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September 13, 2016

Stanley Sheinbaum, liberal activist, dies at 96

Stanley Sheinbaum, who dedicated his life to the promotion and defense of liberal causes in Los Angeles, the United States and the world, died Sept. 12 at his Brentwood home. He was 96.

Some of the high points of his nearly 70 years as an activist were summarized in 2004 by Jewish Journal reporter Marc Ballon: 

“Like a modern-day Forrest Gump – albeit one with a Phi Beta Kappa key – Sheinbaum has witnessed history up close and personal, leaving his thumbprints all over some of the defining moments of the past half century.

Whether acting as the police commissioner who led the successful fight to oust former LAPD Chief Daryl Gates in the early 1990s; heading a controversial delegation of American Jews to the Middle East in the late 1980s to convince Yasser Arafat to publicly renounce terrorism and recognize Israel's right to exist; fighting for divestment from South Africa as a University of California regent; or raising nearly $1 million for the successful defense of Pentagon Papers principal Daniel Ellsberg, Sheinbaum has made a difference.

The salons hosted by Stanley and his wife, Betty, in their spacious Brentwood home were gathering places for aspiring presidents, Middle East royalty, Hollywood stars, civil rights leaders and politicians.

That role was a long way from his childhood in New York City. Son of a leather-goods manufacturer who went bankrupt during the Depression, young Stanley tried to do his bit by selling magazines, working as a delivery boy and clerking in a department store.

He had no interest, and deplorable grades, in high school, as he recalled in his 2012 memoir, whose title “Stanley K. Sheinbaum: A 20th Century Knight’s Quest for Peace, Civil Liberties and Economic Justice,” might also serve as a one-sentence summary of his life.

After six years in the army during World War II, mainly spent making maps, he applied for admission to 33 colleges but was turned down by all of them due to his failing and incomplete high school grades.

At 26, Sheinbaum returned to high school and then went on to graduate from Stanford University with highest honors as an economist and won a Fulbright fellowship to study international monetary affairs in Paris.

Sheinbaum had little involvement with the Jewish community, though he had a wide circle of Jewish friends, whom he enrolled in his causes.

He was a close friend of the late Rabbi Leonard Beerman of Leo Baeck Temple, recalled Rabbi Emeritus Sanford Ragins, and supported the temple through donations.

Richard Gunther, a fellow leader in Los Angeles of the Americans for Peace Now movement, met monthly for 40 years with Sheinbaum and some 10 other Jewish and Christian thinkers for long discussions on every conceivable subject.

“Stanley was a passionate liberal, a man of great courage, principle and dedication,” Gunther said, recalling that he and his wife, Lois, also hosted Sheinbaum during a family seder.

Perhaps no single action by Sheinbaum drew more international attention – and flak – than his 1988 visit to Stockholm, Sweden to meet with Arafat, leader of the Palestine Liberation Organization . As a result of the trip, Sheinbaum was excoriated by large segments of the Jewish community and its leadership, called a traitor and had a dead pig deposited on his driveway.

Questioned on this point, Sheinbaum told the Journal that depite having paid a price for his effots, he felt it was his duty to fight for peace in the Middle East, “These are my people and I’m not going to walk away,” he said.

Stanley Sheinbaum is survived by Betty Warner Sheinbaum, his wife of 52 years, stepchildren Karen Sperling, Cass Warner, Matthew Sperling and daughter-in-law Elizabeth Bauer, as well as eight grandchildren and 12 great-grandchildren.

A memorial service is being planned for a future date.

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FOR THE RECORD 9/15/2016

This artcile was updated to correct the location of the meeting between Stanley Sheinbaum and Yasser Arafat. It look place in Stockholm, Sweden. In addition, Sheinbaum and others met with Richard Gunther for wide-ranging discussions monthly, not weekly.

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Why Netanyahu is right and wrong about Palestinian ‘ethnic cleansing’

1.

Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu is right on principle: A demand that all Jews vacate Judea and Samaria when a Palestinian state is established is preposterous. Calling “ethnic cleansing” in the video clip that his office produced – and that resulted in praise and popularity, but also in international condemnation – might have a been one step too far. But, all in all, the PM has a point: why would the Palestinians insist on a state without Jews? Such insistence is a clear sign that the Palestinian State would be built on the idea of delegitimizing the presence of Jews in the land. And that idea doesn’t give one confidence that the Palestinians intend to live peacefully alongside the Jewish State.

