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August 15, 2014

Dutch minister suspends official who said Zionists created ISIS

A Dutch government employee who said the ISIS terrorist group was a Zionists conspiracy has been suspended pending further disciplinary steps.

Dutch Justice Minister Ivo Opstelten announced the decision about Yasmina Haifi, a former project manager for the ministry’s Cyber Security Center, on Friday, the news agencies ANP and Novum reported.

On Wednesday, Haifi wrote on Twitter: “ISIS has nothing to do with Islam. It’s part of a plan by Zionists who are deliberately trying to blacken Islam’s name.”

She later removed the statement, citing work-related “sensitivity.” Two rightist lawmakers for the VNL faction said they would query the justice ministry as to whether employing Haifi posed a security threat.

Commenting on Haifi’s statement, Vice Premier Lodewijk Asscher said: “When I heard it it made me sick to my stomach.” Asscher is a member of Dutch Labor, or PvdA, which is also Haifi’s party, according to her personal profile on the social network LinkedIn.

On Friday, Opstelten said: “She will not be returning to this function, not ever,” adding he was “shocked” by the contents of her message. Her statement, he also said, was “incompatible with her responsibilities” and “therefore she was removed. She is not the right person for this job.”

He added: “This is not about what anyone’s own beliefs are but about what one expresses, as a civil servant.”

Haifi’s comments came amid a polarizing public debate in the Netherlands about ISIS following three rallies over the past month in The Hague that featured ISIS flags. Two of the rallies also featured calls to kill Jews and in the third protesters hurled stones at riot police.

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New Zealand election posters defaced with anti-Semitic messages

Campaign billboards in New Zealand were defaced with anti-Semitic slurs about Prime Minister John Key, the son of a Jewish refugee from Europe.

Ahead of the election on Sept. 20, several billboards were daubed earlier this week, local media reported. One billboard was scrawled with the words “Lying Jew c—-sucker” and defaced the image of Key with a black hat and sidelocks.

Key, the leader of the conservative National Party, is seeking a third term in office.

“I just find it disappointing for the Jewish community,” Key, who acknowledges his Jewish ancestry but is not a practicing Jew, told local media. “I have a Jewish past, which is extremely well known. My mother was Jewish, and some of my mother’s family went to the concentration camps. But for the Jewish community in New Zealand, they are hard-working, decent people and they don’t deserve to be brought into some sort of personal campaign that’s directed at me.”

Stephen Goodman, the president of the New Zealand Jewish Council — a body representing the country’s 7,000 Jews — was quoted by the  J-Wire local Jewish blog as saying: “The New Zealand Jewish community is concerned about the rise in anti-Semitic acts and statements being made at present.” He also said: “Recent activity, such as the defacing of John Key’s billboards and actions associated with political rallies, is an unacceptable.”

The incident comes days after Steve Gibson, a candidate for the opposition Labor Party, apologized for posting a message on Facebook describing Key as “Shonky Jonkey Shylock … nasty little creep with a nasty evil and vindictive sneer.”

The post has since been deleted, and Gibson was censured by the Labor leader.

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Watch: Hamas Spokeswoman Admits to Intimidating Journalists

In a Skype  interview with Lebanese TV, Hamas spokeswoman Isra Al-Mudallal acknowledged that Hamas soldiers in Gaza confronted foreign journalists depicting Hamas missile launch sites and gave them a choice: report a different story, or leave.   

“So when they were conducting interviewers,” said Al-Mudallal, ” or when they went on location to report, they would focus on filming the places from where missiles were launched. Thus, they were collaborating with the occupation. These journalists were deported from the Gaza Strip.”

 

Since the current round of conflict in Gaza began, the Israeli press as well as the government have accused the Western media of focusing on the death and injury caused by Israeli attacks, while refusing to depict Hamas fighters and rockets embedded in civilian populations. 

On Friday, Al-Mudallal, in a conversation translated by MEMRI, The Middle East Media Research Institute, confirmed the Israeli accusations that Hamas deceived, threatened, deported and intimidated journalists in Gaza .  

“The security agencies would go and have a chat with these people,” she said. “They would give them some time to change their message, one way or another.

“Some of the journalists who entered the Gaza Strip were under security surveillance,” the spokeswoman said. “Even under these difficult circumstances, we managed to reach them, and tell them that what they were doing was anything but professional journalism, and that it was immoral.”

