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October 14, 2015

Rabbi David Wolpe’s kavannah for Shabbat of unity with the people of Israel

We invite people around the world to recite this kavannah in unity with the State of Israel this Shabbat, October 17, 2015

El Maleh Rachamim — Compassionate God,
We pray not to wipe out haters but to banish hatred.
Not to destroy sinners but to lessen sin.
Our prayers are not for a perfect world but a better one
Where parents are not bereaved by the savagery of sudden attacks
Or children orphaned by blades glinting in a noonday sun.
Help us dear God, to have the courage to remain strong, to stand fast.
Spread your light on the dark hearts of the slayers
And your comfort to the bereaved hearts of families of the slain.
Let calm return Your city Jerusalem, and to Israel, Your blessed land.
We grieve with those wounded in body and spirit,
Pray for the fortitude of our sisters and brothers,
And ask you to awaken the world to our struggle and help us bring peace.

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Israel on edge following weeks of violence

Monday was a difficult day. At 8:58 a.m., at the Lion’s Gate of Jerusalem’s Old City, a knife-wielding Palestinian attacker was stopped and killed. At 2:17 p.m., a female attacker stabbed a policeman and was shot. Shortly after 3 p.m., demonstrations turned to confrontations between Palestinians and Israel Defense Forces soldiers. At 3:21, two Jerusalemites, one, 21 years old, the other, 13, were stabbed. One of the attackers, a 13-year-old Palestinian, was detained. At 3:30, there were clashes near Ramallah. At 6:04, a soldier was wounded by a stone-thrower near Hebron. Around 6:30 in the evening, Gazan Palestinians forced their way across the fence into Israel. At 7:08 p.m., a settler who was driving was wounded. At 8:44 p.m., a Palestinian attacker was killed as he attempted to snap away a soldier’s gun.

At 4:30 p.m., I phoned Ziad Abuzayyad, a Palestinian politician, for an interview that didn’t turn out very well. “Why are you only asking about the Jews that were killed?” he asked me when I opened with a question about the stabbing that had taken place just minutes earlier. “You do not ask about the Palestinians that were killed. You are not objective. I cannot speak to you,” he said. 

The conversation lasted for about four minutes and was full of such rebukes, then ended when he hung up on me. Other conversations I had this week with Palestinians, most of whom preferred to remain anonymous, lasted a little longer but provided little more to help understand the situation. They were clearly afraid; they were clearly frustrated; they were clearly living in a parallel universe: What they were talking about was the opposite of what Israelis were talking about. A highly disturbing characteristic of the new “situation” is that facts are no longer facts. Israelis — that is, Jewish Israelis — feel attacked, terrorized. Palestinians — that is, Palestinians from the occupied territories and Arab Israelis — feel attacked, terrorized. 

In the popular annals of Israel’s history, Prime Minister Golda Meir is mostly remembered for her failure to prevent the Yom Kippur War and for some of her sanctimonious quips. One of those quips, often ridiculed for good reason, came to mind when a 13-year-old Palestinian boy stabbed an Israeli boy of the same age: “We can forgive the Arabs for killing our children. We cannot forgive them for forcing us to kill their children. We will only have peace with the Arabs when they love their children more than they hate us.”

A highly disturbing characteristic of the new “situation” is that facts are no longer facts. Israelis — that is, Jewish Israelis — feel attacked, terrorized. Palestinians — that is, Palestinians from the occupied territories and Arab Israelis — feel attacked, terrorized.

It is the saddest story — heartbreaking, really — about both boys, condemned by circumstances to have such a fatal meeting. The stabbing attack was a clear-cut case, you’d think. Two young Palestinians from Beit Hanina took a knife and, with ill intentions, attacked first a man, then a child riding his bike in the Jerusalem neighborhood of Pisgat Zeev. What’s not so clear-cut: Palestinian media reports and social media reports described the affair as an Israeli execution of a Palestinian boy. They used the photo of the attacker lying on the ground after he was stopped as the tool with which to incite the next day of horror.

And indeed, if Monday, Oct. 12, was a bad day, Tuesday was worse: two attacks in Raanana in the morning, two in Jerusalem. Three Israelis killed and several more wounded. Some of the attackers were Arabs working for Israeli companies or employers. They provided more fodder for Israelis who want harsher measures taken against all Arabs: opposition leader and former Foreign Minister Avigdor Lieberman called to impose military rule on all Arabs, Israeli citizens included. Many Israelis are likely to be easily convinced that this is the only choice for Israel. A demonstration Tuesday, Oct. 13, by Israeli Arabs coupled with infuriating statements by some of their leaders, coupled with attacks carried out by Arab citizens — near Gan Shmuel, in Afula — made many Jewish Israelis suspicious of their Arab neighbors. In a residential building in Tel Aviv, someone asked neighbors to “talk about” the presence of an Arab resident in their midst. In Netanya, an Arab woman complained that her son was attacked by a Jewish man who was carrying a stick. 

Arab political leaders were playing with fire, but seemed not to care. Knesset Member Ahmad Tibi kept blaming Israel for breaching the status quo on the Temple Mount. Israel denied it. Tibi blamed Israel for an atmosphere that is “hostile and racist.” This is more difficult to deny: Recent events have made the atmosphere tense, and the reaction of some Jews has been hostile and racist. 

Again — a parallel universe. On the one hand, a Jewish population looking warily at the Arab neighbor — supermarket cashier, construction worker, pharmacist — not knowing, unsure, where the next attack is going to come from. On the other hand, an Arab population infuriated by the collective suspicion, by the language of politicians, by their feelings of isolation. Early in the week, in one of the most memorable moments of the “situation” thus far: TV cameras caught the Arab mayor of Nazareth as he was shouting at the leader of the Knesset Arab Party to “get out” of his city. “You ruined our city. Get out of here. There was not one Jew here today, not one,” Ali Salam, the mayor, shouted at Ayman Odeh, the Knesset member. These two also live in parallel universes: One wants to champion the cause of the Palestinian state, the other one wants to protect the economy and continue to coexist with the Jewish majority. Apparently, it’s becoming more difficult to have it both ways.

