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February 12, 2012

Romance and Disabilities

With chocolate hearts and annoying radio ads for pajama-grams (can’t think of a worse present) vying for our attention this week, it’s easy to forget about what love is really all about, and that all of us humans have a strong drive to find love, even when we might least expect it.

When I worked at the Alzheimer’s Association there often stories of people finding new loves while living in assisted living or nursing homes, even if their memories flickered off and on. Most of the time, they were like elementary school crushes, with some hand holding and whispering in corners, but other relationships involved more intimacy if they could find enough privacy.

In Israel, there’s a non-governmental organization called Shalheveth, which provides services for adults with severe physical disabilities, including a program called “Significant Other,” in which adults with severe physical disabilities are given the support and tools they need to have healthy relationships.

As quoted in a recent Jerusalem Post article the Chair of this organization, Miriam Freier, recognizes the need for this population to have all the life choices of any adult, including a romantic relationship.

“Often, severely physically disabled adults are not presented with many opportunities to meet friends, make new acquaintances or find life partners,” says Freier, adding that their physical limitations coupled with social marginalization can often create “a life of severe emotional deprivation and isolation.”

I found out about this unusual program from the Zeh LeZeh blog of the Israel-based Ruderman Family Foundation, which has donated $15,000 to Shaleveth for their “Significant Other” workshop series and couples counseling, in addition to actively promoting inclusion of people with disabilities in all facets of Israeli and Jewish life.

Back in Los Angeles, our 17-year-old son with developmental disabilities told me that he wanted to give a “DVD-Spongebob” to a cute gal in his special education class for Valentine’s Day. This young lady is very kind and is on the autistic spectrum. Most of her verbal communication is considered to be “echolalia” in which people reflexively repeat overhead words. In Danny’s case, this means a lot of “Oh My God” and “Sheesh”, not to mention “Macarena”.

I also learned from Danny’s aide that there’s another teenage girl in his special education class with Down syndrome who keeps hugging Danny whenever she gets the chance, but Danny doesn’t seem to reciprocate those feeling at the same level. The take away here is that even when you least expect it, the desire and quest for love is deep and abiding.

PS Spread a little love yourself by signing the Inclusion Pledge at the Los Angeles Federation website. For each signature, one dollar (up to $5,000) will be donated to Jewish special needs inclusion programs.

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February 12, 2012

The Ticking Clock

Writing in Foreign Policy, Robert Haddick presents the case why this time, Israel is not bluffing when it comes to a strike on Iran.

Yet from Israel’s point of view, time really has run out. The sanctions have come too late. And when Israeli policymakers consider their advantages and all of the alternatives available, an air campaign, while both regrettable and risky, is not reckless.

Betting on Syria’s Assad staying in power

While there is general consensus that Syrian President Bashar Assad cannot survive, it would imprudent to believe his end is imminent, writes Bernd Debussman in Ma’an.

Some experts on Syria expressed deep pessimism over an early end to the Syrian bloodshed even before China and Russia vetoed a United Nations Security Council resolution that provided for Assad to hand over power to a deputy, withdraw troops from towns, stop the killing of dissidents, and begin a transition to democracy.

FOLLOWING THE MONEY: A Look at Jewish Foundation Giving

Erik Ludwig and Aryeh Weinberg of the Institute for Jewish and Community Research examine the giving habits and pet projects of Jewish charitable orqanizations.

This summary examines giving characteristics of selected Jewish foundations with approximately $20 billion in combined assets who made grants of $1.4 billion to Jewish causes. The data revealed that perhaps the most important decision private foundations have made is to continue to provide significant support toward traditional centralized organizations while also seeding innovative Jewish projects and organizations.

In conversation: Nathan Englander and Jonathan Safran Foer

In a piece for the Guardian, two of the world’s most esteemed contemporary Jewish writers discuss their friendship, work and religion and their collaboration on a new translation of the Haggadah.

