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September 14, 2011

When rabbis politicize the High Holy Days

Every year, Jewish listeners to my radio show write to me from around the country about their rabbi using the High Holy Days to deliver political sermons.

Invariably, there are two constants: The rabbi is non-Orthodox, and the sermons are left wing.

It should go without saying — but lest some readers misinterpret what I have written, I will make it clear — not all Reform, Conservative and Reconstructionist rabbis politicize their sermons. More than a few give inspiring, uplifting, challenging and Jewish High Holy Days sermons that steer clear of politics.

But those rabbis who do use Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur to offer their political views are doing their congregants and Judaism a real disservice.

Rabbis who have used the holiest days of the Jewish calendar to give a sermon on behalf of the Obama health-care bill or to excoriate the Christian right or to expound on any of the many other left-wing positions have cheated their congregants. The primary purpose of the High Holy Days is to have the Jew engage in moral and religious introspection: What kind of person have I been in the past, and what do I need to do in order to be a better person?

I am well aware that rabbis who spoke on the Democrats’ health-care bill, for example, will respond that that bill was an issue of social justice and tikkun olam, and, therefore, exactly what he/she should be talking about on Rosh Hashanah or Yom Kippur, because supporting liberal legislation is exactly what every Jew should do to be a better a person in the new year.

That response sounds compelling to liberal rabbis who offer it and to their liberal congregants. But even when meant sincerely, it is not an honest argument. It is a noble-sounding excuse to use the pulpit to advance one’s politics. One proof is that rabbis with conservative political views do not use Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur to advance conservative political positions. I wonder if there is one politically conservative rabbi in America who has delivered a Rosh Hashanah or Yom Kippur sermon opposing what is known as ObamaCare.

Now, why not? Those of us who oppose that bill do so with just as much moral concern — yes, moral concern — and just as much passion as those who are for it. So why haven’t rabbis with conservative political views (yes, they exist, though some are afraid to come out of the closet) used their High Holy Days pulpit to sermonize against the bill?

Because separation of pulpit and politics is a conservative value, not a liberal one. Therefore, rabbis with conservative political beliefs do not use their pulpit to advance their political agenda. And because no conservative believes that advancing the conservative political agenda makes you a good person. Like Judaism, we know that becoming a good person demands arduously working on one’s character, not having the right politics.

And what about the notion that “social justice” issues are, by definition, Jewish issues?  This is believed by Jews on the left because “social justice” has become a euphemism for all liberal social and political positions. If you are for social justice, you are liberal; if you oppose liberals, you oppose social justice. Therefore, for liberal Jews and their rabbis, Judaism is identical to leftism. Proof? Ask a Jew on the left to name one political or social position in which Judaism and leftism oppose one another.

So why should left-wing rabbis bother talking about character when they could talk about health care or global warming or the Christian right? After all, they might offend some congregants if they talk about the congregants’ kids cheating on exams. But who in an overwhelmingly liberal congregation will be offended by a sermon on behalf of nationalizing health care or in favor of raising corporate taxes?

So, the left-wing rabbi has everything to gain from giving a sermon against the Tea Party, Glenn Beck or carbon emissions. For one thing, that takes no courage. For a liberal rabbi to espouse liberal politics from most non-Orthodox pulpits takes as much courage as it takes a conservative politician to espouse conservative politics at a Tea Party rally. And it’s a lot easier to talk politics than to talk Judaism and to use it to challenge the congregants to be more ethical human beings and more serious Jews, or to teach the congregants how to come closer to God in a secular society.

This year will be the fourth year in which I conduct High Holy Days services (pragerhighholidays.net), and from the beginning I have assured those who attend that I will never talk politics. Though I am as morally committed to conservative values as leftists are to leftist values, anyone who attends my services will be entering a politics-free zone. Jews would be much better off if all our synagogues had such a policy. If what you hear in shul is no different from what you hear on NPR or at a Democratic Party conference, why go to shul? Which is a major reason non-Orthodoxy is in decline: If Judaism and liberalism are identical, who needs Judaism?

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Wrap mind, and body, around Holy Days prep

Traditionally, the weeks leading up to the High Holy Days are a time of account settling for Jews, marked by personal reflection, repentance and prayer.

But how about some Jewish yoga to get the ball rolling? Why not try some visualization exercises or Jewish meditation?

About 30 Angelenos will gather Sept. 23-25 for a preholiday regimen of spiritual tuning at the Shalom Institute Camp in Malibu, featuring an eclectic tour of holistic healing arts with a Jewish flavor. Hosted by Judaism by Choice, the weekend spiritual retreat aims to prepare newly converted Jews by choice — and spiritually seeking Jews by birth — for the metaphysical plunge that marks the Days of Awe.

There are still a few signup spots left for the program, which boasts an itinerary of introspective, communal and nature-based activities that organizers hope will put participants in the mood for righteous transformation.

“The whole concept of the High Holy Days is teshuvah — to return to the self,” said Rabbi Neal Weinberg, founder and rabbinic director of Judaism by Choice. “We have to know the self in order to properly get back in touch with it.”

Many of the goals of yoga and meditation — self-awareness and soul-searching — echo what the High Holy Days are about, Weinberg said. Teshuvah, the scriptural term for repentance, literally means “to return” to oneself, just as yoga and meditation refocus the practitioner’s eye inward in hopes of personal improvement.

If ideas like Jewish meditation and visualization sound a bit “out there” at first, look closer: Spiritual pursuits are actually grounded in core Jewish values, said Miri Weinberg, a Hebrew instructor and event coordinator with Judaism by Choice and Rabbi Weinberg’s wife.

