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May 5, 2018

Rabbi Aaron Panken, President of Hebrew Union College-Jewish Institute, Dies In Plane Crash [UPDATED]

UPDATE ON MAY 6: Funeral services for Rabbi Aaron Panken will take place on Tuesday, May 8, at 1:00 pm at Westchester Reform Temple (WRT), 255 Mamaroneck Road, Scarsdale, NY. A live webstream of the service will be available on the WRT website at www.wrtemple.org

For those in the Los Angeles area, a gathering to mourn the loss of Panken will be taking place at HUC-JIR’s Los Angeles campus, at 3077 University Ave., Los Angeles, CA 90007, on Monday, May 7, at 4 p.m., according to an email sent out by Joshua Holo, dean of the Los Angeles campus of HUC-JIR.

Rabbi Aaron Panken, president of Hebrew Union College-Jewish Institute (HUC-JIR), died in a plane crash on May 5. He was 53.

Panken was the twelfth president of HUC-JIR in the Reform seminary’s 143-year-history.

CBS New York reported that Panken, a certified commercial pilot, was piloting an Aeronca 7AC aircraft, a lightweight, single-engine and two-seat plane with one passenger onboard on Saturday morning. He took off at Randall Airport, a public use airport in Orange County, New York, and had not been in the air long before he crashed into a wooded area.

The cause of the crash, which occurred just after 9 a.m. on Saturday, was unknown as of press time.

Panken’s passenger’s suffered a non-life-threatening injury, CBS reported.

The Federal Aviation Administration and the National Transportation Safety Board are investigating the incident.

Panken has led HUC-JIR’s four campuses in Cincinnati, Jerusalem, Los Angeles and New York, since Jan. 1, 2014. The educational institution and seminary for Judaism’s largest denomination trains rabbis, cantors, educators and nonprofit management professionals. The school’s 4,000 active alumni serve the Reform movement’s 1.5 million members and nearly 900 congregations.

The HUC-JIR board of directors named Panken as president in the summer of 2013. His previous positions at HUC-JIR included dean of students, from 1996-1998; dean of the New York campus, from 1998-2007 and vice president of strategic initiatives, from 2007-2010. He joined the seminary’s faculty in 1995 and taught rabbinic and Second Temple literature.

HUC-JIR described Panken as a distinguished rabbi and scholar, dedicated teacher and leader of the Reform movement, who was committed to religious pluralism in Israel—he ordained the 100th Israeli Reform rabbi graduating from HUC-JIR’s Israeli rabbinical program in November 2017. He was devoted to inspiring future generations of Jews and in strengthening’s Reform Judaism’s commitment to progressive values, HUC-JIR said.

“Rabbi Panken strove for ongoing innovation and creativity in strengthening HUC-JIR as the intellectual center of Progressive Judaism worldwide,” the HUC-JIR statement said.

The HUC-JIR press release quotes Panken as saying,  “For me, Reform Judaism has always symbolized what I consider to be the best of Judaism – firmly rooted in our tradition, yet egalitarian, inclusive of patrilineal Jews and intermarried families, welcoming to the LGBT community, politically active, and respectful of other faiths and ideologies.”

The New York City native was ordained in 1991 at HUC-JIR in New York, earned his doctorate in Hebrew and Judaic studies at New York University and was a graduate of Johns Hopkins electrical engineering program. He was involved in a number of Jewish communal organizations, including the Wexner Foundation, Reform Judaism Magazine, the Birthright Education Committee and the Central Conference of American Rabbis (CCAR).

“The membership of Central Conference of American Rabbis is devastated to learn of the tragic and untimely death of our friend, colleague, teacher, and leader, Rabbi Aaron Panken,” CCAR said in a statement.

Panken is survived by his wife, Lisa Messinger; his children, Eli and Samantha; his parents, Beverly and Peter;and his sister, Rabbi Melinda Panken of Congregation Shaari Emeth in Manalapan, NJ.

