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June 6, 2013

School’s Out for Summer – Now What?

No more pencils
No more books
No more teacher's dirty looks

–Alice Cooper

I can’t really believe that tomorrow is the last day of school. Tonight, I ran out at the last minute to buy gift cards for our son’s special education teacher, 1:1 aide and a few other classroom aides at Fairfax High School. We wrote out thank you notes, added some bird stickers and placed the new Willy Wonka DVD received from my sister in Danny’s backpack, all set for the big party tomorrow. But I still don’t feel ready for school and it’s familiar rhythm to end.

This is the earliest that school has ever ended, due to a new schedule that rings in the new school year in mid-August instead of the traditional after Labor Day . I’ve crafted a schedule worthy of a presidential hopeful in New Hampshire, with three different sitters/aides, his big sister, me and my husband all taking turns until Etta Day Camp and then summer school kicks in, with second session in the Tikvah Program at Camp Ramah California as the grand finale.

We’ve made a list of the top five places Danny wants to go while on vacation which include the beach, zoo, and plane museum and we all look forward to getting to sleep in a little later. But Danny has developed some very nice friendships with the other kids in his special education class, and after spending several years together, the group really feels like a big family, and he looks forward to his time there. He got sad when I told him that school was ending, and he wouldn’t see his classmates for several weeks. They do gardening together, food prep/cooking, and take community field trips by public buses to grocery stores and other public places where they will need to go as adults.

I remember counting down those last days of school, just itching for more time on my own, away from class assignments and homework. But since Danny’s main social interactions outside of the family take place at school, he’s a lot less excited about school ending. So it’s time to add some new educational apps to the Ipad, buy a whole lot of sunscreen and get in touch with my inner “oompa loompa” as we settle in for the long days ahead.

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IRS’ ‘return free’ bad for most vulnerable

As April 15 nears each year, American taxpayers take inventory of their income and expenses and hand over a year’s worth of detail to the Internal Revenue Service (IRS). Many of us utilize the expertise of accountants to prepare what will become a complex analysis of the many life happenings that impact the sum of the taxes we owe or our refund. Our financial lives are often inherently complex, and they become even more complex when they must be reported and evaluated according to federal and state tax codes.  Tuition payments for our children’s education, contributions we have made to various charities and the cost of caring for our elderly parents are just a few of the deductible expenses that we communicate to our tax preparer. These factors are particularly relevant to our Jewish communities, where education, tzedakah, and caring for the sick and elderly serve as religious and cultural imperatives.

I am deeply concerned to learn about the IRS’ latest fight in Congress. The same federal agency responsible for collecting our taxes and issuing our refunds wants to be responsible for processing our filing information. This means that instead of communicating the countless details of our annual economics to accountants, the IRS wants us to hand over that information directly to them and await their response in the form of a refund and/or a collection notice.  I devote several months to the process of filing my taxes. As a spouse, rabbi, homeowner and contributor to multiple charities, my tax-filing experience is loaded with nuance, and I count on the tremendous detail and accuracy of my preparer to assure that I pay what I owe according to law and not more or less than that. I cannot imagine a scenario where those specific factors become unimportant in a system so large and disorganized that it cannot possibly process my truly individual return.

As an ethicist, I look beyond my own experience and shudder at the impact this program will have on the most vulnerable people in American society. Lower-income, minority, senior, veteran and disabled people rely on their refunds more than anyone. I am blessed to be concerned about how my charitable contributions will be accurately processed, but there are folks across this city and our nation who rely on their tax refund to pay the mortgage, cover medical expenses, and even keep the electricity and water on at home.

The IRS’ proposed “Return Free” program proposes to experiment with its new concept on the lowest income bracket of our nation, guaranteeing that the fallout will impact those who need the most support. Many of the same individuals and families who will suffer as a result of being issued inaccurate refunds under this program are also the people who will encounter the most significant barriers in rectifying that unfairness. 

