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April 25, 2002

Israel in the Arab Mind

As tensions in the Middle East soar, many Jewish Angelenos search for answers to the generations-old question: Can there ever be peace between Israel and her Arab neighbors?

"No," says journalist and Middle East expert Avi Davis. "There cannot be peace until there are fundamental social, political, cultural and religious changes in the Arab world."

Davis, a commentator for Fox News and CNN, will expand upon this distinct charge during his eight-week lecture series, "Israel in the Arab Mind." A joint presentation of the University of Judaism and the Freeman Center for Strategic Studies, the class will explore the deep-seated Arab beliefs that have led to the Middle East conflict and the mechanisms that must be in place to someday establish peace.

"This class is different because it will not explain the Arab world, it will investigate it. We will find the distinguishing characteristics that create a culture of animosity and discuss what changes are necessary to create peace," Davis said.

Davis will examine the patriarchal society and the struggles and violence that stem from its structure. He will detail the religion of Islam as juxtaposed against the challenge of modernity. He will also look into the culture of honor.

A regular contributor to the Los Angeles Times, New York Jewish Week, The Melbourne Age and The Jewish Journal, Davis will alternate his lectures with talks presented by noted Arab leaders. World-respected scholar and philanthropist Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani, TransIslam Magazine Editor Dr. Khalid Duran, former Director General of the Iraqi Nuclear Weapon Program Dr. Khidhir Hamza and Jerusalem Post columnist Joseph Farah will all speak on the highly charged subject.

As pro-Israel Arabs, the guest speakers will approach the topic from a unique perspective. They will expand upon Davis’ theme and identify fundamental roadblocks that must be changed before the peace process can move forward. Building upon Davis’ talks, the guests will discuss "The Search for Democracy and Secularization in the Islamic World," "Saddam Hussein’s Nuclear Threat to Israel and the Western World" and "The Future of the Arab World’s Relationship with the West."

Davis created the series in reaction to the events of Sept. 11. "The problems in the Arab world have given rise not just to anti-Semitic feelings, but anti-Western feelings. We need to have a means with which to cope with these feelings," Davis said. As this animosity affects all Americans, not just American Jews, Davis aims the series at the general community. "This is not a class for Jews, it’s a class for everyone in Los Angeles," said Davis, who attends Westwood Kehillah and is active in the UCLA Bayit Project.

Davis, who writes opinion pieces for The Wall Street Journal, The Jerusalem Post, Chicago Tribune, Washington Times and others national publications, is the senior fellow of the Freeman Center. With an emphasis on Jewish survival and continuance in a hostile world, The Center boasts an extensive database and library, sponsors research papers and hosts symposiums and conferences. The center, a Houston-based research facility, recently opened a Los Angeles branch.

In addition to the "Arab Mind" series, the Los Angeles center will organize a regular salon that will bring together Jewish intellectuals to debate the future of Judaism in today’s society.

The eight "Israel in the Arab World" lectures will be held Tuesdays, April 23-June 11, 7:45-9:15 p.m., at the University of Judaism’s Gindi Auditorium, 15600 Mulholland Drive, Bel Air. For more information, contact UJ’s continuing education department (310) 476-9777.

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Barak Better Than Before

The struggle for peace in Israel may take years or even generations, former Israeli Prime Minister Ehud Barak told a crowd of over 6,200 people at the Universal Amphitheater on April 21. Barak was the final speaker in the University of Judaism’s (UJ) department of continuing education lecture series, which featured Bill Clinton, Madeleine Albright and James Carville. The sold-out series, organized by the dean of UJ’s continuing education department, Gady Levy, has brought much money and prestige to the university, and will be continued next year, Levy said.

Introduced by former Rep. Mel Levine, Barak was by no means the most electrifying of all the speakers, and yet he portrayed a more convivial, articulate persona, both in his hard-line speech and in the Q-and-A session with UJ President Dr. Robert Wexler that followed.

"I have a special place in my heart for California," the former Israel Defense Forces chief-of-staff said, recalling his two years as a grad student at Stanford University. "I even learned how to drive politely," he joked. Barak, who became a first-time grandfather three months ago, wondered, "What kind of world has this baby been born into?"

