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June 19, 2011

HELPFUL HINTS FOR RESTAURANT ADDICTS

The internet is a treasure trove of restaurant discounts. 

My fave is ” title=”WWW.OPENTABLE.COM” target=”_blank”>WWW.OPENTABLE.COM is free to join, and I often use it to make reservations.  It’s faster than calling, plus there’s a savings plan.  Each reservation gives you one hundred points.  When you reach two thousand, you get a twenty-dollar credit. I like the idea of earning money while I eat. 

” title=”www.BLACKBOARDEATS” target=”_blank”>www.BLACKBOARDEATS sends you local offerings.  We got 30% off at our neighborhood Greek taverna. 

” title=”www.losangelesmenupages.com” target=”_blank”> www.losangelesmenupages.com  so that I can check the menu and prices of a restaurant before trying it.

OENOPHILE

Restaurants make more money on wine than food, so that bottle of Cab-Sav is way overpriced. I have a lawyer friend who actually has the guts to say, “I’ll have your second cheapest bottle of Chardonnay.” Note the choice of “second cheapest” rather than “cheapest.” Classy!

I often call ahead to ask the restaurant’s corkage fee. (That’s what they charge if you bring your own bottle.) If the fee is fifteen dollars or under, it’s a good deal. Word to the wise: the waiter will look at your bottle and comment on the choice, so avoid embarrassment and leave the Two-Buck-Chuck at home.

EAT TILL YOU DROP

I can never resist any kind of BUFFET restaurant. Just the idea that I can have as much as I want of whatever I want thrills my greedy little self to the core. Lots of Indian and Thai places offer buffet lunches, and there are many Korean all-you-can-eat barbecue restaurants that are open till 2 AM in case you have a midnight craving for short ribs.  I’m about to try one called Haejangchon in Koreatown.

HOITY-TOITY DINING

I occasionally splurge and enjoy an extra-fancy restaurant. Some places are a little too precious, and serve concoctions that bear no resemblance to real food. I avoid them at all cost, not being a fan of squid-cheek mousse injected with watermelon sorbet.  But a lot of yummy swanky places have low-cost specials on certain days.

In Los Angeles, for example

• Jar has Mozzarella Monday
• Campanile has Grilled Cheese Thursday
• JiRaffe offers a twenty-four dollar three-course meal with seven-dollar wine carafes on Mondays.
• Lucques has a thirty-five dollar four-course Sunday dinner.

These special offerings are not just for peasants like me: I ran into Patricia Heaton – an old friend from acting class – at Campanile’s grilled cheese night.

 

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Facebook’s Goodness Shines Upon Jews

Jews, I have discovered in previous research, have a much greater participation on social networking sites such as Facebook than the general population.

The Pew Internet and American Life’s new survey on social networking sites has found that the number of people on social networking sites has more than doubled since 2008 and that people with Facebook accounts have a higher degree of social well-being than those without.

The high penetration of Facebook into the American Jewish Population may greatly aid in the creation, maintenance of community.

I find it really convenient to keep up with my friends around the world especially Israel, making my connection with Israel practical rather than only spiritual.

Are social networking sites such as Facebook to be encouraged among our youth to make them better Jews?

Pini Herman serves as President of the Movable Minyan a lay-lead independent congregation in the 3rd Street area.

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Jewish, Lebanese-American congressmen target Hezbollah

An influential Jewish congressman has joined with three Lebanese-American colleagues to sponsor a bill cutting off American aid to Lebanon, as long as Hezbollah remains part of the country’s ruling coalition government.
The unusual alliance, cutting across ethnic and political lines, was initiated by Democrat Howard Berman (Van Nuys) and includes Darrell Issa (R-CA), Charles Boustany (R-LA) and Nick Rahall (D-WV).
Designated as the Hezbollah Anti-Terrorism Act (HATA), the bill seeks legislation “to make certain that no U.S. taxpayer funds benefit the terrorist organization Hezbollah or any party that allies itself with Hezbollah,” Berman said in a phone interview Friday (6/17) from his Washington office.
Berman drafted and introduced HATA a few days after the formation of a new Lebanese government “forged by Hezbollah and led by a Hezbollah-designated prime minister [Najib Mikati],” Berman said.
The California legislator, formerly the chairman and now the ranking Democrat on the House Foreign Affairs Committee, termed his alliance with the three Lebanese-American congressmen as “very unusual.”
He attributed the support by his three colleagues to their deep concern over Hezbollah’s threat to freedom and democracy in their ancestral homeland, overriding any differences with Berman on Israeli-Palestinian issues.
Issa commented that “Hezbollah is a terrorist group and a cancer on Lebanon. This bill surgically targets this cancer.”
Currently, Lebanon annually receives $200 million in aid from the United States, of which $105 million goes for security assistance. The new bill specifically provides for continued support for humanitarian, educational and democratic institutions in Lebanon.
Berman said that the White House and State Department “knew generally” about the contents of HATA, before he introduced the bill.

