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April 24, 2024

For This Yale Alumnus, My Alma Mater Is Forever Tarnished

For my family who arrived in America as refugees from Iran, nothing was more important than academic achievement.  

You can imagine how much pride my parents felt when they watched my Yale graduation in a torrential downpour in 2003. 

It wasn’t easy. I am not talking about getting into the Ivy League institution or keeping up with the rigorous academic demands once there.     

Even when I first stepped foot on the Yale campus in 1999, it was not easy being a proud Jew.  During my time at Yale, the world faced the tumult of Bush v. Gore, 9/11, the Second Intifada, and the Iraq War. 

Back then, anti-Americanism and antisemitism were on the rise at Yale and at other college campuses.  But these fringe hate-filled ideologies lurked in dark shadows.  Arab student groups held early pro-BDS lectures and events to spread lies about Israeli “apartheid.”  Anti-Iraq war rallies were co-opted by Palestinian speakers.  Revisionist Yale Middle East professors and fellows (who invariably were funded by foreign sources) pawned off misinformation as historical facts. I even watched hate speech receive a standing ovation when poet Amiri Baraka visited Yale’s campus after 9/11 to share his poem “Somebody Blew Up America” (you guessed it, it was the Jews). 

But despite all this, the trade-off was worth it.  All the hard work and sacrifices to earn admission to Yale were worth the (then subtle) anti-Americanism and antisemitism that a Jewish student would face.  It was worth it because intellectual integrity still existed back then.  Students read books, valued facts, and engaged in civil discourse.  There were sober adults in academia, university leadership, government and media to guide these young impressionable minds. 

That is no longer the case.

What we are seeing at Yale and other so-called “elite” or Ivy League universities has brought shame to American society. Not unlike the early days of the Nazi takeover of Europe, Jews have been assaulted, threatened, dehumanized, targeted physically, and even barred from moving freely.  

Anti-Israel protests at Yale became violent this past weekend because administrators let it happen. Hundreds of protesters flooded the main campus, pitched dozens of tents, blocked Yale’s main dining hall, chanted for the annihilation of Israel and denounced America.  A Jewish student Sahar Tartak was jabbed in the eye by pro-Hamas protesters and hospitalized.  On Friday night, the mob cheered in English and Arabic as students ripped down the American flag in front of a memorial for fallen soldiers and tried to burn it.  Meanwhile, hundreds of protesters recited in unison the latest Hamas and jihadist chants, demanding the elimination of Israel from the earth and to “globalize” the jihadist 10/7 intifada.  What had been relegated to the dark fringes is now the mainstream cause célèbre.  Absent from those chants is any recognition of the evil of Hamas terrorists or the humanity of Israel’s residents.

What had been relegated to the dark fringes is now the mainstream cause célèbre.  Absent from those chants is any recognition of the evil of Hamas terrorists or the humanity of Israel’s residents.

Like progressive sheep being led to their own slaughter by anti-progressive butchers, the young people we expect to lead America one day are being radicalized to hate our own country.  Meanwhile, the only meaningful experience they are receiving at Yale is in the practice of terrorizing Jewish students in Sterling Library and committing acts of anarchy on Beinecke Plaza.  That dynamic must change now.

Starting today, every Yale alumnus and donor that truly values our school’s motto of “light and truth” should demand that Yale hold accountable any student that violates the law or university regulations, including, where appropriate in the case of violence, arrests and expulsions.  Expelling a few of the most violent radical extremists would set a powerful example for the rest of the protesters. They are adults and must be held accountable if they break the law.  Yale should also discipline and terminate, where appropriate, faculty members who have praised terrorism and advocated for the use of violence. Yale should suspend the receipt of all problematic foreign funding, especially from Qatar.  Lawsuits should be prosecuted to the full extent of Title VI of the Civil Rights Act, and even stronger legislation should be enacted federally. Finally, Yale should recommit itself, in both word and deed, to keeping its Jewish students safe from the resurgence of the inferno that began with book burning on college campuses and ended with Jew burning in crematoria.


Sam Yebri, a 2003 alumnus of Yale University, is a civic and Jewish community leader in Los Angeles.

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Passover Goodies

Are you bored of matzah yet? These treats are great for Passover or anytime … and are matzah and flour-free!

Alon Shaya’s Chocolate Candied Hazelnuts are chocolaty, crisp and naturally grain-free.