The Weinbergs founded Judaism by Choice to provide classes, Shabbat services, holiday parties and an annual trip to Israel that would resonate with Jews by choice, a niche that is often underserved by the Jewish community, Rabbi Weinberg said. Judaism by Choice creates a social network for converts to the Jewish faith, he said, where they can find a sense of community.

But the spiritual retreat is not only intended for Jews by choice. Registration is open to all members of the Jewish community, regardless of spiritual fluency or yogic flexibility — anyone seeking an alternative to the customary Selichot prayers as a means to access a place of self-knowledge and forgiveness.

The retreat will begin Friday evening with a traditional Shabbat dinner at which attendees can get to know one another and their teachers for the weekend. At night, Sinai Temple educator Richard Weintraub will lead a discussion on Jewish spirituality, including visualization exercises. The most mysterious of the weekend’s activities, this session will employ symbols found in nature to better illuminate areas of participants’ lives that need improving.

After breakfast on Saturday, Zack Lodmer, founder of Om Shalom Yoga, will lead an energizing session of Joga (Jewish yoga). The attorney-cum-yogi, who teaches classes monthly in Santa Monica, will have students practice asanas to an original soundtrack Lodmer composed that blends hypnotic electronic music with Shabbat prayers. This will take the place of a traditional Shabbat morning service, as the prayers are already incorporated into the yoga.

“The arc of the yoga class mirrors the arc of the service — the Barchu before the Shema and so on,” Lodmer said. As in davening, he added, participants can conduct their own personal prayer experience in a collective space.

Scheduled after yoga, fittingly, is lunch and a Shabbat afternoon nap. Activities resume with Jewish meditation led by Sara Lederer. Although the form of meditation will resemble that found in Eastern religions, she said, the content, concepts and vocabulary will all be Jewish. Lederer will first give a talk on “how to stop and tune in,” and will then lead her audience in exercises and a meditation session, she said. She plans to discuss questions like, “Why do we even have the High Holy Days to stop and reflect? What can we get from that?”

“Doing this helps people get out of here” — the head — “and into here” — the gut, said Lederer, a psychologist and professor at Argosy University. “It’s about heart-opening, listening to yourself, feeling and knowing your intuition.”

Meditation will be followed by a nature hike, allowing guests to soak up scenic Malibu vistas for the remainder of the afternoon. After dinner, the group will hold a Havdalah service under the stars and gather around a campfire for an old-fashioned, guitar-led ruach session with song leader Jenni Alpert. The weekend will conclude Sunday morning after breakfast.

“This will be an intimate way to nurture people,” Miri Weinberg said. “The spirit of the weekend that is so powerful and significant is togetherness — eating, singing and sharing the magic of Shabbat.”

The Weinbergs hope to make the retreat an annual event before the High Holy Days to put people in a teshuvah frame of mind. “Even if we follow the letter of the law all the time, we may still be wound up internally,” Lodmer said. “Sometimes it takes visualization and meditation and maybe even Tree Pose to tell your mind to slow down.”

For more information or to register, visit www.judaismbychoice.org or call (888) 539-2924.

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Pasadena temple gets Argentina’s first woman cantor

Cantor Ruth Berman Harris has been earning paychecks for leading services since she was 15, years before a cantorial school even existed in her native Buenos Aires, Argentina.

“I think it was what I was born to be,” she said. “I became a bat mitzvah, and I never left the synagogue.”

Which particular synagogue has changed over the years, though — from Argentina to Israel to the United States. In August, Harris joined Pasadena Jewish Temple & Center, a Conservative congregation serving 500 member families through campuses in Pasadena and Arcadia.

“She’s made an immediate connection,” said temple president Matt Ober. “She has experienced very different synagogues in very different places and has a keen understanding of human nature and people and what people need to be able to pray more deeply and be more connected to spirituality, and that’s what we all kind of seek.”

Harris, 40, said that she’s been influenced by each of her geographic and cultural stops on the way to Southern California.

“Who I am in the core understanding of what a cantor should be, I got it from growing up in Argentina,” she said. “The vision of the chazzan being an emissary of the congregation instead of a performer is something embedded in the fiber of who I am. We don’t perform; we daven.”

Harris said that when she began leading services in Buenos Aires as a teenager, she was the first female in the country to do so. She wasn’t ordained until 1996, after the Rabbinical Seminary of Latin America started its cantorial program.

Most congregants were supportive of having a woman as a spiritual leader, she said.

“Some people thought it was a little bizarre, but, for the most part, people were very welcoming,” she said.

After Harris moved to Israel in 1996, she studied at the Hebrew Union College-Jewish Institute of Religion in Jerusalem and led services at three synagogues.

Harris said her experience in Israel taught her that Hebrew is a language that is vibrant and alive. It’s a lesson that remains evident as she effortlessly sprinkles Hebrew words into everyday conversation. (No slouch when it comes to linguistics, Harris is fluent in English, Spanish and Hebrew, and can understand and sing in Yiddish and Ladino.)

Her time in Israel also connected her to Jewish culture and continuity in a very real sense.

“Israel gave me a sense of belonging to a bigger picture,” she said.

But splitting her time among three shuls made it impossible to put down roots in any one of them. So her family made the decision in 2001 to move to America, where she served congregations in Wisconsin and Arizona before coming to Pasadena.

Rabbi Joshua Levine Grater is thrilled to have her.

“She’s amazing,” he said. “She energizes a room when she walks into it.”