… I can’t believe we’re both sitting here, because we’ve spent so many years on this project. More than three years ago, you said to me: it’s going to be a lovely project. I don’t know if anyone else could have talked me into this. Translating it has been three years of my life. It’s different from fiction. I have a book of stories just out and I would never say: oh, look at these! But this is a different interaction. We’re showing respect for something that is not ours, that we made, that we’re part of.

It is time to banish wishful thinking about Islamism

Writing in the Financial Times, Ayaan Hirsi Ali warns that the Islamist parties who are rising to power in a post-Arab Spring era have no intention of modernizing and embracing democracy.

To compare Islamists of today with the Christian democrats of postwar Europe is absurd. To take them at their word that they will govern like the Islamists of Turkey is not much better. Europe’s Christian democrats may claim to be inspired by the Bible but they would not dream of proposing legislation straight from the book of Leviticus. By contrast, the Islamists of north Africa and the Middle East have for decades promoted the agenda that legislation should come from the suras of the Koran and other Islamic scripture.

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‘Familiarity with the New Testament can enhance Jewish understanding’

Professors Amy-Jill Levine of Vanderbilt University and Marc Brettler of Brandeis University discuss their book, “The Jewish Annotated New Testament”.

Why do we need a “Jewish Annotated New Testament”?

Marc:  This volume was conceived after I co-edited with Adele Berlin The Jewish Study Bible, a comparable volume on the Tanakh.  The response to that volume was very positive: many Jews commented that they felt comfortable reading the Bible, and about the Bible, for the first time.  I realized that many Jews were wary of reading the New Testament, and suggested this volume to my editor at Oxford, who was excited by the idea.  I also realized that this volume would need to address the Jewish background of Jesus and his followers as well as the problematic passages in the New Testament in a straightforward way. 

AJ: The volume serves several purposes. First, for Jewish readers, it presents Jewish history: if we want to know about Jewish life in the first century, the New Testament is an excellent source. The texts themselves present some information, and the annotations fill in more detail by attending to related material in Jewish sources: the Dead Sea Scrolls, Philo and Josephus, Apocrypha and Pseudepigrapha, early Rabbinic thought, archaeological and inscriptional material, and so on. Second, as Marc notes, the volume addresses the statements that have led to anti-Jewish views, such as texts that present the Jewish community as responsible for the death of Jesus, or as children of the devil. The annotations explain how such rhetoric functioned in antiquity as well as how churches today address this material. Third, the volume is an aid to interfaith relations: it shows what the Church and the Synagogue share in common and how the movements came to separate.

For Christian readers, the volume also has several purposes. It provides an historical context for the New Testament and so explains how Jesus, Paul, James, and others would have sounded to their original audiences. Second, and this is particularly important to me, it corrects the misunderstandings of Judaism that sometimes creep into Christian sermons and Bible studies – and thus it can prevent the occasional, unintended anti-Jewish message from being conveyed.

“The more I study New Testament the better Jew I become” is a quote from Dr. Levine (in an article by Mark Oppenheimer). If you both feel this way, tell me why – if you disagree it would make it even more interesting.

Marc: Editing this book, and writing for it, certainly helped us better understand Judaism of the first century CE, and in that sense, connected me to my history better, and made me a better Jew.  Also, our close engagement with the New Testament made us understand much better what paths Judaism, as it developed, did not take, including the idea that the Messiah has already come and will come again, and that God decided to appear on earth in incarnate form.  These early Christian beliefs have many implications that do not inform our Jewishness.

What was the most negative response to the book (the most negative you’ve heard about), and do you see any merit to the concerns that were raised by suspicious fellow Jews?

The first review that appeared on Amazon was by “A Jew for Judaism” and titled “Evil.”  It read:  “It is evil for Christians to try to convert Jews with this dreck. Why don’t you people leave us in peace?”  It was clearly written by someone who had not opened the book, and knew nothing of ourselves or the project.  Both of us believe that this project can have a positive impact on Jews, intermarried couples, and Christians.  We are both proud Jews who admire many aspects of Christianity, but we have no interest in converting people from Judaism to Christianity.  Nor do either of us, as some have guessed, have any affiliation with Jews for Jesus, Messianic Judaism, or similar movements.  Like the Amazon reviewer, we both are “Jews for Judaism,” but unlike that reviewer, we believe that familiarity with the New Testament and early Christianity can enhance Jewish understanding and practice.

