Life without Keren: an interview with Rivana Tendler, who lost her daughter in Second Lebanon War
On this Memorial Day, I would like to tell you the story of Sergeant Major Keren Tendler, who died on August 12, 2006, during the Second Lebanon War. Her mother, Rivana Tendler, told me the story of a bright young girl who suddenly was no more, and shared the reality of life without her.
How do you commemorate Keren?
“We do all in our power to commemorate her. There is a garden in our city, Rehovot, in her name. It was founded partially by the municipality and partially by World ORT and other donations. It is located in the garden where she went on her runs and exercised. World ORT also graciously agreed to grant a yearly scholarship under Keren’s name to a student who finished her military service and is studying engineering or law. The college where she studied law is also granting a scholarship under her name. There is also a memorial there. There is a seminar for young girls in Ra’anana, Israel, that is named after her, a movie about her, a memorial in her high school. There are Jewish communities in the U.S. that commemorate her, and I talk about her at every chance I get. I try to keep her memory alive, and even this article is a commemoration of Keren.”
Why is the commemoration so important to you?
“This is how we keep her memory, her name, fresh in people’s hearts and minds. I am sure people remember this one-of–a-kind young woman, but why not help them remember her even better? Every time her name is mentioned, I find it very important. There is the collective memory on National Memorial Day and through a memorial for all the fallen soldiers of that war, but the personal things are more important to me. Every memory matters.”
Watch “She Touched the Sky” – a memorial movie dedicated to Keren (English subtitles.) May she rest in peace.
Rosner’s Torah-Talk: Parashat Emor with Rabbi Ted Falcon
Our guest this week, Rabbi Ted Falcon, was ordained in 1968 at the Hebrew Union College–Jewish Institute of Religion in Cincinnati. After his ordination, Rabbi Falcon served in Los Angeles as a congregational rabbi and then as a campus rabbi. In 1975 he earned a doctorate in Professional Psychology, and in 1978 he founded the first meditative Reform congregation. He moved to Seattle in 1993, where he also founded a meditative synagogue. He is the author of A Journey of Awakening: Kabbalistic Meditations on the Tree of Life and co-author, with David Blatner, of Judaism For Dummies. He was the Scholar-in-Residence at Unity of Bellevue in 2010 and 2011, and has a private spiritual counselling practice. Since 9/11, Rabbi Flacon has also been lecturing and writing, together with Imam Jamal Rahman and Pastor Don Mackenzie, as part of the Interfaith Amigos, an interfaith dialogue project.
This week's Torah Portion – Parashat Emor (Leviticus 21:1-24:23) – begins with a set of purity regulations for priests. It then continues to list the main high holidays and to tell the story of a blasphemer who is stoned to death by the community. Our discussion focuses, among other things, on the idea of experiencing holiness and spirituality beyond the realm of religious ritual and on the mystical significance of the counting of the Omer.
If you would like to learn some more about Parashat Emor, check out our discussion with Rabba Sara Hurwitz.
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Political fever rises as Ukraine breaks apart
Cross the Crimean sparkling wine off the list. The lingerie from Luhansk and felt boots from Donetsk could be next.
Financial journalist Yulia Sarotsyna spent a year living only off products made in Ukraine for a relentlessly upbeat blog to promote local brands. On the road for five months, she found toothbrushes from Kharkiv, sausage in the north, and even snails in the capital Kiev: “I discovered that Ukraine produces absolutely everything for a comfortable life,” she wrote.
But two weeks after she finished her project, an uprising forced Ukraine's pro-Russian president to flee the country. Moscow responded by seizing and annexing the Crimean peninsula in the Black Sea. Pro-Russian separatists have declared an independent “People's Republic of Donetsk” in the east and seized towns and cities while police were helpless to stop them.
Tens of thousands of Russian troops are massed on the frontier, with President Vladimir Putin openly threatening to invade to protect Russian speakers. A nation of 45 million people on a territory the size of France is falling apart.
Sarotsyna shelved around 20 of her product reviews because the tone seemed inappropriate when people were getting killed.
“We could not even agree whether it was right to write cheerful pieces about our latest offering because it may offend those people who are fighting for the right to live in a normal country and are suffering because of it,” she wrote.