More parallel universes. 

What really happens on the Temple Mount? Jews and Arabs cannot agree. The Palestinians say: Keeping the status quo is a bluff; Israel is gradually eroding it. Israelis say: We are keeping the status quo. Tzipi Livni, hardly a fan of Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu, said this week that, as an opposition leader, she must emphasize that amid all the criticisms she agrees with of the prime minister’s policies, she does not blame him for attempting to change the status quo on the Temple Mount — because he is not attempting any such thing.

Israeli police detain a Palestinian man suspected of stabbing an Israeli in Jerusalem on Oct. 9. Photo by Baz Ratner/Reuters

What really happens when attacks are carried out? In many cases, the Palestinians deny that an attack took place. Or they say that the Israeli attacks are more brutal — they do not agree to differentiate between military operations that end with civilian injuries and terror attacks on civilians. 

Why did this whole thing start? Israelis say: “Incitement and the Palestinian culture of terrorism, and their hatred of Israel.” Palestinians say: “We told you all along that frustration and lack of hope will eventually lead to violence.” 

What can Israel do to make it go away? Some say there is a need for a political horizon, a hope for peace. Others say political horizons simply result in more terrorism, as happened with Oslo in the 1990s, and as happened with Camp David before the Second Intifada. And besides, can anyone think seriously about horizons when the demands made by the Palestinians leadership are for Israel to “fully withdraw from the Palestinian territory it occupied in 1967, including East Jerusalem; a complete end to all colonial policies; a recognition of the inalienable rights of the Palestinian people including their right to self-determination and return; and the release of all Palestinian prisoners”? 

That is the list of demands presented earlier this week from prison by Marwan Barghouti, a Palestinian leader who was tried and convicted for murder in an Israeli court during the Second Intifada. It is the list of demands that attempts to justify to the world — his article was published by the British newspaper The Guardian — a new era of violence. 

Naturally, no Palestinian speaker could admit this, but as the days of strife in Israel became weeks, and as the weeks threaten to become months, one would assume that the interests of Netanyahu and Palestinian President Mahmoud Abbas are quite similar. 

Netanyahu would like to put an end to violence. That is his job as the leader, and Israelis — as the polls showed this week — are not so certain that Netanyahu is doing a fine job. Fifty-three percent of Israelis told pollster Menachem Lazar last week that they blame Netanyahu for the violent situation. That is, even though a vast majority of them — 84 percent of Jewish Israelis — think that the Israeli-Palestinian conflict persists because of “Palestinian refusal to accept Israel’s right to exist.” The great political philosopher Ernest Renan once said, “Suffering together unifies more than joy does.” The polls often validate his words.

Abbas also would like to put an end to violence. On Oct. 11, he had a meeting with a group of young — and feisty — leaders of the Tanzim, a militant faction of Fatah. You need to scale down the level of protest and restrain your people, Abbas told them. Some of them participated in demonstrations against Israel in recent weeks at which the tone was harsh and the tendency to clash with Israeli soldiers real. Some of them, according to reports from people who attended the meeting with Abbas, left it somewhat confused. They thought they were doing exactly what was expected of them. Others left frustrated: They weren’t sure that policies of restraint were what the Palestinians needed at this time. 

Abbas didn’t leave much room for doubt. The violence should be discouraged. The tension should be defused. The leaders of Tanzim got the message, and Israel’s security forces got it, too. At the Israeli cabinet meeting on Oct. 11, the representative of the Shin Bet, Israel’s internal security service — the principal branch that deals with intelligence on the Palestinian territories — told the ministers that Abbas does not initiate violence. In fact, that he attempts to stop it — clearly with mixed results. The Palestinian Authority can send its forces and task them with curbing demonstrations near IDF checkpoints. It can ask the young leaders of Tanzim to call off their plans in the hope that most, if not all, will do as told. But it cannot stop the Arab Israeli from Umm al-Fahm from running over an Israeli soldier and then stabbing her and three others (the suspect’s attorney said in court it was an accident). And it cannot stop the Palestinian from Beit Hanina from stabbing a border police patrolman in Jerusalem. And it cannot stop anyone from getting on a bus and shooting or stabbing people to death. And it is afraid to lose touch with the street: Abbas does not want a violent intifada, but he also does not want to be cast aside as the old leader who doesn’t understand the new era. As one Palestinian politician — not a huge supporter of Abbas — told me: “The people did not quite ask for his permission, so he should be carful as he tries to forbid them from doing what they want to do.”

Members of Zaka Rescue and Recovery team carry a covered body from the scene of an attack on a Jerusalem bus on Oct. 13. Photo by Ronen Zvulun/Reuters

Netanyahu knows all this about Abbas and is also walking a fine line. On the one hand, he decided to refrain from joining the loud chorus of leaders who engage themselves in continuous Abbas condemnation. On the other hand, at a media conference last week, Netanyahu highlighted Abbas’ role in inciting violence, and in his Knesset speech this week, he said that Abbas must denounce terrorism — Abbas doesn’t condone the attacks of recent days, but is adamant in his refusal to condemn them. Surely, some of the things Abbas said about Israel’s supposed violation of the status quo in the Old City of Jerusalem didn’t much contribute to an atmosphere of calm. Netanyahu was justified in being angry when Abbas called to keep the “filthy feet” of Jews away from the Temple Mount. But quiet messages delivered from his office to Abbas’ give the prime minister an incentive not to burn all bridges with Abbas. Netanyahu’s ministers, especially those with small portfolios or large egos, can entertain themselves by condemning Abbas. Netanyahu, until midweek, preferred quiet messages and keeping the hope for a certain accommodation.

The question of Abbas — the hope or the villain — was debated among Israelis this week as if it were a political question. The left clears Abbas of sins; the right sees him as responsible for the violence. Several Israeli ministers weren’t happy with the way Abbas was presented by military professionals. They had a point: Operational agencies tend to care much for operational cooperation and less for rhetorical belligerence. Several senior officers in these agencies were unhappy about the fact that ministers wanted to use them for political propaganda purposes. They also had a point: Ministers want headlines and want to appease their constituencies. The agencies have a day-to-day responsibility to keep Israelis safe and do not want political motivations to disrupt them from doing their job. 