The former Labor party head, who lost the election to Prime Minister Ariel Sharon in 2001 following the outbreak of the second intifada, has toughened his rhetoric since the rejected peace offering at Camp David. He dismissed Arafat as a legitimate peace partner, blaming him for the current cycle of violence: "He deliberately dragged the world into this." But Barak said we should not focus on one man: "A future leader will emerge," he said. Barak said he does not consider Camp David a failure for three reasons:

1) The offer will serve as the basis for a future settlement

2) It "unmasked" Arafat

3) It grounded both sides of the Israeli political camp, he said, explaining that the far right will have to give up the dream of the greater Israel, and the far left will have to realize they are not living in the Midwest and there are some tough security issues to deal with.

Practically preaching to the choir, Barak emphasized the struggle Israel faces, and the justness of the military response. Barak, who in a meeting with The Journal prior to his speech did not rule out a future run for premiere ("I am retired now," he told The Journal), outlined his plan for Israel:

To strike hard at all terrorists

To always leave the door open for negotiations, on condition of ending the violence

To create a unilateral separation, which would include some 80 percent of all Israeli settlers.

"This is going to be a long struggle. Not years, but half a generation. Many innocent civilian lives will be lost along the way. But we have to win the first war of the 21st century, and we will win."

Earlier this week, Barak also addressed the American Israel Public Affairs Committee national conference in Washington on Sunday, which included a satellite speech by Sharon, and an address by Foreign Minister Shimon Peres and former Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu.

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The Circuit

Singles Groups Go Universal

Universal CityWalk played host to an ambitious undertaking by two prominent Los Angeles-based Jewish singles enterprises on April 14. Nearly 650 singles attended an evening sponsored by SpeedDating and Klutz Productions. The multitiered singles event, which drew coverage by reporters from local television news stations and the Los Angeles Times, sought to milk new meaning from the phrase “universal language of love,” beginning with a two-hour megaversion of SpeedDating and peaking in a crescendo of multiple celebrations at three CityWalk nightclubs.

Singles in attendance enjoyed DJs spinning dance tunes at The Rumba Room and at B.B. King’s Blues Club, which also featured a band called Endure, while a pair of pianists performed over at Howl at the Moon.

Also present was Rabbi Yaakov Deyo, SpeedDating’s inventor, who was in town from Israel with wife, Sue, to lecture and promote his new book, “SpeedDating: The Smarter, Faster Way to Lasting Love.” ($18.95 Harper-Collins).

Klutz Productions and SpeedDating are already planning to rent out CityWalk for a similar event, tentatively scheduled for fall.

Klutz Productions, created and run by Jeff Skolnick and Lili Feingold, has grown dramatically over its two years of existence, as has Aish HaTorah L.A.’s SpeedDating.

For more information on SpeedDating, go to www.aish.com/speeddating.com .

For more information on upcoming Klutz events, visit www.klutzproductions.com .

Hochman Remembered

The Jewish Federation of Greater Los Angeles’ Legal Division recently held a record-breaking tribute dinner to honor its past president, Bruce Hochman, in memorium. Over 900 people attended the event, the most ever for this type of event, resulting in $750,000 in contributions to The Federation’s United Jewish Fund campaign.

TishTones! Meet The TishTones…

Temple Beth Shir Sholom of Santa Monica held its annual fundraiser on Saturday, April 20. The shul’s in-house band, The TishTones, along with the temple’s choir, performed in concert as part of this gala event. The group performed klezmer, blues, rock ‘n’ roll, Israeli and Yiddish numbers.

Bentley’s Drive

Barbara Factor Bentley will be honored at Cedars-Sinai Medical Center’s annual Helping Hand Mother of the Year luncheon on May 10 at the Regent Beverly Wilshire. The current chair of the Cedars-Sinai Hospital board of directors, Bentley is the first woman in the medical center’s 100-year history to serve in the position. Bentley, with her husband, Joseph, has been very active in the Los Angeles Jewish Home for the Aging.

Formed in 1929, Helping Hand of Los Angeles supports the Cedars-Sinai Medical Center department of obstetrics and gynecology, in part through its medical center gift shop. Helping Hand has raised more than $16 million for Cedars-Sinai and contributes almost $500,000 annually.

The United Way

United Hostesses’ Charities (UHC) will hold its 60th Annual Membership Luncheon on April 24 at the Beverly Hills Hotel. Maryam Saghatelian, West Coast director of Cartier, will be honored at the event. UHC supports the division of cardiology and the research of Dr. P.K. Shah of Cedars-Sinai Medical Center and the Didi Hirsch Community Mental Health Center.

