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September 18, 2013

Obituaries: Sept. 20-26

Gordon Boroditsky died July 23 at 76. Survived by wife Maureen; sons Leon, Marc (Sophie); stepdaughter Tamara Murphy; stepson Joseph Murphy; 2 grandchildren; 4 stepgrandchildren; sisters Gayla Pius, Lynn Ludwig. Mount Sinai

Pauline Chroman died July 23 at 77. Survived by sons Laurence (Nicole) Sutton, Randall Sutton; sister Burley Hoskins. Mount Sinai

Marion Cohen died July 20 at 89. Survived by daughter Lynne (Bob) Grigg; son Ronald (Irene) Allan; 2 grandchildren. Mount Sinai

Birdie Collins died July 24 at 98. Survived by daughter Marilyn Lewis; son William (Linda); 3 grandchildren; 6 great-grandchildren. Groman Eden

Sylvia Dyck died July 25 at 73. Survived by husband Victor; daughter Jennifer Brown; sons Matthew Brown, Christopher (Lisa), Michael (Jaime), Robert (Jennifer); 10 grandchildren; brother Eugene (Marsha) Nadel. Mount Sinai

Johny Elbaz-Deckel died July 23 at 72. Survived by wife Bonnie; sons David, Lonnie; sisters Diana Bastide, Fortunee Cohen, Sylvia Touboul; brothers Jacques Deckel, Ami.

Milton Farber died July 23 at 96. Survived by wife Constance; daughter Kathleen (Jerry Matthews); sons Richard (Cindy), Robert (Anna Lee); 7 grandchildren. Hillside

Beverly Geffner died July 24 at 84. Survived by husband Leo; daughter Meryl (Mark); sons David (Devon), Michael (Lily); 7 grandchildren; 6 great-grandchildren. Mount Sinai

Jack Gersuk died July 24 at 84. Survived by wife Helene; sons David (Marilyn), Geoffrey (Vivian), Matthew (Wendy); 6 grandchildren; brother Marvin. Mount Sinai

Alice Gluck died June 24 at 89. Survived by daughters Linda (Rodney) Fingleson, Michelle (Harry) Peck, Lisa (Cary) Richman, Sharon Ross; son Dennis (Estella); 7 grandchildren; 3 great-grandchildren; brothers Emerick (Brina) Schwartz, Joe (Eleanor) Schwarz, Mickey Schwarz. Mount Sinai 

Estelle Hankin died July 20 at 81. Survived by son Robert (Peggy); 3 grandchildren; 1 great-grandchild; sister Shirley Rich. Hillside

Edward Helfen died July 26 at 86. Survived by wife Betty; sons Alan (Jane), Mark (Vicki Schifferli), Spencer; 1 grandchild. Mount Sinai

David Honick died July 27 at 96. Survived by wife Ruth; stepsons Alan (Melissa), Jerry (Nancy), Richard (Allison); 9 grandchildren; 1 great-grandchild; sister Adeline (Lothar) Laub; brother Al. Adath Jeshurun Cemetery

Abraham Kaplan died July 26 at 87. Survived by daughter Judith Barbara (Harold) Hupe; son Randy (David McMaster); 3 grandchildren; brother Irving. Mount Sinai

Jack Lebovitz died July 22 at 90. Survived by daughter Susan (Moishe) Fuchs; son Sam (Catherine); 4 grandchildren; 5 great-grandchildren. Mount Sinai

Margaret Maimes died July 17 at 82. Survived by daughter Suzanne (Michael) Gassler; sons John (Kevin Honaker), Michael (Amy), Frank (Carolyn); 6 grandchildren; 4 great-grandchildren. Hillside

Mildred Margolis died July 24 at 82. Survived by daughter Gail; son Richard (Lisa); 1 grandchild. Hillside

Carl Moore died July 26 at 72. Survived by wife Emily; daughter Monica Boykoff; sons Aaron, Hunter, Sterling; 4 grandchildren. Malinow and Silverman 

Lawrence Moss died July 20 at 67. Survived by mother Lillian; cousins Ken Furth, Gerry Furth. Hillside

Hope Newman died July 25 at 89. Survived by husband Jerry; son Steven (Sharon Bakondy) Lerman; 3 grandchildren. Hillside