Prime Minister Binyamin Netanyahu is also wrong on principle: the idea of having a Palestinian State – if one supports such an idea, and the PM has publically endorsed it – is to let the Palestinians decide for themselves how they want to live. A sovereign Jewish State – Israel – makes the rules for us. A sovereign Palestinian State will make the rules for them. As long as it lives peacefully alongside Israel, Israel has no business telling them what they can and can’t do. If their idea of a state is to have a no-Jew zone – like Saudi Arabia – that is for them to decide.

2.

Have you seen the clip? “Ethnic cleansing for peace is absurd. It’s about time somebody said it. I just did,” the PM says in it. Yet one has to wonder: is now really the time to say it? Why now and not next year, or last year?

There are two answers to the question why now:

The first one is that the PM is getting prepared for a UN blitz right after the US election. He is bracing himself, and Israel, in anticipation of a last minute Obama initiative that will aim to erode Israel’s stance and delegitimize Israel’s policy in the West Bank. Thus, Netanyahu is upping the ante by presenting a maximalist viewpoint. By using the language of liberal discourse to discredit a demand that “Jews” will evacuate the land, he hopes to score some points with observers who don’t instinctively support the Israeli position.

The second one is that the PM taped this video to divert the attention of Israelis back to where Netanyahu is strong. This explanation presumes that the timing – and possibly the language, if not the content – is not about any diplomatic development but rather about internal political developments. The polls that show rival Yair Lapid making gains, the headlines that tell stories about Netanyahu’s looming legal troubles, the anger over the issue of Shabbat – all these convinced the PM that it is time to remind Israelis that he, and no other potential candidate, will guard Israel’s (and Jews’) interests.

3.

The idea of letting some of the settlers remain in the land when a Palestinian State is born might be reasonable in theory, but it is impractical and dangerous. If it is only a rhetorical trick by which to explain why a Palestinian State is a bad idea – that’s fine. If it is only an obstacle that Israel intends to use as a negotiation card – that’s also fine. If it’s a PR tool which is aimed at getting some sympathy from outsiders – that’s wonderful.

However, as a practical plan it is a terrible idea: The lives of Israelis that will remain in Palestinian territory are going to be in danger. Israel and the IDF will not be able to abstain from saving their lives when in danger. So there is no question that the result would be as follows: some settlers stay on the land, some Palestinians are unhappy with them staying and plot to harm them, at some point the plot becomes actionable, the IDF intervenes and enters Palestinian territory – now a state – Israel is condemned for invading a neighboring State, and the Palestinians claim that they have a right to retaliate. In other words: leaving “Jews” behind is recipe for serious trouble.

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The problem with the “ethnic cleansing” argument is not that it has no merit. It does have some merit. The problem with it is that it turns the discussion from one about finding the best practical solution to the Israeli-Palestinian problem (and the best practical solution at this time might be to do nothing), to one about the ideal solution in an ideal world. So yes, in an ideal world – when the Palestinians will be like the Finns, as former Ariel Sharon advisor Dov Weisglass famously said – the settlers could stay in the land as proud Israelis living under Palestinian jurisdiction. But in the non-ideal world of the Middle East the ideal is the enemy of any solution.

This does not mean that Israel can’t insist on some symbolic gestures by which the other side demonstrates its intention to be peaceful and respectful of its neighbor. The demand that the Palestinians recognize Israel as a Jewish State is reasonable, because it does not complicate an actual situation on the ground. This does not mean that Israel can’t insist on some measures that aim to ensure its security when a Palestinian State becomes reality. The demand that Israel will be allowed to monitor and guard the Jordan Valley is sensible, possibly essential for a peaceful coexistence to be possible.

But to ask that Palestine will absorb Jewish settlers has the disadvantage of being symbolic, the disadvantage of being inessential, and the disadvantage of inserting a complication into an already complicated, if not impossible, process.

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Pence refuses to validate Clinton’s ‘deplorable’ label in denouncing David Duke

Republican vice presidential nominee Mike Pence on Tuesday reiterated his refusal to label former KKK leader David Duke as “deplorable” not to validate Hillary Clinton’s term used to attack Donald Trump’s supporters.

