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May 6, 2009

Twelve Minutes To Last A Lifetime

Twelve minutes of grainy, soundless, patched-together family segments shot over a half-century ago on my parents’ prized Revere Magazine 16 movie camera.

A while back I had the footage copied to videotape, and they’re the only visuals I’ve got to remember my father, whose 50-year yahrzeit will be on May 15.

His name was Sam … Samuel David Bielan. I named my firstborn daughter after him. He was an immigrant of traditional East European Jewish extraction — Polish and Russian. I know neither the names of his parents nor brother, but he had two sisters named Ethel and Jenny.

For a time, my dad was a kosher butcher in Detroit and owned a neighborhood shop on a main thoroughfare called Dexter Street. On the day I was born, he put a big “It’s a boy!” sign across the store window and celebrated with the purchase of a new car.

I had a bris — and Sam had a Buick.

Like me, he was asthmatic. Unlike me, he didn’t have the benefits of modern medications, nor was he diligent about taking care of his lungs. Countless trips in and out of a freezing meat locker, combined with endless cups of hot water with milk and honey to warm himself, mutated the asthma into emphysema. The soundtrack of my childhood featured his nightly breathing treatments from a portable oxygen tank. 

In the early 1950’s, the disease dictated our family’s move to a warmer climate. We settled in the Beverly-Fairfax district where my dad and his partner, Ben Resnick, opened another butcher shop on Pico Boulevard near Robertson. 

I remember it had a great gumball machine.

I’ve looked at the film footage a few times over the years and tried to piece together a profile of who my father really was. To be certain, my worst memories profile an intermittent rager whose temper and early demise have had a mighty impact on my life.

But in these 12 minutes I see something different.

I look like him. I’ve got his face and his hairline and his eating habits. He appears to be a hearty, strapping guy — evidenced by years of carting sides of beef over his shoulders. 

I see him holding me and reveling in my being. I see a shy-at-heart immigrant with an infectious smile who’s struggling to find his way. I see a father who unmistakably adores his son, and, in one priceless three-second segment, I see a stylishly dressed, conservative Jewish man walking home from Shabbos services with tallis bag tucked under his arm. 

The same tallis bag I’ve been bringing to High Holiday services for 22 years.

I see that, as are all of us who walk this earth, Sam Bielan was a human being with all-too-apparent frailties. But at heart, he looks to have been a good, hard-working man. He was my dad and he loved me — and he was a proud, devout Jew who worshipped the same Adonai that I do.

And with all my failings, I think he still would have been proud of my work with Valley Outreach Synagogue, carrying on a tradition of Bielan Judaism. And I’m certain that he would have kvelled over his granddaughter’s singing.

I’ve missed him for every minute of the last 50 years, but I thank God for those 12 minutes. 

They’re lasting a lifetime.

Jack Bielan is a founding member and longtime musical director of Valley Outreach Synagogue.


Sidney De Angelis died March 22 at 83. He is survived by his wife, Priscilla; daughter, Barbara; sons, Michael (Stella) and Jason (Veronica); and two grandchildren. Malinow and Silverman

Dr. Stanley Depper died March 20 at 90. He is survived by his daughters, Fraeda Porton and Devora; and son, Joel. Malinow and Silverman

Jerry Hannes died March 22 at 96. He is survived by his wife, Ruth; and two sons, Lawrence and David.

Helaine Liptz died March 20 at 72. She is survived by her husband, Sidney; sons, Michael and David (Michelle); and two grandchildren. Malinow and Silverman

Yvonne Shapiro died March 6 at 82. She is survived by her daughter, Sandra; sons, Martin, Mitch and Randy; sisters, Joyce Prosser, Edith Bellante and Sylvia Makus; brothers, George and William Malcom; and six grandchildren. Malinow and Silverman

Elaine Siegel died March 20 at 80. She is survived by her daughters, Rochelle (Steven) Weinstein and Deann (Robert) Halstead; son, Michael (Terri); eight grandchildren; and thirteen great-grandchildren. Mount Sinai

Bertha H. Skolnik died March 17 at 100. She is survived by her daughters, Sandra (Robert S.) Levinson and Cynthia Mitchell; three grandchildren; and one great-grandchild. Neptune Society

Norma Stein died March 12 at 95. She is survived by her daughter, Lisa; and son, Michael. Malinow and Silverman

Lawrence Stone died March 15 at 77. He is survived by his wife, Jennie; daughter, Katherine Vieira; sons, Ethan and Abraham; sister, Rhoda Shechtel; brother, Joseph; and three grandchildren. Malinow and Silverman

Fred Streitfeld died March 13 at 85. He is survived by his sons, Steven Dymond, Scott (Julie) and Mark; and two grandchildren. Mount Sinai

Senta Weil died March 16 at 95. She is survived by her niece, Janice Worthington; and good friend, Sharon McCauley. Mount Sinai

Harold Weiner died March 18 at 59. He is survived by his wife, Sherri; son, Dashiell; sister, Ilyce (Biff) Dawes; and half-sister, Barbara Krouse. Mount Sinai

Mollye Weinstein died March 17 at 95. She is survived by her daughter, Rochelle Herzog. Malinow and Silverman

Walter Wietecha died March 12 at 62. He is survived by his wife, Marsha; daughter, Julie (Stephen) Castaldi; son, Dave (Raji); and sister, Nancy Fleming. Hillside

George J. Winston died March 10 at 95. He is survived by his wife, Irene; daughter, Rina (Craig Howard); sons Warren (Joan) and Bruce (Delle); three grandchildren; three great-grandchildren; sister-in-law, Elaine Berke; and many nieces and nephews. Eden Memorial

 

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Picks and Clicks for May 9–15, 2009

SAT | MAY 9

(AUCTION)
To raise money for its services and programs, Nashuva is auctioning off four tickets to the final singing competition of “American Idol” on May 19 and another pair of tickets to the finals on May 20. The donated tickets are now being auctioned on Nashuva’s Web site; bidding began May 1 with a minimum of $1,500 for one pair of tickets and ends May 12 at 9 p.m. {encode=”return@nashuva.com” title=”return@nashuva.com”}. ” title=”www.broadwayla.org” target=”_blank”>www.broadwayla.org.