Her later posts were given a more explicitly political slant. One is labeled: “Economic patriotism: How to defeat Russia without leaving the supermarket.”
EVERYTHING IS UNCERTAIN
Not only has Ukraine lost territory and found itself facing the threat of losing more, the crisis has undermined the entire concept of national unity in a country that has struggled to form an identity since emerging from the Soviet Union in 1991.
Questions that once seemed trivial now create intense political passion. Many Ukrainians describe a feeling of disorientation that has penetrated deeply into a young country that was still searching for its place in the world.
“Everything is uncertain now, and that gets to you,” said 42-year-old Oleksander Kleimenov, a television producer in the Ukrainian capital.
“It's hard to figure out who is speaking the truth and who isn't. Whether people are saying one thing but actually mean another, or say one thing to make you think they believe something else when actually they are doing a third thing. It is incredibly hard to know who to trust.”
Ukraine has a thousand-year history as a state, but spent centuries carved up by neighbors Russia, Poland, Lithuania and Austria. Its current borders were drawn by Bolshevik commissars out of provinces of the former Russian and Austrian empires.
It endured perhaps the worst 20th century of any place on earth. Millions perished in a famine engineered by Stalin in the 1930s, when Ukrainian peasants were forced into collective farms and shot for class crimes like owning a cow.
During World War Two, German occupiers wiped whole villages off the map, besieged Ukraine's cities and extinguished the entire culture of its Jews. Then, returning Soviet forces exacted revenge on suspected collaborators. New territories were annexed from interwar Poland and ethnically cleansed. Nationalist partisans kept fighting Soviet rule for decades.
Since the fall of the Soviet Union, much of that grim history seemed to recede. Kiev became a pleasant capital city, with bars open late. Ukraine won the Eurovision song contest in 2004 and placed second twice since. In 2012 it co-hosted the European soccer cup jointly with Poland.
But the violent uprising that toppled pro-Russian President Viktor Yanukovich in February and the loss of territory that followed have resurrected the animosities from its older history. People are now quick to describe their foes with the language of “treason”, “fascism” and “collaboration”.
In parliament debate is often reduced to cat-calling over who should take the blame for failing to crush the pro-Russian uprising in the east and for losing Crimea.
A security source said it was almost impossible to get direction from a chamber so deeply split. At a closed sitting last month to discuss Ukraine's flagging “anti-terrorist operation” in the east, the source said half the chamber supported bolstering it, while the other half wanted it eased.
After spending weeks avoiding the limelight, members of Yanukovich's Party of the Regions have regained confidence and are again asserting themselves as defenders of Russian speakers. While they do not support secession for the east, they blame Kiev for provoking separatism by ignoring legitimate demands.
“The authorities are dead to the demands of their own people,” Mykola Levchenko told a briefing on Tuesday.
Meanwhile, those who helped topple Yanukovich are growing increasingly angry at the government for failing to stop the east of the country slipping out of its grasp.
At Kiev's central square, where shrines memorialize the “heavenly hundred” killed during the final week of protests against Yanukovich, activists like Oleksei Kripkov call the Rada, or parliament, the “Zrada” – Ukrainian for “treason”.
A former miner, he said his house has been burned down in his native Luhansk, near the Russian border, because of his participation in the revolt against Yanukovich. He and other members of Ukraine's “self-defense force” will stand their ground, manning their green army tents and field kitchens until a presidential election due on May 25.
“If the new president is not to our liking we will get rid of him straight away,” the 39-year-old said. “They answer to us, we are the ones who turned things around, we got them in power.”
Two months after the fall of Yanukovich, the protest camp is starting to appear out of place as cafes along Kiev's main thoroughfare again put tables and chairs onto the pavements.
Some residents fear the activists' camp offers cover for criminals and thugs. One gay man, who asked not to be identified for security reasons, said he was attacked after talking to a man in an Internet chatroom. He later saw his attackers milling around the city center, carrying his rucksack and mobile phone.
The police said they had no information on the number of attacks in Kiev over the last two months.
MORE FRACTURES
Plans to hold an election for president on May 25 are likely to create more fractures in society, by pitting groups that had united to oppose Yanukovich against each other.
According to opinion polls, confectionary tycoon Petro Poroshenko, who briefly served as Yanukovich's economy minister but supported the pro-European uprising, is the frontrunner.
