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July 1, 2014

Jews get killed here and there

I've been here before. Been here before way too many times.

Too many gruesome murders.

I remember the first real mass murder. It was somewhere in Jerusalem, when I was living there. It was in 2001, or maybe 2000. Can't remember exactly. There was so many. The Sbarro pizzaria, perhaps? My blood boiled, and I knew this was a war. One we must win. But we had so little certainty in the value of our own lives. We thought maybe we deserved it. We gave “peace” a chance, until it happened again.

Cafe Moment was gone in a moment. Baruch died there. I dated him. He was a good man.

Israel went in and finally waged a battle, then about a year later, gave Gush Katif away, and we got Hamas. The terror stopped for a little while, and we forgot how bad it was. We forgot the names of those who were murdered. The enemy realized killing innocents doesn't help their cause. Israel became strong economically.

We forgot. I forgot. It felt good not to feel angry anymore. It felt good not to want war.

The enemy stopped being so overtly gruesome. Just some rockets here and there; it seemed liveable. Israel went in and out of Gaza. Oh yeah, we had a war in Lebanon too that was a stalemate at best.

But this is the reality. Jews get killed here and there. It's a part of life.

We'll remember these boys. We'll even remember their names. Gilad. Eyal. Naftali. And then we'll hope the government does something. And it does something symbolic, and then the enemy regroups.

In the meantime, we'll get new jobs, new loves. We'll live life, want to be normal. We'll forget. We'll forget for a little, until it happens again. And I think it will go on like this for several years, and in the meantime there will be both incursions and land withdrawals. And I think Israel won't crack and wage the war that needs to be waged. We will have already been so demoralized, desensitized, afraid.

Those who want to fight will be silenced, called extremists.

And when the Islamic legions come along, it may be too late….

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Please join the community for a memorial service tonight

Tonight (Tues., July 1st) at 7 p.m., Beth Jacob is holding a memorial service that is open to the public and being planned in partnership with our Federation, the Israeli Consulate and Lihi Shaar, aunt of Gilad Shaar, who is a member of the congregation.

The address is 9030 W. Olympic Blvd., Beverly Hills, 90211.  The entire community is invited to attend.

Additionally, we encourage you to send a message of support to the families of Naftali, Gilad and Eyal. Click here to a page created by the Jewish Federations of North America (JFNA). All the messages will be shared with the families.

Any additional information about communal observances will be posted on our website at www.JewishLA.org.

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Paid Family Leave: Celebrating in CA and Working for Change for the Rest of the Country

“Family leave, childcare, flexibility—these aren’t frills. They’re basic needs. They shouldn’t be bonuses—they should be the bottom line.” —“>Pew Research Center, the United States ranks last of the OECD countries in government-supported leave for new parents. Estonia is number one with 108 weeks of paid leave and 180 weeks of job protection during leave. That’s TWO YEARS OF PAID LEAVE! Contrast that with the United State where we provide our new parents with 0 weeks of paid leave and only 12 weeks of protected leave through the Family Leave Medical Act (FMLA). Even our job protection leave is less than any of the countries included in the Pew study. On top of it, FMLA does not even apply to everyone. You have to work for at least a year for a company with at least 50 employees to be eligible for job protected leave.

While we are definitely behind as a nation, we are making some headway in California. Today marks the 10th anniversary of the implementation of the Paid Family Leave Act (PFLA) in California. As the first state, and one of only three, to pass this legislation, we in California have a lot to be proud of. Today is also the first day of the expansion of PFLA to include more family members than just children, parents, spouses, or registered domestic partners. As of today, PFLA can be used to care for seriously ill grandparents, grandchildren, siblings, and parents-in-law. Most of us are not aware of PFLA and what it means for us in California so I’m going to give you an abbreviated breakdown so you know your rights, but make sure to do your research before you apply for leave to receive all the benefits you’re eligible for:

• State Disability Insurance: Check your paycheck. Most likely, you are contributing to the California State Disability fund. This makes you eligible to still receive part of your income when you leave work for disability or illness, including pregnancy-related disabilities, or to care for a seriously ill family member or bond with your newborn baby or newly adopted child. There are special circumstances for military duty and domestic violence victims to receive support as well. You can receive up to 10 weeks of wage replacement with SDI.

