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July 21, 2010

Thank You, Robert Gibbs

If Robert Gibbs hadn’t said that Democrats may lose the House in November, then House Democrats might not have been so infuriated that the president himself had to
travel to Capitol Hill to let them vent.

And if Obama hadn’t personally heard how enraged they are by Senate Republicans, and how galled they’ve been by the White House’s clueless kumbayas, then he might not have come to his senses in his weekly address on Saturday, when he drove a stake through the heart of the post-partisan vampire that has possessed him since his election.

It wasn’t an angry talk. He used the same level voice that has enabled the “professorial” put-down to be attached to him by his critics. Nevertheless, he made a merciless, convincing case that cynical filibustering by Mitch McConnell’s disciplined minority is the enemy of economic recovery.

He hammered Senate Republicans for using procedural tactics to block up-or-down votes on his plans to boost lending to small businesses and to give them tax incentives to hire workers, buy equipment and expand their companies.

He nailed the Republicans for standing in the way of extending unemployment insurance and for retailing the canard that a few hundred dollars a week will transform jobless Americans into welfare queens.

He drove home the point that people out of work will spend unemployment benefits quickly, which will do more to boost local economies than the Republican answer to everything: more tax cuts for the rich.

It was so simple and effective a take-no-prisoners case that it raises the question: What took you so long, Mr. President?

If you listened to Joe Biden on ABC’s Sunday show “This Week,” you’d think that the White House’s real difficulty has been that wheezy workhorse, a communications problem — their message’s inability to break through to the beleaguered American people, who “don’t know a lot of what’s going on.” Yep, we have to do a better job telling our story: the universal faux mea culpa of low-polling politicians.

To be sure, this administration could be doing a way better job touting successes like health care and Wall Street reform. Whatever those acts’ shortcomings are — and the ones on my list aren’t trivial — they still represent historic accomplishments.

But I have no doubt that Obama and Senate Democrats would have had to bargain away much less — would have split differences from a position of strength, in the middle, instead of on the far right where they’d permitted the Republicans to drag the center — if only the White House had had the guts back then, instead of just now, to label McConnell’s tactics for what they really were, and if only Democrats had enforced a comparable discipline on the hapless ersatz statesmen in their own caucus.

The alleged desire of independent voters to “get beyond the partisan bickering” is a fairy tale, promulgated by chin pullers who have never worked in a campaign and by pollsters whose survey questions are worded to make it as impossible to profess skepticism about the dream of a peaceable political kingdom as to say you dislike apple pie.

I’d argue that if Obama and Senate Democrats — instead of effectively inviting Olympia Snowe, Chuck Grassley, Joe Lieberman and Max Baucus to grab them by the short hairs — had lived up to their 2008 mandate, exercised their power, drawn a line in the sand around core principles and given their partisan base something to bark and bite about, their legislative achievements would have been more impressive than the record they have now, and their success (or even their lack of it) would have warranted the political price they’re already paying anyway.

In a throwaway line on “This Week,” on his way to explaining the administration’s frustration, Biden referred to Senate Republicans as “a bunch of guys, who are good guys, but … .” That’s the animating folklore of the Senate: the collegiality of good, serious people who at the end of the day simply want to do right by the country. In truth, it’s less a mythology than a pathology, and both Biden and Obama had ample opportunity to drink that Kool-Aid when they served there.

I hope that Biden’s saying that was no more than a courtly flourish, or at worst an atavism he’s working to overcome. And I hope that Obama’s Saturday address turns out to be more than a one-off.

The bum hand he was dealt when he took office accounts for some of what’s pulling Obama down. So does some bad luck, and what White House Chief of Staff Rahm Emanuel calls “the G force” — the oil spill in the gulf, the debt crisis in Greece and the aftermath of Israel’s attack on a flotilla determined to break its Gaza blockade. But it’s not bad advice that’s been hurting Obama. With presidents, it never is. His standing, and his party’s prospects, will depend on how tenaciously he can hold on to what he seems to have learned from the House Democrats riled up by his press secretary: that he can do more for the country not by holding hands with Mitch McConnell around the campfire, but by taking names and kicking butt the way FDR did.

Marty Kaplan is the Norman Lear professor of entertainment, media and society at the USC Annenberg School for Communication & Journalism. He can be reached at {encode=”martyk@jewishjournal.com” title=”martyk@jewishjournal.com”}.

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Agent Questions

I spent part of last week on the phone with Dustin Hoffman’s and Meg Ryan’s people.

Various newspapers had reported that the actors had pulled out of planned appearances at the Jerusalem Film Festival to protest Israel’s handling of the Turkish flotilla. 

According to The Jerusalem Post, Cinematheque associate director Yigal Molad Hayo said that while neither Hoffman nor Ryan said they were withdrawing because of politics, “It became quite clear that this was the reason.”

The anti-Israel blogs and pundits celebrated this news with such gusto and schadenfreude, you’d almost think it was true.