Yulia Tymoshenko, a divisive former prime minister who was imprisoned by Yanukovich, is a distant second. Some of her opponents suggest that she might try to prevent the election from taking place if she thinks she will lose, although her supporters deny she would do such a thing.
Both leading contenders are veteran oligarchs who became wealthy mixing business and politics in the chaotic post Soviet years. Ukrainians who hoped for new leadership are despairing.
“There is no choice. I just want to vote for someone who will take on the police and the courts. Without the rule of law there is no trust, and these are the most corrupt institutions,” Kleimenov said.
Sarotsyna, meanwhile, is still urging unity by promoting Ukrainian products. Last month she pitched domestic lingerie as a “pleasurable and patriotic” International Women's Day gift.
“Panties are our secret weapon in the struggle against the enemy,” Sarotsyna wrote.
Additional reporting by Sergei Karazy and Natalia Zinets in Kiev; Editing by Peter Graff
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Embassy distances itself from Danon attack on Kerry
Israel’s envoy to Washington rejected a charge by Israel’s deputy defense minister that U.S. Secretary of State John Kerry was attempting to “scare” Israelis into a peace deal.
“Deputy Minister Danny Danon’s views of Secretary Kerry do not reflect the views of the Government of Israel,” Ambassador Ron Dermer said in a statement Thursday.
“Israel deeply appreciates Secretary Kerry’s efforts to advance peace with the Palestinians,” the statement said. “We do not believe that Secretary Kerry has tried to threaten Israel, and we believe that his decades of support for Israel reflect an abiding commitment to Israel’s security and its future.”
In an op-ed in Politico this week, Danon said Kerry’s claim last weekend that failure to reach a peace deal could lead Israel into becoming an apartheid state was part of a pattern in which Kerry tries “to scare the Israeli public into capitulation.”
Kerry, who made the apartheid comment in a private meeting of Western leaders, spoke in the days after the collapse of peace talks he had launched nine months ago. He later said his use of the word “apartheid” was inappropriate.
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U.S. House committee subpoenas Kerry over Benghazi
The U.S. House of Representatives' Oversight Committee has issued a subpoena for Secretary of State John Kerry to testify at a May 21 public hearing concerning the 2012 attack on the U.S. consulate in Benghazi, Libya, the committee said on Friday.
Committee Chairman Darrell Issa said the panel wanted Kerry to answer questions about the State Department's response to the congressional investigation of the Benghazi attack.
Issa, a California Republican, said the State Department has not fully complied with previous subpoenas for documents related to the attack on Sept. 11, 2012, that killed four Americans.
Separately, House Speaker John Boehner, said he intends for the House to vote to create a new select committee to investigate the Benghazi incident.
The Benghazi attack has become a political issue for Republicans, who say President Barack Obama's administration did not do enough to help the Americans in Benghazi and then focused on protecting Obama's image during an election year.
The Kerry subpoena came a few days after Obama critics pounced on emails from U.S. officials released by the conservative watchdog group Judicial Watch on Tuesday. The group said the emails showed the White House was concerned primarily with image issues.
“The fact that these documents were withheld from Congress for more than 19 months is alarming,” Issa said in a letter to Kerry accompanying the subpoena. “The Department is not entitled to delay responsive materials because it is embarrassing or implicates the roles and actions of senior officials.”
Issa also said the State Department had shown “a disturbing disregard” for its obligations to Congress.
Benghazi also has political implications for Hillary Clinton, who was secretary of state at the time of the attack and is a likely presidential candidate in 2016.
Reporting by Patricia Zengerle, editing by Bill Trott and G Crosse
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Obama cites Kansas City killings in heritage month proclamation
The Kansas City shootings are a reminder that Americans must come together to reject intolerance, President Obama said in his Jewish heritage month proclamation.
“Jewish communities continue to confront anti-Semitism — both around the world and, as tragic events mere weeks ago in Kansas reminded us, here in the United States,” Obama said in his, proclamation declaring May Jewish American Heritage Month, issued April 30.
“Following in the footsteps of Jewish civil rights leaders, we must come together across all faiths, reject ignorance and intolerance, and root out hatred wherever it exists,” he said.