MON | MAY 11

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Dustin Lance Black. Photo by Tom Keller

TUE | MAY 12

(HOLLYWOOD)
Academy Award-winner Dustin Lance Black, who received the 2009 best original screenplay Oscar for “Milk,” will be the featured speaker at the Whizin Center’s Bruce Geller Screenwriting Award reception, honoring the winners of its annual screenwriting competition. Robert Wexler, president of American Jewish University, will interview Black about the process of researching, writing and selling a script in Hollywood. Tue. 6 p.m. (cocktails), 7 p.m. (program), 8:15 p.m. (awards and dessert reception). $10. AJU Familian Campus, Gindi Auditorium, 15600 Mulholland Drive, Los Angeles. R.S.V.P. required. (310) 440-1246. ” title=”www.magbit.org” target=”_blank”>www.magbit.org.


WED | MAY 13

(GALA)
The Israeli Leadership Council is hosting its first annual gala, recognizing Israeli American leadership in Los Angeles and celebrating Israel’s Independence Day. Two Israeli music icons, Rami Kleinstein and Einat Saruf, will perform and L.A. Mayor Antonio Villaraigosa and Leo David will be honored with special awards. Proceeds from the event will go toward empowering an active and involved Israeli community. Wed. 6:30 p.m. (reception), 7:30 p.m. (program and dinner). $300 and up. The Beverly Hilton Hotel, 9876 Wilshire Blvd., Beverly Hills. (310) 821-9919. ” title=”www.ajula.edu” target=”_blank”>www.ajula.edu.


THU | MAY 14

(ENVIRONMENT)
NBC4 weather forecaster Fritz Coleman will moderate a free public symposium on the regional drought that is plaguing Los Angeles. Policymakers, scientists and environmental experts will discuss the less-than-glamorous but critical issues surrounding our water supply. Panelists include H. David Nahai, general manager and CEO of Los Angeles Department of Water and Power; Dr. Hilary Godwin, associate dean at UCLA’s School of Public Health; and Dr. Yoram Cohen, director of the Water Technology Research Center at UCLA. The documentary “The American Southwest: Are We Running Dry?” will also be screened and discussed. Sponsored by Temple Beth Am’s Green Team. Thu. 7 p.m. Free. Temple Beth Am, 1039 S. La Cienega Blvd., Los Angeles. (310) 652-7354. ” title=”www.facinghistory.org/allstate” target=”_blank”>www.facinghistory.org/allstate.

(PHOTOGRAPHY)
Israeli-born Moshe Brakha photographed the likes of Madonna, Devo, The Screamers and other punk legends long before they made the covers of magazines; later, he photographed musicians who were already megastars: Sting, Ringo Starr, The Beastie Boys, Diana Ross, The Ramones and others. “Occupation Dreamer: The Photography of Moshe Brakha,” an exhibit premiering at the Grammy Museum, features black-and-white and color photos Brakha took between 1976 and 1986. Thu. 11:30 a.m.-7:30 p.m. Through Aug. 9. $10-$14 (museum admission). Grammy Museum at L.A. LIVE, 800 W. Olympic Blvd., Los Angeles. (213) 765-6800. ” title=”www.jewishla.org” target=”_blank”>www.jewishla.org.


FRI | MAY 15

(FILM)
“Not Forgotten,” co-written and directed by Israeli filmmaker Dror Soref, is about a man who has it all, a beautiful wife and charming daughter, until his past comes back to haunt him and he has to return to a dark cult religion he once practiced in order to retrieve his missing daughter. The thriller explores the real Mexican spiritual sect of La Santa Muerte, a controversial group that worships Saint Death. Opens today in theaters. ” title=”www.scr.org” target=”_blank”>www.scr.org.

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At AIPAC, Obama and Netanyahu Administrations Listen to Each Other

“This relationship matters to me,” one partner says.

“Show me,” says the other.

Such conversations, as any couple can attest, usually don’t augur the happiest of chats.

If this year’s AIPAC policy conference stopped well short of a full-blown spat between the pro-Israel lobby and the Obama administration, it was because each side was listening to the other: Obama officials listened to Israeli fears about the Iranian nuclear threat, and AIPAC and Israel’s prime minister listened to the U.S. administration’s insistence on the inevitability of Palestinian statehood.

“Relationships matter” was the motto of this year’s American Israel Public Affairs Committee conference, heralded throughout the cavernous Washington Convention Center with billowing banners depicting Israeli and American leaders embracing.

Notably, the shot of President Obama and Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu smiling tightly and locked in a stiff handshake was consigned to the center’s shadowy corners.

The rejoinder, “Show me,” was Vice President Joe Biden’s plea to Israel to facilitate peacemaking through a settlement freeze.

“This is a ‘Show me’ deal,” he said Tuesday, referring also to U.S. demands that the Palestinians quell violence and that neighboring Arab nations support the peace process.

“Israel must work toward a two-state solution,” Biden told the conference on its last day, alluding to Netanyahu’s reluctance to utter the “two-state” phrase. Israel must “not build settlements, dismantle outposts and allow Palestinians freedom of movement, access to economic opportunity and increased security responsibilities.”

Biden prefaced his remark by warning delegates, “You won’t like this, but …”

Yet in a sign of the AIPAC crowd’s proclivities, Biden’s call for a settlement freeze earned measured applause. In fact, as the 7,000 delegates headed to Capitol Hill for a lobbying blitz on Tuesday, one priority was to get members of the U.S. House of Representatives and the Senate to sign letters to Obama encouraging steps toward a “viable Palestinian state living side by side with Israel.”

The letters also back funding for training Palestinian security services — a hard sell among pro-Israel groups and in Washington as recently as two years ago.

To be sure, the letters also bore skepticism about Palestinian intentions, which has been a hallmark of AIPAC’s approach for decades: The House letter called for an “absolute Palestinian commitment to end violence, terror and incitement.”

There was also a “Don’t shout, the neighbors are going to hear” sort of plea: “The proven best way forward is to work closely and privately together both on areas of agreement and especially on areas of disagreement,” said the House letter, initiated by two House leaders and pro-Israel stalwarts, Rep. Steny Hoyer (D-Md.), the majority leader, and Rep. Eric Cantor (R-Va.), the minority whip.