Paid Family Leave:  If you are eligible for Paid Family Leave, you can receive up to 55% of your weekly wages for up to six weeks. There is a maximum benefit cap of around $1000/week. This does not include job protection. You do not have to take the six weeks off consecutively. PFL can be taken hourly, daily, or weekly. That is all up to you.

Pregnancy Disability Leave: In California, we also have Pregnancy Disability Leave, which allows employees to take unpaid leave for any condition that is pregnancy-related. The leave is unpaid. This covers employees even in companies in which there are only 5 or more employees.  With PDL, a woman can take up to 4 months of leave for childbirth, complications, or other disabilities related to pregnancy. Eligibility for PDL is much simpler. You are not required to work for your employer for a certain amount of time, nor are you required to work for a certain amount of hours per week.

California Family Rights Act: In California, you are also eligible under the California Family Rights Act to receive an additional 12 weeks of unpaid, job protected leave, which can overlap with FMLA, but can also add on a significant amount of protected leave for new parents. CFRA is California’s version of FMLA. It covers same-sex domestic partners, which FMLA does not, but it does not provide leave for pregnancy-related conditions. It allows you to bond with a new child or care for yourself or a close relative with a serious health condition.

Family Medical Leave Act: The smartest way to go about getting PFL and SDI are to also make sure to register for FMLA at the same time and PDL (if you are pregnant) and follow that with CFRA. You are only covered for FMLA and CFRA if your employer employs at least 50 people within 75 miles of where you work, if you have worked for your employer for at least one full year, and if you will have worked for at least 25 hours per week during that year before you take leave.

Between PFLA, FMLA, PDL, SDI, and CFRA, a pregnant and newly parenting woman in California can receive up to 12 weeks of unpaid, job protection within one year and she can also receive up to 16 weeks of wage replacement. 

But for our dear friends living in other states, they are likely to only receive the 12 weeks of job protection when they have children. That is why it’s up to us to pressure Congress pass the Family and Medical Leave Insurance (FAMILY) Act, which would create a national paid leave fund so that Americans across the country can take time off for serious health issues or to care for a new child without worrying about whether or not they’ll be able to make rent at the end of the month.

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Netanyahu: We will find and punish teens’ murderers

Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu vowed in a televised address that Israel will capture the murderers of three Israeli teens no matter where they hide.

“Whoever was involved in the kidnapping and the murder will bear the consequences. We will neither rest nor slacken until we reach the last of them, and it does not matter where they will try to hide. We will reach them all even if it takes time,” Netanyahu said Monday evening following the funerals of the three teens and before entering a security Cabinet meeting to determine how to respond to their murders, the second meeting in two nights.

“The entire nation supports the families and the entire nation is united in our struggle against murderous terrorism. We are fighting it decisively and with determination,” the prime minister said.

Netanyahu also said that the military will strike against Hamas in the West Bank and in Gaza.

“Anyone who thinks that they can achieve anything by using terrorism against us will continue to be mistaken and will achieve the opposite results,” Netanyahu asserted. “Hamas is responsible. Hamas will pay and Hamas will continue to pay.”

Brother’s Keeper, the search operation that began with the abduction of Gilad Shaar, Naftali Fraenkel and Eyal Yifrach, continues despite the discovery of their bodies.

Israeli security forces have detained 419 of what it has identified as terror operatives, of which 335 are affiliated with Hamas, including 12 of its leaders. Some 56 Palestinians released in the Gilad Shalit prisoner exchange in 2011 are among those who have been arrested.

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In Budapest, young Jews angling for slice of communal pie

Peering through dusty apartment widows isn’t an uncommon pastime in this capital city’s crime-infested 8th District, with its many drug addicts and alcoholics seeking for a fix.

But Adam Schoenberger wasn’t scouting for a place to rob on his peeping tour of the district earlier this month.

An activist who recently moved his Jewish organization’s headquarters into the neighborhood to save on rent, Schoenberger was looking for the small apartment synagogues that persist in the area despite its few Jewish residents.

Eventually Schoenberger spotted a Star of David hanging on the wall of a ground-floor apartment on Nagyfuvaros Street. Around the corner he found another small synagogue behind a heavy, locked metal gate.

