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July 27, 2007

City Voice: The Mayor is cheating … on L.A.

Breaking the commandment against adultery shouldn’t disqualify you for public office.

Still, I don’t think the adulterer should expect cheers from the
Jewish community. This is especially true when the official is Mayor Antonio Villaraigosa, who has made his family and his life story a big part of his persona.

I felt let down by the news that Villaraigosa had an affair with television journalist Mirthala Salinas, who has reported on the mayor for Telemundo. (Her involvement with the mayor violated one of the three ethics rules I give my USC journalism students: Don’t lie, don’t steal and don’t sleep with your news sources.)

I was disappointed because he offered hope for uniting a fractious city behind some common goals important to the middle class and poor — the majority of the city’s residents, which includes many Jews — teachers, social workers, supermarket checkers and blue-collar workers. And he has had the support of the city’s most affluent Jews, who are among his campaign contributors.

Jews have a vested interest in working with the rest of Los Angeles on improving the public schools, saving affordable rentals from condo conversions, creating better transit and other issues.

As a political leader, Villaraigosa crossed ethnic lines in his successful campaign and began his tenure the same way. He has dashed from one part of the city to another — a highly visible mayor — and has been as at home in a synagogue as in a community meeting in South Los Angeles.

That is good. His predecessor, James Hahn, stuck to the office too much, neglecting the symbolic aspects of the job.

“People like to touch and feel the mayor,” said professor Peter Dreier, chair of Occidental College’s Urban and Environmental Policy Program and a Villaraigosa supporter.

But as his term moved along, he seemed scattered, bouncing from one event to another, bragging about existing on four hours of sleep a night, embracing the television cameras, always with a big smile. Recently, I heard a Russian say that Americans smile too much. I don’t want the mayor to grump around like Putin, but that huge grin in every photograph starts to look insincere.

As he dashed about, Villaraigosa always talked about his climb up the ladder from the Eastside, and portrayed himself as a family man. As reporters Duke Helfand and Steve Hymon noted in the Los Angeles Times, his family was featured in campaign literature and — until recently — on the mayoral Web site. He was a family guy, perfect for a city that despite the heavily publicized Hollywood and Westside glitz puts a high premium on family values.

Did he think he could keep his private life hidden? Privacy seems impossible in today’s media atmosphere, where news is shaped through the Internet. On Jan. 29, blogger Luke Ford reported that the mayor and his wife had not been seen together for 10 months and he was no longer wearing his wedding ring. The chase was on, and this month Beth Barrett of the Daily News broke the story of the affair.

After several days, the short-attention- span news media had moved on to other stories, and the mayor has been hard at work repairing his image. Success is important for the city and him personally. He is expected to run for re-election and may be a candidate for governor.

Professor Dreier said he thinks the mayor can come back.

“I think the reporters are more interested in his personal life than the public is,” Dreier said.

With Villaraigosa, he said, “a lot of people feel let down on a personal level,” but the mayor’s future depends on “whether the crime rate goes down, the schools improve” and on his ability to deal with matters as mundane but important as potholes in the streets.

And that’s going to be difficult. Even though a City Charter reform greatly increased the power of the mayor, a municipal official is limited in solving problems that are national in scope. You can’t build a subway to the sea without federal funds. And every city in the country is fighting for more state and federal funds for schools.

“His biggest problem is that he raised expectations real high, and it is almost impossible to reach those goals,” Dreier said.

If a Democrat wins the presidency in 2008, he said, “there will be a lot more funds flowing to L.A., and he’s got a lot of people expecting miracles and that’s part of the problem.”

The immediate spotlight is on the public schools.

Villaraigosa raised the money and provided the campaign know-how to allow his candidates to become a majority on the Los Angeles Unified School District board.

The mayor moved quickly to shape district policy. His aides prepared a series of initiatives speedily adopted by the school board.

The measures are designed to measure student performance, decrease the drop-out rate, improve education for students who are learning English and build smaller schools. Training of principals would be improved and parent involvement would be encouraged.

What will happen to these lofty goals is uncertain. History tells us that board proposals turn to mush as they make their way through the district’s bureaucracy. Since his staff wrote the proposals, the mayor will take the heat for their success or failure.

This is unglamorous work, requiring great focus. The mayor, Los Angeles’ most visible and powerful public official, is the only one who can make it work. Making things work is a big commandment in politics and government. If Villaraigosa follows through on his promises, his failure to obey the biblical injunction might well be forgiven.

