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November 27, 2014

This week in power: Bill moves forward and Thanksgiving message

A roundup of the most talked about political and global stories in the Jewish world this week:

Cabinet appoval
“The Israeli cabinet on Sunday approved contentious draft legislation that emphasizes Israel’s Jewish character above its democratic nature in a move that critics said could undermine the fragile relationship with the country’s Arab minority at a time of heightened tensions,” ” target=”_blank”>wrote Ira Sharkansky in The Jerusalem Post. Some aren't sure what the whole point of the matter is. “Israel won’t be any more Jewish or less democratic no matter whether or not this bill eventually becomes one of the country’s basic laws. But those casually weighing in on this debate from afar need to understand that at a time when the legitimacy of a Jewish state is increasingly under attack, Israelis are within their rights to make it clear they won’t give up this right,” ” target=”_blank”>wrote Cindy Sher at Jspace News. This season has also given immigrants like Marita Anderson a chance to reflect on her new home: “Thank you, America, for giving me the safety and the freedom to know that I am Yehudi. I am a Jew and a grateful one,” This week in power: Bill moves forward and Thanksgiving message Read More »

The life in Israel exchange, part 1: See Israel for what it is

Herb Keinon is a veteran reporter for The Jerusalem Post. He has been at the paper since 1985, and has covered the diplomatic beat since 2000. Keinon has a BA in political science from the University of Colorado, Boulder, and an MA in Journalism from the University of Illinois, Champaign-Urbana. Originally from Denver, Keinon moved to Israel in 1981, is married with four children, and lives in Ma’ale Adumim.

The following exchange will focus on Keinon’s new book, French Fries in Pita: A Collection of Herb Keinon's Columns on Life in Israel.

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Dear Herb,

I must admit that this exchange is a tricky one to kick-off.

Unlike most of the books we normally discuss here, this one describes the life of its author. While our exchanges are normally dedicated to historical figures (like Sholem Aleichem or Rav Kook) or to big issues (like 'intermarriage' or 'religion in Israel'), this one is basically about, well, you. So asking you to present your thesis or to tell us a bit about the hero of the book is not really an option…

But a few pages into your collection of very vividly written and enjoyable essays, a pretty clear theme does emerge – this is a book about the nuanced subtleties of being an American immigrant in Israel, about a foreigner learning the ways of a very unique (and sometimes quite crazy) land.

My question: was there a distinct agenda or general approach to Aliyah which guided you in editing this book? Is there 'something you would like your readers to learn' from all these amusing observations? (In other words, please present your thesis…)

Yours,

Shmuel.

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Yes, Shmuel, there is an underlying theme to the columns that make up this book, and that is simply to keep it real, have realistic expectations, see Israel for what it is, and not what you imagined it would be, or wish it could be.

I've lived in Israel now for some 33 years, and truly believe that the secret to a “successful” aliya, the secret to staying here and actually enjoying it, is to accept the country as it is. Don't have unrealistic expectations about the people or the place. Don't think the country owes you anything for coming here. Don't look at Israelis as caricatures who are only rude, loud and pushy.

For hundreds of years Jews placed Israel on a pedestal, created a construct in their mind of a perfect place that could in no way meet those expectations. As a result, when people move here and face the dirty, crowded, noisy reality, they are often disappointed. This is not the Israel of their dreams and imaginations.

And no it is not. It is a flesh and blood place with flesh and blood people full of quirks, but also full of charms. These columns are an attempt to describe both. This is not a Zionist polemic, but a collection of personal stories aiming to describe the small, real moments of life here; the small, real moments that make living here both appealing and meaningful.

It is also a book that looks at everyday life in Israel from the perspective of an immigrant. And I am an immigrant, and still feel like an immigrant, even though I've been here for most of my life.

As I wrote in the book's introduction, being an immigrant is a designation – and a feeling – that lasts forever. There are some who come to Israel and try to become absorbed completely, become Israeli overnight. Others come and live in an immigrant cocoon.

I believe in the middle path – come, try to integrate as much as possible, but, again, always have realistic expectations. I come from America, with American sensitivities, an American accent, an American-born wife, American habits and tastes.

I am not going to “go native” overnight, or even over 30 years. I represent the generation of the wilderness. But my kids, well they are a different story – they are Israeli, through and through. And that overlap is the story this book tries to tell.

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My week off from my semester off

The best part about being a volunteer for the army, rather than an actual soldier, is the fact that technically, I can leave whenever I want. So when, after watching a movie about some lesser-known highlights of Israel during, I decided that I wanted to take a week off between bases and volunteer in the civilian world — once again proving that major life decisions don’t require much time, thought, or planning — I just… did.