The synagogues are maintained by Mazsihisz, the umbrella group of Hungarian Jewish communities, which controls hundreds of little-used real-estate assets across Hungary. The synagogue on Nagyfuvaros Street serves a congregation of fewer than 20 people. A nearby shul on Teleki Ter normally opens on Shabbat, though not always with the prayer quorum of 10 Jewish men.

“Some of the money that maintains inactive synagogues and other heritage real estate would have much more impact if it were spent on supporting the grassroots Jewish scene, which lacks the funding to really blossom,” Schoenberger said.

To Schoenberger, the community’s continuing support for such synagogues — not to mention some 1,300 cemeteries across the country — reflects the misplaced priorities of Hungary’s Jewish leadership, which preserves such facilities even as it provides little support for the country’s vibrant Jewish youth scene.

Schoenberger is a founder of Marom, whose 13 employees and network of 100 volunteers operate the Budapest bar and cultural center Siraly, run an annual Jewish festival and does outreach to the beleaguered Roma minority in Hungary, yet receive no funding from the local Jewish community. Marom and other such groups rely on donations from abroad to survive.

Mazsihisz’s president, Andras Heisler, declined to answer questions from JTA about the organization’s funding priorities. But Rabbi Zoltan Radnoti of the Bet Shalom congregation in Budapest and a Mazsihisz employee said the umbrella group has not supported Marom because it doesn’t exclude non-Jews from its programming.

Radnoti said the Mazsihisz mandate is to cater only to Jews.

“Mazsihisz cannot check if someone at B’nai B’rith or Siraly are Jewish,” he said. “There are some non-Jews that enter among Jews because it’s fun, and that’s fine. But Mazsihisz doesn’t want to give money to such activities.”

Since the fall of communism, Hungary’s Jews have struggled to manage hundreds of properties confiscated during the Holocaust that were returned after the fall of the regime.

According to a 2010 report by the Israeli Knesset‘s research department, the Hungarian government gave Mazsihisz at least 100 properties following the passage of a 1991 law on communal restitution. The Mazsihisz list of rural cemeteries comprises 1,304 graveyards.

A prominent communal figure told JTA that maintenance and taxes on returned properties amounts to a few hundred thousand dollars annually, though Mazsihisz would not confirm the figure.

Hungary is not the only post-communist country with a relatively poor Jewish population coping with vast assets inherited from a time when the community was much larger. But unlike Slovakia, Romania and other former communist countries that are home to fewer than 10,000 Jews, Hungary has 100,000 Jews — the largest community in central Europe — and its younger generation is increasingly demanding greater investment in activities that meet their needs.

Marom, which is about to reopen Siraly after it was closed down by the city last year because it was operating out of an illegal squat, is one of the major players in Budapest’s Jewish youth scene. Also active in the capital is the Israeli Cultural Institute, which promotes cultural exchange between Israel and Hungary; Haver Foundation, an informal Jewish education platform; and Minyanim, which conducts tours of Budapest, cultural events and conferences for young Jews.

None receive funding from Mazsihisz. The reopening of Siraly was made possible by a $75,000 grant from the Jewish Federations of North America.

“The Moishe House, Marom — none of us are supported by the local Hungarian Jewish community,” said Tomi Buchler, the director of Minyanim, which receives funding from the Jewish Agency for Israel.

Meanwhile, the Mazsihisz youth division is largely inactive, according to several sources. Its former director, Mate Feldmajer, had to resign last year after saying that gays were not welcome on the Mazsihisz board, a statement that drew furious reactions from several grassroots Jewish organizations.

Mazsihisz does, however, operate large synagogues in cities like Vac and Gyongyos, where very few Jews live and where worshipers rarely reach a prayer quorum.

“It is important to show a presence in such places, which are part of who we are,” Radnoti said.

Buchler is one of several young Hungarian Jewish activists advocating greater investment in the needs of younger Jews as well as outreach to non-Jews, but he recognizes the sensitivity of the dilemma.

“My own great-grandparents are buried in cemeteries managed by Mazsihisz,” Buchler said. “Our heritage sites are part of our story. And if Mazsihisz won’t take care of our heritage sites, then no one will.”