Until leaving the Los Angeles Times in 2001, Bill Boyarsky worked as a political correspondent, a Metro columnist for nine years and as city editor for three years. You can reach him at bw.boyarsky@verizon.net.

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Hollywood gives Jewish

Today—10 weeks into the job—I officially arrived at The Jewish Journal with my first cover story. It’s about the role of Hollywood in the Jewish community, and it was a bear to report.

The entertainment business was created by Jews, but the industry also helped build the LA Jewish community. Still, the widely held opinion—“as much a part of Jewish belief as monotheism”—is that Hollywood does very little for the Jews. But despite what you may have heard, the movie business is not run by a bunch of cheap Jews.

My article discusses the history of Hollywood philanthropy and the coming generational shift in Hollywood leaders—from the Spielbergs and Katzenbergs to people in their late 20s and 30s.

These are better days for Hollywood Jews. They no longer need to change their names—sometimes not even their noses. Orthodox screenwriters like David Sacks of “The Simpsons” and “Malcolm in the Middle” find producers more understanding of Shabbat. Young stars like Natalie Portman, Sacha Baron Cohen and Seth Rogen make it cool to be Jewish.

But a chasm remains between Jewish identity and Jewish institutions. One reason has as much to do with geography and economy as it does with generational shift. The problem in Los Angeles is not simply that young Jews aren’t interested in Jewish organizations. The problem, in part, is Los Angeles.

“There is plenty of blame to go around. Some of it is Los Angeles, some of it is the Jewish community, some of it is the lack of appeal to younger people,” said Donna Bojarsky, an adviser to Hollywood figures. “In the Los Angeles Jewish community, most people didn’t grow up here. You don’t have those communal ties that sometimes facilitate engagement. The Jewish community itself, therefore, is perceived as your mother’s or grandmother’s Jewish community, so it doesn’t seem as interesting to younger Jews.”

 

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Actress Lindsay Lohan Needs Jesus

That was the subject of an e-mail I received this morning that informed me—thanks, Bostick Communications!—“Christian prison minister Marty Angelo approache(d) actress Lindsay Lohan with offer of faith-based treatment program plan.”

In attempt to help another troubled celebrity, prison minister Marty Angelo has reached out to actress Lindsay Lohan.

Angelo recently tried unsuccessfully to convince socialite Paris Hilton’s sentencing judge, Michael Sauer to let him serve Hilton’s jail time if the judge would send her to a residential treatment program. Read Paris Hilton Documentation

This time Angelo has written to actress Lindsay Lohan, who has been plagued with various drug and alcohol related problems. “There is no doubt in my mind you would benefit tremendously from a faith-based treatment program,” Angelo remarked in his letter dated July 18, 2007 to Lohan six days ‘before’ her latest arrest for DUI and cocaine possession. He offered to assist Lohan to find Christian alternatives. Read Lohan Letter

“The secular treatment programs Miss Lohan recently participated in obviously did not work.” Angelo stated, “Nothing has changed her addictive behavior.”

“Lindsay Lohan’s out of control lifestyle is only the tip of the iceberg,” Angelo continues, “I feel Miss Lohan would benefit by enrolling into a yearlong faith-based program that allows God to get to the root of her real issues.”

a) I did not realize that sending a letter qualified as “approaching;” b) I do not understand what they mean by putting “before” in quotes; c) why do they waste their time sending out e-mails like this on a semi-daily basis?

But as for the offer, maybe Lohan should take him up on it. Finding God is this summer’s hottest thing. Just ask Paris and Britney.

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Nothing’s sacred when sportsmen are such sinners

This is not a religious post nor real reporting. It’s a satirical piece on Slate.com in which Joshua Levin ponders whether worse things could happen in professional sports than football’s second-highest paid player being indicted for dogfighting; an NBA ref being investigated for betting on games he officiated; a handful of cyclists being booted from the Tour de France for blood doping; and a first-base coach being killed by a line drive.

