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September 12, 2002

Singles Seeking More

A TV show taping might mean a lot of things to people in Hollywood, but it doesn’t necessarily scream: "Killer mate-hunting opportunity!"

Yet, that was exactly the goal of the entities behind a recent taping of motivational speaker Rabbi Irwin Kula’s upcoming show "Simple Wisdom" — one of several events that may indicate that Los Angeles’ maturing Jewish singles aren’t satisfied to simply hook up in the bar or club scene.

Perhaps that was evident by virtue of the evening’s host — or rather, "by virtual." The event — a taping of three episodes of "Simple Wisdom" complete with catered mixer breaks filling up the downtime — was sponsored by the Beverly Hills-based Jewish dating service JDate, a division of MatchNet.com. With the rise in the mid-1990s of the Internet as a matchmaking tool, JDate has become one of many online dating services promising to make dating easier in an age when dating is not so easy.

So why was this crowd of 70 singles gathered, of all things, to comprise the studio audience of a show hosted by the president of CLAL-The National Jewish Center for Learning & Leadership?

According to attendees, it’s not enough anymore to meet over drinks at a bar or barbecue. Kula’s advice-dispensing program, for instance, offered a cultural component — TV-friendly sermons peppered lightly with biblical allusions to Ishmael and Isaac, Cain and Abel.

The singles also felt more comfortable in a venue where meeting members of the opposite sex is not the focus, but the byproduct. And savvy matchmakers, such as JDate, are tapping into that idea.

"We are spreading out and reaching for more diverse events," said JDate CFO Natalie Papagni. "We’ve realized that there’s the potential of the JDate community. They want interactive involvement in events, such as this, connecting more on an intellectual level. They appreciate the quality and the opportunity to experience more diverse things."

"The idea is to create an event that’s not typical with an activity at the center of it," added Talia Vanson, JDate’s national events manager. "If you meet someone, it’s an extra."

The suggestion of turning the tapings into a singles’ night rose during a conversation between Vanson and her Santa Monica neighbor, Harvey Lehrer, vice president of Jewish Television Network (JTN), which is producing 13 episodes of "Simple Wisdom" for a spring airing on PBS.

"We thought it would be an ideal audience for these topics," Lehrer said. "We sort of tailored the night to their interests. Obviously they responded. We’ve got a great crowd."

Dan Azaren, an attendee who works in marketing, was certainly glad he came down to hear Kula expound on the episodes’ topics of intimacy, family and — not by coincidence last — sex.

"He comes across as very sincere," said Azaren, 42. "He tries to relate messages in personal terms and break it down into terms we can all understand."

Haleh Houshim, who at 30-something was perhaps the youngest of the attendees, came down to the studio decked out in a conservatively sexy dress and heels. Houshim was drawn to the nature of the event, particularly the offering of Kula’s prescription for good living.

Linda Caplan, a single mom who has recently gotten back into dating, agreed. "It’s a good way to meet someone without having to go out," she said.

Evidently, there are many Jewish singles all over the world who feel that way. JDate’s Web site boasts a membership of about 380,000, with 15,000 joining per month — that figure is broken down to 285,000 in America; 56,000 in Israel; 28,000 in Canada; and 9,600 in the United Kingdom.

"Everybody uses the word ‘intimacy,’" said JTN President Jay Sanderson, who filled the studio bleachers with audience members. "Looking at the turnout tonight, it’s obviously something they yearn for."

But does dating via computers resolve intimacy and other dating issues? Yes and no. Two JDaters who had just met at the studio tapings and fell into an easy rapport were Azaren and Devorah Cohen, 48. Cohen said she uses JDate to supplement her dating.

"I lead a busy life," Cohen said. "It’s hard to meet people in your age group that have the same values."

Viewing the profiles on JDate, she added, cuts to the chase.

"You can go for months without knowing if they even want to be married," Cohen said. "With JDate, you know upfront. You save a lot of time."

"You’re able to screen and access a large group in little time," Azaren agreed. "But when you go out, there are obvious subtleties that you don’t see [in the profiles]."

Like whether or not there’s chemistry or emotional stability.

"You find out about how old they are," Cohen reasoned.

"Theoretically," Azaren responded with a knowing smile.

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Intifada at a Turning Point?

Could Israel and the Palestinians be reaching a turning point in their violent conflict?

A flurry of high-level contacts were expected this week, leading to suggestions that diplomatic efforts could finally be gaining some traction as the intifada nears its two-year point.

These suggestions came as Palestinian Authority President Yasser Arafat faced a major challenge from Palestinian legislators, who were on the brink of voting no-confidence in his Cabinet this week. Arafat’s ministers forestalled the move by resigning en masse.

Israeli Foreign Minister Shimon Peres met Tuesday night with Palestinian negotiator Saeb Erekat in Tel Aviv. During the meeting, Peres reiterated Israel’s willingness to withdraw from areas where the Palestinians take responsibility for stopping terrorist attacks.

Later, Peres’ office said Defense Minister Benjamin Ben-Eliezer would meet with Palestinian Authority Interior Minister Abdel Razak Yehiyeh in the coming days to discuss withdrawing Israeli troops from Arab sections of Hebron.

Finance officials from the two sides also were due to discuss the release of Palestinian tax money that Israel froze at the beginning of the intifada. In an overnight meeting, Peres and Prime Minister Ariel Sharon reportedly decided to transfer about $15 million of frozen tax revenue to the Palestinian Authority.

