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January 6, 2010

Dorothy Greenstein: Every Day, Another Way to Give

“Ask me anything you want,” says Dorothy Greenstein as she leads a group of children through the Museum of Tolerance.

The 79-year-old great-grandmother has much to relate and much to remember.

Greenstein was born Devorah Kirszenbaum, the youngest of 10 children, in Otwock, a small town near Warsaw. She was 9 when the German army invaded Poland, and from 11 on she was on her own.

Her stories of escapes from a ghetto and labor camp, hiding in farm fields and forests, and life-or-death brushes with German soldiers and Polish police could fill a thick autobiography.

She attributes her survival, while most of her family perished, to her blondish braids and blue eyes, accent-free Polish, her own wits, the help of some Polish gentiles and a lot of luck.

Although she is open to talking about her own experiences, there is one topic — Holocaust atrocities — that she won’t share with her young visitors.

After 31 years as a fourth-grade teacher at Emek Hebrew Academy, Greenstein “retired” to become a full-time volunteer with a full weekly schedule.

One day is devoted to the Museum of Tolerance, where she has worked for 15 years. A second day to the Jewish Family Service’s Valley Storefront, staffing the boutique.

On a third day, she works as a volunteer saleslady at the American Discovery Shop in Sherman Oaks, whose proceeds go to support cancer research.

After a docent stint at the Skirball Cultural Center, Greenstein has switched, on her fourth day, to the Los Angeles Museum of the Holocaust.

That’s by no means all. For the past four years she has participated in the March of the Living to Poland, including memorial visits to Auschwitz and other Nazi concentration camps, and then on to Israel.

Add to that her gift as a polyglot, speaking six languages learned from fellow multinational inmates in a displaced persons camp. She uses her skills to give free language lessons.

Greenstein, whose husband Allen, 85, cooks while she volunteers, has a son and daughter, six grandchildren and one great-grandchild. Nevertheless she finds time to answer questions she receives from all over the world in long, hand-written letters, or sometimes by e-mail.

When asked, she will speak at such diverse venues as a Long Beach military academy or local Catholic parochial schools.

As a helpful bubbe, she dispenses practical first-aid advice, to the point that some of her “patients” now address her as Dr. Greenstein.

However, her childhood ambition was to become a concert pianist. That career was cut short when, shortly after war’s end, she landed a blow on the nose of a Polish kid, who called her a “scabby Jew.” The force of the blow broke her own finger.

“Dorothy is a treasure and a wonderful role model,” said Elana Samuels, director of volunteer services at the Museum of Tolerance. “She radiates love and a sense of hope.”

Monise Neumann is the director of the Jewish Bureau of Jewish Education’s March of the Living program and has been with Greenstein on the last four of the annual trips.

“Dorothy has become the grandmother for hundreds of youngsters,” Neumann said. “There is no hate in her, she just exudes love.”

During one trip, the group visited Greenstein’s birthplace, where she organized the local Polish kids to restore the old Jewish cemetery.

So what makes Dorothy Greenstein run?

“I don’t like shopping, I buy only used stuff, and I don’t like to sit down,” she answers. “But I love helping people.”

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Alisa Malki and Caryn Roth: Changing Lives One Challah at a Time

It was 2006. Alisa Malki (at left in photo) was hanging out in Caryn Roth’s UCLA dorm room when she told her friend about a nonprofit organization called Challah for Hunger she’d heard about on National Public Radio.

Excited, Roth (at right in photo) said she knew the program through a friend who was involved with it at Claremont College.

That was that. The girls, both now 21 and seniors at UCLA, made the decision to bring the program to their school.

Having gotten the approval through the university bureaucracy, since 2007 they’ve spent virtually every Thursday of the academic year working with a large group of volunteers in the kitchen at Hillel baking an assortment of flavored challahs. On Friday mornings, they sell the challahs on campus — and they always sell out.

“It combines two things I love,” Roth said. “Baking and helping people.”

Challah for Hunger has 28 chapters at colleges all over the country. Each one donates its proceeds to a different cause.

Malki and Roth’s chapter donates 100 percent of its proceeds to Jewish World Watch’s Solar Cooker Project, which provides solar cookers to refugee camps in Chad so that women don’t need to venture out to gather wood for fires, risking rape and other violent attacks.

“It’s a tangible way of seeing a real impact,” Malki said of the choice to raise funds for solar cookers.

When she’s not baking challahs, Malki is majoring in international development, hoping eventually to combine a medical degree with a master’s in public health. 

Roth, meanwhile, is majoring in computational systems biology, which combines biology, engineering and math.

Growing up in Redlands, Malki was one of three Jewish students at her high school. UCLA became her first opportunity to become involved with a larger Jewish community.

Roth, on the other hand, was born and raised in an Israeli family in Berkeley, where there is a large Jewish population.

Both will graduate in June and already are planning to ensure that the program will continue when they’re gone. They have installed new leaders and an executive board.

“They know what it takes to keep students involved,” said Rachel Cooper, who Malki and Roth made co-president of the chapter last year. “They inspire me.”

Recently, Malki and Roth traveled to Washington, D.C., to represent Jewish World Watch and spread awareness about what they do.

Asked whether they consider themselves mensches, they insist that the attention not be put on them. “It’s not about two people,” Malki said. “It’s about the community created from it.”

“The two of us alone could not make or buy all those challahs,” Roth said.

“We could try to eat them all,” joked Malki.

“We do eat a lot,” Roth agreed.

