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July 27, 2011

Ban Iranian Olympians, World Jewish Congress urges IOC

The World Jewish Congress called on the International Olympic Committee to bar Iran from the 2012 Games until the country allows its athletes to compete against Israelis.

The WJC’s complaint comes in the wake of a withdrawal by an Iranian swimmer, Mohammed Alirezaei, from a race in Shanghai last week in which an Israeli was participating. Although Alireazei claimed he was “tired and drowsy,” and denied political reasons, according to the WJC, he used a similar excuse at the 2008 Olympics when he refused to compete in a race that included Israeli Tom Beeri.

“Iran’s behavior is unsportmanlike and smacks of anti-Semitism,” WJC President Ronald Lauder said in the statement. “It must be stopped!”

The WJC urged that Iran be banned from other international sporting events, as well.

The chairman of Iran’s National Olympic Committee, Mohammad Ali Abadi, said in an interview last year that Iranian athletes should boycott all competitions in which Israeli athletes participate, and in February he threatened to boycott the 2012 London Olympics over its logo—a stylized 2012 that Tehran claimed spelled Zion.

Sports in Iran are highly politicized. In 2009 four Iranian soccer players received lifelong bans for wearing green armbands in solidarity with protesters during a match, and last year an Iranian was kicked off his team after competing against an Israeli in the World Masters Weightlifting Championship.

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Abbas tells Palestinians: Step up Arab Spring-style protests against Israel

President Mahmoud Abbas urged Palestinians on Wednesday to step up peaceful protests against Israel, urging “popular resistance” inspired by the Arab Spring to back a diplomatic offensive at the United Nations.

Abbas, addressing a Palestine Liberation Organization (PLO) meeting, reiterated his decision to seek full UN membership for Palestinian state alongside Israel, saying it was a diplomatic move resulting from paralysis in the U.S.-backed peace process.

“In this coming period, we want mass action, organized and coordinated in every place,” Abbas said. “This is a chance to raise our voices in front of the world and say that we want our rights.”

Though the United States is expected to block their quest for a full seat, the Palestinians expect to secure at least an upgrade in their UN status during September’s General Assembly meeting in New York.

Read more at Haaretz.com.

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ZOA complaint seeking probe of Rutgers

The Zionist Organization of America has filed a complaint against Rutgers University alleging that the school fostered a hostile environment toward Jewish students.

The complaint requests that the U.S. Department of Education’s Office of Civil Rights investigate the New Jersey school for violating Title VI of the Civil Rights Act of 1964.

The complaint was filed, said ZOA’s President Morton Klein and Susan Tuchman, the director of ZOA’s Center for Law and Justice in a statement, “only after numerous serious efforts were made to get the university to respond to a long pattern of anti-Semitic hostility on campus, and the administration refused to do so.”

The brief names a number of examples, including one in which Jewish students allegedly were charged admission to a free event and a student was violently threatened on Facebook, as well as citing an alleged anti-Israel bias in the university’s Middle East studies program.

Rutgers denied the allegations in a statement, calling the assertions “factually inaccurate and significantly distorted,” and said the university “welcomes the opportunity to share with the U.S. Department of Education the accurate facts about the events that the ZOA has misrepresented in its allegations.”

Last October, Secretary of Education Arne Duncan reclassified campus anti-Semitism as prohibited discrimination covered by the Civil Rights Act. In March, the Office of Civil Rights launched its first investigation into campus anti-Semitism at the University of California, Santa Cruz.

In April, the American Jewish Committee in a statement criticized what it called the “misuse of Title VI to suppress anti-Israel speech,” saying the approach was “dangerous.” The statement, however, alluded to one of the instances at Rutgers outlined in the ZOA complaint as possibly warranting investigation.

AJC and ZOA were among the Jewish groups that had urged Duncan to issue the new Title VI guidelines last year.

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U.N. envoy: Israel deadlock standing in way of Palestinian state

Palestinians are ready for statehood but prevented by the deadlock in peacemaking with Israel, the United Nations’ special Middle East envoy said.

“The Palestinian Authority has, in key areas, reached a level of institutional performance sufficient for a functioning state,” Robert Serry, the special Coordinator for the Middle East peace process, said in a statement Tuesday summarizing his briefing to the U.N. Security Council.