Reports also circulated of a possible meeting between Sharon and Arafat’s deputy, Mahmoud Abbas. Abbas reportedly called Sharon last week and asked for the meeting to discuss ways to end the violence.

Some observers speculated that Peres wanted to create at least a symbolic breakthrough before leaving for the United States, where he was scheduled to represent Israel at Sept. 11 memorial activities, address the U.N. General Assembly and hold diplomatic meetings in Washington.

Those who believe a turning point has been reached note the relative lull in violence in recent weeks.

Sharon said last week that, for the first time since the intifada began in September 2000, he saw the possibility of reaching a peace agreement — primarily because the Palestinians had despaired of winning Israeli concessions through violence. Despite such pronouncements, Sharon and other Israeli officials continue to dismiss Arafat as a possible peace partner.

Israel largely ignored a speech Arafat gave Monday before Palestinian legislators — the first time he has addressed them in 18 months — while U.S. officials dismissed it as nothing new. Arafat’s speech failed to discuss reforms in the Palestinian Authority, as many of the legislators had hoped, or to make an explicit call for an end to suicide bombing, as foreign governments had sought.

Arafat told the legislative council that he condemns "every act of terror against Israeli civilians," but did not say such attacks should be halted. He also omitted paragraphs, present in an earlier draft, that called for an end to suicide bombings in Israel.

A day later, Arafat’s Fatah movement released a letter saying it would prevent attacks on civilians in Israel. However, it suggested that it would continue targeting Israelis in the West Bank and Gaza Strip.

There was some confusion surrounding the letter. Commanders of Fatah’s military wing disassociated themselves from the letter, saying that violent struggle against Israel would continue. According to Fatah officials, debates over the content of the document have not ended, primarily over whether settlers should still be considered fair prey.

European involvement in the limited cease-fire efforts drew criticism. Israel’s army chief told the Cabinet Tuesday that the Europeans were in effect encouraging the Palestinians to restrict their attacks, rather than halt them altogether, Army Radio reported.

The tone of Arafat’s speech to legislators was not all conciliatory. He accused Israel of exploiting Palestinian terrorist attacks in order to attack Palestinians, and of using the Sept. 11 attacks to link the Palestinian Authority to terrorism.

Arafat’s address was viewed as a crucial test of his standing among the Palestinian public. But the speech was not well-received internationally, and even Palestinian critics lamented that he had missed the chance to make a major policy statement. At one point, Arafat said he was prepared to step down should someone wish to give him some rest by replacing him, but commentators agreed that he appeared to be joking.

The three-day meeting of legislators was convened to vote on the new Cabinet that Arafat appointed in June. On Wednesday, Arafat’s 21-member Cabinet was forced to resign to avoid being ousted by legislators in a no-confidence vote. Just moments before lawmakers were to hold the vote, Cabinet ministers submitted their resignations to Arafat. Protesting corruption and incompetence among Cabinet members, a majority of lawmakers speaking at Wednesday’s session of the Palestinian legislative council in Ramallah said they would vote against Arafat’s Cabinet.

Also on Wednesday, Arafat set Jan. 20 as the date for Palestinian presidential and legislative elections. The United States had sought to delay presidential elections in hopes of having the Palestinians create the office of prime minister, a move aimed at turning Arafat into a figurehead president.

On Monday, Israel began gradually lifting the three-day curfew imposed on Palestinian population centers during Rosh Hashanah. Just the same, Israeli troops remained on high alert for possible terrorist attacks.

The alert was issued as Israeli officials revealed that they had arrested three Palestinians accused of plotting to poison drinks at a Jerusalem cafe. Two confessed to their role in the plot, police said.

The third, who is the alleged ringleader, is a chef at the restaurant. He will be charged with attempted murder later this week, according to The Jerusalem Post.

On Tuesday, the Israeli daily Ha’aretz reported that another attack had been thwarted, this one by a Hamas cell that planned to carry out a double suicide bombing at the Tel Hashomer Hospital near Tel Aviv. The report was based on details from an indictment filed in an Israeli military court against Mohammed Jarrar, 20, a Hamas activist in the Jenin refugee camp.

According to the indictment, two suicide bombers planned to sneak into Israel disguised as Muslim clerics. A doctor employed by Jenin Hospital drove the two bombers, but the three turned around when they saw large numbers of soldiers at an Israeli checkpoint, according to the report. Jarrar’s cell also planned to blow up a Tel Aviv skyscraper with a huge truck bomb, Ha’aretz reported.

As long as such reports continue to appear with alarming frequency, the chances for a real breakthrough on the diplomatic track remain slim.

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The Palestinians’ Yom Kippur

It’s as if the Palestinians are having their own Yom Kippur this year. Looking back over the 24 months of the current intifada and the nine years since the Oslo accords, Nabil Amr, a former minister and Yasser Arafat loyalist, beat his breast last week and declared: "We have committed a serious mistake against our people, authority and the dream of establishing our state."

At the same time, Interior Minister Abdel Razak Yehiyeh, recently appointed to streamline the myriad Palestinian security services, called for an end to violence and suicide bombings. "Violence only breeds violence and reactions which bring grave losses," he said. "The militarizing of the intifada and the armed operations were a historic mistake that has cost the Palestinian people lots of blood and innocent lives."

Arafat echoed the point in his address to a meeting of the Palestinian Legislative Council in his Ramallah headquarters on Monday. Israeli critics noted that they were repudiating violence not because it was immoral, but because it didn’t work. But to many Israelis in the line of fire, that will do for a start, so long as the Palestinian leadership acts and doesn’t just talk.