AIPAC’s readiness to deal did not occur in a vacuum. Netanyahu, in a satellite message delivered Monday, backed away from his earlier suggestions that he wanted to focus at first on Palestinian economic development and to place talk of statehood on the back burner.

“We are prepared to resume negotiations without any preconditions,” Netanyahu said, describing a “triple-track” approach covering political, security and economic considerations. While he did not make it explicit, “political” talks necessarily would encompass discussions of statehood.

The pledge helped clear the way for Netanyahu to meet with Obama around May 18. The Israeli prime minister originally was to have appeared live at the AIPAC conference, but those plans were scrapped in part because the American and Israeli sides were still working out a way to discuss the two-state issue.

In another concession, Netanyahu repeated Israel’s demand that Palestinians should recognize Israel’s Jewish character, but said that could be part of a “final peace settlement” and was not a precondition.

The Obama administration, too, showed some flexibility. Sen. John Kerry (D-Mass.), the Senate Foreign Relations Committee chairman who has emerged as an Obama administration proxy on Middle East issues, threw in an unscripted “non-militarized” when he called for Palestinian statehood; a demilitarized Palestinian entity is on Netanyahu’s wish list of final-status conditions.

More substantially, the speeches by Biden and other leading Democrats emphasized Obama’s determination to couple his recent outreach to Iran with tough threats of isolation if it does not end its suspected nuclear weapons program.

“We will approach Iran initially in the spirit of respect,” Biden said, but should Iran not meet U.N. requirements to stop enriching uranium, it would face international isolation “in which nothing is taken off the table” — an allusion to the military option Israel insists on keeping on the table.

Kerry said confronting Iran’s expansionist ambitions was a cornerstone of the new administration’s strategy, describing three no’s that unite Israel, its Arab neighbors and the United States: “No Iranian meddling, no Iranian dominance and above all, no Iranian nukes.”

That would allow Obama to impose tough sanctions on third parties that deal with Iran’s energy sector. Obama has yet to announce his sanctions strategy, and it’s not clear whether he supports proposed bills with far-reaching measures that would cut off U.S. markets to any entity that trades gasoline with Iran.

In the House, where AIPAC exercises its strongest influence, Rep. Howard Berman (D-Calif.), the chairman of the Foreign Affairs Committee, has said that he will use his prerogative to keep the sanctions bill on hold — for now. Hoyer said the Obama administration did not have a blank check.

There seemed to be some nostalgia at the conference for the Bush era, during which many felt the White House was an uncritical friend of Israel.

Newt Gingrich, the former House speaker and a possible Republican candidate for president in 2012, earned huge applause when he called for regime change in Iran — a major Obama administration no-no — as well as for military strikes to take out Iran’s missiles.

By contrast, appearing in Netanyahu’s stead, Israeli President Shimon Peres cast a poetic sheen on Obama’s election.

“A tsunami of hope is rolling across the globe; its center is right here in America,” Peres said. “Six months ago you elected a new president of the United States. President Barack Obama assumed his duties in a period of deep crises in the world. I am convinced he has the capacity to turn the crises into opportunity.”

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Wolman of Valor

Lesley Wolman was having trouble breathing.

She was in a small room on a hot and muggy day in New York City in August 1993, singing and auditioning for the George Gershwin Broadway musical, “Someone to Watch Over Me.” A little earlier, Wolman had been breastfeeding her 21-day-old son, Yale, who was now safely in the arms of her husband, Jeff, in the waiting area. The three of them had taken the bus from their apartment on the Upper East Side.

“I can’t believe you can sing like this 21 days after delivering your first baby,” one of the casting directors in the room said to her.

“Personally, I prefer dogs,” said another.

Sixteen years later, sipping iced tea at Pat’s Restaurant, Wolman laughs at the memory of that day and seems amused that I’m asking for so many details. But looking back now, it’s clear to her that that was the day she decided she would never be a “killer.”

“Killer” is the term Wolman uses for artists who are obsessed with success, who put getting a part in a Brad Pitt movie on the same level as a Lubavitcher Chasid seeing his Rebbe revealed as the Messiah.

But if she will never become a showbiz killer, she will also never stop being a showbiz lover.

It is this love for performing that the packed house at the Pico Playhouse saw the other night at Wolman’s cabaret show, “Jewish Women in Song … a Celebration.”

I knew very little about Wolman when I went to see her show at the suggestion of a friend. So when she came out sparkling like a jewel in a silky outfit, singing soulful and timeless songs accompanied by a three-piece jazz band, I had no idea that this was a PTA mom involved with the Bureau of Jewish Education and Camp Ramah, who sat on the board of Sinai Academy and who was about to fly to Washington, D.C., for the AIPAC convention.

All this stuff came out when we had lunch a few days later. Our conversation took on a schizophrenic quality, because I couldn’t decide what interested me more — her views on Jewish education or her performance on Broadway in “Shenandoah”; her thoughts on the Israeli-Palestinian conflict or who did the choreography for her latest show.

It’s this back and forth between reality-biz and showbiz that has defined her life. It seems that whenever one side starts to dominate, the other wakes up, as if to say: “Hey, don’t forget about me.”

She recalls the many times she was stuck in an audition in West Hollywood, calling one of her friends to ask: “Can you please pick up the kids from school? There’s no way I’ll make it back in time.”

Wolman grew up in Winnipeg, Canada, and has been singing and performing in one way or another since she was a kid. Her singing didn’t stop her from getting a university degree in nursing. During her many years of struggle, auditions and performances on Broadway, she spent countless hours caring for celebrities in an exclusive rehab hospital in Manhattan.

She moved to Los Angeles in the mid-1990s with her husband and their young boy, and shortly thereafter had a baby girl. Not knowing too many people in their neighborhood on Melrose Boulevard, they hooked up with the Sinai community in Westwood, joined the temple, put their kids in the day school and she soon became your classic, devoted, enthusiastic member of the Los Angeles Jewish community.

But she could never stop singing.

Her new show is an attempt to blend her two lives — devoted showbiz performer and devoted wife, mother, Jew and community member. The show celebrates great Jewish women performers throughout the ages, and while it has completed its limited run, her dream now is to expand it into other cities and communities.