If you’ve never heard of Save A Child’s Heart, you should know that I could never do them justice in a short blog post. But can you imagine an organization that flies children from third-world countries across oceans for direly-needed heart operations (and months of follow-up care), at absolutely no cost to the kids and the mothers or nurses who come with them? That’s exactly what SACH does, and they’ve saved thousands of lives — foreign lives, not that that matters — since it was founded in 1995, one child nearly everyday. Only in Israel.

Some patients live close enough to the hospital that they can go home immediately after surgery just by crossing the Gaza border; but for those who travel from Africa and Europe, who aren’t stable enough to fly back so quickly, and who need a place to recover between weeks-to-months of follow-up visits, there’s the SACH house. And this week, during a time of year where there happen to be no other full-time volunteers, there’s me.

I can’t say I ever pictured myself living in a house with 16 babies, toddlers, and preteens from Ethiopia and Tanzania. But really, nothing about this semester is going like anybody pictured. Luckily for me.

My days here are quite luxurious compared to what I’ve gotten used to on base: I wake up in time to be downstairs at the comfortable hour of 8:30 am. I’m free to go wherever I want from 12-3:30 (lunch until the end of nap-time) and am done with “work” once dinner starts at 6. But this isn’t work. Planning activities for, doing arts and crafts with, dancing the Macarena with, and playing card games and volleyball with these kids is more fun than anything else I could imagine doing in Israel.

Usually, this is where I would bring up the catch. For example, USC is great until midterm season rolls around; Sar-El is great until the work gets repetitive. But there is no catch with Save A Child’s Heart.

The fact that the moms and nurses are hilarious is an added bonus, but the kids are amazing: they’re all so normal — I would have no idea that they’re in recovery from life-saving heart surgery — and yet they’re still so much better than American kids. Why? I’m not exactly sure, but I’ll go on and on about what makes them so amazing in my next post — I have too much to say to fit it all here.

It’s funny that today, Thanksgiving, is the transition day between my favorite kids going home, all after at least two months in recovery, completely healthy… and a new group coming straight off the plane tomorrow, ready for surgery. I have no idea if any of them are familiar with this American holiday, but I can promise that the incredible kids I spent the last four days with — as well as every single person who has been affected by this organization in the last 19 years — will be forever thankful for their health and for everything Save A Child’s Heart has done for them.

As will I.

Happy Thanksgiving from Israel!

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Why does a shul need a Maharat?

A recent opinion piece in the Washington Jewish Week by Barbara Zakheim praised her Orthodox congregation (the National Synagogue in Washington, DC) for hiring a Maharat, a female spiritual leader. She describes herself as “ECSTATIC!!” (formatting hers) about the role the Maharat, Ruth Balinsky Friedman, has been playing in her shul.

The reasons Zakheim gives: Maharat Friedman is knowledgeable and humble. She shows female Jewish leadership, shares words of Torah, and answers religious questions – especially those relating to family purity. She leads women-only discussions, and helps comfort female mourners.

And, Zakheim is quick to add, she is “delighted” that she doesn’t “ever feel that our Maharat is a feminist or leading a feminist movement.” She’s just an example of how the existence of increasingly educated Jewish women “warrants female leadership along with that of men.”

If all of that is true, why does the shul need a Maharat in the first place?

All the roles Zakheim describes have been played by Jewish women for centuries – by rebbetzins,mikvah ladies, and older relatives. Despite Zakheim’s protestations, the reasons the title Maharat exists in the first place are explicitly feminist.

The Open Orthodox segment of the Jewish community that has been pushing for women’s ordination (at first with the title Rabba, then Maharat) is not interested purely in having women answer halachic questions and comfort mourners. That’s nothing new. Even roles that have not been consistently played by women – such as giving divrei Torah to mixed groups – do not require any change in the nature of ordination.

Incidentally, Zakheim is wrong about whether Maharat Friedman is a feminist. In a 2013 interview with the Web site mayan.org, she said, “I would assume people classify [me and my classmates] as feminists. I would infer that people believe that we are the next step in putting [Orthodox] women in the public sphere and encouraging women to take positions of spiritual leadership within the community. I absolutely identify as a feminist.”

Supporters of the Maharat movement want to demonstrate to the world that Judaism ascribes equal (not equally valuable – equal) status to women and men. As Zakheim put it, Maharat Friedman is “a shining example of overall female leadership for my granddaughters, who also attend my synagogue. They are growing up witnessing that female spiritual leadership is normal… This also applies to the male children in our community, for whom a Maharat is now the norm.”

That represents, precisely, a feminist agenda – and one that is alien to traditional halachic Judaism. Showing young boys that a woman can not only play a feminine leadership role, but also be just as “official” as a male clergyman is not a goal contained in any of our religious texts. It is simply Western political feminism grafted onto traditional Judaism, and does not deserve to be called Orthodox.