Abbas is not an easily defined player in the drama that is unfolding today. He isn’t the first Palestinian leader who cannot be easily defined. The night of Oct. 12, in a conversation timed for the 20th anniversary of Yitzhak Rabin’s assassination, Martin Indyk, the U.S. Ambassador to Israel at the time of assassination, reminded me of that.

Rabin’s legacy is seen today through the lenses of the horrors of the Second Intifada, Indyk told me. Palestinian leader Yasser Arafat is also seen through the same lenses — so he is a villain, without question. But this isn’t necessarily the case if one buys into Indyk’s version of events — and one must admit that his version runs contrary to most Israeli narratives of the peace process. Indyk believes Arafat was a problematic leader. He believes Rabin had a way of handling him. He believes that had Rabin not been assassinated, the peace process might have succeeded. That is to say — my words, not Indyk’s, but I don’t see any other way of reading him — Arafat was not doomed to be a villain. He didn’t plan all along to become a villain. Had circumstances been different, he could have ended his life as a peacemaker, not a terrorist. 

What can Israel do to make it go away? Some say there is a need for a political horizon, a hope for peace.

Here is Indyk, talking about Rabin: “He was very clear-eyed about Arafat; he had no illusions about the artful dodger, as I used to call him. But he had a way of handling him that was very effective.”

So Rabin could have accomplished all of these things that his successors failed to accomplish? Even those among them whom we can agree were genuinely interested in reaching an agreement with the Palestinians?

“Yes, yes,” Indyk told me. “Look back at Rabin’s strategies from the days when he was first prime minister, back in 1974. He and [Henry] Kissinger developed a step-by-step approach. It wasn’t just Kissinger, it was Kissinger and Rabin. Oslo was designed by Rabin, not by Kissinger, but as a [similar] step-by-step approach. And Rabin understood very well the difficulties of achieving a final status solution, particularly on Jerusalem. He had a very clear view about a united Jerusalem.” 

“So what you mean,” I responded, “is that Rabin had two types of successors: those who did not want any steps, and those who wanted steps that were too big.”

“Step-by-step is a recognition that if you try to get to the end too quickly, you wouldn’t get there at all. I believe that Rabin would have found a way, because of the relations he had with Arafat, to defer final status negotiations further [while] going ahead with the Oslo process and with further disengagement from the West Bank,” Indyk said.

Israelis would very much like disengagement from Arabs. All Arabs. It is a dangerous and counterproductive instinct, but also one that is expected to occur in such times. 

But many of them also feel this week the way Yitzhak Herzog, leader of the Labor Party and head of the opposition, feels. In a Rabinesque speech at the Knesset on Oct. 12 (the language was Rabinesque — Herzog does not have the commanding presence of Rabin), Herzog was trying to be a hawkish seeker of separation from the Palestinians. Herzog was not proposing peace in our times. In fact, his speech included more than a hint that peace is probably impossible at this time — it focused on the prospect of disengagement from people with whom Israelis have had enough. Herzog probably figured that he has a chance at getting a hearing from the public for such an idea under the current circumstances.

“Had I been elected prime minister,” Herzog said, “you’d be standing today at the balcony in Zion Square and igniting large demonstrations all across the country.” He was right: Had Israel had a left-tilting government, the situation would have been much worse. The government in such a moment needs the ability to act calmly. But a right-wing and edgy public would hardly have given a left-of-center government much room to maneuver. Netanyahu, with all of his many faults, true or imaginary, is the stopper at the door of a more chaotic situation. He has to face a populist opposition from within (his coalition members that pressure him to build settlements because — they argue with zero proof — that is the way to stop terrorism), and has to steer the ship while keeping his crew intact (that is to say: his right-wing voters). 

Thus far (I am writing this article on Oct. 13), he has been able to do that under harsh conditions. 

It is not much. It is also not that insignificant.

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Stanley Milgram and the ‘Malleability of Human Nature’

In Michael Almereyda’s new biopic, “Experimenter,” which tells the story of the infamous shock experiments by the Jewish social psychologist Stanley Milgram, the scientist reveals that his controversial research in the early 1960s was an attempt to explore the root causes of the Holocaust. Milgram had long been haunted by how the Nazis produced “corpses … with the same efficiency as manufacturing appliances,” he says in the film.

Even though his parents had fled Eastern Europe before the Shoah, “He recognized an element of luck in that, as well as the horrible sweep of the extermination,” Almereyda, who lives in New York, said in a telephone interview. “He was startled by that cold-blooded, heartless efficiency. So his experiment was a direct address to the question of how the Holocaust was institutionalized.”

The movie opens in 1961, in the midst of one of Milgram’s studies at Yale University, as the psychologist (played by Peter Sarsgaard) intensely watches the proceedings through a two-way mirror. His subject is told, falsely, that the experiment intends to explore whether punishment is an incentive to learning; the man is instructed to administer increasingly severe shocks to a “learner” on the other side of a glass wall whenever the second man errs in a word-pairing exercise. The subject has no idea that his study partner is actually a member of the scientific team and is receiving no shocks at all.

As the faux voltage escalates, the learner howls in pain, begs to be let out of the room and reminds the scientists of his heart condition. Meanwhile, the subject becomes more and more distressed by his task, clenching his fists and pleading with the academics to check in on the man (they refuse). Even so, he continues to increase the voltage, prompted by the scientists’ polite reminders that he must persevere for the sake of the experiment, and that the responsibility for any fallout is their own. In the end, “He went all the way,” Milgram says. “Most of them do.”

Indeed, as Milgram continues his study in 25 variations, the results remain the same: 65 percent of all subjects eventually administer the maximum electric shock. 

“Milgram was asking deep questions about human nature, about ethical awareness and free will,” Almereyda said. “These are huge existential issues, and they also press in on all sorts of recent and current history, given Guantanamo and Abu Ghraib and our government-sanctioned torture.”

