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February 14, 2016

Sunday Reads: The new Syria deal, Sexual misery in the Arab world, Bernie Sanders & Jewish pride

US

A. Wess Mitchell and Jakub Grygiel examine the ‘probing’ technique that America’s rivals have been using to test its strength and its reactions:

Probing has been the strategy of choice for America’s modern rivals to challenge the existing order. Over the past few years, Russia, China, and, to a degree, Iran have sensed that the United States is retreating in their respective regions—whether out of choice, fatigue, weakness, or all three combined. But they are unsure of how much remaining strength the United States has, or of the solidity of its commitments to allies. Rather than risking direct war, they have employed low-intensity crises to test U.S. power in these regions.

Eli Lake writes about the mixed messages the US has been sending about the Iran sanctions:

Smith's testimony illuminates a paradox of Obama's post-deal Iran policy. On the one hand, the agreement lifts a number of sanctions on Iran's banks and companies, and even has language encouraging investment in its economy. Iran's president, Hassan Rouhani, emphasized this element of the deal last month when he visited London, Paris and Rome and signed new investment deals worth billions of dollars. Telling European companies they cannot provide ground services for Iran's second-biggest airline would undermine the goal of reintegrating Iran into the global economy.

Israel

Aviad Kleinberg argues against the Knesset’s suspension of Arab Israeli MKs from the controversial Balad party:  

The true test of a democracy is not protecting those who curry favor in the public eye, but rather  the ability to protect those who are anathema to the state. This does not excuse the support of terrorism, as terrorism is a form of illegal activity. However, it does include the right to visit the families of terrorists. And therefore also the right to a minute of silence, certainly if one accepts the claim that the Balad Knesset members had a moment of silence not for the actions of the terrorists, but to show respect as fellow Muslims. The other members of Knesset have the right to condemn them, the right to refuse to work with them – but they do not have the right to silence and censor them. Yet that is exactly what the Knesset Ethics Committee is doing.

And Ben Dror Yemini tackles the same issue from a different perspective:

If a member of France's National Assembly had dared visit the Sint-Jans-Molenbeek neighborhood in Brussels, the home of some of the November 13 Paris terror attack perpetrators, and observe a minute of silence with the families of the murderers, he would have had to flee directly to Syria. He'd only be able to return to France in handcuffs. Excuses like “you have to understand the cultural context” would have been rejected out of hand. But MK Ayman Odeh dares complain about Israeli democracy. He's got some nerve.

Middle East

Kamel Daoud discusses the grave effects of sexual misery in the Arab world:

Today sex is a great paradox in many countries of the Arab world: One acts as though it doesn’t exist, and yet it determines everything that’s unspoken. Denied, it weighs on the mind by its very concealment. Although women are veiled, they are at the center of our connections, exchanges and concerns.

Fred Kaplan examines the pluses and the minuses of the Syria deal:

… in the medium-to-long run, the failure to unseat Assad will undo any temporary cease-fire (which is the most that anyone is claiming for the deal anyway). The agreement does reiterate earlier timetables for a “political transition” to “credible, inclusive and non-sectarian governance” as well as free elections and the drafting of a new constitution. But the terms of this transition—the participants in the government, the rules of elections, the drafters of a constitution—are far from settled.

Jewish World

Anthony Berteaux reports on an anti-Racism students' conference that quickly turned into a grand display of anti-semitism:

At a conference facilitated by peers who they believed were fighting the righteous battle against racist speech and hate crimes, Mokhtarzadeh and Rosenberg heard anti-Semitic statements that were met with applause and approval—statements like “the state of Israel pays Jews to move to Israel to join the army and kill Palestinians” and even “you shouldn’t buy Ben and Jerry’s because they’re Jewish and have a shop in Israel.” But perhaps the most painful, and upsetting portion of SJP’s presentation was the section called “Intifada: Peaceful Uprising.”

Michael A. Cohen muses on Bernie Sanders’ lack of Jewish pride:

In the end, it seems that a Jew winning a presidential primary is not something that seems to many Jews to be all that surprising or notable, which means there isn’t much fear of anti-Semitism, but perhaps not much sense of pride either. Present in Sanders’s candidacy, one might say, is both the curse and comfort of assimilation.

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Find Parsley to go with your Risotto: Love Rehab in 12 Steps

When I chose to get divorced last year, at first I felt like a failure. I felt embarrassed. I fell into an abyss of sadness. I wish someone had handed me ” target=”_blank”>Love Rehab in 12 Steps. Reading her book seemed like I stepped onto a lifeboat of empathy, where they were playing the song, “You are not alone.”

Not only is the book well written but the engaging characters felt like familiar friends. When the main character, Sophie, starts LAA (Love Addicts Anonymous), she tells us: “God, I needed LAA. I needed something. I was getting jealous of a potential girlfriend of a man I had once shared a slice of banana cream pie with after lying to him at his Alcoholics Anonymous meeting. I was so far from normal.” It made me laugh and I felt better.

