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December 21, 2013

ETTA Surprises

The recent 20th anniversary gala of ETTA at the Beverly Hilton Hotel included two big surprises, one very personal and one very public.  ETTA/OHEL is the only nonprofit provider of residential programs for Jewish adults with intellectual/developmental disabilities (known as I/DD) in Los Angeles County. They also offer a day camp for teens/adults, independent living skills and educational/social programs as well.

Let’s start first with the public surprise. Michael A. Baruch, the recipient of the ETTA Visionary Award, is a businessman and entrepreneur. As Founder of Baruch Enterprises, he has headed, launched or developed many consumer brands including Fred Segal Beauty, DeLeon Tequila and EDEN by Eden Sassoon. He announced that he and Dr. Michael Held, the Executive Director of ETTA, have an ambitious plan to create housing options for 200 Jewish adults with I/DD by the year 2020.

Since ETTA currently operates only four licensed group homes and one independent living home, housing some 30 adults altogether, getting to 200 in just six years will take a whole lot of money, a major time commitment by staff and volunteers and generous amounts of Jewish communal help outside of their primary support in the Orthodox community. The Jewish Federation of Greater Los Angeles had purchased two tables at the gala (one from the Valley Alliance), and has been expanding their support of ETTA’s adult programs over the years. I hope that other Jewish organizations and philanthropists will step forward to join them.

Now for the personal surprise. I was also one of the honorees, for the Professional Leadership Award, and although I had many close friends and family members with me, I was really missing the presence of our daughter, Rachel, 22, who is graduating from NYU. She had told me that although she really wanted to be at the gala, it wasn’t going to work out with her final exam schedule. I was disappointed but what could I say?

As part of my award presentation, a short video was shown about my work and our family’s journey with our now 19-year-old son, Danny, who has cerebral palsy and other disabilities. At the end of that video, a pre-recorded video clip of Rachel was shown, saying how sorry she was that she couldn’t be there for my special night, and then the stage went from dark to light, and there she was in the flesh to introduce me! My sister and I shrieked together: WHAT??

Completely unbeknownst to my husband, and me, ETTA staff and Rachel had worked out this plan to fly her out for the gala two months ago, and everyone involved kept it a complete secret. Rachel had flown in the morning of the gala, and was whisked away to a hotel suite upstairs, and then snuck into the backstage area, awaiting her cue. Seeing her on the stage sure made my heart palpitate, and I was totally flummoxed.

All I can say is that if ETTA can pull off my personal surprise without a hitch, there’s nothing to stop them from even bigger and better surprises in 2020 and beyond.

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Gay marriage in Utah? Say it ain’t so

The Church has been consistent in its support of traditional marriage while teaching that all people should be treated with respect … We continue to believe that voters in Utah did the right thing by providing clear direction in the state constitution that marriage should be between a man and a woman and we are hopeful that this view will be validated by a higher court. – Official statement issued by Mormon Church leaders following today’s ruling on gay marriage in Utah 

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If you doubt that the Second Coming (or First, if you prefer) is nigh, today’s images from the county building in Salt Lake City might convince you otherwise. After this morning’s ruling by a federal judge that struck down an amendment to the Utah Constitution that defines marriage as exclusively male/female, dozens of same-sex couples rushed to the building to obtain marriage licenses. Not all of the couples were successful in doing so, but all were incredulous. Many people thought that Utah would be among the last states to issue marriage licenses to gay couples, and it was a little shocking to see things move so quickly on the marriage front there.  

Since Utah is not a theocracy (only 3 out of 5 Utahns are Mormons), this ruling was to be expected. As I have repeatedly stated before, I am personally opposed to gay marriage for religious reasons. However, I do not believe that a convincing secular argument can be made to ban gay marriage in contemporary American society. If I had been in Judge Robert Shelby’s shoes, I may well have issued a similar ruling. If gay marriage can happen in Utah, it can happen in any jurisdiction. The state of Utah has already asked for the federal appeals court to issue a stay on the decision.

If I were them, I wouldn’t hold my breath. Judging from recent Supreme Court and other federal court rulings on the issue, it’s probably only a matter of time before gay marriages will be official in every state. I don’t view this as a positive development, but that doesn’t make gay marriage any less inevitable in this country.

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What Jonathan Alter Thinks about Our President

June 18, 2013

Jonathan Alter’s “The Center Holds: Obama and His Enemies” (Simon and Schuster), an account of the president’s reelection campaign and the challenges posed by the Republican’s obstructionist politics, has been on the New York Times Best Sellers list for several weeks. We recently spoke to the columnist for Bloomberg View about the president, the 2012 campaign and the future of political journalism. The following is an edited version of our conversation.

TOM TEICHOLZ: Three years ago, you published a book about President Obama and his first year in office. What’s happened since?