The Palestinians won the first intifada, a revolt of stones and Molotov cocktails, in the late ’80s by convincing Israelis that they could no longer live with the status quo.

However, the Palestinians have lost the second intifada, a revolt of guns and bombs, because Israel did not buckle.

More and more Palestinians now recognize that the resort to arms and the failure to build a civil society brought them nothing but grief. Amr, who resigned four months ago as Arafat’s parliamentary affairs minister, articulated it more bluntly and more publicly than others. It is significant that Amr did so in the columns of an official Palestinian Authority newspaper, Al Hayat al-Jadida, and that Arafat’s thugs have not forced him to retract.

Along with Arafat and other exiled Palestinian leaders, Amr returned to the homeland after Oslo. Now in his early 50s, he has served as the Palestine Liberation Organization’s ambassador to Moscow. He is also a former editor of Al Hayat al-Jadida. His outspoken "Open letter to President Yasser Arafat" spares neither the Palestinian Authority nor its leader.

"We abandoned one of our most important weapons," he wrote, "that of building establishments worthy of receiving support from the world and capable of winning the trust of the Palestinians and pulling the rug from under the feet of the Israelis…. I speak in the plural ‘we’ because I believe the responsibility for failure is a collective one, although you shoulder the greater part of the responsibility in view of your post, jurisdiction and power."

Amr complained that the leadership was more concerned with "sharing the booty" than creating a credible administration or judiciary. "Not a single committee was formed to study the qualifications of those who were assigned big and small posts," he wrote. Later in the letter, he noted that the "army of employees" had reached 130,000 persons, "three-quarters of whom do not know what their work is."

But the ex-minister’s most sardonic attack was leveled at Arafat’s rejection of the compromise peace formula President Bill Clinton floated, with the acquiescence of Israeli Prime Minister Ehud Barak, at Camp David in July 2000. Amr said it was a decision that condemned the Palestinians to a situation of constant retreat.

"Didn’t we jump for joy over the failure of Camp David?" Amr mocked. "Didn’t we throw mud at the picture of Clinton, who dared to submit a proposal for a state with some modifications? Didn’t we do this? Were we sincere with ourselves? No, we were not. After two years of bloodshed, we accept what we rejected, perhaps because we know it is impossible to achieve."

Sari Nusseibeh, the PLO’s point man in Jerusalem, is another eminent Palestinian brave enough to say Arafat blew it at Camp David. "My sense," Nusseibeh told me, "is that Barak wanted to close a deal.

"This is what the Palestinians should have made use of," he said. "I think it was possible to make Barak come the extra mile or two, if we on the Palestinian side had made the one or two steps forward in terms of what we were prepared to do on refugees."

Like Nusseibeh, Amr believes it is never too late to repair the errors. "What works," he wrote, "is frankness and admission that a grave failure has occurred…. We have not done yet what we must do…. We have committed a serious mistake against our people, authority and the dream of establishing our state.

"However, we can be forgiven if we admit our mistake and get to work immediately," he continued. "What this people deserves is for us to work a lot with them and for them — not to place their destiny at the mercy of new international winds or mortgage them until doomsday without opening a window of hope for them."

That’s as ringing a declaration of penitence as you will hear in any synagogue this Yom Kippur. But Arafat and company still have to earn their second chance.

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A ‘Caring Heart’ for Israel’s Forgotten

In the grim underground parking lot of the Rishon LeZion shopping mall in central Israel, hundreds of men and women of all ages are nervously sitting, standing restlessly or milling around, their faces weary, their eyes expectant. Judging from the range of skin tones, clothing styles and head-coverings, there’s an ethnic and religious cross section of the whole state here: Jews of dozens of countries of origin and religious backgrounds, Muslims and Christians.

In one corner, a 60-something woman named Aliza, who came from Ukraine eight years ago and lives in Bat Yam today, efficiently sorts and folds massive heaps of donated clothes. In another corner, Shoshana, who travels here by bus from Tel Aviv every week to volunteer and whose husband and teenage son are narcomenim (drug addicts), is helping to organize parcels of food. Children run around the scattered chairs playing.

It’s a Thursday at Pitchon Lev — Hebrew for The Caring Heart — an organization that helps feed and clothe Israel’s poor. It’s here, in the cavernous underground beneath the shoppers above, that a portion of Israel’s expanding underclass gathers to receive food, clothing, bags of diapers and basic household supplies that they’d otherwise be without.

More than 100,000 people a year are helped by the Pitchon Lev centers in Rishon LeZion and in Carmel, in the north. Thousands of volunteers make sure that no person leaves without crucial supplies and no child goes unfed.

The political and security crises of Israel grab national and international headlines, but the severe social crisis of burgeoning poverty rates rarely receives the attention it deserves.

The unemployment figure hovers at 14 percent and is rising. To worsen matters, said Dr. Shlomo Swirski of the ADVA Policy Institute, the proposed new national budget — called the Economic Defensive Shield — places an even greater burden on those Israelis whose "income falls in the six lowest income brackets."

Among those in the lowest brackets are single mothers, the handicapped and the elderly. Already, 1 million of Israel’s 6 million people live below the poverty line, and 600,000 children go undernourished each day, according to ADVA.

"Each one of these children is an entire world," said Nissim Zioni, the head of Pitchon Lev. Zioni left his successful radio broadcasting career in 1998 to establish the nonprofit organization after discovering responses to his radio appeals for food and clothing for the poor snowballed.

So many social workers called in requesting help for their clients, and so much produce, clothing and household supplies were donated in response to Zioni’s radio appeals, that he decided to devote himself to combating poverty full time.