The Market Soars

Grassroots, a new support group at Cedars-Sinai Medical Center for inflammatory bowel disease, will take over the Pacific Palisades Farmer’s Market on May 19 for a “Morning at the Market” fundraiser. Grassroots hopes to raise $125,000 from this event and direct the funds toward establishing the first North American institute to study the disease. For more information about Grassroots, call (310) 423-3664.

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Spider-Mensch

"Did you know that Peter Parker is Jewish?" director Sam Raimi asked The Journal, referring to Spider-Man’s teenage alter ego.

Raimi was joking, of course, but the 42-year-old director behind Columbia’s "Spider-Man" motion picture (out May 3, starring Tobey Maguire and Willem Dafoe) may be onto something. After all, it can be argued that the New York-based Marvel Comics superhero represents facets of your Jewish male stereotype. As Parker, he is angst-ridden, perpetually struggling with moral dilemmas. As the Amazing Spider-Man, Parker veils his personal pain behind a wisecracking demeanor — even as he battles deadly supervillains.

"Spider-Man is a character that spends his life trying to pay down his guilt," Raimi said. "The only difference is that it’s caused by his uncle, not his mother. That’s a real classically Jewish quality — to be very aware of your sins in this life and try and make amends for them in this life."

Raimi’s journey from cult favorite to the man helming a $100 million-plus endeavor hasn’t changed his priorities — a fidelity to family and friends instilled in him during his Jewish upbringing.

Much is riding on the movie debut of Marvel’s flagship character. For Columbia and parent company Sony Pictures, the would-be blockbuster — one of the studio’s costliest — is designed to lock horns with the next Star Wars installment. For comic book publisher Marvel Entertainment — which unlike the Time-Warner-owned DC Comics has struggled to bring its plethora of superhero riches to the multiplex — "Spider-Man" can further the promise of Marvel-inspired franchises "Blade" and "X-Men."

For Raimi, the stakes are high, too. The Journal caught up with the filmmaker in February during an editing session. Throughout the interview, Raimi was hard at work tweaking footage. He must not only carry the corporate concerns but deliver a movie that will satisfy comic book fans — prickly purists who have already criticized everything from Raimi’s liberal interpretation of supervillain Green Goblin to Spider-Man’s "organic web shooters" (in the comic, Parker invents mechanical web-spinning devices).

"Spider-Man" will also give Raimi the chance to re-connect with his core following — smitten with the kinetic, high-velocity style of his early work — and to score his first blockbuster.

While Raimi co-created the wildly successful "Hercules" and "Xena: Princess Warrior" syndicated TV programs, even his best feature work — pulpy freakfests "Darkman" (1990) and "Army of Darkness" (1993) — found their audience on video after inauspicious theatrical runs. Subsequent fare, such as "A Simple Plan" (1998), brought critical acclaim but did not exactly burn up the box office.

If such pressures concern Raimi, they do not penetrate his affable demeanor. Even in the eye of the hurricane called "Spider-Man," Raimi appears relaxed.

Raimi grew up a world away from Tinseltown’s tribulations in Detroit, where he was raised by parents of Russian and Hungarian Jewish descent in a Conservative Jewish home that included older brother Ivan, now a screenwriter and physician; younger brother Ted, an actor, and older sister, Andrea. Raimi’s paternal grandfather was a merchant who traveled to Holland and sold spice.

"He acted as a sponsor for many Jews that came from Poland before the war closed those borders," Raimi said. "My father is very proud of that and so am I."

Raimi nearly went into his father’s retail furniture and appliance business. However, he and his high school buddies (including actor Bruce Campbell and director Scott Spiegel) developed an interest in filmmaking.

"We used to pool money together to buy eight millimeter film at K-Mart," Raimi said. "Then we’d shoot James Bond starring Bruce Campbell."

Despite his avid interest, Raimi refused to major in film at Michigan State University.

"My father told me, ‘If you want to be a filmmaker, don’t study film. Study literature, so that when you finally make pictures, you have something to bring to it.’ That advice really paid off for me," Raimi said.

What attracted Raimi to Spider-Man as a teen in the 1970s was "a lot of the character and the soap opera. That’s the great strength of the comic book and that’s what I tried to put into this picture. You’d read ‘Batman’ and ‘Superman,’ and, although they were a lot of fun, only Spider-Man was aware of girls and was afraid to approach them and was the underdog.