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Our Fifth Annual Salute to Big-Hearted Angelenos

Each year, when we set out our criteria for our annual pantheon of L.A.’s top mensches, we try to find nominees whose good works are, for the most part, unsung.

As it turns out, often that’s the toughest requirement to meet. Finding the people who keep their mitzvahs below the radar isn’t easy, because those who do so do their work out of a true sense of humility. Not feigned. Real.

As a result, many of the mensches we ultimately call upon don’t understand why they’re being included — and often don’t want the recognition at all. It’s not about them, they tell us, it’s about the cause. They don’t work on their own — they’re just one of many who contribute, they protest. Many others do more, they say.

Indeed, some worthy mensches decline the honor. Those who do accept do so because they want to shine a light on their passions — whether it’s working with families of very sick children, baking challah to raise money for Darfurian refugees, setting up a microloan fund for Arab and Jewish women in Israel or sharing the story of the Holocaust with young people.

But even if they don’t need the recognition, we need to know about people like those included here. We as a community and as individuals can learn from these mensches what one person can do to help change the world.

So don’t worry, dear mensches. It’s not about you. It’s about all of us.

The Mensch List

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Visits to Rabbi’s Tomb Raise Ire in Egypt

Every year, hundreds of Jews from around the world make a pilgrimage to visit the tomb of a revered rabbi in Egypt’s Nile Delta, located near the Mediterranean port city of Alexandria. This year, tensions between the Israelis and the Palestinians almost spoiled the holy event, scheduled for Saturday, Jan. 9.

Moroccan-born Rabbi Yaakov Abuhatzeira, who died in 1879, is the grandfather of the late Israeli Kabbalist Yisrael Abuhatzeira, better known as the Baba Sali. The tomb of Rabbi Yaakov, who is also known as Abir Yaakov, has become a place of pilgrimage for many hundreds of Jews. Most of the pilgrims arrive from Israel and receive the protection of local security services.

As the date neared for this year’s commemoration of the death of Abuhatzeira, Egypt’s main political movements expressed outrage at their government’s decision to allow Jewish devotees to come to Egypt at a time of high tension between Palestinians and Israelis.

“Visits by Jews shouldn’t happen while Israel continues to impose a choking blockade on the Gaza Strip,” said Mohamed Awad, a member of Egypt’s main protest group Kefaya (Enough). “By allowing these people to come here, our government is betraying the cause of the Palestinians,” he told The Jewish Journal in an interview.

Abuhatzeira’s devotees view him as a pious mystic and miracle worker. He was traveling from Morocco, his country of origin, to the Holy Land when he fell ill and died in the Egyptian village of Damitoh, about 75 miles north of Cairo. A tomb was made for him inside a chamber in the area.

Jewish pilgrims have come to Egypt to visit the tomb and commemorate the death of the rabbi every year since Egypt signed a peace treaty with Israel in 1979.

In recent years, however, Egypt has limited the number of Jewish visitors to the tomb, citing security reasons against the background of increasing tensions between the Israelis and the Palestinians.

In 2009, Egypt denied entry to Jewish pilgrims, because Abuhatzeira’s death anniversary coincided with Israel’s offensive against the Gaza Strip, which is controlled by the Islamist movement of Hamas. Egyptians held nationwide protests against the Israeli offensive.

Late last month, just before the 2010 commemoration of Abuhatzeira, Egyptian President Hosni Mubarak reportedly accepted a request from Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu to hold the commemoration and allow an unlimited number of visitors this year, according to Israeli newspapers.

Near the site of Abuhatzeira’s tomb, thousands of black-clad Egyptian policemen were deployed to guard the event and offer protection to the Jewish pilgrims.

Villagers living near the tomb say they were told to stay home and avoid coming near the place of the celebration.

But such measures haven’t stopped talk in the Egyptian media about the need to prevent this celebration, a demand that rises each year at this time. Some Egyptians have taken the matter to the courts.

In 2001, Mustafa Raslan, an Egyptian lawyer, filed suit against the Egyptian government for allowing Israeli nationals and Jews to come to Egypt for the commemoration. The court ruled to ban the ceremony, ostensibly reacting to public outrage at the event.

Raslan has filed another case to move the remains of Abuhatzeira from Egypt altogether. A verdict is expected in about two weeks.

“We’ll continue to challenge these celebrations and see what happens,” said Gamal Muneib, an Egyptian political activist, who staged a protest against the event together with scores of other activists on Tuesday. “We’ll prevent the buses carrying these Jews to the site of the tomb, even with our bodies,” he added.

Muneib and others have recently formed a new movement to lobby against the Jewish celebration. The movement, called “Over My Land They Won’t Pass,” aims to pressure the government to ban the Abuhatzeira event.

This is a tense time for relations between Egypt and Israel, especially at the public level. A few weeks ago, Egypt started building an underground steel barrier at its border with the Gaza Strip, according to official statements, to block tunnels through which weapons are smuggled. Gaza has been subject to an Israeli blockade since Hamas took over in 2007.

The generally held view in Egypt is that the barrier will choke Hamas and the 1.5 million residents of Gaza, and many believe it is being built at Israel’s behest.

The barrier has ignited a plethora of protests and critical newspaper columns over the last few days. To many in this populous country, Egypt is washing its hands of its role as the big sister of the Arabs, as one columnist put it two days ago.

This sentiment, alongside memories of wars between Egypt and Israel, are being channeled toward the Jewish pilgrims for the Abuhatzeira event.