“Milgram’s study addresses the reasons for human obedience to a malevolent authority,” Sarsgaard, 44, whose previous films include “Boys Don’t Cry” and “An Education,” said in a telephone interview.  

So what is it about human nature that can push us to follow even the most heinous of instructions? “Milgram came up with the term the ‘agentic state,’ which is when people assume that they are agents for a higher authority,” Almereyda said. “Even though they don’t lose their conscience, they have to dumb it down. Milgram called this a suspension of moral value, which is not exactly the same thing that Hannah Arendt was talking about in [her Holocaust political philosophy book] ‘The Banality of Evil.’  He wasn’t talking about evil so much as the malleability of human nature. But still, this malleability can have results that are horrible and deadly.”

Significantly, Milgram’s study took place at the same time that the trial of Adolf Eichmann was being televised from Jerusalem, where the Nazi war criminal repeatedly insisted that he was “just following orders” while implementing the Final Solution.

Even so, Milgram (1933-1984) was harshly criticized by students, academics and lay people for allegedly tricking and traumatizing his subjects; while his experiment is still cited in numerous psychology textbooks, it remains highly debated to this day. “The study shook people up; they didn’t want to admit or acknowledge the truth that was revealed,” Almereyda said. “It was a natural backlash. But Milgram himself said that if the results had been more comforting and positive, his experiment might have been celebrated. The fact that it continues to trouble us so much has given it a sort of notoriety and permanence in our consciousness.”

Alemereyda, 56, grew up in a secular Jewish home near Kansas City, Kan., and, from age 13, in Costa Mesa. He first discovered Milgram’s work when a close friend was taking a course on the shock study at Bard College in 2006; the writer-director went on to read the class’ single textbook, Milgram’s “Obedience to Authority: An Experimental View.” 

“The transcripts Milgram included of his study were intriguing,” Almereyda said of the book. “They made me think of what would happen if David Mamet had written an episode of ‘Candid Camera.’ And the more I read, the more I felt that this was something to build a movie on.”

As research for his film, Almereyda interviewed about 25 people who had known Milgram, including the late scientist’s widow, Sasha, played in the movie by Winona Ryder. He also watched all six of the films Milgram made about his experiments and read myriad articles and books on the scientist. His script uses many of the study’s transcripts verbatim and draws on Milgram’s documentaries to meticulously re-create the costumes and set design for “Experimenter.”

Almereyda also incorporated more abstract elements into his filmmaking. The character of Milgram, for example, often breaks the fourth wall by talking directly to the audience. And when the scientist speaks of how the Shoah inspired his study, an elephant walks behind him in a hallway — a metaphor for the Holocaust as the “elephant in the room,” among other interpretations.

Almereyda said he cast Ryder, in part, because the actress is Jewish on her father’s side and lost relatives in the concentration camps.

Sarsgaard is Catholic, but, he noted, his wife, actress Maggie Gyllenhaal, as well as their two young children, are Jewish.

“I was interested in how Milgram’s own personal history of being Jewish and growing up in New York during the 1940s led to him asking questions about what had gone on in Germany,” the actor said.

When asked about how he might have responded as a subject in Milgram’s experiment, Almereyda was blunt. “I think everybody has a nice, cozy view of themselves, but I’ve read enough to recognize that one thing Milgram’s results suggest is that you don’t know how you’ll behave until you’re under pressure,” he said. “So it would be presumptuous and a bit of a fantasy to say I actually would not have gone all the way. I don’t have such a fond idea of myself that I could insist what I would or wouldn’t do.”

Yet the film ends on a relatively hopeful note.  “You could say we’re all puppets, but I believe we’re puppets with perception and awareness,” Milgram says toward the end of the movie.  “And perhaps our awareness is the first step toward our liberation.”

Experimenter” opens on Oct. 16 in Los Angeles. 

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Examining a shared history through a festival lens

Last fall, I was invited to show my documentary “Raquel: A Marked Woman” in Eastern Europe, including Poland, Romania and Ukraine. I wondered whether the gap left by the annihilation of local Jewish communities, followed by decades of silence and secrecy behind the Iron Curtain, is the same in each country.

My documentary tells the story of a young Jewish-Polish mother, Raquel Liberman, who left Warsaw in 1922 with her two young children to follow her husband to Argentina. What happened next is an ordeal many young women suffer today. An international crime organization, made up of Jewish-Polish immigrants, entrapped and enslaved her into the sex trade. These men recruited young Jewish women from the shtetls (small Jewish villages) in Eastern Europe in the early 20th century. The organization, headquartered in Argentina, ensnared Raquel in its web and destined her to a life of suffering.

In my film, the “bad” guys are Jews. I ask audiences to move past the familiar demonization or idealization of Jews and see them as human beings with all their human foibles. This exercise is challenging for a conventional Jewish-American audience. Because these East European countries are only now beginning to reconcile their shared pre-World War II history with Jews, I was curious about their reaction. 

It was a great opportunity to present subject matter that local audiences could relate to — given its historic and present-day relevance to the Eastern Europe sex trade. I realized that bringing Raquel back to her home country of Poland would also be a chance to engage with local audiences and understand the cultural and environmental landscape from which my heroine came — a culture that had been fertile ground for the Holocaust. 

Before embarking on my mini-tour, I thought I would experience the consequences of the Russian propaganda machine — a generation too old or too complacent with its secrets. But the opposite seemed to be true. Most young people feel a kinship to Jews and Jewish culture. Yes, it’s now “hip” to be a Jew. This led me to ask: Is the recent resurgence of interest in Jewish culture and traditions in Eastern Europe based on curiosity or atonement? 

“Raquel” was scheduled for two film festivals and two community screenings, all run by non-Jews. These audiences are trying to come to grips with their history and the reformulation of their identity. In Warsaw, a city that was leveled during the war and eerily rebuilt by the Communists, the audiences’ surprising focus was not on the “bad” Polish Jews, but on Raquel’s courageous journey from enslavement to heroine.