Today the organization has a paid staff of 17 and thousands of volunteers, many of whom, like Shoshana, believe that they are "giving back to Pitchon Lev" for "all they have received." Five IDF units, supermarket chains, student unions and youth groups, as well as television and sports celebrities, volunteer their help. As a result of its organizational skills, Pitchon Lev received $475,000 in donations, but managed to distribute over $2.6 million worth of goods.

Zioni, who is at once soft-spoken, charismatic and passionate about his cause, expressed an unwavering determination to maintain the dignity of the needy. Pitchon Lev’s grocery and general goods shops have appealing displays, and the organization charges minimal fees for the food parcels and clothing it distributes.

With a steering committee of leading figures in commerce, communications and education, Zioni plans to establish Pitchon Lev College. It will offer single mothers, street youths and adults basic educational courses, as well as classes aimed at improving their life-organizational skills.

Zioni’s goal is to empower Israel’s needy to break free from the poverty and dependency cycle. He also wants to move from the parking lot and create Pitchon Lev House, which will serve as the national base of operations, a drop-in center and a theater for street youth.

In the works is a Pitchon Lev response to reports that the Ministry of Education expects 400,000 youngsters to start the school year without textbooks and workbooks, as well as other school supplies, because their parents can’t afford to buy them. Though the ministry has created a $1.9 million emergency fund, Pitchon Lev recognized that that allocation won’t meet the needs. In response, it has launched Sefer L’Kol Yeled v’ Yaldah (A Book for Every Boy and Girl).

"To rob a child of a chance to learn is to crush a world," Zioni said.

Donations to Pitchon Lev are fully tax deductible and can be made payable to S.P.E.F. Israel Endowmenet Funds Inc., 317 Madison Ave., Suite 607, New York, N.Y. 10017, (212) 599-1260.

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Singles Fall in Love With Israel

Luckily, the lure was Israel, not pairing up. With a group consisting of 24 men and only seven women, singles action on the July Birthright trip to Israel sponsored by JDate, the Jewish singles online network, was minimal.

But the 10-day tour did have lots of Los Angeles action, with nine of the travelers, five men and four women, hailing from the L.A. area.

All the members of the L.A. contingent agreed they’d had a great and exhausting vacation. Steven Finnk, 25, from Santa Monica, called the trip "breathtaking — a walk through history" — and enthused about standing in the field where David and Goliath battled, climbing Masada at dawn and kayaking down the Jordan River. "All the stories of Jewish history came to life," he said.

For most of the L.A. travelers, like Finnk, the trip made Israel a knowable reality to which they could imagine returning — a definite win for the Birthright project, whose aim is to turn on young adults to Israel and Zionism.

Birthright Israel offers a free 10-day trip to Jews between 18 and 26 who have never visited the Jewish state (and to some who have, as it turns out) as a way of bolstering their sense of Jewish pride, adding to their Jewish knowledge and connecting them to the country. The trips are organized through various providers offering different itineraries and philosophical approaches. The JDate excursion was run by IsraelExperts. So far, nearly 30,000 North American Jews have taken advantage of the Birthright program.

Ari Zipper, a newcomer to Los Angeles, was bitten so hard by the Israel bug that he was having a hard time with the idea of going home. Zipper, originally from Colorado, moved to Los Angeles a few months ago to take a job in custom-designing home-theater installations. Now a resident of Valley Village, he’d lived in Jerusalem as a small child and felt "ready to stay" — except for the pledge he’d made to his job.

As a Hebrew speaker — his mother forced him to speak the language as a child, which he said made him angry then, but glad now — he became the group’s Israel-integration success story. While on the trip, he got job offers and was interviewed on Israeli television.

Where others talked about visiting the Western Wall or other tourist sites, Zipper cited as his trip highlights a doorway in Jerusalem and a groove in a cobblestone street with water running in it — small details he recalled from his early childhood here. "This is my home," he marveled. "I can’t describe the feeling. I’ve never been this happy. When I’m here, I have peace of mind."

For Rachel Katz, 25, a fourth-grade teacher in Buena Park, visiting Israel was "like a far dream," something she wanted, but somehow didn’t expect to do. Katz, a native of Orange County where she was active at Temple Beth David in Westminster, made going to the Western Wall a top priority. "I just wanted to go to the Kotel. I’d seen it in picture but never thought I would be here. Now I feel like I’ll come back."

The Tepper family sent Jennifer, 25, and Stacey, 23, sisters from Huntington Beach, where Jennifer lives with her cousin, Marisha Tepper, 20, who also came on the trip.

The Western Wall — "to be there and experience it in real life" — was the high point of the trip for Stacey, too, currently a student at Arizona State University. Jennifer, a clinical psychologist, found that the trip "brought together so much of who I am. I didn’t expect to be so moved." Marisha, a student at Orange Coast Community College, particularly loved finding ancient remnants at an archeological dig near Beit Guvrin.

For the Teppers, as for most others on the trip, security had been a concern in planning their trip but, ironically, concerns about safety had faded once they got to Israel. Marisha, whose parents had counseled her to "wait" to come to Israel, noted, "It’s sad to see how fearful Americans are and how strong Israelis are."

Marc Miller, 26, an information technology consultant from West Los Angeles, reported that co-workers and friends worried about his safety, and had pressured him not come on the trip. Now, he said, he sees Israel as "one of the safest places on earth" and blames television for "painting a picture."