As circumstances would have it, the night after experiencing the pure joy of Wolman’s show, I was at the Odyssey Theatre experiencing the trauma of the Holocaust, in a play by Bernard Weinraub called “The Accomplices.”

The play is about the struggle of one man, Peter Bergson, who comes to America during the Holocaust to mobilize the Jewish community, the White House, Congress, Hollywood and the media to try to do something about the genocide of his people.

There’s a scene where Bergson, pleading his case, explains how many Jews he’d love to save. He starts with huge numbers and then simply says, “even just one.”

For some reason, when Bergson said those words — “even just one” — my mind went back to Wolman’s show from the previous night.

I thought about how Bergson was fighting to save millions of Jews, but he knew that this meant millions of “even just one” — millions of singular Jews of valor like Lesley Wolman, Jews who just wanted a chance to breathe and live out their story.

David Suissa, an advertising executive, is founder of OLAM magazine, Meals4Israel.com and Ads4Israel.com. He can be reached at {encode=”dsuissa@olam.org” title=”dsuissa@olam.org”}.

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Deal-making Behind Byzantine Ballot Measures

On May 19, California voters will be asked to vote on a package of six ballot measures. What’s a voter to do? What’s a Jewish voter to do?

In the face of complex propositions most voters look to individuals or organizations whose opinions they respect. In my experience, Jewish voters have given some deference to the Los Angeles Times editorials, the recommendations of the League of Women Voters, the Chamber of Commerce and various labor unions. For Valley Jews, the Daily News, more attuned than the Times to challenging government, may be a voice.

Major political figures like Gov. Arnold Schwarzenegger and L.A. Mayor Antonio Villaraigosa are influential. If it is a matter of partisanship, Jewish voters are more likely to listen to the official views of the Democratic than the Republican Party.

Were it only so simple.

The pro side for the measures includes the Los Angeles Times, Gov. Schwarzenegger, Mayor Villaraigosa, the California Chamber of Commerce, the Democratic leadership of the State Legislature and the California teachers union. On the con side we have the state Republican Party and on four of the measures, the League of Women Voters and a number of unions other than the teachers. These unions prevented the state Democratic Party from getting the 60 percent support necessary to officially endorse Proposition 1A. This is a partisan and ideological jumble. 

So let me try to shed some light on what I think is happening and why. In early 2009, faced with a massive budget hole of more than $40 billion, the governor and the Democratic and Republican leadership in the Legislature worked furiously to craft a package of spending cuts and tax hikes.

The leaders managed to come up with a package that took care of the budget hole through the next fiscal year. By the time the budget was done, however, bad news was arriving on the economy and federal aid, and the state is already $8 billion short even with the budget. This did not help the prospects for the ballot package because the appeal that voter passage would solve the problem was now gone.

The leadership still had to find a way to win three Republican votes in the Assembly and three in the Senate because of the remarkable requirement that budgets and new taxes must have a two-thirds vote in each house. To win Republican votes, they had to design the package with great concern for the minority party. This included large tax breaks for wealthy corporations, for example, even before the ballot measures were crafted.

The Republicans were able to demand that Democrats give up money from two cherished programs that had voter-approved funding, for mental health and preschool. One had been championed by director Rob Reiner and the other by Senate President Pro Tem Darrell Steinberg. These became Propositions 1D and 1E, and would temporarily move several hundred million dollars from these programs into the General Fund. Proposition 1C would reform the state lottery to provide higher payouts to winners, but would also allow the state to borrow $5 billion against future profits.

Republicans have long wanted to have more ways to limit spending in good economic years through a tightly guarded “rainy day” fund. Proposition 1A realizes their dream, along with enhanced power for the governor’s finance director to make mid-year budget reductions. Democrats deeply dislike this proposal. So that Democrats would not revolt, Proposition 1A allows the temporary taxes in the budget deal to be continued for an extra one or two years. Proposition 1A would give Republicans a permanent thing they want in exchange for a temporary thing Democrats want.

Proposition 1B, which makes the teachers happy, would allow some of that rainy-day money to be used to steadily pay back the schools for money the state has borrowed from education. Proposition 1B can only take effect if Proposition 1A passes. Proposition 1A can pass without 1B passing.

Propositions 1C, 1D and 1E are actually parts of the original budget deal that required voter approval. Proposition 1D, embarrassingly, did not even bring the vote of the Republican, Dave Cox, who had demanded it as one reason for his vote for the overall legislative budget package. At the height of the negotiations, Senate Republicans overthrew their leader, Dave Cogdill, for having negotiated the package. It then passed with the bare minimum of votes.

Proposition 1F was put in to placate the last Republican vote, Abel Maldonado, and is one of the most ridiculous ideas ever to make a state ballot. It states that in any year the state is about to run a deficit, the commission that determines salaries may not grant a pay raise to state elected officials. This juvenile piece of work is about as reasonable as having the weather determine salaries.

So to summarize, Republicans got a budget that leaned toward tax breaks for business and tax hikes for average people. They got a tightened rainy-day fund. They forced Democrats to give up money from two favored programs for which they had won voter support. And they got to poke a finger in the eye of politicians through Proposition 1F.

And what do we find? Most of the ballot measures were drafted to please Republican legislators who were reluctant to vote for the compromise budget package. But polls by the Public Policy Institute of California (PPIC) and the Field organization show strong opposition to all but one of the measures from Republican voters.

Proposition 1F has majority support. Democrats are the main base of support for the other measures, providing twice as much support as Republicans to Proposition 1A in the PPIC poll. A new Field Poll shows that likely voters lean heavily Republican and they loathe the ballot measures. In the PPIC poll, the only demographic group that favors all six measures is Latinos. The only measure with majority support is Proposition 1F, the one that has the least relevance to the budget crisis. Fifty percent of likely Republican voters have already decided to vote against Proposi tions 1A-1E, according to the Field Poll.

The reason for these counterintuitive findings is that the budget deal itself, although heavily skewed toward Republican priorities, is something that Democrats value much more than Republicans. The role of government has increasingly polarized the two parties. Republicans in the Legislature talked openly about letting the state go down, in some kind of moral cleansing. Those who broke from the party consensus were demonized. The inclusion of temporary tax increases in Proposition 1A has mobilized the Republican grass roots, which in any case detested the budget deal itself. Since they never liked the budget deal in the first place, rank and file Republicans feel comfortable opposing ballot measures that were crafted to win the votes of Republicans they consider sellouts. Why not just let the whole thing go down?