“Donald Trump and I have denounced David Duke repeatedly. We have said that we do not want his support and we do not want the support of people who think like him,” Pence said at a press conference following a meeting with House Republicans on Capitol Hill. “The simple fact is that I am not in the name-calling business. My colleagues in the House of Representatives know that I believe that civility is essential in a vibrant democracy and it’s never been my practice.”

Pence came under fire for refusing to to use the term “deplorable” during an interview with CNN on Monday.

“There are some supporters of Donald Trump and Mike Pence who ― David Duke, for example, some other white nationalists ― who would fit into that category of deplorables. Right?” CNN host Wolf Blitzer asked, referring to Clinton’s emarks rover the weekend that half of Donald Trump supporters can be put into a “basket of deplorables.”

“Donald Trump has denounced David Duke repeatedly. We don’t want his support and we don’t want the support of people who think like him,” Pence replied. When pressed if he’d call Duke “deplorable,” Pence said, “No, I’m not in the name calling business.”

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Israeli security chief in DC reportedly to sign $38B defense assistance pact

Israel’s acting head of national security is in Washington, D.C., reportedly to sign a deal extending U.S. defense assistance to Israel for 10 years.

Jacob Nagel arrived Tuesday, and according to Israeli media reports, will meet with his U.S. counterpart, National Security Advisor Susan Rice, to sign the $38 billion military aid package.

The deal, called a memorandum of understanding, is expected to be rolled out officially within days, possibly as early as this week, Reuters reported Tuesday, citing unnamed sources familiar with the deal.

Nagel left for the United States on Monday night after meeting with the U.S. ambassador to Israel, Dan Shapiro, Haaretz reported. According to Haaretz, the meeting dealt with the final details of the agreement, including how it would be publicly announced.

The final package of $38 billion would be higher than the $3.1 billion of assistance provided annually in the expiring deal, but lower than the $45 billion sought by Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu.

According to Reuters, the new deal will include missile defense cooperation, which had been considered separately from defense assistance. The change will make it harder for Israel to appeal directly to Congress for increases in missile defense.

Additionally, the deal over time will roll back the approximately 25 percent of the funds Israel may spend on defense equipment manufactured in Israel. Instead, the money must be spent on the U.S. defense industry.

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RJC kicks off GOTV push in swing states

Encouraged by recent polls that show the presidential race tightening in key battleground states and Senate Republican incumbents  “>conducted by Jim Gerstein from GBA Strategies showed Clinton is supported by 66 percent of Jewish voters in the state of Florida, while Trump is supported by 23 percent.

An RCP average of polls shows Trump trailing Clinton in Ohio by 2.5 percent and in Pennsylvania by 5.8 percent. Senators Pat Toomey, Marco Rubio, and Rob Portman are all favorites to win their reelection bids.

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Israeli shooter, in 6th Paralympics, wins 8th medal with bronze in Rio

Shooter Doron Shaziri, competing in his sixth Paralympics, won Israel’s second medal at the Rio games and his eighth overall.

Shaziri picked up a bronze Monday in the men’s R7-50m Rifle 3 Positions, finishing third behind Laslo Suranji of Serbia and Abdulla Sultan Alaryani of the United Arab Emirates.

One day earlier, Israeli rower Moran Samuel also took home a bronze.

For Shaziri, a gold medal at the 2015 Open Championships in Germany assured him of a spot at the Rio Paralympics.

In 2012, he won a silver medal at the London Paralympics, where he was also Israel’s flag bearer at the opening ceremony. Prior to that he had won two silver and four bronze medals while competing at the 1996 games in Atlanta, 2000 in Sydney, 2004 in Athens and 2008 in Beijing.

Shaziri wears a prosthetic leg after being injured by a landmine in 1987 while patrolling the Israel-Lebanon border as a soldier. He was trying to rescue his comrades from an attack.

Some 4,300 Paralympians are competing in Rio, Brazil’s second largest city. The competition ends Sept. 18.

Three weeks ago, Israeli judokas Yarden Gerbi and Or Sasson both won bronze medals at the Summer Olympics in Rio.

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Former L.A. Supervisor Ed Edelman, advocate for liberal causes, dies at 85

Ed Edelman, a champion of liberal politics in Los Angeles who spent two decades on the L.A. County Board of Supervisors, died on Sept. 12 at age 85. His death followed a long battle with atypical Parkinson’s disease.

“We had a home filled with people and music and love,” his wife, Mari Mayer Edelman told the Los Angeles Times of his passing. “You couldn’t help but love this man. He cared so much about other people.”