The sub-titled interview with the Hamas spokeswoman gets especially interesting at the 1:30 mark.

 

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Has Violence Increased or Decreased in the World?

According to a new study in the journal Pediatrics, the violence in PG-13 films has tripled since 1985 and PG-13 films have more violence than R-rated films. Furthermore, we are witnessing an increase of bullying in professional sports and of school bullying. The fact that the 20th century has been reported to be the most violent century in human history should inspire us all toward thoughtful action.

Judaism stresses that we further peace whenever possible.

Hillel would say: Be of the disciples of Aaron—a lover of peace, a pursuer of peace, one who loves the creatures and draws them close to Torah (Pirkei Avot 1:12).

This message is so intrinsic to Judaism that the Rabbis teach that peace (“Shalom”) is a name of G-d.

To be sure, some have suggested that violence is on the decline.  According to data compiled by Harvard psychologist Steven Pinker, a smaller percentage of people die today in battle than ever before in human history. He notes that about 1.2 million deaths are referenced in the Bible. Then he states that the percentage of people killed in battle today is less than one-thousandth of what it was before the era of nation states, from 500 per 100,000 population then to about 1 person per 300,000 today. As for genocide, today the rate has gone down 1,400 times from its most recent height during World War II. Professor Andrew Mack of Simon Fraser University in Canada has documented a similar trend. His research has found that although the number of wars has increased, the number of people killed in these wars declined by about 90 percent over the past 60 years.

Consider, for example, a famous ancient war: Julius Caesar’s conquest of Gaul. Largely a move by Caesar to gain political power in Rome, when the Gauls resisted his efforts to engage in open battle, Caesar retaliated by annihilating a city of nearly 40,000 people. When he finally cornered the Gauls, he deliberately starved the women and children who tried to pass out of the war zone, and after his victory, he murdered one million and sold another million into slavery. We should remember that although Caesar was an extraordinarily cunning political strategist, he was not regarded as especially cruel for his time, and succeeding Roman and other rulers took the title of “Caesar” (including the Russian word tsar and German word Kaiser) into the 20th century.

In addition to war, Professor Pinker maintains that violent crime is also declining. Murder in Europe is now about 1 percent of its murder rate in the 14th and 15th centuries. In the United States, a much more violent society, rape has declined 80 percent in the past 40 years. The domestic murder rate of wives by husbands, while receiving more media attention, has actually declined by nearly half in the past four decades as well. In addition, some significant past crimes, such as lynching, have virtually disappeared from the public consciousness.

Professor Pinker credited a more educated populace and an increase in the number of democratic states for much of this trend. One might also add the end of the Cold War, which reduced the number of client states that would engage in warfare with weapons obtained by the superpowers.

In terms of soldiers, Pinker’s theory is supported by many examples. In America, about 620,000 soldiers died during the Civil War (nearly half of all American war dead in its history), at a time that the United States had a population of about 31 million. Thus, nearly 2 percent of Americans were killed in that war. Similarly, while England suffered heavy losses during World War I, its rate of death was far less than during its own Civil War in the mid-17th century.

However, even Professor Pinker will acknowledge a recent increase in religious-based wars. Violent abuse of minority religious groups occurred in 24 percent of countries in 2007, 38 percent in 2011, and 47 percent in 2012. While Muslim violence is most prevalent, other religions have been involved, such as in Sri Lanka in 2012, where Buddhist monks participated in attacks on Muslim and Christian religious sites. Thus, our observation of an explosion of violence in the Middle East, such as the current crisis where ISIS Islamic militants want to murder tens of thousands of Yazidis, an ethnic and religious Christian minority in Iraq, because they will not convert to Islam, is a disturbing sign of an alarming trend.

While Professors Pinker and Marcus make an interesting academic case, it cannot be denied that much of the 20th century does not fit comfortably in this scenario. Europe was traumatized by the 17 million who died in World War I after nearly a century of relative peace on the continent (the Napoleonic wars having ended in 1814, and much of the subsequent violence transferred to colonial possessions), but a generation later, World War II, cost approximately 60-70 million lives, with civilian deaths outnumbering soldier deaths by nearly three to one. While World War I featured artillery and the machine gun, World War II employed deadlier armaments and tactics, including tanks and a more deadly use of aircraft. In addition to the unspeakable horror of the Holocaust, the war featured coordinated armor and air offensives (blitzkrieg), the bombing and firebombing of cities, and the only use of nuclear weapons in wartime. One can argue that if the time range is expanded slightly, the decreased violence thesis is cohesively less compelling.

