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February 18, 2010

Dating a Social Servant

Dear Yenta

I started dating my boyfriend in July. Any day now, he’s supposed to
run off to work for a disaster relief agency for 6 to 12 months in
some far-off, war torn, disease-riddled land. While I admire him
greatly for this choice (a choice he had made before we met), it’s
going to wreak havoc on our relationship. It’s been a long time since
I met someone with whom I have so much in common and that I really
enjoy. We are well matched. Although, he is emotionally reserved
in part because he knows he’s leaving. Yenta, is it worth continuing this
relationship or do I cut my losses now?

-Dating a Social Servant

Dear DASS,

If you started dating this man in July, and he knew when he met you that he was leaving, then you need to take a long hard look at yourself. You chose a man who you knew would leave you, and now you are wondering if you should hold on.

If you are as well matched as you say you are, then I am confused by the question. Long distance can be a bitch, but so can losing the most important person in your life. Is he emotionally reserved, or is he not that into you? Or, is he scared to lose you? If you are as well matched as you say you are, then I wouldn’t let this one go just because he is pursuing his far-away dreams.

Have you two talked about what happens next? Where does he stand? And have you had any time apart traveling since you met him? How did that work out? Long-distance relationships really depend on how much the individuals involved are willing to invest, both on their own and as a couple. If you think this do-gooder is someone you should keep around, then I would start fighting now.

And in the meantime, fight with a realistic understanding of what that kind of distance can do to a couple with a wobbly foundation, or how the distance can shrink with skype, effort, a plane ticket and a sincere investment in keeping up with the love. Are you two close enough to cultivate this? If not, and if he is the one, then a year apart on separate paths might just bring you closer when you find each other later and are really meant to be.

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New details in Dubai assassination of Hamas leader

Maybe you’ve heard that Mossad agents are suspected by Dubai of assassinating a Hamas leading during a trip to the emirate. Today the British government summoned the Israeli ambassador to see why six of the passports used by a suspected 11-person hit squad belonged to British-born Israelis. Many more new details from Haaretz:

Israeli Foreign Minister Avigdor Lieberman said earlier on Wednesday that there was no proof Israel’s Mossad spy agency was behind the assassination, after it emerged that some members of the hit squad involved in the killing had used the identities of foreign-born Israelis.

Lieberman did not deny outright Israeli involvement in the killing, saying only that Israel has a “policy of ambiguity” on intelligence matters and there was no proof it was behind the assassination.

“There is no reason to think that it was the Israeli Mossad, and not some other intelligence service or country up to some mischief,” Lieberman said when asked about the operation and the identity-theft.

Rafi Eitan, a former government minister and high-ranking Mossad official, denied Israel’s involvement flat-out.

“The Mossad was not behind the assassination of Mahmoud al-Mabhouh, but rather a foreign organization that is trying to frame Israel,” he told the radio station.

Men with the same names as seven of the 11 suspects whose European passport photos were distributed by Dubai this week reside in Israel, and those reached by reporters insisted their identities had been stolen and noted the pictures were not a match.

Six of the men are Britons who immigrated to Israel. The seventh is an American Israeli, whose name Dubai said was on a German passport used by one of the assassins.

As the mystery over suspects’ identities deepened, Britain and Ireland said they believed the British and Irish passports used by the alleged killers were forged.

Read the rest here.

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Britain, Ireland meet Israeli envoys over fake passports

Israel’s ambassadors to Britain and Ireland were called in to meet with Foreign Ministry officials of each country over the use of fake passports by a hit squad believed to be from the Mossad.

The envoys were asked to provide additional information about the forged travel documents used in the assassination in Dubai last month of top Hamas commander Mahmoud al-Mabhouh .

Israel’s ambassador to Britain, Ron Prosor, met with deputy Foreign Minister Sir Peter Ricketts Thursday afternoon after being invited by the ministry to clarify why the identities of six British-Israeli citizens who reside in Israel were used on the Dubai hit squad’s forged passports. 

“Despite my willingness to cooperate with his request, I could not shed new light on the said matters,” Prosor said following the meeting, Haaretz reported.

Hamas blames Israel’s Mossad for last month’s assassination of al-Mabhouh in a hotel room in Dubai. Israel has neither confirmed nor denied its involvement. Still, the incident has threatened to cause a rift in relations between Israel and Britain.

Prime Minister Gordon Brown called for a “full investigation” into the passports incident.

In a meeting Thursday afternoon with the Irish Foreign Ministry, Israeli Ambassador to Ireland Zion Evrony was asked to provide information about the fake passports used by the alleged assassins. Evrony said he did not have any information, Ynet reported.