And the most positive comment?

We have been enormously gratified by the positive comments the book has received across the Christian spectrum: Evangelicals, liberal Protestants, Roman Catholics; similar positive and welcoming comments have come from the Jewish community, from Modern Orthodox to secular Jews. We do not think we can pick out the “most positive” – there are too many from which to choose. And that is a very good thing.

Commenting on your work, one writer observed that “Jewish literacy of Christianity is probably far better than Christian understanding of Judaism” – do you agree? And why is that?

Most Jews outside of the land of Israel live in majority Christian cultures and thus are necessarily exposed to Christian ideas and images: art and music, theatre and literature, television shows and presidential inaugurals (which usually have a New Testament quote), the ubiquity of Christmas, and so on. It is likely that more Jews have heard of the Virgin Mary than they have Maimonides or Rashi. The problem, however, is that this Jewish literacy of Christianity is sometimes of a superficial kind: seeing a Christmas display at the mall is not the same thing as reading the nativity stories in the Gospels or attending a Christian worship service. Moreover, often Jews are not familiar with the diversity of Christian thought and practice, let alone the various understandings of Jesus in the New Testament. Just as there are various movements within Judaism, and various themes in the Tanakh, so there are various movements within Christianity and various themes in the New Testament.

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Any other major books in need of Jewish annotation?

The last few decades have seen the translation and annotation of many important Jewish works.  We are in an era, for the first time ever, I believe, where the major Jewish classics, and many other books are available in English, and this allows many Jews who do not know Hebrew to be much more engaged with literature, ranging from the Siddur to the Talmud to the Zohar to the Aggadic tradition (The Book of Legend/Sefer H-Aggadah: Legends from the Talmud and Midrash). Missing yet is a Jewish Annotated “Old Testament Apocrypha” or what is also known as the “Deuterocanonical writings.” These are the books composed by Jews, written or preserved in Greek rather than Hebrew or Aramaic, that appear in the canons of the Anglican, Catholic, and Orthodox communions but not in the Protestant Bible. The collection includes such books as Judith and Susanna, the Wisdom of Solomon, and the books of the Maccabees; ironically, Jews celebrate Hannukah, but the first accounts of the Judah Maccabee appear in the Christian Bible. It would be good for Jews to know these Jewish volumes, and it would be good for the Church to have Jewish annotations attached to them.

And how about major Jewish books in need of Christian annotation?

We have both observed that in this generation, it is often impossible to tell from opening a book if its author is Jewish or Christian.  There are many Christian scholars with excellent training in Jewish studies and excellent Hebrew skills; they have begun to translate and comment on many Jewish books and issues.  There is nothing Christological in their writing.  But we do not see any particular Jewish book that would benefit from such annotation, except perhaps the Siddur, the Jewish prayer book, where such annotations would highlight the commonalities and differences between Jewish and Christina liturgical practices.  Such a work could be very helpful in allowing Christians to understand synagogue services, and for Jews to understand Church services.

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Interview: Eric Fishkin and the Staples Center

TGR got a hot tip from Rabbi Erez Sherman, one of the TGR correspondents. Eric Fishkin has all the scoop on the Staples center from the Lakers, Clippers, and the Pac 12 Tournament. Its going to be an awesome Jewish heritage night. Bring your Purim masks!

  1. Tell TGR a little bit about yourself.

    I graduated from North Carolina State University in 2010 with a B.S. in Sport Management and Business.  During school, I interned for Anschutz Entertainment Group, AEG, here in Los Angeles.  About a year and a half after graduation I realized this is where I want to be and what I want to do and was afforded the opportunity to come back and work in their sales department.  I now handle all events STAPLES Center, Nokia Theatre, L.A. Live, and Home Depot Center.  It was just two months ago that I moved permanently to the Los Angeles area.  It is an unbelievable opportunity that I am very grateful to have received.