Krakow’s Jewish quarter of Kazimierz, an old town dating back to the 12th century, is seeing a Jewish revival of sorts. Many young Polish people are finding out that their grandparents converted to Catholicism and never spoke about their origins — either for fear of persecution or guilt by association.

This unique population was represented in the questions it raised: “Did the Catholic neighbor, who became the foster parent to Raquel’s two young boys, ever tell them that they were Jewish?” “Why did Raquel leave her children with a non-Jew?”

In Bucharest, Romania, the event planners were eager to educate Romanian non-Jews about Jewish life, culture and Israel. Why? The new generation of Romanians is completely unaware of its relationship to its Jewish past, and Israelis run many of the country’s mid-level businesses. The focus of the audience was twofold. First, was I afraid for my life in exposing this Jewish mafia? Did I have the mafia’s list of members and was I going to publish it? Second, the audience deeply identified with Raquel’s story and shared how its country is living through what was depicted in the film: girls being trafficked in and out of Romania for sex.

The final screening took place in Lviv, Ukraine. All but one of the synagogues is still standing, and years of Soviet rule obliterated the population’s enmeshed history with the Jews. In Ukraine, the truth is hard to find and its re-creation is a feeding machine of propaganda and fears. The questions that surfaced were about what happens when there’s a gap in knowledge, as in Raquel’s story. For 70 years, her children and grandchildren remained completely in the dark. How does the gap in knowledge get filled when much of the information has been buried or is dismissed? Was it possible for Raquel’s descendants to make sense of her story even if the information was buried? 

At the end of my trip, both as Raquel’s storyteller and as a second-generation Holocaust survivor, I asked myself questions similar to what my audiences asked. How do you build a story when there’s a gap in history? How do you create an identity when much of your history is buried in secrecy or dismissal? In my films, I have explored the notion of active recalling, engaging and, ultimately, taking responsibility for our past. What happens when those who held the memories die off, as in the case of Raquel? Who is responsible for the telling of their story? 

The new generation in these countries surprised me. What at first seemed such a peculiar reality — Eastern Europeans hungry to find their connection to Jewish history — has now made me realize that we might be struggling with a similar goal. 

The journey through these lands has opened my heart to a past we share. We are forever tied to a communal history. It is no longer about victims and perpetrators. It is about our humanity. It is about a world that requires us to see beyond our fears, to question our lessons, and to open our hearts — as I know Raquel’s story has opened audiences’ hearts to the reality that too many young women are still being trafficked today. 

Gabriela Bohm is a filmmaker in Los Angeles.

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Recipe: Chopped liver with wine aspic

Jewish cuisine has always gotten a bad rap, and very often I hear the expression that “heavy Jewish food” is not healthy, but we have been cooking nutritious Jewish food for our family for as long as I can remember.

Students in my cooking class always ask me for a healthy recipe for chicken soup that tastes really flavorful. My answer is: the more chicken, the more chicken flavor. Then add lots and lots of veggies and my light, soufflé-like matzah balls.

Chopped liver can be another rich dish because many people overload with lots of chicken fat (schmaltz). We use olive oil and combine the chicken livers with onions, apples and mushrooms to give it a wonderful flavor. 

As a child, I used to watch my mother, sitting on the back porch steps, chopping away at beef liver, hard-cooked eggs and chicken schmaltz in a huge wooden bowl. It was really hard work. Now I can whip up a batch of chopped liver from scratch — enough to serve 20 — in less time.

I have preserved the integrity of Mom’s recipe, but enhanced it by using chicken livers and a little brandy for flavor. Use a meat grinder to get the old-fashioned coarse texture, but you can also make it in a food processor, resulting in a finer texture. Top with Concord Grape Wine Aspic to add a gala touch.

MOLDED CHOPPED LIVER

  • Concord Grape Wine Aspic (recipe follows)
  • 1/4 cup olive oil
  • 2 medium onions, thinly sliced
  • 1 pound chicken livers
  • 4 large mushrooms, thinly sliced
  • 1 medium apple, peeled, cored and thinly sliced
  • 2 tablespoons brandy or cognac
  • 2 hard-boiled eggs, peeled
  • Salt and freshly ground black pepper to taste

 

In a large, heavy skillet, heat olive oil and sauté onions until lightly browned. Add the livers, mushrooms and apple. Sauté, turning the livers on both sides, until lightly browned. (Do not overcook.) Add the brandy and simmer 3 to 4 minutes. 

Spoon the mixture into a meat grinder with the eggs and grind into a large bowl, making sure to add the juices from the skillet. Add salt and pepper to taste and stir well.

Cover and refrigerate, or line a mold with plastic wrap, spoon in the liver mixture, cover and refrigerate.

The plastic wrap enables you to invert and lift the molded chopped liver out of the bowl, and then it is peeled off.

Top with the Concord Grape Wine Aspic.

Makes 6 to 8 servings.

CONCORD GRAPE WINE ASPIC

  • 1/2 cup sugar
  • 1/3 cup water
  • 1 1/2 cups kosher Concord grape wine
  • 1/4 cup wine vinegar
  • 1 1/2 ounces frozen orange juice concentrate
  • 1 teaspoon (1 package) gelatin

 

In a small, heavy saucepan over moderate to high heat, simmer the sugar in the water, stirring until the sugar dissolves; continue simmering rapidly until the sugar reaches a caramel color.

In another small saucepan, heat 1 1/4 cups of the wine, the vinegar and the orange juice concentrate. Add the wine mixture to the sugar mixture and stir well. Simmer for 5 minutes. 

Soften the gelatin in the remaining 1/4 cup wine.

Add to the hot mixture and stir until dissolved. Pour into an 8-by-8-inch baking dish and chill until set, about 2 hours.

Serve with the Molded Chopped Liver.

Makes about 2 1/2 to 3 cups.

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Berkeley students chant for intifada [video]

A video of UC Berkeley students chanting in support of an intifada “just hours…after the stabbing of a 72 year old Jewish civilian on a bus” was shared on the Facebook page of pro-Israel group StandWithUs on Wednesday.