It took two phone calls to Hoffman’s agent and publicist — and an e-mail to Ryan’s publicist — to get Hoffman’s and Ryan’s side of the story: It was false.

Hoffman did not pull out of the Jerusalem Film Festival to boycott Israel. He had never committed to going.

Ryan, through her publicist, said the same thing: She had been invited but had never accepted.

“Meg did not pull out of the Jerusalem Film Festival, as she never accepted the offer to attend,” her publicist, Stephen Huvane,e-mailed me. “She was invited, but her schedule did not allow her to attend the festival.”

The Jerusalem Post and The New York Times eventually printed small retractions to the initial large Hoffman stories, although the reports of a major Hollywood star “boycotting” Israel still show up as fact on myriad blogs and Web sites.

No news outlet has corrected the Ryan assertion or, it seems, even bothered to verify it.

The truth aside, the pro-Israel community practically sat shiva over the news. That because it seemed to jibe with the fact that the country’s vibrant cultural scene has been hit with a series of quite real cancellations lately, mostly by top musical acts: The indie rock band The Pixies canceled, along with alternative rockers Gorillaz, the British band the Klaxon, American singer Gil Scott-Heron and rock legend Carlos Santana.

Perhaps the cruelest cut came when pop legend Elvis Costello canceled two planned June concerts in Tel Aviv. That came in response to Israel’s May 31 attempt to redirect a Gaza-bound ship, during which nine passengers were killed.

Israeli have taken to calling this a “cultural intifada.” Instead of slinging stones or taking up arms, the country’s foes are trying to pressure Israel through an artistic boycott. Each cancellation has loud echoes on the Web and on college campuses, where a similar aspect of an earlier BDS movement (Boycott, Divestments, Sanctions) helped isolate and pressure apartheid South Africa.

The alarm bells are a little premature: Major acts like Elton John, Jethro Tull and Missy Elliott have openly resisted pressure to stay away.

But now, even erroneous reports of a boycott get all sides tied up in knots — a sure sign that the battlefield in the Middle East has grown to include media, pop culture and the arts.

That’s where we, the Jews of Los Angeles, come in.

The agents, managers, publicists and friends of many of these celebrities happen to live here. They can do their clients and companions a favor by pointing out how such a boycott plays into the hands of extremists and undermines the many powerful forces in Israel backing a just solution to the Palestinian issue.

If a client calls and wonders aloud if boycotting Israel is the right thing to do, here are three questions and a suggestion his or her agent can offer:

1. Are your facts correct? The Middle East crisis is a cesspool of misinformation. Breaking news stories are the most susceptible to lies and spin. The initial reports following the shooting of Muhammed al-Dura, the so-called massacre at Jenin, even the flotilla raid all proved exaggerated, misleading or false. Before you decide, make sure you get the facts. 

2. Are you being fair? Israel is an imperfect democracy. But poll after poll shows its people want to reach a just resolution to its problems with the Palestinians, and numerous Israeli governments have tried. For all its flaws, Israel doesn’t come close to the levels of social and political oppression, injustice, occupation, resource theft or cruelty that is common in Saudi Arabia, China, Russia, Syria or Egypt — to name a few. The American invasion and occupation of Iraq killed more innocents in seven years than Israel ever would or could — but no one’s boycotting the Staples Center. Why single out Israel?

3. Are you being effective? Once you are informed and you put Israel’s transgressions in perspective, by all means take the right action — speak out.  But speak out against extremists and fanatics on all sides. That’s the real battle here: between fanatics on all sides who want to perpetuate hate and deny the other side’s rights, and moderates on all sides who want a better future for their children. The band Jethro Tull donated proceeds from a concert to groups that bridge gaps between Jews and Arabs. Use your platform to support the many people in Israel fighting for a just solution. The artistic, musical and film communities are at the forefront of this struggle — your support for them can really make a difference.

Do you really want to be effective? Go to Israel today, and dedicate your talents to the forces for peace on all sides.

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Letters: Zasloff, Shul, and Israel

Offended by Asarah B’Av Cover

I, and many other Jews, both Orthodox and non-Orthodox, found the cover of The Jewish Journal extremely offensive regarding “What Are You Doing for Asarah B’Av” (July 16) by Jonathan Zasloff. The wording, “The time has come for us to acknowledge the dirty little secret of Tisha B’Av:  The destruction of the Temple was one of the best things ever to happen to the Jewish people …” [was] … extremely offensive to our beliefs on the saddest day in Jewish history.

I have really liked your covers in the past regarding Rosh Hashanah, Pesach, etc., [finding them] to be in good taste, and we like reading your paper. However, the Tisha B’Av statement on the cover is beyond controversial — it is just plain offensive.
In the future, it would be greatly appreciated and respectful to refrain from putting such statements on the cover of your newspaper.