JONATHAN ALTER: My 2010 book, “The Promise: President Obama Year One,” was the first book about the Obama presidency and about the way Obama operated in office. “The Center Holds” is the first book about the 2012 campaign … but it’s also got a somewhat different focus. “The Promise” is more about government and “The Center Holds” is more about politics. And interestingly, the president often separates the two. This book has a wider focus: It also encompasses the people suffering from what I call “Obama Derangement Syndrome,” the people who despise the president and the effect that [he] had. It also includes a lot about voter suppression and what the Romney campaign was up to.

TT: Bob Woodward wrote a series of books on the Bush Presidency that offered a lot of behind-closed-doors revelations. How are yours about Obama different?

JA: I’m interested in placing events in a larger context. I want to know what happens behind closed doors, but only if it’s historically significant. I’ve said that this was the most important election of my lifetime — I’ve covered 9 of them. And the reason that it was, was that the social contract going back to Franklin Roosevelt was on the line in this election.

TT: This election presented two radically different views of the role of government and of the relationship between individuals and their government.

JA: Exactly. That was the premise under which I operated under and when Obama won, that’s why I called it “The Center Holds” — not just because my daughter thought it would be nice to reference a William Butler Yeats poem for a title. The president in his campaign was a small “c” conservative and he was up against radicals — this is not your father’s Republican party. They are obstructionist and determined to try and move the country sharply to the right. It became a book about a climactic struggle that might not have been as close as other elections, but was major in terms of class politics and what we owe each other as a people and the role of government.

TT: There’s an anecdote in “The Promise” about Justice Oliver Wendell Holmes Jr. and his belief that Franklin Roosevelt brought a “first-rate temperament but a second-rate intellect” to the presidency; and that Obama might reflect the opposite. Do you still feel that’s true?

JA: I think that might be even more true now. He has a first-class intellect but his temperament — although even-tempered and very well suited to the Presidency — also handicaps him a little bit because he’s missing the “schmooze gene,” as I put it, and that gives him one less tool in the toolbox. Ultimately, when he starts reaching out a little in his second term, the part of his temperament that his friends see will be better seen by other politicians.

TT: President Obama seems to disdain the theater of politics.

JA: I think that’s right. He sometimes fails to remember that the presidency is a theater and that you need to make some concessions to the performance requirements … and he’s often reluctant to do that. We saw that in the first debate.

TT: One of the most interesting chapters in “The Center Holds” is about Obama’s tech crew cracking the code on digital fundraising and campaigning.

JA: I found it very interesting just how important these digitals tools were in Obama’s reelection. It’s a colorful story about how Obama’s tech team ushered in the first true digital campaign of the 21st century. I explain how that works, translating from the original geek what the 20-year-old techies were saying.

TT: How do you see the landscape changing for political journalists?

JA: It’s going to be mostly online. The same basic skills are no different than they’ve ever been: to write and report. Personally, I’m transitioning to books and television. I’m executive producer of a comedy with Gary Trudeau (Amazon Studios’ “Alpha House” with John Goodman). I’m one of three executive producers on it.

TT: That’s a new muscle for you.

JA: That’s a totally new muscle and a really fun thing to do. I’ll certainly write another book, and I just re-signed with NBC. But the old days of staying at Newsweek for close to 30 years, as I did — that’s all in the past. For anyone who’s interested in our business — or any business for that matter — what you have to do is be open to new things, and new ways of communicating.

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The Remarkable Life and Times of George Plimpton

The groundbreaking journalist taught me one of life’s most important lessons: You never have to be afraid to be yourself

June 17, 2013

Recent months have seen a resurgence in all things George Plimpton (journalist and founding editor of The Paris Review), with the release of a documentary, “Plimpton!” as well as the paperback edition of “George Being George.”

Why should we care? What makes Plimpton so interesting to us now? For one thing, we have Plimpton to thank for participatory journalism. His assignments for Sports Illustrated, where he quarterbacked for the Detroit Lions, boxed with Sugar Ray Robinson and pitched for the Yankees, prefigured all the writers and bloggers who’ve made careers of their own experience, as well as a whole generation of journalistic memoirists.

Without Plimpton, would we have Michael Pollan’s wonderful writing about food, or Ian Brown’s pieces about caring for his son in “The Boy in the Moon,” or even “Julie and Julia”? Plimpton understood his own brand way before the culture understood branding.

I had the good fortune to write for The Paris Review in the mid-80s and would often attend Plimpton’s legendary parties. On one occasion, I was on the receiving end of a harangue by the voluble publisher Judith Regan. (I can’t recall what she said; just that it scared me.)

