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January 27, 2011

Tribe Calendar: February 2011-March 2011

FEBRUARY

Friday, February 4

Marriage for life weekend
Whether you are considering getting married, engaged, are newly married or have been married for 10 years, American Jewish University’s Brandeis-Bardin campus has something for you this weekend. Jewish and interfaith couples meet with a licensed therapist, a rabbi and a financial planner and interact with other couples. Shabbat celebration, outdoor and social activities included. 3 p.m. through Sunday morning. $300 (per couple for the weekend). American Jewish University, Brandeis-Bardin campus, 1101 Peppertree Lane, Brandeis. (310) 440-1566. ” title=”cbbsb.org” target=”_blank”>cbbsb.org.

World Wide Wrap 11
Kick off Super Bowl Sunday with a mitzvah. The Federation of Jewish Men’s Clubs brings the global Jewish community together to learn about and practice laying tefillin. Check with local Conservative congregations for time and location. ” title=”orami.org” target=”_blank”>orami.org.


Sunday, February 13

“Why Did Our Ancestors Leave a Nice Place LIke the Pale?”
In 1880, fully 80 percent of Jews lived in Poland and the Pale of Jewish Settlement in western Russia. Get some context on their lives and their decision to abandon everything they had known for the West. Sponsored by the Jewish Genealogical Society of Conejo Valley and Ventura County. 1:30 p.m. Free. Temple Adat Elohim, 2420 E. Hillcrest Drive, Thousand Oaks. (818) 889-6616.” title=”tasnorthridge.org/baseball” target=”_blank”>tasnorthridge.org/baseball.


Wednesday, February 16

There is always something to celebrate. Do you really need an excuse to eat delicious kosher cuisine?  Meet winemakers making a rare West Coast appearance and enjoy Mediterranean fare prepared by renowned chef Todd Aarons of the award-winning Tierra Sur Restaurant during this Herzog Wine Cellars event. L’Chaim! $100 (general), $85 (purchasing two or more), $60 (Wine Club members). 7 p.m. Herzog Wine Cellars, 3201 Camino Del Sol, Oxnard. RSVP to (805) 983-1560. ” title=”adatelohim.org” target=”_blank”>adatelohim.org.

Peter Greenberg
Travel the world and get paid for it? CBS News’ travel editor and best-selling author of the “Travel Detective” series, has an enviable career. The award-winning investigative reporter shares his insights on the travel industry during The Distinguished Speakers Series. 8 p.m. $343-$385 (tickets available through subscription). Fred Kavli Theatre, Bank of America Performing Arts Center, Thousand Oaks Civic Arts Plaza, 2100 Thousand Oaks Blvd., Thousand Oaks. (805) 449-2775. ” title=”jewishacademy.com” target=”_blank”>jewishacademy.com.


Friday, February 25

“Civil Rights in Our Time: Marriage Equality and Why It Is a Jewish Issue”
Rabbi Denise Eger of West Hollywood’s Congregation Kol Ami discusses why the Jewish community should support civil unions between two people who love each other, regardless of their sexual orientation, during Or Ami’s Shabbat Evening Adult Study. 6:30 p.m. (wine and cheese social), 7:30 p.m. (services and program). Free. Congregation Or Ami, 26115 Mureau Road, Suite B, Calabasas. (818) 880-4880. ” title=”valleyperformingartscenter.org” target=”_blank”>valleyperformingartscenter.org.

SHIRA CONCERT
The Shir Chadash Adult Choir, Teen Choir and Youth Choir join together in song and celebration during the annual concert. 7 p.m. Congregation B’nai B’rith, 1000 San Antonio Creek Road, Santa Barbara. (805) 964-7869. Tribe Calendar: February 2011-March 2011 Read More »

Fabulous friends, fabulous gifts

They planned your bachelorette party, brought you soup when you were sick, baby-sat your kids, rescued you from a bad date and jump-started your car when you got stuck. Thank the remarkable friends in your life with a unique, personal gift.

A rosewood Jewish Chess Set ($133), handcrafted in Israel, is the ideal gift for the strategist in your life.  An ancient Jewish symbol is carved on each wooden piece, and the set comes on an elegant faux marble board. slavchess.com


For your friend the fashionista, a Silk Paper Collage Belt ($80) by Israeli designer Iris Braunstein Shemesh (Iris Designs) adds color and style to any outfit. Buckles are made of brass and adorned with gold-plated beaded chaining and jewels, and come with leather belts. moderntribe.com


Sabra Chocolate Orange Liqueur ($36), as the name implies, is a native-born Israeli liqueur that combines the flavors of bittersweet chocolate and sweet-and-sour Jaffa oranges in a genie-shaped bottle. Enjoy a sweet shot with your fave pal. 750 milliliters. bevmo.com or retail locations