"He was picked on and didn’t always have the money to do the things he wanted. He was an identifiable kid with problems and conflicts. As a teenager, he was often misunderstood. He wasn’t always hailed as the hero," the director said.

"Spider-Man" was Raimi’s favorite title, but he also loved "The Shadow." In the 1980s, Raimi lobbied to direct the movie version…to no avail.

"When Universal didn’t want me for the job, I said, ‘Well, damn it, I’m going to write my own ‘Shadow,’" recalled Raimi, who conceived his Gothic antihero Darkman in the spirit of the venerable pulp character.

Raimi’s loyalty to family and friends is a big part of his fabric and his success. He repeatedly uses the same crew members, has cast Ted in roles and, with Ivan, co-wrote "Darkman" and "Army of Darkness," the second sequel to 1982’s "Evil Dead," which put Raimi and Campbell on the Hollywood map. Raimi has also collaborated with old pals Joel and Ethan Coen ("Crime Wave," "The Hudsucker Proxy") and Frances McDormand ("Darkman"). With Spiegel and Holly Hunter, they all once shared a Silverlake house.

"He’s always surrounded himself with really menschy people," said Robin Felton, 45, Raimi’s first cousin, who met husband Jim Felton, a Jewish Federation Valley Alliance gifts chair, while working in production on "Darkman." She said, "He’s really a pleasure to be around. I’ve never heard him raise his voice [on the set]."

Felton remains close with Raimi, a family man who resides in Los Angeles with his wife, Gillian, and three children, belongs to a prominent Reform temple, and sends his boys — ages 7 and 5 — to Hebrew school.

But get Raimi together with his brothers and hilarity ensues.

"There’s nothing better than working with your family," Raimi said. "Because as nice as it is for everybody else to spend time with their family, it’s a whole other level of closeness when you can write together and share jokes and ideas, and they’re not afraid to say, that doesn’t work. There’s an honesty and you know it’s not going to break the relationship."

"They were always very funny," Felton said of the Raimi brothers, "but in an intelligent, wry way. Not like The Three Stooges."

Not that Raimi is above Stooges humor. Witness the "Evil Dead" trilogy, which boasts Stooges-style slapstick and characters named Shemp.

The tone of Raimi’s oeuvre matured considerably after 1995’s "Quick & the Dead," during which time Raimi met his wife.

"Things are one way when you’re a single man and you don’t have children and you look at life in one particular way," Raimi said of his cinematic evolution. "As you get older, we all take on different points of view and perspectives."

Yet as with family, Raimi, who has already signed on to direct a "Spider-Man" sequel in 2003, has not forgotten his roots.

"I’d love to get back to doing to the fantasy and fun pictures," Raimi said. "Maybe ‘Spider-Man’ is a step in that direction. It would be interesting to make ‘Evil Dead 4’ at this point of my life. It’d be a blast."

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It’s Always Gilda

In a surreal scene in the ABC biopic "Gilda Radner: It’s Always Something," Jami Gertz plays both Radner and her "Saturday Night Live" character, Baba Wawa.

In the sequence, cancer-stricken Radner is lying in the hospital after her hysterectomy, bald from chemotherapy, dreaming she’s being interviewed by the wig-coifed Wawa. "So Gilda, what have you been doing since ‘Saturday Night Live,’" Gertz-as-Baba purrs in an imitation so dead-on it’s eerie.

"Dying," replies Gertz-as-Gilda in a tormented whisper.

It’s a moment that illustrates why ABC chose the raven-haired actress — best known for films such as "Twister" and "Less Than Zero" — to play the comedienne who died of ovarian cancer at age 42 in 1989. "She nailed both the real comedic bits in the script and the dramatic part," ABC Executive Vice President Susan Lyne told The Hollywood Reporter.

Unlike the late comic actress, Gertz, 36, never suffered from bulimia or dysfunctional relationships — though she did identify in one important way with Radner. "Gilda was a nice Jewish girl from Detroit, and I’m a nice Jewish girl from Chicago," she says. The two women even attended the same predominantly Jewish summer camp in Michigan.

While Radner grew up in a culturally Jewish home, Gertz attended weekly Conservative services and United Synagogue Youth. She received her big break playing the bubbly Jewish preppie Muffy Tepperman on CBS’s "Square Pegs" in 1982. "My character even had a bat mitzvah," notes Gertz, who landed the role after winning a nationwide talent search at age 16.