Every so often I’d catch sight of Plimpton himself — the perpetual preppy, drink in hand — deploying the art of conversation. He’d always make me feel not only that he remembered me, but that he had read my work. Then the conversation would take off. Plimpton had the gift of all great conversationalists: When you talk to them you feel brighter, smarter, wittier, more interesting than ever before. Plimpton made you feel that whatever you were doing, it was vital and compelling. And then something, or someone, would catch his eye and he’d be off to the next conversation.

Much about writing is solitary and mysterious. Plimpton made the writing life something to be explored, admired and celebrated. He made a party out of good writing and invited those it touched to feel connected, just as he invited his readers to believe they could gain insight into the extraordinary feats of professional athletes and artists by dint of his entering the fray.

If I try to crystallize what Plimpton taught me, it is that I didn’t have to be afraid to be myself; that great writing, whatever the subject, whatever the form, is often about voice.

A few months before his death, I ran into him as we both boarded a flight from New York to LA. He was traveling there to give a reading at the Getty Center of a work in progress based on the letters of F. Scott and Zelda Fitzgerald. We ended up sitting together and talking the whole flight. The time flew by. I don’t remember a word of what we said, but I recall the conversation energized me. When we landed, we shook hands and parted ways. Off he went, his mop of grey hair bobbing, on his way to the next party.

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Etgar Keret: The Long and Very Short of Fiction

Posted: 11/04/2013 4:32 pm

Etgar Keret, with his collections The Nimrod Flip-Out and the recently published Suddenly, a Knock on the Door, reinvigorated the short story (and the short, short story). The author, whose work has appeared in The New Yorker, Zoetrope and on This American Life, recently spent a day in Los Angles, at UCLA, as a guest of the Israel Studies department, and at a reception in his honor at the home of Sharon Nazarian, president of the Younes and Soraya Nazarian Foundation, which sponsored the event.

Keret, 46, explained that he sees himself as more “a Jewish writer than an Israeli one,” because being Jewish, he said, “is my heritage.” Being Israeli as a national identity, he said, is like “a tenant’s meeting in an apartment complex: You all live together, but what do you have in common?” Keret said his kinship with Jewish writers includes the likes of Franz Kafka, Sholem Aleichem, Isaac Babel and Isaac Bashevis Singer.

Yet, he could not be more Israeli. Keret has lived his whole life in Tel Aviv. His parents were Holocaust survivors from Belarus and Poland (his father died last year). His brother was tried and convicted for deserting the Israeli army for being a pagan and staged his first marriage as a performance art event, to which he sold tickets, and his second in a tree in Thailand. Keret’s sister, meanwhile, belongs to an ultra-Orthodox community and has five children.

Keret wrote his first short stories during his compulsory military service. Describing himself as a “horrible soldier,” who came from a long line of horrible soldiers, he managed to be assigned to a basement computer room, where he served 24- to 36-hour shifts. And while there, he wrote. He said he suppresses many of his emotions, but he described fiction as, for him, “a safe zone” where he can take his anger and other feelings to unexpected places. Fiction is “a place of authenticity,” where he need not lie — there are no consequences as there might be in the real world.

At the end of a very long day, Keret sat for a conversation, an edited version of which follows:

Tom Teicholz: The writers you admire, their works are all somewhat different than their reputation: Kafka is more modern and more funny; Aleichem is a master of satire on the level of Mark Twain; Babel is also funny and quite clever; and Singer is both funnier and darker, more macabre, than he is usually given credit for. So, how is your work different from how it’s usually perceived?

Etgar Keret: Different people ascribe different things to [my work]. I remember when I first published my book, I went to a big conference and did a reading, where some people laughed, and others were very angry. … There is always this cocktail between the text and the reader. If you mix with water, you get something else. … For me, the humor is an affect, armor to protect me from other things, and the core is something that is much more painful.

TT: The other quality that distinguishes these writers is that their writing is very specific as to place but is considered universal. Is that true of your work as well?

EK: I’m 46 years old, and my whole life I’ve lived in five places — all in Tel Aviv or Ramat Gan [a suburb of Tel Aviv], all within a radius of five kilometers. I’m like Kant: All my life I’ve lived in the same place, walked down the same streets. My best friend, I’ve known him since I’m 3. His father came to fix our TV and didn’t have a babysitter so he brought him along. I still see him every week. I’m like those Southern writers, who write about their town. … As I said at the UCLA event, [when] you touch upon something that is a trait of a person, that is universal. You just have to zoom in enough.

TT: In your new collection “Suddenly, a Knock on the Door,” there’s a story, “Creative Writing,” in which you describe a creative writing teacher as having published a collection of stories that were “kind of a gimmick.” Is that a reference to criticism you’ve received?

EK: I write short stories, and publishers don’t like short stories. They are always coming up with ideas [like]: Write [a collection of] short stories and the character in one begins with A, and the other will be B. Or how about you write short stories [where] each story takes place in another city in Israel? It always seemed like a very bull—- idea to me so I integrated it [into the story].

