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October 9, 2020

The Bagel Report

Post-Emmys Bagels, You Like?

We took a break from post-Rosh Hashanah doom-scrolling to talk Emmys: Schitt’s Creek overflowed with statues, Succession succeeded and Watchmen, um, won. Erin and Esther talk about some of the big issues – are creative people prophets? –  get stoked for the month of Sacha Baron Cohen-tober, and marvel at how compelling storytelling can elevate cultural conversation into activism. Plus, reimagining Netflix’s Calm meditations show, which features  celebrity voices, from a Jewish perspective. Because that’s what we do.

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Trump to Iran: Don’t ‘F— Around’ With U.S.

President Donald Trump has issued his latest threat to Iran.

During an Oct. 9 interview with The Rush Limbaugh Show, Trump said, “Iran knows that and they’ve been put on notice: If you f— around with us, if you do something bad to us, we are going to do things to you that have never been done before.”

According to Politico, the “f—” was bleeped out on radio syndicates due to the radio broadcast delay, but the uncensored footage was unearthed and has since gone viral on social media.

Trump also said during the interview that he would forge a new nuclear deal with Iran if he wins re-election in November. The Trump administration exited from the Iran nuclear deal in 2018 and has since implemented sanctions on the Iranian government, including new sanctions on Oct. 8 against 18 Iranian banks. Treasury Secretary Steve Mnuchin said at the time that the administration will continue sanctioning Iran until it “stops its support of terrorist activities and ends its nuclear programs.”

“You don’t see the terror the way you used to see the terror,” Trump said in the radio interview. “And they know if they do anything against us, they’ll pay a thousand-fold.”

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Have All Your Planes Landed?

I heard a wonderful metaphor this week that helped me better understand the things that can paralyze our lives.

We spend our days—the metaphor says—as air traffic controllers landing planes. These planes represent our daily to-do lists. Some planes are more difficult to land than others, but we’re confident we can land them all.

There are other planes, however, that are always circling and never seem to land. Some have been circling for years, others for a few days. Because our whole purpose is to land planes, any plane that doesn’t land becomes a source of anxiety. We’re always aware that those “circling planes” are on our radar screens, even when we look away to focus on the “easy” ones.

This metaphor connects perfectly to this time of year, when we have an opportunity to renew ourselves and start a new slate. Simchat Torah, which begins Saturday night, is our annual transition moment when we read the last words of the Torah as well as the first, as we begin a new cycle.

This is the “last call” of the Holiday season to look for the planes that haven’t landed and are weighing on us. Is there someone we need to forgive? Is there a dark memory we need to shed? Is there an unresolved issue we need to address? Is there a word of kindness we need to offer?

The more of those circling planes we can land, the better we will start the new year, the healthier our emotional lives will be.

The turmoil of 2020 has already burdened us with circling planes we cannot control. As we begin a new Jewish calendar, may we all have the courage and wisdom to land the planes we can control.

Chag sameach and Shabbat shalom.

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Mark Ruffalo Accuses Israel and America of ‘Apartheid’

Actor Mark Ruffalo accused both the United States and Israel of apartheid in an October 8 appearance on “The Mehdi Hasan Show” on NBC’s Peacock television streaming service.

Host Mehdi Hasan told Ruffalo that he’s one of the few “A-list Hollywood actors that touch Palestinian rights the way that [he does].” Ruffalo responded, “For whatever reason, I have a love of justice, it really mean something to me. Anywhere there’s injustice in the world, I think as an artist, we have a responsibility to speak up about it.

“My connection to Palestine came through Palestinians and hearing their stories and then watching this asymmetrical warfare being acted upon… and who pays the price? The citizenry,” Ruffalo continued, “and there’s no reason why an ally of American should not be held to same the standard as we would any other nation in the world.”

