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June 23, 2015

Community Advocates On the Air Tonight

Community Advocates’ vice president, Joe Hicks, will be a guest this evening on KCRW’s Which Way LA? with host Warren Olney at 7:00PM on 89.9 FM. He will be discussing the Charleston tragedy and related events.

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The Babywearing Adventure

Let me start by saying I have nothing against Babywearing. Having your little miracle close to your heart with your hands free has so many benefits. Babywearinginternational.com is a great site to get the scoop.

Babywearing is nothing new. It’s been around for centuries.  But all of the sudden it’s the new rage.  The buzz is you’re just not a cool mom if you don’t wear your baby! Really?
“Part of the reason for the popularity is due to the influence of advocates of attachment parenting,” says Dr. William Sears. Many moms say; “if you’re going to carry the baby anyway, why not wear him and have hands free for the many other things you need to do”?

As slingbabies.co.nz states:
• Mexican people use the Rebozo, which is a square of woven cloth tied over one shoulder with baby usually on the back
• Peruvians have a Manta which sits over both shoulders like a cape, and baby sits high on mother's back.
• Alaskan/Canadian people have the Amauti which is a very thick arctic jacket with a baby 'pocket' in the back, baby even fits under the over-sized hood!
• Papua New Guinea mothers use a Bilum- a net bag held at the forehead with baby hanging at the back (very strong necks!)
• Indonesian mothers use a Selendang which is a long ornate wrap.
• Asian mothers use a variety of carriers including Mei-tai /Hmong/ Bei(China), Onbuhimo (Japan), Podaegi (Korea) plus many use a 'carrier' of long straps which go under baby's armpits and thighs for back carries. 
• African mothers use a 'Khanga' which is a short-ish piece of cloth tied around the torso, so baby sits low on the back.
Maori women carried their babies in a cloth inside their cloaks.

Our adventure begins…

My daughter, Lindsay and I head off to the store, baby in tow, to buy a baby sling or carrier. Oh does did this ever bring back memories. Me lying down on the sofa trying to get her into this contraption called a baby carrier. I can almost feel the perspiration dripping down my cheeks. Darn, this was scary. But I have to say, I do remember once I figured it out, I loved having Lindsay close and a free hand to do things around the house And who knew I was wearing my baby! 

But that was then, here’s today’s story:

We arrive at the store and my adorable month old grandson is peacefully snoozing in his car seat unbeknownst to him that a well-versed employee who is also a new mom and loves wearing her baby, will be showing my daughter how to wear him.

At first glance, this baby sling sure resembles a schmata I would dust the tables with. Schmata: Yiddish word for a bit of old cloth used for cleaning. The baby can fit in that really? Hmm?

After much pulling, tugging and rearranging, baby is securely tucked in and amazingly still sleeping. But with so many choices, fabrics and ties, you’re just not sure which is the safest and best. So baby is once again inserted into a few others. And I have to say, while we were at the store, getting him into the sling, tying the knots, and hooking the clasps looked like a piece of cake.  Decisions made, sling purchased and baby still sleeping.

Fast forward, next morning… Sling out of the box, daughter excited to try it, baby awake and we are watching the YouTube video for the fifth time trying to figure out which tie goes on which shoulder and wondering why, when all is said and done, baby is almost down to my daughter’s hips, with his head covered by fabric (not safe), baby is crying and the entire thing hurts her back. What happened to easy peasy like in the store? Oh, this is so frustrating!

So you guessed it…time for Plan B:

Here’s what happened. We returned the said sling. Drove to another store that had many more choices and experts to help. After a few try-ons, some strolls around the store, baby is securely riding next to mommy’s heart contently sucking away on his pacifier. Don’t you just love happy endings!