Just as important, Grater said they already have established a strong partnership.

“We both believe in participatory prayer,” he said. “Our vision of prayer, of a deep and meaningful and rich prayer experience, is something that I cherish. … She can now be the voice for that.”

Already,  Harris, a mother of three, said she feels at home at the Pasadena synagogue.

“I think I’ve been preparing and growing and professionally developing to be able to arrive at this partnership, which is ultimately what I’ve always wanted,” she said.

And there’s another bonus to landing where she has.

“Looking at the beautiful mountains, it pretty much feels as close to God as I can be.”

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Calendar Picks and Clicks: September 14-September 23

Pick of the week: Thurs., Sept. 22

“WITH REGRETS”

Got regrets? You’re not alone. Join comedian Moshe Kasher as he hosts an evening of confession in advance of the High Holy Days with TIME magazine columnist Joel Stein, television writer Tami Sagher (“How I Met Your Mother”), Found magazine co-founder Davy Rothbart, comedian and “Conan” writer Todd Levin, SMITH Magazine founder Larry Smith and actor Michaela Watkins (“The New Adventures of Old Christine”). Reboot sponsors the event as part of its 10Q project (doyou10Q.com). Thu. 8 p.m. $10 cover and $10 food minimum. M Bar, 1253 Vine St., Los Angeles. RSVP to (323) 856-0036. reboot.net.



WED | SEPT 14

WENDY MOGEL
The clinical psychologist and best-selling author (“The Blessing of a B Minus”) discusses “Your Teens vs. the World” with Rabbi David Wolpe. A book signing follows. Wed. 7:30 p.m. Free. Sinai Temple, 10400 Wilshire Blvd., Los Angeles. RSVP, (310) 481-3243. sinaitemple.org.

GOOD FOOD FESTIVAL AND CONFERENCE
Celebrate 30th years of the Santa Monica Farmers’ Market with this inaugural multiday festival, featuring farmers, chefs, artisan food producers, thinkers and food entrepreneurs. Today, kick off the celebration with a farmer-chef cooking demonstration and book signing, including Amelia Saltsman (“The Santa Monica Farmers’ Market Cookbook”). Over the course of five days, various events — discussions, cooking demonstrations, a symposium and more — promote the relationship between healthy food and good business. Highlights include the Festival and Street Fair; Chefs at Play cooking demonstrations with celebrity chefs Nancy Silverton, Evan Kleiman and others; and a screening of “The Harvest,” a new documentary that looks at U.S. migrant labor. Wed. Through Sept. 18. Various times and prices. Various locations in Santa Monica. (310) 260-1528. goodfoodfestivals.com.


SAT | SEPT 17

“KVETCH”
Steven Berkoff’s dark comedy offers an absurdist look at our secret thoughts, exposing the anxieties, desires, fears and prejudices of a Jewish family. Presented by SeaGlass Theatre. Sat. 8 p.m. Through Oct. 16. $25. The Whitefire Theatre, 13500 Ventura Blvd., Sherman Oaks. (818) 745-5537. seaglasstheatre.org.


Sun | SEPT 18

ERICA MILLER
The Holocaust survivor reads from her memoir, “From Trauma to Triumph,” which details her childhood in Romania under the Nazis and the horrors of life as a concentration camp prisoner, followed by her immigration to Israel, where she served in the air force, and then the United States, where she became a mental health professional. Sun. 2-4 p.m. Free. Los Angeles Museum of the Holocaust, 100 S. The Grove Drive, Los Angeles. (323) 651-3704. lamoth.org.

“NORMA JEAN AND JOHNNY”
Spend a tempestuous night with Albert Einstein and Marilyn Monroe, who wants to be his baby mama, as the Celebrity Staged Play Reading series at the Westside JCC kicks off its 22nd season. The cast includes Shelley Berman (“Curb Your Enthusiasm”), Devon Sorvari and Gregory Giles. A Q-and-A with playwright Richard Setlowe follows the performance. Sun. 2 p.m. $16 (general), $14 (JCC members, seniors, students), $12 (senior members, student members), Westside Jewish Community Center, Weinberger Auditorium, 5870 W. Olympic Blvd., Los Angeles. (323) 556-5225. westsidejcc.org.

PINWHEELS FOR PEACE
Kids work for “whirled peace” by creating and decorating pinwheels with messages of peace and tolerance. Organizers of the nonpolitical art installation hope the kids will take their pinwheels home and plant them outside in time for the International Day of Peace (Sept. 21), when an estimated 3.5 million pinwheels will spin around the world. Sun. 3 p.m. $8 (adults), $5 (children, 2-17), free (children, under 2). Zimmer Children’s Museum, 6505 Wilshire Blvd., Suite 100, Los Angeles. (323) 761-8984. zimmermuseum.org.

MATISYAHU
Known for melodic vocals and spiritually resonant lyrics, the Chasidic reggae star performs with special guests Zadik, a band that combines reggae rhythms with traditional Jewish prayers, in a benefit concert for Harkham Hillel Hebrew Academy. Sun. 5 p.m. $18-$136, $250 (VIP, includes meet and greet dinner at La Seine). The Saban Theatre, 8440 Wilshire Blvd., Beverly Hills. (323) 655-4900. ticketmaster.com.