The FBI director in a speech this week to the Anti-Defamation League’s Washington summit also made a key point of the three killings last month at two Jewish sites in the Kansas City suburb of Overland Park.
“We must do everything in our power — in government, in law enforcement, and in society — to stop them,” James Comey said of extremist attackers.
“We must do everything in our power to educate people about diversity and the strength that comes from our differences,” he said. “And we must do everything in our power to bring those who act on such hatred to justice.”
In the White House message, Obama also noted how Jews, despite hardships, “have maintained their holy covenant and lived according to the Torah.” He also said the occasion was a time to “renew our unbreakable bond with the nation of Israel.”
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How to get the cheapest flight to Israel
Book on a Monday. Fly on Saturday. And stop over in Kiev or Moscow on the way.
If you want to get to Israel cheaply, these are some of the key pieces advice from Boston-based Hopper, a start-up that analyzes flight data.
Based on a recent analysis of 4,938,256 round-trip airfares from flight searches made between March 30 and April 27 for trips between April 27 and Sept. 30, 2014 that include a Saturday night stay, Hopper determined that the cheapest round-trip flights to Israel from New York-JFK are selling for about $924.
The most popular airlines with stops are Ukraine International Airlines, Transaero Airlines (Russia), Turkish Airlines, LOT Polish Airlines and Aeroflot Russian Airlines. Over the next six months, the cheapest fares on those carriers were in the $517-$795 range. Bear in mind that Ukraine and Russia are practically at war these days, so caveat emptor.
El Al, Delta and United fly to Israel directly. (The analysis did not include flights to Israel from Newark.) The cheapest direct flights over the next six months are in the $962-$1,012 range.
Booking on a Monday can save you up to $12, and flying on Saturdays can save you up to $138.
If you find flying into Tel Aviv’s Ben Gurion Airport too expensive, you can always expand your search to nearby airports, like Queen Alia International in Amman. It’s less than two hours from Jerusalem by car. Of course, that doesn’t include the extra cost, time or hassle of the overland border crossing at the Allenby Bridge between Jordan and the West Bank.
Bon voyage!
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Pink Floyd founders urge Rolling Stones to cancel Israel concert
Two founding members of the Pink Floyd rock band called on their colleagues from The Rolling Stones to cancel a concert in Israel.
Roger Waters and Nick Mason made the call in an op-ed that was published Thursday on Salon.com.
“Playing Israel now is the moral equivalent of playing Sun City at the height of South African apartheid,” wrote the men, who described themselves as “the two surviving founders of Pink Floyd.”
The op-ed says it was written in light of “the recent news that the Rolling Stones will be playing their first-ever concert in Israel, and at what is a critical time in the global struggle for Palestinian freedom and equal rights.”
The Stones are scheduled to perform June 4 at Tel Aviv’s Hayarkon Park.
Roger Waters is a longtime advocate of the Boycott, Divestment and Sanctions campaign. Over the past year, he has come under criticism from several Jewish groups, including the Anti-Defamation League, which accused him of anti-Semitism – an accusation he has denied.
Waters has used a pig-shaped balloon emblazoned with the Star of David at his concerts.
The Simon Wiesenthal Center said the pig display was a symbol of “Jew hatred” but the ADL said it was merely disquieting and not necessarily anti-Semitic. Waters said the Star of David was meant to signify what he called Israeli oppression, not Judaism.
He later said: “The Jewish lobby is extraordinarily powerful here and particularly in the industry that I work in, the music industry and in rock ‘n’ roll, as they say.”
Following these statements, ADL National Director Abe Foxman said in December that “judging by his remarks, Roger Waters has absorbed classic anti-Semitic conspiracy theories, and these have now seeped into the totality of his views.” Foxman added that “How sad that a creative genius could become so perverted by his own narrow-minded bigotry.”
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Fact checking J Street and its critics
What to make of the failure of J Street to gain entry into the Conference of Presidents? Let’s do a little fact checking.
1) Claim: J Street is beyond the communal pale
J Street might not have rounded up the votes, but in defeat it put to bed the argument that the group falls outside of the communal mainstream. If the Reform movement, the Conservative movement, the Anti-Defamation League and the Jewish Council of Public Affairs (a body bringing together the largest synagogue movements, several national organizations and scores of local community relations councils) say you belong in the Conference of Presidents, then by definition you are operating within the communal tent. You got a problem with that? Don’t shoot the messenger — take it up with all of the above, not to mention the prominent Jewish and Israeli figures associated with the organization.
