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March 8, 2016

Palestinian-Americans file $34.5B suit against Adelson, other settlement backers

Casino magnate Sheldon Adelson and several other American philanthropists — as well as numerous corporations and nonprofit organizations — are being sued for $34.5 billion for their involvement with Israeli settlements in the West Bank.

In a lawsuit filed Monday in the Federal District Court of the District of Columbia, a group of more than 30 Palestinian-Americans claims that the defendants, among other things, committed money laundering “because they purposely sent funds overseas to promote criminal activities like ethnic cleansing, arms trafficking, and wholesale violence,” according to a news release issued by the plaintiffs’ attorneys, Martin F. McMahon & Associates.

In addition to Adelson, individuals mentioned in the lawsuit include the Jewish philanthropist Irving Moskowitz, the Rev. John Hagee of Christians United for Israel and Israeli businessman Lev Leviev, according to Haaretz.

Nonprofits include Friends of the IDF, Friends of Ariel, the Hebron Fund and the Karnei Shomron Fund, and businesses include Bank Leumi, Bank Hapoalim, Motorola, Hewlett Packard and RE/MAX real estate.

In its news release on the case, McMahon & Associates said “segregated ‘Jewish-only’ settlements” have displaced 400,000 Palestinians, along with 900,000 olive trees and 49,000 Palestinian homes.

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Toronto rabbi, wife receive papal blessing for 70th anniversary

A Toronto rabbi and his wife received a blessing from the pope as a wedding anniversary gift.

To mark their 70th year together, Rabbi Erwin Schild and his wife, Laura, were presented with a handwritten scroll stamped with the papal seal and a photo of Pope Francis.

The couple was presented with the honor by Cardinal Thomas Collins, archbishop of Toronto, at Adath Israel Congregation, where Schild served as spiritual leader from 1947 to 1989.

The papal blessing, or benediction papalis, is given to mark important events such as baptisms, birthdays, weddings or anniversaries in the lives of Roman Catholics. It is very rarely bestowed on non-Christians, the Toronto Star reported.

“They have reached out to be bridge builders, to show the way forward,” Collins told those gathered at a special interfaith event at Adath Israel.

Collins noted that Schild, who turns 96 on March 9, has long been an interfaith leader who promoted positive relations between Christians and Jews.

Schild, who was born in Germany and survived the Dachau concentration camp, helped build the Conservative synagogue’s membership to its current 1,800 families.

In his remarks, Schild called the papal blessing “an astounding gift” that requires “an exceptional degree of appreciation.”

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Brazil honors Jewish historian for her Inquisition research

Jewish historian Anita Novinsky, 94, was nominated for the “Woman Science Pioneers” award by the Brazilian National Council for Scientific and Technological Development for her longtime academic and field research about Inquisition.

Recognized as Brazil’s most prominent specialist in Brazilian and Portuguese Marranos, or hidden Jews who practiced Judaism secretly at home and pretended to be fervently Catholic while out in public, Novinsky became one of 70 Brazilians to receive the honor so far.

Anita Novinsky was born in Poland but naturalized as a Brazilian citizen. Author of several books, she is founder and chairwoman of the University of São Paulo’s Laboratory of Studies on Intolerance.

Launched in 2013, the “Woman Science Pioneers” project aims at highlighting the stories of women who have contributed to the advancement of science, research and technology in Brazil and can inspire youths to pursue a scientific career.

The Brazilian National Council for Scientific and Technological Development, or CNPq, is an organization of the Brazilian federal government under the Ministry of Science and Technology, dedicated to the promotion of scientific and technological research and to the formation of human resources for research in the country.

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Treat yourself like American royalty: stay at Waldorf-Astoria NYC

New York’s Waldorf Astoria hotel has been named a NYC landmark, but really, it ought to be considered a national historic icon – an American palace, if you will – for its contributions to all manners of culture and elegance. You can arrange to learn more details about its history here. The Waldorf Astoria’s first set the high bar of hotel standards 123 years ago, 85 years ago at its present site: 301 Park Avenue.

There was a time when Americans looked up to what European royalty did and thought about us . . . and to that end, royalty loves the Waldorf Astoria! Titled personages including Queen Elizabeth, the Duke and Duchess of Windsor (the Duchess born in Maryland), notoriously fun-loving Princess Margaret, as well as kings and queens from across Continental Europe, Asia and the Middle East have stayed in the hotel.

“American Royalty”, such as the Kennedys, frequented and still frequent stay. All US Presidents since Herbert Hoover have been to the Waldorf Astoria. There are Royal and Presidential suites in the Towers, the most exclusive part of the hotel. This section of the grand accommodations has its own discreet off-street carport, entrance, concierge and elevators.