Wendy Miller
Culver City

Jonathan Zasloff’s call for a Jewish hoedown on the 10th of Av reflects the well-worn beliefs of progressive Judaism and its outlook on the Torah, i.e. the idea that the Torah is a fraud that is not what it purports to be. If progressive Jews, following the academic view of the multiple authorship of the Torah, are correct, then the Torah is fictitious, unreliable and unworthy of the demands it makes of us. Contemporary American Jews owe it to themselves to investigate whether or not the Torah is a fraud, and to ask their religious leaders their answer to this question. Then they can decide whether they want to gyrate to the Kaddish d’Rabbanan with Jonathan Zasloff or take Judaism seriously.

Eyal Rav-Noy and Gil Weinreich

Rav-Noy and Weinrich, co-authors of the new book “Who Really Wrote the Bible? And Why It Should Be Taken Seriously Again,” can be reached at WhoReallyWroteTheBible.com.

Jonathan Zasloff responds:

If Mr. Rav-Noy believes that reading Talmud and Maimonides in the original somehow indicates a lack of respect for Torah, or honoring the towering spiritual achievement of the rabbis means that Torah is a fraud, then he is entitled to his opinion. Since he reads my call for festive prayer as the same as a “hoedown,” readers can judge for themselves as to his abilities to understand texts.  In any event, they need never worry about seeing him at a Purim or Simchat Torah celebration.

Honoring Their Memories

As an Old Testament/Hebrew Bible scholar, I know well the names of both professors Greenberg and Milgrom and we all are saddened by their passing (“Remembering the Temple, Its Destruction and Its Scholars,” July 16).

I recently completed a commentary on Leviticus that targets a more Christian audience. I can without hesitation say that I relied on Milgrom’s writings more than on any other. I was always relieved when I found myself in agreement with his conclusions, and I would voice an opposing conclusion with a significant level of trepidation. Milgrom’s work on Leviticus invigorated inquiry into a part of the Hebrew Bible that has traditionally been neglected, showing it to be a vibrant work that provides important insights into the thought/world of the ancient Israelites. The quality of his research has set a standard that perhaps will never be matched.

Professor Milgrom’s writings reveal the great relevance of Leviticus for the life of believers, both Christian and Jewish. His work should help all of us have a more balanced understanding of the Bible, which in turn will enrich the faith of those who cherish its contents.

Timothy M. Willis

Blanche E. Seaver Professor of Religion
Pepperdine University


Watch Your Language

With all due respect to Marty Kaplan (“Springtime for Schmucks,” July 9), whose columns I read often with great delight, the origin of the word “schmuck” is its original meaning: jeweler. Its use to describe the male organ comes much later and probably referred to the family “jewels.” Anyone traveling through Europe will notice the sign Smok and indeed my colleague and friend in Prague is Martin Smok, a fine filmmaker and guide to that fabled city.

Michael Berenbaum
via e-mail

Perhaps you are right.  Billboards prominently displaying the word “schmuck” do not mean the sky is falling (“Springtime for Schmucks,” July 9). It is, however, a continuation of degrading American culture and I do find it highly offensive. If your 5-year-old (or 10-year-old or 16-year-old) came home and said, “Dad, my teacher is a schmuck,” nearly all parents would find this unacceptable. So, on reaching maturity, such coarse and juvenile language should be left firmly behind.

Theatrical productions, we should demand, must be entertaining, enlightening, informative and, yes, even occasionally shocking. But to pointlessly shock for the sake of shock is tasteless and should be strongly discouraged.
I can only hope audiences will avoid the above film in droves so the producers, writers and actors will lose their shirts. A fitting punishment.

Joe Wagner
Los Angeles

Grateful for Life’s Work

In early 2001, I participated on a special solidarity mission to Israel with the Los Angeles Jewish Federation that was to change my life profoundly. When I returned, I had lunch with a group of mission participants and staff, and it was there that Lois Weinsaft encouraged me to apply to the HUC/USC double master’s program. The rest is history. I am now the Zone Director of Jewish National Fund for the Los Angeles area, and my life, thanks to the work it does, is dedicated every day to caring for the land of Israel, on behalf of its owners — Jewish people everywhere. Thank you, Lois.

JNF truly is the central address for Diaspora Jews to connect to Israel and if you don’t already know us and our work, I encourage you to learn more. Take a look at the organization that has been working for Israel since it was founded by Theodore Herzl in 1901. Your life may change as mine did.

Abby Fleishman Leviss
Los Angeles Zone Director
Jewish National Fund


Shul vs. School

I am confused at your choice to write a full spread two weeks ago about Young Israel of Beverly Hills (“Who Owns the Shul?” July 6), which affected a small subset of our community, compared to the minuscule five paragraphs on page 23 of the July 16 issue on the dismissal of three beloved and award-winning YULA teachers, which affects the entire Jewish community of Los Angeles. Your short contribution to this very large and very disturbing behavior by an institution as large, as well-respected and as influential as YULA speaks to the integrity of your paper. Why would what happens to a tiny, nondescript shul such as Young Israel be so tantalizing as to fill both the cover and many pages? And why is what one family does so much more important than what an entire institution such as YULA perpetrates? I know that this story was huge. You made mention of the Facebook page and strong support for the teachers. Where is your mention of the fact that these three teachers have educated over 10,000 of us in the past 31 years? Why wasn’t even one of their students interviewed? I think this should have at least warranted a cover and full spread. You gave 400 percent more coverage to Mel Gibson last week. Have you truly become the TMZ of the Jewish community? Frankly, we don’t really need it.