I was swept into the enjoyable story and at the same time felt like I was going for a group therapy session. As more in-depth characters appeared and more of my issues were discussed, I continued to feel better and happier. Sophie talked to her friends about Sunday:

Sunday is a good day to make plans with other single women because it is such a bad day for them. On Sundays couples sleep in late, wake up and have missionary morning sex, and then brunch before heading to Home Depot to pick out new blinds or area rugs for the apartment they just moved into together. For singles, Sunday is waking up with a hangover, maybe a strange man in your bed, figuring out how to get said strange man out of your bed, and then sending a dozen text messages to your other still-single friends to see who wants to have brunch with you somewhere they have unlimited Bloody Mary’s because, one, you’re footing the bill; two, you need to get a little drunk to erase the pain of not having someone to go to Home Depot with; and, three, you woke up with a strange man in your bed and you are already bummed that he didn’t want to have brunch and hasn’t texted you.

The antics made me laugh and cry as I thought, “I resemble that remark.” I wish I had this book to read during my divorce or before I decided to get married! I would give it as a gift to anyone struggling with a relationship issue or who just loves a great story.

Sophie tells us she “was a love pusher. I just wanted my boyfriends to like me so much that I never really considered whether I liked them. It just felt good to make someone like me.” I loved when the characters were making their rules for LAA and talked about television. Remember, “We don’t live in an episode of Three’s Company. Rule 5: Thou shalt not believe the myths of the romantic comedy. Thou may only indulge for the snappy dialogue.” I do think watching romantic shows and movies leads to some of my unrealistic expectations.

I loved when Sophie’s friend, Dave, talked to LAA about men and what women needed to know to make better choices. She described him as “Dr. Phil meets Mario Batali:”

The guy you date next should just be the parsley to an already kick-ass dish of risotto. You’re great the way you are. Men are just the garnish…Use the information I have just shared with you to take the control back in your relationships. Don’t imagine yourself walking down the aisle on your first date. Do what we do. Imagine leaving in the morning after having great sex. That is my first homework assignment to you all.

Get ready for “Sex in the City” meets Elizabeth Kubler Ross as you are entertained and healed thru states of grief with humor and compassion.

As Sophie tells us, “Everyone is f-ked up when it comes to love and romance. If we can only realize that we’re all messed up in the same way, then we can get better.” She asks a friend: “Do you think I’m better?” Who asks her, “Do you think you’re better?” And Sophie says: “I think I’m a work in progress.”

My hope for 2016 is to move forward in recognizing that we are all works in progress and things get better when we share our stories. I am ready to take Dave’s advice and find some parsley to go with my risotto! Happy Valentine's Day! I feel free and excited for the future, how about you?

What books inspire you? Find more of my trips and tales on my website, ” target=”_blank”>YouTube Channel. Thank you! Find Parsley to go with your Risotto: Love Rehab in 12 Steps Read More »

2016 Election Blog #10: The Justice Scalia Factor and the Presidential Campaign

With the announcement over the weekend of the passing of Supreme Court Justice Antonin Scalia (79), a new dimension has been added to the already topsy-turvy Presidential campaign.  The conservative justice represented the intellectual and ideological base of conservative political thought not only on the bench but also within the Republican Party.  His ideas were crafted on the basis of defining the “origin intent” or construction of the Constitution.  As the court is taking up a series of high profile cases, including a race-oriented admissions plan from the University of Texas, an abortion case, a voting rights challenge, and an immigration case challenging the President’s executive orders, in addition to a highly charged abortion case, the future balance of power on the court will be at stake.

Should the Senate elect not to take up the President’s expected nomination, which represents the current view of the Senate Majority Leader Mitch McConnell, the Supreme Court will be left with a split constituency, namely four liberal justices and an equal number of conservative jurists.  In such settings, the lower court rulings will be allowed to stand. 

The death Justice Scalia raises the level of competition, as the two parties contend for the White House, realizing that the next President may have the opportunity to select as many as four nominees for the Supreme Court, as Anthony Kennedy is 80, Ruth Bader Ginsburg is 83, and Stephen Breyer is 78. The stakes are particularly high as the controlling political party will determine the long-term character and direction of American democracy in such vital judicial concerns as the power of the executive branch; the question of whether the government will regulate abortion policy; the character and definition of marriage; and the role of the state in defining civil liberties.  The Court could take up the Constitutional issues surrounding the Second Amendment, the right to bear arms or address the limits of police authority, just as it might want to revisit the death penalty or civil rights legislation.

The ideological deadlock that now defines the Supreme Court will therefore become a major issue in the 2016 campaign, as both political camps seek to ensure that they will be able to control this selection process. Indeed, not only is the presidential race impacted by this conversation on the future of the Court but also the intensity of the senate races in such states as New Hampshire, Wisconsin, Illinois, Florida and Ohio will take on an added dimension as Democrats and Republicans seek to win control over the Senate.
 


Dr. Steven Windmueller is the Rabbi Alfred Gottschalk Emeritus Professor of Jewish Communal Service at the Jack H. Skirball Campus of the Hebrew Union College-Jewish Institute of Religion, Los Angeles.  See his complete set of writings at 2016 Election Blog #10: The Justice Scalia Factor and the Presidential Campaign Read More »

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