Charles Peskin died July 21 at 86. Survived by daughter Holly; son-in-law Sam Rozay. Groman Eden

Zachary Petrus died July 23 at 44. Survived by wife Gina; stepdaughter Jennifer Ash; mother Marcylee; father Earl; brother Jonathan. Hillside

Bernard Romanoff died July 23 at 90. Survived by daughter Anita (Marty) Kaplan; son Richard (Karen) Kaplan; 4 grandchildren. Mount Sinai

Bina Rosenberg died June 1 at 66. Survived by daughter Aviva (Norman); sister Rina. Chevra Kadisha

Howard Rosenberg died July 22 at 81. Survived by wife Gayle; daughters Susan (Michael) Battat, Molla; son Steven (Rebecca); stepsons Marc (Sharon) Grossman, Scott (JoEllen) Grossman; 7 grandchildren. Hillside

Judy Salamon died July 24 at 66. Survived by sister Esther Gyurik. Malinow and Silverman

Shirley Samson died July 17 at 90. Survived by daughters Judith (Robert) Haut, Loren; sons Andrew (Bonnie), David (Karen); 7 grandchildren. Mount Sinai

Lenore Schaeffer died July 19 at 71. Survived by husband Irwin; daughter Julianne Abbott; son Darren; 2 grandchildren. Mount Sinai

William Scott died July 22 at 76. Survived by wife Karen; daughters Kathleen (Keith) Wilson, Jennifer; sons Bob (Suzanne), David, Tom, William; 8 grandchildren; sister Margaret McFeely. Mount Sinai

Kate Serber died July 21 at 96. Survived by daughter Lorraine Barth; son Jerald (Sylvia); 4 grandchildren. Mount Sinai

Julius Shanker died July 21 at 100.  Survived by daughters Suzanne (Lawrence) Shanker Schwartz, Rita; 2 grandchildren. Mount Sinai

Robert Silverman died July 22 at 64. Survived by sons Josh (Loretta), Matthew (Misty); 2 grandchildren; sisters Jean Dodson, Marilyn Rehberger. Mount Sinai

Doris Slomann died July 25 at 83. Survived by daughters Jan Caplan, Judy Caplan, Jeannie (Doug) Cross, Julie (Chris) Mitsos, Joyce (Lenny) Ross; 5 grandchildren. Hillside

Shirley Stone died July 21 at 90. Survived by sons Bruce (Susan), Hal (Lynda), Michael (Charlotte); 8 grandchildren; 3 great-grandchildren. Hillside

Sheila West died July 17 at 69. Survived by husband Barry; daughter Karen Levine; son Steve; mother Mildred Blank. Mount Sinai

George Wikler died July 24 at 82. Survived by wife Nettie; daughter Betsy Lynn Sands; son Michael (Lori); 7 grandchildren; sister Marlene Brounstein. Mount Sinai

Grace Winnik died July 20 at 99. Survived by daughters Lynne (Neil) Rosenstein, Laurel (Lauren) Wasserman; son Larry (Elli). Mount Sinai

Renee Wisztreich died July 22 at 78. Survived by husband George; sons Edward, Phillip. Hillside

Celia Ziff died July 24 at 96. Survived by sons Barry (Leslie), Stephen (Lillian); 5 grandchildren; 6 great-grandchildren. Mount Sinai

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Keeping the Los Angeles coast clear

When it came time to choose a charity project for his September 2014 bar mitzvah, Ben Moody knew he wanted to support a cause close to his heart. “We’re always on our boat and at the beach, and we love the water,” Moody, 12, said of his Westlake Village family. He counts surfing and bodyboarding as some of his favorite activities. “I love the beach and everything about it,” he said.

Moody had taken part in Coastal Cleanup Day in 2009, an international volunteer event organized annually in Los Angeles County by the nonprofit Heal the Bay, and remembered how much fun it was to comb the sand and sea for trash and return his cherished environs to a more pristine state. So he decided to take part in this year’s Coastal Cleanup Day on Sept. 21 and raise funds to aid Heal the Bay’s work. 

“Everyone has been really supportive,” said Moody, who has raised more than $600 so far. “They all said it’s a really good project for me.”

