\”If music be the food of love, play on,\” wrote Shakespeare four centuries ago. And all this time, the music has been playing and lovers have been listening.

Tradition tends to govern the choices Jewish couples make in music for their wedding ceremonies. A number of Bay Area experts agree that the old Wagner and Mendelssohn wedding marches are out and Israeli music is in, but opinions are mixed about \”Sunrise, Sunset\” from \”Fiddler on the Roof.\”