“It’s perfect for Passover, but it’s a treat that’s easily enjoyed on its own, on top of ice cream or even given as a gift all year round,” Shaya, chef/partner of Pomegranate Hospitality and author of “Shaya: An Odyssey of Food, My Journey Back to Israel,” told the Journal. “You do need a candy thermometer to help you get the candy coating right, but the whole process, from start to finish, is pretty seamless.”

He added, “Feel free to double the recipe.”

Chocolate Candied Hazelnuts

This phenomenal start to a Pesach morning is a kicked-up version of the classic. It can be served with the Date-Berry Syrup recipe provided below or any jam of your liking, plain maple syrup, cinnamon sugar or just as is. It requires more work than the conventional version, but it’s well worth it!

Alon Shaya’s chocolate covered hazelnuts can be enjoyed on their own or as a topping on other desserts, like his semifreddo. Photo by Rush Jagoe.

Yield: 1 ½ cups

1 ½ cups hazelnuts, toasted

1 cup sugar

¼ cup water

½ cup cocoa powder

Rub the skins off the hazelnuts, removing as much as you can but not obsessing over it. Cut a large sheet of parchment or foil, about 16 inches long, and set it aside.

Clip a candy thermometer to the side of a small saucepan. Combine the sugar and water inside and gently stir just to combine, making sure you’re not letting the sugar climb up the sides of the pan since it can burn. Without stirring it at all, cook over medium heat until it reaches 250°F.

Stir in the cocoa powder and let the mixture reach 275°F; it will look like molten lava. Fold in the nuts and keep stirring vigorously, allowing the mixture to reduce until, almost like magic, it becomes a dry, crumbly mix with cocoa clinging to the nuts like a candy shell. It should register around 300°F on your thermometer.

Immediately remove the pan from the heat and spread the nuts in a single layer over the parchment. Using a clean dish towel or paper towel to protect your hands from the heat, gently break apart any large clumps and allow the nuts to cool completely. These, along with the little chocolate crumbs, will stay crisp for about a week in an airtight container.

Sarah Zulauf’s Energy Bites with chocolate ganache 

Sarah Zulauf hears from her daughter — a nurse — daughter and busy professional friends that just one or two of Zulauf’s energy bites power them through the day beautifully. 

“That’s why I love them for Pesach,” Zulauf, the founder of Sarah’s Organic Gourmet, told the Journal. “It is a very labor-intensive holiday, and liberating ourselves out of mitzrayim takes some real energy (bites).” 

Zulauf’s delicious and healthy treats are available at Bibi’s Bakery and Cafe on W. Pico Blvd. in Los Angeles. 

“To the ones I sell at Bibi’s, I also add adaptogens, Lion’s Mane, Cordeceps and Rishi for added energy, focus and immune support,” she said.

10 pitted dates

1 Tbsp cocoa powder 

1/3 cup hazelnuts, walnuts, almonds, pumpkin seeds and/or pecans

~ ¼ cup maple syrup (eyeball this for desired consistency)

Pinch of salt

12 oz chocolate chips

1 ½ Tbsp avocado oil

1 tsp vanilla extract 

For garnish: crushed dehydrated strawberry, coconut shreds, mini chocolate chips, Blue Magic spirulina, orange zest, sesame seeds and/or matcha, the list is endless. 

Place dates in a small bowl. Cover with hot water and add cocoa powder. Soak for 5 to 10 minutes.

Meanwhile, pulse nuts and seeds in a food processor until coarsely chopped. Add the dates and the soaking water with cocoa to the food processor. Add maple syrup and salt. Process until the nuts are finely chopped. Refrigerate for 15 minutes.

Combine chocolate chips, avocado oil and vanilla extract in a microwave-safe bowl. Cook in the microwave in 45 second intervals three times at medium (50%) power.  After each 45-second cook, take out the bowl and mix, until it’s completely melted. 

Roll the mixture into balls. 

Dip or pour ganache over each ball and garnish.

Peanut Butter Love: The Best Flourless Blondie *(Kitniyot, for Sephardim)

Yield: 12 squares

Blondies (photo by Dawn Lerman)

For another healthy option, Dawn Lerman’s flourless blondies are gluten-free and refined sugar-free. 

“They taste chocolatey and moist from the melted chips in the center,” Lerman, a nutrition expert and author of “My Fat Dad: A Memoir of Food, Love and Family, With Recipes,” told the Journal.

“I made these one Passover for my ad man dad, who was working on the Skippy peanut butter diet, while working on the campaign,” she said. “He exclaimed that they taste like “The real thing.’ They’ve been a staple in my house ever since.” 