Tamar Andrews
Los Angeles

Editor’s note: As the story on Young Israel pointed out, what happened there has larger implications for all congregations and their boards. The YULA teachers’ situations deserved coverage, but their cases also involve personnel decisions by their employers, which remain confidential and which are specific to the individuals involved.

Correction
In a recent article, “The New Politics of Immigration” (July 9), an estimate of young people who would benefit from the DREAM act was noted as 66,000. After the article was printed, the Migration Policy Institute issued a statistical analysis with a much higher estimate of 825,000 young people nationwide who could obtain a conditional path to citizenship if the DREAM act passes. The MPI report can be viewed at: http://www.migrationpolicy.org/pubs/DREAM-Insight-July2010.pdf.

The Legacy of Lenny Bruce

So Lenny Bruce got in trouble for using the word “schmuck” (“Springtime for Schmucks,” July 9). So did I, for naming my rubber duck Ducky Schmuckenberg after I bought him in the Pocono Mountains in Pennsylvania on July 9, 1950. I can’t believe it’s been 60 years since Ducky came into my life.

One day when I was sick in bed my father overheard me refer to my two rubber friends as Duck and Bunny Schmuckenberg. He asked me what it was that I said. I said they were like Martin and Lewis or Abbott and Costello – funnymen – and Schmuckenberg sounded like a funny name.

My father told me “schmuck” was a Yiddish word for penis, and no son of his was going to call his rubber animals Schmuckenberg. I had precisely seven days to come up with a new name.

Seven days later he asked me if I had found a replacement name, and I said yes. From now on they would be Duck and Bunny Fuckenberg. Without going into a long explanation my father said that new word was worse, but he wouldn’t tell me why. I now had one day to come up with a new name, and I chose Schmöenberg.

Two years later Bunny’s rubber had deteriorated to the point that he had to go to rabbit heaven. Ducky’s new friend was a rubber Porky Pig doll (as in Warner Bros.), but there was no more Schmöenberg. Instead there was Ducky Schmöenberg and Porchester Pig. My father got mad at me on March 10, 1955 and tore my Ducky in half. That left only Porky. My mother pointed at Porky and said, “That’s your only remaining animal, and one false move and you lose him too.” Porchester Pig remains with me to this very day. And he has an imaginary friend I call Ducky Schmöenberg, Jr.

Rick Rofman
Van Nuys

When I saw the billboard (“Springtime for Schmucks,” July 9) advertising the film, “Dinner for Schmucks,” I was immediately thrown back about 50 years to my parents’ bedroom in Yonkers, N.Y. I’d been complaining about another kid in my class that day and finished my story by calling him “a real schmuck.” My father—who was a very mild-mannered and gentle soul—suddenly turned on me and angrily told me NEVER to use that word again. “What?” I innocently replied, “Harvey’s a complete putz!” Whereupon my father slapped me across the face.

Who knew that “putz” and “schmuck” are not only synonymous but dirty words? To me and my friends, the schmucks and putzes were obnoxious jerks; it never occurred to us that they were pricks as well!

Suzanne Pulier Macht
Beverly Hills

Whose Fault Is the Conversion Bill?

This conversion bill (“Coalition Attempts to Stall Strict Israeli Conversion Bill,” July 16) is OUR fault—meaning us Jews in the Diaspora. I can’t prove it, but it is an educated guess that almost all public criticism of Israel from Diaspora Jews comes from nontraditional (meaning everyone but Orthodox) Jews.

It is an educated guess that you can count the number of rabbis on the JStreet 400 list who are Orthodox on one hand.

It is an educated guess that the significant majority of American Jews who make aliyah are traditional Jews. And the examples go on and on.

So, why should any leader in Israel really care about what the nontraditional community says. The nontraditional community does not have a voice or any real clout in Israel—and deservedly so.

So, those of you who are complaining about this bill (and, by the way, I agree—it is a horrible bill), please understand that for the most part, no one is going to listen to you. 

Paul Jeser
via e-mail

Misplaced Sympathy

I was sad to read in Jonathan Kirsch’s article (”Elegant ‘Education’ From the Front Lines,” July 2) that Megan Stack reports in her book “Every Man in This Village Is a Liar” that the hardships endured by the Palestinians justify blasting pieces of 6-month-old babies and 90-year-old grandmothers onto the roadsides. It’s disgusting to suggest there is a moral equivalency here. They also did not report the identity of the perpetrator(s) in the tale about the tortured Palestinian women. It could have been a Jordanian or Syrian soldier rather than the ancestors of the suicide bomb victims.