The passport pictures released by Dubai police do not match the faces of the Israeli residents with the same names, according to reports. The passports used to enter Dubai were from France, Ireland, Britain and Germany.

Some of the named Israelis told Israeli media outlets that they have not left the country in years, nor were their passports lost or stolen.

Arrest warrants were issued Tuesday for 11 passport holders. Another six alleged assassins have been identified in the meantime, according to reports.

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West Bank teens riot during army drill

JERUSALEM—A soldier and two Border Police officers were injured when West Bank teens rioted, believing an army exercise was an eviction.

Some 30 teens threw rocks and bottles filled with paint at Israeli soldiers and other Israeli security forces Wednesday evening in the middle of an exercise aimed at defending Israeli communities against terrorist attacks, according to the Israel Defense Forces.

The exercise took place in the northern West Bank settlement of Yitzhar, located near Nablus.

The rioting teens also blocked the community’s gate to prevent the security forces from leaving.

In addition to the injuries, several military vehicles were damaged, according to the IDF.

The IDF had cleared the exercise with community leaders, according to reports.

“The IDF condemns tonight’s events, and will take severe measures against those involved,” an IDF statement said.

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Israeli rehab experts travel to Haiti

JERUSALEM —Israeli medical experts in the rehabilitation of amputees arrived in Haiti to help examine and evaluate injured victims from the devastating earthquake.

The medical professionals from Alyn Hospital, an Israeli rehabilitation center in Jerusalem for physically disabled children and adolescents, arrived in Haiti Wednesday under the auspices of IsraAID, a coordinating body of Israeli and Jewish relief organizations and other interested parties based in Israel. The team will examine and evaluate the type and number of injuries and amputations, as well as assess the abilities of the medical staff in Haiti to carry out the rehabilitation of its people.

“We are terribly saddened by the heartbreaking number of amputees in Haiti, but are grateful for the opportunity to be a part of IsraAID’s mission so that we can lend our expertise in rehabilitation to the people who need it most,” said Dr. Shirley Meyer, director-general of Alyn Hospital. “Our therapists will make a ground assessment of the rehabilitation and resources needed.

Meyer said that Alyn would provide rehabilitation to Haitian children and training to the island nation’s medical professionals if a decision is made to bring them to Israel.

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J Street congressional group snubbed, blocked from Gaza

WASHINGTON —The head of a Democratic congressional delegation to Israel is criticizing the country’s deputy foreign minister for refusing to meet with the group over its connection to J Street.

Danny Ayalon, the deputy foreign minister, declined to meet Wednesday with the delegation of five Democratic Congress members led by Rep. William Delahunt (D-Mass.) due to the trip’s sponsorship by the J Street Education Fund and Churches for Middle East Peace.

Additionally, JTA has learned that the Israeli army blocked the delegation from a planned tour of the Gaza Strip.

“In our opinion this is an inappropriate way to treat elected representatives of Israel’s closest ally who are visiting the country—and who through the years have been staunch supporters of the U.S.-Israeli special relationship,” Delahunt said at a news conference.

Joining Delahunt in the delegation are Reps. Bob Filner and Lois Capps, both California Democrats, Mary Jo Kilroy (D-Ohio) and Donald Payne (D-N.J.). The five-day trip included meetings with top Palestinian officials, the king and prime minister of Jordan, and members of the Knesset.

Maariv reported that the Foreign Ministry recommended the Israeli prime minister and president not meet the delegation, and permitted only a meeting with Dan Meridor, one of five deputy prime ministers. Sources within J Street expressed their dismay.

On Thursday, the delegation met with the opposition leader, Tzipi Livni, who also implicitly criticized Ayalon in a statement.

“Even if there are difference of opinion, and there are, that is not the way to treat Israel’s friends who want what is good for it,” she said.

J Street, which describes itself as “pro-Israel and pro-peace,” favors U.S. pressure on Israel and the Palestinians, and criticized Israel’s invasion of Gaza. In recent months, however, it also has backed Israel on several high-profile issues and lined up behind immediate passage of new U.S. sanctions against Iran. Israel’s ambassador to Washington, Michael Oren, recently told The Jewish Journal of Greater Los Angeles that “the J Street controversy has come a long way toward resolving” and said the group had moved “much more into the mainstream.”

Ayalon offered to meet with the lawmakers as long as representatives of the sponsoring groups were not present, a condition the delegation rejected.

