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May 9, 2002

Aloha, B’nai Mitzvah

Minnie Marvit stepped up to the bimah in Hawaii to celebrate her Bat Mitzvah. This \”girl,\” however, was a 92-year-old bubbe. \”I wanted to do this for some time, but I waited until I moved to Hawaii,\” she said. \”I feel so at home here.\” Marvit is a member of Congregation Sof Ma\’Arav (\”The End of the West\”) in Honolulu, a Conservative synagogue that prides itself on educating \”children\” and preparing them for b\’nai mitzvah.

Car Shame

It happened fast, like swerving out of the way of a stray cat.

I was driving toward the valet parking kiosk of a fancy-pants department store in Beverly Hills. As I approached, I saw clusters of press and well-dressed young women gathered to attend a charity brunch. A Mercedes was coming to a slow stop.

I don\’t know what made me do it; I took a sharp left, veering away from the valet kiosk and into an adjacent public lot.

Quality, Not Quantity

This week\’s Torah portion begins a new biblical book, after which the parsha is named in English, \”Numbers,\”and in Hebrew, \”Bamidbar,\” best translated as \”In the Wilderness.\”

Better With Age

\”You\’re the oldest of all my friends\’ moms,\” my son, Danny, 11, tells me.

Like I don\’t know this. Or have a card for senior discounts or billions of cells that have lost their elasticity to prove it.

Jewish Mother Jokes

Mother\’s Day is not exactly a Jewish holiday, but it does provide an occasion to consider whether anything new can be noted in that old war-horse, the Jewish mother joke. Surprisingly, I do note several new wrinkles that help explain why even now this Borscht-belt holdover is not going away fast.

Alzheimer’s Home

Imagine you are 90 years old and the world you once knew, even your own home, feels like a frightening and unfamiliar place. Sometimes you find it hard to recognize even your closest family members. You don\’t understand why people get angry when you wander away or when you cannot finish a sentence. You may be fit physically, but psychologically you are at a loss — and so are your family and friends. Imagine you move to a small, lovely village. There are strangers there, but they are gentle and caring. There are places to walk, and no one gets angry if you get a little lost. They just calmly lead you back to where you need to be. When you are in the mood, there is plenty to do, but no one gets angry when you just want to sit. Best of all, your family doesn\’t seem so worried anymore. This scenario is the aim of the new Goldenberg-Ziman Special Care Center located at the Jewish Home for the Aging\’s Eisenberg Campus in Tarzana.

Ode to Mother

The semiautobiographical piece grew out of Tinberg\’s previous play, \”Bearing Witness,\” about another Holocaust survivor and her daughter.

Shedding Some Light

Jonathan Safran Foer\’s new book, \”Everything Is Illuminated\” has garnered rave reviews everywhere, from The New York Times to Esquire, with front jacket quotes by Russell Banks, Nathan Englander and mentor Joyce Carol Oates; it has even been optioned for a movie by actor Liev Schrieber\’s prodction company.

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