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December 1, 2016

Establishing a new denomination: Pragmatic Judaism

Three days ago, a new study by The Jewish People Policy Institute (JPPI) – of which I am a senior fellow – was released to the public. It is titled ” target=”_blank”>erroneous reporting). Responses such as: “Jews should be welcoming to mixed families and not reject them the way you do” (we don’t – I don’t know where this comes from).

Of course, the fact that we’ve received critical responses from both liberals and conservatives does not make our conclusions more valid. But it does tell us something – something that is also demonstrated throughout our report: to assume that one could establish a clear definition of proper Jewishness with which all Jews can agree would be unrealistic. Thus, when one pen pal suggested that we “work to renew commitment to the ‘old’ definitions, which are the only definitions with a proven track record,” my tendency is to be skeptical. I understand the sentiment, I might even agree that this could be great, but is it feasible? And what would be the price? (And by the way: the track record of the old definitions is also overstated. Jews assimilated in great numbers in the past, and not just in the present).

It is also puzzling to get a letter saying: “the true spirit of Judaism is one of acceptance. We need to stop judging people, and let them decide for themselves who they are.” It is puzzling because 1. Acceptance is not the “true spirit” of Judaism – a few pages of Talmud and Halacha could clarify that. 2. We are not judging people by saying they aren’t Jewish – many great people aren’t Jewish. 3. The meaning of having a group, or a people, requires some kind of boundaries, even if these boundaries are somewhat amorphous.

Today I am speaking ” target=”_blank”>Replace ‘Who is a Jew?’ with ‘Who is a Jew for What?’ – and my main argument in this article, based on the views of the hundreds of Jews that participated in the JPPI dialogue process on “the Jewish spectrum,” attempts to be pragmatic, rather than ideological. Since the question of who is a Jew cannot be solved, since a definition agreeable to all is unlikely to emerge soon, there are three possible choices for the Jews:

A. To fight over it.

B. To part ways, and become more than one people.

C. To accept reality and work around it.

Option A will get us nowhere. Fighting for something makes sense if one believes one can ultimately win the fight. I do not see a way for any Jewish faction to win this fight. The Orthodox will not convince Reform Jews to drop patrilineal decent. Seculars will not convince rabbis to accept the legitimacy of non-halachic conversion. Diaspora Jews can’t make Israel adopt criteria compatible with their Jewish existence – nor can Israel make Jewish communities around the world adopt criteria compatible with its instincts. Is fighting always bad? Of course not. Fighting in this case is essential. We can, and maybe must, continue the tug of war over the fine details of the Jewish grand deal. We must air our differences and try to win over the other side and hope to score a point here or there. That is, as long as we remember that this is not a winner-takes-all fight, as long as we accept that this is not a do-or-die fight.

Option B is what nobody wants. Jews are few in number, and splitting them into even smaller groups of Judaism type A and Judaism type B makes little sense. We are a people with a long tradition of debates and disagreements. At times, they made us split (Christianity), at times we managed to stay together (” target=”_blank”>Read the report – it is long, but not boring – and decide for yourself if our case seems solid.

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Find your Homemade Holiday Gift at the Clayhouse

Find your Homemade Holiday Gift at the Clayhouse: Lisa Niver Art

Please join me at the Clayhouse for our annual holiday sale! It is my first time to be a part of this sale with this wonderful community of artists. If you are looking for a homemade holiday gift, this is the place for ceramics and art glass.

WHERE:

The Clayhouse, 2909  Santa Monica Blvd, Santa Monica CA 90404

WHEN:

Friday December 9, 2016 4-9pm and

Saturday Dec 10, 2016 10am-6pm

As Henry Moore said, “To be an artist is to believe in life.”

Come meet the artists, find a special gift for yourself or a friend and think about taking a class in 2017!

“Every child is an artist. The problem is how to remain an artist once we grow up.” Pablo Picasso

CLASSES 2017:

Beginning Handbuilding:
 Students  will learn techniques for working with clay such as coiling, extruding, and slab rolling, to make  bowls, cups, vases, planters and more. Glazing instruction is also included.