 

Blythe Lipman is the president of Baby Instructions. She is passionate about babies, toddlers and their parents. After working in the field for over thirty-five years, four award winning books, now available at Amazon.com, BarnesandNoble.com, Audible.com and all major bookstores. You can hear Blythe's weekly radio show, Baby and Toddler Instructions each Wednesday, 11am EST @ www.toginet.com Blythe is available for in-home, video and telephone consultations. You can contact Blythe at babyinstructions@cox.net or call her office (480)-510-1453. Become her Fan on Facebook and visit her website www.mybestparentingadvice.com

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Charleston church gunman Dylann Roof’s manifesto calls to ‘destroy the Jewish identity’

Dylann Roof, the alleged Charleston church gunman, said in a racial manifesto that the Jewish “problem” would be solved “if we could somehow destroy the Jewish identity.”

Roof, 21, who has been charged with killing nine worshipers last week in the Emanuel A.M.E. Church in the South Carolina city, published what is believed to be his racial manifesto on a website that is registered in his name. The website and the manifesto came to public attention on Saturday; by Sunday the website was blocked.

The 2,500-word document is rife with racial hatred as well as spelling errors. The website also shows photos of Roof burning a U.S. flag and aiming firearms.

Roof asserts in the manifesto that he was “not raised in a racist home or environment. Living in the South, almost every White person has a small amount of racial awareness, simply because of the numbers of negroes in this part of the country. But it is a superficial awareness.” He said the event that “truly awakened” him was the Trayvon Martin case in Florida, in which neighborhood watch coordinator George Zimmerman fatally shot the unarmed black teen.

Roof devotes most of the manifesto to a discussion of blacks, who he calls “the biggest problem for Americans,” and who he says are “stupid and violent.” He discusses segregation — Roof said it “was not a bad thing. It was a defensive measure” — as well as slavery, the flight to the suburbs and racial mixing.

Roof calls Jews an “enigma,” adding, “I don’t pretend to understand why jews do what they do.” He said he believes that “the majority of American and European jews are White.”

“In my opinion the issues with jews is not their blood, but their identity. I think that if we could somehow destroy the jewish identity, then they wouldnt cause much of a problem. The problem is that Jews look White, and in many cases are White, yet they see themselves as minorities. Just like [the N word], most jews are always thinking about the fact that they are jewish,” Roof wrote.

He added: “The other issue is that they network. If we could somehow turn every jew blue for 24 hours, I think there would be a mass awakening, because people would be able to see plainly what is going on.”

Roof gives what he calls “an explanation” for the attack he is about to pull off at the historic Emanuel A.M.E. Episcopal Church in Charleston: “I have no choice. I am not in the position to, alone, go into the ghetto and fight. I chose Charleston because it is most historic city in my state, and at one time had the highest ratio of blacks to Whites in the country. We have no skinheads, no real KKK, no one doing anything but talking on the internet. Well someone has to have the bravery to take it to the real world, and I guess that has to be me.”

Roof was arrested in North Carolina on Thursday, the day after the shooting. He is being held on $1 million bond.

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Gaza militants fire rocket into Israel

Militants in the Gaza Strip launched a rocket at Israel on Tuesday which landed in open ground near a community close to the Palestinian enclave and Israel hit back at the launching site, the Israeli army said.

There were no injuries or damage after the rocket fell near the community of Yad Mordechai, Israeli police and the military said. Residents in the northern Gaza Strip said nobody was hurt by Israel's retaliatory strike near Beit Hanoun.

An army statement said the rocket launcher was hit.

Rocket launchings have become an almost weekly occurrence from the Hamas-controlled coastal strip recently but no militant group took immediate responsibility for Tuesday's attack.

A group that sympathizes with al Qaeda, who have defied Hamas, have been blamed for other recent strikes, none of which caused injuries or damage.

The Israel-Gaza border area had largely been quiet since last year's July-August war, when Palestinian militants launched thousands of rockets and mortar bombs into Israel and Israeli shelling and air strikes battered the enclave.

More than 2,100 Palestinians died, mainly civilians, while 67 soldiers and six civilians were killed on the Israeli side.