Given the efforts of the West Bank administration of President Mahmoud Abbas and Prime Minister Salam Fayyad, Serry said, “The Palestinian Authority is ready to assume the responsibilities of statehood at any point in the near future.”

He lamented, however, the “profound and persistent deadlock” in peace negotiations and, while commending Israel for its confidence-building efforts, faulted the West Bank settlements.

“Without a credible political path forward, accompanied by more far-reaching steps on the ground, the viability of the Palestinian Authority and its state-building agenda—and, I fear, of the two-state solution itself—cannot be taken for granted,” Serry said.

Palestinian and Israeli delegates faced off at a Security Council session Tuesday, with the former appealing for statehood recognition and the latter saying there can be no alternative to direct talks.

The Palestinians have indicated they might campaign at the U.N.‘s General Assembly in September for countries to endorse their claim on sovereignty in all of the West Bank, eastern Jerusalem and the Gaza Strip.

Ron Prosor, Israel’s ambassador to the United Nations, suggested that the Palestinians lacked credibility given that Hamas controls Gaza and has not submitted to Abbas’ authority.

Addressing his Palestinian counterpart, Prosor said, “On behalf of whom will you present a resolution in September? Mr. Abbas or Hamas? Will it be on behalf of both the Palestinian Authority and the Hamas terrorist organization, which advances a charter calling for the destruction of Israel and the murder of Jews?”

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When murdering children becomes everyday news

A funny thing happened to me as I surveyed all the tragedies that have filled our newspapers over the past few weeks. I discovered that I was slowly becoming inured to the murder of children and the loss of human life.

From the freeing of Casey Anthony who partied while her daughter decomposed in a Florida wood, to the dismembering of Leibi Kletsky, whose only sin was to inquire of Levi Aron how he might find his way to a place called home, to the indiscriminate slaughter of 76 Norwegians, mostly young campers, by a heartless, right-wing villain, to the senseless death of Amy Winehouse, I concluded that for all our society’s protestations as to the infinite value of every person, human life is cheap and being further discounted by the day.

The death of Amy Winehouse is particularly indicative of that thrift. Not because she was more famous that the other victims or had more fans to grieve her loss, but because all the other deaths might not have been entirely preventable. We simply can’t stop every neighborhood monster from chopping up children and one would be hard-pressed to imagine what could have been done to anticipate a summer camp turned into a killing field. But we did know that Amy Winehouse was drugging herself to oblivion and had terrible influences in her life that were keeping her flying higher than the Hindenburg. We knew that her lyrics, “They tried to make me go to rehab, I said, “No, no, no,” were shockingly personal and biographies of the singer list so many public drug incidents that her body had become a walking pharmacy. Still, the paparazzi gathered. Still we amused ourselves with tabloid reports of her drunken concerts and slurred lyrics. Still we were regaled by media tales of her punching people in the face. Until, one day, she didn’t wake up and it wasn’t entertaining any more.

Michael Jackson was also a source of unending tabloid delight until his sleeping pills closed his eyes forever, orphaning three children and leaving us to wonder to whom we could now turn for further water cooler delight.

There is something sick about a society that has so caricatured celebrities that their suffering makes no human indentation, as if they were all cartoon characters who get squashed by a giant hammer only to pop right back up. But seeing the contorted faces of Janis and Mitch Winehouse was enough to remind us that Thor, Captain America, and the Green Lantern are fictional characters while drugged, drunk, and dead celebrities are all too human and frail.

My conclusion that we are all becoming desensitized to the value of life – especially children – was cemented by the bizarre criticism of the one tabloid story that should have brought us some cheer. Instead, the announcement that David and Victoria Beckham had just given birth to a fourth child brought derision in many British circles for the couple having too many children and overpopulating the earth, a sad fact that parents of large families, like me and my wife who thank G-d have nine, have encountered on many occasions.

Why is innocent life becoming so cheap? There are a number of factors.

First, there is the rampant materialism of a culture that values objects more than people. From parents who ignore their kids as they work long hours to keep with the Joneses to even spiritual rights of passage, like weddings and Bar Mitzvahs, that have become more about impressing friends than celebrating family milestones, money and fame are becoming more important than life and children. Just the other day a couple came to me for counseling because the wife wants a second child while her husband complains they can’t afford it. When the session was over they drove away in their Porsche.