Perhaps there is an element of perception involved. Most of us remember the Columbine or the Newtown school massacres, but overall schools are safer than they were twenty years ago. Similarly, many Americans are cognizant of terrorism, even though statistics show that over the past five years, the chances of an American dying in a terrorist attack is 1 in 20 million. Even though these are rare occurrences, the pall of violence hangs over our society, as more deadly weapons present a potential threat. Consider, for example, that when John Wilkes Booth assassinated President Abraham Lincoln in April 1865, he used a derringer, a small single-round pistol that fired a single shell. In contrast, in January 2011 an assassin killed six and wounded fourteen (including Representative Gabby Giffords) with a pistol that had a 31-round extended magazine.

The origins of violence are not clear. Some biologists suggest it is a genetically predictable trait. Development psychologists highlight early childhood. Sociologists point to cultural and societal conditioning. Some blame “secularism,” “feminism,” parenting, extremism, religion, television, video games, you name it.

Perhaps a final lesson is that we should not become inured to images of violence. Video games, “action” movies, and other simulated acts of violence should not translate into physical violence or a callous disregard for suffering. We should never descend to the depths of the Roman Coliseum, where the killing of humans and animals became the leading spectator sport.

We must learn from history. We must strive to reduce violence in all its forms. Each of us has to take responsibility for ourselves and our communities. It may be true that we live in an era with low violence relative to human history as many societies have progressed, and that should give us strength to march forward. Yet, we dare not deceive ourselves that we have reached a healthy national or global state. We still have so far to go.

 

Rabbi Dr. Shmuly Yanklowitz is the Executive Director of the Valley Beit Midrash, the Founder & President of Uri L’Tzedek, the Founder and CEO of The Shamayim V’Aretz Institute and the author of five books on Jewish ethics.  Newsweek named Rav Shmuly one of the top 50 rabbis in America.”

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Faith Doesn’t Mean Denying Your Fear

Faith and fear. Two things that initially seem paradoxical. After all, how can you be afraid if you have faith in G-d?

As an outpatient Oncology nurse working in Israel, I have found myself on the receiving end of sentences such as these many times.

I believe in G-d, it's going to be okay.”

I don't have to worry, I have faith in Hashem.”

Everything is going to be okay, G-d has a plan.”

Inshallah, all will be okay.”

Sentences that sound self assured, full of faith and strength. Yet at the same time, seemingly at odds with the quivering fearful voice delivering the words, words accompanied by pleading worried and tense eyes.

I have many patients who believe in G-d, some orthodox but many not. Most of the believers, at least initially, seem to worry that feeling afraid of their situation is a betrayal of their belief in G-d. After all, how can you truly believe in G-d and still be afraid of what G-d has put on your plate?

I believe in a higher order called G-d. I believe that G-d's order is not human order and that as flesh and blood we don't have enough perspective to see the bigger picture and be comforted by understanding it. Yet I also believe that it's human to fear. It's a part of us. We're born in order to experience. To experience love, fear, sadness, joy and every other emotion available to us.

Think about your daily life and the gamut of emotions you feel in a single day. Just because you have faith in G-d doesn't mean you can't be worried, afraid, angry, depressed or sad.

Which parent hasn't had their stomach sink or their heart skip a beat when their child has hurt themselves or has gone missing for a minute? Who hasn't been afraid when confronted with an angry mob of people? Who hasn't panicked when the doctor calls to discuss your test results?

For more than a month , from the start of Operation Protective Edge, or as I call it, The Gaza War, I've been living with an uneasiness. A feeling like I'm walking on eggs or that at any moment the rug might be pulled out from under my legs and leave me falling and wounded, flat on my back.

It's no wonder. There is something real to fear. Rockets are being fired at us and there are people who hate us and want to kill us. Even now, after we have withdrawn our troops, the rockets and alarms have started up again.

I have faith in G-d but I also live with fear.

I've been traumatized. Whether it's because I couldn't find my daughter on a Friday night after synagogue when a red alert siren went off and I watched helplessly as two iron dome missiles shot down rockets in front of me, or because the security of my country is up in the air, or because I have a son in the army, or because of the non-stop rise of anti-semitic attacks worldwide or because every single soldier and civilian killed has caused me pain and sadness, whatever the reason, it doesn't matter.