If Congress allows the IRS to go through with this plan, I will likely have to hire accountants and attorneys to revise what will be an inaccurate return and then to get the IRS to accept the revisions. I am fortunate enough to have the money and knowledge to do that, but there are so many Americans who will never be able to repair the mistakes of the IRS. Language barriers, mistrust of government and centuries of discrimination will make reparation impossible for the most targeted and at-risk victims of this proposal.

What is the motivation of a United States federal agency to pursue such a flagrant conflict of interest as making the tax collector also the tax preparer? Doing so will compromise the accuracy and integrity of the American tax system and will, according to the Government Accountability Office, open the doors to the most frightening economic and privacy issues the United States has ever faced.  As it stands, the IRS answers at least one in five tax-related questions incorrectly. As is stands, the IRS often returns error-ridden tax paperwork, with sensitive personal identification information, to the wrong address. With stakes as high as basic annual budgeting and the security of our private information, how could the IRS possibly imagine that they could handle the accurate processing of every single American tax return?

We need to contact our Congressional representatives to urge them to stop this IRS plan before it starts.


Rabbi Elliot Dorff is rector and professor of philosophy at American Jewish University.

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June 6, 2013

The US

Headline: Obama’s Choices Reflect Change in Foreign Tone

To Read: Here is (Ambassador?) Samantha Power's classic article about US and UN inaction during the 1994 Rwandan genocide, an article which features a disturbing cameo performance by her colleague and new NSA Susan Rice-

 At an interagency teleconference in late April, Susan Rice, a rising star on the NSC who worked under Richard Clarke, stunned a few of the officials present when she asked, “If we use the word 'genocide' and are seen as doing nothing, what will be the effect on the November [congressional] election?” Lieutenant Colonel Tony Marley remembers the incredulity of his colleagues at the State Department. “We could believe that people would wonder that,” he says, “but not that they would actually voice it.” Rice does not recall the incident but concedes, “If I said it, it was completely inappropriate, as well as irrelevant.”   

Quote: “It may mean, more crucially, sacrificing, or investing I think more than sacrificing, literally billions of dollars, not in servicing Israel’s military but actually investing in the new state of Palestine; in investing billions of dollars it would probably take also to support I think what will have to be a mammoth a protection force — not of the old Srebrenica kind or of the Rwanda kind, but a meaningful military presence”, Samantha Power's 2002 Israel mishap which might come back to haunt her in her confirmation hearings.

Number: 52%, NJ Governor Chris Christie's favorability ratings (which have doubled in the past couple of years)

 

Israel

Headline: Assad army retakes Syria-Israel border crossing

To Read: Ari Shavit shares his impressions from NY's Israel Day parade-

But although the Salute to Israel parade is still very energetic, it is marching on borrowed time. New York’s leading Jewish intelligentsia − the new Brooklyn bohemia and Columbia students − are not here.

The quiet Jewish majority, unorganized and unmobilized, still wants to love Israel, but feels Israel is not letting it love her. Is it a high-tech nation or a settlers’ nation? Is it Yair Lapid or the ultra-Orthodox nationalists? The confusion is immense. Israel does not present a clear story they can identify with.

Quote: “There’s the story we tell the world, about Israel as a ‘start-up nation,’ and it’s a very nice story, but it only applies to about five per cent of the population”, founding editor of Israel's 'The Marker' talking about Israel's poverty problem.

Number: 74, the percentage of Israelis who reject the idea of a Palestinian capital in any portion of Jerusalem, according to a JPost poll.

 

The Middle East

Headline: Brahimi says no Syria peace meeting in June

To Read: Vali Nasr believes that the war in Syria has been a giant missed opportunity to isolate Iran more effectively-

 Syria’s uprising offered the possibility of a strategic defeat of Iran. In this scenario, Iran would be weakened by the collapse of Bashar al-Assad’s regime, its single Arab ally and a vital link to Lebanon’s Hezbollah militia. Isolated, Iran would become more vulnerable to international pressure to limit its nuclear program. And as Iran’s regional influence faded, those of its rivals — U.S. allies Turkey, Qatar and Saudi Arabia — would expand.