WED | SEPT 21

IRIS BAHR
The American-born Israeli actress, best-known for her recurring role as Rachel Heinemann on “Curb Your Enthusiasm” and as the Russian madam title character on HDNet’s “Svetlana,” discusses and signs her new bawdy memoir, “Machu My Picchu: Searching for Sex, Sanity, and a Soul Mate in South America,” the follow-up to her critically acclaimed 2007 book, “Dork Whore: My Travels Through Asia as a Twenty-Year-Old Pseudo-Virgin.” Wed. 7 p.m. Free. Book Soup, 8818 Sunset Blvd., West Hollywood. (310) 659-3110. www.booksoup.com.


FRI | SEPT 23

LEBOWSKI FEST
For the past 10 years, fans of the Coen brothers’ L.A. noir comedy, “The Big Lebowski,” have gathered in cities around the world to celebrate their devotion to characters like The Dude and Walter Sobchak (“I don’t roll on Shabbos!”). This weekend, the festival returns to Los Angeles with a film screening at The Wiltern and a bowling party at Cal Bowl. Special guests to be announced for both events. Fri. Through Sept. 24. Friday: 8 p.m. $18.50. The Wiltern, 3790 Wilshire Blvd., Los Angeles. Saturday: 9 p.m. $25. Cal Bowl, 2500 E. Carson St., Lakewood. (502) 583-9290. lebowskifest.com.

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If your gut tells you something seems suspicious, report it

On Aug. 30, the Anti-Defamation League (ADL) held its annual security meeting at its Los Angeles headquarters to advise local Jewish leaders on possible threats facing the community in advance of the High Holy Days.

United States Postal Inspector Glenn Fiene and ADL civil rights specialist Steven Sheinberg discussed “How to Deal With Suspicious Mail” and “Being Safe and Welcoming: Practical Strategies for Jewish Institutions,” respectively.

An FBI spokesman, who asked not to be identified, said no additional threats are facing the Jewish community in light of the High Holy Days, but the ADL, local law enforcement and Jewish institutions will continue to work together on preventive security measures.

“Our attitude toward combating hatred and bigotry is comprehensive,” said Amanda Susskind, ADL Pacific Southwest regional director. “We have both a preventive and responsive role.”

The briefing drew 80 representatives of synagogues, Jewish institutions and organizations, including The Jewish Federation of Greater Los Angeles, Temple Israel of Hollywood and Beth Jacob Congregation.

Fiene spoke at length about mail bombs and attacks.

“We haven’t had a bomb in the mail for a couple years in this area,” he said, but he described what people should be aware of when receiving packages: whether the package came from a foreign country; if there is excessive postage or misspelled words on the envelope; if it’s bulky, lopsided, has a strange odor and/or doesn’t have a return address.

“If your gut feeling tells you something’s wrong with a letter or parcel, call us, call a local bomb squad immediately,” he said.

Sheinberg said leaders of Jewish institutions should make a “security risk profile” and can implement a strong security plan by identifying the institution’s members and neighbors, getting technology and equipment that is site-appropriate, and ensuring that everyone tasked with security is doing his/her job — otherwise, expensive technology and equipment won’t help in keeping the institution safe.

Sheinberg acknowledged that developing comprehensive security plans might contradict a Jewish institution’s mission of inclusiveness — but it’s about finding the balance, he said.

“Having an open-door policy doesn’t mean every door needs to be open,” he said. “There are ways to think about and plan for your institution so you can make the institution as open and welcoming as you’re comfortable with.”

The ADL security briefing takes place each year right before Rosh Hashanah. The event on Aug. 30 ran for three hours.

The ADL is encouraging Jewish institutions to download its security manual, “Protecting Your Jewish Institution,” available for free on the ADL Web site. Susskind said the resource is updated regularly.

Leslie Gersicoff, director of the Jewish Labor Committee Western Region, was among the Jewish leaders who attended the briefing.

“Particularly with the holidays coming again, with the upheaval in the world, as agitated as people are over the economic situation, it’s great to be aware of possible threats,” Gersicoff said in an interview. “And ADL has been a wonderful partner organization.”

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Walking the Jewish walk, not just talking the talk

As a kid growing up in Encino, Jeff Mirkin’s Judaism was more a peripheral pleasure than a way of life. His family did what lots of Jews do — holiday dinners and the occasional trip to shul, usually on Yom Kippur. Family time, more than religious observance, was the focus of their Jewish life.

But when Mirkin’s first child was born, he figured it was time to join up, though even then he found himself dragging his feet. That was when his non-Jewish wife, Allison, gave him an ultimatum: Join a congregation or our son is getting baptized!

“When she said that, it became very clear to me that that wasn’t something I could do,” Mirkin, 58, said in an interview from his office on Beverly Drive.

That was almost 30 years ago. How a culturally Jewish, intermarried, agnostic-bordering-on-atheist then joined a synagogue, came to serve on its board for nine years and later rose to become president, is something of a point of pride for Mirkin. 

“It was the best thing I’ve ever done,” he said of his three-year term as president of Leo Baeck Temple, where he has been a member since 1988. He enjoyed it so much, he found himself undergoing mild withdrawal symptoms when his term ended last May. “It was very hard not to be president anymore. It took me awhile to get my head around that.”

Fortunately for Mirkin, he had a business to return to — Budget Rent-a-Car of Southern California — a downsized version of the company his father created in 1958, when Mirkin was 6, and later sold — save for the SoCal branch and a fraction of the national chain, which today remains a beloved family business.

When Budget first opened its doors near the corner of Robertson and Wilshire boulevards, Mirkin’s mother, Judith, was the company’s first counter agent. After his father died in 1985, Mirkin took over the business, and, three years ago, his eldest son joined him there. The family involvement has shaped the nature of the company, Mirkin said, as it operates with fewer rules and less rigidity than the average corporation. “Our employees are like family members,” Mirkin said on the Friday before Labor Day, as he dismissed his office staff at noon to lengthen the weekend. “We don’t have hard-and-fast rules,” he said. “People are human, and they make mistakes; we try to deal with that on a personal level.”

