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December 13, 2019

The Unification of the Soul – Thoughts on Torah Portion Va-Yishlach

In the Torah we are taught to love God, “with all your heart, with all your soul and with all your might” “b’khol levav’kha, b’khol nafsh’kha, uvkhol m’odekha”. This is a totalistic demand, certainly unrealizable. The commandment to love God is the fourth on Maimonides’ list of the 613 commandments. Sometimes when a person says to me that they observe all the 613 commandments of the Torah, I quiz them on this one and a few other totalistic commandments. All admit: maybe a couple of times in my life, maybe, I loved God with all my heart, all my soul, and all my might. But this commandment is rarely achievable.

Perhaps all of us who strive for such unity and purity of heart may have had a few moments ourselves, an utter, deep, unrelenting and focused inner attachment to the Divine. I don’t feel I made those moments happen. I think the best we can do is arrive at the threshold and something beyond our conscious will pulls us across.

Is it the Divine hand? Is something animated in our soul at unique moments, moments in which all the inner divisions, splits and barriers fade away for just a flash, and in that flash, we become one, able to grasp the Unique One? What animates these singular moments? Maybe some mixture of grace and guts and an unfathomable mixture of our will and the will of the Divine.

Most of the time, when I un-busy myself enough to pay attention, the realm of my soul feels like that of our father, Jacob. Jacob, an inner man, a man of the tents, is pushed into a life for which he had no desire for which he was not prepared. (Not like the some of us, who live a life that we did desire, and are unprepared anyway.)

Ancient commentaries tell us that he was a scholar, a perpetual graduate student, if you will, preferring more and more arcane theories, maybe because he loved theory, and maybe because he was avoiding the awful truth of his life. Today, he would have been a post-modernist, perhaps. Imagine a post-modernist, tinkering away on his never quite done doctoral dissertation suddenly drawn into a brawl, dragged into the street by his mother who told him to man-up for God’s sake.

Literally, for God’s sake. His mother, Rebecca, received an oracle from God that the “older would serve the younger.” She took this to mean that the birthright was meant by God to fall upon tender Jacob, not his older brother by a few seconds, tough guy Esav. I know some people think that everything that happens comes from God. The Bible seems to teach us something else, that things happen (like the birth order in this hapless family) that God actually does not want, and that God asks human beings to fix these things for God. That’s what we are – Fixers for God.

You remember that little gem (mislabeled the “Serenity Prayer”) written by Reinhold Niebuhr?

God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I

cannot change,

Courage to change the things I can,

And wisdom to know the difference.

Well, this was no time for serenity. This was the courage moment – things had to change, get straightened out, and the time was now. Wisdom had spoken – it was time for action. Forget about serenity here.

The scholarly one dresses up like his tough guy brother and pulls off a brazen con-for-God. The real tough guy breaks down crying when he realizes the con. At that moment, their roles are reversed, and they know each better than they have ever known each other. Each one is changed forever.

In this week’ s Torah portion, VaYishlach, the brothers come face to face after 20 years of ruminating – the scholar turned con man ready for a street fight, the tough guy ready to love and forgive. They end up hugging and kissing, and even if for just one brief, unique moment, a moment created from grace and guts and mysterious will, they become one.

This is what the soul feels like usually, when I am quiet enough to go down there and feel it. Irresolvable conflict, co-incidence of opposites, love and fear, street fights and con men, wisdom and foolishness, courage and timidity, God pushing me to change things that I actually can’t, serenity be damned. Find the will and the courage. God may be depending on it.

Sometimes, if we settle in enough and the stars line up, we can find the flash where the opposites embrace and the heart, soul and might become one. As Kierkegaard would say, in this moment of purity you can will one thing – whether it be love of the Divine, or even more importantly, in my way of thinking, love of the truth that can lead us to God or lead God to you. In that flash, a deep, mellow flow of acceptance, wisdom and love coalesce into a knowledge that transcends anything that the mind can think.

Shabbat Shalom,

Rabbi Mordecai Finley

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‘The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel’ Renewed for 4th Season

(JTA) — “The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel,” the Emmy Award-winning series about a 1950s protofeminist Jewish stand-up comic, will return for a fourth season, its creators said just after the third season started streaming on Amazon Dec. 6.

“We were thrilled to hear that for the fourth time, we do not have to pack up and vacate the premises,” Amy Sherman-Palladino and Daniel Palladino said Thursday, according to Deadline Hollywood. “We’d like to thank Amazon for all their faith and support, their partnership and enthusiasm, and for letting us hang with our favorite people, the cast and crew of Maisel, for a little while longer.”

The series has garnered a closet full of awards, including 16 Emmys. Rachel Brosnahan also has won numerous prominent awards as the titular character. This year she received an acting nomination again at the 77th Golden Globes along with the series. The show then scored four Screen Actors Guild nominations including outstanding performance by an ensemble in a comedy series.