Instead, events in Syria are spinning in Iran’s favor. Assad’s regime is winning ground, the war has made Iran more comfortable in its nuclear pursuits, and Iran’s gains have embarrassed U.S. allies that support the Syrian uprising. What’s more, Iran has strengthened its relationship with Russia, which may prove to be the most important strategic consequence of the Syrian conflict, should the U.S. continue to sit it out.

Quote: “Turkey is not a second-class democracy”, Turkey's influential FM Ahmet Davutoglu objecting to the US' comments on the Turkish protests.

Number: 62, the percentage of Turks who have a favorable opinion of PM Erdogan (at least up until the clashes).

 

The Jewish World

Headline: WoW to read from Torah at Kotel for first time

To Read: Commentary's Jonathan Kay accuses novelist Alice Walker of some serious 'Jews are money loving lizards'- level antisemitism-

In a free society, David Icke should be free to say such things. And Alice Walker should be free to praise him for it. But let us not pretend that either of these two people are opponents of mere “Zionism”: It is clearly a much darker and more repellent form of thinking that is at play here. And it is unclear why an illustrious institution such as the 92nd Street Y should want to give a forum to anyone who exhibits it.

Quote:   “It's the worst thing I have said in my life, but I didn't mean it … I have been trying to find out why that anger was directed at this race. I now realize I was so angry and so discontent with myself that I just said the most spiteful thing I could”, John Galliano apologizing for his remarks about the Jews.

Number: $16m, the amount of money given by the state to Berlin's Jewish community last year.

 

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Why I’m Going to Suspend my Worries about Samantha Power

Can a big-mouthed person be the US ambassador to the UN? Can someone with a track record of controversial quotes be forgiven for not always being at the top of her game?

It occurred to me that amid all the talk about Samantha Power’s nomination to succeed Susan Rice as the next UN ambassador this basic question is the real issue. It isn’t necessarily Power’s views that will be scrutinized at the hearings and by the public; it is her temper and manner. Power called Hillary Clinton a “monster”, Power spoke about “crimes committed, sponsored, or permitted by the United States”, she said about Secretary of State John Kerry that “he must have thought that having got shrapnel in his ass out there bought him some credibility. It didn’t”.

Oh, and she is “a hater of Israel”. That’s not a Power quote, of course, it is something that other people – people who obviously dislike Obama’s choice – say about her.

I don’t know if Power hates Israel or not. And I don’t suppose that those blaming her for hating Israel have any better knowledge of what’s in her heart. If they are worried about her, they have good reasons to be worried. Power said some disturbing things about Israel in the past from which one can get the impression that she is unsympathetic to Israel’s policies and that she views Israel disapprovingly, negatively.

Power said in an interview, when asked about her opinion on the proper way for the US to help solve the Israeli-Palestinian conflict, that:

What we need is a willingness to actually put something on the line in service of helping the situation. And putting something on the line might mean alienating a domestic constituency of tremendous political and financial import. It may more crucially mean sacrificing or investing I think more than sacrificing literally billions of dollars not in servicing Israeli's military, but actually in investing in the new state of Palestine.

Power once complained that “we will lambaste Yasser Arafat, investing significant political capital in regime change, but we will only ritualistically take issue with Ariel Sharon”.

And she famously spoke about the need for “a mammoth protection force”, presumably American, to shield Palestinians from Israel.

These are all disturbing quotes and pro-Israel advocates have every reason to insist on getting answers to the many questions arising from them. If Power is about to face her “Chuck Hagel moment”, as a writer for Slate suggested, she earned it fair and square by making these comments. If Jewish groups like ZOA feel that they can’t support the nomination of such a person to represent the US at the UN – they have enough controversial Power quotes with which to justify their position.