Mirkin says his business acumen and affability are what led him into philanthropic leadership.  He first stepped in when two of the schools his children attended (Mirkin has four kids) — Windward School, a private, secular school in West Los Angeles, and Park Century School, a nonprofit lower school that caters to children with learning disabilities — both asked him to help with fundraising. Mirkin was initially reluctant: “I hate asking for money, and I hate being asked for money,” he said. But, he realized, capital campaigns tend to require that: “I very quickly got into asking for money,” he said wryly.

When the leadership of Leo Baeck Temple, a midsize congregation of 620 families with a $3 million-per-year operating budget, got word of his success as a fundraiser, they invited him to get more involved with the synagogue’s campaigns. Mirkin began with the temple’s Sponsors Circle, part of the annual giving campaign, and, soon after, agreed to sit on the temple’s board, to his feeble dismay: “I had always said, ‘No, I’d love to, but I’m too busy.’ ” Mirkin eventually caved in and went on to serve for nine years. In May 2008, he was elected president. 

Mirkin’s presidency was both triumphant and challenging. During his tenure, he oversaw an $11 million capital campaign to build a new sanctuary, raising $9.5 million in three years and completing construction on the new building in just one (“No one believed we could do it in a year”). This he accomplished in the midst of an economic crisis, when less-affluent congregants were clinging to their pocketbooks and decreasing donations. A spate of families who couldn’t afford dues led to a $250,000 budget shortfall one year. But Mirkin refused to turn away families who couldn’t pay. “You don’t leave a congregation because you can’t afford it; that’s when you need us more than ever,” he said. Even when it was tough, he clung to the philosophy: “Stay a temple member, and we’ll help you work through this.”

The financial downturn was not the only trial of his term. Another year, two of Leo Baeck’s three clergy members relocated, leaving its 620 families with one rabbi, Ken Chasen, and the congregation’s lay leadership in the throes of a double replacement search. “It was very, very difficult,” Mirkin said, looking back, but the challenges spoke to his strengths. “I’m a very calm person; I’m Type B, not Type A. I’m also very optimistic,” he said. Mirkin believes that under pressure, what a community needs most is a calm presence. “People look to their leaders to decide how they should be feeling — and I don’t get upset.”

Abigail Spiegel, Leo Baeck’s executive director since 2004, said Mirkin was the perfect president in a pinch. “His business acumen, his calmness, his attention to details” were just a few of his helpful qualities. “To be a good leader, it takes tremendous love of the institution and belief in the community. Everybody’s voice is important; everybody’s concern is important; every complaint is important,” Spiegel said. “In addition to his leadership skills, Jeff’s just a lovely human being. There are few better.”

Where he was weak, Mirkin said, he tried to improve. “It can take me weeks to gin up enough nerve to make an important call,” he said. “And conflict is hard for me. I am a slow processor, and when someone confronts me, I can’t always find the words I’d like to rebut them.” To set an example, Mirkin said, he doubled his family’s annual gift several times. “Once you make the commitment and start to make payments, you realize it isn’t going to change your lifestyle, and that makes it easier to give and to give more,” he said.

In the end, Mirkin believes leadership success has little to do with money. “What you need in any volunteer group are the people who are willing to give time,” he said. “Temple dues never cover operating costs, but the vibrancy of a community comes from the people who care enough to commit themselves.”

Mixing service and spirituality was not a problem for Mirkin the way it is for some leaders; politics and pettiness didn’t seem to compromise his prayer: “The higher up in leadership you go, the more dirty laundry you see,” he said. “For me, it makes the temple more real, and better. The people who commit the least amount of time are often the people who find things not to like.”

He best explained a volunteer leader’s relationship to a synagogue with a marriage metaphor: “No one knows all my warts the way [my wife] does, but she loves me more than anyone else in the world,” he said of his wife of 30 years. “The more you know someone, the deeper you can care about them.” Likewise, he said, “As president, you’re about as deeply involved as you can be.”

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The business of spirituality

When Eric J. Diamond wants to understand something, he’s very methodical in how he goes about it. So when he was elected president of Sinai Temple in June, one of the first things Diamond did was to ask Howard Lesner, the synagogue’s executive director, to arrange for a tour of the building.

“I know the building very well. I’ve been in the building for 25 years,” Diamond, 50, said over a Friday morning breakfast in August. “But I don’t want to hear there’s a problem in a particular part of the building that I haven’t been to.”

So, Diamond said, he and Lesner and the building’s chief engineer will open every door and check every floor of the synagogue, from the roof to the sub-basement.

“Visualization is far better than hearing,” said Diamond, who works as chief operating officer of the real estate investment firm Hackman Capital Partners.

But make no mistake: This synagogue president, who wants to see every last square foot of a synagogue building that takes up a full city block, is no micromanager.

Diamond has ideas about how the synagogue can be run more efficiently and how vendor contracts might be renegotiated. He’s suggested that Sinai Temple up its membership recruitment efforts. But Diamond also insisted that he not have a mailbox in the synagogue office, because he doesn’t want anyone to expect that he’ll be there on a regular basis.

Brought up in Queens, N.Y., Diamond first came to Sinai Temple because an older fraternity brother got him a ticket there for the synagogue’s Rosh Hashanah student service. But it was the synagogue president at the time who got him to stick around.