Erin Ben-Moche contributed to this piece.

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The Marvelous Mayhem of Mrs. Maisel


Maisel days are here again, and we’ll be laughing until Passover! This week Esther and Erin discuss Season 3 of Amazon’s “The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel” (yes, spoilers, so finish already!). What we loved, what we could have done without, and, of course, our “weird asks.” Plus, it’s okay to cry during the Wonder Woman 84 trailer, right?

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Orthodox Community Raises $50k for Family of Jersey City Detective Killed During Deadly Raid on Kosher Market

(JTA) — Orthodox Jews from New York areas just north of a deadly attack on a Jersey City kosher supermarket raised $50,000 for the family of a detective slain by shooters on their way to the store.

The assailants who targeted JC Kosher Supermarket on Wednesday in a shooting spree shot dead Jersey City Detective Joseph Seals during an encounter at a nearby cemetery. The couple killed three people in the supermarket before being shot dead by police.

News12 Westchester reported Thursday that members of Orthodox Jewish communities in Rockland County and across the Hudson Valley, about 40 miles north of Jersey City, used an Orthodox Jewish social media fundraising app and raised close to $50,000 for the family within 20 hours.

Many from those communities also plan to attend Seals’ funeral in Jersey City on Tuesday, News12 reported.

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Trump Introduces Robert Jeffress, Pastor Who Says Jews Are Going to Hell, at White House Hanukkah Party

WASHINGTON (JTA) — Robert Jeffress, a pastor who has said Jews and other non-Christians were destined for hell, was a guest at President Donald Trump’s Hanukkah party.

Jeffress, who is pro-Israel, was invited to Trump’s signing of an executive order on Wednesday that would withhold funds from schools that allow anti-Semitism on their campuses, including some forms of anti-Israel activity. The White House Hanukkah parties were on the same day.

“Robert Jeffress, I see you right here,” Trump said at the first of two parties. “And what a tremendous faith leader you are and a tremendous man you are. Pastor, thank you for being here so much, also. We appreciate it.”

Jeffress has preached for years that non-Christians (which includes Mormons, according to his theology) may be good people, but nothing but the acceptance of Jesus as God saves one from an eternity in hell.

“Not only do religions like Mormonism, Islam, Judaism, Hinduism, not only do they lead people away from the true God, they lead people to an eternity of separation from God in hell,” he said in 2009.

Sen. Mitt Romney, R-Utah, called out the Trump administration last year for inviting Jeffress to give the convocation at the opening of the U.S. Embassy in Jerusalem. In his defense at the time, Jeffress said his views were commonplace among evangelical Christians.

Jeffress posed for a photo at the party with Alan Dershowitz, a leading pro-Israel advocate and prominent attorney. Trump is thinking of adding Dershowitz to his impeachment defense team.

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The Line Between Religion and the Environment 

Is there a connection between religion and the environment? It is often thought that caring about religion does not go hand in hand with being environmentally conscious. However, religious leaders of different faiths are confronting this misconception 

The Interfaith Center for Sustainable Development (ICSD) is an organization in Israel that raises awareness about ecological issues and uses religion to support their arguments. Rabbi Yonatan Neril, the founder of the organization, explained the background of this supposed contradiction between the environmental protection movement and religious communities. If not addressed, he explains, it could lead to more division and less progress when it comes to the safety of the planet.

The reason for the divide between the environment and religion is traced back to when “modern ecological awareness arose at the same time as the hippie movement and free love movement,” Neril explains. Many people saw this and believed that “these movements are secular movements that are anti-religion. The environmental movement got grouped into those other movements,” he adds. Currently, there is “a tendency in religion to focus on the details of theology.” People may discuss and learn about God and ancient teachings rather than how they connect to modern issues. This leads to a lack of openness among these communities when learning about the environment, despite its urgency and relevancy.

Because of the divide between religious groups and their environmental awareness, there is not much action taken by religious communities, especially in Israel, to show that they care about the problems facing the planet. For example, the Orthodox Jewish community in Israel uses many single-use plastics because it is easier to feed large groups of people and to ensure kashrut, or food that satisfies the dietary standards of Jewish tradition. 

ICSD is pushing to show religious communities in Israel that because of their religious teachings, they actually should take more action to care for the safety of the planet and people. For example, Judaism has the commandment of “Bal Tashchit,” which promotes not being wasteful. “Shmita” is another law commanding farmers to refrain from cultivating their land every seventh year to allow the land to repair itself, thus avoiding soil degradation. Christianity teaches that people must repent for damage, done to nature and Islam values unity and balance in nature. Almost every other religion has reasons for people to care for the planet. 