Like others in the group, Miller thinks this trip signals a long-term change for him. "I had pushed away my interest in being Jewish in favor of college and non-Jewish friends," he mused. "This trip made me remember how important being Jewish is to me and how important it is to people in Israel that we came."

Mahbod Moghadam, 19, of Encino, had "put aside the summer for traveling" and couldn’t beat Birthright’s price. A student at Yale and the son of Iranian immigrants, Moghadam, who had his bar mitzvah at Temple Beth Emet in Burbank, was planning a trip to Israel next year for a research project on Iranian history. Friends warned him that Birthright would try to "brainwash" him in regard to Israel, but he says he found only "sincere, open argument, not brainwashing. The agenda is to allow young, dynamic people to make up their own minds."

Meanwhile, he praised the enormous range of activities, a "sample platter" he didn’t think he would have thought to do on his own, and he expects, back in America, to "extend" his Jewish religious life and his support of Israel and Zionism.

Pejman Nabat, 25, a native of Iran — his family escaped by way of Pakistan and India to Europe when he was 5, before moving to America — is studying history and psychology at UCLA and planning to go to dental school ("I have a passion for dentistry," he confided).

Active in Nessah Yisrael, a Persian community organization, he lauded the trip as providing fun, learning and a feeling of being "at home." He says he made "30 friends I’ll keep in touch with" on the trip. His highlight? "Everything was a highlight — I looked forward to every day."

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Groups Weigh Stance on Iraq

As the Bush administration seeks international support for an attack on Iraq, Jewish organizations are also crystallizing their positions.

In the next few weeks, Jewish groups are expected to meet with foreign leaders arriving in New York for the opening session of the U.N. General Assembly and anniversary commemorations of the Sept. 11 terrorist attacks.

The American Jewish Committee (AJC) is planning to meet with leaders of more than 50 countries, including the foreign ministers of China, Russia and France. The Conference of Presidents of Major American Jewish Organizations is expected to meet with the Indian prime minister, as well as with leaders of Jordan, Argentina and the European Union. B’nai B’rith International will be meeting with foreign leaders as well.

American Jewish officials will seek international support for the war on terrorism and pressure for Palestinian reform. But many conversations are expected to delve into the major issue of the day: whether to attack Iraq to head off President Saddam Hussein’s efforts to develop weapons of mass destruction.

President Bush was slated to address the General Assembly on Thursday, and was expected to make the case for a U.S. attack. But most American Jewish groups have not yet decided where they stand on Iraq.

"Our policy is not to try and detail policy or recommend strategy," said David Harris, AJC’s executive director. "Our position is to hammer away that Saddam Hussein represents a clear danger to the rest of the world and something has to be done about it."

Harris said he does not want his organization to get ahead of the Bush administration by offering advice on what should or should not be done, but will express the need for some action.

Malcolm Hoenlein, executive vice chairman of the Conference of Presidents, said his meetings would focus on other subjects, and that Iraq was not at the forefront of the Jewish community’s agenda. The Conference of Presidents’ members probably will not push a specific agenda on Iraq during their meetings with foreign leaders, but will gauge international opinion, Hoenlein said.

"We’re going to talk about it and we’re going to hear what they have to say," he said. He also will highlight the threat that Saddam poses, he said.

In the boardrooms and offices of most American Jewish groups, debate is continuing as to what should or should not be said on the Iraq issue. "This is a big one," Harris said. "This is not one you want to wing."

Hoenlein said he has engaged member organizations in small-group discussions about what the umbrella organization should say on the Iraq issue, and will hold a conference call with members after Bush’s U.N. speech. Hoenlein also has urged groups to have discussions within their own leadership and bring their thoughts to the table.

This approach toward formulating the Conference of Presidents’ position is unusual for the organization, which at times has been accused of taking stands without reaching a consensus of its membership, and of ignoring the viewpoints of more dovish members. Jewish leaders say the change in tactic reflects the seriousness of the issue at hand.

Rabbi Eric Yoffie, president of the Reform movement’s Union of American Hebrew Congregations (UAHC), said he agrees that "something needs to be done" about Hussein, but is not sure what exactly. The UAHC national leadership has not taken a formal position on the issue, and broach the subject when it meets in a few weeks, he said.

It is expected that many Jewish groups ultimately will support a U.S. attack on Iraq. Many analysts believe regime change in Iraq would reduce the security threat to Israel and remove a key Palestinian ally.

The Israeli government has expressed strong support for American efforts, which is likely to boost American Jewish support. But there is considerable concern that Iraq will hit Israel with biological or chemical weapons in retaliation for any attack by the United States, and Jewish groups may be hesitant to enthusiastically support military action that puts Israelis in immediate danger.

There also is concern among Jewish groups that Israel will be pressured to restrain itself and not respond to an attack from Iraq, as the United States demanded in the 1991 Gulf War. This time, however, Israel has been adamant that it will respond if attacked.

There also is a debate as to how vocal American Jewish groups should be if they support a war. Some contend that outspoken support could lead critics to describe a U.S. attack on Iraq as a fight on Israel’s behalf — as some critics did in 1991 — and that the Jewish community would be wiser to keep quiet during the debate.

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Hopes Dashed for Release of ‘Iran 8’

Another Jewish New Year has come and gone, and eight Iranian Jewish prisoners remain locked up in Iran on charges they spied for Israel.

Some observers had tracked rumors last week that the Islamic regime, with its membership in President Bush’s “axis of evil,” might be rethinking some of its polcies — including a possible pardon for a group of pious Jews believed to have been wrongly jailed in the first place.