Zakheim concludes that she looks forward to “the time when every modern Orthodox community hires a Maharat or the equivalent and reaps the benefits of their leadership as the National Synagogue does today.”

Anyone who supports an Orthodoxy wedded to our tradition rather than infused with foreign and possibly ephemeral value systems should be anything but ECSTATIC!! should her wish come true.

David Benkof is a freelance writer based in St. Louis. Follow him on Facebook or Twitter (@DavidBenkof); or E-mail him at DavidBenkof@gmail.com.

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Practical Objectivism: The Virtues of Capitalism

The self. The thing which cannot be sacrificed, or compromised to fit within anyone’s idea of life, except one’s own. It is the very tenant that is behind the idea of capitalism, which incidentally is also the most moral of economic systems, regardless of what popular opinion, or the public has persuasively been trying to push forward. Why? Precisely because of its main tenant.

Yaron Brook, the Israeli-American president of the Ayn Rand Institute has become one of the main propagators of the ideals of Objectivism, and the ideas of the ‘individual’ within the Israeli state. Yet, I fear that although Atlas Shrugged sales are soaring, not enough people are hearing the message it has been propagating for the last 50 years: the importance of individualism, especially today when collectivism, and “groupthink” is becoming increasingly prevalent.

Brook has taken Ayn Rand’s ideas about selfishness and their rational application within one’s life and has shown that one can reasonably live like Howard Roark, Hank Rearden, and Dagny Taggart. It basically amounts to one simple concept: the pursuit of happiness. Of course the issue is far more complicated than that, as a 1000 page novel itself was not enough to completely cover the philosophical framework of the idea that man and woman hold their lives in their own hands, and that all free societies are only truly free if based on laissez -faire capitalism. Still, how true is this? The short answer is true. The long answer is more than one would think.

It is through capitalism that one is able to achieve one’s individuality, as through one’s labour and work one may find his/her happiness, as Ayn Rand said, not through others, not by working for others, but simply for oneself. All of Brook’s seminars, lectures, and book all point to one thing: the practical side of Objectivism, and the ultimate benefits of living in a democratic society.

Israel of course is the perfect example of a democracy within a sea of tyranny, and an even better example of the benefits of capitalism which has prompted the world to name Israel the “start-up nation”. Brook, although denounces Zionism because of its collectivist ideas, praises Israel for the one thing which must be recognized: out of all the countries in the Middle East, Arabs have the most freedoms in Israel- the Jewish state. I disagree with Brook’s view of Zionism, as I vehemently believe that it is in fact the materialization of freedom, and in this case that of the dreams of individuals to live a better, freer life. In a sense Zionism is freedom, that from oppression from those who have use collectivist mindsets to subdue the Jewish people throughout history. However, that is a different issue. There is more to Israel than its political system. Economics which although play on mixed-policies has had an enormous role in the way Israel has turned out today.

Is capitalism a good thing?

Unlike what you have been told, Israel has not been a “group effort”, rather it was the work of individuals that each played a role in the creation of this country. It was the arrival of men and women who worked for their own good to make a better life for themselves, that led to Israel’s stance in the world today. Each individual created, produced and profited, which in turn held Israel’s society up- regardless of the socialist principles that the government has instilled upon its people. You are wrong if you believe that Israel has become the great nation it is today through kibbutzim and social policies. No. It is the product of individual men and women, who sought achievement, who sought happiness for their own selves. The businessmen, the entrepreneurs, the men who did not achieve great heights but worked with such passion, that they molded deserts into agricultural farmland, villages into cities, and a barren place into a nation.

The virtues of capitalism, which are the ability to achieve, accomplish, and to build on one’s own terms without the involuntary need of others, is what propelled Israel to one of the most prominent countries in the world, and when compared to the collectivist natures of the countries that it is surrounded by, it is obvious why. Let us not forget that Israel is 19th on UN’s list of Human Development Index, which ranks it amid other European and other Western countries. How do you think it got there in only 66 years?

People need to realize that individuals such as Brook, are not in fact the ones who are advocating an immoral idea, rather it is those who make us believe that somehow men and women have a right to the unearned. Capitalism has made Israel a prosperous place, one which is only second behind the United States in technological innovation. Even if you deny all the virtues of capitalism, you cannot deny that.

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A terrible tragedy, but…….