16 ounces natural, no sugar added peanut butter (Tip: mix well in the jar over the mixing bowl)

1⁄2 cup pure maple syrup

1⁄2 cup milk or non-dairy milk of choice

1 ripe banana, mashed

2 eggs, beaten

1 teaspoon vanilla extract

1⁄2 teaspoon salt

1 teaspoon baking soda

3⁄4 cup dark or semisweet chocolate chips

Butter or oil for greasing the pan

 

Preheat the oven to 325°F. 

In a bowl, mix the peanut butter, maple syrup, milk and mashed banana. Combine well. Then mix in the beaten eggs, vanilla extract, salt and baking soda. Blend until smooth. 

Stir in half of the chocolate chips. Pour the batter into a well-greased 8-inch square Pyrex dish. Sprinkle the remaining chips on top.

Bake for 55 minutes, checking after 15 minutes to avoid browning edges. If the top looks too brown, cover with foil and bake for the remaining 40 minutes. 

Cool and enjoy!

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Graduation Speeches are Going to Get Ugly, and Jews Need to Be Prepared

Last week, a normally calm colleague who serves as a faculty member at USC, my graduate school alma mater, sent me a cryptic text message about the current mood on campus. “All hell has broken loose,” she wrote. 

In recent years, USC has been at the center of a massive controversy, from 2019’s “Operation Varsity Blues” scandal involving parents who bribed administrators and coaches to secure admission for their children, to the over 700 women who were sexually abused by former campus gynecologist George Tyndall (in 2021, USC agreed to pay the victims a $852 million settlement). 

Thankfully, Trojans were seldom known for over-the-top anti-Israel activity, especially in comparison with neighboring universities UCLA and UC Irvine, where rabidly antisemitic students and faculty have garnered international attention. The political climate of USC was often apathetic at best. But now, the six-month war between Israel and Hamas has spilled over into Trojan territory, and in some ways, all hell has actually broken loose.  

The six-month war between Israel and Hamas has spilled over into Trojan territory, and in some ways, all hell has actually broken loose.

In a nutshell, the university canceled a commencement address by valedictorian Asna Tabassum, a first-generation American Muslim student of south Asian descent, after discovering that a link on her Instagram bio is filled with anti-Israel tropes, including one that states, “One Palestinian state would mean complete Palestinian liberation, and the complete abolishment of the state of Israel. This is the only way for justice.” 

On April 10, We Are Tov, a student and alumni organization that combats antisemitism, posted screenshots of the page and wrote, “Being selected valedictorian is an honor, and we are positive she is academically qualified for the position, but it’s unacceptable that she promotes antisemitic views. What will she say at the podium?”

So far, this incident could have occurred at any campus (and it has occurred at various graduation speeches filled with anti-Israel rhetoric throughout the past few years). But then, everything changed. In an April 15 campus-wide email, USC Provost and Senior Vice President for Academic Affairs Andrew Guzman not only announced that Tabassum will not speak, but also wrote, “This decision has nothing to do with freedom of speech. There is no free-speech entitlement to speak at a commencement. The issue here is how best to maintain campus security and safety, period.” To be clear, Tabassum will remain valedictorian, but will not speak at commencement. And since the announcement, USC has canceled all commencement speakers for this year.

According to USC, the school had received emails warning of plans to disrupt the program. Suddenly, Tabassum’s revoked speaking slot was presented as a matter of security, rather than as a morally appropriate consequence to shocking antisemitism and hate. Tabassum and her advocates, including sympathetic faculty and students, as well as the Council on American-Islamic Relations (CAIR), are dismayed and claim that the university’s decision has nothing to do with safety concerns, but with shutting down her voice. 

In a statement published by CAIR, Tabassum wrote, “As your class Valedictorian, I implore my USC classmates to think outside the box — to work towards a world where cries for equality and human dignity are not manipulated to be expressions of hatred. I challenge us to respond to ideological discomfort with dialogue and learning, not bigotry and censorship. And I urge us to see past our deepest fears and recognize the need to support justice for all people, including the Palestinian people.”

There it is, in that last sentence. There’s a hint of what was to come had Tabassum been allowed to deliver her commencement remarks. The Palestinians deserve justice and Israelis are not even mentioned. And that word, “justice,” is viscerally triggering to Jews worldwide precisely due to wording such as the link on Tabassum’s Instagram bio, which claims that justice will only arrive in the form of abolishing Israel. 

The irony is truly saddening. A valedictorian who condemns hate may very well hate Israel. And at campuses nationwide, Jewish students have pleaded with Muslim students to, in Tabassum’s words, “respond to ideological discomfort with dialogue and learning.” Have anti-Israel students attempted to expose themselves to “ideological discomfort” by reaching out to their pro-Israel peers? 