Once again, ideology triumphs over truth and human decency.

Warren Scheinin
Redondo Beach

Imagine …

Dear Mr. Chertoff and Mr. Warner,

Let’s play the “imagine” game in order to get a response to your letter (“Open Discussions for Peace,” July 16).

Imagine if, after the Israelis defeated the PLO infrastructure in southern Lebanon, the Lebanese government had not let Hezbollah turn the area into an armed camp.

Imagine if, after Ariel Sharon had left the Palestinians in Gaza with a thriving agricultural industry, they hadn’t destroyed that industry and let Hamas turn the area into an armed camp.

Imagine if Arafat had taken the hundreds of millions of dollars given to him and created an infrastructure of schools and industry on the West Bank and not decided on a series of intifadas.

Imagine if either Arafat or Abbas were courageous enough to accept the deals put together with the help of Clinton and Bush.

Imagine if Israel had not built their defensive wall that has prevented the kinds of senseless suicide attacks which used to take place with regularity.

Imagine if Israel let unlimited and unchecked cargos into the Gaza strip under the control of Hamas.

There’s a whole lot of dreaming where we could indulge ourselves in what might have been. We live now in the present. The security of present- and future-day Israeli citizens is the primary responsibility of this government. With much of the world abandoning Israel, the United States has been a reliably though not a totally acquiescent ally. You would even take that away and dream of the Palestinians suddenly agreeing to peace. You are naive and, fortunately, not in control of the future of Israel.

Bill Bender
via e-mail

Too Much Coverage of Shul?

As a former congregant of YIBH, I take strong exception to your cover story regarding the shul (“Who Owns the Shul?” July 9). You have nothing better to do than talk about the problems within the Orthodox Jewish community? What about the separation news between Rabbi Wolpe and his wife and its effect at Sinai Temple? This was a “he said/she said” article. I have been witness to some of the problems at this shul. What temple or shul doesn’t have its politics? Every year, The Journal manages to air the dirty laundry of the Orthodox Jewish Community. The Rubashkin saga is another one.

By closing Agriprocessors, the amount of kosher meat available to the religious community has diminished, as well as the high cost going up. The non-Orthodox community is not the main consumer of kosher meat. Does it give the editor great satisfaction to air these articles? How about the lack of money out there to support our Jewish day schools, both Conservative and Orthodox? What a shame that political campaigns get lots of Jewish money and not enough goes to our Jewish schools; why don’t you write about that? 

David Frank
Los Angeles

Unasked Questions

I thank Sinai Temple for hosting a very informative program July 15, examining two contrasting perspectives on the viability of a two-state solution in the Middle East.

The moderator welcomed audience questions submitted on cards. However, the collectors of the cards reviewed mine and held them, rather than passing them on to the moderator to review, as they did for most other cards. They claimed it resembled questions already submitted. I did not hear any similar questions at the program. So, here—for your readers to consider—are the questions I submitted. 

1). Israel took land from Jordan and Egypt. Egypt received land back and settled. Jordan doesn’t want the West Bank back. Palestinian Arabs never had the land as their separate entity. What logic dictates that if I take something from you and you don’t want it back, somebody else who never owned it can come and claim I must “return” it to them?

2). If the Arabs had the military ability to destroy Israel, do you believe they would be talking about negotiations and peace? If one cannot answer “yes” to that question, how does one justify giving them anything that could enhance that ability? 

I appreciate you printing these additional questions for your readers to ponder.

Kenny (Yitzchak) Kaufman
campus rabbi
Los Angeles

Lost Relative Found

I sent a note some weeks ago looking for a lost relative. Someone saw it, contacted her, she contacted me, and we are reunited. I am most grateful.

Sybil Kaplan
via e-mail

Observing Asarah B’Av

I like the story that Jonathan Zasloff (“What Are You Doing for Asarah B’Av?” July 16) opens his article with (the Talmud reports that God laughed and said, “My children have defeated me.”) followed by the denigration of the sacrificial system because it is icky. The Temple’s destruction “represents the Jewish people’s maturation into a closer, more adult relationship with the Holy One”. After all, “Torah constantly evolves and changes through the … piety of Israel.”

The entire point of the Torah is to reveal that Israel is set apart from all other nations to be a light unto the world. Moses warned Israel repeatedly not to mingle with other nations, especially regarding worship practices. Zasloff:  “Syncretism is not to be feared but embraced.” Yes, let’s celebrate Asarah B’Av. If professor Zasloff can put his tongue in his cheek, so can I. Then I won’t have to puke. 