Second, there is the shocking failure of religion to instill values in a culture that so desperately needs to be reminded of what is truly important. Even as we mourn the senseless deaths of so many children in so short a timeframe, religious leaders continue their obsession with fighting gay marriage which has just been legalized in New York. No doubt if gays were prevented from getting married society would become immediately healthy again and all the dead children would come back to life. Furthermore, with so many ostensibly religious people being guilty of perpetrating the horrors in the first place – from the Hamas anti-tank Missile fired against an Israeli school bus to Norwegian killer Anders Breivik being a self-declared Christian to Levi Aron’s credentials as orthodox Jew – the authority of religion is compromised from the outset by the evil still perpetrated by those who claim its name.

Third, and perhaps most important, is the immediate tendency to declare anyone guilty of heinous crimes – especially against children – to be immediately insane. In a televised debate on the Joy Behar show between me and Father Edward Beck, the prominent Catholic cleric excused Caylee Anthony’s clubbing after the death of her daughter by claiming she probably snapped and said that Levi Aron was insane and not responsible for his actions, even though Aron himself told police, “I understand this may be wrong and I’m sorry for the hurt that I have caused,” thus clearly demonstrating his ability to distinguish between righteous and immoral action. Anders Breivik’s own attorney is already claiming his client is crazy, even as the mass murderer argues that his actions were a European declaration of war with Islam. Is it not equally possible that each of these individuals was evil rather crazy, wicked rather than insane?

A rush of atrocities of this magnitude in so short a space of time should serve as a wake-up to our need to protect, value, and cherish children. We parents have no excuse to miss family dinners or bedtime stories. The boss and the office be damned. We need religious leaders that stop condemning gays and begin praising brave parents who adopt unwanted children. And if certain heterosexuals reading this are uncomfortable with gay adoption, then by G-d, adopt the kids yourself. We need Rabbis and priests who educate their communities in the value of visiting the sick in hospital, honoring and visiting elderly parents, and inviting guests to their Sabbath and festival tables, teaching children hospitality and caring for fellow beings.

Finally, we need the courage to call evil what it is. To point a finger at the real abominations in our midst so that those who devalue and destroy human life find no quarter in our sympathies or hearts.

Shmuley Boteach, ‘America’s Rabbi,’ is launching the Global Institute for Values Education and will shortly publish ‘Ten Conversations You Need to Have with Yourself.’ (Wiley). Follow him on Twitter @RabbiShmuley.

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CHEAP AND EASY RECIPES

Everyday food preparation is a rushed, harried, nerve-wracking chore that consumes time I’d rather spend at something more profitable, like listing my garage sale finds in eBay.  I would gladly pay extra for a house without a kitchen.  You know that show, Thirty Minute Meals? Who’s got thirty minutes? (For someone who resents cooking, I do spend a lot of time watching The Food Network. Go figure.)

But we can’t eat out every night – or so Benni claims – so I try to create meals that are quick, cheap, and healthy.  The good news is that the most beneficial foods are also the least expensive.  A curried tofu-veggie stir-fry costs a lot less than a steak, and doesn’t clog your arteries like the meat-and-potato diet I grew up with.  The same goes for the linguine with pesto sauce that I make from my home-grown basil.  Here are some lazy-ass recipes from my I’D RATHER NOT BE COOKING files.

• FOOLPROOF GUACAMOLE: Mash an avocado with a container of fresh salsa. 
• SPICY SHRIMP APPETIZER: Mix some ready-cooked shrimp with a container of fresh salsa.
• MEAT LOAF ACAPULCO: Mix a pound of ground turkey with a container of fresh salsa.
• Plus some suggestions from slothful friends.
• GIL’S GARBAGE GAZPACHO: Take yesterday’s leftover salad and throw it in the food processer with a can of plum tomatoes. (I would add some fresh salsa.)
• MICHAEL’S ELEGANT FROZEN DESSERT: Mix some vanilla frozen yogurt in the processer with a ripe papaya (or mango, or pineapple). Add a little rum, and serve in wine glasses. (Skip the salsa in this one.)