Everyday noises have started sounding like the beginning of a siren alert. A plane flies overhead and without even realizing why my body tenses up. The air conditioner's squeaky wheeze makes me jump.

Even though I believe in G-d, at times I am afraid. Sometimes even panicked. And for the past month, I've been walking around with a heavy heart that seems to be filling with lead. Lead as real as the bullets and rockets being fired at us.

Every car that stops in front of my house in the quiet of the night causes me to hold my breath. Let it be nothing I mumble in my head, willing the car to go away and for the passengers to knock on any door but mine. And then I feel terrible and selfish because I don't want anyone else in pain. What's funny is that I truly believe and have faith that my son in the army is going to be okay and will stay safe. I believe, yet at the same time, something in my human wiring is uneasy.

But I digress as I easily sink into my fears and worries. And that's where belief comes in. You need to be able to feel your fear and accept it. Only when you have done that can you begin to put your belief into action.

I've made the decision to stop trying to reconcile my beliefs with my fears and instead to just make peace with the seeming paradox that my faith and fear can go hand in hand.

Mi Shemameen Lo Mifached

Et Ha'Emunah L'Abeid

“He who believes is not afraid to lose his faith.” Is the chorus to a popular Israeli song.

I say, “He who believes is not afraid to be afraid.”

It's human to fear. Maybe fear is just another G-d given tool to remind us of what is important in our lives. A tool to help us focus. A tool to bring us closer to G-d because it reminds us that we believe in a higher power even though we don't understand it.

So feel your fear. Accept it. Live with it, yet give your faith equal time as well.

Susie (Newday) Mayerfeld is a happily married American born, Israeli mother of 5. She is an oncology nurse, blogger and an avid amauter photographer. Mostly she just wants to live in peace and spread kindness and love. You can find her on her blog New Day New Lesson or on World Moms Blog.

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Suicide Contagion in the Age of Social Media

In every life we have some trouble
When you worry you make it double
Don’t worry. Be happy.

It will soon pass, whatever it is.
Don’t worry. Be happy.
– Bobby McFerrin

Much has already been written in reaction to Robin Williams’s untimely death, about his incandescent talent, his prolific career, his decency and kindness, his addiction and his mental illness. His death robbed his fans of many more years of his genius and, of course, inflicted permanent grief on his loved ones.

In Johann Goethe’s 1774 novel The Sorrows of Young Werther the protagonist shoots and kills himself after the woman he loves marries another man. The novel became very popular. In the following years many young men in Europe committed suicide by dressing precisely as Werther is described in the novel and shooting themselves. The concept of suicide contagion was first described at that time, the idea that the romantic or idealized description of a suicide could trigger suicide in a susceptible person.

In the 1980s the media in Vienna was abuzz with extensive and dramatic coverage of the deaths of people who jumped in front of subway trains. In 1987 an educational campaign alerted reporters to the possible phenomenon of suicide contagion. The reporters were asked to use more neutral, less dramatic language, and to focus more on the victims’ lives rather than on the details of their deaths. In the subsequent six months, subway suicides and non-fatal suicide attempts dropped by more than 80%, and the total number of suicides in Vienna also decreased.

No one suggests that these stories cause suicide in mentally healthy readers. The victims of suicide contagion are clearly depressed and may already be suicidal. The theory is that stories that make suicide seem very prevalent, heroic or romantic give permission to suicidal readers to act on their impulse.

The magnitude and specific mechanism for this effect is, of course, difficult to study. Randomized studies obviously can’t be done, and some researchers argue that the evidence for suicide contagion is overblown. Nevertheless, mental health professionals and public health officials have compiled ” target=”_blank”>most recently of Robin Williams’s daughter). And because the public hasn’t been educated to consider suicide contagion, we inadvertently spread potentially dangerous messages.

” target=”_blank”>What happens when a suicide is highly publicized in the wrong way: The suicide contagion effect (Washington Post)
” target=”_blank”>Suicide contagion and social media: The dangers of sharing ‘Genie, you’re free’ (Washington Post)
” target=”_blank”>Cyberbullying pushes Zelda Williams to leave social media (Colorado 9 News)
” target=”_blank”>Don’t Worry Be Happy (the video to Bobby McFerrin’s song featuring Robin Williams)

 
 

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What a dying business in Sderot looks like, even during cease-fire

In a narrow alleyway just next to Begin Square in the center of this Israeli city, shops, cafes and bakeries are so tightly packed together that with every few steps brings a new business.