For Democrats, there is considerable ambivalence about voting for measures that were crafted to win the votes of Republicans, whether or not those Republicans are considered sellouts by their own party. On the other hand, it is unthinkable on the Democratic side to let the whole thing go down, to squander a hard-won budget deal that kept public services from total collapse. So in the end, the votes for these Republican-oriented measures will come from Democrats who want the system of public services to survive while the money for the campaign comes from their political adversaries in the Chamber of Commerce. But Democrats are not happy, and the party activists and some union members believe that it would be better to give up and start again.

Polls have shown that Latinos are the most optimistic Californians and strongly favor investment in the public sector. Jewish voters tend to also be on the side of public services and the public sector. Compared to white non-Jews, especially Republicans, Jews support ballot measures for education and other public services. While this same tendency may lead a number of Jewish voters to oppose the ballot measures from the left, it is likely that Jews will vote more closely to Latinos toward the favorable end on May 19 than to white non-Jewish Republicans. You don’t hear a lot of Jewish voters saying that we should just let the whole government ship go down. At the end of the day, the ballot measures will depend on a strong Democratic turnout on May 19.

The question then is, where do we go from here? If the measures all pass, the state still has its work cut out but at least it will only be an $8 billion hole. If Proposition 1C, the lottery measure, fails, then the main fiscal damage will have been done to the budget deal, since it is the source of nearly one-eighth of the budget hole. If Proposition 1A goes down, the tax hikes will end after next year, extending the budget crisis.

If Propositions 1C-1E all lose, the gap will be $14 billion. The problem for Republicans will be that if they succeed in defeating these measures, they will have eliminated the model for how Democrats and Gov. Schwarzenegger can negotiate for their support. Then the question will be whether a whole new approach is needed, including a battle to eliminate the two-thirds requirement or an agreement between the governor and the Democratic majority to pursue measures that will not require two-thirds even at the risk of a court challenge. It is hard to see how a new deal can be crafted using the ballot when the Republican base is so opposed. So it will have to be done “in house,” without voter approval.

Ultimately, the real issue is one that Republicans have to resolve among themselves. With the governor and the Chamber on one side, and the Republican Party on the other, who will prevail? The two-thirds rule gives the Republican Party the power over the Republican governor. With majority rule on the budget, the ability to win a statewide race, which favors moderate Republicans, will still give them a veto over the budget (and the requirement of a two-thirds legislative override) but without the blackmail that happened this year. It is interesting that two of the three leading contenders for the 2010 Republican gubernatorial nomination, Meg Whitman and Steve Poizner, have opposed Proposition 1A to please the party base, while moderate Tom Campbell has risked the ire of the right by joining Schwarzenegger in support. In this particular debate, Jews will probably be on the sidelines. But out of this mess, we can hope and pray, will come a system of government worthy of the nation’s largest state.

Raphael J. Sonenshein is chair of the Division of Politics, Administration and Justice at Cal State Fullerton.

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Ashamed of Mental Illness? Shame on You!

The friendship documented in the film “The Soloist” between Los Angeles Times reporter Steve Lopez and Nathaniel Ayers, the homeless man Lopez discovers is a Juilliard-trained musical prodigy, brings to mind man’s first question to God: Am I my brother’s keeper? Lately the answer seems to be … well, if you’re interesting enough. Had Ayers’ story been less remarkable, no doubt Lopez would have moved on.

Like Ayers, those suffering from mental illness have to contend not only with their illness, but also with the ugly stigma surrounding it. Many people with brain illnesses are educated, talented people. They are doctors of many disciplines, artists, enthusiasts, people with passions and ideas. And some of them are Jewish. The stigma that isolates them pushes colleagues (and often family) away; it eliminates opportunities, dashes hopes and ends dreams, and it leaves countless people lonely, bereft and friendless. But as “The Soloist” demonstrates, they do not have to be so alone. Stigma can be combated. And it should not be permitted at our Jewish institutions. 

In Hebrew school we learn the importance of the mitzvah of bikur cholim, visiting the sick. Merely by visiting, we may change the course of another’s life. Perhaps our kindness or our reaction to an emergency will promote healing or even bring someone back from near death. 

With mental illness, quick response may do the same. 

Though Ayers chose not to take medication (in California, courts cannot order the mentally ill to be medicated), psychotherapeutic medications, if taken early enough, can sometimes prevent the onset of full-blown illness, ward off chronic mental illness or greatly reduce negative outcomes.

Some years ago, when studies began to suggest that Ashkenazi Jews might have a higher incidence of some brain illnesses, we made an attempt to speak at local synagogues about the National Alliance on Mental Illness’ (NAMI) services. Program director after program director was contacted, and no one was interested. We offered them free classes, but there wasn’t much interest there either. Ultimately, we offered our literature as a “leave behind,” should a lone congregant need us. Again, no takers. This despite the fact that according to the surgeon general, one out of four people will have a mental illness. Which means, conservatively, one in two people will be affected by a mental illness. Statistically, and through our membership, we know that Jewish families are affected. The synagogues we contacted chose not to confront the subject. We found this odd, since education, compassion and charity reverberate through Jewish law.

Last year, in planning our first Pathways to Wellness — Jewish Community Conference on Mental Health, we again contacted synagogues to find a host location. Every program director declined. Ultimately, Rabbi David Wolpe at Sinai Temple courageously took a stand against stigma, and Sinai Temple hosted the conference, where more than 400 participants heard experts on brain illnesses and recovery, and went home, armed with the ammunition of knowledge to comfort their own sick. The conference was, essentially, a mass mitzvah, which is why it was so astounding to our Jewish members that we had had to beg synagogues to find a venue. 

Lopez’s singular act of bikur cholim gave Ayers some of his dignity and self-esteem back, and allowed him to again be surrounded by beautiful music, the thing he loved most. It has also led many others to reconsider their prejudices and ignorance about the mentally ill. We all know there are people with brain illnesses who are worth knowing; they are our children, our parents, brothers and sisters. Treating them as throwaways has resulted in their great representation among the 90,000 homeless of our city — and such a high proportion of the incarcerated that L.A. County Jail is now known as the largest mental institution in the country. 