Moody could be one of a record-breaking number of volunteers who will converge on polluted waterways around the world for Coastal Cleanup Day this Saturday, which organizers bill as the largest single-day volunteer event on the planet. In L.A. County alone, Heal the Bay will run more than 50 coastal and inland cleanup sites, which could draw up to 10,000 local volunteers for a morning of environmental teshuvah.

Founded in 1985 by the California Coastal Commission, Coastal Cleanup Day is managed in California by the Ocean Conservancy. This year marks Heal the Bay’s 24th year coordinating the effort in L.A. County, and organizers are now pushing a “zero-waste” approach to cleanup, said Alix Hobbs, Heal the Bay’s acting executive director. Volunteers are encouraged to bring their own protective gloves, reusable bags and buckets to collect trash, and should leave plastic water bottles at home. “This way, we’ll completely reduce the amount of trash that we produce for the event,” Hobbs said. In honor of Los Angeles’ recent ban on plastic bags, the first 100 volunteers to arrive at city cleanup sites will receive a free reusable bag.

Cleanup sites will span Malibu to Long Beach, but the central hub of activity will be the Santa Monica Pier. The day will kick off with a free “Peace on the Beach” peace circle hosted by Naam Yoga, and volunteers can later watch a dory race or take part in a stand-up paddleboard clinic taught by professional trainers. In the afternoon, all volunteers will be granted free admission to the Santa Monica Pier Aquarium. 

Volunteers can collect trash in a variety of ways: on foot, by kayak at some sites, or by paddleboard. At the Santa Monica Pier, along with a select few other coastal sites, scuba-certified divers will also have the chance to scour for underwater debris. 

“It’s a fun experience,” Hobbs said. “We start the day with yoga — cleanse your body, cleanse your mind, and then go ahead and clean the beach as well. We want to make the overall event fun for families. But underlying the day is the message that every day should be Coastal Cleanup Day. We need to think about, what can we do every day to make sure our trash doesn’t end up in our storm drains, in our oceans?”

About 6.4 million tons of litter enter the oceans each year, advocacy groups estimate. Eighty percent of that litter comes from waste on land — cigarette butts, bottle caps, fast-food wrappers and other items that often end up in street sewers eventually make their way into rivers and streams, and from there into the ocean. 

Since California began participating in Coastal Cleanup Day in 1985, more than 800,000 volunteers have removed more than 14 million pounds of trash from along the coast. Last year, statewide, 62,668 volunteers gathered 728,289 pounds of trash and 143,291 pounds of recyclables from cleanup sites spanning 1,500 miles. About 9,000 L.A. County volunteers cleared away some 40,000 pounds of debris — about 20 tons — before it reached the ocean.

“We eliminate an enormous amount of trash before the October rains, when it all gets flushed to the ocean,” Hobbs said. “We want to get the trash out before that happens — out of our alleyways, out of storm drains, off of beach sites.”

Coastal Cleanup Day often draws Jewish community and synagogue volunteer groups as well as b’nai mitzvah students raising funds for charity projects. Volunteers range in age from toddlers to seniors and include youth groups, school clubs, sororities and fraternities, Boy Scouts and religious institutions. 

This year’s Coastal Cleanup Day falls during a time of transition for Heal the Bay. On Sept. 16, Ruskin Hartley, former executive director of the Save the Redwoods League in San Francisco, took over as the Santa Monica nonprofit’s new CEO. Heal the Bay will remain close to its founding mission to protect and preserve Southern California’s coastal waters and watersheds, said Hobbs, who will stay on as associate director. Next year the organization will hold its first strategic planning meeting since 2010 to discuss new challenges, like climate change — but its work will retain a regional focus, Hobbs said. 

This Coastal Cleanup Day will be Hobbs’ 15th. “For me, seeing the volunteer numbers increase every year, over time … we’ve really made an impact,” she said. 

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Academy for Jewish Religion moves to Koreatown

For the first time since the Academy for Jewish Religion, CA (AJR-CA), was founded 13 years ago, the pluralistic institution that trains rabbis, cantors and chaplains has its own space. The school moved from Westwood into the Koreatown neighborhood of Los Angeles earlier this month.

“It just seemed like the right place, the right time, and that’s why we moved. And everyone is very excited about it,” said Tamar Frankiel, president of the transdenominational seminary.