[FROM THE ARCHIVES: Honoring Ed Edelman]

Edelman’s nine years on the L.A. City Council, from 1965 to 1974, prior to winning his county seat, and his time on the Board of Supervisors, from 1975 to 1994, produced a list of accomplishments that reads like a catalog of progressive causes: creating support systems for the homeless and mentally ill as well as a county commission on disability, a county department of Children and Family Services, setting aside hundreds of acres for parkland, substantial funding for the arts and more.

“There are hundreds of thousands of people in Los Angeles County and in this state whose lives are better because of someone whose name they never knew,” John Lovell, a former aide, said in a 2014 documentary written and directed by Mari Edelman titled “The Passions and Politics of Ed Edelman: An Untold Story of Leadership in Los Angeles.”

Ed Edelman approached politics with a style that favored results over rhetoric and collaboration over confrontation.

“When you’re talking about Ed’s integrity and his willingness to stand by his word — he was very reliable on that score,” Pete Schabarum, a colleague and longtime rival on the Board of Supervisors, said in the documentary.

But despite a willingness to work with political opponents, Edelman was far from quiet during his time in the political spotlight.

He championed gay rights in the city council and on the county board, urging the supervisors to take up the fight against AIDS; he lobbied for public transportation, resulting in the first subways being built under downtown L.A.; and he consistently agitated to support arts and music, paving the way for the Walt Disney Concert Hall.

“The worst thing you can have is power and either abuse it or not use it,” Edelman said in a 2009 interview.

Born Sept. 27, 1930, Edmund D. Edelman grew up on the Westside of L.A. , one of three children of Jewish parents. His father, Nathan, ran a liquor retail business, though according to the documentary never drank himself. The family attended Congregation Mogen David, a traditional synagogue; later, his mother’s work as his surrogate in the Jewish community would help him win election to the City Council.

As a youth, Edelman developed an aptitude for the accordion and cello. He would maintain his love of the latter instrument until he lost his faculties towards the end of his life.

After attending UCLA as both an undergraduate and for law school, Edelman’s entrée into elected politics came in 1965 when he beat Rosalind Wyman, a well-entrenched incumbent, for a seat on the City Council representing the Fairfax District and Beverly Hills. Soon after, he established a reputation for integrity on a corrupt and sclerotic council.

In 1974, Edelman defeated fellow Councilmember John Ferraro to win election to the Board of Supervisors, where he represented a diverse district that spanned East and West Los Angeles, including large Latino, white and Jewish constituencies.

While on the board, he watched the conservative majority erode, to be replaced by the Democratic control that has since held sway.

When he vacated council seat, and again his supervisor’s seat, his place went to another politician who would become a mainstay in L.A.’s Jewish political establishment: Zev Yaroslavsky.

Edelman’s time in politics left a number of namesakes dotted across the county, including as the Summit Valley Edmund D. Edelman Park in the Santa Monica Mountains, the Edmund D. Edelman Children’s Court in City Terrace and the Edmund D. Edelman Westside Mental Health Center.

His legacy continues to pay dividends even after his death: along with longtime L.A. Mayor Tom Bradley, he was among the earliest advocates for a subway to run beneath Wilshire Boulevard. Though his plan was eventually abandoned, the current Purple Line extension slated to reach Westwood by 2035 builds on his earlier ideas.

The overarching theme of Edelman’s political career, however, was his fight to help uplift others, particularly communities most often ignored or denigrated by society.

“Keep striving,” he said in the documentary. “Keep trying to improve yourself and your community. We need people that care for one another.”

As his health deteriorated and left him largely unable to communicate, he maintained his interest in the wellbeing of others.

“When he’s trying to articulate something, almost invariably, what he’s trying to do is ask how people are,” Mari Edelman told the Journal in 2013. “Did such a person find a job? Did so-and-so get out of the hospital? Are they going to be OK? Whatever it is, he wants to know how other people are doing.”

Edelman is survived by his wife Mari Mayer Edelman. The couple had two children, Erica and Emily, and four grandchildren.

The 2014 documentary can be viewed for free on the PBS website.

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Tribute to Edmund D. Edelman (1930-2016)

In this era, when political vulgarity is de rigueur, it is hard to imagine there was a time when political discourse could be intelligent, gentlemanly and classy.  Well, there was such a time, and it was personified by former Los Angeles County Supervisor and City Councilman Ed Edelman who passed away after a long illness this week at the age of 85.