The question remains: As Jews, are we obligated to see them as our brothers?  Certainly, minimally, we are obligated to help where we can. Allowing stigma and shame to overrule our better instincts only results in withholding comfort to the sick and adding an unnecessary and crushing weight to the already staggering burden of illness and isolation.

There are many things in this world that we are powerless to change, but, as Jews, can we who have been stigmatized to the point of near genocide permit stigma to stand in the way of information and care? And can we allow our religious institutions to do so? 

Let’s do what’s in our power to relieve the suffering that we can.

Pathways to Wellness, May 17, 8:30 a.m., Sinai Temple, 10400 Wilshire Blvd. For more information, visit www.namila.org.

Mindy Glazer is communications director of NAMI Westside-L.A.

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Jewball, The Missing Class, Bye Bye Bybee

Jewball
As a long-time Laker fan, the stories about Jordan Farmar and history of Jews in American basketball prompted me to think about a player that current Laker coach and former N.Y. Knickerbocker forward Phil Jackson might remember well: Neal Walk (“Jordan Farmar and the Jewish Hoops Future,” April 24).

Walk played from 1969 to 1974 for the Phoenix Suns, was traded to the then-New Orleans (now Utah) Jazz and subsequently traded to the New York Knicks, where he played for two seasons.

Afterward, Walk went to play in Italy (Venice), after which he went on to play in Israel (Hapoel Ramat Gan).

In 1988, it was discovered that he had a benign tumor enveloping his spine. Following surgery, Walk was left in a wheelchair, from which he played wheelchair basketball for the L.A.-Phoenix Samaritans in the Southern California league of the National Wheelchair Basketball Association. In 1990, Walk was honored at the White House by President George H. W. Bush as the “Wheelchair Athlete of The Year.”

Walk has since gone on to work for the Phoenix Suns in their community affairs department. Walk is in the Miami Beach Senior High School Hall of Fame and a legend in the Jewish community. He is also in the Jewish Sports Hall of Fame.

Michael Krems, via e-mail


The Missing Class
I am not of the Jewish faith, but if, as David Suissa quoted from Thomas Cahill in his recent column, “The Missing Class” (April 24), “this oddball tribe, this raggle-taggle band” has something for me to learn from, then I will open my heart, ears and hands; take it and share it with others who might enjoy reading [Suissa’s] stimulating columns but, because of their difference in faith, have never picked up a copy of The Jewish Journal.

Whether it’s a personal revelation (“Leaning Sideways,” April 17), a call for community awareness (“Laboring for Ethics,” March 6), or new insights meant for a changing world (“The Missing Class”) [Suissa’s] voice, directed to the Jewish populace, always resonates in my own (non-Jewish) soul.

Each week, I eagerly look forward to what buried treasures may await in his column.

Camilla D’Avignon, West Hollywood

As the spiritual leader of the Nachshon Minyan, a congregation established to reach out to the unaffiliated in the San Fernando Valley, I read David Suissa’s recent column, “The Missing Class” with interest and, I must admit, some frustration (April 24). The frustration is not with what Mr. Suissa had to say. His idea of a class on “Jewish Contributions to Humanity” is a great idea, so great in fact, that we’ve been doing something like that at the Nachshon Minyan Torah School for the past two years. As part of our curriculum, our students learn about the contributions of famous and not-so-famous Jews who’ve made a positive difference in our world. And, based on my experience, Mr. Suissa is absolutely right about the fact that exposing Jewish students to these individuals builds a sense of Jewish pride. My frustration is that he is unaware of the work that we or other small congregations are doing because of the difficulty we have competing with far larger synagogues for press attention. As such, I invite Mr. Suissa and others in the L.A. Jewish press to learn about the work of our congregation and others like us. We may be small but we’re just as committed and, sometimes, even more creative.

Cantor Judy Greenfeld, Encino


Bye Bye Bybee
Marty Kaplan’s, “Bye Bye Bybee” is on to something (April 24). It will be up to future screenwriters or novelists to “get the torture story right.” (Not any of the contemporary journalists or historians.)

Here is a future storyline:

The most powerful nation in history is savagely attacked, killing thousands of innocents. The leadership of this nation, as any responsible government, adopts measures preventing such an attack in the future.

Non-citizens suspected of planning harm on the nation are captured and incarcerated. A limited number of these individuals are identified as having information that leads to preventing future attacks.

Accordingly, the government utilizes interrogation techniques against suspected terrorists, extracting information preventing future attacks. Such methods are tame compared to crueler tactics used by the overwhelming number of nations on earth.

The nation is a democracy, so these and other measures operate within strict boundaries.

Honest people differ on whether certain interrogation techniques constitute torture, but empirically these techniques prevented at least one major attack against the country.

Instead of being hailed as patriots, those condoning the countermeasures are vilified, themselves called terrorists and threatened with incarceration.

Yes, Mr. Kaplan, this would be a perfect episode of “The Twilight Zone!”

Stuart Pardau, via e-mail


Unlikely Trio
Mr. King’s film, “The Rescuers,” will contribute to understanding one of the main lessons of the Holocaust: While the evil represented by the Nazis and their collaborators was widely researched, there is not enough focus on the brave feats of rescuers, diplomats and common people (“Unlikely Trio Uncover Tales of Wartime Rescues,” May 1). All of them made a difference. Most of them remain anonymous.

The International Raoul Wallenberg Foundation is proud to have collaborated with Mr. King, Sir Martin Gilbert and their team in this blessed venture. We actively engage in research and recognition of unknown stories of rescuers, including Christians and Muslims alike. We believe in education as the best antidote against the recurrence of a new Holocaust.

The fact that Ms. Stephanie Nyombayire, a Rwandan human-rights activist who lost many members of her family in her country’s genocide, has a predominant role in the documentary, is a strong reminder that the legacy of the rescuers is as relevant as ever.

Danny Rainer. New York


Happy Birthday Israel
Once again The Jewish Journal has shown its journalistic priorities: assuming that every connection between Jews and Hollywood merits pages of coverage (“Beautiful. Intense. Israeli.” May 1). Thus the issue for Israel Independence day focuses on Israelis who have chosen to leave the Jewish homeland to seek fame and fortune in Hollywood. The profile of the cover girl even makes sure to let the reader know within the first two paragraphs that she is “hot” and has a “really great body.”