With the move, AJR-CA has joined Bet Tzedek Legal Services and the Jewish Journal in an office building at 3250 Wilshire Blvd., near Vermont Avenue. The 6,500-square-foot space, which includes six classrooms, eight administrative offices, a library and a faculty lounge, is adjacent to a large outdoor terrace area shared by the building’s tenants.

Several factors prompted the move from Westwood, where the school outgrew the campus it had been sharing on the property of the Hillel at UCLA. The incoming AJR-CA class is 40 percent larger than the 2013 graduating class, Frankiel said.  

While Koreatown is not exactly thought of as a conventionally Jewish area, times are changing: an increasing number of Jews are living and praying in and around Koreatown, including with the recent reopening of the renovated Wilshire Boulevard Temple. 

None of this has been lost on Frankiel. 

“We like to think that we’re moving to an urban neighborhood, a neighborhood growing in terms of Jewish institutions and accessible to different Jewish populations,” she said.

Unfortunately, some among the school’s 65 students will have a longer commute than before, Frankiel said. But there’s always public transportation — the location is near the Wilshire-Vermont subway stop and several bus stops. 

Frankiel believes the positives outweigh the negatives.

“Everyone who has been there has been like, ‘Wow! This is so great.’ So I feel wonderful about it, and so does everyone who has come to see the space.”

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After-school kosher kitchen nourishes body and soul

It was Stephanie Levi’s first time with her two sons enjoying an early dinner at the new after-school kosher kitchen in Pico-Robertson. She plans on coming back for more. 

“It’s really helpful to fit it into the routine after school,” said Levi, whose children go to school around the corner from the kitchen, which is located at Tiferet Teman, a Sephardic synagogue on Pico Boulevard.

Created to serve children of families experiencing financial hardship, the kitchen, which opened on Aug. 26, serves free, hot meals to any Jewish children who come, and to the parents, siblings or guardians who bring them. The kitchen is open from 4:30 to 7 p.m. Monday through Thursday, and offerings include schnitzel, meatballs, chicken, potatoes, matzah ball soup, tilapia and pastries.

“We are happy to accept anybody from a Jewish family,” said Ifat Shlomi, one of the kitchen’s lead organizers. “Whoever needs it can come and enjoy the food.”

The kitchen was opened by Shlomi, Sharon On of Bazilikum Catering and Rabbi Moshe Yazdi, who lives in Jerusalem and runs two similar kitchens in Israel. He also leads American Friends of Amude Hashalom, a nonprofit group based in Los Angeles that serves those in need in the Jewish community.

On a recent Thursday, about 15 parents and children filtered into the synagogue to fill their plates with food. They sat down to eat dinner as a family, and even played with the dozens of toys that the kitchen provides.

One of Levi’s children, Yosef, came over from playing with his brother to shyly discuss his food of choice on his inaugural visit to the kitchen: “the soup.”

The food is prepared daily by On, the caterer, just around the corner at Temple Beth Am’s Pressman Academy. She cooks food for about 400 children daily for school lunches, and now also for the roughly 30 children that have shown up most days at Tiferet Teman.

“I want to come up to 100 kids every day and give them homemade food and fresh food,” On said.

One mother, who asked that her name not be used, said that the new kosher kitchen saves her significant time every day preparing dinner for her six children.

“I work in the morning, and then I go to pick up my kids, so you don’t have a chance to prepare the dinner,” she said.

Another mother, who also asked that her name not be used, said that her youngest daughter prefers the taste of the food at Tiferet Teman to the food at home.

“She eats very good [here]. At home she doesn’t,” the mother said. “I’m a single mother, and it’s a lot of help.”

Yazdi, speaking over the phone from Israel, said he envisions this project eventually extending beyond only providing meals, including providing things like cookware and clothing to those who need.

“It doesn’t end with the food,” Yazdi said. “We see these kids as our own kids. We want to take care of them from A to Z.”

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Our Own Little Huts

Round this time of year, we see many little huts cropping up around town. Small and fragile little spots, often decorated by the loving hands of children and their parents, house families and guests for many a meal or daring sleepover for the next 8 days or so.

I’ve been thinking about these huts differently this year. I have been noticing that we build our own huts internally, and if we are not careful, we allow ourselves, our hurts and frustrations, to be the material for the walls and the emptiness we feel from these perceived wrongs from our friends and family the only thing that accompanies us. Instead of using our huts as sources of nourishment we use them instead as means to separation and isolation.