Despite this, Cairo Airport has seen the arrival of hundreds of Israelis and Jews from Europe and elsewhere over the last few days. The Associated Press   reported that as many as 290 arrived at the Cairo airport last Sunday, Jan. 3.

But future visits could be in jeopardy. One Egyptian MP, Zakaria al-Ganayni, plans to raise the issue during the next sessions of the Parliament. He says he will question the government about allowing the Jews to come here to celebrate.

“I’ll also demand a public referendum on the anniversary itself,” he said. “If Egyptians vote ‘No’ to the visits of the Israelis here, we can abolish the event altogether,” he added in statements to the press.

Absent from his mind perhaps was the fact that, prior to the 1952 military coup that toppled the monarchy here, Egypt used to boast a large Jewish community.

The Egyptian capital is home to several Jewish synagogues and many Jewish antiquities, which act as a testament to the harmonious life this country used to have before the coup.

Al-Qotb (“The Writer”) is a pseudonym for The Jewish Journal’s Egyptian correspondent.

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Natalie Portman hates Holocaust roles

In an interview in February’s Elle magazine, actress Natalie Portman admits she avoids playing Jewish characters.

“I’ve always tried to stay away from playing Jews,” she told the mag. “I get like 20 Holocaust scripts a month, but I hate the genre.” As far as her role as a Hasidic bride in the recent “New York I Love You,” Portman says it was the first Jewish character that “intrigued” her.

She isn’t terribly fond of romantic comedies either, telling the magazine, “It wasn’t that I didn’t want to do comedy. It’s just that I would only get offered girlfriend parts in guy comedies, which aren’t exciting to me, or those offensive roles in romantic comedies where the woman has to have a job in fashion so that she can have nice clothes, and her goal is always marriage.”

Apparently she prefers to play Indian princesses as she did in her ex-boyfriend’s wacky Bollywood video (see below). And speaking of boyfriends, I hear she has a new one: rumors have her dating up-and-coming ballet choreographer Benjamin Millepied who trained her for her role in Darren Aronofsky’s “Black Swan.” Millepied trained in France and is currently a principal dancer at the New York City Ballet, though that seems to be the least of his accomplishments.

According to Vogue:

Even while continuing to dance, Millepied, 32, has choreographed works for ABT, Mikhail Baryshnikov, and his own touring ensemble, Danses Concertantes. Deeply committed to new music, he has commissioned scores from composers like Nico Muhly and Thierry Escaich, the celebrated French organist with whom he will premiere a work at NYCB this spring. “I enjoy making large-group works a lot now,” he says. “That’s what a real choreographer is supposed to be able to do. It takes a lot more—it’s composing a ballet like composing a score.” He’s also branching into film, as the choreographer for Darren Aronofsky’s Black Swan, a psychological thriller about ballerinas starring Natalie Portman and Mila Kunis. “The interesting thing is to be working with someone who knows how to tell a story,” he says.

Portman as Princess Carmensita:

 

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How do you say ‘wormhole’ in Hebrew?

Why is English the go-to language for science fiction, even when it isn’t the writer’s mother tongue?

Israeli-born sci-fi writer Lavie Tidhar skipped an opportunity for “shameless self-promotion” on World SF News to mull this phenomenon, citing as example French, Finnish and Dutch sci-fi authors who are choosing to write in English. Tidhar, author of the English-language novel “The Bookman”—due out in the UK and Australia tomorrow, summer/fall-ish in the United States—uses his editorial (which Charlie Jane Anders blogged at io9) to look at the English-centric world of science fiction through a Hebrew lens:

So… why English? I ask the question not for myself but because a common argument – across languages, in fact, since I’ve heard it expressed with regards to any non-English language, from Hebrew to French – is that English is the language of science fiction.

What do they mean by that? Why can’t science fiction be written in other languages?

My own view, of course, is that this is (to borrow a term from that great showman, P.T. Barnum) complete hokum. Yet it is so prevalent, and I see it repeated again and again. Partially it is the terminology of science fiction – anything from wormhole to ansible, from warp drive to FTL, from “plugged in” to BEM to the “science fiction” itself. In Hebrew, for instance, science fiction was initially called mada dimyoni, or “imaginary science”, before being replaced with mada bidyoni, or “fictional science”, then shorthanded conversationally to madab, the sort of acronym Hebrew likes so much. English is the language of science fiction! And there’s something in that – when you even have to argue about which word to use for the English “telephone” or “computer”…

But consider.

One of the nicest words Hebrew doesn’t use is “sach-rachok” (try pronouncing the ‘ch’ as that sort of deep-in-the-throat sound). It means something like “speak-distance” and was an early word proposed, by that most venerable institute, the Academy of the Hebrew Language, for “telephone”.

Of course, it also sounded a bit silly, and no one wanted to use it, and Hebrew ended up borrowing the word “telephone” and making quite nice use of it after all.

But see, that’s the beauty of language – any language. Not just the act of borrowing (what is also called ‘loan words’) – the way English borrowed “amen” or “cabal” or “sack” from the Hebrew, or borrowed “algebra” and “bazaar” from Arabic, or “chocolate” from Nahuatl…

Languages always evolve, and they do so by borrowing, and by modifying, and by adapting, and by making up new words (neologisms). English does a lot of it… and so does any other language. Being a speaker of Bislama (the pidgin English – and now, sometimes, creole – of the South Pacific islands of Vanuatu), I was delighted recently to come across a new verb – gugelem. Which means, of course, to google! (as in, bae mi gugelem – I’ll google it).