One could only hope that next year the paper takes a more Zionist approach to its Yom HaAtzmaut story by perhaps focusing on Los Angelenos who have chosen to make aliyah or spend time studying or volunteering in the Jewish State.

Joel Feld, Los Angeles


Correction
The article, “Heschel Students See Another Butterfly” (April 29, Community Briefs), attributed the project to the wrong school. Students and families at the Abraham Joshua Heschel Day School in Northridge created the Holocaust memorial wall and interviewed Holocaust survivors.

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Now It’s J.J. Abrams’ Turn to ‘Trek’

J.J. Abrams is responsible for some of the most beloved entertainment of the past two decades. He is the writer/creator of the television dramas “Felicity,” “Alias,” “Lost” and “Fringe.” He directed the feature films “Mission: Impossible III,” starring Tom Cruise; the apocalyptic thriller “Cloverfield”; and, opening Thursday, the latest installment in the science fiction franchise, “Star Trek.” Abrams is also a prolific screenwriter, whose early credits include “Regarding Henry,” “Forever Young” and “Armageddon.” He talks about his romantic side, what he has in common with Judd Apatow and why success hasn’t changed him.

Jewish Journal: What is the week before the release of ‘Star Trek’ like for its director?
J.J. Abrams: Lots of this. Lots of talking about ‘Star Trek.’

JJ: Forgive my gender jab, but I’ve always wondered how a man could create ‘Felicity,’ television’s most thoughtful female coming-of-age story.
JJA: The idea for ‘Felicity’ was really something that I thought about for a while. I loved the idea of a character who was such a romantic that she would follow this crazy sort of capricious whim and change her whole educational plan. The thing I loved about her had nothing to do with her gender. It was her romanticism.

JJ: Does this mean that you’re secretly a romantic?
JJA: I don’t think [it’s] secretly at all. My favorite movies are incredibly romantic movies and funny movies.

JJ: You may be the only person in Hollywood who has both ‘Felicity’ and ‘Star Trek’ on your IMDb profile.
JJA: Actually, I wonder if that’s true. It’s not: John Cho who plays Sulu was in an early episode of ‘Felicity.’ And Greg Grunberg’s voice appears in ‘Star Trek.’ Scott Chambliss, our production designer, also worked on ‘Felicity.’ There is that sort of ongoing group of actors and people who I’ve been lucky enough to work with again and again. It’s part of the familial experience of making movies. I try to work with the same people as much as possible.

JJ: Is that how you avoid Hollywood’s notoriously crazy characters?
JJA: There are good and bad — people who are incredibly trustworthy and those who are incredibly duplicitous, those who are kind and philanthropic and selfless, and people who are insanely myopic and self-involved, you know, ‘Machiavellian.’ It is exactly what high school is. Obviously you just try and find the people who not only do great work, but who are great to work with.

JJ: There are already 10 ‘Star Trek’ movies in existence, plus something like a half-dozen variations on the TV series. Why does the world need another ‘Star Trek’?
JJA: Well, as someone who is not much of a fan of ‘Trek’ to begin with, I frankly had no idea there had been 10 movies. I lost track of ‘Star Trek’ so long ago as a moviegoer — and I never really cared much about it either way. Quite frankly, it felt like something that had become so diffused in terms of its meaning. So when I was asked if I wanted to be involved, my reaction was ‘Oh, that’s a cool challenge.’ Let’s go back to the beginning and answer the question that I never felt was sufficiently answered, which was, ‘Why should I care about these guys?’

JJ: Isn’t this just recycling old material, rather than coming up with something new?
JJA: I’m not particularly precious about where ideas come from, as long as they’re good ideas. I never in a million years thought I would go back and do another sequel to a series of films based on a TV series. But when ‘Star Trek’ came up, I showed the script to my wife and she read it (not a ‘Star Trek’ fan), and she said ‘You have to direct this movie.’ And just for complete certainty, I also showed the script to Spielberg.

JJ: So you have a relationship with Spielberg?
JJA: Obviously he’s my idol, but he’s also become my real mentor and confidante.

JJ: Some people think you are a geek ‘starmaker’ in service of sci-fi, the way Judd Apatow is for comedy. You both tend to use the same talent over and over. Any thoughts on this comparison?
JJA: I’m a huge fan of Judd Apatow. Obviously I think he’s insanely talented and clearly he has this group of people that are loyal to him and to whom he’s loyal — in that regard, I completely relate to and respect what he does. In terms of being a starmaker, I know that a lot of times in life you have to work on what you need to do in order to do what you want to do. And, having been lucky enough to do what I’ve wanted to do for a while, it’s been a terrific thing getting to cast people who are right for the part.

JJ: In March you signed a five-year development deal with Paramount. Last week, Variety reported that as a consequence of the recent William Morris-Endeavor merger, your agent, David Lonner, would leave William Morris. Does this mean you’re officially homeless?
JJA: It’s complicated, because I have more than one agent, but I’ve been with David Lonner for more than 20 years. I’m not sure what he’s going to do or what’s going to happen.

JJ: In the trades you’re described as a ‘multi-hyphenate’ which means you wear so many hats people don’t even know what to call you. That’s a level of success in Hollywood most people only dream about. What do you still pinch yourself over?
JJA: The amazing thing is you work for years trying to write stuff that works, and then all of a sudden you get paid to do that, and what I realized was that nothing changes. I’m exactly the same goofball, I’m still sitting in the same room, I’ve got the same computer, the same thoughts in my head. I always thought when I was a kid that if I got my name on the screen I could die happy. And I think there’s a certain level of truth to that. But there isn’t a day when I don’t feel disbelief that I get to do this.

JJ: What’s been your most recent epiphany moment?
JJA: We just came back from this world tour for ‘Star Trek,’ and we went to Kuwait and showed the troops the movie. I will tell you, every country we went to, every city we were in, was another insane, impossible and surreal experience. It was a wonderful perspective shift, because I was reminded how incredible it is to get to do something that is ultimately as trivial as creating entertainment — and I’m not undercutting or demeaning the experience of making movies, I understand it’s important to people — but when you go to Kuwait and you see these people and realize what they’re doing, it’s amazing how trivial everything you do becomes.