In 1983, Diamond had just graduated from University of Virginia. He had been in Los Angeles for all of three weeks, living in the graduate-student dorms as a first-year law student at UCLA, when he headed to the gym inside Sinai Temple for the service.

“It came time for the sermon,” Diamond said, “and then-rabbinic student David Wolpe introduced Mr. Don Rickles, who was going to give the sermon on Rosh Hashanah.”

Rickles is best-known for the insults he used to hurl during his comedy acts — at audience members, hosts, anyone, really. But speaking to the student service in 1983, he wasn’t there to call anybody stupid (as he did when he roasted then-Gov. Ronald Reagan) or tell aging comedians how he never liked them (as he told Lucille Ball in 1974).

“He was charming without being funny,” Diamond said. “He was lighthearted, but his serious message was how excited he was to speak to a room of young Jews and how important it was for young Jews to remain involved in the community.”

The message resonated with Diamond: “I got involved in the Jewish community in part because of what Don Rickles had to say.”

And when Diamond became president, he wrote to Rickles, asking if he’d come and speak again on Rosh Hashanah, this time to Sinai’s ATID service, which is for young professionals.

Not too long afterward, “Mr. Warmth” called Diamond back.

“I said, Mr. Rickles, it’s so nice of you to call me,” Diamond recalled. “He says, ‘How could I not call you after that note you wrote me? It was like a haftarah, it was so beautiful.’ Those were his exact words.”

The occasional haftarah-quality note aside, Diamond knows that in a synagogue of nearly 2,000 member families, the feeling of belonging is, in part, the result of seemingly small touches.

“I hate getting letters that begin with ‘Dear Congregant,’ ” Diamond said. “I want a letter that says ‘Dear Eric,’ or ‘Dear Mr. and Mrs. Diamond.’ It’s part of being part of a community.”

And to facilitate that kind of personalization, Diamond said, Sinai Temple is in the process of collecting the information contained in seven different databases and integrating it into a single one.

“It’s very heavy in terms of when I talk about systems, procedures,” Diamond said, “but you can’t deliver the services that our members expect, that we want to provide, without an integrated database.”

But even as he pays attention to these operational details,  the business of keeping a synagogue running, Diamond remains focused on the big goal at Sinai Temple — providing a spiritual home for members of a community.

Which is why Diamond is so happy about the numbers of people who come to synagogue on otherwise ordinary Shabbat mornings — around 800 to 1,000 every week, by his count.

“Powerful is the word,” Diamond said. “It’s moving. It makes you feel part of a community. Standing in a three-quarters-empty room all by yourself doesn’t have that feeling.”

This article has been edited from the original version, which incorrectly stated that Don Rickles was the president of Sinai Temple in 1983. Aaron Fenton was president of the synagogue at the time.

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Jewish law goes to court: Mesira meets American justice

In a Los Angeles courtroom, the federal justice system is colliding with one of the most vexing areas of Jewish law.

Rabbi Moshe Zigelman, 64, already has spent two years in jail in a tax-fraud and money-laundering case that also saw the grand rabbi of the Spinka Chasidic sect sent to prison. The scheme involved soliciting large tax-deductible donations and secretly funneling most of the money back to the donors.

Now federal prosecutors are threatening more jail time for Zigelman, the Spinka rebbe’s personal secretary, who is refusing to testify and implicate others before a grand jury.

Zigelman’s lawyers say that his religious convictions do not allow him to testify. They point to the laws of mesira, the Talmudic prohibition against a Jew informing on another Jew to non-Jewish authorities. In modern terms, it’s a sort of Jewish no-snitching rule.

The concept of mesira, which literally means “delivery,” dates back to periods when governments often were hostile to Jews and delivering a Jew to the authorities could lead to an injustice and even death.

The rules of mesira still carry force within the Orthodox world, owing both to the inviolability of the concept’s talmudic origins and the insular nature of many Orthodox communities. But they are also the subject of debate over whether the prohibition applies in a modern democracy that prides itself on due process and civil rights.

“The question of the parameters of the prohibition of mesira remains a dispute about how to apply it in a just democracy,” said Rabbi Michael Broyde, a law professor at Emory University.

Rabbinical authorities are split on the issue, depending in large part on where they sit on the Orthodox spectrum. The issue is so sensitive that some religious leaders are reluctant to publicly discuss it, with many recognizing that the topic has the potential to adversely affect the way Jews are perceived.



Modern Orthodox authorities tend to advise against invoking mesira in the United States, except in cases where there is a rare consensus that an alleged offender has been singled out for being Jewish by an anti-Semitic individual in a position of authority.

“Mesira is not applicable in a society where there is no official anti-Semitism and a reasonably uncorrupt court system,” said Rabbi Yosef Blau, the spiritual adviser at the Yeshiva University-affiliated Rabbi Isaac Elchanan Theological Seminary.



Chasidic and other Charedi Orthodox authorities, however, tend to view the laws of mesira as still relevant in the American context. But they do see exceptions in which it is permissible to turn a fellow Jew over to secular authorities — for instance in cases of “din rodef,” justice for the pursuer, when the alleged wrongdoer threatens a life. In recent years, some rabbinical authorities have said that the ban on informing does not apply to alleged child molesters.



“There are certainly cases, like where a Jew is a threat to others, where it does not apply, but mesira is a religious law of great gravity and an observant Jew takes such things very seriously,” said Rabbi Avi Shafran, director of public affairs for Agudath Israel of America, a Charedi Orthodox umbrella body.