TT: How do you see your stories as different from other Israeli fiction?

EK: I think, traditionally, Israeli writers tell the story of the group, of the collective. You have the kibbutz stories, the army stories — basically [you] take these people who come from different countries and try to create a whole out of them. In that sense, when I started writing, I felt that there was a kind of resentment from [the] older generation of readers and writers. Like, ‘We’re trying to put something together and you’re working against us.”

TT: That you’re drawing outside the lines?

EK: Yes.

TT: In what way did your parents being Holocaust survivors make you a writer: Do you see yourself as the witness, the translator of modern experience, and/or the entertainer creating a salve or distraction from their pain?

EK: When I was a child, there was this thing that I would never cry if my parents were around. My mother saw her mother killed before her eyes. So it seemed like nothing that I had justified [crying]. I can remember that the most important thing was to make them happy. But my parents were happy people; they liked to celebrate.

This idea of not showing emotion is something that is very, very strong, and there is something about writing that is, for me, is very, very much linked to suppression of emotion [that] I have to put somewhere. I remember being a soldier and having this fear — it wasn’t about showing my emotion, it was that I was afraid that I won’t know what I feel — that I suppressed it so deep that I wouldn’t know if I’m angry or sad. And there’s something about writing that releases that.

TT: You were born shortly after the Six-Day War. In what way does that make what you write about Israel different from the writers who came before you?

EK: The [19]67 generation, we grew up in the years where Israel was like the most popular country in the world — they did the Entebbe movie with Charles Bronson; we won Miss Universe; we won [the] Eurovision [song contest] two years in a row. We were loved by everybody — our basketball team won the European championship, and there was this feeling that we were like this wonder. During those years, Swedish girls would come [to Tel Aviv] hoping to find Israeli boyfriends.

TT: Tel Aviv has changed so much in the last decade, even in the last five years — it has a vibrant art scene, it’s become a foodie haven and is known as the gay party capital of the world. Is it still your Tel Aviv? Or is it changing too fast for you?

EK: When you go to New York, you see it’s the museum of the 20th century, the same way that Paris is the museum of the 19th century. … What’s very strong about Tel Aviv, unlike Jerusalem, is that it’s a city that’s constantly searching for its identity. It’s almost like there is a polemic about what this city is all about. … At times I feel closer and at times I feel more distant. The only other city I can compare it to is Berlin, because there’s something about Jewish identity and German identity where we are not completely at ease with our identities, with saying. ‘This is what we are.’ I think Germans and Israelis are the only people I know that when their national anthems plays, they’re against it. … Identity issues are very central. Even though no one ever speaks about it, it’s always in the subtext.

TT: There is another Israeli writer and filmmaker whom I’m very fond of, who is never mentioned in connection with your work, but who also wrote short fiction in colloquial Hebrew about the national character — and that is [Israeli humorist Ephraim] Kishon.

EK I grew up on Kishon. I really loved his work when I was a kid, I think one of the first books that I bought with my own money was his…. The thing was that because Hebrew was not his first language – what made it funny was that he would write about mundane issues in a very high register. [However] there is something about Kishon – he wanted you to laugh. And there is something about me that if you laugh, it was never my intention. .. Usually the stories that are my favorite, nobody likes.

TT: What’s an example of that?

EK: When I wrote the story, “the Nimrod Flipout,” I didn’t think it was good. I thought it was too personal. We were three of us, my best friend and my other best friend killed himself. So I wrote a story about it and it’s very autobiographical. My best friend was very excited that I wrote a story about it. [But} when I edited the book, I said to him, “the story is out.” And my best friend said, “but it’s great.” And I said “it’s not great. You like it because it’s about you.” So he was very sad, he called me on the phone and he said, “Tell me, how many years do I know you?” I said, “like 25 years.” And he said, “In the 25 years that I’ve known you, how many favors have I asked from you? And I thought, and I said, “None.”

“OK. So after 25 years I think I’m entitled for one favor. OK, so you don’t think the story is good, so you put it in the book not because you think it’s good but because your best friend asked you to. ” And I thought for a moment and I said,” OK.” I put it in the book and it became…When FSG (the venerable and prestigious literary publishing house Farrar, Straus and Giroux) bought the book, they said, “this must be the title story.” Zoetrope published it. And it became one of my best-known stories. And the only reason I published it was because my friend asked me to as a favor.

I have one story called ‘Crazy Glue,’ this is the story that got adapted the most times as a short film, more than ten adaptations. One of the adaptations is a romantic comedy; another one is a horror movie. And I think it’s the story that allows you these two readings. [So you see:] I have really no understanding of how people perceive my stories.

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