  2. How did you get involved with AEG?

    Look back at number 1 – I interned in the summer of 2008 and came back out around October of last year for an interview and the rest is history!

  3. What is the coolest thing you have seen at the Staples Center?

    The events.  My office is located in STAPLES Center and I am fortunate enough to see the court change to ice and vice versa.  When clients are in suites for different events, it is our job to be there and make sure they are doing well.  Never use it for personal use 🙂

  4. Obvious question. Lakers or Clippers fan? Who is better this year?

    I am actually new to the area and have a different perspective on this rivalry than most, however, I think I am a Clippers fan.  Clippers are better this year , although the loss of Billups might really hurt.

  5. Is Lob City that amazing in person?

    It is.  Watching Blake Griffin, DeAndre Jordan, and Chris Paul in person is pretty incredible.  It is great to see a fan base that has struggled for decades to have something to be proud of.  There are definitely the bandwagon fans that are coming out of the woodworks; however I am very happy for the true fans that have stood by the team.

  6. Whats going on at the Staples Center for Jewish heritage night?

    We are calling it Jewish Community night.  It is going to be an awesome event.  We have some of the biggest local cantors singing the National Anthem.  Cantor Nathan Lam from Stephen S. Wise, Cantor Arianne Brown froTemple Sinai, Cantor Don Gurney from Wilshire Blvd Temple, and Cantor Alison Wissot from Temple Judea.  There will be Kosher food available for purchase in the main concourse, and a Purim themed costume competition on the STAPLES Center roof (City View Terrace) before the game.  We will have fun group experiences, PA announcements, and Jewish Community specific discounts for the different organizations and families.  The event will be held on Thursday, March 8th for the Pac-12 Basketball Tournament Men’s Quarterfinals.

  7. What is it like hosting the Pac 12 tournament? Anything people should be aware of?

    I am still pretty new and not very familiar with the back end of things, however I do know we are working extremely hard to make this event a success.  Each school receives a certain allotment of tickets that they can distribute to their network of customers.  It is then our job to make sure the rest of the stadium is full and to create an atmosphere that is enjoyable for our fans.  This is why STAPLES Center, with the help of many local Jewish organizations created this night for the Jewish Community.  To not only make this night fun and exciting, but to build a relationship with the Jewish Community.

  8. Best thing Jewish about Los Angeles?

    The best thing about being Jewish in Los Angeles is the acceptance and the fact that there is such a large Jewish population.  Los Angeles as a whole and as a community is very diversified and tolerant.  This has nothing to do with religion, but the weather and people are amazing!

Thank you to Eric. If I was in LA you know I would be there.

And Let Us Say…Amen.

– Jeremy Fine

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Berlin of the Israelis

-Where do you come from?
-Eilat.
-Ah, I know a guy down there. Actually Uri is here, he has relatives in Eilat. Don’t you know Uri? Tell them what’s the name of that cousin of yours?

– I’m a senior. I`ve stopped working. I can afford myself to travel a lot. I enjoy my free time.

– You know, in my age I could have become a senior by now. But I don’t want to.
-Yes, but he worked really hard, Haim. For many years.
– I’m still considered to be relatively young.
-Ha, everything is relative.

-So, everybody’s here?
-Whoever’s not here- so he’s not here. Ha ha.
-Where’s Yaron?
-Who’s he?
-He’s the guy with the… coat.
-The guy with the coat? Sure he’s not the one with the head? Ha, ha.

-Not all here are couples. Here, there’s a single man over there, we should fix him.
36 Israelis straight out of the fresh delivery of the latest hot travel agency’s deal get on a bus in the coldest time of the winter of Europe, to explore Berlin.  Berlin of the time they knew is quite different kind of deliveries, and also to explore some Berlin of the time of today. (Shopping time).
Everywhere in the world Israeli will try to make themselves feel at home.
Maybe after years of exiles we developed a ‘strangerophobiya’.  We just cannot bear not to own the place. You either move there to open the next Falafel place, or simply tour it, but with a bag of ‘Bamba’ snack in your hand.
In this case, it was not so far from the truth. Berlin serves perfectly the need of the Israeli to claim it. It does it by wearing a big invisible coat of guilt.