“Shocking: right now on the campus of UC Berkeley, students participate in a ‘day of action’ and explicitly chant ‘we support the intifada,’ just hours after this ‘intifada’ resulted in the stabbing of a 72 year old Jewish civilian on a bus,” according to the Facebook page of StandWithUs, which combats anti-Israel sentiment on college campuses.

“Where is their moral compass!?” the StandWithUs Facebook page adds, in reference to the UC Berkeley students depicted in the video, which you can view below.

Deadly incidents, many of them stabbings, have been taking place on an almost daily basis in Israel this past month, prompting observers to predict that an intifada—a Palestinian uprising—is imminent. If an intifada were to occur, it would be the third intifada since Israel’s founding in 1948. 

 

 

 

Shocking: right now on the campus of UC Berkeley, students participate in a “day of action” and explicitly chant “we support the intifada,” just hours after this “intifada” resulted in the stabbing of a 72 year old Jewish civilian on a bus. Days ago, this “intifada” led to the stabbing of a 13-year-old Israeli child in the streets of Jerusalem…and last week, the murder of Eitam and Naama Henkin in front of 4 of their children. Where is their moral compass!?#StopIncitement

Posted by StandWithUs on Wednesday, October 14, 2015

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At Politicon, diversity and polarity make for entertaining (and loud) political fare

Partisan political theater was on full display mid-afternoon on Oct. 10 at the Los Angeles Convention Center, as two of the panels at the inaugural Politicon conference overlapped.

In “Independence Hall,” a panel included Democratic strategists David Axelrod, James Carville and former Republican House Speaker Newt Gingrich, while next-door, in “Freedom Hall,” right-wing firebrand Ann Coulter debated Cenk Uygur, a left-wing activist and commentator. 

Some of the louder Democrats in the crowd chortled as Gingrich talked economics, and whooped when Axelrod defended President Barack Obama’s economic record. Meanwhile it seemed Uygur and the standing-room-only crowd next-door couldn’t quite tell whether Coulter was serious when she said things would be better had the United States dropped a nuclear weapon on Iraq instead of toppling Saddam Hussein and then withdrawing. 

“ISIS, when they put somebody in a cage and burned him alive, we thought they were the worst monsters on Earth. You say you’d like to do that on a grand scale, because that’s what a nuclear weapon does,” Uygur said to Coulter, to emphatic applause. 


Did Politicon, with its variety and diversity, change minds or create some ground for compromise?

“In response to 9/11, yes,” Coulter responded, “we should not have sent ground troops. We should have dropped … in retrospect, now that we know we’re in a country that can elect Barack Obama, instead of bothering to create a democracy in Iraq, which we did, and which was working beautifully,” she said, to boos. “Are we getting back to immigration, the topic of my book, and technically the topic of this panel?”

The two-day conference, which ran Oct. 9-10, attracted about 9,000 attendees, according to event organizers, and brought together some of the nation’s most recognizable figures in politics, media and entertainment, including a stand-up routine from  “The Daily Show” host Trevor Noah, followed by a conversation with Carville, the political commentator who helped Bill Clinton win the presidency; as well as former Clinton adviser Paul Begala; former Rep. Michele Bachmann (R-Minn.); John Avlon, editor-in-chief of the Daily Beast; with Edward Snowden, who gained fame after leaking classified information from the NSA, appearing via live video from Russia.

Modeled after the wildly popular Comic-Con, Politicon’s first run was a sort of cholent for the political mind. There was the good — former Obama speechwriter Jon Favreau and Jay Leno-monologue writer and Democratic political consultant Jon Macks on speechwriting; conservative radio host Hugh Hewitt, broadcasting his show live and interviewing, via telephone, Republican presidential candidate Carly Fiorina. There was the bad — a woman who screamed “Bulls—!” to one of Gingrich’s points and then bragged about it after the panel. And there was the weird — ranging from the “Beats, Rhymes and Justice” slam poetry session to the cleverly and thematically cosplay-dressed attendees who got in for free.

In “Democracy Village,” the physical proximity of booths from various organizations, despite their stark ideological contrasts, created a bit of a compromising, kumbaya feel. Local conservative radio station KRLA, for example, bumped shoulders with the LGBT group Log Cabin Republicans, while just a few feet away was a Teamsters Local Union booth and one for the Los Angeles County Young Democrats.

“This is really the intersection of politics and entertainment,” said Macks, who, in addition to his comedy writing, has also done debate preparation sessions with Obama, Bill Clinton, Joe Biden and John Kerry, as well as speechwriting for Sen. Elizabeth Warren (D-Mass.) and others. “When politics is entertainment, when 24 million people are watching Donald Trump debate, this is a chance for everyone from your political junkies to political nerds to your issue-oriented people to everyday citizens who are just interested in finding out and having some fun.”

Did Politicon, with its variety and diversity, change minds or create some ground for compromise? Probably not, but that wasn’t really its purpose. Like any convention — whether for comic books, fashion, politics or entertainment — many, maybe even most of the attendees, were those already passionate about, and probably set in, their political and ideological beliefs. But with commentators on opposite sides of the spectrum sharing a stage, and with activists from the left and the right schmoozing and working only a few feet apart, Politicon did deliver on its slogan: “Entertain Democracy.”

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Another way to think about BDS

Every week, a new message rolls in from a Jewish organization decrying Boycott, Divestment and Sanctions (BDS) as a grave danger to the survival of Israel and the Jews. I don’t know how to react. On one hand, I oppose the global BDS movement, which seeks to boycott and divest from Israel at large. On the other, I can’t join in the rising chorus of demonization against it, to borrow Natan Sharansky’s term of accusation against BDS. A recent column in this paper by Rabbi Pini Dunner, whom I know and respect, went so far as to cast the BDS movement as today’s Amalek, the archenemy of ancient Israel, worthy of obliteration. I assume that this kind of lachrymose theology is not a warrant for violence, but one can never err too much on the side of vigilance when confronting exaggerated religious rhetoric in the service of political goals. After all, that kind of rhetoric has played no small role in the latest outbreak of tragic violence now in Israel and the West Bank.

