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November 29, 2023

Israel has Stood with the LGBTQ+ Community for Years, Now We Must Stand with Israel

There is only one country in the Middle East where non-heterosexual marriages performed abroad are recognized and where LGBTQ+ rights are celebrated, and that, of course, is the State of Israel. Tel Aviv has been recognized for years for hosting the largest Pride events on the continent of Asia and is an internationally celebrated destination for LGBTQ+ travelers. Yet somehow, when medievalist terrorists inflicted inhuman violence on a defenseless population of Israeli civilians on October 7, murdering over 1,200 people in a single day of nightmarish rape, torture, and mutilation, the LGBTQ+ community was mostly silent. Next, Hamas and its supporters kidnapped at least 244 innocents from diverse nationalities. They were specifically targeting the vulnerable and defenseless, taking them to Gaza to be raped, tortured, and used as human shields. Some activists in our community have been brainwashed to blame the victims and support a regime that is actively killing us.

It should go without saying that a terrorist organization that murdered 260 young partygoers at a music festival for peace, gang-raping many next to the butchered bodies of their friends, is the brutal enemy of our community. Yet starting in about in the mid-2010s, anti-Israel activists in the United States began seizing control of intersectional platforms and excluding Jewish and Israeli individuals from progressive and particularly LGBTQ+ spaces. In 2017, the marginalization of Jews and Israelis was dramatically furthered when the Chicago Dyke March banned Jewish stars on flags and posters.

The irony is that the Palestinian territories rank abysmally for sexual freedom, ranking 160th of 170 in Georgetown University’s Institute for Women, Peace and Security index, behind countries like Saudi Arabia, Iran, and Somalia. Throughout the years, many LGBTQ+ Palestinians have sought asylum in Israel. Stories abound like that of Ahmed Abu Marhia, a 25-year-old Palestinian gay man, who, after escaping to Israel and being granted asylum, was either kidnapped or lured back to Hebron in the West Bank, where he was publicly beheaded. Hamas even executed one of its own commanders, 34-year-old Mahmoud Ishtiwi, when he was accused of gay sex.

Hence the absurdity of the slogan “Queers for Palestine” popularized by the anti-Israel crowd. The Israeli political satire program Eretz Nehederet recently parodied the clueless activist crowd as the LGBTQH community – with “H” standing for Hamas. While lighthearted, the viral sketch parodied real students at Columbia University who released a statement calling the October 7 slaughter a justified “counter-offensive against their settler-colonial oppressor.” In the sketch, Hamas warns the activists that once they “finish with Israel… America is next.” Sadly, this, too, echoes real life, with Hamas commanders emphasizing their goal of jihadi world conquest: “The entire planet will be under our law, there will be no more Jews or Christian traitors.”

The LGBTQ+ organizations that have come down on the right side of history should be commended. Five advocacy organizations, including A Wider Bridge, are behind the online “LGBTQ Americans Unite Against Hamas Terror” petition, which recognizes that “Antisemitism, homophobia and transphobia travel together.” Refusing to be silent, the petition signatories assert that “It is absolutely imperative that as LGBTQ and allied Americans, we unequivocally condemn the brutal attacks of Hamas. We ask you to join us now in our grief for all the innocent lives lost and for the hostages still being held. We ask you to join us in our conviction that the State of Israel has a right to exist and reaffirm that the Jewish people deserve a homeland where they can live freely.”

Israel is way ahead of the curve in celebrating sexual freedom. Dana International, the child of Yemenite refugees to Israel and one of the country’s most iconic modern pop icons, is a transgender beauty who became an international sensation when she won the 1998 Eurovision Song Contest. Every member of our community should read her powerful testimony about the Hamas attacks, as she reminded her fans: “Are you aware that if you accidentally end up on the streets of Gaza, you won’t get out of there alive? Do you know that [H]amas sentences every LGBTQ to death by hanging (if not worse)?… If you do not condemn Hamas, you are against LGBTQ, against women, and AGAINST PEACE.” She also reminded her audience that there is another Middle East where people can live and love the way they please: “You are always welcome to the Tel Aviv gay pride that will accept you with open arms.”

Israel is the only country in the Middle East where a person can openly celebrate the nontraditional lifestyle of their choosing. The historically marginalized and persecuted Jewish population has built a thriving modern nation where love is cherished. After the attack of the Hamas murderers and kidnappers, the global LGBTQ+ needs to stand loud and proud behind our Israeli members and say: we are against murder. We are against rape and hostage-taking, and torture. We stand with Israel, and we stand with the Palestinian population that is yearning to breathe free from Hamas’ oppressive regime.


Hernandez is a former member of the Arizona House of Representatives where he founded the Arizona House LGBTQ caucus.  He interned for U.S. Representative Gabby Giffords when she was shot and has been credited for helping save her life. 

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Jews Are Hated Because They’re Terrible at Failing

The alarming rise in Jew hatred across the United States, and especially on college campuses, has left many people bewildered. How could this be? After all, Jews have contributed so much to America– why would they attract so much animosity? And why has it risen so sharply in the last few years?

