David Suissa confuses reconciliation with forgiveness (“Eva’s Peace Process,” May 21). People and nations can be reconciled with each other — and, as part of that, agree to live in peace in the future — without forgiving each other for past wrongs (e.g., U.S. and Japan, Jews and Catholics). Conversely, people and nations can forgive each other for past wrongs but never want to interact with each other again (e.g., divorced couples). I discuss these differences — and a third, related category of pardon — in Chapter 6 of my book, “Love Your Neighbor and Yourself.” David Suissa may be put to sleep by the proposal actively to pursue a two-state solution, but if that could be achieved, most Israeli and Diaspora Jews would say dayenu, it would be enough for us.\n