The argument about vocabulary really doesn’t hold. Indeed, it should be one of the most fun parts of writing science fiction in another language – coining new terms or transforming existing ones to create a new language of science fiction.

And yet…

Here I am, “guilty” just as much for writing in English.

The thing is, I do love English. And by writing in English I can assure myself not only more readers, but also – and this is rather crucial, alas – better pay for my work. But I continue, albeit rarely, to write in Hebrew for the pure joy of it – short stories such as “Shira” (later translated and published in English in The Del Rey Book of Science Fiction & Fantasy, ed. Ellen Datlow), or “Chalomot Be’aspamia” (translated and published, as “Daydreams” in Apex Digest) – I even wrote an entire book in Hebrew, with Nir Yaniv, just for the hell of it – “Retzach Bidyoni”, or “A Fictional Murder” (itself a play-on-words on the Hebrew term for science fiction), a tongue-in-cheek murder mystery set in an Israeli SF convention, a la Bimbos of the Death Sun…

I’m even working on a book that incorporates at least segments of Bislama into the narrative – and would happily write an entire book in that language, if only there was someone to publish it…

For it is market forces that dictate the writing of science fiction, not “a limited vocabulary” or some mythical Campbellian (John, not Joseph) strictures; it is not lack of words but lack of finance that restrict, in many parts of the world, the writing of science fiction into the foolhardy act of a maddened lover. And yet there is a joy in it, a purity that can be captivating.

My love of Hebrew science fiction – however obscure the titles, however bad some of its early forms – remains alongside my love of English science fiction. And it shapes my own writing, whatever the language.

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The Plight of the Iranian Jewish Divorcée

A hundred years ago in Iran, my great-grandmother, Tavoos Khanum (later known as Mrs. Peacock), made history by becoming the first Jewish woman ever known to have left her husband. She had married him when she was 9 years old; he was two decades older. He was handsome and wealthy, and he was good to her, but he was also good to a great many other women — which was understandable, given that men have natural urges that must be satisfied — but Mrs. Peacock was an odd and troublesome kind of wife. She lasted a little over 10 years and then gave her husband an ultimatum, and when he ignored it, she packed up her bundle of clothes and her four small children and walked out on him, into the life of poverty and hardship she knew awaited her beyond the doors of her husband’s house. The laws of the land and the traditions of the community being what they were, a married woman was at best a “guest” in her husband’s house — allowed to enjoy the facilities while she was on the grounds, but not entitled to anything from the moment she left, not even if she had helped create it.

A whole lot has changed in our world since Mrs. Peacock left Solomon the Man. In the United States, most Iranian Jewish women have rights and freedoms they couldn’t dream of in Iran. And yet, in the wealthy neighborhoods and million-dollar homes of Great Neck and Beverly Hills, when it comes to ownership of property or wealth made or acquired during the course of a marriage, most Iranian Jewish men still see their wives as “guests.”

Take the daggers out if you must, Gentlemen, and blame me for being the messenger with the too-loud voice, but I believe this is a story whose time has come: A girl is raised (in Beverly Hills or Manhattan, Sherman Oaks or Roslyn) with the ultimate aim of finding a good husband. She marries in her early 20s, lives in a beautiful house, drives a great car, competes with other married women over whose kid goes to the most expensive school and whose husband makes the most money, and it’s all fine and dandy; she can reign over her empire of sand as long as she remains married to the same man. But if either one of them decides to call it quits, she will end up pretty much where Mrs. Peacock did after she left Solomon the Man — on the street or in her father’s house, poor or dependent and besieged by not only the former husband, but also her own relatives; not just by the men, but often even more so by the women, all of them telling her she should have made the marriage work at any cost because look at her now — middle-aged, with no skills and no work experience. And it isn’t as if the husband’s about to give her a dime — he’d rather spend all his money on the lawyers if he has to, it’s a matter of principle, you see, we can’t let one woman get away with a big settlement because that would embolden all the others who’re unhappy and champing at the bit, before you know it they’ll all be filing for divorce and taking their husbands to the cleaners.

Yes, I know we have “community property” and “alimony” and “child support” in this country. But we also have men who have made an art of skirting those laws, who have created a support system of family members, friends and paid agents, all with the singular purpose of making sure that every woman who dares dream of divorce understands just what she’s getting in the bargain. The million-dollar house she lives in with her husband belongs, on paper, to his father; the three apartment buildings and two businesses and seven cars bought during the life of the marriage actually belong to his brothers and uncles and nephews. He can’t pay alimony because he’s living, on paper anyway, below the poverty line — the Ferrari parked outside notwithstanding.

There are, of course, some exceptions — men who deal fairly, even generously, in a divorce settlement, but the fact that those are exceptions rather than the norm in this culture should tell us something. And, of course there are American and European men, too, who have been known to play dirty in a divorce; that’s why we have the $800 per hour attorneys’ fees. But to say that evil exists everywhere does not justify its existence in the first place, and let’s face it, guys, we have people in this town who make a living by standing in, on escrow and title documents, for husbands in divorce proceedings: For a fee, they will sign sworn affidavits claiming that they, not the husband, really own the properties in dispute. Divorce attorneys know this, and so, by now, do many judges working in family courts in this country. But there’s only so much the law can do in the face of an entire establishment that has planned and guarded against a possible divorce even before the marriage began (the eleventh hour quit-claim papers are just the beginning); there’s only so much a woman can do against all the forces that conspire to keep her submissive and silent (her own fears, her family’s wishes, her children’s fate, her husband’s promise to make sure she goes to her grave barefoot and hungry, all those Hermes bags he bought her during the marriage can go to hell).