Whatever I prepare, I make sure there’s enough for a few days. That’s why cole slaw is my salad of choice: it’s got staying power

LOCAL HEROES
• I try to eat local and organic, which can be costly if you shop at classy emporiums like Whole Foods.  I resent paying seven dollars for a pound of cherries
• Trader Joe’s is a much better deal, but there’s an awful lot of plastic packaging which means (a) you’re messing up the environment, and (b) you’re forced to buy four artichokes when you only need two. I prefer to buy my produce piece by piece, as I need it. This is not the American way. I once asked my neighborhood greengrocer for two shallots. He joked, “Two shallots? You expecting company?” 
• Farmers Markets have glorious fruits and veggies: fresh and cheap.  Of course, the freshest and cheapest is the home-grown stuff. Even city people can do a little gardening: I just visited a photographer in New York who had trays of herbs on her fire-escape.
• My friends Laura and Guillaume are big meat-eaters, but they want to avoid the toxic chemically-grown supermarket stuff.  They found a nearby farm where the moo-moos live natural, happy lives. Half a beef was about $850 – including butchering. They had meat for about two years.

Asian markets are the best places to buy fish. The product is fresher than fresh, and the prices are rock-bottom.  Some of these places also sell live fowl, but that’s a little too fresh for me.

SUPER-SIZED
I don’t do those cavernous warehouse stores like Costco – they don’t suit my lifestyle. Fifty pounds of sugar for twenty-two bucks may be a good deal, but I will probably be in the ground before I use fifty pounds of sugar. 

I did score a two-pound jar of mango chutney for $6.89, at Smart and Final. Unfortunately, it had the thick, glutinous consistency of cheap jam.

I am, however, a big fan of the Ninety-Nine Cent Stores. I have found organic cauliflower and Silver Palate Pasta Sauces for – you guessed it – 99 cents.  Plus Italian pasta at two-for-a-dollar.  When you come across a great deal here, better buy as much as you can squirrel away: it may not be there next week.  I learned this the hard way, when they stopped carrying those round cardboard boxes of triangular cheese snacks that cost four bucks in the supermarket.

Here’s a cheapo healthy easy yummy dinner I made recently. 

ROTINI WITH CAULIFLOWER AND BREADCRUMBS
Cook small pieces of cauliflower together with the pasta. 

In a separate skillet, heat some olive oil and sauté
Garlic
Chopped sundried tomatoes
(A few anchovies – if you like)
Coarse bread crumbs – which I make myself from stale bread.
Chopped walnuts

Drain the pasta and cauliflower, add to the skillet, and mix in with the other ingredients.

Grate some Parmigiana cheese over the whole beautiful mess.

I threw together a green salad, and had a fab dinner for four.  Total cost was about seven bucks since I had gotten most of the ingredients at the Ninety-Nine Cent Store. 

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Negotiating a Landmine: Interacting with a Pregnant Woman

Pregnancy is both a beautiful and bizarre time. 

 

When I was pregnant, it felt like my body was no longer mine – not only did it belong to M and Little Homie

(and about ten thousand pounds of Haagen Dasz ice cream,) but it also seemed to be the property of  the whole entire world.    That’s what makes pregnancy so surreal – not only does your stomach shudder and shake like something out of a scene from Alien, but you also have to figure out how to navigate in a world where all the social norms you’ve grown up with are out the freaking window.

 

For instance:  If total strangers came up to you and fondled your belly when you weren’t pregnant, wouldn’t you shoot them  in the face with a can of pepper spray? 

 

If the barista at Coffee Bean said “are you sure you don’t want decaff, and holy crap, your boobs look huge” wouldn’t you actively consider throwing your drink in her face?  (And maybe be a little flattered but skeezed out as well? True story, by the way.)  

 

Now factor the hormonal highs and lows and being pregnant is super fun!

 

Look. I know that despite the gravitational pull of a knocked up woman’s belly, the universe does not revolve around her.  Still, I know how much I appreciated when people were supportive and loving, and not all weird and not judging every step I took, every pound I gained (85 for those keeping score at home) and every ice blended I sipped. which is why I was thrilled when  “>How to Properly Interact With Pregnant Women which ran a few days ag on

 

Anyway,   I thought I’d share her original questions and my responses here. 

 

What are some things you should never say to a pregnant woman?

 

First of all, in the interest of full disclosure, I have broken every single one of the rules I am about to lay out for you.  More than once. 