Towers suites are quite grand, with antiques, twice-daily maid service and turndown, super comfy “Waldorf Serenity” beds, fantastic views of the city, marble bathrooms and really, so many special touches and amenities! The toiletries laid out are exclusive, from Salvatore Ferragamo. Between those, the extra deep, long marble bath tub and reading/bath tray, some may consider bathing one of the luxe activities offered at the Waldorf Astoria!

But even there, the hotel towers step it up with the Guerlain Spa. Guerlain is certainly a well-considered partnership for the legendary destination: the beauty brand dates from 1828 in Paris, where they soon created the first commercial khol eyeliners, scientifically based skincare, mascara and lipstick. The spa takes appointments throughout the evening; some use their time as pre-party prep, while for others, it’s a relaxing activity before retiring for the night.

The treatment rooms are en suite, meaning full bathrooms with shower or tub. No need to pad around in your spa bathroom looking lost! There are complete body treatments, massages, nail care and world-famous skincare. The quality of their products is unparalleled; though you may have had fine facials before, they weren’t the Orchidee Imperiale Prestige Treatment – the “quintessence” of Guerlain treatments. Products from the most luxe line of the brand are used in cleansing, massage, mask and anti-aging moisturizers. The sequence of the steps varies, as each spa treatment is specifically customized to your needs, though all will incorporate the essences and benefits from four different rare orchids to keep you looking lovely.

After (or before), relax in the Grande Salon with a beverage of your choice or have a steam in the changing rooms of the exclusive to Tower guests’ fitness center. Other complimentary services after your treatment include garment steaming, shoe shine and makeup application.

Another Towers perk: access to a private lounge that serves complimentary breakfast – including Catskills smoked salmon – and also, afternoon tea.

The main lobby of the Waldorf Astoria is a labyrinth of amazing things to see and learn and do. The clock in the center is from the World’s Fair in St. Louis, created in 1893. It’s considered one of New York’s chicest places to meet up with your party! There are several upscale shops, as well as a corridor of historic photos and treasures from the hotel.
The Waldorf Astoria has all kinds of nooks and crannies in the lobby in which you can carry out a private tete-a-tete. There are also several bars, including the cleverly named “Peacock Alley” – where you can see and be seen.

And then, there’s the food! This very hotel invented some of the most beloved dishes in the world: things you’d swear must have originated years ago in Europe. There was a maitre d’hotel (not the chef, surprisingly!), Oscar Tschirky, who was the driving force behind most of them:

• He created what are now known as Eggs Benedict in 1942, to appease the hangover of one Lemuel Benedict, Wall Street stockbroker.

• Tschirky is also credited with creating in the early 1890’s the Waldorf Salad. In its early incarnation, it was simply fresh apples with chopped celery on a bed of lettuce with the lightest of mayonnaise dressings . . . a far cry from that stuff you see at delis and grocery stores today!

• Most Southerners will fall out of their chairs to learn that Red Velvet Cake was invented at the Waldorf Astoria. It’s traditionally tinted dark with beet juice and with a retro dense texture that supposedly hearkens back to the Victorian era.

• Did Tschirky invent Thousand Island Dressing? Possibly it was he, acting as chef to the owner of the hotel during a trip to the 1000 Island region between New York and Canada.

• Even the classic Martini was invented there!

Today – for the past couple of years – the Waldorf Astoria has held contests to select the next signature dishes. The competition pairs chefs from the various other hotel locations with up and coming culinary stars.

Imagine the intriguing and exotic flavors of authentic Chinese cuisine, served with French presentation in a chic – yet relaxed – atmosphere. The hotel’s newest restaurant, La Chine, has captured all of that and more! Hip music plays in the background of a décor that gives a nod to the Art Deco style building. Enter from the Lexington Avenue entrance, as the other entrance has a bit of a hidden/speakeasy thing going through another restaurant.

They’re using peony seed oil, rare flowers and even rarer Chinese wines – straight from China – in their recipes. A sommelier elevates this restaurant to another universe from the typical Chinese restaurant. Do yourself a favor and go for the tasting menu: you’ll sample things you may never have dared to! Their menu is seasonal, with weekly adjustments. Even their cocktail program’s on board: they’ve been created with Chinese ingredients – including sesame and Szechuan pepper – that are food-friendly.

Probably the most exquisite brunch in the world is Sunday at Peacock Alley. Though it has special occasion prices, the buffet is truly gourmet. Cold items include lobster tails, local clams, oysters, four kinds of caviar, eight kinds of locally smoked salmon and the famous Waldorf Salad. Hot items feature Beef Wellington, carved meats, eggs Benedict, thick cut bacon and a melted chocolate fountain. Save room for dessert! Pastry Chef Calogero “Charlie” Romano is Italian, was influenced by Germany and genuinely loves certain American guilty pleasures. Along with the famed Red Velvet Cake, Chef Romano makes many delicious treats.