These merchants have, for years, been accustomed to the inhospitable reality of life in Sderot. By virtue of its proximity to Gaza (Begin Square is two miles from the border), normal daily activities are routinely interrupted by a screeching siren that gives residents a 10 to 15 second warning to shelter themselves from a rocket that was fired seconds earlier from within the Hamas-run Gaza Strip.

Those interruptions, which have made life here grim, have made doing business here nearly impossible for many shopkeepers. On Thursday, even as the city was enjoying its fourth day of calm—with a new cease fire possibly ensuring an additional five—the sight of gray metal shutters in front of nearly every shop in this alleyway was a stark reminder that this city’s store owners know better than to think that temporary quiet will soon bring customers back.

“I can’t continue like this. It’s hard,” said Moshe Yifrach, 21, who helps manage his family’s image and photography store, “Agfa Image Center.” He was one of the few shopkeepers who decided to remain open into the mid-afternoon and was the only person in the store. But, with little or no business up to that point on Thursday, his decision to keep the lights on may not have particularly mattered.

The Yifrachs produce photographs, create albums and assist with images for passports, weddings and bar and bat mitzvahs. Behind the counter on shelves sat rows of albums and frames in varying colors

Moshe Yifrach helps his father run the family's Sderot store. He said sales have dropped 70 percent this summer.

When life in Sderot is relatively normal, Yifrach said that his family serves between 50 to 70 customers and earns about 3,000 to 4,000 thousand Shekels per day. This summer, though, during Israel’s most recent battle with Hamas, in which nearly 3,000 rockets have fallen in and around Israeli cities, he said sales have dropped by about 70 percent and customers have come in at a trickling pace.

Some residents here left amidst the chaos for some respite in towns further north and many simply no longer feel confident in venturing into the city. Tourism, meanwhile, has plummeted, with most visitors coming from abroad on solidarity missions, not nearly enough to compensate for the many Israelis who no longer travel south for a few pleasurable days in the country’s southern desert region.

The family has two other stores, in Jerusalem and Kiryat Gat, so Yifrach said he, his parents and 11 siblings could get by without their Sderot store.

“We have other places, so we have it easier than others,” Yifrach said. “But the ones that have only here and nowhere else, it’s very hard.”

Even during the height of the war in July and early August, Yifrach’s father kept the store open. When a red alert siren blared, whoever was in the shop would shelter in the doorway or underneath the awning that encloses the alley outside—the nearest shelter is more than 15 seconds from the store, not enough time for him or any customers to safely reach before the Qassam makes impact.

While a cease-fire that produces calm for an extended period would likely improve business for the Yifrachs if residents and tourists begin to return, he sees no long-term relief for his family’s business.

Agfa Image Center

Yifrach, like so many Israelis, particularly in the south, wants the government to order the military to destroy Hamas and end the rocket attacks. That step appears increasingly unlikely, though, following the complete removal of ground troops on Aug. 5 and the moderate progress of truce negotiations in Cairo.

“There’s no solution,” Yifrach said. “If you want to have a cease fire, so for a year it will be fine and everything will be good. [But] slowly, slowly [Hamas] will advance.” He predicts that the terrorist group will use the calm to improve its rocket arsenal to create Sderot-like situations as far north as Tel Aviv and Haifa.

That, Yifrach said, is one reason he sees no point in moving further north. “I don’t think that in the north it’s much better because there too you have Hezbollah,” he said. The quasi-governmental Lebanese terrorist organization has tens of thousands of missiles and rockets and has the capability to reach Eilat, Israel’s southernmost city. In Israel’s 2006 war with Hezbollah, approximately 15 Haifa residents were killed in missile and rocket attacks.

“I will stay in the south. This is my house and here I’m going to stay,” Yifrach said briskly.

Asked, though, how much longer his family’s store can survive in Sderot under current conditions, he responded, “Half a year, no more.”

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Rosner’s Torah-Talk: Parashat Eikev with Rabbi Robert Dobrusin

Our guest this week is Rabbi Robert Dobrusin of the Temple Beth Israel congregation in Ann Arbor, Michigan. Rabbi Dobrusin has served as Rabbi at Beth Israel since 1988. He received his B.A. in Near Eastern and Judaic Studies from Brandeis University and an M.A. and Rabbinic ordination from the Jewish Theological Seminary of America. In 2010, he received an honorary Doctor of Divinity Degree from JTS. Rabbi Dobrusin is an active supporter of many different Jewish organizations and has served in the past as co-chair for T’ruah: A Rabbinic Call For Human Rights. He is a founding member of the Interfaith Round Table of Washtenaw County and has served on the board of directors for several other community agencies. He also blogs at rabbirobdobrusinblog.wordpress.com.