There are also many good reasons to support Power’s nomination, though, especially for those advocating a more robust US foreign policy. Senator Joe Lieberman, not exactly an enemy of the US-Israel alliance, offered “strong praise” for Power. “Generally speaking from her writings”, he told FP magazine, “Samantha is probably more personally interventionist as a matter of American foreign policy based on human rights than this administration has been. I'm very encouraged by the president's appointment”. Alan Dershowitz, another famous advocate of Israel, said she is “the perfect choice”.

Can she be both a “hater of Israel” and “the perfect choice”? I don’t think she can. So for one to feel comfortable with her nomination one has to give Power a pass on some past controversial comments. As it happens, my interview with Power from February of 2008 is – for now – the only available line of defense for Power’s supporters on the issue of Israel. It was quoted today by The Atlantic, and by Slate, and by many other commentators, not because it can explain away all the suspicions but rather because it is the only available instance in which Power specifically referred to her Israel record. I should probably revisit this interview as well (and not for the first time).

If you want to read it in full, and get all the specifics, you should go to the source and see for yourself whether Power’s explanations seem convincing or not. But it ultimately comes down to this:

If you look at her specific quotes and the counter quotes, the misstatements and the excuses, you might not be convinced. If you dissect them one by one, attempt to find some logic in them, wishing to wipe any doubt about her true feelings, you might end up skeptical.

If you look at her rebuttal as a whole, though, and generally try to be forgiving, you might end up thinking, well, that she has a big mouth, that she said some dumb things, that she jumped her guns, and that she was speaking about things on which she isn’t an expert – that’s human. You might end up giving her a pass.

Power – I wrote back then – “is somewhat frustrated by the need to address every snippet of past statements”. For many years she was a writer, a reporter, an advocate for important causes, an opinion maker. She was constantly speaking in many places to many audiences and on many issues. She was not a careful politician, not a trained diplomat – she was a somewhat hotheaded author and columnist. You can’t seriously expect her not to stumble, along the way, on some mouth-mines. When I asked her about the invasion of her imaginary “mammoth protection force” she responded by saying that “Even I don't understand it. This makes no sense to me. The quote seems so weird”. Nevertheless, it is undeniable that she said it. So four options of interpretation are open to us:

  1. She said it, she meant it, and she now regrets it – but prefers not to say it, believing that a murkier path for explanation is the wiser one.
  2. She said it, she meant it, she still believes it, but she doesn’t want it to sabotage her career. In other words: her explanation is a lie.
  3. She said it, but didn’t mean it. It was a misstatement that she didn’t think through, something she said without even paying much attention to what she was saying.
  4. She said it, and can’t explain it, because she doesn’t remember why she said it. That’s what Power asked me to believe at the interview.

But when she was asking me to believe option D she was also presenting me with a second interpretive dilemma – because of the two options still available:

  1. She can’t explain it, and doesn’t believe in it.
  2. She can’t explain it, but truly does believe it, only she won’t say so (for fear of hurting her career).

Power told me that “what she said five years ago is less important than what she wants to say now” – but that is only true if option A is the one to pick. Which brings me back to the question posed at the outset of this article: can you tolerate a bigmouthed UN ambassador? The US has had many outspoken UN ambassadors: Daniel Patrick Moynihan was outspoken, as were Madeleine Albright, John Bolton, and Susan Rice. Like some of them, Power looks like a fighter for human rights, like some of them she seems like a fearless advocate for justice, like some of them, she sometimes has little patience for nuance – and that’s not always bad.

Could Power the diplomat refrain from making statements on issues on which she knows little? Could she make sure to no longer say “weird” things? Could she manage to always “make sense”? Could she do all that and still use her outspokenness to advance US interests? Since her troubling statements were all made long ago, and since she has showed her ability to demonstrate restraint in recent years, I’d say the answer is yes, and I hope not to be proved too optimistic.