Ed served on the Los Angeles City Council from 1965-74, and on the Los Angeles County Board of Supervisors from 1974-1994.  His legacies are many in both bodies, and his fingerprints are on many significant achievements which continue to pay dividends today.  At a time when AIDS was ravaging the nation some 30 or more years ago, few public agencies responded with the urgency that the epidemic demanded.  However, under the visionary and deft stewardship of Ed Edelman, Los Angeles County became one of the first major urban governments to step up to the challenge.  

When there was no central department responsible for addressing the needs of abused and neglected children, Edelman led the effort to create the county’s Department of Children and Family Services.  For the first time, one agency was responsible for everything from a child’s welfare at home, to foster care, to adoptions.  He was also the visionary behind the establishment of the Children’s Court that bears his name, creating an embracing environment for children who through no fault of their own found themselves in dependency court.  

Ed was a strong advocate of the arts.  He launched what became a 20 year upgrade of the Hollywood Bowl and was the political force behind securing the site for the construction of the Walt Disney Concert Hall.  He played the cello and funded Sunday night broadcasts of chamber music on KUSC long after he retired from public life.  The County Museum of Art and other cultural institutions benefited from his political and financial support.

As the region grew, so did its traffic congestion problems.  Ed teamed up with Mayor Tom Bradley in starting to build the subway and light rail system we increasingly enjoy today.  He was an influential member of the County Transportation Commission and its successor agency, the M.T.A.  

He was ahead of his time in addressing the mental health needs of our community.  Long before it was comfortable for politicians to openly discuss mental health, Ed did.  Community based mental health clinics and other services expanded on his watch.  He also took on the cause of the homeless as local governments in the county searched for a solution to their growing numbers.

There are many projects for which Ed was responsible that we all take for granted.  Westwood Park was made possible by Ed’s idea to swap a city-owned parcel in downtown for a large parcel of federal land behind the Westwood federal building, now the regional park.  Santa Monica Boulevard between Beverly Hills and the 405 is a broad roadway/parkway today because of Ed’s negotiating skills that resulted in the purchase of an old railroad right of way from the Southern Pacific Railroad Company.  We have Ed to thank for a wilderness park in Topanga Canyon that otherwise would have been another destructive mountain subdivision.  And the beat goes on. 

Above all, Ed Edelman was a man of great personal, professional and political integrity.  His example is a model for all political figures to follow.  His lasting legacy is the manner in which he conducted himself as a public official. He led through inspiration, not intimidation.  He never berated a bureaucrat or constituent.  I can’t recall a time when he raised his voice, either privately or publicly. Whether it was in a political campaign, a policy debate in the halls of government, or a private negotiation Ed treated his adversaries as well as his friends with the same respect he would have wanted to be treated himself.  

It was my honor and good fortune to follow in Ed’s footsteps in both the city and county.  Los Angeles has lost a giant of an elected official and one of L.A.’s most significant and important public servants.  His legacy is assured for generations to come.


Zev Yaroslavsky is Director of the L.A. Initiative at UCLA’s Luskin School of Public Affairs and the Department of History, and former member of the County Board of Supervisors and the City Council.

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Shimon Peres suffers stroke; sedated and on respirator for medical treatment

Former Israeli President Shimon Peres was hospitalized after having a stroke.

Peres’ office said in a statement Tuesday evening that the 93-year-old statesman “is stable and fully conscious.”

It later announced that Peres’ doctors decided to sedate him and put him on a respirator as he undergoes medical treatment. Israel’s Channel 1 reported that his condition was changed to serious.

Peres, 93, was taken to Sheba Medical Center in Tel HaShomer near Tel Aviv after telling his doctor that he felt weak.

The doctor had successfully implanted a pacemaker for Peres a week ago. Peres was diagnosed in July with atrial fibrillation, an irregular heart rhythm.

In January, Peres had a heart attack and then cardiac angioplasty to open a blocked artery. He was hospitalized twice more with chest pains.

In an interview in January with JTA, just days before his heart attack, Peres said he was busier than ever, including his work with the Peres Center for Peace, which he founded.

A month earlier, social media was flooded with rumors that Peres had died, leading him to take to Facebook to declare that rumors of his demise were greatly exaggerated.

Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu tweeted: “I wish former president Shimon Peres speedy recovery. Shimon, we love you, and the entire nation prays for your recovery.”

Netanyahu’s office said in a statement that the prime minister spoke with the director of Sheba Medical Center and was updated on Peres’ condition. Netanyahu conveyed the prayers of the entire nation for a quick recovery, according to the statement.

Peres, who retired as president of Israel in 2014 after more than half a century in public life, including a stint as prime minister, won the 1994 Nobel Peace Prize with the late Israeli Prime Minister Yitzhak Rabin and the late Palestinian Authority President Yasser Arafat.

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The Wedding Budget

For the couple on a tight budget!

Let’s just jump right in… to one of the most difficult aspects of wedding planning! The budget!

You and your fiancé have already dreamt up the vision for your big day. Now comes the part where you get hands-on with your budget. The trick? Think of it as a playful treasure hunt—researching local prices so you know exactly where your funds will sparkle and where you might need a little extra shine. No one wants to fall head over heels for flowers just to have them cost twice what you imagined, right?

But… imagine this: a joyous family wedding that’s all about laughter, love, and turning big dreams into a beautiful reality—even on a shoestring budget. Yes, your special day can be downright magical without breaking the bank! Let’s chat about how you can keep the fun at the forefront, leaving the money worries in the background.

Here are some personal tips from someone who’s been around the globe and has seen every creative twist a wedding on a budget can offer:

• Let family and friends in on the excitement: Have an honest chat with your folks about what you’d love for the day. Not only will their financial contributions help if they are able, but involving them turns wedding planning into a collaborative adventure. Share your must-have list and keep the conversation light and fun—think of it as brainstorming a quirky, memorable party rather than checking off expenses.

• Prioritize the essentials: Whether it’s the killer entertainment, dreamy catering, that show-stopping gown, or capturing every heartfelt moment with amazing photos, decide which aspects light up your vision. Amp up those splurges and get creative with everything else. Remember, most couples spend anywhere from $20,000 to $33,000; however, with a pinch of creativity and planning, fabulous weddings have blossomed for under $10,000 too!

• Unleash your inner decorator: Picture a quaint backyard fest adorned with fairy lights tangled around trees, candles dancing on tables, and DIY floral arrangements that you and your loved ones put together with smiles and giggles. Transforming a familiar family space into a fairytale venue not only keeps the budget in check but creates memories that are as intimate as they are fun.

Embrace a casual, heartfelt vibe: Not set on a traditional sit-down dinner? Why not opt for a relaxed picnic-style reception with games, laughter, and plenty of delicious bites? Whether it’s a barbecue or a potluck with crowd-pleasing food stations, your guests will appreciate the personal touch and the fact that every dish comes wrapped in memories and love.

• Keep it smart with invitations and décor: Trust Eventbrite, Mailchimp, or even free websites like WeddingWire or The Knot to streamline those RSVPs and create a lovely online hub for wedding details. For décor, dive into DIY projects! Involve your wedding party in creating personalized touches—a united group effort guaranteed to produce both beautiful settings and tales to tell.

• Music, photos, and unforgettable moments: If your budget doesn’t stretch to hiring a full band, compile your favorite tunes on an iPod and rent some speakers for an epic dance floor under the stars. And when it comes to photography, invest in those once-in-a-lifetime snapshots—after all, you want every laugh, every heartfelt moment captured beautifully for generations to enjoy.

At the heart of it all lies an important truth: your wedding is a celebration of love and togetherness. It’s about your cherished family, dear friends, and the shared joy of your commitment. So dive into the planning process with creativity, get your loved ones involved, and let each detail reflect your unique story. Who cares if it’s not a lavish bash? The memories you create will be priceless—and that’s what truly matters.

Remember, the journey to your wedding day should feel like an adventure: fun, spontaneous, and a little bit unexpected. So, keep your focus on making it a day filled with laughter, love, and moments that feel as timeless as they are genuine. After all, when all is said and done, the best budget is the one that lets you celebrate exactly the way you’ve always dreamed.

The internet is your friend and then again, don’t forget to ask your friends and family for help and ideas! Those couples who have already gone through this experience or are about to, could have lots of information for you!

Most of all enjoy the process. Treat it as an adventure no matter how much or little money you spend on it because in the end it is about friends, loved ones and getting hitched to the partner of your dreams!

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