For the third straight year, the lone Jewish member of the Iranian Parliament, Maurice Motamed, took to the floor of the legislative body in advance of Rosh Hashana and appealed for freedom for the “Iran 10” — now down to eight, as two were released after serving their sentences. Their release failed to materialize, though the authorities reportedly permitted their families to visit them in prison last Friday night to celebrate a Rosh Hashana service together.

“We’d started seeing some changes with respect to attitudes toward religious minorities in general, and we were hoping this would translate into some actual movement on the ground,” said Sam Kermanian, secretary-general of the Iranian-American Jewish Federation in Los Angeles, a community that boasts some 40,000 Iranian Jews. “As far as we’re concerned, we always felt these people did not belong in prison, that the charges against them were wrong. We would welcome the pardoning of these prisoners as an excellent first step forward in a more equitable treatment of religious minority groups,” he said.

That the holiday passed without the prisoners’ release did not surprise more pessimistic Iran-watchers, who have long maintained that the mullahs in charge are tone deaf to international concerns and never miss an opportunity to miss an opportunity at a goodwill gesture.

“I don’t think they’re smart enough to make these kinds of overtures,” said Pooya Dayanim, spokesman for the L.A.-based Council of Iranian-American Jewish Organizations. “If they understood good PR work, they wouldn’t have put these men in jail to begin with — and they wouldn’t have landed in the ‘axis of evil.'”

Thirteen Iranian Jewish men were first arrested in January and March 1999 and eventually charged with spying for the Mossad, Israel’s foreign intelligence service. Their real offense, said American Jewish observers, was that their increasingly fervent brand of Orthodox Judaism became a source of irritation to the authorities. Most of the men were religious leaders and came from the southern Iranian city of Shiraz, said to be a bastion of religious conservatism in general. The arrests were believed intended to send a signal to the rest of the community.

But the issue was soon sucked into the vortex of the political dynamic at the time — a power struggle between conservative forces, led by Supreme Leader Ayatollah Ali Khamenei, and the reformist faction, led by President Mohammad Khatami, observers said.

The Islamists seized upon the issue to whip up anti-Israel fervor, which is often seen as a galvanizing factor among all Iranians.

After a year-plus in solitary confinement, in May 2000 the Jews were brought before Iran’s Revolutionary Court and delivered “confessions” that they had indeed spied for Mossad.

However, media and foreign observers were barred from the courtroom, the prosecutor served as judge and Israel denied it had any contact with the men. Most foreign diplomats and human-rights activists assailed the process as a sham.

There was initial fear the men might be executed. Since the Islamic Revolution in 1979, 17 Jews had been condemned to death, primarily for being accused spies. But three of the 13 were acquitted, with the 10 others convicted on July 1, 2000, on various national-security charges. They were sentenced to terms ranging from four to 13 years. The men appealed, and under international criticism, Tehran reduced the jail time in 2000 to two to nine years.

In March 2001, merchant Ramin Nemati Zadeh, who had taught religious school, was released after serving out his term. And this past January, a second Jew, Hebrew teacher Faramarz Kashi, completed his term. For the remaining eight, their lone hope seems to be a pardon from Khamenei.

Much of the Iranian Jewish community — both here and there — has become resigned to the fate of the prisoners.

“Iran now has too much to face besides this issue,” Dayanim said. “Unless Iran feels that releasing the prisoners will win them some kind of international brownie points, they will remain in prison and serve out their sentences.”

Indeed Iran’s greatest problem may come from within.

With unemployment said to be 14 percent — particularly hard-hit are the young and educated — and stifling social restrictions, the significant strata of university students are reportedly ever more restive and disappointed with Khatami’s promises of reform.

But it’s not only U.S. Jews who are keeping up the pressure. Foreign dignitaries visiting Tehran continue a steady drumbeat of criticism of Iran’s treatment of its minorities, including the Jews behind bars.

In late July, for example, Javier Solana, the European Union’s foreign policy and security chief, listed the concerns that impede improved relations between Iran and Europe: disregard for human rights, a muzzled media, acquisition of weapons of mass destruction and meddling in the Middle East.

For its part, Washington has become increasingly concerned about Iran’s support for Palestinian terror groups. Iran has long been seen as aiding Islamic Jihad and Hamas in the Palestinian territories, and Hezbollah on Israel’s northern border. And in January, ties between Iran and the Palestinian Authority surfaced with the Israeli interception of the Karine-A, a ship carrying more than 50 tons of weapons from Iran to the Gaza Strip.

Bush’s now-famous “axis of evil” speech followed on Jan. 29.

Some in Washington suggest that Iran poses a much greater threat than Iraq.

If nothing else, Iran’s inclusion in the axis may be playing a part in Tehran’s recent rally to the defense of arch-nemesis Iraq as Iran seeks to form a united front against Israel and the United States. As relations began to thaw, however, some thorny issues of the past have resurfaced.

Iraq, for example, is home to an Iranian dissident group, while Iran shelters an anti-Iraq dissident group of its own. When regimes both asked for the other to boot out the opposition groups, it re-opened old wounds. The insults exchanged focused on which nation is truly in bed with the “Zionists.”

“You will not find a single episode in history when the Persians have cooperation with the Arabs against the Zionists,” said Iraqi Vice President Taha Yassin Ramadan.

To which Foreign Ministry Spokesman Hamid-Reza Asefi replied, in the words of the Iran’s Islamic Republic News Agency: “Baghdad had become the supporter of the Zionist regime by waging a destructive war on Iran, sowing the seeds of discord among Muslim nations.”