Israelis say: “B’Ktana”, which means- symbolically like, not biggy- just a hint. So, Berlin is very tasteful with its demonstration of guilt.
Here, B’ktana- golden stones integrated in the pavement with names on it in some streets where you go. There, B’ktana- some signs indicate couple of the most significant Nirenberg rules.  And did you know here, where there’s an elementary school, used to be a synagogue. No Jews now, but pupils still must write a biography of a selected Jew in order to graduate.
Quietly and modestly but shameless, Berlin will show you how it faces its disgraceful history proudly, like intellectuals do.  They reconcile by living in between the monuments, so they could “think about what they did”. Berliners of today are afraid of nationalism (not big fans of flags, and never say: “I’m German”), so how could a collective state of mind be changed in less than 3 generations?
They say Germans love the system.  They say they are loved to be told what to do.
Maybe this is the new system of what they are supposed to do?
Is it possible Germans never had whatsoever actual feelings for Jews? As they were following voices who called for their culture’s destruction now they obey the voices that call for Jews’ culture preservation?
I wouldn’t know.
I only know- on the same supermarket where the system listed for me how many cents per gram for every product listed in the shop, between the aisles, I had a small chat with one old lady, who didn’t know I don’t speak German. And she was looking at the box of the cookies I was holding in my hand, trying to develop a conversation as it goes: “Cookies in a box. Would you believe it? How marvelous”! Because eventually it all goes done to that.

*This review was written thanks to Ido Porat and Berlin Tours Leah

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Whitney Houston: A Jewish Way of Death

Whitney Houston died of still unknown causes in the environs of the most densley Jewish political entity besides Kiryas Joel in the United States, Beverly Hills. 

While drowning is being considered and toxicology test results are weeks away, Whitney Houston may have died of the new dominant plague of prescription drugs, evidence of which was found in her room at the Beverly Hilton by the Beverly Hills Police Department.  Whitney Houston ironically died just less than 3 miles from where Michael Jackson was declared dead at UCLA.  This may be epicenter of the prescription drug death triangle.  The epidemiological picture may not be a coincidence with the significant number of Dr. Feel-Good offices populating the expensive real estate of Beverly Hills.

Drug deaths now outnumber traffic fatalities in the United States. Fueling the surge in deaths are prescription pain and anxiety drugs that are potent, highly addictive and especially dangerous when combined with one another or with other drugs or alcohol. Among the most commonly abused are OxyContin, Vicodin, Xanax and Soma.

The epidemic of substance abuse has been documented in the Jewish community in the last LA Jewish Population Survey.  It would not be surprising if there was a disproportionate number Jews dying of drug deaths within this general societal trend.

Jews have an unearned reputation for sobriety. The LA Jewish Population Survey found that one-in-forty, or 6000 LA Jewish households reported having at least one member who needed assistance with problems of alcohol or substance abuse. There is a higher acceptance of use of substances such as marijuana in the Jewish community than the general population.

It would not be surprising if there was a disproportionate number Jews dying of drug deaths within this general societal trend.

Pini Herman, PhD. has served as Asst. Research Professor at the University of Southern California Dept. of Geography,  Adjunct Lecturer at the USC School of Social Work,  Research Director at the Jewish Federation of Greater Los Angeles following Bruce Phillips, PhD. in that position (I was recently notified that with 40,000 visitors this year the 15 year old study of the LA Jewish population was third most downloaded study from Berman Jewish Policy Archives in 2011) and is immediate past President of the Movable Minyan a lay-lead independent congregation in the 3rd Street area. Currently he is a principal of Phillips and Herman Demographic Research. To email Pini: pini00003@gmail.com To follow Pini on Twitter:

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Israel public sector strike ends

An Israeli public sector strike that has disrupted public transportation and closed banks, the stock market and government offices ended on Sunday with a new wage package for low-earning contract workers.