Meta-messages I think they can be called. These are the in between things that we sometimes glean from the spontaneous comment from another. A stranger in line at the bank. The difficult seeming authority figure on the phone. These messages become even more weighty when they come from the mouth of a loved one. “You watching the game?” This kind of query can turn from a simple question into a perceived accusation. “Careful not to leave anything behind, can morph from a loving reminder to a deep personal dig at someone’s irresponsible nature.

Both parties of communication need to take an active part in the dialogue in order for these meta messages to be addressed. The person delivering the message needs to really check in- is there truth behind the perceived judgment? And if so, maybe there is a more specific way to address it with the other? And the person listening- are you really listening with ears in the present? Or are your stored up feelings of accusation causing you to hear even this one simple remark also from that voice?

These messages can underline our personal” huts”, making it impossible for others to be invited in. And that can only lead to suffering. Protection from the hurtful barbs of another of course can be helpful. But not in simple reactive mode. Rather, than build a whole house away from those we love whose messages you might be weighed down with our wrong (or right!) perceptions, we need to learn to take the more difficult road, the road toward honest communication. Hey, what did you mean by that, because this is what I heard you say, and that sort of conversation openers….

Difficult maybe, and worth it. For a few minutes of uncomfortable dialogue might be worth years of happier hut sharing time.

In peace,

Michelle

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Guest Post by Hillary Selvin: Reflections of Our Lives

Hillary Selvin is the Executive Director of the National Council of Jewish Women/Los Angeles and enjoys the spirituality that comes with being in the outdoors surrounded by the beauty of nature.

“Like sands through the hourglass, so are the days of our lives”.

Remember that opening line from the TV soap opera series? I might be aging myself here but when we reflect about those words what do we really think about? From my own experiences as a three time cancer survivor the reflection that comes during this time of year, especially for me during Kol Nidre, is the power of our bodies to heal and the ability to keep moving forward. Who we become is a reflection of the challenges we have met throughout our lives.

When you look at the hourglass it seems that in the beginning the sand goes slower and the pebbles are easily seen. As the sand continues to fall it bunches up and some pebbles pass through the narrow part of the hourglass more easily than others. By the time you get to the end and all of the sand has reached the bottom of the hourglass, we see the pebbles spread out and flowing through until the last one drops down.

Just as the pebbles begin overlapping, so do our lives. In the beginning things are smoother and as life goes on we see more challenges. In the end our choices in life become clearer. In today’s world we talk about life transitions. When we are young the world is before us and we feel we can conquer anything. We choose our friends and careers based on what we dream we want to be or what falls into our laps because of choices we make. Life is ahead of us and we cannot wait for what is around the corner.

As we continue to grow the years start moving too quickly. Before we know it we have graduated high school and college and are working. The world we live in revolves around making it through life, getting better jobs, family, and other responsibilities. Our dreams become less fulfilled as everyday life gets in the way. Health is still pretty good and we are enjoying our best years. It is a time for us as adults to continue to choose our paths; for many revolving around work and family. It is a time to find balance in our lives. So many things we need to deal with; the choices we have made and the challenges that have confronted us.

Then the years really start getting behind us and the saying that the years go by so much more quickly as you get older really rings true. We begin to reflect on our youth, the choices we have made and we want to figure out where we’ll go next in our lives. Health, which for most of us has never been too much of an issue, all of a sudden becomes part of our everyday reality. We are now aging and our bodies are telling us that all the fun we had in our 20 – 40’s is catching up with us, but that does not mean we are going anywhere.

Our past and the challenges we have faced do not define us but become part of who we are, reflecting our choices, our loves and our lives. As a matter of fact, these can be our most amazing years as we put our experiences, knowledge and hopefully some of our wisdom to good use. Today it is called third chapter. Our life his full of different chapters, behind us and ahead of us, but the third chapter I believe is the best time for us to truly make an impact and difference for ourselves, those around us, and the world. It is really not that difficult.

So… “Like sands through the hourglass, so are the days of our lives”. My goal is to make each day count and to remember that as the sand bunches up it also thins out to reach its destiny. I hope for you all that as the road becomes clearer you may find your destiny.