Rabbi Neril speaks with religious communities urging them to consider their own religions’ ideas regarding the planet, for example, soaking produce in saltwater instead of using pesticides, which are harmful to the environment. Neril says, “that is what Jews did for thousands of years, and Jews can continue to do that.” He also advises non-clergy members to ask their rabbis, priests, and imams to talk about environmental issues in order to set an example for other religious leaders. 

Pope Francis has been a vocal advocate for ecological awareness in the Catholic community around the world. In a meeting with leaders of large oil companies, Pope Francis asked them to address their emissions and to hear the “increasingly desperate cries of the earth and its poor.” The Pope has often expressed that it is because of his faith that he believes it is our duty to “redirect our steps and to avert the most serious effects of the environmental deterioration caused by human activity.” He believes that people must protect God’s creation and ask for forgiveness for the disadvantages that some communities have faced due to climate change.

Katharine Hayhoe is another example of someone bridging the divide between religion and science. She is an Evangelical Christian who advocates for climate issues and urges other Christians to use their faith as motivation to take action to help the planet. In an interview with “got science?” a podcast, Hayhoe speaks about the ways that climate change affects the poor more than anyone else, and explains that as a Christian, it is her duty to help “the poor and vulnerable of this world who are being disproportionately affected by a changing climate.” 

Rabbi Neril explains that one of his challenges in convincing different religious groups to join his movement is the belief that there will be a time that all problems will be taken care of, known as the Messiah, End of Days, or the Apocalypse. They argue that it is not the people’s responsibility to care. However, Neril works to show that everyone must make a change in their habits toward sustainability and that their faith supports that. For example, he cites the story where God told Adam that no one would be there to repair the damage done to the earth, so it is his responsibility to care for it. “This is an explicit Jewish tradition from 1,500 years ago that refutes this view that we can degrade God’s creation,” he says. 

Rabbi Neril has hope when it comes to bridging the gap between religion and environmental activism. Many large figures in religious communities have already begun to take action and are urging others to do the same. “In 2014, the council of bishops of the church of Sweden issued a statement on climate change. In 2015 Pope Francis released Laudato Si [an encyclical on caring for the earth as everyone’s home]. That same year there was an Islamic declaration on climate change, a Buddhist declaration on climate change, and 100 rabbis signed a letter on Judaism and vegetarianism and veganism.”

The rise in environmental awareness in the religious community may be a sign that change is coming. There is hope for the future of the planet if those who affiliate themselves with religion also begin to affiliate themselves with caring for the environment.

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Real Estate Broker Philip Scheinfeld on New York City and His Potential LA Expansion

Since entering the real estate market in 2013, Philip Scheinfeld has become a top broker within the New York City market. He did his first rental within a week and sold his first apartment within his month in the business. Now with the backing of Compass, he works with all sorts of exclusives and developments.

I had the pleasure of doing Q&A with Philip Scheinfeld about his journey into the real estate market, whether he plans to expand into the Los Angeles market, and what he wishes more people knew about the work he does for a living. Highlights from that interview are below.

Darren Paltrowitz: Who or what inspired you to get into the real estate field?

Philip Scheinfeld: I watched a friend on a real estate TV show many years ago and it sparked my interest in real estate. Many of my friends and family encouraged me at the same time to get my license and figured I would be good at it so I did. I haven’t looked back and I am now coming up on 6 years in the business.

DP: What is it that you enjoy most about real estate?

PS: I love that I am my own boss and that I create my own schedule. I get back what I put in. On a week where I work 40 hours versus a week where I work 80 hours, I am going to be more successful on that 80-hour week. There is no ceiling in how successful I can be in real estate, which I love the most. I could never sit behind a desk 9-5, I have too much ADD to do that so being in real estate gives me the flexibility to go out and meet people and network. I also love real estate and architecture.

DP: You recently started the Philip Scheinfeld Team at Compass based in New York City, but your parent company Compass has teams all over the country. Would you ever consider practicing real estate in another high-end luxury market, like Los Angeles for example? 

PS: A few years ago I contemplated moving to L.A. and going to work with my good friend Bjorn Farrugia of Hilton and Hyland. He is a top broker over there and is crushing the market. I ultimately decided to stay in New York City and form my team, but I work with Bjorn on many many deals and we use each other to help come up with strategies for marketing properties.

DP: The average real estate developer is not known to be heavily tattooed. Where does your interest in tattoos come from?

PS: Honestly, when I was young growing up I was always fascinated by tattoos. I always wanted to get them. When I got sober almost 9 years ago I used tattoos as an outlet of expressing myself. Some say I turned my addiction from substances into getting a tattoo and I wouldn’t disagree with them. Getting tattoos are very addicting and the whole process of getting them is quite enjoyable to me. I love when it’s done and the big reveal happens as well as the healing process.