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To understand the American Jews who support Trump, read this

America’s political system is broken, and the last thing the country needs is another career politician at the helm.

With money more than ever a corrupting influence in politics, the White House should be occupied by someone who isn’t beholden to well-funded lobbyists or super PACs.

Politicians have a real problem with honesty. The country needs someone authentic who isn’t afraid to speak the truth and disrupt convention, even if it’s not politically correct.

If you’re planning to vote for Donald Trump for president, you’ve probably argued one or more of these points.

Trump’s electoral success may be bewildering to many American Jews, the vast majority of whom vote reliably Democratic, and alarming to those disturbed by his delay in disavowing the support of white supremacist David Duke, the bullying at Trump rallies and his specific positions (or lack thereof) on a range of issues.

But Trump’s Jewish supporters see the candidate as refreshingly honest, unafraid to challenge political orthodoxies (including conservative ones) and successful in business – which, they say, is just the sort of experience a president needs. They also believe he’ll be good for Israel, not least because, they say, he’s a savvy negotiator who knows enough not to publicly take sides in the Israeli-Palestinian conflict.

“People are bent out of shape because he won’t take sides. I’m a negotiator myself; that’s how you do things,” said Gedaliah Shaps, 49, an entrepreneur and self-described modern Orthodox liberal Jew from New York’s Long Island. “But I believe he truly has Israel’s best interests at heart. He says Israel is going to love him, and I believe that.”

Like many other Jewish supporters of Trump, Shaps noted that Trump’s daughter, Ivanka, is an Orthodox Jew (she converted before she married husband Jared Kushner).

While Trump’s opponents see him as a demagogue and vulgar blowhard who would lead the country to disaster, his supporters minimize his bullying, believe his lack of detailed policy prescriptions is a sign that pragmatism would trump ideology in a Trump presidency, and are generally willing to give Trump the benefit of the doubt.

“I think he’s honest. Obviously he has a good business background,” said Marc Rauch, 64, a film producer in Los Angeles who is originally from Brooklyn. “He’s not a politician, so I think a lot of stuff he’s responding to on the fly. He hasn’t spent 20 years running for office. We need real leaders, not professional politicians.

“Trump is somebody who has real experience. What I don’t want is another guy who has done nothing in his life other than run for public office.”

For many Jewish Trump supporters, as for many Americans who back him, Trump’s main appeal is they believe he has the best shot at defeating Hillary Clinton in the general election in November.

“This is to me more about who I don’t like than who I like,” said Lawrence Stern, 69, an attorney in Los Angeles. “I have been a lifelong registered Democrat. However, in the last few federal elections I have seen the Democratic Party move away from what I believe were its roots and its core foundation to a closer relationship to those who are both anti-Semitic and anti-Israel.”

Stern said he’s voting against Clinton because of her support for the Iran nuclear deal, her infamous 1999 embrace of Yasser Arafat’s wife, Suha, and the support given to the Clinton Foundation from Arab donors.

Some of the political sentiments driving Jewish support for Trump echo widely held views among Americans of all political stripes. They are fed up with the political gridlock and dysfunction in Washington. They decry the corrupting influence of money in politics. They don’t trust politicians.

Indeed, widespread exasperation with the ways of Washington helps explain both major surprises of the 2016 presidential campaign: the rise of Sen. Bernie Sanders on the left and Trump on the right. In each candidate, supporters see a great hope for major political change.

“He’s not without flaws,” Sheldon Wolf, 53, the CEO of a computer software company in Tampa, Florida, said of Trump. “But I look at what he can bring to the table. People are so upset about our do-nothing Congress. If there’s one guy who can possibly bring these people together and work together, it’s Trump. It’s sure not Bernie Sanders, and it’s sure not Ted Cruz.”

Asked about Trump’s delay in disavowing Duke, or the remarks some found offensive at last fall’s Republican Jewish Coalition conference in Washington, D.C., when Trump seemed to invoke classic stereotypes about Jews and money, Trump’s Jewish supporters say they don’t believe he’s a white supremacist or a bigot. Many noted his longstanding support for Israel, including his 2004 role as the grand marshal of the annual Salute to Israel Parade in New York.

“Some of his behavior raises questions, but I’m ready for that risk because the other Republicans I find horrible,” said Dr. Ben Enav, 44, a pediatric gastroenterologist from the Washington suburbs of northern Virginia.

“He definitely says some things I am not always comfortable with when it comes to race or sexism,” Enav said. “But I always wondered: How does someone have such a big organization and he has never been accused of bigotry or sexism? I think some of his rhetoric is showboating and I think some of it is reality. He is willing to say what a lot of people are thinking.”