The fee is $280 which includes a 25-lb. bag of clay and tools, access to the studio anytime, plus the firing. An advance deposit is required to hold a space in class. IMG5650

Class size is limited to allow for individual attention.

Wheel class for beginners: will begin in early 2017 and meet on Sundays for six weeks.

WHERE:

The Clayhouse is located at 2909 Santa Monica Blvd in Santa Monica. Call for more information 310-828-7071 or look on our website.

WHAT:
The Clayhouse  is the oldest high fire ceramics studio on the Westside. The unassuming storefront on Santa Monica Blvd. displays some of the work of the many talented Clayhouse members. In the back is a large studio with tables, potter’s wheels, glazes, gas-fired kilns and pottery in various stages of production. Group classes and private lessons are offered during the day and evening, as well as studio memberships.  For over 4 decades, potters of all ages and abilities have been coming here to learn, develop their creativity and have fun.”
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About the Author:  Lisa Niver is an explorer, writer, artist and on-camera host who had her first solo art show in November 2016 as part of her 50 new and adventurous things before she is 50 project! See more of her art on Instagram and Facebook. She was recently interviewed by Business Insider and her 600+ videos are nearing one million views on YouTube, Amazon Fire TV and Roku.

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A Moment in Time: Living “The Dash”

Dear all,

The photo above shows three generations of the Galperin Family.  Ron is saying Kaddish at the grave of his grandfather, Rabbi David Galperin, while Facetiming his father,
Rabbi Levi Galperin.

Just about every gravestone has two dates: the date of birth and the date of death.  We can't control the time of birth, and with rare exception, we can't control the time of death.

But separating the two dates on a headstone is often a dash.

Living that dash, ensuring that our time on earth is spent in meaningful ways….  We DO have the ability to harness that soul-print. 

No, not entirely.

But we certainly can make the most of it.

This week, Ron and I lost our not quite 15 year old dog, Daisy. We are heartbroken.  And while the loss is profound, we know that we helped her live the dash.  And she helped us live the dash as well. 

Our lives are truly a moment in time, a dash.  How will we live our dash with meaning, integrity, and purpose?  We'll make mistakes, of course.  But we ultimately want to make a difference that will bring goodness into the world.

With love and shalom,

Rabbi Zach Shapiro

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Obama renews waiver delaying Jerusalem Embassy relocation

This article originally appeared on “>position paper on Israel, released six days before the election, Trump’s advisors suggested that even before negotiations take place between the two sides, “the U.S. will recognize Jerusalem as the eternal and indivisible capital of the Jewish state and move the U.S. embassy to Jerusalem.”

But in an “>interview with Jewish Insider, former ADL national director Abe Foxman suggested that the Trump administration should “move the process gradually rather than as a dramatic act.”

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Bipartisan Senate legislation to combat anti-Semitism on campus

Sen. Tim Scott (R-SC) and Sen. Bob Casey (D-Penn.) on Tuesday introduced bipartisan legislation to grant the U.S. Department of Education (DOE) the necessary statutory tools at their disposal to investigate anti-Semitic incidents on college campuses.

The Anti-Semitism Awareness Act would codify the definition as one adopted by the U.S. State Department’s Special Envoy to Monitor and Combat Anti-Semitism.

“It is incredibly important that we work together to stamp out anti-Semitism and other forms of religious discrimination across our country,” Scott said in a statement. “By clarifying exactly what anti-Semitism is, we will leave no question as to what constitutes an anti-Semitic incident.”

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Calendar: December 2-8

SUN | DEC 4

GLORIA STEINEM AND JILL SOLOWAY

Join an intimate conversation between Gloria Steinem and Jill Soloway, two extraordinary women who have devoted themselves to changing despair into hope. Steinem — a writer, lecturer, political activist and feminist organizer — includes among her areas of interest the origins of sex and race caste systems, nonviolent conflict resolution, and gender roles and child abuse as roots of violence. Soloway is the creator of the Golden Globe- and Emmy-winning show “Transparent.” She also co-founded the community organization East Side Jews and is the author of the memoir “Tiny Ladies in Shiny Pants.” Presented by CAP UCLA. 7 p.m. Tickets start at $29; $15 for UCLA students; $25 for UCLA faculty and staff. Royce Hall, UCLA, 340 Royce Drive, Los Angeles. ” target=”_blank”>templeetzchaim.org.