The shrillness of the debate over BDS — and indeed, its promoters have contributed more than their share — makes it difficult to arrive at a balanced view of things. Here are five propositions to consider when assessing the movement:

Not all supporters of BDS are anti-Semitic: The assumption of many in the Jewish community, including Pinner, is that all supporters of BDS, Jewish or not, are anti-Semitic. The pro-BDS advocates whom I know don’t hold to biased or unflattering views of Jews. They are opposed to Israel’s occupation of the West Bank and subjugation of the Palestinian people. Some believe that the most equitable arrangement for the residents of the region between the Jordan and Mediterranean is a single state (as does Israel’s impressive president, Reuven Rivlin). Is it discomfiting to hear people advocate for a solution that entails the end of Israel as a Jewish state? Yes. Is it anti-Semitic?  Not necessarily.

Is it discomfiting to hear people advocate for a solution that entails the end of Israel as a Jewish state? Yes. Is it anti-Semitic? Not necessarily.

Some supporters of BDS are anti-Semitic: The fact that not all BDS supporters are anti-Semitic does not mean that all of its supporters are free of that millennial malady. Some of BDS’ leading voices deny to Jews the right to self-definition as a nation, which is a curious inversion of Golda Meir’s lamentable statement that there was no Palestinian people. Moreover, at American colleges and universities, some BDS supporters have introduced a toxic tone into campus debates and refused to engage in dialogue with those with whom they disagree. At times, they have descended into dangerous assertions not simply about Israel, but about Jews and their putative political power, as in the case of UCLA student Rachel Beyda in February 2015. The result can be an anti-Semitism in effect, if not intent. It needs to be called out and challenged when it crops up.

BDS’ singularity of focus on Israel is troubling: Whether anti-Semitic in intent, the singular focus of BDS on Israel is curious. After all, the region in which Israel is located is rife with conflict at every turn. Just northeast of Israel, a quarter of a million people have died in the Syria war. Where is the outrage? Meanwhile, ISIS beheads innocent victims. Iraq and Yemen descend into tribal warfare. Egypt’s regime turns more corrupt and violent than ever. Turkey uses the cover of the West’s anti-ISIS campaign to strike out at the Kurds again. Saudi Arabia metes out brutal and primal Islamic justice. One can only ask of BDS supporters: In the midst of this region careening out of control, you see fit to focus the brunt of your attention on Israel? Really? A bit more fair-minded scrutiny of the offenders in the region — and elsewhere — wouldn’t hurt.

Beware of confusing cause and effect: While Jews should be at the forefront of those condemning the wanton violence in Syria and elsewhere in the Middle East, that doesn’t absolve us of the responsibility to attend to our own troubles. The Jewish community is very good at identifying the flaws of its opponents, but less so in confronting challenges within its own camp. Thus, we join together to take aim at BDS. It is good to have a clearly identified external opponent. But we kid ourselves if we don’t recognize that there would be no BDS movement if there were no occupation of the West Bank and ongoing denial of Palestinian national rights. BDS took rise in July 2005, after the collapse of the Second Intifada and the Oslo peace process. Its first declared goal was to end the occupation of the West Bank. Unlike prior Palestinian actions, it is a nonviolent form of protest against the ongoing denial of self-determination to the Palestinian people. There can be little doubt that Palestinians have been terribly served by their leaders, from Yasser Arafat to Hamas to Mahmoud Abbas. But Israel is the far stronger party in the conflict and continues to suppress the Palestinians through a system of land expropriations, checkpoints, security raids, intelligence operations and the invasive security barrier. This is politically and morally unsustainable.

It’s not enough to fight BDS; one must fight the occupation: Jews do themselves no benefit by taking aim at BDS without struggling to end the occupation and granting Palestinians the right to self-determination. We are rapidly losing credibility in the world, among long-standing friends, on college campuses and particularly with our own Jewish youth, who no longer buy the hasbara refrain of Israel’s unblemished virtue. To right an ongoing injustice (and halt Israel’s plummeting reputation in the world), it is imperative to fight the root cause of BDS, which is not anti-Semitism, but rather the occupation. We need a new campaign that makes clear that we stand with Israel and its right to exist, but can no longer tolerate the occupation and settlement-building. They are key factors in the denial of national rights to Palestinians and add fuel to the frustration-driven violence of today. Almost 50 years after the territorial conquests in 1967, with hundreds of thousands of Israeli Jewish civilians dwelling on land that the world regards as illegally settled, it seems hard to dispute that the occupation has been a tragic mistake. It is the Masada of our time — a seemingly bold and heroic pursuit, but ultimately a project of moral failing, political error and collective suicide.


David N. Myers is a professor and the Sady and Ludwig Kahn chair in Jewish History at UCLA.

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Combating an Israeli-American identity crisis

A year after Irit Bar-Netzer arrived in Los Angeles from Israel, she had her first son. That was 37 years ago, and that’s when the dilemma began.

“I wondered back then: How am I going to raise my children? As Israelis? Americans? Who is going to help us raise our kids? We didn’t have Grandma and Grandpa around. What’s going to happen to their identity?” 

It was by no means a new dilemma, however — in some ways, not even to her. As a daughter of Holocaust survivors, Bar-Netzer remembered how she felt growing up in Israel as a child of immigrant parents who didn’t speak Hebrew very well. 

“The children used to laugh at us because we spoke Hungarian and not Hebrew,” she said. Still, she ended up speaking Hebrew to her first son in America because, she said, “It was easier and natural for us.”

Bar-Netzer, a psychologist who has worked with children for years, related this story during an Oct. 11 seminar at Temple Judea in Tarzana that was sponsored by Ma Koreh, a project of Builders of Jewish Education (BJE) that is spending the next year providing lectures to Israeli parents. Conducted in Hebrew, the intimate gathering — the first in a series — was attended by 16 parents of young children and featured Bar-Netzer and child psychologist Ernest Katz. 

BJE Associate Director Phil Liff-Grieff said, “We want Israeli-American families to connect better through the organized Jewish community. We want them to understand that it is a tool in their toolbox for raising their kids here.”