The answer: Yes. But man would it take some imagination. (Click here for an audio version on NPR’s Day to Day.) My favorite two:

The FBI is investigating claims that the New York Giants’ Jeremy Shockey deliberately dropped passes last season in an effort to win his fantasy football league. A person with knowledge of the league’s activities says that Shockey’s squad, “The Cleveland Steamers,” was stuck in second place behind “Jimmy Spencer Blues Explosion,” a team with Shockey in its starting lineup. The tight end’s suspiciously poor performances in the season’s final three weeks—coupled with a surprising three touchdowns from the Shockey-owned Marion Barber III—propelled the Steamers to the league title and grand prize, a $200 Dave & Buster’s gift card.

—New York Post, Aug. 4, 2007

Jason McElwain, the autistic teenager who won the nation’s heart by making six three-pointers in his first and only high school basketball game, was not really a teenager and was feigning his autism, White House spokesman Tony announced today. “The president was deeply saddened to hear that the young Snowman we knew and loved as ‘J-Mac’ is actually former NBA sharpshooter Tim Legler,” Snow said in his afternoon press briefing.

—AP, Aug. 5, 2007

 

(Photos: Reuters and ESPN)

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Second Coming: ‘I hope he comes tomorrow’

I’ve written before about the relationship between Christian Zionists and Jews. Two weeks ago, Max Blumenthal went to the Christians United for Israel conference in Washington. The video is embedded below. Here is a note someone sent me regarding the gist of the conference.

CUFI has an ulterior agenda: its support for Israel derives from the belief of Hagee and his flock that Jesus will return to Jerusalem after the battle of Armageddon and cleanse the earth of evil. In the end, all the non-believers – Jews, Muslims, Hindus, mainline Christians, etc. – must convert or suffer the torture of eternal damnation.

Over a dozen CUFI members eagerly revealed to me their excitement at the prospect of Armageddon occurring tomorrow. Among the rapture ready was Republican Former House Majority Leader Tom DeLay. None of this seemed to matter to Lieberman, who delivered a long sermon hailing Hagee as nothing less than a modern-day Moses. Lieberman went on to describe Hagee’s flock as “even greater than the multitude Moses commanded.”

Rapture Ready: The Unauthorized Christians United for Israel Tour from huffpost and Vimeo.

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You get when you give

It is very cool to give. Whether you can give your time through volunteer work or give money though tzedakah, every little bit helps. If you need some inspiration, check out the following two stories:

“The Giving Tree,” written and illustrated by Shel Silverstein, begins: “Once there was a tree … and she loved a little boy.”

Every day the boy would come to the tree to eat her apples, swing from her branches or slide down her trunk … and the tree was happy. But as the boy grew older he began to want more from the tree, and the tree gave and gave.

“The Giving Tree” is 64 pages, but it isn’t hard to read. After you’re done, you can talk to your parents about whether the tree sacrifices too much or not, and whether the boy is selfish in what he asks of the tree. The book is more than 40 years old, but its message could have been written yesterday.

There’s also an old fable called “Stone Soup” that shows how a little can go a long way. There are several different version of the story floating around.

According to one, during a great famine in Europe, a hungry traveler comes to a village with no food to eat, but he is carrying an empty pot. The villagers won’t share any of their food with him, so he fills the pot with water, takes a large stone out of his bag and drops it in the pot. He then puts the pot over a fire in the middle of the village.

When asked what he is doing, the man answers that he is making “stone soup.”
The villagers think the man is nuts, but as the man sniffs the “soup” and licks his lips, hunger takes over their disbelief.

“Ahh,” the man says out loud to himself, “I do like a tasty stone soup. Of course, stone soup with cabbage — that’s the best.”

Soon a villager adds a cabbage from his garden to the pot.

“Great!” says the man. “You know, I once had stone soup with cabbage and a bit of beef as well, and it was delicious!”

When the butcher hears this, he adds some meat. Then another villager brings potatoes. Soon everyone is putting something into the soup: onions, carrots, mushrooms and so on, until there is a delicious meal for all. The stone was just a way of starting the process.

What we learn from this story is that if everyone works together, each giving what they can, good things can happen.

We’d love to know how you like to give back to your community: Do you donate tzedakah? Pack food for the needy? Or even take care of your younger siblings when your mom and dad are busy? E-mail us at kids@jewishjournal.com with stories or pictures and we’ll run them on an upcoming yeLAdim page.

Holidays NOT on the Calendar

Aug. 5: International Friendship Day. Take some time today to meet someone new, whether they live across the country or across the street. You can never have too many friends.