Ruffalo added that he was called an anti-Semite for speaking out against the Israeli government, which he said “was really tough to hear, and the fact that so many people will take it to that extreme when you’re talking about that kind of inequality, that kind of oppression, that kind of apartheid, really, and here we are America and we’re looking at the very same thing.”

He went onto call American an apartheid nation, arguing that it’s “kind of an apartheid system, there’s the BIPOC [Black, Indigenous, and People of Color] America and there’s the white America. And that’s an injustice.”

Ari Ingel, director of Creative Community for Peace, a nonprofit that’s against cultural boycotts of Israel, denounced Ruffalo’s comments in a statement to the Journal.

“Mark is a long time anti-Israel activist whose comments are not grounded in reality,” Ingel said. “Instead of helping bring about peace between Israelis and Palestinians, these one-sided condemnations, grounded in fallacies, simply work to further division, mistrust, and hostility. As Lady Gaga said after actually visiting Israel, ‘the world view of Israel is just not reality.’”

He added that it “is equally disturbing is that NBC and Viacom have given longtime Al-Jazeera TV host and BDS [Boycott, Divestment, and Sanctions] supporter, Mehdi Hasan, a nightly prime-time show on their new Peacock platform. It has taken him less than a week on the network to use this platform to bash Israel. It’s unacceptable.”

Pro-Israel Twitter accounts also took umbrage to Ruffalo’s remarks.

“Problem with this @MarkRuffalo is that you ONLY speak up against Israel,” Sussex Friends of Israel tweeted. “All the injustices in the world and your chosen specialist subject is the one where there are no injustices. Smells kind of antisemitic wouldn’t you say?”

Middle East analyst Yoni Michanie acknowledged that although it is great that Ruffalo met with Palestinians, he should meet with Israelis as well.

“Meet with Israelis that had their entire families ethnically cleansed from Arab countries and who have lost loved ones to terrorism,” Michanie tweeted. “Meet with us, hear us.”

 

On the other hand, former Jewish Voice for Peace Executive Director Rebecca Vilkomerson tweeted praise of Ruffalo.

“Thank you @MarkRuffalo for your really beautiful and brave words,” she wrote. “Please know that your willingness to endure painful attacks helps so many more of us to speak out strongly, and your understanding rooted in your convos with Palestinians is a model for us all!”

 

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Court Upholds Previous Ruling That Twin Son of Gay, Jewish, Married Couple Born Abroad Is U.S. Citizen from Birth

A panel of the U.S. Court of Appeals for the Ninth Circuit unanimously upheld a lower court ruling on Oct. 9, recognizing the citizenship from birth of Ethan Dvash-Banks, a twin boy born abroad by surrogacy to Andrew and Elad Dvash-Banks, a married gay couple.

The Dvash-Bankses are Jewish and live in Los Angeles. Israeli-born Elad works at IKAR. Both courts found that the State Department had wrongly interpreted the Immigration and Nationality Act (INA). Further, the Ninth Circuit noted that the State Department’s interpretation of the INA was foreclosed by settled circuit case law, which reiterated that the section of the law applying to married couples, “does not require a biological relationship between a child and the citizen parent through whom citizenship is claimed.”

“After years of the federal government denying Andrew and Elad’s rights as a married couple, the Ninth Circuit has unequivocally ruled in the family’s favor,” Aaron C. Morris, executive director of Immigration Equality and co-counsel for the family said in a statement. “No longer will these parents have to worry that their twin sons will be treated as if they were born out of wedlock simply because they have two fathers. This decision demonstrates yet again that it is far past time for the State Department to change its discriminatory policy.”

“We are overjoyed and gratified by today’s decision that our twin sons should be treated the same as the children of all other marriages, and we hope this decision will help other LGBTQ families secure the equal rights they deserve,” the Dvash-Bankses said in a statement.

Elad told the Journal in a phone interview shortly after the verdict, “We never wanted to be in this situation. We never felt like we wanted to put our life and our family on display but we were forced to do that because of the State Department’s decision to not grant Ethan citizenship at birth and a passport when was asked for it.”