The program is funded by the Jewish Community Foundation of Los Angeles and is done in cooperation with the Israeli-American Council and Sifriyat Pijama B’America, which provides books written in Hebrew to young children. 

Although many of the parents at the recent event said they insist on speaking Hebrew to their children, they wondered if that’s enough to keep their kids “Israeli” and how important it is to send their kids to private schools in order to maintain their Jewish-Israeli identities. And while many agreed that not all aspects of Israeli characteristics are welcomed, they do want their kids to maintain some of the values and traditions they were raised on. (The famous Israeli chutzpah was not one of them, according to participants.) 

One father of a 4-year-old described the problem like this: “When my daughter asks me, ‘Am I an Israeli?’ I am confused. I don’t know what to answer her. I do want her to take the good things from both cultures: the Israeli and the American — because there are good things and bad things in each culture — but how do I do that?”

His wife, who was born in Israel and moved to the United States with her parents when she was 8, said she experienced the issue herself as a child. 

“Throughout my childhood, my parents spoke to me in English and I know they meant well, but today I know it was wrong. I never knew what I was. Israeli? American? Americans always thought that I’m an Israeli and Israelis thought I’m an American, so I was confused about my identity, and I don’t want my kids to go through that as well.”

Not that simply speaking a certain language solves the problem.

One mother of three said she insists on speaking with her children in Hebrew, even though they often answer in English. “I struggle with it every day,” she said. “Each time I speak to my son in Hebrew, he says, ‘I was born here. I’m an American. It won’t help you.’ It’s a constant conflict. How do you deal with that?”

Bar-Netzer said she believes part of the parents’ challenge is not only their children’s identities, but also their own.

“The conflict is huge, and you need to think what is right for your child,” she said. “You have decided to come here and raise him here; now you have to decide what’s important for you and what will be best for him. The fact that you had come here ready to listen and discuss it means that the subject is important to you and your children will benefit from that. When I came here, 38 years ago, there was no such discussion on how to raise Israeli children.”

While Bar-Netzer and Katz didn’t offer answers to the many issues the parents raised during the 1 1/2-hour meeting, they suggested that parents make a list of what is important for them and what’s important for their kids. 

“Learn to listen to your children and see what they need. You should send your children a clear message. That is the most important thing. You don’t want to confuse them by questioning their own identity,” Bar-Netzer said. “As long as it’s good and right to you as parents, it will be good for your children as well.”


UPDATE [10/19/15]: This article has been changed from its original form to protect the names of parents at the event.

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The meaning of coincidences

One of the most powerful ways we experience God’s closeness is through coincidences.

I know this is certainly the case with me. Stuff happens to me all the time that I can’t explain.

Here are two examples.

One Friday night, I was in shul and my mind wandered a bit. I realized that this was my anniversary of keeping Shabbos for the first time. In fact, it was exactly 20 years ago to the day. I wondered how many Shabboses that was. I did the math and multiplied 20 (years) times 52 (weeks) and arrived at 1,040 Shabboses. Then I realized something that made my head spin: That same week I began a new job. The street address number was 1040.

Another story.

One of my favorite Torah commentators is Rabbi Yitzchak Isaac Chaver, a tremendous 19th- century Torah scholar and kabbalist from the school of Vilna Gaon. The book of his I’ve been studying is called “Ohr Torah” (The Light of Torah). When I learned that he’d also written a commentary on the aggadot, the more esoteric sections of the Talmud, I ordered that, too. When the books arrived, I was overcome by emotion. I sat in my favorite chair, brought the books to my heart, and hugged them. At that moment, the phone rang. My daughter ran in to tell me that someone was calling for me. “Who?” I asked. “Ohr Torah,” she said.

What?

There is a shul in the community called Torah Ohr, but the caller ID on our phone reverses first and last names, so the screen read “Ohr Torah” — the name of the book I was hugging at that moment.

How do you explain occurrences like these, and what are we supposed to do when they happen?

Usually, we throw our hands up in the air and say things like, “What are the odds!” or “Can you believe that?” But the sheer miraculousness of the events always left me feeling as if I wasn’t fully appreciating their significance.

So for years I struggled with what the appropriate response to coincidences is — or put another way — given that that just took place, what am I supposed to do now?

I once heard that coincidences were God’s way of waving, “Hello!”

Although that’s a lovely thought, there’s something problematic about it. Namely, God is waving, “Hello!” every moment! So given that, what makes coincidences any different from every other moment?

The question perplexed me.

Clearly there is a difference. But how do we express it exactly?

The question stayed with me until I reflected on the following teaching.

In Pirke Avot, a volume of the Talmud also known as Ethics of Our Fathers, Rabbi Akiva says, “Beloved are people for they were created in God’s image; it is indicative of a greater love that it was made known to them that they were created in God’s image, as it is said: ‘For in the image of God, He made human beings’ ” (3:18).

Rabbi Akiva is telling us something amazing here.

You see, something can be true, but it’s indicative of an even greater love when God shows us that it’s true.

Imagine this exchange between a parent and child. Child: “Do you love me?” Parent: “Of course, I love you.” Child: “Then how come you never tell me?”

The parent loves the child. But it’s indicative of a greater love when the parent makes it known to the child that he loves them.

Yes, God is everywhere.

Yes, God is saying, “Hello!” to us every nanosecond of our lives.

But when we experience a coincidence, God is, so to speak, “going out of his way” to make it known to us how present he is in our lives.

Contemplate how awesome that is! God is literally customizing a series of events unique to you just to make known to you how close he is.

Wow.

In Torah, this is what we call an “ays ratzon,” a favorable moment. But if we translate the Hebrew literally, it’s even more powerful. It means “a time of desire,” meaning a time when God is expressing his longing for us.

During these moments, the rabbis teach us that the gates of heaven are open to our prayers.

Now we know what to do the next time a coincidence happens.

Pray.

Pour your heart out and ask God for everything. 

David Sacks is an Emmy-winning TV writer and produces torahonitunes.com.

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