CHANUKAH BOUTIQUE

Shop early while helping to raise money for Gan Israel Preschool in Tarzana. There will be more than 35 vendors, food, free child care and raffle prizes. 11 a.m. Free. Chabad of Tarzana, 18181 Burbank Blvd., Tarzana. (818) 758-3838.

KIDNEY TRANSPLANT AWARENESS CONCERT

Rachel Silverman Stone from the Milken Community Schools class of 2001 is in need of a kidney transplant. Help raise awareness by attending this concert and learning more about kidney donation and saving a life. Featuring Kol Echad, HaZamir Los Angeles and more. 1 p.m. Free. Robert Margolis Performing Arts Center, 15800 Zeldins Way, Los Angeles. For more information, contact kshepard@milkenschool.org.

“THE STEDMAN STORY: MYSTERY, INTRIGUE, ADOPTION AND DNA”

The Jewish Genealogical Society of the Conejo Valley and Ventura County (JGSCV) will co-sponsor, with Temple Adat Elohim, a seminar called “The Stedman Story: Mystery, Intrigue, Adoption and DNA: Jewish Genealogy Strategies Unravel a Family Mystery.” This is a real-life story involving deception, bigamy, adoption and DNA. The secretive life of Jesse Oppenheimer, alias John Stedman (1887-1950), was unveiled by using family research techniques. Guest speaker Karen Franklin will discuss the trajectory of research beginning with Stedman’s son, Jon Stedman (1933-2009), whose papers Franklin was hired to organize five years ago. Franklin is the director of family research at the Leo Baeck Institute, chair of the Memorial Museums committee of the International Council of Museums and president of the Obermayer German Jewish History Awards. Guests will learn about the opportunities that DNA testing has been able to provide. 1:30 p.m. Free. Temple Adat Elohim, 2420 E. Hillcrest Drive, Thousand Oaks. (818) 889-6616. ” target=”_blank”>wbtla.org.

MON | DEC 5

LOS ANGELES JEWISH SYMPHONY EDUCATION OUTREACH CONCERT

The Los Angeles Jewish Symphony Education Outreach Program presents “A Patchwork of Cultures: Exploring the Sephardic-Latino Connection,” a free cultural program geared toward helping third-, fourth- and fifth-graders discover the music and cultures of our Spanish ancestors. There will be an “instrument petting zoo,” where children can explore the instruments that make up an orchestra. The concert will feature Cantor Marcelo Gindlin. 11 a.m. Free. Space is limited; RSVP to (818) 646-2844. Valley Beth Shalom, 15739 Ventura Blvd., Encino. 

YULA GIRLS COMEDY NIGHT

Prepare for a night of food, drinks and many laughs. Special guests include Greg Hahn, Jimmy Brogan, Dwight Slade and Cathy Ladman. Cocktails and hors d’oeuvres before the show at 6:30 p.m.; 7:30 p.m. show. $100. YULA Girls High School, 1619 S. Robertson Blvd., Los Angeles. (310) 203-0755. TUES | DEC 6

BOUTIQUE ON THE BOULEVARD

Socialize while shopping from the city’s hottest vendors. Merchandise includes clothing for women and children, jewelry, housewares, toys and more. There also will be a bake sale. A portion of each sale will go to Wilshire Boulevard Temple’s school programs and scholarship funds. 9 a.m. Free. Wilshire Boulevard Temple, Irmas Campus, 11661 W. Olympic Blvd., Los Angeles. (310) 445-1280. ” target=”_blank”>booksoup.com

YOGA WITH YOUNG ADULTS OF LOS ANGELES AND INFINITE LIGHT

Enjoy an evening of self-care, yoga and food, led by Om Shalom Yoga’s Zack Lodmer. Program of the NuRoots’ citywide Infinite Light Chanukah festival. 7 p.m. The Loft at Liz’s, 453 S. La Brea Ave., Los Angeles. (323) 761-8054. THURS | DEC 8

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How to tie a perfect bow for your Chanukah gift

A beautifully tied bow elevates any gift, making even the most humble present one the recipient will ooh and aah over — even before it’s opened.