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Dear Kids, Happy Father’s Day! Love, Dad

My two youngest sons, aged four and eight, hid some notes for me under the decorative challah cover Friday night. As I went to make the ceremonial blessing over the challah, in front of a dozen guests, five letters slipped out onto the table. My little angels were beaming at me, excited that I would be reading these notes at that moment perched between the benediction over the wine, and the bread. At that awkward moment, between washing our hands, and blessing over the bread which mark the start of the traditional Sabbath dinner, Father’s day arrived.

The notes, written in crayon on paper, were expressions of love, even claiming that I might in fact be the “Greatest Dad in the World.”

“Really?” I think to myself, “what have I done lately to deserve that kind of accolade and recognition?” As if there were such a metric to be measured, some kind of nationwide American Dad competition.

I start running through things I did recently. Yes, I fixed the broken window that had been shattered the previous weekend when a stray fly-ball smashed through the second floor bedroom window.

I bought a big balloon that said “CONGRATS!” for the kids when they finished the school year. (Really that balloon was for my wife, who survived another year of homework.)

“What have I done to deserve any recognition of my contribution to Fatherhood,” I contemplated, ”Beyond ensuring that they are clothed, fed, safe from harm, consoled, encouraged, nurtured and…”

And then it hit me this morning. “…I’m proud to be your Dad.”

Yes, I am proud of you when you mess up, and when you hit a home run. I’m proud of you when you smile at the frozen yogurt machine, as the delicious dessert starts oozing its way from the machine, and when you are inconsolable after the Lego ship was smashed into little pieces when I stepped on it on my way out of their bedroom.

I’m proud of you when you refuse to be cowed into submission by irate adults who take out their own parenting issues on you, and then can’t be grown-up enough to apologize.

I’m proud of you when they show self-restraint as you pass by candies and delights that don’t bear a kosher symbol, and I am proud of you when you can’t stop pleading with me for what you say you need most in life — another one of those $7 plastic toys made China that transform from a ball to monster and back.

Kids, I’m proud to be your dad, and always will be. But I wonder, what have I done to deserve your pride in me?

That you continue to be proud of me — 
with me losing my temper,
working too hard,
missing graduation from Kindergarten,
having to make time for pastoral counselling at all hours of the day,
marking you as the rabbi’s kids without your consent,
imploring you to not punch one another,
to be nicer to your mom,
making you brush your teeth,
being allergic to dogs, cats, and other furry pets,
withholding from you the Disney Channel, cheeseburgers, Heelys, motorized scooters, BB guns and other potentially lethal influences—
is the greatest gift in the world that I could ever have.

Kids, thank you for continuing to believe in me, as much as I believe in you.

Happy Father’s Day,

Love,

Dad

_____________________

Yonah Bookstein is a proud father of four. Follow him on Twitter @RabbiYonah.

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Catholic University getting rid of coed dorms

Catholic University is getting rid of its coed dorms. Seems the administration thinks this will “curtail the binge drinking and casual hookups of students.” But based on the restrictions Catholic already had—segregating men and women in coed dorms to separate floors or wings and enforcing “visiting hours”—I don’t really understand why they think separating men and women into entirely different buildings will make a difference.

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Lenin’s Jewish grandfather

” target=”_blank” title=”they’ve claimed”>they’ve claimed that Vladimir Lenin was a secret Jew. You know, just another ” target=”_blank” title=”Time”>Time reports:

This fascinating morsel of information, gleaned from declassified KGB files, is not a minor detail in a country where anti-Semitism was a recognized state doctrine for decades. Starting in the 1930s, the Soviet regime —spurred on by its leader Joseph Stalin — launched a violent discriminatory campaign against Jewish citizens.