L’Shana Tova

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Artist displays what’s missing in a ‘Box’

It’s hard to believe that Dwora Fried — a native Austrian with unruly, fiery red hair, a lesbian, world traveler, mother of four and daughter of a Holocaust survivor — is able to create artwork just as complicated, dynamic and vivacious as herself, all within a wooden box that’s only 31 centimeters wide, 21 centimeters high and 8 centimeters deep.

Each box is open on one side, revealing a complex scene within. 

In one, chairs hang from the ceiling and walls, a young boy in a Nazi salute stands in an open door with his pants down, a young girl stands behind a screen, and slippers sit on the floor. 

Fried prefers not to discuss her work because she believes everyone should interpret the art in his or her own way, but every box has a story with meaning to the artist. 

The Hancock Park resident recently had her artwork displayed in the Museo Ebraico di Venezia (the Jewish Museum of Venice) in the New Ghetto of Venice, Italy, as the exhibition “Outsider in a Box.” The show ran from June 2 to Sept. 12. Next, it will move to Vienna, where it will be on display at the Galerie Benedict from Oct. 17 to Dec. 17. 

Born in the Austrian capital, Fried has been creating art for as long as she can remember. After growing up in Vienna, she moved to Israel in 1968, attending Tel Aviv University and Avni Institute of Art and Design, getting married and raising two children. In 1978, Fried moved to Los Angeles and met her current partner. The two celebrated their 32nd anniversary on Aug. 22. 

Fried has always focused on her artwork, but also spent some time working at Jewish Family Service of Los Angeles. Fried said it has taken her 62 years to finally fully dedicate herself to her art. 

Fried said she gains artistic inspiration from her background. Her recently deceased mother was sent to the Nazi death camp Auschwitz at the age of 11, stripped of any real childhood or innocence. She was later liberated in Bergen-Belsen after walking what was known as a “death march.” Then, weighing close to 70 pounds, she was hospitalized with typhus. 

Fried’s mother moved to Israel after the war with her sister and brother-in-law, eventually meeting Fried’s father and moving to Vienna, where she lived until her death in April 2013. 


Dwora Fried

In honor of her mother’s lost youth, Fried searches flea markets around Europe for kids’ toys from the 1940s and ’50s. Old toys, dolls, miniature figures and other children’s paraphernalia often appear in Fried’s work. 

There are specifically Jewish undertones, too. For Fried, Judaism is connected to the Holocaust — a negative connotation to her religion that creates a certain inner struggle. 

“What I’m trying to express is the dichotomy between growing up Jewish and having Judaism really be muffled by all the stuff that was connected to it,” Fried said.

As a result, Fried said she’s never felt any real sense of belonging anywhere during her life.

“I keep re-creating the feeling of what it was like growing up. That’s pretty much it, even when I do stuff that has nothing to do with my childhood per se, I can recognize that feeling of impending doom, not belonging, a kind of anxiety.” 

Fried said as a child she felt she had to tiptoe around her mother, afraid if she asked the wrong question her mother might keel over from a heart attack and die. 

In part, this anxiety explains Fried’s choice of a box as the vehicle for her art. She said the box can portray a lot but also captures the claustrophobic feeling a painting can’t, as it exceeds two-dimensional limits and has a foreground and background someone can touch.

Having lived in Vienna, Tel Aviv and now Los Angeles, Fried said she still searches for the feeling of home. Her art, she said, reflects this inability to handle a part of her identity.

Despite this struggle, she may have found a temporary solution in her work.

“I always used to see my friends being patriotic or religious or having some kind of thing that they belonged to, and I never had that feeling,” Fried said. “Doing art makes you belong to whatever you’re doing at that moment. I belong to my art.”

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A homeless heart for Sukkot

I want to tell you about a man I’ll call Jack. Jack was a man who slept under the 405 underpass that I cross on my walk to synagogue every Shabbat. For a long time, I didn’t really see him. He was tucked away in the bushes next to the on-ramp. But that’s not what kept me from seeing him. Angelenos like Jack who sleep among the concrete and refuse are, to most in our city, nothing more than landscape. Our own hustle and bustle has caused a moral blindness that prevents us from taking notice of them. The voice of our ethical exhaustion tells us that these folks are simply the price we pay for living in a city. And so we don’t see them. 