Aug. 13: Left Hander’s Day. Though only 10 percent of the population is left handed, they haven’t had it easy. Most things out there (like scissors and school desks) are designed for righties. So if you have a friend or family member who is left handed, give ’em a big hug today.

Wild About Harry?

We’re guessing that by now many of you have read “Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows,” and we want to know what you thought of it.

What was your favorite part? Was it a good ending? Was it disappointing? How would you have ended it? Do you think J.K. Rowling should write more books about Harry Potter or Hogwarts or the wizarding community?

E-mail us at kids@jewishjournal.com and we’ll print your thoughts in August.

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Thanks, Wingman!

I have gone into bars and thrown myself into situations unprepared. I have struggled to find something impressive to say and ended up highlighting my brief stint as an extra on “The Office.” And I have walked away from a girl with a number suspecting that it was lifted directly off a billboard.

It doesn’t have to be this difficult.

We all remember the buddy system from grade school. When you’d go to the ocean, you’d have a buddy. When you’d go to the museum, you’d have a buddy. And now that you’re old enough to hit the bar scene, you should still have a buddy.

You, my friend, need a wingman.

There you are with a friend, seated at a bar. You put out “the vibe,” as you casually make eye contact with a ridiculously hot, seemingly hygienic female.

Your buddy, whose girlfriend is thankfully home for the evening, encourages you to approach. He reassures you that he’s a few steps away in case disaster strikes.

You walk up to her with high hopes, employing the confidence that only four shots of Maker’s Mark can provide. You offer to buy her a drink. But when the pool of standard chitchat/bar talk dries up, you find yourself at a loss for words.

Terrified and annoyed that your game has once again failed you, your mind reels as you reach for topics. You panic, unsure of what to say next.

However, just when you thought the situation was doomed, your buddy sidles his way into the action. With a mix of Sinatra charm and Dino comic relief, your steady, reliable, trustworthy wingman has successfully resuscitated the conversation. As you are reborn, he quietly slips away.

Thanks, wingman.

Your supportive third wheel, a wingman is the guy stopping you from saying or doing something stupid. Typically a close friend, he should possess both a good working knowledge of your strengths and an impeccable talent for masking your weaknesses. He’s your sidekick, and depending on the success of the evening he could also be your superhero.

There are two things I know never to leave home without: my American Express card and my wingman. Without these two things, the chances of a hookup are practically hopeless. But just like choosing a credit card, choosing a wingman requires some serious thought and planning.

The main thing to consider is personality. You definitely need someone who can carry a conversation, but you don’t want someone who will steal your thunder. You need a guy who knows you well enough to recall the time you spent at the soup kitchen, but who’s also smart enough to leave out the fact that it was for 50 hours of court-ordered community service.

In addition to making you look more Brad Pitt than Brad Garrett, the wingman must also keep a close eye on the social lubricant situation. If the glasses look dry, he’s the guy who will trek over to the bar and order the next round. (It is proper etiquette to pay for your wingman’s drinks that evening. This also ensures his loyalty and support for future outings.) This time alone surreptitiously provides you and your lucky female subject with the appropriate amount of alone time. The wingman’s absence is simply a test to see if you can handle the situation without your trusty insurance policy.

If all goes well, upon his return, he gets the nod and searches for an appropriate exit in the conversation so you can exercise your “closing” techniques.

If things don’t go so well during his minutes-long excursion, you know that the chemistry isn’t there. A good wingman should have full knowledge of the signals in play: a single nod for “you can leave now” or a double nod for “we both can leave now.” Not to mention, the mutually convenient triple nod for “stay, she’s got a friend,” or the extremely rare, yet somewhat selfish quad-nod for “she’s got friends, but they’re all mine.”

Once you have found and trained someone to serve beside you as wingman, practice your routine as much as possible. The only thing more embarrassing than an idiot with nothing to say are two idiots with nothing to say. Unfortunately in this case, two idiots do not cancel each other out.

When used correctly, the wingman can be extremely valuable and the system is relatively easy to perfect, based on the intelligence and sobriety of the parties involved. He is your safety net, your backup plan in case of a sour evening. He is the Aaron to your Moses (hopefully not the Cain to your Abel).

And if all this still doesn’t work and you find yourself totally hopeless, unable to meet a woman in a social situation, wingman or no wingman, fear not my troubled friend — there’s always the option of a shidduch.

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