The decision is the latest in a series of victories for LGBTQ families represented by Immigration Equality. Elad referenced those decisions, noting of the Ninth Circuit’s decision. “We were the first same-sex family case around this issue but there were two other cases that had been determined before by the Ninth Circuit so there was a precedent. There’s no biological requirement needed to have U.S. citizenship at birth as long as your parents are married and the child is born within the marriage.”

He added that he hoped the decision helps other same sex couples that might have to go through the same process in the future.

 

“We are overjoyed and gratified by today’s decision that our twin sons should be treated the same as the children of all other marriages, and we hope this decision will help other LGBTQ families secure the equal rights they deserve.” — Andrew and Elad Dvash-BankS

As the Journal previously reported, the Dvash-Bankses had twin sons during their marriage through surrogacy in Canada. Andrew is a U.S. citizen and Elad is an Israeli citizen. One of the twins was conceived from Andrew’s genetic material, and the other from Elad’s. Andrew and Elad subsequently sought recognition of the twins’ U.S. citizenship.

The State Department, applying an internal policy, treated their children as though they were born out of wedlock. The State Department recognized Aiden as a U.S. citizen, but not Ethan because he was not biologically related to his U.S.-citizen father. With Immigration Equality’s assistance, the family filed a lawsuit in January 2018 and Ethan was issued a U.S. passport in 2019 after a federal court ruled in his favor, a decision the State Department appealed.

Ethan and Aidan are now 4 years old, having just celebrated their birthdays on Sept. 16. Elad noted that they were barely 2 when this entire process began, and while they are still not aware of their notoriety, the Dvash-Bankses have made sure to document everything to show the boys when they are older, including a gmail address for each of them that they use as a sort of time capsule. “When they get to their b’nei mitzvah I’ll give them the passwords so they can see everything,” Elad said.

He added, “We are very proud of what we’re doing and we want to teach our kids to fight for what’s right — for justice and equality — and I feel that this is a part of it. When they’re old enough to understand what we were fighting for for Ethan and for our family, [they’ll be able to see] this was the right thing to do.”

It’s also important, he said, that the twins know that they are not “the same as other families; we have to go through hoops and other challenges that others don’t have to but we do it with our heads high and with determination and the belief that justice will eventually prevail, and that’s what happened.”

Repeating a quote originating from 19th-century minister and abolitionist Theodore Parker (often attributed to Rev. Martin Luther King Jr.) and adding that IKAR’s “Rabbi [Sharon Brous] quotes many times,” ‘The arc of the moral universe is long but bends towards justice.’ Even when it took a long time, the outcome is a positive one for us and hopefully for other families,” Elad said.

Noting that the Ninth Circuit ruling came down right before Simchat Torah, he added, “Hopefully [like Simchat Torah], we have finished a chapter and we will start a much better chapter remembering what happened before.”

On a personal level, Elad said the entire family is going to celebrate the ruling with
“a big, big cake and ice cream. That’s [the twins’] favorite.

 

 

 

 

 

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A Moment in Time: Spread Over Us Your Sukkah of Peace

Dear all,
During the Festival of Sukkot, we build these temporary structures that symbolize our homes. The image of the Sukkah appears in our liturgy every night, as we pray for God to shelter us with a Sukkah of peace.
It’s odd…. The Sukkah is one of the flimsiest of structures you can imagine. It only takes mildly inclement weather to knock it over. Shouldn’t we pray for a fortress? Why, of all structures, a Sukkah?
Ron and my sister surprised me for my birthday by building and decorating our Sukkah. It took tremendous effort, and the result was extraordinary. It reminded me that maintaining anything important (a home, a relationship, a marriage ….) means that we work everyday to uphold values, pursue dreams, and honor each moment in time. We can’t just sit back and take life for granted.
A fortress takes no commitment. But a Sukkah – it takes wherewithal, thought, and renewal.
With love and shalom,
Rabbi Zach Shapiro

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Pandemic Times Episode 94: How Do We Dance in Times of Crisis?