The tension around communal resources led Buchler to help organize a conference last month about the issue. Sponsored by the Washington-based Charles and Lynn Schusterman Family Foundation, the From Me to We conference gathered dozens of young Jewish activists in Budapest for sessions on how to reconcile the competing commitments in Hungary and elsewhere,  as part of the Foundation’s global Connection Points program.

The discussions come amid a larger debate about reforming Mazsihisz policies and finances in the wake of a recent shakeup that saw Peter Feldmajer, the group’s former president, replaced by Heisler. Shortly after, Gusztav Zoltai, who had served for decades as the organization’s all-powerful director, resigned in what was widely seen as a forced retirement connected to alleged financial irregularities, though Heisler denies this.

“For the first time in a long time, there is a chance for change, but it will be gradual and slow,” said Mircea Cernov, CEO of the Haver Foundation. “It will take time to change the current distribution of resources within the Jewish community, which is designed to resist change instead of encouraging development and growth.”

Buchler is hoping for a more radical change, one that will do more than just redistribute community funds. His organization is working to instill a culture of giving in a country where years of corruption and militant communism have left many with a cynical attitude toward social altruism.

“Heritage preservation is done with the government’s money and young Jewish groups operate on funding from abroad, but almost nothing is coming from the community itself,” Buchler said. “We need to focus on changing that through instilling financial transparency. The rest will follow.”

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Our worst fears realized

For the first time in two and a half weeks, my children did not ask, upon opening their eyes in the morning, “Has there been any news about Naftali, Gilad and Eyal?”

They did not have to ask because last night our worst fears were confirmed with the announcement of the discovery of the teens' bodies in a shallow grave in a field north of Hebron.

Actually, they were my worst fears. My children, at least the younger ones, believed throughout this ordeal that the teens would be found alive and returned to the warm embrace of their families.

Today is the first day of summer vacation. My children should have been at the national opening summer program for the religious Zionist Bnei Akiva youth movement, a day at an amusement park. But it was canceled Monday following the announcement that the bodies had been found. The three murdered teens had been involved in the movement.

My kids could have been at the local swimming pool, since it has been in the 90s for more than a month.

Instead, they are all sitting with me on the couch watching the funerals on TV. Hours and hours of eulogies and video footage are tracing the 18-day drama.

The older ones check their smartphones every few minutes to track developments in the search for the kidnappers/killers. They were the first to let me listen Tuesday to the newly leaked recording on WhatsApp of the phone call made by Gilad Shaar to the emergency call center. Sounds on the recording in hindsight certainly sound like gunshots, and as I listened, I was disturbed to realize that my children had already heard them.

Last night, following the announcement about the bodies, our community rabbi invited the youth of our community to join him to talk about their feelings upon reaching the end of this tragic episode. My teenage children went. They said the discussion was emotional and touched on an array of issues — from what they should do going forward to how they can continue to relate to a God that allows something like this to happen.

For the last 18 days, many of these teens have been living and breathing the believed captivity of the teens, not considering that they were killed right away and their bodies dumped in a shallow grave outside of Hebron. They have attended special prayer services, recited psalms in public and private, and decided to take on additional mitzvot to convince God to bring the boys home. And they have returned home — just not in the way that we hoped they would.

The Education Ministry this morning sent a letter to parents, emailed by our local schools, to help us guide our children through this difficult time and return them to their “full and active lives.”

At this moment, seeing on television the teens' fathers saying the Mourner's Kaddish over their sons' shrouded and flag-draped bodies, it is hard to believe that things will ever be normal again. But I know they must. For all of our children, for us and for our country.

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Exodus to Egypt? Why African migrants marched on Israel’s border

For two years, Israel’s government has been encouraging its population of African migrants to leave the country.

But when 1,000 Eritreans and Sudanese marched on Israel’s southwestern border on Friday, they couldn’t get through to Egypt. After two days of camping out in protest on the border, the hundreds who remained were arrested Sunday by Israeli authorities and placed in prison.

“We are a state,” Interior Ministry spokeswoman Sabin Haddad told JTA. “To just go to the border and cross, you can’t do that. Whoever wants to leave needs to do it according to protocol.”

