance from California’s social services agencies. Naim also raised enough money from others in the Iranian-Jewish community to help Elena purchase a special car outfitted for the handicapped. 

This type of effort is not unusual for Naim, who for more than a decade has worked part time and also volunteered much of her day for various local nonprofit Jewish organizations aiding the underprivileged. Yet, her greatest impact has come in the last four years, during which time she has raised substantial amounts of money from local Iranian Jews and distributed those funds to struggling Iranians of all faiths.

“People don’t really know who I am and the type of work I do — I prefer it that way because we are able to help raise money just through word of mouth from different circles of friends and family that contribute whatever amounts of money they can afford to give,” Naim said.

Four years ago, Naim and her volunteer partner Afsar Mogahdam helped start a Jewish emergency fund with the help of the leadership at Beith David Educational Center in Tarzana. “We realized that many people in our community could have their problems simply resolved with a little bit of financial help to get them back on their feet and moving again,” Naim said. “There are different situations, where they lost their jobs and are behind on rent, they have family problems and no way of feeding themselves, or they have encountered medical issues and have no means to pay for the care they need. We try to help as many people as we can with our limited resources.”

Naim said that, through her volunteer work for various local nonprofit groups, she encounters daily Iranian Jews, Muslims, Christians and Baha’is who need financial help. She personally conducts background checks on them to make sure they truly are needy. 

“I raise money among friends and family I know on an individual or case-by-case basis, and they give anywhere from $100 to $1,000,” Naim said. “We disburse the money fairly quickly for each individual person in need that I have checked myself, so there really isn’t a large amount of money in this account at any one time,” Naim said of a special bank account for the donated funds that she and Mogahdam set up for this purpose.

Others who work with Naim in aiding Iranian-Americans in need in Los Angeles say she is a rarity, as many Iranian-Jewish women of her generation are not heavily involved on a day-to-day basis in helping homeless or poverty-stricken people.

“Mrs. Naim is an incredible asset to the larger Iranian community in this city because she is able, in a remarkable way, to truly help individuals and families that are really in need and struggling to survive,” Mogahdam said.

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The Mensch List: The matchmaker

For a moment, it seemed like Jacob Segal was the interviewer.

Walking into Delice Bakery on a recent Monday morning, the 67-year-old businessman was already there, sitting by the window facing Pico Boulevard, huddled over the Los Angeles Times.

He stood up energetically, gave a broad smile worthy of a good Jewish zayde, and asked in a hybrid Israeli and Eastern European accent, “What do you want for breakfast?” 

And over the course of the next 45 minutes, Segal’s questions illustrated why he’s so good at what he does.

“Where do you live?” he asked curiously. “Are you seeing anyone?”

That’s just who Jacob Segal is — a networker, shmoozer, people person and volunteer shadchen, or matchmaker. No, not for prospective couples, but for Israeli entrepreneurs looking for capital and expertise in Southern California.

Since 1994, Segal has been a real-life LinkedIn, connecting Israeli entrepreneurs with investors in Southern California. As the head of the Southern California Israel Chamber of Commerce (SCICC), Segal works tirelessly with a handful of dedicated volunteers to help Israeli entrepreneurs find what and who they are looking for in the local economy.

Never taking a dime of compensation for the valuable relationships he helps create, Segal arranges monthly meet-and-greets, usually midweek breakfast events at different venues in the city. 

In April, he brought Haifa-based Chagit Rubinstein to an early-morning bagel breakfast in Century City to talk about her microfinance initiative. It was a unique opportunity to make her pitch, shmooze, and network with potential investors. 

Some of the shidduchim — matches — turn into long, happy business relationships. Some last for a few years and then sputter out. And some, well, let’s just say they weren’t meant to be.

From coupling an Israeli electrical grid monitoring company with local energy firms to helping the non-profit Israel for Africa set up a 501(c)(3) in America, Segal is, in a way, repaying the country that helped get him out of the former Soviet Union and into the free world.

Born in August 1946, Segal grew up in Iasi — a city known as the cultural center of Romania — under communist rule. Secretly tuning in to radio broadcasts of Kol Israel and the Voice of America, Segal was eager to leave Romania. 