– OK.  The first cardinal rule when dealing with a pregnant person:  Now, say it with me: Never assume someone is pregnant unless she straight up tells you that she’s knocked up, or you actually see the baby crowning.  Food babies and real babies can look remarkably similar, so until you know for absolute certain that she is in fact ‘with child’, do not smile fondly and pat her belly.

In fact, just don’t pat her belly at all….

 

–   And this leads us to our second rule: Pregnant women are not public domain.  Even if she’s your BFF, do not caress her belly unless you’ve asked for permission, or unless she’s said “hey, do you want to feel Kicky McFetus in action?”  In which case, grope away… Even if she’s wearing a Buddha maternity shirt that says “rub me for good luck”ask.  Because you do not want to contend with an irate pregnant woman—she might sit on you.  (I would.)

 

 

Touch me, and I will cut you.  Try me.


–  OK, at some point, when a pregnant woman waddles into the third trimester, hearing “oh, you’re HEEEEYOUGE”  can be really annoying.  Especially when she has ten plus weeks to go.   But on the flipside, hearing “oh, you’re so teeny!” can be completely unnerving because it can make her question the health of the baby beneath. 

 

I experienced both extremes during my first pregnancy—until I reached 28 weeks, everyone told me how tiny I was, and this scared the crap out of me, so I hunkered down with Haagen Dasz, and within a few weeks the chatty homeless man in front of CVS informed me I was having twins. 

“No, not twins,”  said I.

“Triplets!  How wonderful!”

Yeah, not so much.

(In other words, please refrain from shouting “Thar she blows!”)


In fact, just don’t say anything about a pregnant woman’s belly – with one exception:  “You look FANTASTIC!”  is always great to hear.

 


(If she wants to gaze into the Eyes of Judgment, she can always go visit her Mother-in-Law. )


–  If a pregnant woman shows you the money shot of her baby-boy-to-be, you are allowed to say the following :

  *  Oh wow, no question there!

  *A boy!  That’s awesome!

  *- OH MY GAAWWWDDD that’s like the fetal version of Ron Jeremy!

There is one thing you must never ever ever ever ever say:  “Are they sure it’s a boy?” 

–  I think one of the most annoying things you can say to a pregnant woman is the classic line  “Oh, you better sleep now while you can because once the baby gets here, good luck” (hyuk hyuk hyuk.)  Yes, because pregnant women are squirrels gathering sleep for the long winter.  Believe you me, in the third trimester, most pregnant women have to contend with stabbing sciatic nerve pain, leg cramps, heartburn, 1:00 am, 2:00 am, 3:00 am, 3:30 am (damn that stupid glass of water!) and 4:00 am trips to the bathroom.  In other words, it’s virtually impossible to sleep…. Please don’t add to the anxiety by reminding a mama-to-be that it’s only going to get harder.   We will curse you when stress-eating our way through an entire bag of Hershey chocolate chips later that night.

– And finally, please don’t say  “Wait, you’re still pregnant?”  when you see her waddling toward the ice cream section at the grocery store three days after her due date.  We all know that the watched pot never boils.  So step away from the stove.

 

What are some things that are acceptable to ask or say? Things pregnant ladies (at least in your experience) like to hear?


– Any variation on the theme of “Wow! You’re glowing!  You look beautiful! ZOMG you are a goddess” are all acceptable.   And appreciated.  In fact, lets try this:  . Log into facebook.  Find your friend with all the bellyshot pictures, and  post an upbeat comment that does not refer to whale watching.

– You can also feel free to say something like “Oh wow, from behind I can’t even tell you’re pregnant. Drop it like it’s hot, baby mama!”

When in doubt, just give her a warm smile. 

Assuming you’re not going to a shower, should you send a gift/card before the baby is born, or should you wait until after? And what’s a good gift to get?


I’ll answer the easy part first: A good gift to get is whatever the parents-to-be ask for on the registry.  If there is no registry, ask what they want/need. You can also consider teaming up with other close friends to buy a ‘big’ gift (car seat/changing table/crib…) but just make sure to check in with the grandparents-to-be first because grandparents can be super territorial over the big ticket items. 