The answer is a resounding “no.” I know this because I have spoken to numerous Jewish student leaders, as well as faculty advisors and staff of organizations who informed me that after Oct. 7, many Jewish students invited their Muslim peers to events promoting dialogue (not divisive debate, but good, old-fashioned breaking bread), and were bluntly rejected. Do the fanatic students who have more or less caused mob rule at Columbia University seem particularly interested in “ideological discomfort” through listening to the concerns of their Jewish peers?

In case readers believe the canceled speech is a victory for Jewish and pro-Israel students and faculty, unfortunately, Jews at USC are now targets of hate and are being blamed for shutting down Tabassum’s speech in ways that are being depicted as close-minded and practically medieval. Again, it is deeply ironic, given how anti-Israel students worldwide not only shut down pro-Israel speakers, but have also left Jewish students feeling physically unsafe on campus.

“Sadly, our students are being painted by the university’s actions and the world press in a way that is completely unfair and untrue,” Rabbi Dov Wagner of Chabad@USC told me. In an open letter to USC administration, Wagner, who, with his wife, Runya, founded Chabad@USC 24 years ago, praised administrators as longtime “friends and allies,” but also wrote, “My students are hurt and feel like they have been thrown under the bus — and I feel the same way.”

Wagner rightly observed that the April 15 statement about revoking Tabassum’s speech made no mention of the antisemitic nature of her social media posts. “I have nothing against the valedictorian as a person, and I am impressed by her academic achievements,” he wrote. “But being chosen as valedictorian is an honor that expresses the university’s pride in the chosen student as exemplary for the entire student body. This selection has caused great distress to students in our Jewish community and beyond.”

The effects of this chaos are rampant. Last week on campus, hundreds protested at USC, signs called for “From the river to the sea …” and maps depicted a region without Israel in it. “This antisemitic rhetoric was fanned by the university’s choice of valedictorian, and further refusal to condemn hate speech openly and clearly,” Wagner wrote in a second email to the USC@Chabad listserv. “It is why I wrote what I did despite the costs I know it will have, and despite the way — inevitably — my family, my community, and I are now being portrayed in so many places.”

In op-eds and news reports worldwide, Jewish and pro-Israel students at USC are being represented as aggressive censors. An April 17 op-ed in The New York Times was titled, “When a Mob Gets to Veto a Valedictorian’s Speech.” But one should ask whether the word “mob” has ever applied to Jewish responses to hate in America. When was the last time we heard the words “Jewish mob” in this country? That word certainly has applied to shockingly anti-American and anti-Israel street and campus protests after Oct. 7. 

The op-ed asserted that “canceling a speech because of future safety concerns is a more egregious form of censorship than the classic ‘heckler’s veto,’ when protesters silence speakers by disrupting their speeches. USC’s decision to cancel Tabassum’s speech was a form of anticipatory heckler’s veto. USC canceled the speech before the heckling could even start.”

That’s an interesting take. Was the Jewish community at USC expected to sit through Tabassum’s remarks and simply hope for the best? Would USC’s Muslim community have been expected to sit through an address by a student who had publicly supported wiping the Palestinians off the map?

Was the Jewish community at USC expected to sit through Tabassum’s remarks and simply hope for the best? Would USC’s Muslim community have been expected to sit through an address by a student who had publicly supported wiping the Palestinians off the map?

To be fair, the writer also stated, “I disagree strongly with condemnations of Zionism as racist, and I think it would be a serious mistake if Tabassum chose to commandeer her commencement platform to express such views.”

For its part, USC’s Jewish community is presently reeling from pain and a sense of gaslighting. As Rabbi Wagner wrote in an April 18 email, “Our students are not the ones who created this mess and these tensions on campus, and they should not be the ones paying the price to absolve those who did from taking responsibility and doing what they can to correct it.”

Being represented as intolerant censors is dangerous for Jews, because it implies that rather than being maligned by a student and her supporters who actively call for an end to the world’s only Jewish state, Jews are the ones who pose an apparent threat.

There’s a lot to unpack here, and it all begins with the selection of Tabassum as valedictorian. If my alma mater had done its due diligence, it would have been very easy to find an antisemitic link calling to wipe out Israel on her Instagram bio. In fact, any 11-year-old with a smartphone could have made that discovery in under five minutes. 