To star in the sitcom, she had to move into a Los Angeles rental apartment with her mother, leaving her father and brothers behind in Chicago. "I remember going down to the pool and seeing a guy with nipple rings," she says of her subsequent culture shock. Gertz studiously avoided the Hollywood dating scene as she went on to star in hit teen flicks such as "The Lost Boys." "I dabbled with a few actors," she admits. "But I never felt really comfortable."

Instead, she married Jewish financier Tony Ressler in 1987 and cut back her acting career to raise their three sons. Gertz says she declined a "Friends" role to have her second child; she auditioned for "Gilda" in between car pools to karate and Wilshire Boulevard Temple’s religious school.

Not long after she landed the Radner biopic, the actress’ elation gave way to fear. "People started telling me how much they loved Gilda, and I was scared I wasn’t going to do her justice," she says.

During hours of research, Gertz studied SNL tapes to perfect Radner characters, such as nerdy Lisa Loopner and vulgar Roseanne Roseannadanna. "Roseanne was the toughest, because of the accent, the gum-chewing and the thumb-pointing," she says. Donning Radner’s frizzy wig and original costume helped, though the outfit had to be let out because the bulimic comic was so thin.

Even more helpful was interviewing Radner’s widower, Gene Wilder, who starred with her in films such as "The Woman in Red." "He told me the most amazing stories," recalls Gertz, who received an Emmy nomination for her guest spots on "Ally McBeal."

"Like, when journalists asked why he didn’t marry the pretty girl from ‘The Woman in Red’ [actress Kelly LeBrock], he’d say, ‘I did marry the pretty girl.’ He also told me that Gilda knew she was going to die while she was recording her autobiography, which made those scenes very difficult for me. When I asked, ‘Will you visit the set?’ he just kind of paused and said, ‘No.’ I think it would have been too painful for him."

Playing the dying Radner was also painful for Gertz, who often felt dizzy during the shoot. "I’d go back to my room at night and I really could not sleep," she says. "What was profoundly sad to me was how desperately Gilda wanted a baby, because I have three children of my own. I was very aware that I am living the happy ending she would have wanted."

"It’s Always Something" airs April 29 at 9 p.m. on ABC.

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7 Days In Arts

28/SUNDAY

“Eli Wiesel Goes Home” is the documentary of Wiesel’s personal march of the living. The film follows him back to his hometown of Sighet, Romania and to Auschwitz and Birkenau. It is narrated with passages from his writings, including “Night,” by actor William Hurt. A benefit screening coinciding with the video/DVD release of the film is being held today at 3 p.m. at West Los Angeles College. $15. Fine Arts Theatre Complex, 9000 Overland Ave., Culver City. For more information, call (310) 287-4320.

You love her singles columns in The Jewish Journal, now see her live! Teresa Strasser shares her witty observations in “The Teresa Monologues,” an event for young professionals 22-39, tonight only at the University of Judaism. 4:30-5:30 p.m. (registration and martini bar), 5:30-6:45 p.m. (show and Q & A), 7-8 p.m. (light buffet, music and socializing). $20. 15600 Mulholland Drive, Bel Air. For more information, call (310) 440-1246.

Never heard of an Israeli Flamenco dancer? Well we wandering Jews have covered the globe well. Help celebrate Israel’s Sephardi-Mizrahi tradition in music with the Los Angeles Jewish Symphony. For their 2002 Season Finale, they’ll perform compositions by Israel’s preeminent composers with Israeli dance sensation Or Nili Azuly and singer/songwriter Maya Haddi.. 7:30 p.m. Sinai Temple, 10400 Wilshire Blvd., Los Angeles. For ticket prices and more information, call (818) 753-6681.

29/MONDAY

One writes realistic fiction while the other prefers modern fairy tales. But both Aimee Bender and Bernhard Schlink tell a truth of sorts. Hear the two authors converse, courtesy of the Writer’s Bloc, tonight, at the Museum of Tolerance. $15. 7:30 p.m. The Peltz Theatre, 9786 W. Pico Blvd., Los Angeles. For reservations, call (310) 335-0917.

30/TUESDAY

Hey, hey, Booboo. Grab that pic-a-nic basket and head outdoors for some Lag ba-Omer fun. The Living Judaism Center is celebrating this bonfire holiday with a community picnic. You can enjoy the free entertainment, purchase food or go fly a kite! 4:30 p.m. Del Rey Lagoon Park, 6600 Esplanade, Playa del Rey. For more information, call (310) 578-6000.