The funeral arrangements were being finalized as of press time.

Panken was slated to appear at Bel Air synagogue Stephen Wise Temple on May 10 for a panel discussion on Reform Judaism.

Rabbis, rabbinical students and Jewish community organizations have responded with shock to the news of Panken’s death. Many have taken to Facebook to write about the ways the rabbi touched their lives.

Congregation Kol Ami Rabbi Denise Eger said she and Panken’s paths often crossed as they navigated the world as Reform rabbis.

“So deeply saddened by the tragic and untimely death of the Rabbi Dr Aaron Panken the president of our seminary,” Eger said on Facebook. “I’ve known Aaron since we were Rabbinic students. I had the privilege and honor of serving on his Board of Governors as CCAR president. We often travelled together finding ourselves going to the same meetings and on the same planes. Your wisdom warmth and teaching and leadership will be missed. My deepest condolences extend to his wife Lisa and children and his entire family.”

On Facebook, Temple Judea Rabbi Sam Spector said the most moving moment of his ordainment ceremony was a one-on-one moment he enjoyed with Panken.

“Rabbis are supposed to be the moral exemplars to their communities. One of the things that made Rabbi Panken a great leader to his students was that he served as our moral exemplar,” Spector said.

“He was a mensch and charged me and my fellow colleagues to set the world afire,” Loyola Marymount’s Jewish Student Life Rabbi Zach Zysman said.

“I want to add only that I experienced Aaron as one of the most ardent exponents of our College-Institute and its mission,” Joshua Holo, dean of the L.A. campus of HUC-JIR said in statement. “He tirelessly, even relentlessly, pursued his sole focus: the success of our holy work. In this and in his many other qualities, I can only express utter admiration and loss.”

This article was updated on Sunday evening to provide the funeral information and the details about the Los Angeles gathering and to include a statement from Joshua Holo. 

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How To Choose Your Stylist for Your Wedding

Choosing a hair and make-up stylist for your wedding can be a daunting task, so I did quite a bit of research to help brides with this process and asked my colleagues in the wedding industry whether they had any recommendations. That was when I found Salon Nuuvo and the delightful owner, Raychel Harrison, the founder and artistic director. As she came highly recommended as one of the best in the industry, I decided to interview her to ask especially, how to avoid last minute disasters, which has been the concern of most of the brides I have worked with.

As you walk in to Salon Nuuvo in Calabasas, you are struck by the clean lines and attention to detail that immediately inspires confidence and gives the impression of class and impeccable style. The moment I entered, I was warmly welcomed and offered a beverage, unlike many salons where you wait endlessly for the receptionist to pay attention to you! I was ushered to a chair where Raychel came over to me to chat about my expectations and yes the mimosas, bagels and chocolate covered strawberries were for me! This is the fabulous pampering and attention you can expect on your wedding day.

There are many things to consider when you are getting married. Your dress, hair, makeup, veil or no veil, headpiece, the type of venue and whether indoors or outdoors… to name but a few. Every bride has her own taste of course so the first thing Raychel suggested was the bride should meet the stylist for a consultation almost as soon as the date has been set so you can start thinking about your look and get some recommendations.  

One of the first times you get to see how things will really look on your wedding day, is during your hair and makeup trials. Sure, you’ll have time to tweak and adjust, but you’ll also walk out of the salon looking like, well, a bride! As with many other details for your wedding, timing your trial correctly is the key. So when should you get it on the calendar? Before you book your trial you should decide on the date and venue first. Knowing when and where you’ll be getting married can have an impact on the styles you’re considering, whether it’s on the beach in the heat of summer or in a ballroom in winter. The other important aspect is to have selected your wedding dress and begun to shop for accessories, from headpieces and a veil, to your earrings and necklace as all of these will impact your hairstyle. The style of your dress will also influence how formal or relaxed your hair and makeup will be, and the accessories can play into whether you’re wearing your hair up or down, in curls or a braid, going soft or dramatic with your makeup. Will you wear your veil and/or headpiece only during the ceremony… or all night. Will your wedding be casual and laid back, or have a lot of activities and raucous late night partying …. you should consider all of these aspects so that your hair and makeup will survive (and look fabulous) for at least most of the reception.