Shafran, who responded to questions via e-mail, said that mesira’s role in modern America was a matter of disagreement among decisors of Jewish law. But he also noted that the late Rabbi Moshe Feinstein, widely regarded as the pre-eminent Orthodox decisor in recent times, had ruled that the ban was still in force.



Asked how the practice appears to the outside world, Shafran replied, “All Jews are family. If that fact provides grist for the mills of anti-Semites, that’s unfortunate. But it’s a fact all the same. And Orthodox Jews make no apologies for what the Torah teaches us.”


Shafran cast the issue as a matter of conscience.


“In America, there is a long and illustrious history of citizens putting personal conscience before the law of the land,” Shafran wrote. “That’s part of why Americans celebrate the civil rights movement and the civil disobedience that was part of the lives of its champions. Dedication to a religious ideal deserves no less respect than dedication to a secular ideal. If a person is willing to give up his freedom in the service of a higher ideal, he should be respected for that selfless choice.”



Blau said the comparison to civil rights leaders does not stand up, citing Zigelman’s case as an example.

“The people in the civil rights movement were willing to pay their price, to be put in jail,” he said. “They were fighting for justice; he is fighting for protecting criminals.”

Michael Proctor, Zigelman’s lawyer, has said in court papers that imprisoning Zigelman would be unjust because he will not “abandon his religious precepts” under any circumstances, The Los Angeles Times reported.

U.S. District Court Judge Margaret Morrow heard arguments in the case on Sept. 7 and said she would rule at a later date.

The American courts have never upheld a request for an exemption from testifying based on the rules of mesira, said Rabbi J. David Bleich, a professor of Talmud at Yeshiva University and a law professor at its affiliated Cardozo School of Law. 



“I don’t know what he thinks he’s accomplishing,” Bleich said of Zigelman. “The attorney is probably trying to keep him from testifying, and it’s not going to work.”



Bleich said that as a matter of Jewish law, mesira in a democracy would not apply in civil cases. For instance, were Zigelman’s alleged co-conspirators facing a fine, he would be obliged to testify.



A criminal matter was different, Bleich said, because there were differences among Jewish decisors over whether the state had the right to apply physical punishment, including incarceration.



“In Jewish law, it hinges on whether the secular state has a right to put people in prison,” he said.

Particularly in cases in which a defendant faces physical danger, an informant would be prohibited from testifying, Bleich said. Such dangers may face the Orthodox in maximum-security prisons, where hardcore racist gangs may hold sway, he said, but not in white-collar prisons where tax offenders serve their sentences.



Orthodox Jews must weigh not only their obligations to the state but to the community in which they live, said Broyde, who in addition to teaching at Emory is a rabbinic judge on the Beth-Din of America.

“It’s a balance of what needs to be done and the community you want to be part of,” Broyde said. “It’s balancing the goal of being a good insider with being a good outsider.”


That’s not such an unusual balancing act, Broyde said, noting that it applied to other communities as well. His example: A churchgoer who reported every building code violation at his church would likely face eventual ostracism and would not have been obliged, under the law, to report the violations.



In instances in which the government requires reporting a crime — for instance, when child-care professionals uncover evidence of abuse — there is no question that an Orthodox Jew should cooperate with authorities, he said.



“One situation is when the government mandates that you report, and the other situation is where the government mandates nothing,” he said. “When the government mandates that you report, everyone agrees a Jew should report.”

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Jewish group lobbies in L.A. against UN vote

When general debate begins at the United Nations General Assembly on Sept. 21, the eyes of all Israel supporters will be focused on New York City, to see what becomes of the Palestinian Authority’s plan to unilaterally declare statehood.

For now, however, ongoing efforts by American Jewish organizations to stop this resolution from being brought to the floor — or at least minimize its potential to degrade Israel’s international public image — haven’t been limited to the East Coast.

The American Jewish Committee (AJC) has been leading the diplomatic push by Americans Jews against the unilateral declaration and has been engaging with representatives of certain countries wherever they are — including in the consulates in Los Angeles.

Staff members and lay leaders from AJC here say the group has held between 30 and 40 meetings with members of Los Angeles’ consular corps in just the last few months.

“We know that most consulates will report back to their embassies as well as to their own countries what took place in our meeting,” AJC Regional President Cliff Goldstein said.

To get in the door, AJC relies on years of work building relationships with diplomats.

“Modesty aside, we’re the only organization that’s able to do this, aside from the Israeli government and the United States government,” AJC Los Angeles Regional Director Seth Brysk said. “We’re able to do this because we’re able to create and maintain relationships with individual consuls general, consulates and countries.”

Brysk said AJC was focusing its efforts on meeting with representatives from countries that were not members of the Organization of Islamic Cooperation or the Non-Aligned Movement (NAM), as most of those countries were unlikely to be receptive to the AJC’s message.

Representatives from the Greek, German and French consulates in Los Angeles confirmed that AJC representatives had met with members of their offices in the last few months to discuss the anticipated Palestinian move at the United Nations.

AJC and most of the consular offices declined to offer details about the meetings, but a representative from the French consulate offered some indication of what happened behind those closed doors.

Five AJC representatives, including Brysk and Goldstein, sat down with French Consul General David Martinon on Aug. 25. The AJC side presented the group’s position on the Palestinians’ plan — namely that it would hurt the chances for a negotiated peaceful settlement with the Israelis. And according to the French consulate, the consul general responded with his government’s official position on the unilateral declaration.

The representative in the Los Angeles office would not say more, but the French position on this matter — which is, as of press time, still the subject of speculation and curiosity — was outlined by a spokesperson in a press briefing in Paris on Aug. 26.