The Finance Ministry announced the deal with the Histadrut labour federation, which declared the strike that began on Wednesday was over.

The Histadrut had demanded the government hire 250,000 contract workers, such as cleaners and security guards, whose conditions are inferior to those directly on government payrolls.

Under the deal, those workers will not be hired by the state. Instead, they will get pay rises, be eligible for merit bonuses and their pension plans will be improved, according to the ministry statement. (Writing by Jeffrey Heller, Editing by Ari Rabinovitch

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Whitney Houston, who called Israel visit a ‘spiritual retreat,’ is dead at 48

American pop star Whitney Houston, who reportedly told then-Prime Minister Ariel Sharon during a trip to Israel in 2003 that “I feel at home,” has died at the age of 48.

Houston was discovered dead Saturday afternoon in the Beverly Hilton Hotel in Beverly Hills, Calif., just hours before she was scheduled to appear at a pre-Grammy party. The Grammy Awards, to take place on Sunday evening, will present a tribute to the singer.

In Israel, radio stations played Houston’s music, including her iconic “I Will Always Love You” from the movie “The Bodyguard,” in which she also starred.

Houston and then-husband Bobby Brown visited Israel in 2003 at the invitation of the Black Hebrews, who live in Dimona in Israel’s South, and wore traditional African dress. They were named honorary citizens of the city.

The couple and their daughter spent a week traveling throughout Israel, which included a visit with Sharon in which she made the comment about feeling at home in Israel.

Houston reportedly hoped the visit would help inspire her in creating a Christmas album and called the trip a “spiritual retreat,” according to reports.

No cause of death has been announced. The six-time Grammy winner had battled drug and alcohol addiction.

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‘Sparkle’ producer remembers Whitney Houston

The news of 48-year-old superstar Whitney Houston’s death has rocked and saddened the music world as well as the singer’s legions of fans.

Houston, who had struggled to revive a once stellar career following years of depression and drug abuse, had been poised for a comeback—and not on the billboard charts this time, but at the movies. In November, Houston wrapped the movie “Sparkle,” a remake of the 1976 film about a group of singers from Harlem New York who in their rise to fame and fortune are torn apart by drugs, crime and death. In the new version, Houston plays the mother of three girls who seed the beginnings of a music career while singing in the church choir.

Howard Rosenman, a producer on the film, said he had just seen a rough cut of the film on Friday and was “devastated, shocked, saddened” by news of her death.

“I don’t know what to do with myself,” Rosenman said when reached by The Journal Sunday morning. He had last seen Houston at the Beverly Hilton Hotel on Wednesday, and said she seemed as healthy and spirited as she was on the set in November.

“She is just incandescent and brilliant [in the film] and was on her way to make this huge comeback,” Rosenman said. “She was fabulous on the set, she was beloved by the crew, she was a total professional.”

In addition to her starring role in “Sparkle,” Houston also served as one of the film’s executive producers. In fact, it was she who had purchased the film rights to remake “Sparkle” which deals thematically with both religion and music, two subjects that were dear to her.  Although the film is not yet complete, Rosenman said Houston’s work on it was finished, and Sony studios announced this morning that they plan to release the film in August.

Rosenman also said he did not detect signs of the private turmoil that has plagued Houston over the last decade.

“She was totally not into that mode,” he said, referring to her history of drug abuse. “She was totally into a ‘pro’ mode. She knew her lines, she was always on time, she was very motherly. She [seemed to be] in incredible health and had an incredible attitude and this is such a shock. I doubt very, very much that [the cause of her death] was drugs.”

Rosenman, who first met Houston around 30 years ago, said he attended Clive Davis’s pre-Grammy extravaganza party at the Beverly Hilton last night, where the mood was fraught, surreal.

“Everybody was totally flipped out; everybody sang for her,” Rosenman said. “Clive [Davis, the record producer and party’s host] was brilliant about her. He said, ‘The show must go on – Whitney would have wanted that.”

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