In a recent lecture in Los Angeles, Pulitzer prize-winning columnist Bret Stephens brought up a societal shift that has especially hurt the Jews: the reframing of success as “white privilege.” At a time when the corrosive notion of “systemic racism” has permeated our culture, the new sinners have been dominated by those who are “white” and successful. If you fall into that privileged camp and haven’t learned to virtue signal, watch out.

This notion of connecting success to the bourgeois status of privilege undermines the very American ideal of meritocracy—the idea that those who work hard are more likely to succeed. This is clearly bad news for the Jews. The Jewish ethos since we first arrived in this country has been to work hard and aim for success. Must we now fail in order to be liked? It’s not a question Jews want to answer.

Indeed in this new social landscape, Jews are in a lose-lose position. When the white and successful are stereotyped as the new oppressors, Jews are seen as the most privileged whites, the ultimate oppressors.

That’s why Jew haters tend to get hysterical when a tragedy like October 7 disrupts that narrative. They see 1200 Jews get massacred in Israel, and, instead of showing empathy, they rush madly to the streets to promptly put the Jews back in their place in the forever oppressor club.

It’s not a coincidence that the starkest evidence against that oppressor narrative—posters of Jewish hostages taken captive by Hamas—have been the target of such vitriol. Jews have no right to claim even temporary victim status. The oppressed club has a long waiting list, and Jews are nowhere on the list.

It’s counterproductive to think we can end Jew hatred when so much of that animosity is connected to success envy. Even the vaunted elixir of “education” has a limited effect. Education about what? About the long history of Jew hatred and why it’s so unfair? What if fairness has nothing to do with it?

Instead of fighting back by trying to eradicate the hate, it’s more useful to take the gloves off, as several groups are doing, by using the law to defend Jews against unlawful discrimination and harassment, especially on college campuses. Better to file legal complaints than to simply complain.

Competing in the Victim Olympics is also a losing battle. Regardless of the fact that most hate crimes are against Jews, few people are inclined to buy our claims of victimhood. It doesn’t fit the American Jewish brand, not even when we bring up the six million we lost eighty years ago in the Holocaust. That was then, this is now. In America, the hardwired perception is that Jews are highly successful. They’ve made it. They can handle whatever abuse comes their way.

Things may look bleak at the moment, but in the long run, we know we’d rather be punished for succeeding than rewarded for failing.

It’s clear that even before white privilege became America’s postmodern sin, there was still plenty of Jew hatred to go around, as there has been for millennia. The difference now is that the perception of Jews as the ultimate white privilege sinners has opened the floodgates. It’s now open season on the Jews.

Of course, while bashing those powerful white privilege Jews, the haters are simultaneously bashing everything they hate about America and the West, including that dreaded white patriarchy. Such a deal.

Have you noticed this new level of chutzpah among Jew haters? There’s not only hate and ugliness but a frenzied cockiness, a certainty that they can’t get in trouble. Among the countless examples we’ve seen, I can’t help thinking about that poor math professor at MIT who had no choice but to allow a student to interrupt his class with anti-Israel venom. The sheer brazenness and fearlessness of the student was stunning. He seemed to be enjoying himself.

In a provocative 2013 essay in the British online journal Fathom, philosopher Eve Garrard argued that Jew hatred actually brings pleasure to the haters.

To really understand the hatred, she wrote, “we have to look outside the cognitive domain to the realm of the emotions, and ask: what are the pleasures, what are the emotional rewards which anti-Semitism has to offer to its adherents?”

She cites three principal sources of pleasure: “first, the pleasure of hatred; second, the pleasure of tradition, and third, the pleasure of displaying moral purity. Each of these is an independent source of satisfaction, but the three interact in various ways, which often strengthens their effects.”

It’s strangely discomfiting to hear from a scholar that “anti-Semitism is fun, there’s no doubt about it. You can’t miss the relish with which some people compare Jews to the Nazis, or the fake sorrow, imperfectly masking deep satisfaction, with which they bemoan the supposed fact that Jews have brought hatred on themselves, especially by the actions of Israel and its Zionist supporters, and that they have inexplicably failed to learn the lessons of the Holocaust.”

The eerie pleasure that Jew hatred provides is not something that can be easily erased or wished away. It’s ingrained and immutable, just as the perception that Jews are successful is ingrained and immutable.

The way forward is not to despair but to recognize and incorporate that reality. Given that it’s no use trying to convince the world that Jews are victims, we might as well own our success and double down on our Jewish identity. Better to walk with the strength of the proud than limp with the fragility of the weak. By all means, let’s continue to stay vigilant, to correct the lies, to fight in the courts and protect the safety of Jews everywhere. But it would behoove us not to lose sight of the long game.

Things may look bleak at the moment, but in the long run, we know we’d rather be punished for succeeding than rewarded for failing. Regardless of what the haters call us or the pleasure they get in hating us, we know it’s better for the Jews and for America if we elevate not victimhood but progress and success– white or otherwise.

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