Guinn Williams
Los Angeles

Conflict Resolution

L.A. Jews for Peace commented in a letter in the July 16 issue that they believe “the (Palestinian Israel) conflict would have already been resolved if the diplomatic, financial and military support of the U.S. government to Israel had not been unconditional.” They lament how different it might have been if only Jews eliminated the “Gaza blockade, and stop invading Lebanon” (whatever that means). And, oh yeah, they “study the Goldstone Report because it’s an authoritative way to break through the American media’s distorted take about what happened during Cast Lead.” I don’t even want to get into that, but I have a message for Warner and Chertoff and the rest of their group:

Jews don’t need convincing that a two-state negotiated settlement is necessary. We are already there. You want peace. Here’s how to get it. Stop blaming your own people and put the blame where it should rightfully go—on the Palestinians.

You think getting Israel to accept the above will create an atmosphere of negotiation. What about the Palestinians? Do they need to do anything? Are they required to make any sacrifices in your thinking?

The Palestinians since 1948 have always prevented and end to this conflict. They have rejected every reasonable offer to negotiate, have refused to come to the table because of flimsy excuses of everything from settlement building to Israel detaining dangerous terrorists. They have systematically enshrined into their culture a bloodlust for people inside Israel, which has caused the senseless deaths and catastrophic injury to many innocent people who did not deserve it.

The enemy continues to try to kill us and thinks with your help they will be successful. Put these sincere, however misguided efforts to work where they really do some good. Go to Gaza and the West Bank and convince them of the best way to end this.

Then you will get the settlement you seek. Good luck! 

Larry Hart
L.A. Jewish Community Examiner

Making His Point

Your July 16 issue has a picture of David Rotem (page 14) with a raised index finger. A more appropriate picture would have him with a raised middle finger giving his clear message to the world’s non-Orthodox Jewry.

Martin J. Weisman
Westlake Village

Too Much on Muslims?

I am sick and tired of The Jewish Journal’s publishing glowing articles by Rabbi Firestone (“Death of a True Scholar — and a Muslim Mensch,” July 16) about Muslim scholars, Muslim customs, Muslim science, etc., when there is plenty of sad news of trouble, real trouble, caused by Muslim imams, Muslim spokesmen, Muslim customs and Muslim beliefs in their well known efforts to dominate the world. Are you throwing sand in the community’s eyes, deceiving us by not reporting on the bad and real world? 

Robert Reyto
Los Angeles

Editors note: For the second in professor Firestone’s series on Moderating Islam, see page 10.

10 and 10 in L.A.

Thanks to David Suissa for the mention of the “10 and 10” minyan (“10 Men, 10 Women,” July 16).  One factual correction: While Mr. Suissa said the minyan always meets in people’s homes, it actually meets at the Workmen’s Circle at Robertson and Horner on the second Friday night of each month. In this warm and welcoming minyan, which is modeled on Shira Chadasha in Jerusalem, men and women pray on different sides of the mechitzah and a woman leads some of the prayers (such as Kabbalat Shabbat) from the women’s side.  Services are followed by a potluck dinner. While 10 and 10 is the only such Shira Chadasha-style prayer service in Los Angeles, shuls offering this type of davening can be found in New York, Boston and other U.S. cities. More information about the Los Angeles 10 and 10 minyan can be found at 10and10.org

Joseph M. Lipner
Los Angeles


A Dream Fulfilled

As a Los Angeles native living in D.C., there are many things I miss. I am so appreciative that I can feel at home again reading The Jewish Journal online. It makes me feel very connected and, because of you, I was able to fulfill my 80-year-old mother’s dream — to hear Itzhak Perlman play the violin “before I die!” Without you, I never would have known that he would be giving a concert in Los Angeles, had I not read it in The Jewish Journal. I was also able to buy tickets within minutes and was able to get really good seats, all because I read it in The Jewish Journal. How seldom do we get the pleasure of fulfilling another’s dream. I also enjoy your articles and share them with friends here in D.C. and in Israel. So, a very heartfelt thanks.

Maryjo Juster
via e-mail

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Menschic Warriors

Month after month, a few years ago, my little boy would nudge me. “Daddy, I want to try out for Kaplan,” he’d say. I knew Kaplan was a basketball program in the Hancock Park area, but I knew little else. My boy Noah was already playing for his Maimonides team in his school league, which meant practice every week and a game every Sunday — so why add a whole other layer of practice and games? It’s tough enough to juggle after-school activities for three busy kids; who needs another carpool headache to the other side of town?

Obviously, I hadn’t done my homework. If you’re a Jewish kid in a Jewish day school in Los Angeles, especially an Orthodox school, and you love to play basketball, the name “Kaplan” is like the name “Harvard” to an aspiring MBA candidate — hard to get in, but a dream destination. It’s like in those movies where a player toils in the minor leagues for years and dreams of one day going to “the show” — the major leagues.

Kaplan is the major leagues — in more ways than one.

First, it’s a Jewish team that plays in a non-Jewish league. Which means, forget about the haimish atmosphere of the Jewish leagues, where everybody knows everybody and “the Jews always win.”