Also?  Give wash cloths.  First time parents seriously have NO IDEA how much they are going to need wash clothes.  No, really.  Wash cloths.  And babies tend to outgrow the 0-3 onesies super-fast. Although on the flipside, newborns are shit and spit machines and having itty bitty onesies is always helpful.

 

What are some ways you can offer to help a pregnant friend?

 

My dear friend, Crystal, came to more doctors appointments and impromptu jaunts to labor and delivery with me than my husband.  Even in the middle of my most neurotic, hormonally charged meltdowns, she was there for me with a pint of Haagen Dasz or Chicken Tika Masalah.  Not only that, but she seemed to genuinely love listening to me go on (and on and on and on and on) about each movement, each craving, each fear, and each hope.  In hindsight, I was probably a monstrous pain in the ass, but SHE was the epitome of grace and love.  And that’s the most wonderful gift she could give me – support.  No questions asked, no strings attached, compassion, love and support.


Now, if your pregnant friend lives far away, or you are busy and can’t race out at 11:00 PM to take her to the hospital because she’s sure she’s going into preterm labor (but really it’s just gas – not that I would know of such things…) there are other things you can do :  Ask to see ultrasound pictures.   “Like” the bellyshots she posts on Facebook even if they’re starting to get annoying.   And feel free to leave supportive, loving comments…. By doing these simple things, you help make your friend’s pregnancy a nurturing, beautiful experience.  She will notice, and she will be grateful.

 

(And the picture they chose to run with the piece?  Classic.  And maybe a little frightening. Totally worth clicking on the link just for that.)

 

 

 

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The Beginning of Kipnis and Feldman

Jason Kipnis has recently been called up by the Cleveland Indians. To date Kipnis has played in 2 games going 2 for 10 with two base hits (single and double). But that base hit was Monday’s game winner in the ninth against the Angels.

The Rangers have called up Scott Feldman for the DL. Feldman has pitched in 2.0 innings. He has no decisions, 1 K, and 4.50 ERA after allowing 2 hits and a run on Monday.

Hopefully they can both pick up their play.

And Let Us Say…Amen.
– Jeremy Fine
TheGreatRabbino.com

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A new twist on hate

In 1980, for the umpteenth time, someone asked the Nazi hunter Simon Wiesenthal whether “it could happen again” — “it” being the Holocaust.

“You take hatred and technology and you add in a crisis, and anything can happen,” Wiesenthal replied.

Last week, something tragic, horrific, almost beyond words happened.

A man filled with hate, empowered by Internet technology, took out his rage on innocent men, women and, especially, children in Norway. The death toll as of this writing has reached 76, with an untold number still missing.

If there are 1,000 faces of God, it turns out there also are at least that many of hate. The murderer, Anders Behring Breivik, this time around is a self-proclaimed Zionist, someone whose 1,300-page online manifesto praises Israel, the Jews, Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu and even Theodor Herzl, the founding father of Zionism.

And so this 32-year-old man has redefined the stereotype of the European right-wing fundamentalist. We are confronting now a murdering, minority-hating, Jew-loving, Israel-supporting, fascist, Christian, neo-Nazi — the head spins.

I don’t want to make too much of the fact that Breivik in his diatribe aligned himself with Israel and the Jews. I don’t want to pull focus from the victims or their anguished survivors, nor give him credit for having a coherent “ideology.”

“He’s a cut-and-paste Internet weirdo,” Rabbi Abraham Cooper, associate dean of the Simon Wiesenthal Center, said to me on Monday. “You take a guy who’s meshugge and you empower him through the Web. You give him a sense of community.”

True. But Breivik is also the extreme embodiment of those whose approach to the very serious problem of Muslim integration into Western liberal societies is to denigrate all of Islam, to spread fear and to turn the inevitable demographic changes in Europe into a clash of civilizations.

There are many Web sites where adherents of this particular brand of racism connect, stew and brew with one another. Islamversuseurope.blogspot.com (“Where Islam Spreads, Freedom Dies”) even now posts an apologia for the child killer, essentially blaming Muslims for Breivik’s massacre of Christian children. 

These people may think they have an ally in the Jews and Israel. They think they have our back. But our job is to inform them, loudly and clearly, that they don’t. The Jewish reaction to all this should be this: Take your hate elsewhere. To paraphrase our prophet Groucho Marx, we don’t want to be part of any club like this that would have us as a member.