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Owning up to truths: The UNHRC and its report

The report on last summer’s conflict between Israel and Hamas by a committee representing the United Nations Human Rights Council (UNHRC) elicited the usual response from the Israel government – even before its formal release on Monday!  Prime Minister Netanyahu declared that the committee had ascertained that Israel was ““guilty even before the examination began.”  His government released its own report a day earlier maintaining “unequivocally that our military actions during that conflict were in full accordance with international law.”  

One can readily imagine how Netanyahu and his government arrived at this conclusion.  Since its inception in March 2006, the UNHRC has a history of training much of its attention on Israel-Palestine.  As of last year, nearly half of the resolutions it passed were condemnations of Israel.  This is, by any standard, disproportionate and betrays a deep skew that requires correcting.  Both Kofi Annan and Ban Ki-Moon, the previous and current Secretaries-General of the United Nations, have criticized this over-emphasis on Israel.  Annan argued in 2006 that while Israel should hardly be immune to criticism, “the Council should give the same attention to grave violations committed by other states as well.”  Indeed, the world, and even more particularly, the Middle East, are rife with gross violators of human rights, both state and non-state actors.  

And yet, the flaws of the UNHRC must not provide a shield for Israel to hide behind.  This has become a favored tactic.  Last year, it was the genocidal Iranian threat that was intended to give Israel a free pass; more recently, it’s become the BDS movement that precludes any serious critique of the Occupation.  This is not to say that Iran is a benign kitten nor that Boycott, Divestment and Sanctions (BDS) doesn’t include some nefarious elements in its midst.  It is to say that these two causes can and do serve as bogeymen–instruments of deflection for the Israeli government to avoid troubling issues over which it has some measure of control.

Now it is the biased nature of the UNHRC that forestalls self-scrutiny by Israel of its massive asymmetric use of power in Gaza.   But we should take a closer look.  The UNHRC report was not, as the talking points of the Israeli government insist, the Schabas report, named after the Canadian law professor whose seeming bias led him in February to resign his role as committee chair.  Rather, it was written by New York jurist Mary McGowan-Davis, a former federal prosecutor and New York State Supreme Court justice, along with Senegalese diplomat Doudou Diène.  Given the limitations at hand—neither Israel nor Hamas would allow access to the committee—McGowan-Davis put together a credible account of what transpired in the summer of 2014.  It is not a perfect report.  But it does do what Israel supporters have long complained reports of this nature do not do: it focused attention on both sets of combatants.  The report sets the frame by describing the broad backdrop: “The hostilities of 2014 erupted in the context of the protracted occupation of the West Bank, including East Jerusalem, and the Gaza Strip, and of the increasing number of rocket attacks on Israel.”  Only if one were to deny that there has been an Israeli occupation of Palestinian territory after 1967 would this framing description appear biased. 

The report then moves on to make the following key points:

  • Israel’s blockade of Gaza undermined the fragile economic infrastructure of the Strip, contributing to a sense of extreme desperation;
  • Palestinian rocket attacks and tunnel-building undermined Israelis’ sense of security in their own country;
  • The brutal murders of three Israeli Jewish teenagers in June 2014 and of a Palestinian teenager the next month created an environment boiling over with rage and calls for revenge;
  • In the resulting war in Gaza, “the scale of the devastation was unprecedented;”
  • The use of rockets by Palestinian militants against Israeli civilians was a violation of “international humanitarian law, in particular of the fundamental principle of distinction, which may amount to a war crime;”
  • In six cases investigated, the committee found no justification for Israeli rocket attacks on apartment buildings in Gaza.  To attack a residence inhabited by civilians “in the absence of a specific military target” violates the principle of distinction and, in this case, may be a war crime;  
  • Accountability is sorely lacking.  Israel’s own self-investigations to date have almost always exonerated its own personnel, lending a sense that “impunity prevails across the board for violations of international humanitarian law and international human rights law allegedly committed by Israeli forces;”  
  • Meanwhile, accountability on the Palestinian side is “woefully inadequate.” The Palestinian leadership has “consistently failed to ensure that perpetrators of violations of international humanitarian law and international human rights law are brought to justice.”