Mrs. Peacock worked day and night to raise her children alone, and in time built a small fortune and a remarkable legacy. One of her daughters founded the first battered women’s shelter in Iran. Still, at the end of her life when she tallied her gains and losses, she declared that for a woman, any bad marriage is better than the poverty of divorce. Today, I know many women my own age and younger who have reached the same conclusion; I know others who have taken the very brave step Mrs. Peacock once took and who are paying the price. But I don’t know many men who decry the mindset and actions of dead-beat husbands, and I don’t see any of our community leaders — our rabbis, especially, who are so good at telling us just how to be good Jews — so much as broaching this subject.

That leaves us — the women.

I’d say it’s time we taught our daughters to become financially independent before they get married, and taught our sons to treat their wives as they would like their sisters and daughters to be treated in a marriage. That we lent moral and financial support to our friends who are raising their children without the aid of their fathers, actually condemned those fathers’ actions instead of accepting them as a permanent truth.

We’ve become very good at organizing for Hadassah and JNF and a hundred other Jewish causes. Those are all safe and easy. Maybe it’s time we took on a bigger challenge, looked inward and tended to our own, as well as to others.

Gina Nahai is an author and a professor of creative writing at USC. Her latest novel is “Caspian Rain” (MacAdam Cage, 2007). Her column appears monthly in The Journal.

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Man From Delice

Albert Suissa loves coffee. In the 1930s, growing up in Casablanca, he would have his coffee with his buddies at the Café Pietine, where he would also play pool for money. Suissa (probably a distant relative — we think my great-grandmother was his father’s niece) was part of the cultural trifecta of being Jewish in Morocco in the middle of the 20th century: equal doses of Jewish, Arab and French influences.

After studying at a Jewish Alliance school, he worked in the transit department at the Casablanca port, where he learned the ins and outs of how to get on ships. Eager for adventure, late one night in 1942 he boarded a clandestine ship to Gibraltar and soon after found work on a French ship run by the British navy. For the next three years he fought in World War II as a mercenary for the British navy, traveling to places like India and North Africa.

He remembers how they would release huge balloons connected to thick cables that would trip up and destroy German warplanes.

In 1947, he joined his five brothers who had gone to Israel from Morocco to fight in the War of Independence. He was a paratrooper on about 20 missions. He and four brothers survived the war. One didn’t.

After the war, he returned to Morocco to comfort his parents who were mourning the loss of their son. But he soon got antsy and headed off to Paris, where he learned industrial design at an ORT trade school. He built refrigerators for several years, and when his company went under he returned again to Casablanca to be with his parents. There he met and married Esther Abergel, but the marriage lasted only six months.

He taught himself another trade — embroidering — and launched a successful business in Casablanca. But he got antsy again and traveled the world for a couple of years before joining a brother in Montreal, Canada, in 1956.

Tired of the harsh winters, he joined another brother in Texas in 1966 and then, six years later, finally made his way to Los Angeles, where he also had siblings and where he has lived ever since. All along, he used his design background and family connections to land odd jobs and make a modest living.

His luck ran out about 10 years ago, when he was in his late 70s and found himself alone, out of work and looking for a place to live. A friend let him stay in a garage for a few years, but this became untenable because the place was too cold and invaded by opossums, which occasionally bit him.

His luck turned again when a neighbor named Maty Baruch befriended him, invited him regularly for dinner and set him up in a guesthouse in the Fairfax district at the home of her best friend, Miriam Fiber.

Five years ago, though, is when he got his real late-life break. For years, he would ride his bicycle to Delice Bakery every morning, have a quick coffee and get a baguette to go. One morning, he decided to eat the baguette inside and stay a little longer. The owner, Julien Bohbot, who’d noticed him every morning, asked him where he was from. After a few minutes of Jewish geography, it turns out Suissa knew Bohbot’s family in Casablanca intimately, and he shared many stories.

They have been virtually inseparable ever since.

Suissa spends most Shabbats at Bohbot’s house, where he enjoys the great food, but more importantly, where he has an audience. According to Bohbot, give Suissa enough mint tea or coffee and he’ll spend the whole afternoon telling one story after another.

I hung out with Suissa at Delice the other day, and I couldn’t stop him. He recalled the smallest details of his life, like the names of the buddies he hung out with 70 years ago at Café Pietine in Casablanca, including the last survivor, Simon Ohana, who passed away six months ago in Paris.

Today, you can walk into Delice any morning and see an 88-year-old man, named Albert Suissa, wearing a beret and looking busy. He’s not an official employee, but he might as well be. He prepares boxes for the pastries and refills the coffee urns. Mostly, he hangs out and chats with whoever’s in the mood.

He can’t read anymore, so he’s lost his favorite pastime — buying geography and history books at flea markets and learning about the world.

Still, he hasn’t lost his talent for drinking coffee and socializing. He says he can’t remember a day in his life — whether on a British warship, in the Israeli desert or in the slums of Calcutta — when he didn’t wake up to a cup of coffee.

Some of the coffees were better than others, as were some of the days. He knows that nothing can ever replace those heady days in the 1930s in Café Pietine, when he knew everyone and everyone knew him. But coming home to Delice Bakery every morning, and knowing he might have an audience for his stories, gives him enough reason to keep going.

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Too Many Jewish Organizations?