In this Week's Torah Portion- Parashat Eikev (Deuteronomy 7:12-11:25)- Moses continues his address to the people of Israel, promising them that they will prosper in the land of Israel if they obey God's commandments. He reminds them of their sins, but stresses God's forgiveness. Moses describes the land of Israel to the people, demands that they destroy the idols of its former dwellers, and warns them of thinking that their power and might, rather than the lord, have gotten them their wealth.  Our discussion focuses on a very curious line in the portion which mentions that the clothes the people of Israel wore in the desert “did not wear out” and on the idea that it alludes to faith in God and the importance of allowing our faith to grow with us and adapt to different circumstances in our lives.

If you would like to learn some more about parashat Eikev, take a look at our discussion with Rabbi Brad Hirschfield.

 

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What it Means to Be the Seed of Abraham

In last week’s and this week’s Torah readings the Israelites are told what they are to do when they enter the land promised to Abraham; namely, to dislodge every people and nation living there, to defeat and destroy them, to grant them no terms, give them no quarter, and feel no pity – to obliterate their sacred places, to consign their idols to fire, and wipe them out utterly and completely.

As Ekev begins this week we read of the blessings that will come from these multiple acts of violence against the indigenous and idolatrous peoples that the Israelites encounter.

Thankfully, this excessive militancy is balanced by the attribute of compassion elsewhere in the Hebrew Bible and throughout rabbinic tradition. Our sages teach, in fact, that if there is too much harsh judgment and too little compassion the world will be destroyed, just as too much empathy and too few just standards will sink the world into chaos. A proper balance between din and rachamim is therefore essential to the survival and well-being of the community itself.

The Sefer Hachinukh says that “kindness and mercy are among the most worthy qualities in the world…[and if someone would…] teach himself to be cruel he would attest about himself that he is not a Jew, for we are rachmanim b’nai rachmanim – compassionate children of compassionate parents.” (Mishpatim 42, based on the Bavli, Kiddushin 4a)

The Zohar emphasizes this virtue when it says that Jacob became Yisrael after his struggle at the river Jabbok only in order to attach himself to the quality of compassion. (1:174a) The Talmud is categorical – “One who shows no compassion, it is known that he is not of the seed of Abraham.” (Bavli, Beitzah 32b)

In a recent essay, Rabbi David Seidenberg wrote:

“Hamas members, being Muslim, are also of the seed of Abraham. That Hamas has been hiding rockets in schools, daring Israel to fire on places that should be safe. That Hamas used concrete to build miles of tunnels and no public bomb shelters. And that Hamas’ lack of compassion, to their own people and to Israeli civilians, shows that they are neither true Muslims, nor of the spiritual seed of Abraham.”

We Jews, of course, have our own hard-hearted fanatics who care little about others and little about the innocent Palestinians who have been caught tragically in the cross-fire.

Three weeks ago, Rabbi Dov Lior, a leading West Bank rabbi in the settlement of Kiryat Arba  who had written a book justifying the killing of non-Jews, issued a religious ruling saying that Jewish law permits the destruction of Gaza to keep southern Israel safe, and that the army may “take crushing deterring steps to exterminate the enemy.” (Jewish Telegraphic Agency – July 24, 2014).

This Jewish version of a fatwa is shocking in and of itself, and when he added the word “exterminate” given our own Jewish experience in the Holocaust, it is doubly disturbing and reprehensible.

In response, Meretz party leader Zahava Gal-On asked Israel’s Attorney General to launch an investigation against Lior for incitement.

Another hareidi rabbi, Yisroel Yitzchok Kalmanovitz, of the fanatical Lithuanian Jerusalemite sect, turned his hard-heartedness not on Hamas fighters, as one might expect, but on non-religious Israeli soldiers saying that it is better for them to die in Gaza as “martyrs” than it is for them to lie and continue to sin.

At the same time, I was relieved to see that many hareidi Jews prayed for the welfare of all our soldiers in this war.

For us, the question must always be – ‘How does the tension between judgment and compassion play out in our hearts, in our relationships with those near and dear to us, with  friends, co-workers and colleagues, with our community, with the stranger, and even with our legitimate enemies?’