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Secretary Kerry’s Speech and J Street’s Open Letter to the American Jewish Community

Earlier this week, Secretary of State John Kerry gave a powerful and important speech at the American Jewish Committee conference, calling on American Jews to make their voices heard in support for negotiation efforts and a two-state solution. The speech was not given much attention from Jewish groups, but I, as a co-chair of the J Street Rabbinic Cabinet, believe that it is important to elevate Kerry’s call and to make sure that our community is vocally supporting Kerry’s efforts in the Middle East.

In that vein, J Street has released an open letter to the American Jewish community, which I hope will be circulated and read by many in an effort to galvanize support for a reinvigorated peace effort. The text of the letter can be found here.

The next few weeks provide a critical window of opportunity to do all that can be done to ensure that negotiations move ahead. I urge you to use this open letter as a jumping off point to encourage to your rabbis, synagogue leadership, friends and communities to vocally and actively support Secretary Kerry’s efforts.

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Syrian army fights off rebels at Israeli crossing

Syrian forces loyal to President Bashar al-Assad fought off an attempt by rebels to seize the sole crossing between Syria and Israel on Thursday, while army troops sought to ram home strategic gains further to the north.

A day after losing control of Qusair, an important town close to the Lebanese border, rebels tried to grab back the initiative with an assault on Quneitra – a demilitarized zone on the Golan Heights that is patrolled by the United Nations.

For the first time since the start of the uprising in March 2011, the rebels briefly took control of the area, sending U.N. peacekeepers scurrying to their bunkers. Israeli sources said Syrian forces wrested back the site after fierce fighting.

Austria said it would withdraw its 380 peacekeepers from the 1,000-strong U.N. monitoring force because of the fighting.

Pro-government troops have won a string of successes in recent weeks, boosting Assad at a time when the United States and Russia are struggling to organize a peace conference aimed at ending the civil war, which has killed more than 80,000.

Activists pushed out of the devastated town of Qusair this week issued a desperate plea for help, saying they were cornered by both Syrian troops and their powerful Lebanese allies, the Shi'ite guerrilla force Hezbollah.

“God has given us the strength to persevere, but until when only God knows. We beg you to move as quickly as possible to rescue us,” said a message posted on social networking sites.

France, which earlier this week accused Assad of deploying nerve gas in the civil war, said on Wednesday the situation on the ground needed to be rebalanced after the fall of Qusair, but did not say how that could be achieved.

Russia said on Thursday it was worried that allegations of gas attacks might be used as a pretext for foreign intervention.

“I do not rule out that somebody wants to use it to state that a red line has been crossed and a foreign intervention is necessary,” Russian Foreign Minister Sergei Lavrov told a news conference in Moscow with his German and Finnish counterparts.

QUAGMIRE

Western countries have so far shown little appetite for getting sucked into the Syrian quagmire, but there is also a clear aversion to letting Assad, heavily backed by Shi'ite Iran and their Hezbollah associates, emerge victorious.

France and Britain last month pushed the European Union to drop its ban on arming the rebels, who are mainly Sunni Muslims. London and Paris have not yet said if they plan to arm the fighters but wanted the ban lifted to apply pressure on Assad.

Syrian troops, buoyed by their success in Qusair, much of which was reduced to dust and rubble, sent artillery rounds flying into surrounding villages, where many rebels are hiding.

Qusair lies along an important corridor through the central province of Homs, linking the capital Damascus to the coastal heartland of Assad's minority Alawite sect, an offshoot of Shi'ite Islam.

Many opposition fighters and civilians are believed to have fled to the villages of Debaa, 5-km (3 miles) northeast of Qusair, and Buwayda another 7-km in the same direction. A Reuters photographer reported heavy fighting in both places.

“We have a large number of civilians and wounded in Buwayda,” said activist Mohammed al-Qusair

The International Committee of the Red Cross (ICRC) said it was negotiating with Syria to reach areas surrounding Qusair to deliver medical assistance to the wounded. Humanitarian groups have estimated that up to 1,500 people might need help.