1/WEDNESDAY

The shoe was on the other foot, and they didn’t have to act. But that’s what they chose to do. When Sarajevo was besieged by Bosnian Serbs, a small group of Sephardic Holocaust survivors and their children witnessed the scenes of ethnic cleansing as outsiders this time. Edward Serotta’s photography exhibition, “Survival in Sarajevo: Jews, Bosnia and the Lessons of the Past,” chronicles how this group turned a synagogue and community center into a non-sectarian humanitarian aid agency. The exhibition opens today at the Skirball Cultural Center, with a related panel discussion. 7 p.m. Free. Exhibit runs through July 14. 2701 N. Sepulveda Blvd., Los Angeles. For more information, call (310) 440-4559.

2/THURSDAY

If you’re the kind of gal who knows her Chippendale from her Hepplewhite, then you’ll want in on this: The Los Angeles Antiques Show Gala Opening Preview Party is tonight. Catch a sneak-peek of the goods while you rub elbows with Hollywood’s haut monde. And you’ll give your karma a boost with proceeds from the benefit going to Women’s Guild of Cedars-Sinai Medical Center. 6 p.m. (VIP cocktail reception), 7 p.m. (buffet dinner). $250 and up. Barker Hangar, Santa Monica Air Center, 3021 Airport Ave., Santa Monica.

*For the monetarily challenged, the show itself runs May 3-5 and entry is $15. Friday and Saturday, 11 a.m.-8 p.m.; Sunday, 11 a.m.-5 p.m. For more information, call (310) 423-3667.

3/FRIDAY

If a tree stands in a forest, and Renée Amitai isn’t there to paint it, is nature’s transcendence captured? Maybe not. Meet the painter, see her show titled “Arboricus,” and judge the transcendence for yourself at tonight’s opening reception. 7-11 p.m. Exhibit runs through May 25. Circle Elephant Art, 4634 Hollywood Blvd., Los Angeles. For more information, call (323) 662-3279.

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Beyond Revenge

"Revenge: A Story of Hope" by Laura Blumenfeld. (Simon & Schuster, $25).

While walking in the Old City of Jerusalem during a visit from New York in March 1986, Rabbi David Blumenfeld was shot by a Palestinian terrorist. He survived, the bullet just grazing his head. A dozen years later, his daughter Laura Blumenfeld, a reporter on leave from the Washington Post, set out to find the shooter, and exact her own version of "an eye for an eye, tooth for a tooth."

"Revenge: A Story of Hope" is Laura Blumenfeld’s account of her journey to understand the concept of revenge and ultimately act on it. She comes to realize that her goal is to get the shooter to realize that what he did was wrong; she’s not interested in forgiveness. Her book is layered with Middle East politics, details of her parents’ divorce, cross-cultural examples of revenge and the author’s self-revelation.

"You are what you avenge," Blumenfeld says in an interview near her home on the Upper West Side.

Recently, while doing a press interview by telephone, the conversation was interrupted by a call from President Clinton, who told her that he couldn’t put the book down, that it helped him to understand why the violence in the Middle East continues.

Blumenfeld is a very good writer and a bold reporter. Over the course of her honeymoon year in Jerusalem, she tracks down the whereabouts of the shooter and the mastermind of their terrorist cell; she also travels extensively, to Palermo, Sicily, "cradle of the vendetta" to interview the mayor and others, and to Northern Albania, she meets a leading member of the Blood Feud Committee, who is an expert on their written canon compiled in the 15th century that sets out the rules of revenge. Concealed by dark robes, she visits the Grand Ayatollah Abdol-Karim Musavi-Ardabili, former chief of Iran’s judiciary, at the school he runs in Qom, and poses a series of hypothetical questions about just compensations for crimes, startling him by asking, "What if a Palestinian shoots a Jew?" She learns that, according to Islamic law, if he’s a tourist in Jerusalem, he’s entitled to retaliation.