There appear to be some inherent contradictions in the qualities many of Trump’s Jewish supporters say they like about him. They see his brash and sometimes crude persona as authentic, but believe he’ll behave differently as president. They admire his business successes but disregard or explain away his business failures. They acknowledge his big ego but say Trump understands that being president is more about assembling the right team of advisers than about the man himself.

In short, his supporters project onto Trump the positive things they want in a president and downplay the negative signs Trump opponents find so alarming.

“People say he’s failed so many times — well, you learn from failure. You’re not going to succeed unless you fail many times,” said Lisa, a 32-year-old Jewish voter from Los Angeles who asked that her last name not be published. “I think a lot of his brash statements that people bag on him for are because you have to get a political conversation started. I don’t think he’d necessarily act that way in a presidential meeting. The person you see on TV is actually very different than how he’d be as president.”

In fact, many Jewish Trump supporters see him as a relative moderate, someone guided more by reason than by ideology.

“Compared to the other Republicans, on certain issues he’s probably the most liberal out of all of them,” said Orna Enav, 45, an Israeli immigrant and Ben Enav’s wife. “On social issues like gay marriage or abortion, which he’s not vocal about, I believe he’s probably more liberal than anybody else.”

She added, “I can understand why some people in the Republican Party don’t want him.”

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9 times Donald Trump has been compared to Hitler

Donald Trump is not happy with the Hitler comparison.

Prominent people have lately likened the Republican presidential front-runner to Adolf Hitler for his comments targeting Mexicans and Muslims and for his populist politicking style.

Most recently, Trump has had his supporters raise their right hands and pledge to vote for him. Some, including former Anti-Defamation League head Abe Foxman, think the practice reminiscent of Nazi rallies where crowds would “heil Hitler.”

“I don’t know about the Hitler comparison. I hadn’t heard that, but it’s a terrible comparison. I’m not happy about that certainly,” Trump said on ABC’s “Good Morning America” on Tuesday.

It doesn’t help that last week Trump wavered in disavowing former Ku Klux Klan leader David Duke, who isone of many racists and anti-Semites to voice support for the real estate billionaire’s campaign.

Here are nine people who have recently made the Trump-Hitler equation.

1. Louie C.K.

The acclaimed comedian didn’t mince words in an email he sent Saturday to his fans.

“It was funny for a little while,” he wrote, “But the guy is Hitler. And by that I mean we are being Germany in the ‘30s. Do you think they saw the shit coming? Hitler was just some hilarious and refreshing dude with a weird comb over who would say anything at all.”

2. Bill Maher

 
On his HBO show “Real Time with Bill Maher” on Friday, the political comedian pointed out that a 1990 Vanity Fair article found Trump kept a volume of Hitler’s speeches by his bedside. Then he showed a video of a Hitler speech and gave it a satirical English translation. Some of the best lines include “Germany doesn’t win anymore” and “The Treaty of Versailles? A terrible deal.”

3. Glenn Beck

The former Fox News host called Trump a “dangerous man” on ABC’s “This Week.”

“You know, we all look at Adolf Hitler in 1940. We should look at Adolf Hitler in 1929,” Beck told George Stephanopolous on Sunday. “He was a funny kind of character who said the things that people were thinking. Where Donald trump takes it I have absolutely no idea.”

4. The ladies of “The View”

On Monday’s “The View,” Jewish host Michelle Collins — who said more than half her family was wiped out in the Holocaust — brought up The New York Times’ first mention of Hitler from the ’30s. She said it described the Nazi ruler as someone who at first used anti-Semitism only to garner followers.

“I look at this and it frightens me,” Collins said, referring to Trump’s rise. “I know that he isn’t targeting me right now, but we don’t know.”

Fellow host Joy Behar brought up comedian John Oliver’s recent segment on Donald Trump on his HBO show “Last Week Tonight.” In a clip that went viral, Oliver found that Trump’s family name was once the German Drumpf.

“His real name is Drumpf, like mein Drumpf,” Behar said.

5. Anne Frank’s stepsister

Eva Schloss, whose mother married Anne Frank’s father after World War II, survived Auschwitz. She slammed Trump while marking Holocaust Remembrance Day last month.

“If Donald Trump become[s] the next president of the U.S. it would be a complete disaster,” Schloss, 86, told Newsweek. “I think he is acting like another Hitler by inciting racism.”

6. Former ADL chief Abe Foxman

“As a Jew who survived the Holocaust, to see an audience of thousands of people raising their hands in what looks like the ‘Heil Hitler’ salute is about as offensive, obnoxious and disgusting as anything I thought I would ever witness in the United States of America,” the former head of the Anti-Defamation League said Sunday. “We’ve seen this sort of thing at rallies of neo-Nazis.”