The Beauty Set ($149) by Micabella Cosmetics, a Chatsworth-based Israeli-owned company, is sure to make a dear friend radiate with beauty. Made of pure mica and crushed minerals, the set includes a lightweight foundation, blush, three shimmering eye shadows, a foundation brush and an angled fluff brush. micabeauty.com


Show your BFF your dedication with the words that Ruth said to Naomi. Give her a sterling silver “Where you go, I will go” Necklace ($150) by Marla Wallerstein. She’ll take you with her wherever she goes. marlastudio.com

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Crossing UFOs and sacred texts in a whodunit

Starting with its beguiling title, “Journal of a UFO Investigator” by David Halperin (Viking, $25.95) is an enchantment from beginning to end, a coming-of-age story that is also a kind of whodunit and, above all, an eerie adventure tale set in the subculture of flying saucers and space creatures.

Most intriguing of all, however, is the fact the David Halperin brings to his first novel everything he has learned about myth and legend over a long career as a professor of religious studies at the University of North Carolina.  Halperin, for example, has written extensively about the visions of Ezekiel, whose description of fiery wheels has long been interpreted as an account of an early visitation by a spaceship.

The story that Halperin tells opens on the day in 1966 when 13-year-old Danny Shapiro reports a sighting to his friends and fellow adolescent “UFO investigators.” The search for a plausible explanation draws young Danny into a mysterious text, an even more mysterious death, and then into what appears to be a deadly pursuit across time and space. “Riddles chased mysteries, were chased by enigmas, around and around my brain,” is how young Danny explains it all to himself.

Ultimately, Danny finds himself transported to an otherworldly place— or is it?  “I felt weirdly light, as if I were going to sail off into space at any time,” he observes. “Colored shapes streamed through the black sky above us. A flotilla of glowing objects, like the one that stopped over my house and hurled itself down upon me.”  But then the author offers the hint of a more worldly explanation: “Like the gas station signs, the evening before my mother’s heart attack, when my father drove us home from a picnic in the country and I lay with my feet in his lap and my head in hers, and I watched the blazing disk of Gulf and the red star of Texaco and the winged, bloodred horse of Mobilgas stream through the sky window. I was safe then and happy. For the last time.”

So the world of “UFOlogists” and sci-fi fans turns out to have something in common with the workings of the human imagination that also produced the sacred texts, or so we may conclude from “Journal of a UFO Investigator.” Indeed, Halperin eventually puts his characters into the modern Middle East, where the mythical “Men in Black” are taken to be Zionists rather than agents of some intergalactic conspiracy, and where a flash of light in the night sky turns out to be exploding land mine. “[W]e pick our demons,” observes Danny, now older and wiser, “and build our worlds around them.”

Halperin never fully explains the strange fate that befalls Danny Shapiro.  He invites us to believe that Danny has traveled through time and space on a mind-boggling journey, but he also permits us to conclude that we are witnessing nothing more than the overheated imagination of a tormented adolescent.  “I used to think, if I researched them, investigated the sightings, learned the physics of how they fly, I might be transported with them into the skies,” writes Danny in his last word on UFOs. “Last summer I was transported. I flew, I really did, to Israel and back. But then I crashed. I’m still digging myself out of that wreckage.”

At one point in the novel, Danny is using a microfilm reader at the local library to investigate previous sightings, and he holds his hand above the flickering screen. “My hand then took on a ghostly appearance, not invisible exactly but transparent, as though my bone and flesh had become unreal,” he recalls. “The only things real were the letters and words of the long-forgotten stories, shining upon my skin.”

At that ethereal moment, the author offers us a glimpse into the world of magic that he has conjured up with such power and mastery.  David Halperin spent his academic career in the study of ancient religious texts, and now that he has he turned to writing fiction, he is still in the thrall of words on the page.  Thanks to “Journal of a UFO Investigator,” his readers will be, too.

Jonathan kirsch, author and publishing attorney, is the book editor of The Jewish Journal. He blogs on books at Crossing UFOs and sacred texts in a whodunit Read More »

Girlfriend Getaways

Taking a trip with a girlfriend or two is the perfect way to recharge your batteries. I love trying new things with my friends and finding time to sit around and catch up for hours. I certainly don’t take enough of this type of vacation, but when I do, I absolutely love it. If you are ready for a girlfriends’ getaway, here are a few ideas.

Santa Barbara

Road trips are always an easy escape, and Santa Barbara (santabarbaraca.com) is a perfect destination for L.A. women looking for some girl time. For foodies, February features a terrific culinary tour as well as cooking classes. For wine lovers, there are sustainable vineyard tours. Those looking for a little more relaxation can enjoy a luxury spa experience at FLOAT or inward-bound wellness vacations with SOMAdventures or La Casa de Maria Retreat Center. There is always something innately relaxing about a beach trip, and Santa Barbara is loaded with ways to relax.