New David Suissa Podcast Every Tuesday and Friday.

With Simchat Torah around the corner, reflections on finding joy in times of isolation.

How do we manage our lives during the coronavirus crisis? How do we keep our sanity? How do we use this quarantine to bring out the best in ourselves? Tune in and share your stories with podcast@jewishjournal.com.

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Watching the Vice Presidential Debate as a Woman

If you watched the vice presidential debate this week, you might have reached a different conclusion than your neighbor as to who won. No, I’m not just talking about political parties. Perceptions of the debate were deeply divided by gender. According to a post-debate CNN poll, 69% of women thought Senator Kamala Harris won the debate. Among men, however, only 48% thought Harris won.

Why this stark gender gap in perception? As a woman, I recognized something that others may have missed — my day-to-day life:

When I watched Vice President Mike Pence explain Harris’ record to her, I instantly recalled one of the first sessions I attended in college, when my small group had to answer a series of questions about the assigned readings. Sheepishly, three out of the five members of my group admitted that they didn’t do the readings. So I took out the notes I’d scribbled from the textbook and helped my classmates write responses. To my dismay, one of my male classmates kept challenging my answers, despite the fact that he had not done the reading.

SALT LAKE CITY, UTAH – OCTOBER 07: Democratic vice presidential nominee Sen. Kamala Harris (D-CA) participates in the vice presidential debate against U.S. Vice President Mike Pence at the University of Utah. (Photo by Alex Wong/Getty Images)

When I heard Harris’ even tone and saw her consistent smile, I recognized, instantly, a woman who had practiced being “likable.” I remembered Secretary Hillary Clinton, who was lambasted for not being “warm enough.” I saw me, the first time I ran for an elected position in high school. I was told that I sounded too intense, too serious, too passionate. I was told that I didn’t smile enough.

When I saw Pence go over his allotted time and interrupt Harris, I recalled the meetings I had been in where I had been afraid to speak up; afraid that I was wasting people’s time; afraid to take up space; afraid to be interrupted and that I would stumble over my own words. I recalled all the people who’ve called me bossy for being competent. A know-it-all for being intelligent.

SALT LAKE CITY, UTAH – OCTOBER 07: U.S. Vice President Mike Pence debates Democratic vice presidential nominee Sen. Kamala Harris (D-CA) at the University of Utah. (Photo by Morry Gash-Pool/Getty Images)

But when Harris asked the moderator for equal time, I wanted to cry. Here was a woman asking for the same amount of time as her opponent — and was granted it (Harris and Pence ended up speaking for roughly the same amount of time). Here was a woman knowing and demanding her worth be recognized. Here was a version of me that I could become.

Here was a version of me that I could become.

Watching that debate went beyond politics for me. It didn’t matter that the woman onstage was a Republican or a Democrat. What mattered was that I saw a nearly universal experience for women play out onstage. But this time, the woman did not shy away. She stood her ground.

So too, I hope, will others.


Ari Berman is an op-ed editor at the Journal. She previously was the assistant editor at Foreign Affairs.

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Documentary ‘Never Again?’ Explores an Unlikely Friendship

Ninety-one-year old Holocaust survivor Irving Roth and 36-year-old former radical Islamist Kasim Hafeez are now close friends. After Hafeez noticed the concentration camp number on Roth’s forearm, he had it imprinted on his own arm as a sign of solidarity. 

The story of the two men, told against a background of historical and current global anti-Semitism, is the focus of the documentary “Never Again?” It was produced and financed by Christians United for Israel (CUFI), which counts 9 million adherents and bills itself as the largest pro-Israel organization in the United States.

At first blush, the opening storyline strains credulity. However, after speaking with Hafeez and writer-producer Rick Eldrige, the story holds up.