Raychel recommends a trial about a month or two ahead of your wedding—but only if you don’t plan to cut or color your hair. “It’s most important that you give yourself and your stylist time to make adjustments if needed,” she said. “As you get closer to your wedding, it can get very busy, so it’s always easier to work out your look several months ahead of time.” This way, your stylist can plan out the transition and begin to work with the color and the cut. Your final coloring should be done about six weeks to a month before the wedding, to let it settle but still be fresh for your big day and it gives you time to make any small changes. A drastic change in the length of your hair should also happen a few months prior to the wedding. That way your stylist can see how your hair responds. Overall, your wedding hair is a journey and you should discuss your vision with your stylist as far out as you’re able to, so they can start to work towards your end goal. It’s also ideal to have your stylist with you on your wedding day as they know your hair and your personal style the best.

For make up inspiration Raychel suggest that you look like yourself. Natural and glowing. If possible you should find a picture of yourself that you love and choose a look that you know will last all night. Don’t compare yourself to anyone else or even consider your Insta feed because those pictures can be deceiving and highly filtered and lead to false hopes. You already have experience with how your skin responds in any situation, indoor and out, active or not, so keep that in mind when you have your trial. Your wedding day is one of the few times you will have a full glam squad on hand to help you primp, so you want to make sure that you, your stylist and makeup artist are all on the same page and they understand your vision. That is why a trial is so important. You’ll get to know one another and you will be able to see their work firsthand. You have to be comfortable and happy so don’t hesitate to speak up about your expectations.

If you don’t love how your trial turns out, sit down with your hair or makeup artist and and tweak the look. If you want looser curls, a fuller chignon, or beachier waves? Speak up! Your hairstylist wants you to love how you look, so take the time to go over any adjustments. Take notes and pictures to convey what you would like differently. If the shade of lipstick or eyeshadow isn’t exactly how you want it or the false lashes are too heavy, ask your makeup artist to show you a few other options. This is your day and you want to look fabulous and so does your stylist.

As I wanted to experience the full bridal treatment myself, I booked an appointment for highlights and make up as well and these ladies more than matched my expectations and believe me my hair is not easy to get “just right”.  (See my “dream team” below.) My hair looked stunning for several days after it was done and honestly it is the first time a stylist got the color spot on the first time around. My makeup was flawless and the cut and style, trendy and gorgeous.

The Dream Team L-R Lacy Koehler (stylist/makeup artist) Raychel Harrison (founder/executive director) Holly Slusser – (executive stylist)

Raychel is a real go-getter and has had several awards in the past few years and is also a preferred vendor at the upscale Calamigos Ranch Wedding Venue. She was honored as The San Fernando Valley Business Review Journal’s ‘Rising Star’ winner, in the Annual Women in Business Awards (2012.), Salon Nuuvo won the Business of the Year award in Calabasas (Chamber of Commerce) 2015 and Raychel won top 20 under 40 CEO’s in beauty industry (the Beauty Business Magazine (2016). 

Raychel’s love affair with all things HAIR began from her teenage years, and has carried her through an extensive and exhilarating journey. After 20 years of Professional hairdressing, Raychel’s star continues to burn bright in the industry. See more about Salon Nuuvo here. Raychel is known for her unique ability to transform your hair with an effortless look, which can even include hair extensions that will be wonderful not just for your wedding but look beautiful through your honeymoon as well. I highly recommend this very talented team of stylists who will work hard to make sure your vision for your special day becomes a reality.

Thank you for spending this time with me! See you next week for more on weddings, events, catering inspiration and much more.

-Dalia Batyah Bender

 

 

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