“We can only reaffirm what we’ve already said: Firstly, France will assume its responsibilities in a few weeks at the U.N. General Assembly,” reads translated text of the day’s briefing posted on the French Ministry of Foreign and European Affairs Web site.

The spokesperson went on to push for a resumption of talks and expressed hope that an “unproductive” diplomatic fight could be avoided.

“The status quo is intolerable,” the spokesperson said. “We’ve been saying so for a long time now, but it’s high time that those directly concerned and those directly affected by this status quo start to realize that it is, in fact, intolerable.”

Brysk is sanguine about the potential impact of the AJC organizing effort.

“We’ve gone into this process with our eyes wide open,” Brysk said. “We understand, and have understood all along, that if it comes to a vote, it’s almost guaranteed, preordained, that the Palestinian initiative will pass.”

AJC’s goal, Brysk said, was not to defeat the Palestinian declaration outright, but to inform decision-makers of the group’s position. Realistically, Brysk said, the best that could be hoped for was that AJC and others could “either dissuade [the Palestinians] from taking the action or at least blunt their success by denying them the quality of the victory, if not the victory itself.”

Gary Jacobs, a member of AJC’s national board of governors who lives in Los Angeles, said he knew that meetings with consular officers might not be enough to change a country’s policy. But that wasn’t stopping him from traveling to New York for the AJC annual “diplomatic marathon,” a series of meetings that take place every year alongside the U.N. General Assembly.

And although the stakes in New York are high — some legal scholars have speculated that a newly recognized member state of Palestine could bring Israel to the International Criminal Court — Jacobs said he didn’t expected any pounding on tables in the meetings in New York.

“You know the AJC style, which is not at all confrontational,” Jacobs said. “These are kind and cordial meetings.”

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It’s time for a Jewish Spring

Recent weeks have not blessed us with much good news. Turkey’s bullying threats to Israel in the Eastern Mediterranean, the Palestinian determination to pursue its bid for statehood recognition at the United Nations this month, and the mob attack on the Israeli embassy in Cairo signal a very bleak winter for Israel and a very dark cloud over the entire Middle East.

These are unusual times, and the impending vote at the United Nations, in particular,  illustrates ever more clearly the urgency of Israel’s need for the Jewish people to stop bickering and to unite in support for the very existence of the Jewish state. Even with the U.S. commitment to veto any proposal for Palestinian recognition in the U.N. Security Council, a yes vote for statehood in the U.N. General Assembly would embolden Israel’s adversaries to reject any peace proposal that does not entail her eventual demise, and would further isolate Israel beyond anything we have seen in the past.

We are facing one of those critical moments when a sense of real urgency awakens nations to take charge of their destiny and act together to change the course of history. Are we ready for a Jewish spring?

In view of all this, the only bright light I have spotted in recent weeks’ news is the decision by J Street to oppose the Palestinians’ upcoming move to seek recognition at the United Nations.

I read the J Street statement very carefully, and it struck me as rather odd in its flatness and dryness — it reads like a diplomatic dispatch from the Swiss Embassy in Kamchatka more than a statement from a caring party facing a critical event in the history of our people. It certainly was a far cry from the creative, “out of the box,” “now is the time” statements we have heard from J Street in the past.

True, we can find there the usual “it will [not] advance peace, enhance security and improve conditions on the ground” and the obvious “the creation of a Palestinian state will not necessarily resolve the conflict” and the now dead-tired call for “jump-starting efforts to reach a two-state solution to the Israeli-Palestinian conflict.” What we do not find there is an earnest assessment of the situation that led to this unexpected decision.

Indeed, if we are to believe previous declarations by J Street leaders, then their decision to oppose the Palestinians’ bid to the United Nations is truly unexpected. If the Palestinians have been craving a peace agreement all along, and the only things that kept them from expressing those intentions were their hardship and hopelessness under the occupation, what could be more effective in boosting their self-esteem than granting them a bona fide state, full membership in the United Nations and a stronger microphone to broadcast their peace proposals worldwide? And if the only things that kept Israel from making painful concessions toward peace have been greed, lack of American pressure and the blindness of Israel’s leaders to Israel’s growing isolation in the word, what could be more conducive to ending this blindness than to shake them into a new reality with a hostile sovereign neighbor — more vocal and more demanding — which would make Israel’s isolation many times more painful and no longer ignorable? So, why did J Street decide to oppose this desirable scenario?

Some commentators are interpreting the J Street move to be a calculated decision to compromise on their agenda and tame their rhetoric in order to increase their influence and relevance among potential Jewish supporters. This makes perfect sense in view of the growing solidarity mainstream American Jewry now feels toward Israel in her new predicament. It might also reflect the understanding that going “all-in” for a conflict-bound Palestinian tactic could mean organizational suicide.

I would like to believe, however, that J Street’s decision reflects a more profound process of introspection, a more realistic assessment of Palestinians’ intentions vis-à-vis Israel’s future and, most important, a more enduring change in the way the Jewish community in general speaks, acts and stands for Israel.

I would like to believe that what J Street’s decision represents is the beginning of a Jewish spring — a period where we do wake up to the urgency of standing united against the rising threats to Israel’s existence, a day of reckoning with the centrality of Israel to our existence as a people, and an earnest commitment to take these threats more seriously than we have done in the past. It is, I believe, imperative to reassess our priorities and to act again as one people, in one big tent, to move toward a genuine and lasting peace.

If others have springs, why can’t we have one?

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