In 1965, he got his wish, moving to Israel, where the government paid the costs of resettlement for Segal, then 19; his mother; and his brother and sister.

Segal believes that growing Israel’s economy, relationship by relationship, helps the world see Israel in a different light. “Economics is the best way to do good diplomacy,” Segal likes to say, explaining how products and technology made in Israel help frame the Jewish state in a light that doesn’t involve green lines, negotiations and settlements.

Shai Aizin, who was Israel’s consul for economic affairs to the West Coast and based in Los Angeles between 2005 and 2009, said that Segal and SCICC have helped him in his role as a private businessman since he moved to Israel.

“They’ve helped tremendously,” Aizin said in a phone interview from Israel in April. “They are always willing to see what they can do and how they can help.”

As Segal put it as he polished off the last of his cheese-and-spinach boureka, “If there’s a need, we’ll find a way.” 

Then he sat down and waited for his next interviewee — a girl he wanted to speak with before recommending her to a local businessman and friend looking to fill an opening.

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The Mensch List: A magical ability to conjure up fun

California “Super Lawyer”/magician Stephen M. Levine likes to joke that he can make legal troubles disappear. Ditto for rabbits and quarters.

Unfortunately, he can’t make the same promise about the troubles facing all of the people he meets through his volunteer performances — sick kids at a children’s hospital, aging amputees at a Veterans Administration (VA) campus.

“It tugs at you,” Levine, a father of two, said. “You wonder, are they going to be around next year?”

But the Agoura Hills resident — also known as Stephen the Spectacular — does what he can to at least bring a smile to their faces. Despite working full time as a real estate and business trial lawyer, he regularly trades in his briefcase for a magic wand.

“I do it because I love performing for the kids,” Levine said. “I enjoy it — to make people feel good, to give them that sense of wonderment.”

Sometimes he is paid when he performs, but Levine believes it’s important to give back, too. A member of the Magic Castle’s outreach committee, he was among those who strolled through a group of 4,000 veterans, active-duty personnel and their families, doing magic for nearly five hours during a recent holiday event — only to leave for another charity event. 

Adept at stage, parlor and close-up magic, Levine has opened his bag of tricks for schools, synagogues, senior living facilities, the Boys & Girls Clubs of Venice, the Muscular Dystrophy Association, the VA, an autism support group and other places. Sometimes he’s there to help with fundraising, other times he just wants to spread a little fun.

Don’t assume Levine’s work is only about catering to kids. These days, parents and grandparents may need to believe in a little magic, too.

“Adults, I think, want to believe more, especially in these times. They want to be able to suspend reality,” he said.

Levine, 50, grew up on Long Island in New York, where he first got into magic as a preteen. He gave it up when he went to college, only to rediscover the skill much later as a means of calming his then-3-year-old daughter.

These days, he’s well practiced. He can make your body levitate and your head disappear. 

Perhaps his best tricks, though, have nothing to do with magic. At The New Shul of the Conejo in Agoura Hills, for example, he founded the Men’s Club and is currently the group’s president. In this capacity, he’s helped initiate things like family hikes and single-malt scotch tastings.

“For a lot of guys, especially ones that work, it gives them a sense of camaraderie and community,” he said.

And as the head of Friends of the Agoura Hills Library, he’s helped raise hundreds of thousands of dollars in recent years by assisting with its used-book store, the Book Cellar. That money pays for periodicals, programming and more.

No need to thank Levine for any of this, though. Really. He remembers some veterans in wheelchairs who once tried.

“I said, ‘No. Thank you. I appreciate what you did for this country.’ ”

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The Mensch List: She has tzedakah in the bag

Maya Steinberg, 17, never imagined that Purses for Peace, the bat mitzvah project she started when she was 12, would be so successful.

Yet, by reselling used handbags to raise funds for Jewish World Watch (JWW) she has raised $15,000 for the Encino-based organization. And hearing Steinberg — a senior at Beverly Hills High School — talk about it, it’s not hard to see why the project has flourished.