I learned this technique from a friend who used to wrap gifts at a department store. All you need is a spool of ribbon and a pair of scissors, and your bows will never be the same. 

1. Wrap a ribbon around the gift

2. Accordion-fold another piece of ribbon

3. Cut slits in the center

4. Tie the first ribbon to the loops

5. Fluff the loops

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Israeli minister says up to half of fires were arson

Israel’s public security minister said 40 to 50 percent of the fires that raged across Israel over the past week were caused by arson.

Addressing the Knesset Wednesday, Gilad Erdan said he came to those numbers based on “the estimates of professionals” and “findings on the ground,” according to a transcript of his speech.

“These estimates are based upon facts. When you see two Molotov cocktails with flammable materials, and you see that the fire started from there, you understand that this is arson, and there were a number of cases like this,” he said.

Erdan questioned the Fire Services estimate that firefighters battled 1,773 wildfires in Israel and the West Bank between Nov. 18 and 26, saying that in many cases “20 people called in about the same event, and this was counted,” and that fires from unrelated car crashes were also included.

The Fire Services refused to comment, according to The Times of Israel.

The Israel Police said Tuesday it was too early to know how many of the hundreds of fires were the result of arson and terrorism. At the time, police had arrested at least 35 people on suspicion of arson or incitement to arson.

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Green Party’s Jill Stein requests recount in Michigan presidential vote

Jill Stein, the presidential nominee of the Green Party, has requested a full hand count of Michigan’s presidential vote.

Stein made the request on Wednesday in the state where President-elect Donald Trump defeated Democratic presidential candidate Hillary Clinton by less than 11,000 votes, or two-tenths of one percent of the state’s nearly 4.8 million votes.

Stein, who is Jewish, has already requested vote recounts in Pennsylvania and Wisconsin.

In Wisconsin, Trump defeated Clinton by some 22,000 votes. In Pennsylvania, Trump defeated Clinton by about 71,000 votes, or one percent of all votes cast.

Trump currently leads Clinton in the Electoral College by 306 to 232. Clinton leads Trump in the popular vote by more than 2.3 million votes.

It is unlikely that the recounts will overturn the election’s results.

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Women of the Wall subjected to body searches at Western Wall

Members and supporters of the Women of the Wall organization were subjected to body searches at the entrance to the Western Wall Plaza.

The women also were disturbed Thursday during their monthly prayer service marking the start of the new Jewish month by haredi Orthodox women at the site who loudly blew whistles.

During the searches, aimed at preventing the smuggling of Torah scrolls to the women’s section, some women were ordered to remove their coats and scarves and at least one woman was asked to take off her outer garments during a private search, Haaretz reported.

The increase in security was ordered by the Western Wall Heritage Foundation, run by the rabbi of the Western Wall, Shmuel Rabinovitch. The foundation determines the customs at the Western Wall, which are strictly Orthodox. Women of the Wall has been banned from bringing Torah scrolls into the women’s section since its inception 25 years ago.

“The fact that the rabbi of the Western Wall and his representatives refuse to stop the desecration of the Kotel by the whistles of the ultra-orthodox, gives them a green light for continued escalation of violence against us,” Lesley Sachs, director of the Women of the Wall, said in a statement.

Women of the Wall, as well as the non-Orthodox Jewish movements, have called for egalitarian prayer at the Western Wall.

An agreement was reached in January to establish an egalitarian prayer section at the Western Wall. The agreement was negotiated by the Reform and Conservative movements, the Women of the Wall, the Jewish Agency and the Israeli government. Under the agreement approved by the Cabinet in a 15-5 vote, the egalitarian section of the wall near Robinson’s Arch would be expanded and placed under the authority of a pluralist committee. The plan called for solidifying haredi Orthodox control over the site’s traditional Orthodox section.

Earlier this month, leaders of the Reform and Conservative movements in the United States and Israel brought at least 12 Torah scrolls into the women’s section of the Western Wall plaza for a prayer service. The scrolls were carried into the women’s section for use during the Women of the Wall’s monthly prayer service as part of a protest march against current restrictions on egalitarian worship at the site.

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