“We have material, medical supplies for distribution in public health centers and hospitals,” said ICRC spokesman Alexis Heeb in Geneva, adding that Qusair itself appeared deserted.

“Today the conflict is extremely fragmented and this is one of the biggest operational challenges for the ICRC.”

With sectarian divisions deteriorating, the leader of Sunni Islamist group Al Qaeda, Ayman al-Zawahri, urged Syrians to unite against Assad and thwart what he called U.S. plans to set up a client state in Syria to safeguard Israel's security.

Washington and its allies which have backed the rebels have become alarmed in recent months by the rise of a rebel group that pledged its loyalty to al Qaeda.

Israel's military picked up two wounded Syrians after the clashes on the Golan Heights and transferred them to hospital for treatment, a military spokeswoman said.

Israel is worried that the Golan, which it captured from Syria in 1967 and fought over again in 1973, will become a springboard for attacks on Israelis by jihadi fighters who are trying to topple Assad.

The rarely used Quneitra crossing is the only transit point between Syrian and Israeli disengagement lines set in 1974 and Thursday's battle will further heighten concerns in Israelabout the worsening security environment.

The United Nations Disengagement Observer Force (UNDOF) is meant to police the peace but has been largely ineffectual during the civil war. Israel however is keen to maintain an international presence in the area and has urged countries contributing to the force not to quit, despite the dangers.

Additional reporting by Erika Solomon in Beirut, Stephanie Nebehay in Geneva and Alissa de Carbonnel in Moscow

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Respect, inclusion and tolerance at the Western Wall

“There are no villains in this story.”  Those were the calming words of Natan Sharansky, renowned human rights champion and Chairman of the Jewish Agency for Israel. The story was of in-fighting that has erupted among Jews at the Western Wall, the holiest site in Judaism.  Sharansky, tasked with resolving the issue by Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu, spoke to a group of Los Angeles Rabbis last week, knowing that the monthly Jewish holiday of Rosh Hodesh will arrive this Sunday – and many Jews will gather again for prayer at the Western Wall.  The prospect of clashes has unsettled the Jewish world. 

Some of those gathering will be part of “Women of the Wall,” a group of women and men meeting every Rosh Hodesh for almost 25 years. The women will be praying as a group in the women's section. Others will be women and men who believe that the way “Women of the Wall” pray violates Jewish law. Last month on Rosh Hodesh these differences led to an ugly confrontation. As the great Israeli poet Yehuda Amichai wrote a generation ago, “From the place where we are right flowers will never grow in the spring.” From the place where we are right, violence erupts.

We are American rabbis from different denominations; we know there are different ways to be a Jew.  We know that the ability to disagree civilly does not grow spontaneously. It takes many years of cultivating relationships and building trust through meeting, listening, sharing, and working together. This is a process that diaspora rabbis and Jews have been engaged in for decades, one which has begun to bear real fruit in recent years.

[RELATED: L.A. rabbis urge calm at the Kotel]

Here in Los Angeles many of us are reaching across our divisions to model a relationship of respect and dignity.  Despite our deep differences, we all equally love the Jewish people and the State of Israel. We dare not demonize or dehumanize one another.

The Western Wall is a central symbol to all Jews.  But this Wall that has united people can also divide us.  Winston Churchill used to say that Americans and the British are two peoples separated by a common language. The two groups vying for control of the Western Wall are two communities separated by a common scripture, the Torah. Matters of conscience are not themselves amenable to compromise or negotiation.  Still, we all believe that a principal element of conscience is to listen and learn from one another and to show the respect and dignity that befits an ancient people and a great tradition.

Few know that better than Natan Sharansky, who languished in the gulag for eight years. He was chosen by Israel’s Prime Minister to come up with a solution, one that would defuse a dispute that spilled over to Jewish denominations in the United States, and strained relations between diaspora Jews and the State of Israel at a time that she is threatened existentially by Iran and the possibility looms of a front opening up with Syria. Sharansky reminded us that while each was – and still is – convinced of the justice of his or her position, there was another side to be heard.