Donald Trump supporters raising their hands and reciting a pledge at their candidate's urging at a rally in Orlando, Florida. (Twitter)Donald Trump supporters raising their hands and reciting a pledge at their candidate’s urging at a rally in Orlando, Florida. Photo from Twitter

7. Mexico’s former president Vicente Fox

Trump last June called Mexican immigrants “rapists” who bring “crime” with them across the border into the U.S. He has also advocated building a wall along the southern U.S. border to block illegal immigration.

These statements don’t sit well with Vicente Fox, a former Mexican president who sounded off on Trump last month.

“Today, he’s going to take [the U.S.] back to the old days of conflict, war and everything. I mean, he reminds me of Hitler. That’s the way he started speaking,” Fox told CNN’s Anderson Cooper.

8. Former New Jersey Gov. Christine Todd Whitman

The Republican leader was reminded of Hitler when in Decemeber Trump called for temporarily barring Muslims from entering the U.S. He first made the controversial call in the wake of the deadly terrorist shooting in San Bernandino, California, which was carried out by two American Muslims.

“If you go and look at your history and you read your history in the lead-up to the Second World War this is the kind of rhetoric that allowed Hitler to move forward,” Whitman told CNN after Trump’s announcement. “Because you have people who were scared the economy was bad, they want someone to blame.”

9. The “Saturday Night Live” cast

Trump might have hosted “SNL” last fall, but isn’t keeping the show from mercilessly mocking him.

In a fake ad — the second of two segments from Saturday’s show to skewer him — Trump supporters are portrayed as Ku Klux Klan members, white supremacists and yes, neo-Nazis. At one point, cast member Taran Killam raises his arm to expose a red swastika-emblazoned arm bad.

Trump can’t even escape the Hitler comparisons in his hometown.

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I’m a transgender Jewish man who had a baby — here’s why I went public with my story

Two weeks ago, I heard a podcast in which two Jewish women named Ronna and Beverly misgendered me repeatedly and made fun of my story. This was not the first time I thought to myself, “Why did I choose this?”

To be clear, I was not asking, “Why did I choose to be transgender?”

Rather, I wondered, “Why did I choose to be this visible?”

Let me start by saying that when JTA published an article about my life as a transgender Jewish dad who recently gave birth, I had no idea it would be as popular as it was. I didn’t know it would be shared on countless Facebook pages and groups, as well as by several other Jewish news outlets. The day the article came out, I read it first thing in the morning and thought to myself, “Well that’s not that interesting, although I’m sure some people will enjoy it.” It just seemed normal to me.

That’s because that’s what my life is today — normal. I know that’s hard for people to understand when they’ve been socialized through the media to believe that transgender lives are somehow totally sensational, radical and bizarre. The day the article was published, I did the same things any other parent would be doing: laundry, washing dishes, feeding and playing with my baby, and occasionally checking Facebook to keep up with what was going on.

So why did I agree to be featured in the article? Here is some background:

When I first came out as transgender and was figuring out what name I wanted to be called for the rest of my life, I thought about changing my last name to my mother’s very traditional Jewish maiden name. I thought it might be easier to blend in if I wanted to be a part of a traditional or Orthodox Jewish community. I would be forced to make up tales about where I went to high school, where I studied in Israel and who my friends were — but maybe, I thought, just maybe it would be worth it in order to blend in and just be a normal guy.

But after getting sober and slowly building a life based in spirituality and connectedness, I just couldn’t imagine living without absolute integrity about who I am, who I was and who I hoped to be. So I kept my unusual (for a Jew) last name and came out publicly to those who knew me. After less than a year on testosterone, no one on the street would guess that I once looked female.

When the article was published, I was really careful to avoid the “comments sections” on the news sites. I was sad to miss the kind and supportive comments — and I heard there were a lot of them — but I knew it wouldn’t be practicing self-care if I read comments that misgendered me at best or, at worst, claimed that being transgender and raising a baby is child abuse.

The few difficult comments I did see made me wonder, “Why are people so afraid of allowing the gender binary to bend or blend?” I don’t identify as genderqueer, which can be defined as someone who identifies as neither a man or woman, both, or someone who feels they are “in between.” I really do feel to the essence of my bones that I am a transgender man; I can’t really explain the sensation any better than that. Transitioning brought a peace and completion that I never dreamed possible.

One question that came up multiple times, even by kind and well-intentioned people: How does someone who feels like a man choose to have a baby? Doesn’t that make him a woman? And the answer comes in the form of a story.

Back when I was living as an androgynous looking “lesbian” who secretly preferred men, I was a part of JQY-Jewish Queer Youth, a New York-based support group for LGBTQ teens and young adults from Orthodox or traditional Jewish backgrounds. One evening I attended a JQY event and was having a pleasant evening when my friend Y. came up to me in the kitchen.