Second, it’s really serious. Kaplan basketball isn’t recreation. It’s a passion. This is a reflection of the man who started the program more than 10 years ago.

Beinish Kaplan is a Charedi Jew who grew up on the Lower East Side of New York in the 1950s and 1960s; studied in yeshivas and was a student of the renowned Rabbi Moshe Feinstein; joined the U.S. Army and became a first lieutenant; started a successful garment business in New York before moving to Los Angeles in the 1970s and working in the finance industry; became an active member of Agudath Israel and a volunteer jack-of-all-trades organizer for the Orthodox community; and, through it all, was and remains an absolute, unequivocal basketball nut.

He started his love affair with the game as a kid, playing with his Jewish buddies and African American and Puerto Rican kids on the cement courts of the Lower East Side, rain, snow or shine.

Fifty-some years later, he hasn’t lost one twinkle of that love.

Today, on a strictly volunteer basis, he recruits and coaches seven Jewish teams each year, the kids ranging in age from 8 to 18, in a city league called ARC Basketball. From September to May, covering three different seasons, he runs practices every school night from 6 to 9 p.m. and coaches most of the games himself every Sunday from noon to 7 p.m. in locations as far away as the Santa Clarita Valley.

Catch him on any given Sunday pacing the sidelines during a game, and if not for that black yarmulke on his head, you’d think this was your typical tall, imposing, ultra-serious college coach during the Final Four tournament.

As you might expect, Kaplan puts a lot of emphasis on Jewish midot. He doesn’t tolerate trash talking, arrogance or swagger. His players are competitive but always well behaved or they don’t survive in the program.

There’s another midot Kaplan is known for: his intensity. Kaplan is so intense that he’s been known to scare off some parents. What’s funny, though, is that he rarely scares off the kids. He taps into their love for the game, so they don’t just tolerate his intensity, they see it as their ticket to becoming better players.

And while they do become better players — more often than not, his teams are consistent winners — the coach is after something bigger than basketball. He sees the program as teaching lessons for life. For overprotective parents who worry that their kids might be getting a little soft and could use a little toughness and discipline — in other words, most of us — this is a dream shidduch.

Someone will make a movie one day about Kaplan’s Yiddishe adventure in the inner-city world of serious basketball. I often wonder what goes through the minds of other coaches and players when they hear Kaplan call out plays in Hebrew (“Purim!” is for a high post play, “Cohen 2!” is for a screen and roll, and so on) or when the Kaplan players yell out “hazak ve’ematz!” (“strength and courage!”) before getting on the court.

I can’t tell you what it felt like the day my boy guarded the son of Arsenio Hall. I think I texted half of my family members in Montreal.

It’s all part of the Kaplan experience — never a dull moment. While the program is made up mostly of Orthodox kids, Kaplan welcomes Jewish players from all schools. Some players wear a kippah while playing, others don’t. There’s no controversy here between observant and nonobservant Jews, because all Jews at Kaplan observe the same rules: the coach’s.

Ultimately, Kaplan says, he wants to build “menschic warriors.” These are Jewish boys who will work hard to succeed in life, who will be proud to be Jewish and will defend the Jewish state, who will learn the rules of life and follow them, and, most of all, who will do it with confidence but without swagger and arrogance.

Some of his favorite phone calls are from former players, who are now in college or are married with children, and who call him just to keep in touch or ask for his advice.

“That’s when I know I’m winning,” he says.

David Suissa is the founder of OLAM magazine and OLAM.org. You can read his daily blog at suissablog.com and e-mail him at {encode=”suissa@olam.org” title=”suissa@olam.org”}.

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Dating, With Science on Your Side

In honor of Tu B’Av, the Jewish dating holiday, let’s acknowledge that while the Internet has helped some single people to narrow the playing field, dating is still confusing. So it may come as some comfort that there’s another, less expected tool to help in looking for love: science.

Most relationships begin with a glance. From across the room, two people lock eyes and acknowledge a mutual attraction. But in that moment, scientists say, more is happening than just a cursory gaze. 

In one of the most frequently cited studies on nonverbal flirting, published in 1985 in the journal Ethology and Sociobiology, psychologist Monica Moore, a professor at Webster University in St. Louis, examined what takes place between two people who encounter each other across a room.

She looked first at the nonverbal cues of females — who, many researchers have speculated, begin the process of courtship — and found that women exhibit some specific, repeated signals to let men know they’re interested.

“Women use a variety of glancing behaviors, a variety of things that draw attention to their body, like primp or hair flip,” Moore said in a recent phone interview.

She noted that the more cues a woman sends off, the more likely she is to be approached by her target. Moore’s subsequent research found that signaling interest was a better predictor of a woman being approached than her physical attractiveness. Moore summarized this finding in a literature review published earlier this year in the Journal of Sex Research: “[A] high-signaling woman of average attractiveness was much more likely to be approached than her low-signaling, beautiful counterpart.”