Temecula

If you love nightlife, casino action and great restaurants, a visit to Temecula (cityoftemecula.org) is a quick car ride away and filled with all kinds of fun. Hot-air balloons, quality vineyards and top-notch spa experiences — from massages and body scrubs to detoxifying body wraps and facials — are all available in Temecula. Pechanga Resort & Casino offers wonderful packages with hotel accommodations and spa services, and it’s a great place to get a gaming fix. This feels like a Las Vegas getaway that is more convenient and definitely less expensive.


Montreal

Montreal (tourisme-montreal.org) is one of my favorite places to visit. It is a city filled with all the glamour and excitement of a European vacation without the cost or jet lag. Feb. 17-27, Montreal is hosting the High Lights Festival with the theme of “Celebrating Women,” featuring star female chefs and wine producers, artists and entertainers. There are miles of shopping, both above ground and underground, with everything from quaint shops featuring handmade chocolates to trend-conscious major clothing stores.


Telluride

If Lake Arrowhead sounds interesting to you and you want to take on more of a winter adventure, a visit to Telluride, Colo. (tellurideskiresort.com), for one of its Women’s Weeks may be just right. I enjoy skiing with my husband, but there is something really special to me about tackling the terrain with other women. Created 29 years ago, Women’s Week features activities that are led by women, for women. From Feb. 27 through March 3, ladies can snowboard, ski or take lessons with top female instructors. There are other après ski events scheduled with shopping, spas and dining, making it a wonderful way to have an adventure with your girlfriends.

 

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From the Ozarks to the Oscars: Debra Granik of “Winter’s Bone” [VIDEO]

Writer-director Debra Granik is Jewish, upper-middle-class and a New Yorker. So it is all the more remarkable that her thriller, “Winter’s Bone,”(which has received four Oscar nominations, including best picture and adapted screenplay) is so accurate in its depiction of life in the Ozarks that, in the words of The Independent, “You can almost taste the fried squirrel.”

Actually the 47-year-old Granik labored to move beyond “hillbilly” stereotypes to tell the story of Ree (the Oscar-nominated Jennifer Lawrence), a 17-year-old from a meth-cooking clan who in effect becomes the heroine of a dark fairy tale. As the sole caretaker of her two younger siblings and severely depressed mother, Ree is stunned to learn at the beginning of the film that her father has disappeared after putting up the family property for his bail bond.

She then embarks upon a dangerous quest to find him, dead or alive, lest she lose the house and land whose wildlife is often the source of her family’s meals. And she remains fiercely determined, even when her search puts her in grave danger at the hands of her secretive (and menacing) relatives.

As an urban Jew, Granik felt pressured to depict her protagonists’ hardscrabble lives without any “Deliverance”-style sensationalism. “It was severe and it was huge and it was daunting,” she said of that responsibility. “But I’m hoping that once audiences get to know Ree, they will move past their preconceived notions.  Once they get to see her inside this [ramshackle] house they may have made judgments about, there should be an opening for an extension of compassion.”

“Winter’s Bone” is not Granik’s first movie about a strong young woman in trouble – a heroine living “close to the bone.”  Her debut feature, “Down to the Bone,” (2005) spotlighted a working-class mother (Vera Farmiga in a career-making role), struggling to break out of cocaine addiction.

Granik traces her fascination with women who persevere, in part, to her own immigrant great-grandmother, Rebecca Deitch, who would have had a more personal understanding of Ree’s rustic poverty. Deitch was one of many siblings of a family in rural Lithuania before she arrived, virtually on her own, in the United States at age 12.

“You cannot underestimate your initial impressions of what a human being can be like,” Granik said of her great-grandmother’s influence on her work.  “I came into the world meeting this woman who was truly autonomous, although not all options had been open to her in life. She was four feet tall, but there was nothing frail or dependent about this person.”

A photograph of Deitch taken atop a building on Rivington Street, in the Lower East Side, proved inspirational for Granik. “My great-grandmother was probably about 17; she was in her bloomers, and she looked like such a tomgirl,” the filmmaker said. “As I was looking at the picture, I had this intense desire to have known her when she was younger. I also understood that some women became quite emancipated far earlier than many people realize—not necessarily within their family context but within the immigrant experience. It was within their understanding of who they were and what it meant to come to New York City when you’re young and to have to navigate this big metropolis.”

Granik has taken her own 6-year-old daughter to the Tenement Museum on the Lower East Side and plans on many future visits: “It’s close to Rivington Street, and it’s a great, vivid kind of thing to see how they have reconstructed a tenement that is historically correct. You can see how the plumbing and shared spaces looked, and they have actresses who recreate tableaux of what life was like.”

Creating realistic tableaux of life in the Ozarks was an arduous yet exhilarating task for Granik; see updates on jewishjournal.com for much more on that story. And also for a write-up of our planned interview with best actress nominee Jennifer Lawrence, whose Kentucky upbringing helped the Jewish director gain even more insight into the world of the rural South.

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