“R.,” he said, using my former name, “I’m so jealous of you!”

I was shocked to my core. I don’t have the kind of life that people are generally jealous of.

“What?! Why?” I exclaimed.

“Because if you want to have a baby, you can just have a baby,” he explained.

I was confused by this and asked, “If you had the ability to have a baby, would you?”

“Absolutely,” he said, without any hesitation. There was my answer: Y. — who very much identifies as a cisgender male, a man who identifies with the sex he was assigned at birth — told me that if he had a uterus, he would absolutely utilize it to give birth to a child.

It was that very moment that cracked me open to the awareness that the desire to give birth to a child is not inherently gendered. Sexed, yes. The capacity to birth a child is most definitely sexed; those without the necessary organs cannot create life, regardless of their gender identity. I had met dozens of women who had little to no interest in giving birth, and it did not make them less womanly or feminine. That day I met a man who would absolutely give birth if he could. Was he less of a man for that?

I started asking other cisgender men if they would utilize a uterus if they had one. I was surprised by how many men said yes once they thought about it for a while; most had never even considered it.

After that, there was no going back — I could want to give birth and still be a man. After all, Y. was still a man. My transition to male began not long after that revelation.

My journey as a Jewish transgender man has not always been easy, but I am blessed to be surrounded by so many loving and wonderful people who can hold multiple truths, who can see me as a man and also know I still have sex organs that usually belong to females. The negative comments I did see in response to the article came mainly from people who do not (yet) have the ability to see the beauty in something that does not fit their expectations.

When I worked at Camp Ramah last summer, I was approached by a handful of cisgender men who told me they had feelings of jealousy that I could experience pregnancy and birth and they could not. One colleague said if he could have the babies, he and his wife would have more children than they do. These men had found a space to “admit” that they don’t fit this socially invented stereotype that men would never want to birth a child.

Rafi, before his transition. (Courtesy of Rafi Daugherty)
Rafi, before his transition.

So now, hopefully, it’s clear why I felt comfortable having a baby as a transgender man. But why did I come out so publicly to the world? I wanted to crack open that part of others. I wanted others to find an understanding of gender that wasn’t so rigid as to cast away a person who doesn’t fit the “norms.” I wanted to share my beautiful yet average life to help others see that transgender people can be beautifully average. I am blessed.

As a white transgender man who fits most of society’s expectations of what a “man” looks like, I know that I am enormously privileged. I want to use my voice of privilege to help others find acceptance in their families, their communities and out on the streets. The suicide attempt rate in the transgender community is 41 percent. The attempt rate in the U.S. overall is 4.6 percent. These statistics are proof that we are a long way from true acceptance and support for the transgender people in our communities.

Transgender people (especially transgender women of color) have some of the highest rates of unemployment, discrimination of all types, homelessness, poverty and violent deaths. If my story, face and voice can be a stepping-stone that leads to a wider acceptance of my transgender brothers, sisters and siblings, then going public with my experiences will have been worth every ignorant and ugly comment. If my story touched you, I ask that you find out how you can be an ally to transgender people in your own community. One quick and easy resource can be found at Keshet, an organization that works for equality and inclusion for LGBTQ Jews in Jewish life.

Because I know people will be wondering about the baby, Ettie Rose is thriving and happy. She started attending a local Montessori day care and everyone who meets her is enthralled by her — even by some who proclaim themselves “not baby people.”

At 5 months old, she is too young to know our family is different. She grins at me every day with a look of total love and adoration, and my heart bursts with joy. But I am excited to explain everything to Ettie when she is older. (The best book to educate small children about “where babies come from” is What Makes a Baby— all the information completely degendered.) She will grow up knowing her story and understanding that she was created with an enormous amount of intention and love.

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White House denies it will go public with outline for Israeli-Palestinian talks

The White House denied a report that it was contemplating jump-starting Israeli-Palestinian peace talks by advancing its own solution.

“There has been no change to our policy or strategy with regard to this issue,” a White House official told JTA, responding to a Wall Street Journal article posted Monday describing plans under consideration by the Obama administration to announce publicly what the United States would consider the acceptable parameters of a final-status arrangement.

The outline, the story said, could include making the 1967 lines the basis for a two-state solution, Palestinian recognition of Israel as a Jewish state and Israeli recognition of eastern Jerusalem as the Palestinian capital.

According to the Journal, the Obama administration could reveal its plans through U.S. support for a United Nations Security Council resolution; a major speech by President Barack Obama, perhaps at the U.N. General Assembly opening in September, or a statement by the Quartet, the body comprising the United States, Russia, the United Nations and the European Union that has guided Middle East peacemaking since the early 2000s.