Photo courtesy of Philip Scheinfeld

DP: Was there ever fear of getting tattoos based on the old lore that you can’t be buried in a Jewish cemetery?

PS: My mom always used to tell me that when I die I wouldn’t be able to be buried in a jewish cemetery and what I would tell her was “I will be dead so it’s someone else’s problem.” Actually though a rabbi I once talked to explained to me that it’s an old wive’s tale and that, in fact, I can still be buried in a Jewish cemetery.

DP: Back to you, what do you wish more people knew about the real estate world?

PS: A lot of people think brokers’ jobs are so easy and that anyone could do it. I wish people could see the struggles brokers face. I can name countless times where I have had listings come close to selling and then the day before the contract is supposed to be signed the buyer backs out.

I once was working with a good friend of mine to buy an apartment. We looked for over a year, and although we are still friends and looking at apartments was always fun, after over a year of looking he told me that his family friend sold him a place off market and I was excluded from the deal. He told me that he plans to sell it in a few years and will give me the deal but people out there think it’s so easy and in fact it’s a very challenging job with many ups and downs. You must learn to move on quickly and not get excited too soon.

DP: What is coming up for you professionally in 2020?

PS: My team is officially going to be launched in 2020 and I plan to do some sort of launch event/party where I will invite friends, family, clients and colleagues to join me.

DP: Is there a career accomplishment you are most proud of?

PS: Getting added to the sales team of 570 Broome is my proudest accomplishment to date. 54 condo units that I am in charge of selling alongside Ian Slater and Sean Turner. The product is amazing and you can’t beat the prices anywhere.

DP: Finally, Phil, any last words for the kids?

PS: Graduate from college and do what makes you happy.

More on Philip Scheinfeld can be found here.

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UNESCO Drops Belgian Parade from Heritage List Over Anti-Semitism Charges

(JTA) — UNESCO voted unanimously on Friday to delist as a heritage event an annual Belgian parade over allegations of anti-Semitism.

The United Nations Educational, Scientific and Cultural Organization scrapped the Aalst Carnival, which this year featured effigies of grinning Jews holding money with a rat on one of their shoulders, from the agency’s Representative List of the Intangible Cultural Heritage of Humanity.

Its Intergovernmental Committee for the Safeguarding of the Intangible Cultural Heritage put the parade on the list in 2009 and removed it at Belgium’s request.

The display of Jews at the March carnival prompted an outcry from Jewish groups and UNESCO itself, which in a statement called it “racist and anti-Semitic.”

The float’s defenders argued in response that it was part of the carnival’s tradition of edgy humor, with themes mocking all religions and creeds. Carnival organizers prepared ribbons with caricatures of Jews for the 2020 edition, which they said were meant to mock UNESCO.

Aalst Mayor Christoph D’Haese last month announced that his city, which is located nearly 20 miles northwest of Brussels, would like to withdraw from the list to be able to preserve its traditions, though his statement had no formal status or recourse with UNESCO.

The Belgian Friends of Israel group, which has been at the forefront of protest actions against the Aalst parade, said it was satisfied with the delisting.

“We hope that delisting will change hearts and minds, and that the kind of displays that have discredited the Aalst carnival will never be seen again, in Belgium, or anywhere else,” Nigel Goodrich, a spokesman for the group, wrote in a statement.

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Jersey City Market Employee Was Killed After Helping Save Wounded Jewish Victim

(JTA) — Douglas Miguel Rodriguez, a 49-year-old father who died in the shooting at a kosher supermarket in Jersey City, helped save a wounded Jewish customer, the New York Daily News reported.

According to the report, Chaim Deutsch arrived at the JC Kosher Supermarket on Tuesday afternoon with his cousin Moshe, who was killed in the Tuesday attack. Deutsch was wounded and fled toward the back door, which Rodriguez, a non-Jewish immigrant from Ecuador who worked at the store, held open for him. Deutsch was able to escape to safety, but Rodriguez was shot and killed as he attempted to flee.

The Daily News report was based on the account of Chaim Fried, a Jersey City resident who heard the story from Deutsch at a Jersey City hospital on Tuesday night.

“When the shooting started, he opened the door so [Deutsch] could run out,” Fried said. “And Miguel got shot at the door. He was going to run out but Miguel got shot before he could escape. He was shot, and he fell to the ground.”

Four people and the two assailants died in the shooting attack in Jersey City on Tuesday. Besides Deutsch and Rodriguez, they included Mindy Ferencz, whose family owned the market, and Joseph Seals, a police detective who confronted the killers in a nearby cemetery before they drove to the store.

Law enforcement officials say the shooters, identified as David Anderson and Francine Graham, were motivated by anti-Jewish hatred.

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