I didn’t see Jack until he waved at me one Shabbat morning and I waved back. This became a weekly ritual. Then, one Shabbat, while walking to synagogue, I stopped and talked with Jack. Sitting there next to the 405, I found out that Jack is a veteran. He served our country overseas and experienced the carnage of war. When Jack came home, he couldn’t put the shards of his life together. To cope with his trauma, Jack fell into the vicious cycle of pain, addiction and self-abuse that landed him there next to the freeway. There we were together, face to face, me in my suit and he in ragged old clothes. And for the first time, I really saw this man. I saw inside him, his pain, his shame and, most importantly, his humanity. 

After shul, I gathered together some food, a bottle of water and some materials with information on getting help from a social service agency. But when I arrived at the underpass, he was gone. At first I thought he had moved on. But later I learned from a police officer that Jack had been arrested for sleeping beneath the underpass. 

This bothered me a great deal and it still bothers me. As a family man it bothers me. As an American it bothers me. As a veteran it bothers me. But most importantly, as a Jew it bothers me. 

The author Alice Hoffman said, “Once you know some things, you can’t unknow them. It’s a burden that can never be given away.” That’s especially true of people who, having fallen on hard times, can’t seem to pick up those shattered pieces of their lives. 

There are nearly 60,000 people in Los Angeles who sleep on the streets every night. Twenty percent of all homeless are veterans like Jack. And the outlook for their future is not bright. Now that the wars in Iraq and Afghanistan are ending, experts are anticipating a “reverse surge” of veterans. They predict that 31,000 veterans will become homeless in Los Angeles in the next two years. The statistics are staggering and shameful. 

This great country has brought prosperity to so many. If we can build a society that lets a man take a small step on the moon, place Old Glory on the Sea of Tranquility and call that a victory for humanity, why can’t we build a country that lets every family take a small step across the threshold of a home? 

As Jews, there can be no argument that since our people left the dark ghettos of Europe and the sun-baked streets of Tehran we’ve made it. We can attend any university, belong to any club and do business with any person we like. The mayors of the three largest cities in America are Jewish. Three of the most powerful elected officials in Los Angeles are Jewish. We’ve made it.

But in the eyes of our tradition, we haven’t made it. Not yet. 

When Moses dreamed of a future for our people, he envisioned us settled in a land flowing with milk and honey. Yet, at the pinnacle of our flourishing, the Torah teaches that we stand before the priest and the congregation in Jerusalem, holding the bounty of our harvests, affirming our identity as Jews. At that moment, when we can say, “We’ve made it,” the Torah instructs us to say, “My father was a homeless Aramean who went down to Egypt with meager numbers and resided there … when we cried out to the Lord, the God of our ancestors, the Lord heard our cry and freed us from Egypt.”

Moses’ vision for our personal prosperity is to truly enjoy the fruits of our labor, but not to make material gains our identity. We are not only our wealth. Our lives began in a much earlier time, an ancient time, thousands of years ago, back to Jacob, back to Abraham, who left their homes, as wandering homeless men. Our Torah teaches us that in all our settledness, in all our wealth, in all our power, in all our privilege, there is still, deep inside each one of our chests, beating with the steady thumping of time, a homeless heart. 

We are Adam and Eve, who were exiled from their home. We are Noah and his family, who had to make a home aboard a ship among turbulent seas. We are Abraham, who left his home and wandered in search of the Promised Land. We are Jacob, who left his home to find himself and to build a nation. We are Joseph, thrown into the pit, far away from home. We are Moses, who left his home and found God in the desert. We are the people of Israel, who crossed the sea, wandered the wasteland and were exiled, homeless for thousands of years. 

In the soul of every Jew, no matter how much we believe we’ve made it, we have not yet fulfilled the dreams of the prophets unless we remember that homeless hearts beat in our chests. 

And in this season, when we are commanded to build the sukkah, a symbol of God’s sheltering presence, can we be deaf to the beating of our hearts? The frailty of our sukkot should remind all of us of those whose homes are as fragile as the sukkah all year long. For once you see these fellow human beings as reflections of the Divine, you cannot stand idly by; your homeless heart must beat in time with theirs. 