Freed in exchange for a Soviet spy in 1986, Sharansky explained that he was whisked off to Jerusalem, now in the company of his wife Avital from whom he had been separated so many years before, right after their marriage. One of his first stops, of course, was the Western Wall. He clung to Avital’s hand to remind himself that this was no fantasy, no dream from which he would wake up in solitary confinement once again. Nearing the Wall, however, he and Avital had to briefly part company, as men and women are separated in prayer in Orthodox tradition.  He did not convey this with any resentment. (His wife, in fact, is Orthodox.) He told us of what he understood at that moment. The Western Wall serves as a place to pray for countless Jews. But it also serves as a powerful focus of national Jewish yearning and aspiration, quite apart from religious belief. Somehow, both have to be satisfied, and that is what his plan would try to do, embodying the key Jewish and democratic values of mutual respect, inclusion and tolerance. Sharansky and the Government of Israel should be commended for engaging in this ambitious effort to resolve such a difficult problem.

We believe that this is a message that resonates not only among the Jews of our great city, but among all our neighbors as well. At a time when the Middle East faces increasing upheaval and bitter partisanship has become a norm even within many democratic countries, this is a theme worth amplifying and repeating. And with the help of G-d, perhaps some of our determination will reflect back to Jerusalem, the “City of Peace,” and make it more peaceful yet. With some gentleness we can ensure that flowers will always be able to grow.

Signed,
Rabbi Yitzchok Adlerstein
Rabbi Denise Eger
Rabbi Ed Feinstein
Rabbi Morley Feinstein
Rabbi Laura Geller
Rabbi Judith HaLevy
Rabbi Eli Herscher
Rabbi Yosef Kanefsky
Rabbi Elazar Muskin
Rabbi Kalman Topp
Rabbi David Wolpe
Members of a Task Force on Jewish Unity comprised of Orthodox, Conservative, Reform, Progressive and Reconstructionist leaders

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What the Heck is Life & Wellness Coaching, Anyway?

“What is a healthy diet?”

“Is juicing good for me?”

“Are carbs bad?”

These are common questions I hear from clients, friends and people all over the internet. The truth is that there is NO SINGLE RIGHT ANSWER. If anyone is trying to give you a definitive answer then be sure to ask a lot of follow up questions or do a lot of further research.

There is an ample amount of misleading and truthful information regarding health and nutrition, which can be confusing to decipher and weed through in order to find out what is applicable to your body and emotional needs.

If what you are looking for is an objective answer to a nutrition question, then doing some research and finding an answer from a doctor or nutritionist is your best solution. But if what you are seeking is an answer to feeling and looking better, the issue isn’t what diet should you be on. The answer is what dialogue needs to change in your head and what tools do you need so that you can feel confident.

The quick answer to leading your best life is to eat a diet of whole foods, lean proteins, consistent exercise, and to eliminate stress. Sounds simple but we find ourselves not able to use this simple formula. Why? Because no single issue in our lives is isolated. Everything is interconnected. The challenges you face in your career are often distilled down to the same challenges you have with your body and diet.

Whether your issue is weight, work, money, or some other stress, the key to change is whole body wellness. Learning how all the aspects of your life are interconnected, coming up with a new self dialogue (rather than the one you have now), then making an action plan that fits in with your lifestyle is a lot more sustainable for longterm happiness than the quick fixes we get from juice cleanses, alcohol, overeating, shopping, complaining, etc.

I am currently booking 4 sessions for $200 as I build hours for my certification for the International Coaching Federation. Life and wellness coaching is designed for those of you who are ready to explore how all the pieces of your life are interconnected and want to create a more balanced, healthy, peaceful, and fulfilling life even in the midst of chaotic professional and family lives. Wellness coaching is also great for young adults who are preparing for independence. Coaching helps individuals form positive thoughts about the whole body and encourages new health habits which in turn prepares for a vibrant and stable adult experience.