In response to Delahunt’s request for an explanation, the Foreign Ministry released a statement that said it was “happy to arrange such meetings for U.S. Congress members currently in Israel, without any mediators. The Foreign Ministry is troubled by the attempt to dictate who will be present at such meetings, which is unacceptable in diplomatic life.”

Meetings between Israeli officials and such delegations are typically mediated by representatives of pro-Israel groups.

Ayalon already had voiced his displeasure with J Street on Tuesday when addressing the Conference of Presidents of Major American Jewish Organizations, telling the audience that “[J Street] cannot say that they are pro-Israel”—a claim that Delahunt branded as inaccurate.

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Elevator transferred to Gaza maternity hospital

An elevator was transferred to Gaza for use in the coastal strip’s only maternity hospital.

The elevator will be installed in the three-story Al-Awda Maternity Hospital in Jabaliya, which is used by all women giving birth in the Gaza Strip, according to a statement by the Defense Ministry’s Coordination of Government Activities in the Territories department.

The transfer of the elevator was executed with the cooperation and funding of the World Health Organization, and following a formal request by the Quartet, the diplomatic grouping of the United States, the United Nations, Russia and the European Union that is mediating the Middle East peace process.

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ADL, AJC deny Passion play hechsher

The Anti-Defamation League and the American Jewish Committee said a news release suggesting that they had approved of this year’s Oberammergau Passion Play was misleading.

“American Jewish Committee and the Anti-Defamation League have not approved the 2010 Oberammergau Passion Play,” said a statement issued jointly by Rabbi Eric Greenberg of the ADL and Rabbis Noam Marans and James Rudin of the AJC, who had consulted with the Oberammergau production team.

“After our rabbinic team met in Oberammergau with the directors and church (Catholic and Lutheran) theological advisor in October 2009, we made clear a number of issues of great concern regarding the play’s text, visual images and significant plot changes that we believe can transmit toxic anti-Jewish images and perceptions,” the statement said. “We notified them about our concerns in a Nov. 4, 2009 letter, and have never received a response.”

Both groups asked the producers to remove references suggesting their approval from press materials.

The most recent Oberammergau news release on the play’s Web site, dated Nov. 30, 2009, says that “Two high-ranking rabbis of the Anti-Defamation League and American Jewish Committee were consulted in order to avoid any anti-Semitic references.”

The Oberammergau is a Passion play that has been staged in the Bavarian village—and featuring only its residents—every 10 years, going back to the 1600s. It is a major tourist attraction, drawing half a million viewers to its shows, which will be staged this year between May and October. Its depictions of Jews at the time of Jesus’ crucifixion were notoriously anti-Semitic.

In 1970, the village started consulting with Jewish authorities in order to tamp down anti-Jewish imagery. The efforts have had mixed success.

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Israelis to become goodwill ambassadors

A new campaign will turn Israeli citizens into goodwill ambassadors for Israel abroad.

The Ministry for Public Diplomacy and the Diaspora has started an initiative to teach Israelis how to present Israel positively. The initiative includes pamphlets given to Israeli passengers leaving Ben Gurion International Airport, a Web site and training workshops across the country.

The trainees will include ordinary citizens, as well as businessmen, celebrities, athletes, youth groups participants and politicians, among others.

“To counter the vast sums of money invested by Arab states in propaganda against Israel, we have to mobilize our human capital, meaning the residents of Israel,” Information Minister Yuli Edelstein said in a statement.

A poll commissioned by the ministry found that 91 percent of the 495 Jewish Israelis surveyed believed that Israel has a bad or very bad image abroad. Some 85 percent said they would want to help represent Israel when they are abroad.

Three million Israelis go abroad each year.

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Pe’er reaches Dubai semis

Israel’s Shahar Pe’er has advanced to the semifinals of a tennis tournament in Dubai.

Pe’er defeated eighth-seeded Na Li in the quarterfinals Thursday of the Barclays Dubai Tennis Championships. Pe’er was leading 7-5, 3-0 when the the Chinese player withdrew due to back pain.

She will face the winner of the quarterfinal match between American Venus Williams, the third seed, and unseeded Anastasia Pavlyuchenkova of Russia in Friday’s semifinals.

Pe’er, who is ranked 22nd in the world but was unseeded in the tournament, has been competing amid tight security. She missed the tournament last year after being denied a visa by the United Arab Emirates.

The Israeli standout upset top-seeded Caroline Wozniacki, 6-2, 7-5, to reach the quarterfinals.

Pe’er has been restricted to traveling from the tennis courts to her hotel due to concern for her safety in the Muslim country. She is also separated from the rest of the players and has her own dressing room and gym, according to reports. Spectators of Peer’s matches must be screened by metal detectors.

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