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Films: Romantic triangle survives in the midst of hell

\”I\’m a very special Holocaust survivor,\” Jack Polak says. \”I was in the camps with my wife and my girlfriend, and, believe me, it wasn\’t easy.\” This may sound like a line from the new genre of Holocaust films with humor, but Polak (who is Jacob on his birth certificate, Jack in America, Jaap to his Dutch friends and Jab to his wife) is just stating the facts in the documentary feature, \”Steal a Pencil for Me.\”

What do men want?

Herb Goldberg has now returned to his lifelong themes in the recently published, \”What Men Still Don\’t Know About Women, Relationships, and Love\” (Barricade Books, 2007).

Marry first, date later

During a Shabbat dinner, I blurted out the idea that maybe we ought to \”marry first and date later.\” Not literally, of course, but in terms of how we approach both dating and marriage.

I heart Hollywood endings

I met \”Mr. Nice Guy\” more than three years ago, and I cherish our special connection — he\’s affectionate, understanding, a good listener, open-minded, practical …

Silver screen love life

The hardest challenge for me is staying open to possibilities and not shutting off my desires, even though they haven\’t yet come to fruition.

Friendship — and pain

I love my friendship with Patrick. Perhaps one day my heart will catch up with my head.

Book review: The Divorce Lawyers’ Guide

Author and former practicing attorney Wendy Jaffe has written an interesting and illuminating work called, \”The Divorce Lawyers\’ Guide to Staying Married.\”

So sorry, wrong numbers

There are so many choices of singles events, but most of them don\’t seem to work for me: SpeedDating — concept is interesting, but my age range and location
never seem to match my availability; outdoor sports — not my thing, and it\’s not that I\’m out of shape, I\’m just a fair-skinned California girl who, in addition to not wanting to be burned to a crisp, has never shown much talent for volleyball or hiking; social dances — I went to enough of those alone when I was in junior high. Enough said.

Avoiding Heartbreak No ‘Petite’ Feat

The 18-year-old heroine of Karin Albou\’s film, \”La Petite Jérusalem,\” spurns love and sex. \”Passion is an illusion, entailing a loss of autonomy and freedom,\” she tells a hapless suitor. \”I don\’t want to be a slave to my senses.\”

You’re Scentsational!

When a guy — let\’s say me, for the sake of argument — is lacking a romantic partner, every bit of attention I get from any woman, even a complete stranger, takes on heightened significance and pleasure. Because I don\’t have a wife, girlfriend or lover, a simple smile from any woman passing me on the street is very likely to be the only, and certainly the most intimate, female contact I can expect all day.

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