 

Contrary to what has been reported—and claimed by the Netanyahu government—this is not a case of the UNHRC picking on Israel unfairly.  Rather, the committee was seeking to capture the underlying casus belli and ensuing scale of destruction set against the vast power differential between the two sides.  It took both sides to task, in proportionate ways, without insisting that the case be remanded immediately to the International Criminal Court.  On the contrary, it called upon “the Government of Israel to conduct a thorough, transparent, objective and credible review of policies governing military operations and of law enforcement activities in the context of the occupation.”  To all those who believe in and/or agitate for Israeli democracy, this seems like a perfectly reasonable and indeed necessary step.


David N. Myers teaches Jewish history at UCLA.

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Samuel Goldman: March 17, 1921 – June 10, 2015

Sam Goldman – Founder and President of Executive Car Leasing Company, philanthropist and family patriarch – passed away peacefully on June 10th, 2015 at the age of 94. He leaves a legacy of notable accomplishment, uncommon integrity, and dedication to the service of others. To his family, friends, and colleagues, Sam remains an ongoing source of tremendous strength and wisdom.

Born in Philadelphia to Jewish immigrant parents, Sam, one of seven children, worked in his family’s produce and fish market as a young boy. At seventeen, he met his lifelong love, Sooky, at a neighborhood dance. After completing high school and heading west to California to seek new opportunities – including a stint driving a Helms Bakery truck with his brother Charles – he returned east to marry Sooky in 1942. That same year, he joined the Army Air Corps as an airplane hydraulics instructor, serving overseas in the South Pacific.

At the conclusion of World War II, Sam and Sooky moved to Los Angeles. A pioneer in the field of vehicle leasing, Sam founded Executive Car Leasing Company in 1954, and Executive quickly became one of the largest and most well-respected independent vehicle leasing companies in California. Sam’s signature charm, decency, and kindness were recognized by all with whom he did business, including Executive’s many celebrity clients, employees, and even competitors.

Always partners in loving support of each other during their inspiring 71 years of marriage, Sam and Sooky raised three children in Beverly Hills, where they moved in 1953. Through their civic engagement they became and remained pillars of the community for over 60 years. They founded or co-founded and supported numerous civic organizations, including The Maple Counseling Center, People Assisting the Homeless, and The Beverly Hills Theatre Guild, as well as the Beverly Hills Fire and Police Associations. Sam and Sooky were also very politically active and helped to launch the careers of numerous outstanding public servants.

Sam was proud and mindful of his heritage, establishing a grant for high school teachers to study Modern Jewish History at the Hebrew University in Israel, was a Member of the Executive Committee of the Anti-Defamation League, which honored him as a Man of the Year, and strongly supported the work of The Jewish Federation, among many others.

One of Sam and Sooky’s most significant and lasting accomplishments was the preservation of Franklin Canyon and its more than 600 acres from development, and its incorporation into the Santa Monica Mountains Conservancy and National Park Service. With the Sam Goldman Amphitheatre and Sooky Goldman Nature Center at its heart, Franklin Canyon now provides an educational resource for thousands of children and families annually and an unspoiled nature refuge for all.

Through many acts of both personal kindness and public generosity, Sam was a model of living the concept of tikun olam (healing the world), living the American dream while always focusing on making the dream possible for others.

Sam was self-educated and a voracious reader who became well-versed in many fields – from finance to politics, art to philosophy. An accomplished gymnast in high school, he transitioned to tennis later in life, and enjoyed the pleasures of playing well into his 80’s. Most of all, he enjoyed dancing with Sooky, a shared passion from the day they met as teenagers.