JJ: It’s interesting that you say ‘nothing changes’ with success because there’s this strange cycle in the industry where everybody starts at the bottom and works their way to the top, but when they get there, they treat the people at the bottom pretty poorly.
JJA: I always feel like success, especially in Hollywood, just magnifies the core of who that person is. Meaning, if you’re philanthropic and you have ten dollars to give and you do, when you suddenly have a million dollars, I think that you will give commensurate with your success. I don’t think success changes people; I think success maximizes the truth.

JJ: You sound pretty levelheaded. What keeps you grounded? 
JJA: Whenever I need a reminder that I’m just a lucky schmuck who gets to make movies, my wife is there to nudge me or slap the back of my head.

JJ: I don’t want to make any assumptions — because being Jewish in Hollywood means lots of different things — so I’ll just ask why people think you’re Jewish.
JJA: My name is Jeffrey Jacob Abrams — it’s a tough one to get around. My family wasn’t very religious, but I’m very proud of my heritage. My wife is Irish Catholic and it’s a fascinating thing having married someone who’s of a different religion, because you get to understand and see and respect another way of growing up and believing. That to me is interesting and healthy. I do consider myself Jewish, and I take my kids to services on holidays because that is something really important to me.

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Pope’s Israel Visit Fraught With Potential Minefields

The official Israeli government Web site for Pope Benedict XVI’s upcoming trip to Israel and the West Bank promotes the May 11-15 visit as a “Bridge for Peace.”

Others, however, describe it as a potential minefield where various factions may try to exploit the pope’s presence for political gain.

“Both Jewish and Muslim ideologues are determined to stop the pope crossing that bridge,” journalist Damian Thompson wrote on his religion blog for the U.K. Telegraph, Holy Smoke, “either by smearing him as an anti-Semite or by making his visit to a Palestinian refugee camp look like a politically motivated reproach to Israel.”

The German-born pontiff leaves for the Middle East on May 8; he will spend three days in Jordan before flying to Israel.

The trip is the first by a pope to Israel since the 2000 pilgrimage by Benedict’s predecessor, Pope John Paul II. John Paul was a historic trailblazer who made promoting Vatican-Jewish relations a central policy goal.

Inevitably, Benedict’s words and actions are sure to be compared — and contrasted — with John Paul’s.

“It’s unfair, but John Paul’s warmth will be compared to the theological coldness of Benedict,” Israeli political scientist Shlomo Avineri said. “The fact that he was in the Hitler Youth, though involuntarily, will make everyone look at every move and turn of phrase.”

Several issues have strained Vatican-Jewish ties in recent months. There is ongoing controversy over wartime Pope Pius XII’s role in the Holocaust, and Jewish groups erupted in January when Benedict lifted a 20-year-old excommunication order against a traditional bishop who turned out to be a Holocaust denier.

In Rome, Lisa Palmieri-Billig, the American Jewish Committee’s liaison with the Vatican, said that both sides were striving to minimize lingering problems ahead of the papal trip.

“All the problems that might have loomed on the horizon before the pontiff announced his trip are being muted within the perspective of the importance of the visit for bilateral relations,” she said. “Both the Israelis and world Jewry are aware of this and want to nourish good relations.”

On April 12, Benedict, 82, said he would “emphatically” bring a message of “justice and truth, mercy, forgiveness and love” on his trip.

“Reconciliation — difficult but indispensable — is a precondition for a future of overall security and peaceful coexistence, and it can only be achieved through renewed, persevering and sincere efforts to resolve the Israeli-Palestinian conflict,” he said.

The pope’s itinerary mixes prayer, politics and pastoral teaching to local Christians with an attempt to improve interfaith relations with both Muslims and Jews.

It includes stops in Jerusalem, Bethlehem and Nazareth. There will be open-air Masses and meetings with Muslim and Jewish religious leaders.

The pope will visit the Yad Vashem Holocaust memorial and the al-Aida Palestinian refugee camp near Bethlehem. He will hold meetings with Israeli President Shimon Peres and Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu, as well as with Palestinian Authority President Mahmoud Abbas.

Official Vatican policy is to maintain an equilibrium of sorts in its relations with Israel and the Arab world.

“Its diplomacy is different from that of other states because it is always aware of the Christian populations,” Palmieri-Billig said.

In Jerusalem, Oded Ben-Hur, a former Israeli ambassador to the Vatican, said the pope would be welcomed as a friend of Israel.

The visit, he told reporters, is proof that “relations between Israel and the Holy See are strong and solid.” Ben-Hur said Benedict “has never missed an opportunity to reiterate his commitment to dialogue and to relations with Israel.”

The two states formalized full diplomatic relations in 1994. But years of fitful negotiations have failed to resolve several lingering issues, including fiscal status and tax issues regarding Church property in Israel and visa restrictions on Arab Christian priests.

Meanwhile, Arab and Muslim sentiment ahead of the visit appears to be mixed. One possible problem could be the pope’s last day in the region, May 15, which coincides with the day Palestinians commemorate as the Nakba — the “catastrophe” of Israel’s birth in May 1948.

“The pope’s Palestinian hosts will certainly ‘instrumentalize’ this,” Avineri said.

Already the Latin Patriarch of Jerusalem, Fouad Twal, said Benedict’s visit to the al-Aida refugee camp would symbolize the Palestinians’ “right of return” to the Holy Land, according to a report on Israel’s Ynet news.

Israeli media reports also said that officials were concerned that security and other infrastructure for the visit were not yet in place in the West Bank.

Pamphlets in some Arab towns have called for protests against the pope because of remarks he made in 2006 that were construed as insulting Islam. At the time, the remarks sparked protests in the West Bank and Gaza Strip, as well as elsewhere in the Arab world.

In Nazareth near the Church of the Annunciation, which the pope is to visit, radical Muslims have hung a banner apparently aimed at Benedict that quotes a passage from the Koran: “Those who harm God and His Messenger — God has cursed them in this world and in the hereafter, and has prepared for them a humiliating punishment.”

“Everyone is crossing their fingers” that things go well, Avineri said.

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