Other researchers have repeatedly concluded that when a woman makes eye contact with a man and then smiles, he is far more likely to interpret her as being interested and approach her — thereby rendering the smile, in a face-to-face scenario, perhaps the best tool in any single woman’s arsenal.

But suppose you don’t start in a bar — suppose you start where more and more singles are looking these days: on an online dating site.

First of all, you’d be in good company. According to a BBC World Service poll released earlier this year, 30 percent of Internet users worldwide are champions of online dating. But how to construct a profile? How to interact with other users?

To begin with, it helps to know that the main worry of online daters — that other users may be lying in their profiles — is generally untrue. According to research presented at the Computer/Human Interaction (CHI) conference in 2007, people may bend the truth a little in their online profiles — trim a pound here, add
a quarter of an inch there — but in general, the authors wrote, “Many of these deceptions would be difficult to detect face-to-face.”

At another CHI conference in 2008, researchers from UC Berkeley presented their findings regarding what makes some online daters’ profiles more attractive than others.

Perhaps unsurprisingly, they found the photo is the most important part of the profile. But having an attractive photo doesn’t necessitate having the visage of a Brazilian model. Men preferred photos of women who seemed to be self-confident, not self-centered, and feminine. Women preferred men whose photos conveyed trustworthiness and extraversion.

Once one partner has approached the other in person, whether after an online chat session or a glance across the room, what ensues is like a dance. The woman signals her interest, and the man, if he reads the signal correctly, responds. Either partner may end the courtship at any time, Moore said.

The only complication? Men tend to read courtship signals slightly differently than women. “Men see the courtship behaviors as sending a stronger signal than women see them sending,” Moore said. “They see the rejection behaviors as sending a weaker message than the women see them sending.”

If both partners are on the same page and the relationship moves forward, though, it becomes more difficult to use logic in determining behavior, because intense neural activity kicks into gear. A study published in 2005 by researchers at Stony Brook University looked at the brains of people who had recently fallen in love by using MRI scans of the brain. 

What they found was that the brains of newly in-love individuals were flooded with the chemical dopamine, which mimics the brains of people using cocaine. The study concluded that this may account for the almost addictive behavior of new couples: obsessive thinking, jealousy and feelings of euphoria.

With that as the end result, it’s easy to see why we spend so much time seeking out the right mate — and why science might hold the key.

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Israel lifts Turkey travel ban

Israel has lifted a travel advisory warning its citizens against traveling to Turkey.

The warning was issued following Israel’s May 31 interception of an aid flotilla from Turkey bound for Gaza, in which nine Turkish passengers were killed.

The Counter-Terrorism Bureau on Tuesday afternoon cancelled the warning, following “calm and a lack of massive rallies against Israel.”

Israelis in Turkey are still warned to stay away from rallies and to avoid having political arguments with local residents.

Prior to the warning, Turkey was a popular vacation spot for Israelis.

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Americans organize ship to join Gaza flotilla

Americans opposed to Israel’s blockade of Gaza are organizing a ship from the United States to take part in an international flotilla.

The flotilla, set to sail to Gaza in September or October, will be made up of ships from India, Europe, Canada, South Africa and the Middle East. The organizers, who oppose the naval blockade of Gaza, hope to name the ship from the U.S. The Audacity of Hope, after President Obama’s second autobiographical book.

“From the deck of The Audacity of Hope, we will be in a powerful and unique position to challenge U.S. foreign policy and affirm the universal obligation to uphold human rights and international law,” organizers wrote on their website, UStoGaza.org.

Organizers are trying to raise $370,000 through the website to pay for a ship, crew and licensing and registration of the boat. They plan to carry 40 to 60 people onboard.

Among the over 70 people who have signed the appeal for money are Lara Lee, the woman who smuggled out a video of the flotilla incident in May and Michael Ratner, director of the Center for Constitutional Rights. 

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Relations between Israel, Italy good, says IDF chief

Israeli Defense Forces chief Gen. Gabi Ashkenazi praised military relations between Italy and Israel.

Ashkenazi concluded a two-day official visit to Italy on Tuesday.

In an interview with Radio Jerusalem before his departure from Rome, Ashkenazi noted that Italy deployed the main force of UNIFIL, the United Nations mission in southern Lebanon.

“With Italy,” Ashkenazi said, “we have excellent relations on land, sea and in the air.”

Ashkenazi added, however, that Hezbollah was reinforcing its presence in areas of southern Lebanon outside of UNIFIL control.

During his visit to Rome, Ashkenazi warned that Hezbollah was building “an underground infrastructure of command centers and rocket launchers, mostly within the Shiite villages in southern Lebanon, as well as other parts of Lebanon,” according to a statement from Israel’s military.

He added that “throughout Lebanon, including in southern Lebanon, residential villages were turned into ‘surface-to-surface rocket villages,’ while Hezbollah is taking advantage of the local population and [also taking advantage of] the lack of UNIFIL’s mandated authority, to strengthen its command centers and rocket launchers inside the villages.”

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