Born in 1870, Lenin identified himself simply as Russian. His official biography mentions only his Russian, German and Swedish origins. But one of the exhibition’s priceless pieces adds a key new element to the official narrative.

In a letter to Stalin in 1932 — six years after Lenin’s death — Anna Ulyanova, Lenin’s older sister, wrote that their maternal grandfather “came from a poor Jewish family and was, according to his baptismal certificate, the son of Moses Blank.” Blank was born in Zhitomir, Ukraine. In her letter, Ulyanova said her brother “had always thought highly of Jews.” She also urged Stalin to reveal Lenin’s Jewish background, concluding that “it would be wrong to hide it from the masses.”

Stalin, however, ordered Ulyanova to keep Lenin’s Jewish roots under wraps. A few years later, Stalin began to purge Jews from among the leaders of the revolution.

It is, of course, significant that neither Lenin’s mother nor Lenin were Jewish. So what does it matter that Lenin had Jewish ancestors?

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NY’s run at same-sex marriage

The big news in New York this week is not Anthony Weiner. It’s a same-sex marriage bill that is teetering on the passage.

Here’s the story from the Associated Press:

Gov. Andrew Cuomo said he was cautiously optimistic his gay marriage bill will soon become law as he held more one-on-one negotiations Friday with Senate Republicans. The Republicans who hold the critical votes say they worry Cuomo’s bill doesn’t adequately protect religious groups and churches that refuse to preside over same-sex weddings and other services.

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“There has been no decision — in fact that really was not the discussion — as to whether it will come out yet, who’s voting for it, who’s voting against it,” Majority Leader Dean Skelos said immediately after Friday’s two-hour conference.

The Long Island Republican said senators for and against gay marriage want to make the sure that if the bill gets a floor vote there won’t be “unintended consequences to this legislation” — a reference to religious protections.

As Cuomo says later in the story, the concern is with not imposing state action—the business of marriage ceremonies—on religious individuals who feel a religious to not officiate such same-sex weddings.

The bill seems to be moving pretty quickly, and it appears that NY legislatures want to resolve the religion issue quickly. One question, though, is whether passage of a law permitting same-sex marriage would lead to the short of voter revolt that California experienced in response to ” title=”legal drama” target=”_blank”>legal drama that has NY’s run at same-sex marriage Read More »

THE ATOMIC HAND

                                                                        THE ATOMIC HAND

There hasn’t been a substantial change to mah jongg sets since 1964, when the League ruled that sets should contain 8 Jokers.  Before that, 2 and then 4 Jokers were mandated in the early 60s and before that there were no “official” Jokers.  Sets sometimes came with up to 22 Flowers, which could be used as Jokers.  And it’s been almost 50 years that any substantial changes to the traditional card and its hands have been made.  And actually, although the hands do “change” year to year, they still remain basically the same.

I have recently been made aware of something new—called “Atomic Hand”  or “Nuclear Hand”.  Sounds Explosive!  It’s a hand that consists of Pairs—any Pairs.  I confess, a friend, in passing, said her group was playing it and reported that lots of people are playing it and it was great fun. Unfortunately, I didn’t have much time to pursue the details.  So I don’t know what the parameters, restrictions, its monetary value, etc. are. Does “Any Pairs” mean Dragons, Winds,  Flowers,  any Suits,  etc. to make up an Atomic Hand?

So, if any of you are familiar with it or have seen it or have played it, please let me know what you know.  I would be really grateful and would love to try it myself.  Maybe, even the League might like to hear about it……

You can leave a “Comment” or email me at elasan@msn.com. And thanks!

Til the next time…
MAY THE TILES BE WITH YOU!

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Tainan, Taiwan: Can I help you? (video)

“Can I help you?” is a great thing to hear while traveling. At home, I rarely hear anyone offer to help. Over the last two years on my two-mile walk home to and from school, I have called 911 several times after a traffic accident. I am trained as a first responder from working on cruise ships, at camps and at schools. It would not occur to me not to call but each time a by-stander or someone in the accident is so thankful that I called and helped at the scene. It shocks me that someone would not call or step up but most people don’t.

I do notice while we are in a foreign country how much I appreciate someone offering his or her assistance. In Taiwan, any time we looked lost even for a moment a kind person offered to help us. From the moment we exited the Metro in ” title=”Tasty Tainan” target=”_blank”>Tasty Tainan

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