Meanwhile, Iran’s intense focus on Israel’s actions against the Palestinians — coupled with the widely publicized arrest of the Shirazi Jews on spying charges — has fomented a hostile climate for the Jews remaining in Iran, Dayanim said.

An estimated 22,000 to 25,000 Jews remain in Iran, down from a peak of 100,000 or so before the 1979 revolution.

Dayanim said he has heard of Jewish children being beaten and harassed at school, with their fathers accused of being “Zionists.” “We’re actively engaged in efforts to increase emigration,” Dayanim said. Those efforts, though, are hindered by the fact Jews face obstacles in trying to liquidate their assets, he said.

Those seeking to immigrate to the United States also face greater scrutiny from American immigration and FBI officials once they get to the immigrant way station in Vienna, given new post-Sept. 11 restrictions.

Kermanian, meanwhile, remains somewhat optimistic about the future of Iran’s Jews. “Jews have lived in Iran for 2,500 years, always lived there as loyal citizens, and they loved their country,” he said. “Even though there were ups and downs, Iranians and Jews found a way to live together in peace and cooperation. I have no doubt that with some good will, those days will return.”

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Eulogies:Martin William Siegel

Martin William Siegel, workers’ compensation attorney, died Aug. 18 at the age of 50.

Marty was a well-known and respected attorney specializing in workers’ compensation law throughout Southern California. He successfully supported and defended the rights of a legion of workers.

He will be remembered for his kindness, compassion, dedication, honesty and devotion to family and work.

He is survived by his wife, Geri; son, Eric; daughter, Emily; parents, Sidney and Mildred; and sisters, Marie (Stan) Hecht, Lisa (Jeff) Bluen and Dr. Maxine (Dr. Jack) Baum. — Sidney and Mildred Siegel

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Eulogies:Ira Yellin

Ira Yellin, recognized throughout Los Angeles as an urban pioneer for his tireless efforts to rebuild the city’s historic core, and most recently a principal of real estate development company Urban Partners LLC, died Sept. 10 at his home in Los Angeles from lung cancer. He was 62.

Yellin, the son of the founding rabbi of Temple Mishkon Tephilo in Venice, was a major philanthropist and activist on behalf of Jewish causes.

When few developers and entrepreneurs cared about downtown Los Angeles’ historic and urban landmarks, Yellin was the exception. From the restoration of the legendary Bradbury Building to the renovations of Union Station and the dilapidated Grand Central Market, Yellin’s vision of Los Angeles helped transform the city during his 27 years of urban development.

“Los Angeles owes him a debt of gratitude,” said California State Librarian Kevin Starr. Yellin is “unique for what he wants for the city, and what he has helped build.”

Although born in Springfield, Mass., Yellin developed a deep love for Los Angeles, when his father, the late Rabbi Isaac Yellin, moved his family here in 1948.

Yellin’s contributions to the city of Los Angeles included running the international design competition to pick the architect for the new Cathedral of Our Lady of the Angels, one of the city’s new cultural centers.

As a community leader, his commitment to the city of Los Angeles extended to include significant cultural, religious and philanthropic involvement. Yellin served on the board of trustees of the J. Paul Getty Trust; the board of trustees of the California Institute of the Arts; the board of governors and former president of the American Jewish Committee; the board of directors of the Los Angeles Police Foundation; the executive committee of the Central City Association; the board of advisers of the Rand Institute of Education and Training; and the board of advisers of the WATTS Health Charities. He was also active on behalf of Bet Tzedek Legal Services.

Yellin graduated with a degree in history from Princeton University in 1962 and received his law degree from Harvard Law School in 1965. After completing his master’s degree in law at UC Berkeley in 1966, he served in the U.S. Marine Corps Reserve, returning to Los Angeles in 1967 as a partner at the law firm of Rosenfeld, Meyer & Susman. In 1985, he started The Yellin Co., overseeing some of the best-known development projects in Los Angeles. From 1996 to 1999, he served as senior vice president of Catellus Development, focusing on complex, mixed-use projects with a community and urban significance.

Yellin founded Urban Partners with real estate professionals Paul Keller and Daniel Rosenfeld. Their current projects include the Del Mar Station in Pasadena, the Los Angeles County Hall of Justice, the California Department of Transportation District 7 Headquarters, the Herald-Examiner Building, the University Gateway, the Wilshire/Vermont Station and the Ambassador Hotel site.

In a 1994 interview with The Jewish Journal, Yellin summarized his motivation to help others and the city he loved as, “an obligation to give back and begin the endless process of healing the world. I believe that more than I believe in anything.”

He is survived by his wife, Adele; daughter, Jessica; son, Seth; mother, Dorothy; and brothers, Dr. Albert and Dr. Marc.

The Yellin family asks that donations be made in his name to the American Jewish Committee: Western Region, 9911 W. Pico Blvd., Suite 1602 Los Angeles, CA 90035, (310) 282-8080.

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The Circuit

They came for the kosher and stayed for the kibitz.

About 100 people attended the Democrats For Israel, Los Angeles (DFI-LA) Summer Garden Party on Aug. 25 at the Bel Air home of Frank Ponder, general manager of Bel Air Camera and DFI-LA board member. Dyed-in-the-wool Dems talked Israel, party politics and the Jewish singles scene, met with L.A. County Supervisor Zev Yaroslavsky and witnessed the group’s changing of the guard.

Paul Kujawsky, DFI-LA’s former vice president, moved up to become president, while Linda Bear stepped in as the group’s new vice president. Treasurer Reuben Zadeh and secretary Ken Silk will continue in their positions. Marilyn Landau, DFI-LA’s president for the last two years, will stay on as a board member.