A common Jewish communal gripe is that there are too many organizations out raising money to do the same things.  There’s no quicker way to get a rise out of donors or activists than to ask why we need to fund and run an alphabet soup of Jewish defense organizations: the ADL, AJC, AJC,Aipac,StandWithUs,NJCRAC,JCPA,CPMJO.  (Put all those letters together and what do you get?  OY.)

In this week’s Jewish Week, Gary Rosenblatt, Jewish journalist extraordinaire (we mean it), examines a fascinating, long-buried study that found duplication and waste in the panoply of Jewish groups and made proposals to create a more efficient communal enterprise.

We love Gary’s suck-‘em-in lead:

… A report has been commissioned by the national policy-making body on Jewish community relations to study the relationship between and among the top national defense agencies — including the American Jewish Committee, American Jewish Congress and Anti-Defamation League — specifically dealing with longstanding complaints about their “duplication, excessive competition, lack of coordination and actual conflict.”

But before you breathe a sigh of relief and think to yourself, “it’s about time,” let me point out that the report in question was commissioned in January 1950, exactly 60 years ago this week.

The McIver Report, prepared by the eminent sociologist Robert McIver, rocked the Jewish world, mostly by finding out what everyone already knew: that duplication and waste were inherent in the system.  That made the organizations unhappy—not because of the waste, but because of the idea that they would have to consolidate:

In the fall of 1952, almost two years after the report was commissioned and four months after it was submitted to the National Jewish Community Relations Advisory Council (NJCRAC), the precursor of today’s Jewish Council for Public Affairs (JCPA), it was opposed most vocally by the ADL (then part of B’nai B’rith) and the American Jewish Committee.

They charged that the proposals would create a centralized authority — namely, NJCRAC — and, according to a news story in The New York Times of Sept. 6, 1952, “violate the autonomy of the organizations and the voluntary character of the Jewish community.”

As a result, the ADL and American Jewish Committee split from NJCRAC for years over the report’s findings.

In the end, as a result of the bitterness the report generated — half of the six key national groups approved of the findings and half did not — nothing came of the extensive study, and it has remained a footnote of 20th-century American Jewish life.

The rest of Gary’s piece looks at the lessons of the McIver Report (love the name, by the way—as if you could save the Jewish community with a paper clip, a stick of gum and a match).  He speaks with numerous organization heads who say—SHOCK!—that duplication is good. 

Not surprisingly, Marc [Stern, American Jewish Congress acting co-executive director] does not agree with critics who say his organization has outlived its usefulness. He points to its highly respected legal briefs and its advocacy style, which he describes as distinctively aggressive. He also emphasizes the need for the community to have a wide range of voices and positions.

Stern readily acknowledges that “there is duplication” among the national agencies “and sometimes wastefulness,” but he contends that there is “less duplication than many people think.”

He says that in fact, the national groups do work together on foreign policy causes like advocacy for Israel and sanctions against Iran — primarily through the Presidents Conference — and respect each other’s areas of expertise and try to avoid repetitive efforts.

“MacIver was right about some things,” Stern said, like the need for the organizations to work more closely together. But he added that MacIver’s call for consolidation would give more power to a shrinking number of funders today, who in turn could determine the agenda for the whole community.

“Let’s face it,” Stern continued, “we are all depending on fewer large givers.”

The result is an implicit push for the organizations to focus on the same issues, with much the same approach, as they woo these donors. This leads to duplication and reluctance to take divergent positions.

Stern said that while NJCRAC was established as a consensus organization, seeking coordination among the national agencies, it “does almost none of that now.” Instead, it primarily has its own agenda, he said, focusing on a domestic agenda that highlights poverty in America and environmental concerns, in addition to advocacy for Israel and calling for sanctions against Iran.

Steve Gutow, executive director of the JCPA, disagrees with the assessment, asserting that “the rationale for the JCPA as a consensus finder and builder is more important than ever, and that is a role we play.”

Some of that coordination is done behind the scenes, he notes, “but much of it is public,” like passing resolutions on a range of issues, including some controversial ones in recent years: endorsing the principle of a two-state solution to the Israeli-Palestinian conflict and calling for divestments from companies doing business with Iran.

Other national leaders say the JCPA does not have the clout it would like to in achieving consensus.

Independent Streak Remains

And so it goes. Conversations with the principals in various national organizations result in each one casting his organization in a key role, and describing other groups as performing a lesser service.

And maybe that’s the point. Each of our national organizations has its own culture, constituency and outlook. And for better or worse, the logical proposals of a MacIver Report are never going to happen in today’s American Jewish community.

It seems that in 50 years, “duplication” has come to mean, “diversity.”  And who’s against diversity?  David Harris, Exec Direc of the American Jewish Committee, has a reasonable critique of the excess—though we notice he’s not exactly volunteering to merge or purge efforts with, God forbid, the ADL.

“MacIver was on to something,” Harris said, “but he underestimated the degree of institutional resilience, stubbornness and protectiveness that allowed the Jewish community, for all its successes, to, in effect, defy the obvious, which would have meant rationalizing and distributing its finite resources more strategically.”

As for the ADL:

Abraham Foxman, national director of the ADL, says it was not wrong to reject MacIver’s recommendations six decades ago, or to do so now.

“My view is let the marketplace decide,” he said. “The community is best served by many voices rather than a homogenized group that would represent the lowest common denominator. And the world would only hear one voice.

But, he added, “the spirit of MacIver remains” in that “he made us aware of the community’s concerns about cooperation and coordination. So his work had a positive, if indirect impact. The organizations have tried to live up to it, short of merging.”

Read all of Gary’s piece here.