Roth was born in small Slovakian town. He witnessed Hitler’s invading army and at 14 he was transported to the Buchenwald concentration camp. Toward the end of World War II, weighing 75 pounds, he survived a death march during which his brother died.

Hafeez was born in Nottingham in England’s East Midlands, home to a large population of Muslim immigrants, including his father, who emigrated from Pakistan. As a youngster, Hafeez was formally taught the Quran and informally instructed that Jews, especially Israeli Jews, were evil and his permanent enemies.

“I had to make a choice and do what is right. When people attack a synagogue, you have to condemn it.” — Kasim Hafeez

However, Hafeez had a restless curiosity and an inquiring mind, and he decided to learn more about these loathsome Jews firsthand. To that end, he got hold of a copy of the 2003 book “The Case for Israel,” by Harvard law professor Alan Dershowitz.

Hafeez then decided to visit Israel and in 2007 landed at Ben Gurion Airport, where security questioned him for eight hours before admitting him into the country. Since that first encounter, Hafeez said he has now visited Israel “15 to 20 times” and has become a familiar figure at the airport.

However, he has not become a blind admirer of the Jewish state. “Israel is not a utopian country,” Hafeez told the Journal. But he believes in its future — an attitude that has led to fractured relations with his family and former friends.

“I had to make a choice and do what is right,” he said. “When people attack a synagogue, you have to condemn it.” 

When skeptics ask Hafeez how much the Israeli government pays him for his new attitude, he responds dryly, “Not enough.”

Eventually, Hafeez was approached by CUFI and started addressing its membership and other civic groups. On one occasion, he was introduced to the late renowned American biographer Irving Stone. It was through CUFI that Hafeez met Roth. They bonded and appeared as joint speakers, with Roth embodying the constant warning that if men and women of all faiths do not stand against unbridled anti-Semitism, the end result could be another Auschwitz.

That message is reinforced in the film via a series of meetings, arranged by CUFI, in which Hafeez interviews a lineup of Jewish luminaries, among them former British Chief Rabbi Jonathan Sacks; historian and Emory University professor Deborah Lipstadt, an authority on the Holocaust; and Israeli diplomats Michael Oren and Ron Dermer.

“[CUFI] members are Christians who might not sit in the same church pews together, but we are open to anyone who believes in a strong U.S.-Israel relationship.” — Shari Dollinger

Eldridge, the film’s producer and co-writer, is a devout American Protestant. Initially, he too had a hard time believing that Hafeez could become a friend and admirer of the Jews. However, while shooting the film over a six-month period in six countries, Eldridge said, “I saw the genuine relationship between the two men and became firmly convinced of Hafeez’ incredible transformation.” 

CUFI may not be familiar to American Jews, but its work is worth recognizing, especially at a time when there are vicious online rants and murderous attacks on synagogues. When asked about the breakdown of CUFI’s evangelical, Protestant and Catholic members, CUFI co-executive director Shari Dollinger said, “Our members are Christians who might not sit in the same church pews together, but we are open to anyone who believes in a strong U.S.-Israel relationship. We tell American Jews, ‘You are not alone, and we have your back.’”

CUFI’s operational rationale is firmly rooted in the biblical mandate to support the people of Israel, which is recognized and reinforced by CUFI founder and Chairman Pastor John Hagee.

The organization has branches in Canada and London, and before COVID-19 annually held some 800 meetings across the United States, including one attended by 500 people during a snowstorm in North Dakota. In addition, CUFI annually organizes 20 trips to Israel, mainly for pastors and social media influencers.

“Never Again?” will screen Oct. 13 and 15 at 7 p.m. at 800 theaters across the United States. For information on participating theaters, visit the website.

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IfNotNow Rep Declines to Comment on Hamas in Video

A representative for the progressive Jewish group IfNotNow declined to comment about Hamas when asked on camera.