Last February, a delegation of leaders from extreme right European parties toured Israel as a sign of solidarity and support. The trip went all but unnoticed except in a Newsweek article, which pointed out that an Israeli businessman, Chaim Muehlstein, subsidized the journey. 

They visited Yad Vashem and the West Bank settlement of Har Bracha. They met with some leaders of the Likud. 

According to Newsweek, they included “a Belgian politician known for his contacts with SS veterans, an Austrian with neo-Nazi ties, and a Swede whose political party has deep roots in Swedish fascism,” but the Israelis excused the anti-Semitic roots of their guests by pointing out that they had proclaimed their solidarity with Israel against the Muslims.

Most Israeli politicians shunned the delegation, as they should have. Anyone not blinded by Islamo-fear could see through the ploy.

“If you are against Muslims, then there is a certain reason to position yourself with Israel, because it is the single greatest irritant to the Muslims, therefore they’re to be admired,” Michael Berenbaum, a leading Holocaust scholar and professor of history at American Jewish University, told me. 

“They use Israel because they are anti-Semitic enough to believe that Jews control things.”

Cooper, an expert on European neo-fascism, believes Israel’s support from these groups is skin-deep, if that.

“They think my enemy’s enemy is my friend,” he said. “But we’re really talking about people who are anti-Muslim, not pro-Jewish.”

The ironies and fallacies of recruiting Jews to this cause are many. 

The hatred is partly a reaction to radical Islamic violence and increased Muslim population in Europe.

It is also, as Ravi Shankar, executive editor of the New India Express, has pointed out, a kind of Jew hatred without Jews — an extension, I suppose, of the true meaning of “anti-Semite.”

“Europe’s Muslim population of 15 million will become 30 million by 2015, while Europeans will shrink by 4 per cent,” Shankar writes at al-Arabiya.com. “Princeton academic and Islamic scholar Bernard Lewis famously said, ‘Europe will be Islamic by the end of the century.’ 
If Friday’s bombings in Oslo [are] a dark harbinger of troubled times, soon Muslims will be the new Jews of Europe. For all the old Jews are dead: murdered by fellow Europeans …

“Now the reverse is happening in Europe. It is the presence of Muslims in Europe that is the source of social panic and anger. The fear of being overwhelmed and alienated in their own country by outsiders who they think will breed terrorists. All this makes a fertile breeding ground for anti-Islamic neo-Nazism.”

And in this argument lies yet another fallacy, that Israel is against Arabs.

Israel’s population is about 15 percent Muslim, and their rights, like everyone else’s, are protected in the country’s Basic Laws.  Israel’s leaders recognize in fact, if not always in deed, the importance of coexistence, equal rights and integration.

And that is why a person like Breivik would find his head spinning if he looked at the fact that Muslims in Israel have greater rights to free speech than they do in most Muslim countries, as well as the freedom to practice their religion. Israel’s record on Arab minority rights isn’t perfect, but it reflects the values of Judaism that supersede those of pure tribalism.

The natural alignment here isn’t of Breivik and the Islamophobes being in accord with Israel and the Jews. The true alliance must be for people of all faiths in all nations to join together to fight against fanaticism. With the tragedy in Norway, we once again see we are essentially living in one world divided into two nations: The great majority of us — and Fanatistan.

The ultimate goal of right-wing extremists and Islamic extremists is to undermine tolerant and open societies. 

This new crop of fanatics may see Judaism as a tribe with which they can make a strategic anti-Islam alliance. But that is a misconception. Judaism has a tribal aspect, but it is more than just a tribe. It is a set of laws and values that Jews believe God set before that tribe, and which they must adhere to (with room for argumentation and interpretation, thank God). 

Those values pretty much preclude the murder of innocents, baseless hatred and the death penalty for people guilty of nothing more than that you fear them for being different. 

The pragmatic solution to the real problems of European immigration and integration is first to confront those issues — Europe has a poor track record on this. 

“You need an intelligent debate from the center,” Cooper said.  

“Otherwise it’s a gold-plated invitation to extremists to walk into the mainstream of society.”

And while we hope for that debate to happen, we need to make clear to the extremists that we share no common cause, that the enemy of our enemy can be our biggest nightmare.

