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A Moment in Time: The Ten Commandments of Etiquette

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January 21, 2019
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Dear all,

Sometimes the key to living a mindful life focuses on what I like to call “The Ten Commandments of Etiquette.” These commandments help us to live with civility and decency. Simply put, they prevent us from becoming a nuisance!

  1. Make sure your phone is on silent when you go to a show/ meeting/ conference.
  2. If someone calls you while in that show/ meeting/ conference do not answer it. Do not get up answer it while you are walking out. Either answer only after you have left the room, or just call them back later.
  3. If you are waiting for an elevator, stand to the side and allow people to exit before you get on.
  4. Use your blinkers when turning.
  5. If you arrive late to a small gathering, come in attuned to what is going on. Don’t distract the flow!
  6. Remember: Once you write something on a public internet forum, it is there FOREVER.
  7. RSVP. Early.
  8. Admit when you are wrong.
  9. Never ask: “Do you remember my name?” It just makes everyone feel bad if they don’t.
  10. Face the world with a broad smile.

Perhaps you have commandments 11-15. I would like to learn from you! Just remember, all it takes is a moment in time to turn on your radar and face the world with mindful purpose.

With love and Shalom,
Rabbi Zach Shapiro

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