The time to act is now. Valley Beth Shalom is taking a stand to work with those who want to end homelessness; to teach about this issue through our innovative art gallery and lectures; to work with others like Milken Community High School, New Jewish Community High School; and the Jewish Journal to collect signs from the homeless to build a Homeless Sukkah; and to work with coalitions of other organizations to advocate for a solution to this wrong. Let this New Year be a year when we can find a home for all.

To get involved in the Homeless Sukkah Project, visit the Facebook page at facebook/homelesssukkah or e-mail info@homelesssukkah.com.


Noah Farkas is associate rabbi at Valley Beth Shalom Synagogue in Encino.

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Bet Tzedek conflict over employees’ health insurance

The chant coming from Bet Tzedek Legal Services employees and their supporters as they marched on the streets of Koreatown on Aug. 22 was unified: “All day, all night, health care is a human right.”

For the past several months, the employees have been fighting with the pro bono legal firm’s management over proposed increases to the cost of their employer-sponsored health care, and they have been hitting the streets to make themselves heard. 

“We’re here to tell Bet Tzedek that we can go forward, even during difficult [economic] times, without destroying [workers’ health care],” said Marc Bender, a litigation and training supervisor, while leading a picket line on Aug. 22. The demonstration took place outside of the office building at 3250 Wilshire Blvd., where Bet Tzedek’s offices are located. Employees also demonstrated Sept. 11 in the same location. They marched and carried picket signs that read: “Don’t Bleed Our Health Care,” “Protect Our Families” and “Si, Se Puede!” (“Yes, We Can!”). 

Bet Tzedek (“House of Justice”) provides services to the poor and underserved in Los Angeles. Lawyers, legal secretaries, paralegals and clerical workers, who make up its 51 non-managerial employees, are unionized members of Bet Tzedek Legal Services Union/American Federation of State, County and Municipal Employees Local 946. 

The two sides began disagreeing over health insurance costs in the spring, several months after employees’ previous contract expired on Dec. 31, 2012. Management and employees have agreed to extend the terms of the previous contract while they negotiate, said Elissa Barrett, vice president and general counsel at the nonprofit. 

Bet Tzedek employees expressed satisfaction with the existing amount they have to pay toward their health care premiums. Currently, employees are fully covered as individals, and are required to pay $20 monthly for a spouse or $30 monthly for a family, if they choose HMO coverage. Juana Mijares, an intake supervisor, earns $49,000 annually  and said coverage for her family of five could cost her $650 monthly under a proposal she said the company is making. 

Barrett declined to specify the details of management’s proposals. “That’s a subject of negotiation,” she said. 

Increases to staff members’ contributions to their health care are necessary for the financial health of the organization, according to Barrett. Health care costs have been increasing over the past several years, leaving Bet Tzedek no choice but to pass a greater portion of the costs of insurance on to to its employees

“Our staff works very hard, they do a fantastic job, we value them greatly, [but] if we did not believe it was necessary for the survival and sustainability of this organization to tackle this health care issue, we wouldn’t be bringing it this strongly to the negotiating table,” she said.

The midweek August protest took place after work hours. Approximately 35 people marched at Wilshire Boulevard and New Hampshire Avenue. Among them was L.A. City Councilman Paul Koretz.

The ongoing disagreement between employees and management has attracted the attention of leaders in the local social justice moment. Those who turned out last month included Leslie Gersicoff, executive director of Jewish Labor Committee Western Region, and Rabbi Jonathan Klein, executive director of Clergy and Laity United for Economic Justice.

Meanwhile, Barrett told the Journal that the employees’ side has “refused to engage, refused to negotiate,” despite Bet Tzedek management offering three different proposals regarding employees’ health care premiums.

“I remain stubbornly hopeful that we will be able to get down to business at the bargaining table and see if there is a solution that we can all live with,” she said.

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“OY!”

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A SPECIAL MORNING WITH RABBI NAOMI LEVY

Start your day in a strong way, ladies. The Nashuva founder and spiritual leader speaks on “A New Day, A New Way” during a morning of discussion, growth and transformation. Learn about yourself as women, professionals, mothers, wives, daughters and friends. With breakfast under the American Jewish University sukkah, it will be a very special, very spiritual morning indeed. Wed. 10 a.m. $25 (nonmembers), free (University Women members). American Jewish University, Familian Campus, 15600 Muholland Drive, Bel Air. (310) 440-1283. THU | SEP 26

BILLY CRYSTAL

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