There’s also the mistake of claiming this is, in fact, a security issue, rather than having the clarity to admit that a student who supports the destruction of Israel is not USC valedictorian material. It should be noted that a student who supported wiping out Palestinians would also not deserve a speaking slot at commencement, and any off-campus organizations that supported that student would reveal their hateful bigotry. 

Ultimately, this boils down to two issues: Why was Tabassum selected as valedictorian despite her intolerant social media activity, and what would she have said at that lectern if no one had uncovered her feelings and attitudes toward Israel beforehand and informed the university? 

The second question is more difficult to answer than the first, but the fact that so many Jewish Trojans were triggered with enough worry to flood USC with pleas to cancel her speech speaks volumes about the painfully hostile environment that Jewish and pro-Israel students face on campus. 

Simply put, USC’s Jewish community wasn’t sure what Tabassum would have said, but the fact that she joined the chorus of voices calling for “justice” through Israel’s elimination was enough to elicit visceral fear and pain. To all the activists and journalists who are demanding that Tabassum be allowed to deliver her remarks, isn’t that Jewish fear and pain also worth something?

As an Iranian American Jew, I believe that had a Jewish student been selected valedictorian, he or she would not have made any reference to Israel or Gaza. I also believe that if the valedictorian had been Iranian, there would have been no mention of Iran in a commencement address. 

This is not because Jewish students have abandoned Israel or that Iranian students do not care about Iran and the suffering of millions of Iranians at the hands of the regime; it is, I believe, because these students would know that politics does not have a place at a graduation podium.

Today, most people disagree on Israel, and most average Americans do not give a fig about Iran. Jewish or Iranian valedictorians know that. The mistake on the part of anti-Israel commencement speakers worldwide is to falsely believe that they can tear down Israel in their speeches with impunity because everyone will agree with them. 

Student commencement speeches are supposed to create cohesion by uniting thousands of graduates across various majors, passions and dreams. Remarks that instead create division are inarguably short-sighted and self-serving. 

Had I been valedictorian, my own family, who escaped the brutality of post-revolutionary Iran, would have been mortified if I had hurled accusations against the country, even if its regime certainly deserved it. This is due to the fact that my family would have understood that in being selected valedictorian, I would be tasked with representing something much bigger than myself. To have stood and shouted anti-Iran messages would have meant I had utterly failed as a voice of unity, cohesion and inspiration to my fellow peers. 

Commencement is not a time to solve the painful realities of the Middle East, especially at USC, where my own graduation reception in 2010 included black-tie-clad servers and free-flowing champagne. 

As a former child refugee, I understand that immigrant families in particular are indescribably proud when their children are selected as valedictorians. But I am also shocked over the spectacular lack of self-reflection on behalf of many academically brilliant anti-Israel students nationwide in perhaps not being able to contemplate two questions: Should I accept certain consequences for supporting an end to a country (Israel and its 10 million people)? And would my words hurt my Jewish peers who were looking forward to this graduation ceremony as much as I was, and who have worked as hard as I have?  

In her statement, Tabassum wrote, “I am not surprised by those who attempt to propagate hatred. I am surprised that my own university — my home for four years — has abandoned me.” Again, some self-reflection would be wonderful. Can pro-Palestinian students be completely exonerated from having spread hate?

In democracies, it is so much easier to allege that voices are being shut down and silenced, and much harder to actually engage in the soul-searching work of wondering why our words may be inappropriate at best, and deeply bigoted at worst. 

Jewish students and their families worldwide must be prepared for what is to come at commencement not only this year, but for years to come. And they should also be prepared to be portrayed as insecure, medieval censors if their pleas to campuses to remove antisemitic speakers actually work. Personally, I find that one of the best antidotes to Israel hatred is Jewish pride.

During my own undergraduate commencement ceremony, I spelled “Baruch Hashem” with small star stickers on top of my mortarboard. Back then, I was not an observant Jew, but as an Iranian refugee and one of the first female college graduates in my family, I understood the miracles that had brought me to that moment, and I felt compelled to thank G-d for the utter privilege of reaching that momentous day as an American.

As for graduates who cannot even stomach the existence of a Jewish state, there will be plenty more opportunities for rage and for shutting down speech in particular. The Democratic National Convention in Chicago is only four months away, and major disruptions by fanaticized young leftists are already in the works. Perhaps many from the Class of 2024 will join these disruptions. If that happens, I anticipate the kind of self-righteous behavior that will give new meaning to the words, “pomp and circumstance.”


Tabby Refael is an award-winning writer, speaker and weekly columnist for The Jewish Journal of Greater Los Angeles. Follow her on X and Instagram @TabbyRefael

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