The White House official, in an email to JTA, hewed to the position that Obama administration officials have taken since the collapse in April 2014 of the last round of U.S.-brokered talks: Solutions must come through negotiations between the sides.

“Our position has been clear,” the official said. “We believe a two-state solution is absolutely vital for peace between Israelis and Palestinians and will only come through negotiations.”

The official said the Obama administration would continue to urge both sides to return to the table and not to act unilaterally.

“We continue to encourage Israelis and Palestinians to take affirmative steps which we think are important to stop the violence, improve conditions on the ground, and restore confidence in the two-state solution,” the statement said. “We also continue to engage with our partners to find a constructive way forward in terms of advancing our shared goal of a two-state solution.”

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Netanyahu says he declined to meet Obama due to U.S. election campaign

Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu said on Tuesday he had declined a proposed meeting with U.S. President Barack Obama in order to steer clear of the U.S. presidential election campaign, as Vice President Joe Biden began a two-day visit to Israel.

While candidates in the Republican and Democratic primaries have been vying to assert their credentials as friends of Israel, Obama is not up re-election in November, having served two terms.

It was the latest episode in a fraught relationship between the right-wing Israeli leader and the Democratic U.S. president that has yet to recover from deep differences over last year's U.S.-led international nuclear deal with Israel's foe Iran.

Around the time of Biden's arrival, an American tourist was stabbed to death a few kilometers away on a boardwalk in Tel Aviv in the most serious of a wave of Palestinian attacks throughout Israel, a stark reminder of the current paralysis in peace talks between Israel and the Palestinians, which Obama tried to revive earlier in his tenure.

The White House said on Monday it had been “surprised” to learn first from Israeli media that Netanyahu had decided against coming to a conference of the pro-Israel lobby AIPAC in Washington on March 20, and to see a suggestion in some reports that Obama's unavailability had been one of the reasons.

It said Netanyahu had been offered a March 18 meeting with Obama, ahead of the president's landmark visit to Cuba on March 21 and 22.

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Zeev Elkin, an Israeli cabinet minister close to Netanyahu, countered that Israeli ambassador Ron Dermer had given the White House advance warning the trip might not happen.

Netanyahu's office cited the U.S. election campaign in saying he would not travel to Washington for the AIPAC event, and voiced appreciation for Obama's willingness to host him.

Biden, whose 2010 visit to Israel was marred by acrimony over a Jewish settlement plan announced during his trip, met former Israeli president Shimon Peres and was due to hold talks on Wednesday with Netanyahu in Jerusalem and with Palestinian President Mahmoud Abbas in the occupied West Bank.

Biden planned to speak with Israeli leaders about a new memorandum of understanding being negotiated for U.S. defense aid to Israel, according to one U.S. congressional aide.

The aide said Biden was handling the negotiations because relations between Obama and Netanyahu were so sour that the vice president was seen as the only member of the administration who could finish off the deal.

In 2012, Netanyahu hosted Republican presidential contender Mitt Romney in Israel in what many Democrats saw as a bid to undermine Obama's attempt to secure a second term. Israel denied meddling.

With a wave of Palestinian street attacks now five months old, U.S. officials have said no peace breakthrough is expected during Biden's visit.

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The Jewish translator behind Elena Ferrante — and Primo Levi

It was back in the fall, at an event at BookCourt in Brooklynwhen translator Ann Goldstein was first asked for her autograph by an eager reader.

Goldstein was caught by surprise. After all, this was before her work appeared on The New York Times list of “100 Notable Books of 2015” — not once, but twice.

In nonfiction, it was for “The Complete Works of Primo Levi,” a three-volume compendium of new translations of the late Italian Holocaust survivor’s 14 books — including “The Periodic Table” and “If This Is a Man.” She had shepherded the behemoth project into being over several years, serving as editor as well as translator of several included works.

Receiving rarely more than a passing line of praise in a book review, translators tend to toil behind the scenes, as authors enjoy the available literary limelight. So for Goldstein — who was profiled recently in The Wall Street Journal  and the Atlantic  — the attention feels “strange,” she tells JTA, sitting in an out-of-the-way spot in the Conde Nast cafeteria on the 35th floor of One World Trade Center.

To an outside observer, however, what’s strange is that the buzz has only just arrived, considering that in addition to her translating work, she has held one of the literary world’s enviable job titles since 1987. Goldstein is an editor at The New Yorker — including of Janet Malcolm, Adam Gopnik and John Updike — and head of what is likely the world’s most well-respected copy department.

“I’ve been working with other people’s words for a long time,” says Goldstein, who was initially hired by the New Yorker in 1974 as a proofreader. “The first job I had at the New Yorker was with Ved Mehta [a staff writer from 1961 to 1994]The New Yorker always supplied an assistant to him. He’s blind. He would say a sentence out loud, and then you would write it down, and then you would read it to him.”