Primary to Sam were his friends and, above all, his family. He was a devoted husband, father, and grandfather. Sam was predeceased by his beloved Sooky in 2014, and their youngest son, Joel Goldman (Jory Feldman) in 2002. He is survived by his children David Goldman (Myra Lurie) and Kaye Goldman Clarke (Stephen Johnson) and seven grandchildren: Cary (Meri Dunn), Max, Zachary, Seth, Jessie, Eli, and Jonah. To them and all who knew him, Sam Goldman remains an exemplar of a life well-lived.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to a charity of your choice.

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Knesset panel votes to discipline Arab-Israeli lawmaker for joining Gaza flotilla

A Knesset committee voted to discipline an Arab-Israeli lawmaker because he is taking part in a flotilla seeking to break Israel’s blockade of Gaza.

In a 10-2 vote, the House Committee voted Tuesday to suspend Basel Ghattas, a member of the Arab Joint List party, from participation in all Knesset activities other than voting. Its recommendation will be sent to the Ethics Committee.

On Sunday, Ghattas said that he would board one of three boats in Freedom Flotilla III, whose organizers say they are bringing solar panels and medical equipment to Gaza. Ghattas’ participation sparked a spirited two-hour debate in the Knesset on Tuesday, The Jerusalem Post reported.

“Freedom of expression is the foundation on which activity in this House is built,” said the committee’s chairman, David Bitan of the Likud Party, who introduced the motion on Ghattas. “Unfortunately, there are those who take advantage of it to undermine the state and try to embarrass it time after time before the whole world and cause crises while taken advantage of the fact that he has parliamentary immunity.”

Ghattas did not get the necessary approval from the Ethics Committee for his trip, nor has he disclosed its funding source, Bitan added.

During the meeting, Oren Hazan, a Knesset member with Likud, said that “MKs who have trouble obeying the law should return their [Israeli] ID cards and move to the Palestinian Authority. [The flotilla] goes against the State of Israel. It is an anti-Semitic act. If you don’t like it here, you are welcome to leave.”

The Ship to Gaza organization, which is organizing the flotilla, is calling for an immediate end to the naval blockade of Gaza; opening of the Gaza Port; and secure passage for Palestinians between the West Bank and the Gaza Strip.

The group’s first attempt to break the blockade ended in the deaths of nine Turkish activists in May 2010. A second attempt was turned back in October 2012.

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British teens arrested in theft of Auschwitz artifacts

Two British teenagers were arrested in Poland after police found in their backpacks items believed to be stolen from the Auschwitz-Birkenau Museum.

On Monday, museum security guards notified Polish police of the suspected theft of buttons, a fragment of a hair clipper and a piece of a spoon that belonged to prisoners of Birkenau. Police questioned the teens, 17 and 18, with the assistance of a translator.

The teens maintained their innocence, according to Deputy Inspector Mariusz Ciarka of the Malopolska police, but remain in police custody. They are charged with “misappropriation of objects that are artifacts of special cultural significance,” the Krakow Gazette reported.

Ciarka told the local media that the teens do not appear to realize the gravity of their alleged crime and are unfamiliar with “the dramatic history associated with Auschwitz. In contrast, museum staff are particularly sensitive to these types of incidents.”

If found guilty, the teens could be jailed for one to 10 years, though a fine and probation are the more likely punishment.

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Rocket fired from Gaza lands near kibbutz

A rocket fired from the Gaza Strip landed in an open area near a kibbutz in southern Israel not far from the Gaza border.
 
No injuries or damages were reported from the rocket, which landed on Tuesday night, setting off alarms in several Israeli towns near northern Gaza, the Times of Israel reported.
 
The attack follows several similar ones from Gaza in the past month, which are believed to have been fired by Islamic rivals of Hamas, the Islamist terrorist group that governs Gaza. Israel has said it holds Hamas responsible for all attacks originating in Gaza.
 
The rocket comes a day after the United Nations Human Rights Council issued a report accusing both Israel and Hamas of possible war crimes in their Gaza war last summer.

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