Conservative filmmaker Ami Horowitz published a video on Oct. 7 in which he interviewed Becca Lubow from IfNotNow. Lubow told Horowitz that she became a leader with IfNotNow after she becoming involved with IfNotNow’s campaign against Birthright trips to Israel. Horowitz then asked Lubow, “Is it racist for the United States to have Hamas on its terror list, but not IDF (Israel Defense Forces) soldiers?”

“I don’t want to answer that,” Lubow replied.

“Do you not want to talk about Hamas at all?” Horowitz asked.

Lubow then shook her head and said, “I have to be careful because I’m cognizant of consequences for certain things I could say.”

The video also stated that IfNotNow partners “with the most aggressive anti-Israel organizations,” such as Students for Justice in Palestine and American Muslims for Palestine (AMP). Horowitz then claims that AMP has provided IfNotNow members and leadership with training.

In the video, Horowitz proceeds to interview AMP Director of Community and Outreach Taher Herzallah, who has led some of the training sessions between AMP and IfNotNow.

Screenshot of Taher Herzallah from Ami Horowitz’s YouTube video

“We’ve done some direct action projects with [IfNotNow],” Herzallah said. “We participated in direct action against the nomination of David Friedman to become the U.S. ambassador to Israel. We’ve done a lot of localized actions nationwide. Those are just some of the things that we’ve worked on.”

Horowitz then asked if American Jewish organizations like Birthright “essentially engage in ethnic cleansing of the Palestinians.”

“This is absolutely ethnic cleansing,” Herzallah replied.

Horowitz then asked Herzallah if there are any moral differences between the Nazis and the Israeli government.

“Putting people in concentration camps, besieging people, wholesale execution of people, these are all very common trends between what Nazi Germany did and what Israel is doing today,” Herzallah said. “I think it needs to be noted that the vast majority of Israelis on the ground support the State of Israel’s moves. You look at all the polling numbers, especially when you go back to the devastating war on Gaza in 2014.”

Horowitz asked Herzallah if violent resistance is justified.

“When there is a violent occupation, violent resistance is justified,” Herzallah said, adding, “When the reality of Israel’s brutality hits home… then people are more inclined to think about alternative solutions.”

Horowitz concluded by stating he had taken a video of Black Lives Matter protesters defacing a synagogue in Kenosha, Wisconsin with “Free Palestine” graffiti. IfNotNow initially condemned the vandalism but then later withdrew it.

IfNotNow’s Communications Director Yonah Lieberman told the Journal, “To get an interview with Becca, a senior in college at the time, [Horowitz] messaged her from a fake Twitter account, pretending to be a Jordanian Palestinian who recently discovered Jewish ancestry and wanted to tell stories about American Jewish anti-occupation activists. He never said there would be cameras at the interview and Becca, sensing that something was off, left shortly after the interview began. No serious person should see any of his work as credible.”

Horowitz disputed Lieberman’s statement, telling the Journal in an email, “Notice that they did not deny or dispute a single fact in the film. Becca Lubow, a representative of IfNotNow, was perfectly aware that this was an on-camera interview, as I explained in my text to her.  She spent over 50 minutes with me on camera discussing a variety of topics from the political scene, Israel and IfNotNow. I think the IfNotNow primary sources seen in the film speak for themselves.”

Lieberman told the Journal that Lubow “misremembered the moment she was surprised that the interview would be on camera, which was over text before the interview, not when she walked into the room. She does not remember the interview with perfect clarity after more than seven months. She spent most of it feeling very uncomfortable with the leading questions he was asking her, trying to stay calm and surprised that someone who said he was an accountant who was making a documentary for the first time would have such a professional camera setup.

“Ami Horowitz,” Lieberman continued, “lied about his identity and intentions in order to try to get a female college student to say something that he could use to smear a social justice organization. He is a shady, far-right provocateur, not a journalist to be taken seriously.”

Horowitz told the Journal that it’s “a legitimate tool for journalists to misrepresent who they are in order to get somebody on camera.”

AMP did not respond to the Journal’s requests for comment.

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