To read key excerpts from the MacIver Report, courtesy of JInsider.com, click on JInsider.

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LETTERS: Bad Behavior, Israel or Hollywood, SHARE!

Bad Behavior

I was sorry to see the discord re: business folks who cheat and our Jewish community responsibility somehow to face the issues raised by cheating behavior ( “Bad Behavior,” Dec.11). Surely Rob Eshman wasn’t encouraging us to rub people’s faces in their deeds, nor to hurt their families, nor to foster gossip among us.

Similarly, I hope that Rabbi Steve Leder wasn’t urging us to ignore the fact that when the Jewish community has been enriched by inappropriately created fortunes, we should just “whistle it away” or quote ancient texts that probably were designed for another sensibility entirely (that’s an understatement). It is not good for us to gossip about people who have done bad things, and it is usually not fair to their families. And it is true that modern law is complex and sometimes what is illegal in one location is not illegal in another. But I believe that we must take seriously The Journal’s suggestion that we consider our relationship as a community to the behavior of some of our leadership.

The organized Jewish community is the first to demand that other communities examine their behavior; so let’s keep doing it in regard to ourselves.

So two suggestions: Indeed, the entire question of what constitutes generosity needs to be looked at. And, in the spirit of Rabbi Leder, perhaps we need to do a little more self-examination, as none of us is free of one kind of misbehavior or another.

Rabbi William Cutter
Hebrew Union College-Jewish Institute of Religion

I was astounded in reading the letter to the editor, “Bad Behavior” (Dec. 25). In an effort to protect the “innocence” of a man who was “only indicted,” the author “decries” a leading Rabbi and accuses him of violating a unanimous halachic decision. There was no need to publicly defame a Rabbi in this way. The very protection that Jewish law demands for the merely accused should also have been applied to the Rabbi in question. This is bad behavior upon bad behavior.

Rabbi Robert Rome
Tarzana


More Summer Camps

I read with disappointment “Find a Camp That Fits” by Jill Levin and Jenny Wolkowitz (Dec. 25). The article, which references other West Coast camps by name, omits mention of Habonim Dror Camp Gilboa and Camp Miriam, two camps that the Zionist movement operates on the West Coast. Acknowledging that “most Jewish camps affiliate with a particular branch of Judaism” the failure to mention the Israeli kibbutz movement’s camps is an unfortunate oversight.

Joel Epstein
Los Angeles


Israel or Hollywood?

As I was reading your cover story about the new moguls in town (“The Next Moguls?” Dec. 18) I had to keep turning back to the front page to make sure I was reading The Jewish Journal and not Us Weekly. I would love to have been at that cover-story pitch meeting.

“There are these two guys who got a bunch of money from daddy to make a movie with no Jewish content, who have made no philanthropic or intellectual contribution to the Jewish community, who admittedly will not marry anyone from the “tribe” because Jewish girls are “annoying and cliquey,” but they are really interested in independent films. This is a no-brainer, of course they should be on the cover. I guess we really are a Hollywood paper and maybe some of those fancy people at the Chateau Marmont will read our paper if we write about the moguls with the circumcision. L.A. doesn’t have much of a Jewish community anyway, just about a million. Great cover idea, let’s have lunch.”

Kari Bower
via e-mail

I am sure that in 2010 there will be major developments related to Iran and its threat to Israel. And I am sure I will read about it in The Jewish Journal … buried in a short article in the back pages. The cover story accompanied by a several-thousand word article will be devoted to yet another profile of a Hollywood B-lister whose only connection to the Jewish people is that he/she was born to a Jewish parent.

Looking forward to a 2010 just like 2009 at The Jewish Journal.

Rachel Behar
Los Angeles



Contact SHARE!

Re: “Sharing in the Celebration” (Dec. 25): I have met Ruth Hollman and am familiar with her many years of dedicated work at SHARE!, so I was pleased to see this article in The Jewish Journal. David Nava, a participant in SHARE!’s Chanukah celebration, said that people with mental disabilities are underserved, if not ignored, by the Jewish community. Though I’m not qualified to give any opinion about this statement, I believe it would have been helpful if the article had included addresses and phone numbers for SHARE!’s two locations, so that readers of The Jewish Journal who suffer from mental illness, substance abuse and trauma, and their family members, could immediately contact SHARE! to seek help.

Amanda Russell
Beverly Hills

Editor’s Note: The contact information can be found here.


The Jewish Buffet

David Suissa’s “Year-End Buffet” (Dec. 25) offered excellent insightful analysis in one paragraph worth repeating:

“The problem is that individual groups or movements have attached themselves to one section of the buffet, ignored the others, and said, ‘Here! This is Judaism!’ Torah-observant Jews might ignore history and literature. Cultural Jews might ignore Torah and prayer. Spiritual Jews and tikkun olam Jews might ignore both and so on. Yet each one will claim, ‘This is Judaism!’”

That paragraph is quite significant. Suissa inferred the obvious solution. Step out of your comfort zone. This sounds like the road I found myself on long ago, with my ultimate intention being to escape the Jewish world and all its subgroups and labeling. Then I would finally be free to speak my mind. Having arrived at my goal, unpredictably I find myself a member of a temple. However, membership is not obligatory and if the plusses do not outweigh the minuses I can and will leave. Many Jews do not see being Jewish or Judaism as optional, because as Suissa states, they are often willfully ignorant of the options available to them. While ignorance should never be an acceptable option it is often the preferred and seemingly safest option.