 

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Charedim called on to protest Women of the Wall Torah reading

Women of the Wall said it will read from a Torah scroll at its upcoming service at the Western Wall.

Meanwhile, several leading Charedi Orthodox rabbis called on Charedi men to gather Sunday for a mass prayer opposite the group’s service that included an admonition against violence.

On Wednesday, Women of the Wall director Lesley Sachs told JTA that her group had acquiesced to a request from Religious Services Minister Naftali Bennett to refrain from reading the Torah in May at its monthly women’s Rosh Chodesh service at the wall.

“We could have done it last month, but Bennett asked us to make a certain compromises and we agreed for one month to show our good will,” Sachs said. “There was no question we would bring it this month. Without it, it’s not a full service.”

[Related: Respect, inclusion and tolerance at the Wall]

Bennett met with Women of the Wall representatives on Wednesday in what Sachs called a “very productive meeting,” but adding there was “nothing new.”

Women of the Wall members have been arrested for wearing prayer shawls over a law forbidding practice that falls outside the wall’s “local custom.”

In April, however, a judge determined that the group’s activities – including reading from a Torah scroll — did not contravene the law.

The absence of a Torah scroll last month did little to prevent unrest during Women of the Wall’s service, as thousands of Charedi young women packed the Western Wall Plaza during the service, and several dozen Charedi men protested, with some throwing coffee, water and a chair in protest.

The call for thousands of men to mass for this month’s service, according to Charedi news site Kikar Hashabbat, included the admonition against violence.

“It will be a show of sanctification of God’s name,” said Jerusalem Deputy Mayor Yossi Deutsch, who is Charedi. “Many will come, according to the instruction of great rabbis, to sanctify the name of heaven and prove that we will not surrender in the battle over the holiness of the Western Wall.”

Sachs said she does not think reading from a Torah scroll should incite Charedi protest.

“We’re not there to provoke,” she said. “We just want to do the new month’s service, which does include the Torah scroll.”

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Top Saudi cleric endorses anti-Hezbollah stance

Saudi Arabia's highest religious figure praised a leading Sunni Muslim scholar on Thursday for his condemnation of Hezbollah following its intervention in Syria.

Grand Mufti Sheikh Abdulaziz bin Abdullah al-Sheikh's words add to the growing criticism of Hezbollah by Sunni authorities, underlining the sectarian aspect of Syria's civil war where mostly Sunni rebels are fighting President Bashar al-Assad, a member of the Alawite sect, an offshoot of Shi'ite Islam.

The Shi'ite Hezbollah, once revered by fellow Arabs as a bulwark against Israel, has lost support due to its military support for Assad, including helping his forces retake the strategic border town of Qusair from rebels on Wednesday.

Influential Qatar-based Sunni cleric Sheikh Youssef al-Qaradawi last week called for jihad (holy war) against Assad and called Iranian-backed Hezbollah – which means party of God – “the party of Satan”.

He said he had been wrong to have praised Hezbollah in the past when he had sought to bring Sunnis and Shi'ites closer together.

Saudi Arabia's al-Sheikh, the highest religious authority in the birthplace of Islam, said Qaradawi's stance was in line with Sunni orthodoxy.

“Part of his statement was his support and reference to the stance of some of the (Saudi) kingdom's great scholars, which has been clear towards this hateful sectarian party since its establishment,” he said in a statement carried by the Saudi press agency.

He called on scholars and politicians to act to stop Hezbollah's “aggression”.

Last week, Bahrain's foreign minister called Hezbollah's leader, Hassan Nasrallah, a “terrorist”.

Nasrallah became a hero in the Arab world after his forces helped push Israel to withdraw from southern Lebanon in 2000 and confronted the Jewish state in a short war in 2006.

Reporting By Ali Abdelaty and Maha El Dahan; Editing by Sami Aboudi and Robin Pomeroy

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