“I feel very passionate about helping others and making a difference, and I also love fashion; it’s so fun,” she said in a recent interview. “I really think Purses for Peace is the best of both worlds for me.”

The money supports JWW’s Solar Cooker Project, a flagship program of the anti-genocide organization. 

The Solar Cooker Project provides women confined to refugee camps in central Africa with the tools to build solar cookers so they don’t have to leave the safety of the camps to search for firewood, risking rape and even death from pillaging terrorists, according to JWW’s Web site.

Steinberg said it was the Jewish concept of l’dor v’dor (passing on tradition from one generation to the next) and tzedakah (charitable giving) that inspired her when she was preparing for her bat mitzvah. She raised $3,000 from her first sale of purses, which she held at her parents’ home in Beverly Hills. Highlights included one customer paying $250 for an alligator-skin bag. The sale went well, and she knew the cause was important, so she decided to keep it going.

“I was just, like, ‘Wow, this is so exciting. This is something I would love to continue doing because it’s fun and making such a great impact,’ ” she said.

But before the used bags are turned into solar-cooking gold, several steps must be undertaken. She has to continually replenish her inventory of handbags, which she says often come from relatives, family friends and members of Stephen S. Wise Temple, the synagogue her family attends. She cleans each bag, and then seeks out opportunities to sell them. This last task has not presented too much difficulty for Steinberg — she has brought her purses everywhere, including JWW’s annual Walk to End Genocide, among other events. 

Janice Kamenir-Reznik, president of JWW, praised Steinberg for becoming engaged with serious subject matter at such a young age. 

What does the future hold for the project? Next year, Steinberg will enter college, but she is working with JWW to find other teens to continue the project.

In addition to fashion, Steinberg said she is interested in travel. Africa, of course, is high on the list of places she’d like to visit.

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The Mensch List: Feeding body and soul

While some synagogue sanctuaries are adorned with fresh flowers, the bimah of Temple Beth Hillel in Valley Village is lined with towers of fresh apples and oranges. Although the décor, devised by Leslye Adelman, is stylish, it is also functional. Every Monday, the fruit moves to the North Hollywood Interfaith Food Pantry (NHIFP), a coalition of synagogues and churches that provides about 5,000 meals per month to the needy.  

“The first time I brought the fruit over, there was one homeless man who sat down with an apple in each hand,” Adelman recalled. “He devoured them as a small child would do with candy. It brought tears to my eyes that he was so grateful to have fresh fruit. The two years I’ve put in to adding fresh fruit into the mix of non-perishable food at the pantry was well worth the time and effort.”

Adelman’s three children are grown, yet she remains a mother figure in her professional and personal lives. Her work as a lactation consultant, childbirth educator and infant care specialist keeps her busy, but she finds the time and energy to oversee operations and volunteer activities at the pantry. She also volunteered for the 2013 Union for Reform Judaism Biennial and the Women of Reform Judaism Assembly, as well as at Temple Beth Hillel, home base for the 30-year-old food pantry.  

While this schedule may pose a challenge to even the most philanthropic souls, for Adelman, staying involved in the community is second nature. 

“When you’re passionate about something and you live what you are doing, everything just falls into place,” she said. “As I see it, [earning money through] my career is what keeps me able to do the food pantry. If you really believe in what you are doing, you make the time. I don’t think twice if somebody from the pantry calls and tells me they need something done, or they are short on help for some crisis with the pantry. It’s something I do, and I do not question where or how I will come up with the time.” 

Adelman tries to inspire this mindset in other volunteers as she trains them, be they 5 or 95 years old. The way she raised her own children plays into her training approach. When school groups, scout troops or family members arrive, she starts with the basics — the history of the pantry and how it serves the community. From there, she personalizes the experience so each person can see how their mitzvot make a difference to individuals and the community.

“We have grown from serving primarily homeless people, to the wider community,” Adelman said. “I want to instill in the volunteers that they could be in need tomorrow, and this is one reason why they should take their work at the pantry seriously. On the other hand, especially when training younger kids, I want them to enjoy what they’re doing, whether it is bagging or sorting groceries, and make a game out of it. Some of the kids end up coming back week after week. I’m certainly still here.”

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