A related problem in Jewish society is self-righteousness. In most of these Jewish movements/groups there is a self-congratulatory attitude and a feeling of superiority due to each movement’s success in its particular area of focus or expertise. Essentially, there is a considerable lack of humility. This is both a turn-off and a stumbling block for those in need of what other movements/groups offer.

Regrettably, my hopes are not high for the necessary changes occurring. The problems that Suissa describes are both obvious and inexcusable and have existed for centuries. Nonetheless people continue to support their preferred movements/groups and those within who might be curious about other movements/groups are often judged as troublemakers, pushed away and forgotten.

The ultimate question is not so much “What’s wrong with Judaism?” as Suissa’s article initially asked, but “What’s wrong with Jews?” The answers are as obvious or as elusive as the open or closed minds, hearts and eyes of those inquiring.

Richard S. Levik
Los Angeles


‘An Education’

More troubling than the movie could have ever been is Irina Bragin’s analysis of “An Education” as anti-Semitic (“British Film Gives ‘An Education’ in Anti-Semitism,” Dec. 4). Bragin must spend a great deal of time indoors without Netflix to not understand that there is a difference between characters written to express a particular point of view (attitudes that were probably quite prevalent in London of 50 years ago) and a movie actually being anti-Semitic.

The only point Bragin really has is that yes, once again, a Jewish character is self-hating, not really attractive, not really sexy. My question is, when is that going to end?

Mitch Paradise
Los Angeles

I saw ‘An Education’ and thought it was a fine film. What many viewers, some of whom have lamented the “anti-Semitism” in the film, perhaps don’t know that it is based on a true story, the memoir of Lynn Barber in England. The story of her revulsion in looking back at how her parents allowed this man they hardly knew to take their 16-year-old daughter away to foreign cities for weekends, etc., is amazing.

Marcia Jacobs
via e-mail


How Hitler Was Defeated

It is dismaying to read of the hallucinatory fawning by rabbis and others over a fictional and violent movie, including even Eli Roth’s father (“My Son Killed Adolf Hitler,” Dec. 11).

The true story, the real and heart-wrenching epic of sadness, sacrifice, toughness and heroism, took place when the USSR gave 20 million lives in the fight against fascism in World War II.

This is not to diminish the contributions of the other Allied forces — my father, a Jewish kid from Hoboken, was shot down in his B-17 over France and joined the anti-Nazi underground there — but it was the Red Army that saved the world from Hitler.

Eric Brill
Rancho Palos Verdes


Topic Ideas for Marty Kaplan

Every time I read Marty Kaplan’s column it is always the same ole-same ole. Republicans this and that, Conservatives this and that. How about writing a column on something happy and positive, about Jewish issues and events. I wonder how many other people feel like I do. 

Melissa Cohen
via e-mail

Marty Kaplan need not continue to harangue about conservative talk-show hosts and former Republicans who are no longer in power, and should focus on [members of] his Democratic Party who, with absolutely no help from those darned Republicans, are doing a fine job on their own of running this great country of ours into the ground. Write about that, Marty!

John Gable
via e-mail

It was Sir Winston Churchill who once famously said, “A fanatic is one who can’t change his mind and won’t change the subject.” After reading Marty Kaplan’s column for months, I wonder who Churchill had in mind when he said that?

Richard Levine
via e-mail


Tribe

Wonderful Magazine. Horrible name of a Jewish magazine and equally horrible for any magazine that is not printed on a Native American reservation for Native Americans. It’s discriminatory and makes me cringe at your insensitivity in selecting it as your name. I’ll bet you thought you were cute. NOT! I am not the only one. Everyone with whom I’ve spoken agrees: The name must be changed!

Joyce Helfand
via e-mail


Missing Stockholm News

How come there was no mention in the news regarding the Muslim riots in Stockholm against the presence of the Israeli soccer team plus the build up anti-Semitism there?

Henry Samuels
via e-mail


Jewish Revenge

I have to totally disagree with Rabbi Sela of Sinai Temple (Letters, Dec . 25). He thinks good revenge would be “capturing Hitler alive and making him attend the bris of every Jewish child born to survivors. Make him go to the weddings, the High Holiday services, every opening of every new synagogue….” Heck, why not have this despot join in the catered parties from Greenblatt’s deli too? No, the best revenge for Hitler would have been to capture him alive and make him attend every single funeral of the millions who perished because of him. That is the proper revenge.

John Gable
via e-mail


Iran and the Bomb

Your Editor-in-Chief, Rob Eshman, writes he now is concerned about Iran acquiring the bomb (“New Year in Natanz,” Dec. 25). I certainly agree with this. Does this also mean Eshman is now ready to call the J Street outfit a bunch of leftist loonies who dismiss this looming possibility? It wasn’t too long ago editor Eshman suggested J Street should be given a chance.

Mark Steinberg
via e-mail


Real Y2K Problems

In “The Decade in Review” (Dec. 25) there are two misconceptions about the Y2K problem. This article implied that it was a virus. Instead, it was a bug or programming error. Programmers used 2-digit years for date calculations since they thought that their programs would be replaced before the year 2000. However, many of these programs were not replaced and required repair.

Second, it was not a false alarm. Instead, the vast majority of programs were fixed or retired. I heard about someone returning a videotape shortly after January 1, 2000 and being told that the computer marked it as 100 years overdue (the clerk canceled the charge). Related to date-calculation problems are display problems. I received synagogue statements that listed the year as 100, 101, etc. until they switched to another software package.

David Wincelberg
Beverly Hills

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