This has been a horrible week for the Jewish people.  Those who seek our destruction have struck again.  They attack the innocent and the vulnerable.  Who is more innocent than a three month old in a stroller, a teenager on his way home to spend the Sabbath with his family, or a young Ecuadorian convert?  Who is more vulnerable than men engaged in prayer?  The Rabbis who died last week knew their murderer.  They greeted him everyday.  He watched their movements.  He and his cohort knew when to hack them to death.  How brave! How bold!  The blood spattered prayer books and tefillin on a severed arm remind us that the depraved have no conscience.  The perpetrators were little more than the human faces of unadulterated evil.

Our leaders know this, but they released statements that were almost beyond comprehension.  They “condemned” the attack using conjunctions.  “This is a terrible tragedy, but…”  “It is a senseless attack, however…”  They wasted no time imploring Israel to “show restraint.”   They showed no outrage at the slaughter of American citizens. Instead, they focused on “moral equivalency.”  There is none.    In their attempt to become the next Neville Chamberlain, they sent a clear and deafening message. The terrorists didn’t kill Americans.  They killed Jews.  Our leaders have succumbed to the notion that Jewish blood is cheap.  It is not.  As the Jew goes, so goes the world.  Things are going to get much worse for all of us before they get better.  It was fortunate for the world that a Churchill followed a Chamberlain.  He knew evil could not be appeased.  It must be eradicated.  We have no Churchill because we have no absolutes.  Moral equivalency implies a justification of evil.   Our leaders lack ethics and morals.  We will suffer.

The media screwed up big time this week.  CNN’s initial report was, “mosque attacked.”  That was followed by, “two Palestinians dead in terror attack.”  These headlines were not the result of a “mistake” or even shoddy journalism.  They were a result of a biased culture within the media.  They no longer keep us informed. They have an agenda.  One of my friends sent me a picture showing the attack on the south tower of the World Trade Center on 9.11.  The revised caption from CNN read, “8 Arabs die in tragic plane crash.” 

The media also reported that the Rabbi’s were “ultra-orthodox.”  The reporters have no idea what the “ultra-orthodox” are, but they are quick to apply a label.  There is a reason for this.  It is a tactic to divide the Jewish people. If we believe that it is just the “orthodox” that are the targets, then the rest of the Jewish nation can rest easy.  They are not after us. Anyone who can read the Hamas charter, listen to the leaders of ISIS and their brothers in Iran and elsewhere knows that is a crock.  There are still many people in our community who have numbers on their arm.   They will testify that evil does not discriminate.  There is no difference between Chassidic Chava and secular Anne.  Those who hate us hate all of us.  Abraham Lincoln said, “A house divided against its self cannot stand.”  The House of Jacob needs to be united.

After the attacks, the same people who danced on 9/11, danced again.  They offered sweets and congratulations.  The Jordanian parliament held a moment of silence for the terrorists.  Evil rejoiced.  It always does.

Our sages tell us that there are thirty-six righteous people in whose merit the world continues to exist.  They are supposed to be anonymous, but I think some of them were revealed to us last week.  After they buried their husbands and fathers, they asked us to participate in the Sabbath and its rituals.  They asked us to be good and do mitzvot.  They asked us to be kind to our fellow human being.  They looked in the face of baseless hatred and answered with abundant love.  They asked us to love     G-d, love our neighbour and love ourselves.  A grateful nation remembered the heroic sacrifice of Zidan Saif.  May his memory be a blessing to his family and to us.  The next day, the same synagogue that witnessed death observed an eight-day-old boy take his place among the Jewish people.

At this time I realize I cannot walk in their shadow.  I am still a work in progress.  I am very blessed to be a part of the Jewish people. 


Have a peaceful week,
Emuna

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#StirMarket: The Next Generation’s “Cheers”


” target=”_blank”>Stir Market and realize you are in The Next Generation's “Cheers!”

A place that feels like home and you can enjoy fabulous food with friends and family. They really might know your name here. Ask for Brian's mom's babka and Chef Chris's mom's chutney! Stop by in the morning for best ever pancakes and taste what happens when you brine chicken for two days, air dry for one and then rotisserie with lemon: Heavenly Perfection!

Feel good about your choices as the dream team of Chef Jet, Chef Chris, Mimi and Brian have pre-selected local seasonal premium food–it is prepared and ready for your tasting pleasure.

Wondering where to wander for breakfast, entertainment power lunch or wine by the keg happy hour? You just found your new favorite place on Beverly. Located at the corner of Beverly and Gardner, come soon so you can stake out your favorite spot at the long table.

Vegetarians and Meatarians are all welcome! Look for special nights and classes with ” target=”_blank”>Cutthroat Kitchen and ” target=”_blank”>Schwans home service of traditional Asian cuisine. If you purchase ingredients make sure to show off your creations online with the tag, #StirMarket. They want to know what you come up with! Maybe it will even make a future menu!

Happy Thanksgiving!

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