“It made you quite attentive,” she adds.

The lively openness Goldstein, 66, brings to conversation doesn’t extend to questions about her personal life, many of which are met with mild antipathy.

Still, Goldstein is far more forthcoming than Elena Ferrante, the pseudonym of the mysterious Italian writer who has ridden out “Ferrante Fever” with the secret of her identity intact.

“I simply decided … to liberate myself from the anxiety of notoriety and the urge to be a part of that circle of successful people, those who believe they have won who-knows-what,” Ferrante said in an extremely rare interview with Elissa Schappell in Vanity Fair.

Even Goldstein doesn’t communicate directly with the author, who uses her publisher as a go-between. Rumors have surfaced repeatedly (only to be discredited) about Ferrante’s true identity, including that it’s Goldstein herself.

Long before finding fame, of sorts, Goldstein was first drawn to Italian through the works of Dante. A Jewish girl (albeit one with “no religious education”) with Russian roots, she grew up in Maplewood, New Jersey, and graduated from Bennington College in Vermont. Goldstein says she doesn’t “have an organized background in Italian literature.” In the late 1980s, she studied with a handful of New Yorker staffers who met regularly to learn Italian so together they could read and discuss Dante. This was when “companies would pay for language classes,” she says.

“I like studying all different languages,” says Goldstein, who also knows Latin and Greek, understands French and has “a little German,” plus a smattering of a Jewish Piedmontese dialect with Hebrew roots, thanks to Levi. She wishes that when she was younger, she would have “learned Yiddish from her great-aunts.”

“Just learning a foreign language is something that makes you very attentive,” Goldstein says.

Before working on Levi, “I had read very little Holocaust stuff,” she says, adding that she found the history of Italy in the war fascinating. Inspired by her immersion in Levi’s accounts of what it was like to survive Auschwitz, Goldstein says she now has “more of an interest” in her Jewish roots.

Goldstein is matter-of-fact when she describes how she manages to hold a demanding day job and translate great works in her “spare” time.

“I work on weekends; I work on vacations. I work in bits of time,” she says. “I’ve been going to Italy for about three weeks to a month each year,” preferring summertime in Rome.

“I always have work to do. I always wanted to have work to do.”

Goldstein has five translations slated for publication this year: Jhumpa Lahiri’s Italian memoir, “In Other Words”; Ferrante’s “Frantumaglia”; “The Young Bride” by Alessandro Baricco; “The Street Kids” by Pier Paolo Pasolini, and “Something Written” by Emanuele Trevi.

When in New York, she makes time for city walking, especially from her Greenwich Village home in Lower Manhattan to her office high above the reflecting pools at the 9/11 Memorial Plaza. She has little time to read, but when translating she favors 19th-century English authors: Henry James, PG Wodehouse. When Goldstein spoke with JTA, she was making her way through Maria Eisenstein’s “L’Internata numero 6” (“Internee No. 6″), about a group of women interned during World War II.

This is unsurprising, given the big themes – war, politics, class, friendship – that run deeply through the works she’s translated.

That’s especially true with Ferrante’s magnificent quartet about the societal and historical events that over the course of five decades shape the lives of two friends, Elena and Lila, who strive to push back against these forces to mold their own lives. (In case you haven’t heard “Lila” pronounced aloud, from Goldstein’s lips it’s “Lee-la,” not “Lie-la.”)

“It’s both historical and feminist,” Goldstein says.

At the same time, the Neapolitan series is about class, one that harkens back to a narrative familiar to American Jews — education as a pathway out of poverty.

“The classes are so definite,” she says. “[Elena’s] striving to get to one point … and yet she’s always drawn back.”

But the books also probe what happens to an individual’s identity when she embarks on such a journey.

“There are moments when [Elena] feels that it has taken her away from her roots, her childhood, her pasts,” Goldstein says.

Ferrante “writes about her characters’ experience in a genius way,” she says. “A woman writing an epic — it is unusual.”

As small publishers like Europa bring out translated editions to great acclaim, “It’s great for people to know that there are people behind the scenes doing the work,” says Goldstein, the recipient of a PEN Renato Poggioli Translation Award and a Guggenheim Fellowship.

And, just maybe, we’re approaching a time when the spotlight will be trained on translators. As it happens, two new novels by Jewish writers featuring translators as protagonists have come out this winter: Rachel Cantor’s “Good on Paper“and Idra Novey’s “Ways to Disappear.

For her part, Goldstein has no plans to write a novel of her own. “Translating is a form of writing,” she says.

In fact, it’s her preferred form. Her priority? “To master translation,” she says.

Of course, according to her ever-growing body of readers, she already has.

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