DFI-LA, co-founded in 1989 by Rep. Brad Sherman (D-24th District), is the only Jewish Democratic organization in Los Angeles and works closely with the party’s state central committee. The group recently issued a paper to the state Democratic executive board on the need to support Israel.

"There’s so much bad information that gets picked up by the media regarding Israel," DFI-LA Chair Howard Welinsky said. "I think the Jewish community needs to remember that there’s always an opportunity to educate about the Middle East." — Adam Wills, Associate Editor

Comedian/comic actor Larry Miller ("The Princess Diaries," "The Nutty Professor") recently returned from a trip to Israel, visiting children, victims of terror and professionals in Israel. Miller, a parlor-meeting fixture, has been an active participant in The Jewish Federation’s Jews in Crisis Campaign, which has raised $17 million in support of victims of terror, provided trauma care and created summer activities in a safe and secure setting for children in Israel.

Sarit Finkelstein-Boim was elected the president of B’nai B’rith International’s Shalom Unit on July 24. The installation ball is scheduled for Nov. 16 at Sinai Temple. For reservations, call (310) 471-8545.

Women’s International Zionist Organization (WIZO) will hold its Los Angeles Annual Gala on Nov. 10 at the Four Seasons in West Hollywood. Dan Raviv, the Washington-based CBS News correspondent who this year released the book "Comics Wars," his Wall Street tell-all of the fall and resurrection of Marvel Entertainment, will be the keynote speaker at the banquet. This year’s honorary chairpersons will be Drs. Anna and Max Webb. The evening will honor WIZO member Annie Gross as its 2002 Woman of the Year.

Leading American shoe company Florsheim, which is based in Chicago, opened its first Israeli outlet in Jerusalem at the Center One shopping mall on 43 Yirmiyahu St.

"Especially during these difficult days," said Florsheim Jerusalem owner Tzvi Berg, "I am proud of Florsheim for the commitment they have made and the confidence they have shown in the Israeli market."

Northridge resident Meirav Fishman Cafri, a West Valley Hebrew Academy student, is the national Jewish National Fund (JNF) Blue Box Contest winner. The contest, which engaged more than 350 kids to create artwork featuring JNF’s Blue Box, was held in the spirit of the 100th anniversary of JNF.

The National Jewish Medical and Research Center honored local attorney Jeffrey Kapor, a shareholder at Buchalter, Nemer, Fields & Younger.

The commitment to connect college students with Jewish life was the recurring theme at the Los Angeles Hillel Council’s (LAHC) annual Back to Campus Celebration on Aug. 18 at the Fairmont Miramar Hotel in Santa Monica, where Michael Diamond — LAHC immediate past president who heads the litigation department at the Los Angeles office of Milbank, Tweed, Hadley and McCloy — received the Rabbi Richard N. Levy Award, and UC students David Cygielman (UCSB) and Panteha Haverim (UCLA) each received a Distinguished Student Award.

Event co-chair Jonathan Anschell made the opening remarks, while actress Mayim Bialik (of "Blossom" fame) served as emcee. Event co-chair Kenneth Ostrow presented Diamond with his award, while Diamond’s daughter, Beth Diamond, read a poetic tribute she had written.

State Sen. Richard Alarcón (D-Dist. 20) attended the ribbon-cutting ceremony at the Sept. 9 grand opening of the Temple Ramat Zion kindergarten in Northridge. He presented the temple with a congratulatory certificate and cut the ribbon on the new classroom. On Jan. 1, the senator’s district will expand to include Northridge, and he is reaching out to the community in every way possible.

"We are pleased that Sen. Alarcón is extending his hand to the Jewish Community in Northridge," said Betty Gorelick, director of Early Childhood Education. "We are very excited about our new kindergarten, and are thankful for everyone’s efforts in making this happen."

Temple Ramat Zion has been serving the Jewish Community in the San Fernando, Santa Clarita and Simi valleys for 40 years.

The Friars Club threw a party for the debut of Richard Crystal’s new jazz album, "Nearer."

On hand to introduce his brother was Billy Crystal, proctor of the New York Friars Club. Among the others in attendance: Billy Crystal’s "Mr. Saturday Night" co-star David Paymer.

Richard "Rip" Crystal began his career playing the lead roles in numerous musicals, including "The Fantasticks," "Finian’s Rainbow" and "Bye Bye Birdie." He eventually moved behind the camera and has had a successful career as a writer and producer. Most recently, he conceived and produced the feature film, "Murder By Numbers," starring Sandra Bullock.

The recently discovered photographs of artistic collaborators Benjamin Strauss and Homer Peyton are the subject of "Art and Artifice," an exhibit that runs from Sept. 30-Dec. 20 at the Bell Family Gallery at The Jewish Federation of Greater Los Angeles. Strauss and Peyton perfected a style of portraiture, combining photography with pencil/crayon enhancement that captured the flavor and the feel of their era, the Roaring ’20s. Gallery hours are by appointment only. For information, call Judy Fischer at (323) 761-8352.

Oralingua School for the Hearing Impaired will honor actor Elliott Gould ("M*A*S*H*," "Friends") at its 14th Annual Gala Dinner Dance and Auction on Nov. 9 at the Los Angeles Airport Marriott Hotel. Proceeds will support the nonprofit Oralingua’s auditory/oral deaf education program, which focuses on students’ capabilities rather than their disabilities.

For information on this event, contact Elizabeth Haig at (310) 265-7200, or visit www.oralingua.org.

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