In Israel, Leah Rabin responds to her question of how much revenge is enough by saying, "None. Because there’s not enough revenge in the entire world." She learns from Bibi Netanyahu that he doesn’t seek personal revenge against the person who killed his brother, Yoni. For him, revenge is a national issue. She speaks to other military and government leaders in Israel and also to a Bedouin who avenges the wrongs of several of his wives, a street criminal who follows his own code, an Arab who killed his beloved sister out of a sense of family honor after she left the house on her own. And, looking at another level of revenge, she interviews a pair of feuding 11-year-old schoolgirls in a Jerusalem suburb "who had stored a wealth of grudges worthy of the Hatfields and McCoys."

But wherever she is doing research, the story comes back to her father. When he visits her in Jerusalem, they go the site of the crime and go over the details. After they contact government authorities and learn the name of the shooter, Omar Khatib, she travels to Ramallah in search of him and learns that he is in prison. In the course of the narrative, she refers to Omar mostly as "the shooter" rather than using his name. As she explains, "You have to not lose sight of what the person did to you."

She introduces herself to the Khatib family as simply Laura, an American journalist doing research for a book. The family greets her with warm hospitality, gathers relatives, and they all laugh about the fact that their son and brother was in jail for shooting "some Jew." Blumenfeld tries to laugh too. Although she speaks Hebrew fluently, she speaks only Arabic and English with them, so that they won’t realize that she is Jewish.

When it’s suggested to Blumenfeld that perhaps knowing that the shooter is in jail is just revenge, she disagrees, wanting something more. She comes to her own definition: "Revenge is when you can walk away. But somehow, you cannot. Something pulls you back."

After she tells her father what she’s learned from the Khatibs, he raises the question of whether she’s placing herself in danger. And, he wonders whether there might be a bit of g’neyvat da’at (stealing knowledge) in what she’s done; as he explains: "[It’s] when you try to benefit from the information people give you, and you’re not telling them the truth."

She continues to visit the Khatibs, and she begins a correspondence with Omar, using family members to smuggle her letters into the prison. Returning to Ramallah to deliver letters and pick up the replies, she keeps up her deception and, since no visit can be short, she gets to know the Khatibs. She’s not sure how to react when one of the women gives her a ring as a gift and another tells her that they’re going to name a new baby Laura if she’s a girl. While she’s planning revenge, they tell her, "You’re family."

Their correspondence unfolds in interesting ways; Blumenfeld wonders if she is naive or whether he is indeed showing hints of transformation.

To tell the rest of the story would take away some of the pleasure in reading Blumenfeld’s account, which has moments of real drama and suspense and some surprising turns. Omar does come to express his regret and even gratitude to Blumenfeld. When his family finds out her real identity, they continue to embrace her and later say they are pleased by her actions, that they wouldn’t have gotten to know and love her as they did had they known that she was a Jew, and that she was the daughter of Omar’s victim.

In a letter to David Blumenfeld, Omar writes — as Laura recites by heart — that his daughter was "the mirror that made me see your face as a human person deserved to be admired and respected."

Recently, in connection with the book’s publication, producers of ABC’s "Primetime" traveled to Israel with Blumenfeld and her father, now an executive with United Synagogue of Conservative Judaism. For the first time, David Blumenfeld met Omar’s family and although he wanted to meet Omar, was unable to as prisoners are denied visitors, other than family members. David Blumenfeld sent him a pen, with the message that the pen is mightier than the sword. An ABC producer did manage to arrange to speak with Omar who said that Laura made him realize that he had to look past the political to the person, and that there had to be another way than violence.

Not always portraying herself in the kindest light, the author writes about painful personal moments. "I had to be tough on myself," she says, noting, "This real and true, this is part of what happens when people get obsessed."

Has writing this book changed her? "I feel 30 years older," she laughs. "I got to know the darkest part of myself and other people and the world and wrestled with it. I came out wiser."

A graduate of Ramaz and Harvard, Blumenfeld spent almost a year after college living in an Arab village as part of the Interns for Peace program. She also has a degree in international relations from Columbia. Blumenfeld, still a staff writer for the Washington Post, and her husband, Baruch Weiss, have a young son and are soon expecting another child.

"When I set out, I thought this was ‘Mission Impossible.’ My goal was outsized and elusive." She explains that she got her revenge by restoring her father’s humanity, in Omar’s eyes. "These are dark times but I do thing that my story offers a glimmer of hope, that we can get past the animosity." And, she adds, "We can’t let go of that hope."

Laura Blumenfeld will be speaking about "Revenge" at 7 p.m. on Friday, April 26 at Vroman’s Bookstore, 695 E. Colorado, Pasadena. For more information, call (626) 449-5320.

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