When it allows migrants to leave, Israel will only permit their return to their home countries — where they would face repressive regimes — or to one of a few third-party countries whose identity Israel has declined to publicize. Israel provides grants of $3,500 to those who leave.

For those who remain in Israel, the government has built a detention facility near the Egyptian border, called Holot, that now houses more than 2,000 people. Detainees receive food, shelter and health care, but their freedom of movement is restricted as they must stand for roll call three times daily. The detainees have no release date. Failure to show for roll call, or refusal to answer the summons to Holot, are punishable with prison time.

“It was horrible to be in Holot and to be in prison,” said Philemon Rezene, 26, an Eritrean chosen to represent the protesters at a Tel Aviv news conference Sunday. “They had a very miserable life. There was a shortage of food, a shortage of sanitation, a shortage of medical care. They were always under strict control. They wanted at least to be free in an open area.”

The migrants’ march on the border is the latest stage in their conflict with the Israeli government. The migrants are seeking asylum from Eritrea and Sudan, which are ruled by repressive regimes.

But Israel says they are economic migrants seeking a higher standard of living, and it fenced off its border with Egypt in 2012 to prevent future migrants from entering. Anyone who crosses Israel’s border illegally now faces a year in prison.

Last year, Israel approved the financial grants for voluntary departure and opened the Holot facility. Approximately 3,000 out of Israel’s African migrant population of 60,000 have chosen to voluntarily depart.

Chafing at their restrictions, the detainees who marched toward the Egyptian border last week aimed to cross into Egypt and wait there for assistance from the United Nations high commissioner for refugees, according to Liat Bolzman, an Israeli who accompanied them.

Blocked by Israeli border guards, the protesters set up camp on the border, sheltering themselves with sheets, and surviving on food and water brought by supporters.

Two days after the initial march, units of Israeli immigration police and border guards forcibly dispersed the camp and sent the remaining protesters to Saharonim Prison, next to Holot. Bolzman said six protesters were injured during the operation.

“They were ready to cross,” she said. “It’s better than sitting in the detention center for they don’t know how much time. They said we can’t live like this anymore, we’re ready to take this risk and cross the border rather than be here.”

But though the migrants say they are fed up with Israel, crossing the border and receiving U.N. help in Egypt may not be realistic.

Egypt’s Sinai Peninsula is known among migrants for harrowing stories of kidnapping and torture. And the representative in Israel of the U.N. high commissioner for refugees said that migrants who cross the border without proper documentation should not expect prompt assistance from the United Nations.

“In order to make this possible, you can’t just start marching for the border,” said the representative, Walpurga Englbrecht, while also urging Israel to improve conditions for migrants. “You cannot just assume everything will be arranged at the end if there are no arrangements made beforehand. If you go to another country, you need a passport. You need an entry visa.”

Anat Ovadia, spokeswoman for Israel’s Hotline for Migrant Workers, an aid organization, suggested that the goal of the march was more to gain Israeli sympathy for the migrants, not for them to cross the border.

“This step was a protest step to get Israel’s attention and get U.N. attention,” Ovadia said. “It’s a testament to how much Israel is despairing them.”

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60,000 Israelis download app to notify of abduction

Some 60,000 Israelis have downloaded a free app designed to assist in the event of an abduction.

Using the free United Hatzalah SOS smartphone app, subscribers can inform the emergency organization that they need assistance and provide their exact location via GPS technology. The app, developed by the Israeli start-up NowForce, requires one swipe of the finger.

The system contacts any family or friends that are programmed into the system during registration.

The app responds to problems that arise from placing an emergency call to the police in the event of a kidnapping situation. Security forces have to undergo lengthy legal processes to obtain permission to track an individual’s cell phone signal, prolonging emergency response times and the chance of rescue.

Police received a distress call from one of three kidnapped Israeli teenagers minutes after they were taken, but security forces were unable to ascertain their exact location. They then waited nearly seven hours before responding to the teens’ call for help, believing it was a prank.

Israeli media have reported that the teens were shot by their abductors in panic after they realized a call had been placed to police. The app allows for a discrete method to call for help, its creators say.

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How to Make a Skinny Strong Margarita [Video]

Mexico may be out of the World Cup but margaritas win over and over.  This margarita is simple, has no sugar and perfect for anytime you need a cocktail.