The famous midrash from the Passover Seder is a reminder of what tradition requires of us – to refrain from celebrating when our enemies perish, and to open the heart to all human suffering whether it be in southern Israel, Gaza, the West Bank, Iraq, Afghanistan, Syria, the Congo, Sudan, or on the streets of Hollywood.  

The way we answer that question and the way we open our hearts to others will determine not just the nature of our Jewishness but of our humanity.

Shabbat shalom!

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The Other Why Me

So my car was smashed, the other day, with me in it.  I walked away.  Why me?


How did all of us get to be so lucky/blessed on that day?  An out-of-control van drove across lanes of freeway rush hour traffic, breaking cars, and (to my knowledge) no living being was harmed.


I’ve always rejected crude theodicies (explanations for why good people suffer and evildoers get away with murder).  Theodicies that regard misfortunes like illness and injuries to be yesurin (chastisements) for bad deeds make little sense to me in a post-Shoah world.  It is manifestly untrue from where I sit that we make our own realities or that God never gives us more than we can handle.  Decent people get broken in half by life all the time.


My friend and teacher Rabbi Doctor Rachel Adler points me to Talmud Bavli Berakhot 5a/b.  The “a” side of the daf (page) records the ruminations of rabbis trying to articulate a theodicy of illness and pain.  Here is a representative opinion: Raba (some say, R. Hisda) says: If a man sees that painful sufferings visit him, let him examine his conduct. For it is said: Let us search and try our ways, and return unto the Lord. (Lamentations 3:40) If he examines and finds nothing [objectionable], let him attribute it to the neglect of the study of the Torah. For it is said: Happy is the man whom You chastise, Adonai, and teach out of Your law. (Psalm 94:12) If he did attribute it [thus], and still did not find [this to be the cause], let him be sure that these are chastenings of love. For it is said: The person God loves, God rebukes. (Proverbs 3:12)


Then we turn to the other side of the page, the “b” side.  We read: R. Eleazar fell ill and R. Johanan went in to visit him. He noticed that he was lying in a dark room, and he bared his arm and light radiated from it. Thereupon he noticed that R. Eleazar was weeping, and he said to him: Why do you weep? Is it because you did not study enough Torah? Surely we learnt: The one who sacrifices much and the one who sacrifices little have the same merit, provided that the heart is directed to heaven.  Is it perhaps lack of sustenance? Not everybody has the privilege to enjoy two tables.  Is it perhaps because of [the lack of] children? This is the bone of my tenth son! — He replied to him: I am weeping on account of this beauty (that is, R. Johanan’s beauty) that is going to rot in the earth. He said to him: On that account you surely have a reason to weep; and they both wept together. In the meanwhile he said to him: Are your sufferings welcome to you? — He replied: Neither they nor their reward. He said to him: Give me your hand, and he gave him his hand and he raised him.


When the rabbis themselves get sick, what they need is not some Job’s friend helpfully listing all the reasons why they might deserve to be miserable.  They need a friend to take their hand.  As the text goes on to say, the prisoner cannot escape by himself.  When caught in a circle of woe, most of us need someone else to reach in and guide us out or, at least, be there with us for a while.


So that’s when things like illness and injury are bad.  Not your fault.  Not mine.


But what about when it looks as though we’ve been delivered by something stronger than any human hand?


Reflexively, I say, Thank God.  Thank God no one was hurt.  It would be so easy to spin a narrative of meaning, to believe that I, along with everyone else in the accident, was spared “for a reason.”  But those 10 people“>good fortune of having been born into this time and place in which I get my own airy space with a window that opens on beauty and a door that locks; where I get to eat fresh fruit all year round and am (mostly) assured that my life will not be interrupted by air raid sirens and the threat of death (as it might be in Tel Aviv) or by a return “home” to rubble covering city blocks, festering with death (as it surely it would be in Gaza).  How could I “merit” an accident of birth?


Saner by far to accept the answer of Isaiah and Job—when my consciousness can span galaxies and universal dimensions, then maybe I can hope to understand. Absent that, the best I can do is try to leave my bit of this world a little nicer than I found it, counting on the One Who is beyond all space and time.  All I know is that I did walk away from a 3-car accident able to live another day.  I was born into a time in place in which I have the opportunity to earn my way in the world, to learn and share Torah and to speak with you like this.  What I do with that chance is up to me.  Thank God.

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