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The Monzur revolution

It’s a little too soon for Time magazine to name its Person of the Year, but I want to put in an early vote for Rumana Monzur, who on June 5 was brutalized by her husband in their Bangladesh home and has decided to speak out on behalf of all abused women.

I’m warning you — you might not have the stomach for this paragraph, reported by Asra Nomani in The Daily Beast on July 16: “In an account that is bone-chilling, she says her husband pressed his fingers into her eyes, gouging them out. According to Monzur, he gnawed at her cheek, lips, and nose, biting off bits of flesh, blood spilling throughout the room as Monzur flailed. Her daughter, Anusheh, stood in a corner of the room, screaming, as two household servants struggled to open the locked door. A neighbor took her to the hospital, where her parents soon arrived. The diagnosis: blindness. ‘I lost my eyes,’ says Monzur. ‘I don’t want anyone to suffer like I am suffering. It is horrible.’ ”

Apparently, Monzur had shown her husband photos on her Facebook page, and he flew into a rage, accusing her of having an affair. As Nomani writes: “In that part of the world, where shame so often defines the moral conscience of society and a family’s honor lies so often in the image of a woman’s chastity and fidelity, this could have been yet another tragic but untold story at the altar of sharam, or shame, as it’s said in Urdu.”

But shame can cut both ways: “It seemed, at first, that Monzur’s story would be a typical case of shame used as a strategy to silence a victim. But through social media, it has provided a window into a new phenomenon among Muslims and others around the world: addressing shame with shame.”

This is the quiet revolution. While the eyes of the world are still riveted on a Middle East revolution started by a Tunisian fruit peddler who burned himself to death, a “Monzur revolution” has begun: Facebook pages, YouTube videos and online petitions have sprung up in support of Rumana Monzur, an abused wife who lost her eyes and now says, “I want that no one else suffers like me.”

“Why will we be ashamed? … They should be ashamed,” Monzur said from her hospital bed, speaking for herself and other abused Muslim women.

In fact, shame has been the main theme of the Monzur revolution.

“We have to change the very concept of what is ‘good’ and what is ‘bad’ in our societies,” said a Bangladesh colleague of Monzur. “We have to shame the perpetrators.”

But if we’re going to talk about shame, let’s be honest: There’s plenty to go around. We can start by looking in the mirror.

It’s not as if we in the Western world have been kept in the dark about the abuse of women in Muslim societies. No one has gouged our eyes out; we have closed them ourselves. We have no problem opening our eyes and yelling in indignation when Western women are abused — but what about when Muslim women are abused?

I understand the discomfort. We’re sensitive to other religions. We don’t want to be accused of being “anti-Muslim.” So we walk on eggshells. We talk about general themes like democracy, freedom and human rights, hoping, perhaps, that “women’s rights” will be swept up by the winds of change. Meanwhile, the abuse continues.

Are we not being cowards and hypocrites?

“Where’s the outrage?” Mona Eltahawy asked two years ago in the International Herald Tribune, after reporting on the subject: “July, hot and usually slow for many of us, was a month of humiliation and pain for 164 Muslim women sentenced to a public flogging for ‘crimes’ as varied and absurd as wearing trousers in public to having sex outside of marriage in countries as far afield as the Maldives, Sudan and Malaysia.”

So many of us love to rail against torture, but as Eltahawy reminds us: “Flogging is a cruel and inhuman punishment that is banned by international law and conventions like the one against torture, to which the majority of countries in the world are signatories.

“It is time for the international community to take away the pass to the international club from countries that duck out of their international obligations under the pretext of ‘cultural or religious’ reservations.”

No kidding. As a start, where are all those human rights groups who scream and yell about Gaza but keep their mouths perfectly shut when it comes to the flogging of Muslim women? And why has the liberal press not done more to expose the systemic abuse of Muslim women?

That’s why I’d love to see Rumana Monzur become Time magazine’s Person of the Year. Abusers of women the world over would be put on notice that we’re onto them and that the party’s over. That the world will no longer “stand idly by.” We will make it clear that our beef is not against Islam, but against the abuse of women, which is a mark of shame under any culture or religion.

“I don’t want anyone to keep secrets, things like this,” Monzur says about other abused women.

She might just as well have been speaking about us.

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