2) Claim: J Street is more left wing than the other dovish members in the Conference of Presidents
I’ve heard the arguments, but I don’t see it. Other groups in the conference have pushed for the U.S. government to exert pressure on Israel. J Street hasn’t endorsed a settlement, or even sort of endorsed settlement boycott, as opposed to Americans for Peace Now. And in sticking by the Obama administration’s side on Iran through various policy shifts, J Street has at times found itself to the right of some of those on the left in the Conference.
3) Claim: J Street is just like any other left-wing group
Well, no. When it launched several years ago, J Street came out swinging — not just at Israeli policies it thought were dangerous, but also at the Jewish establishment. The group has demonstrated a willingness to take aim at individuals and individual organizations, some of whom have long memories and sharp elbows. The group and its supporters are outraged by any suggestion that J Street is not pro-Israel, but have no problem questioning others’ commitment to peace. J Street hosts BDS supporters at its conference in the name of dialogue and the big tent, but has publicly pressured others to boycott Pastor John Hagee and shun the support of pro-Israel evangelicals.
So, yeah, J Street might fall within the conference’s and the community’s existing political spectrum, but the group sure has a way of getting under people’s skin.
If you’re looking for another example of why, just check out this statement from J Street in response to the vote:
So join us in thanking Malcolm Hoenlein for for clarifying this situation and revealing to all what we’ve long known: a new voice is needed to represent the true majority of American Jews – and non-Jewish supporters of an Israel at peace.
First off, why make it all about Hoenlein, the conference’s chief executive? By all accounts that I have seen or heard, whatever Hoenlein thinks about J Street, this process for better or worse was driven by the 50 member organizations, with plenty of openness and debate. Secondly, why not use the electoral defeat as a way to dispel the notion that you are a sanctimonious organization that is incapable of playing nice with others (not an unimportant trait when you are trying to gain admittance to a politically and religiously diverse consensus-driven organization)? Maybe something like: “While disappointed that we failed to gain admission this time around, we appreciate the opportunity to apply and look forward to reopening the conversation at some point down the road. Meanwhile, we hope to find ways to work with our fellow Jewish groups as we devote ourselves to securing peaceful and democratic future for Israel.”
Even some of those who voted for J Street have expressed frustration and/or disgust with the way the organization has at times conducted itself.
Of course, I can think of one or two right-wing members of the conference who are similarly skilled at driving folks crazy. But J Street is the one currently on the outside looking in. So to paraphrase an old joke: If you’re going to crap on someone’s front steps, don’t be surprised if they don’t let you in to get some toilet paper.
4) Claim: The Conference of Presidents no longer represents the full spectrum of the Jewish community
You can argue that J Street belongs in the Conference of Presidents. You can argue that the existing voting rules are out of whack, giving too much influence to smaller groups on the right over larger left-wing and centrist groups. But that doesn’t change the fact that … With or without J Street, J Street’s views are represented in the Conference of Presidents and the Conference of Presidents continues to serve as the most diverse and reflective platform in the Jewish organizational world. Period. Full stop.
Plus, it’s worth noting that the process isn’t one and done. Other groups have fallen short and then made it in down the road.
All that said, it’s easy to understand why, if someone is a member of J Street or shares the organization’s stated commitment to securing the future of a Jewish and democratic Israel and creating Jewish community, they would feel slighted, not wanted, disenfranchised. This vote took place in a wider context, where J Street and its members have been consistently, harshly and sometimes unfairly attacked,and their motives and loyalty (as opposed to their ideas) questioned, with some of the group’s loudest opponents all but saying there is no room in the Jewish community for those who would criticize Israeli policies.
So, yeah, it’s complicated. What do you expect? After all, we’re talking about the Conference of President of Major Jewish Organizations.
Ami Eden is JTA’s CEO and editor in chief, responsible for overseeing all aspects of the agency’s operations, including editorial, business, marketing and fundraising. Before joining JTA in the summer of 2007, he served as executive editor of the Forward newspaper and the founding editor of the Jewish Daily Forward Web site. He also worked as an editor of the Jewish Exponent in Philadelphia.
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